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parannoyedandroid/r/MensRights24/09/12 07:24 PM
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Why is everyone in this thread forgetting Whitman in 1966?
/r/MensRights24/03/18 05:57 AM
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Well. Our reproductive systems frequently require am obnoxious amount of maintenance :/ so women using healthcare more does not surprise me.
/r/MensRights29/03/17 06:24 PM
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Thank you for posting this, I had no idea this was being made/ coming out and it looks like it'll be very interesting. I do consider myself a feminist but I am also deeply troubled that there are absolutely men's issues that go unaddressed in the general social sphere. I'm tired of seeing feminists denouncing men's issues as privileged bitching and moaning. I have my problems with feminism; I have my problems with MRAs. I want to see a balanced analysis for once.
/r/MensRights07/03/17 12:37 AM
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I'd start here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HK7n_XA40V8
/r/MensRights07/03/17 12:31 AM
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Ah, private school.
/r/MensRights14/03/15 10:30 PM
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Because you cannot possibly enjoy a woman's company unless she's fucking you, of course.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 12:49 AM
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I get mine from pp... It's $24 where I live, I pay $12 based on my income.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 05:45 AM
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hey, I'm all for the mrm but reading this, as a woman... where is my free contraception? I definitely have to pay for those pills.
/r/MensRights28/04/14 05:09 AM
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hopefully since he couldn't maintain an erection, there was no precum? possible, but I'm trying to be optimistic.
/r/MensRights25/10/13 11:14 PM
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This is why I just stopped calling myself one, the negative connotations attached make me not want to use that word to represent myself. ...egalitarian. that's all that works.
/r/MensRights13/09/13 06:56 AM
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whola --> "voila" ;)
/r/MensRights07/09/13 04:51 PM
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You made the decision to risk your child bearing years in a specific capacity and you lost. To be fair, she didn't risk or waste them - they tried in-vitro and it just never came to anything. That said, I agree. "No one owes you a child." Much less your fucking ex. I don't understand how so many women think YES A BABY, I HAVE ACHIEVED MY FINAL FORM. We can be so much more than that.
/r/MensRights07/09/13 04:44 PM
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This is the first I've ever heard of a person being asked to spend weekends only in prison This is actually fairly common. If the jail time to be served is minimal (only a week to a few months, say) often judges will agree to let you do it on weekends so you can keep your job (if your lawyer/ public defender makes that request.) Source: I know someone who had a 2 month sentence and their public defender asked if they could serve weekends in order to keep their job. Just a little nugget of knowle…
/r/MensRights20/08/13 05:46 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/MensRights11/08/13 12:47 AM
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Honestly reading his post I thought it sounded like it was written by a woman.
/r/MensRights11/08/13 12:34 AM
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That has nothing to do with the alleged assault, just something worth remembering about a fellow human being in the future. Truth. I hate that I'm focusing more on what the OP is saying about the girl than I am focusing on what happened to him - it's just that if he wants to resolve this, he shouldn't do it in the form of petty insults.
/r/MensRights11/08/13 12:11 AM
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Except that your logic isn't logically true and is also wrong based on fact. In neither scenario would the vagina become looser because that's not how vaginas work.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 11:49 PM
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A lot of people have this idea that all vaginas are naturally small and tight, which just isn't the case. Some women have naturally smaller, shallower vaginas and some have larger, deeper vaginas. The amount of sex you have doesn't change that, but age and childbirth can. A woman with a small vagina can have sex 1000 times and still be tighter than a virgin with a wide-set vagina. Just as penises come in all shapes and sizes, vaginas do too. Maybe her vagina is actually normal and OP just has a …
/r/MensRights10/08/13 11:41 PM
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Wow, really showing your extensive knowledge of the vagina here. Education.
/r/MensRights10/08/13 11:31 PM
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The number of people you've had sex with does not determine how loose/ tight a vagina is. Just throwing that out there. She probably just has a naturally wide-set vagina or something. A girl has sex 1000 times with her boyfriend. Another girl has sex 20 times with 20 different people. Logically, who should be looser, but realistically, who gets called a loose slut? It doesn't make sense. EDIT: also, in the end, neither of those women would be looser than the other based on the amount of sex or s…
/r/MensRights10/08/13 10:31 PM
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That's possibly the most fair and reasonable response you could've gotten - good on you for speaking up.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 08:57 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I try to call out sexism against men on reddit all the time or present the men's side of social issues, stating that I'm neither an mra or a feminist... And I get downvoted into the negatives within minutes. I have -13 comment karma for telling a woman in makeup addiction that her "men are pigs" title was sexist and rude. The other woman who agreed with me was also heavily downvoted.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 04:01 PM
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Seriously, what the fuck does that even mean.
/r/MensRights24/05/13 06:53 PM
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I was under the impression that you flat out can't drive an uninsured car in the US and then rates are determined by state?
/r/MensRights23/05/13 11:46 PM
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To be fair, the prosecuting parents brought up the charges because they are homophobic. If they hadn't brought up the charges, none of this would've ever happened. She wasn't arrested for being a sex offender (even though by state law she is) she was arrested because these parents think she made their daughter catch the gay. If their daughter had been dating an 18 year old guy, what would their reaction have been? To keep an eye on them and say "Aww our baby is in love." Sex offender case regard…
/r/MensRights23/05/13 11:42 PM
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Most of the men I've been with (with the exception of one) have been abusive, manipulative, and taken advantage of me, my money, my resources, and my emotions. But you know? I'm not jaded. I don't hate men. And I think the right one for me will come along some day. Please don't give up hope. I'm not looking, I'm not expecting someone awesome to fall in my lap. But I haven't given up all together. If it happens for me that's awesome, if it doesn't, I die alone. Is that really the worst thing? Thi…
/r/MensRights23/05/13 11:26 PM
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Just for reference, ancient Japanese culture was also very okay with homosexual relations - it wasn't just the Greeks!
/r/MensRights23/05/13 11:07 PM
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Dude. I agree with you on one point - people get so caught up in their small groups they believe that a majority of people could, would, or are capable of feeling the same as them. This is what kills me about feminists; because of religion (and other things of course, it's just a prime example) 50%+ of other women DON'T GIVE A SHIT about your rights. The VA ultrasound bill, that wanted to require women to have a transvaginal exam prior to receiving an abortion? That was backed and supported by w…
/r/MensRights23/05/13 10:46 PM
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Oh, I'm not saying that at all. I was commenting more on the privileges of "football culture" than I was commenting on the privileges between men and women; sorry for any confusion.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 08:22 PM
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I still think people should be able to have a mature conversation about it and I definitely think "testing" your SO is the worst way of trying to figure it out. I agree, this is really what it comes down to. I just never underestimate people being indecisive and fickle-minded.
/r/MensRights23/05/13 05:47 PM
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She was 14... I honestly don't think I would've known what dry humping was when I was 14 (but yes I was a somewhat sheltered suburban kid. Not retarded. Just sheltered.)
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:20 PM
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That's sometimes the kind of thing where someone says they feel a certain way but then when it happens to them, they change their mind because they're actually in the situation. Like you discuss pregnancy with your girlfriend and she says "yeah, I'd definitely get an abortion" but then pregnancy does happen and she says "I don't feel right terminating." It happens. Humans don't make decisions in absolutes and stick to them. Doing what Savage said would "help" her see if he truly stuck to his con…
/r/MensRights23/05/13 03:06 PM
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Yes I also agree with this. The consent laws are ridiculous in FL (I mean, the whole US really, but FL's are some of the more ridiculous laws I've seen)
/r/MensRights23/05/13 07:34 AM
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This is my feeling too. I dated an 18 year old when I was 15, the only difference is my parents didn't try to press charges on him because they aren't fucking crazy unlike the 14 y/o's parents in this situation. We went to the same high school and we were in marching band together for christ sake.
/r/MensRights22/05/13 04:31 PM
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I don't think being a guy or a girl is what matters here. When I was 15 I dated a 17 year old, and when he turned 18 my parents didn't press charges on him for dating me because they aren't fucking psycho. This has nothing to do with society and everything to do with those insane parents. If it were the same situation but with a guy, whose mother is pushing as hard and is just as supportive as this girl's? Yes, I think there would be an outpouring of support to see him be freed. If the guy were …
/r/MensRights22/05/13 04:27 PM
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I hope something happened but... the answer to these hopeful questions is usually no, nothing happened to her.
/r/MensRights08/05/13 06:56 PM
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Nothing. She was in middle school. And a girl.
/r/MensRights08/05/13 06:11 PM
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Okay, totally get where you're coming from now. Thank you for the explanation! You are correct.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 03:33 PM
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This comment is confusing to me... are you saying women do or don't have to compete for partners?
/r/MensRights05/05/13 03:16 PM
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I think every day should be humanity day.
/r/MensRights08/03/13 10:28 PM
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it's not so much what that person chose or chose not to do, it's that that company chose to advertise via objectification. I mean, marketing is a finicky game as it is and rarely is there ever a truly good advert that won't offend someone but now I'm getting off topic. I'm just saying the situation you're describing is a marketing issue, not an objectification issue/ work choice.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 02:12 PM
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Edited because I answered my own question.
/r/MensRights21/02/13 10:56 AM
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this is why I don't celebrate Valentine's, and I've always discouraged men I date from going out of their way to treat me that day. I've had boyfriends buy me flowers just because, which is a much sweeter gesture than buying them because you feel like you have to, and in the same vein if we had a night off I'd surprise him by picking up take out, grabbing a bottle of wine, and saying "let's play video games or board games tonight" because it's not something we'd do often together, but was always…
/r/MensRights14/02/13 02:50 PM
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I wonder if she's read the lyrics to that song by Carrie whatsherface condoning violence perpetrated by women after a breakup.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 02:07 AM
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I only date men who allow me to pay for myself and don't press the issue of footing my bill (it makes me uncomfortable; I'm not helpless, and I hate when people spend unnecessary money on me.)
/r/MensRights12/02/13 02:02 AM
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I tried to split the bill; when the waitress came to pick it up, he took my money out, and handed it to me, handing her the bill folder with his card inside, effectively rendering me not able to pay my half of the bill. When he took me home, I said goodnight and he said "I paid for dinner, don't you owe me something?" He expected sexual favors in return for a meal that he force-bought for me, against my will. Every other man I've ever dated was totally cool with splitting the bill, and once I da…
/r/MensRights12/02/13 02:00 AM
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thanks for the update; keep them coming, and good luck.
/r/MensRights10/02/13 05:56 PM
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come on mang. we know it was sarcasm, but even if sarcastic we don't need to be as hateful as them...
/r/MensRights10/02/13 05:51 PM
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I agree.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 07:01 PM
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Too little is spent on men, I agree. I'm fairly certain a GP checks for prostate issues, but you may be correct about having to see a urologist for reproductive matters. I decided to look up some stuff after going through this thread and I will disclaimer that I did not read any studies or anything, but the general information I got was; men are less likely to go to the doctor in the first place men are less likely to keep up with treatment if they are diagnosed with illness men are higher at-ri…
/r/MensRights08/02/13 03:38 PM
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By denying that everything is violent, you're supporting rape culture! /s
/r/MensRights08/02/13 01:31 PM
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Fair enough, I am likely biased because I've never seen free HPV vaccines offered anywhere... I didn't even know that was a thing! I acknowledge your point; one sided healthcare is a huge issue, regardless of what domain it's in.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 01:29 PM
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HPV vaccines aren't free, nor do they 100% prevent cervical cancer... and I say this as a woman who never got the vaccine because I was young when it came out and I couldn't afford it. I'm now past the age where it would be effective.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 12:59 PM
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One thing to take into account; women have a more complicated reproductive system/ more complicated hormone cycles than men do which cause more health issues. Women have an entire doctor dedicated to their reproductive health, whereas men can just go in and get their shit sorted during a checkup. A man's GP can cover their entire general wellness spectrum, a women's GP won't do that so they have to see two doctors every year, meaning that over the course of a lifetime they will generally have to…
/r/MensRights08/02/13 12:43 PM
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I read the hashtag feed. Honestly, when they started it up yesterday there was some asshole posting ridiculous shit like "Ineedmasculanismbecause I'm gay lol" but most of the tweets so far have been valid. A few bad apples every here and there won't completely tarnish the larger point - which is that most of them have a valid point. If you follow most hashtag feeds on Twitter they're full of people who are borderline illiterate. Those are the kind of movements I don't take seriously. But this on…
/r/MensRights08/02/13 12:17 PM
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Cynical much?
/r/MensRights08/02/13 04:55 AM
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so a paternity test makes no difference?
/r/MensRights04/02/13 08:38 AM
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It's just plain old racism and sexism. I remember this one time I got downvoted to oblivion for calling out someone on being sexist (she was generalizing something about men.) I'm a woman but more importantly, I'm a human being... and I'm pretty sure it's not possible to generalize non-physical traits of an entire half of our species and have that generalization hold true.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 08:21 AM
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Fire does not burn you because the earth mother condemns your evil patriarchal thoughts, it burns you because that's what fire does. this was a very striking comment of seriousness, and then the second time I read it I laughed out loud because of its simultaneous simplicity... it was just very well written and a really great comment. thanks for it.
/r/MensRights04/02/13 06:32 AM
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I'm sorry if I'm just missing something, but what does this have to do with this thread?
/r/MensRights30/01/13 06:54 AM
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I get responses that are like "thanks bro, that's some bro-ass advice" "...I'm a woman, but you're welcome."
/r/MensRights15/01/13 06:17 AM
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you are ignorant. this tires me.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 06:07 PM
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no. it's still birth control pills. used as treatment for other issues, with the added benefit of controlling pregnancy.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 05:59 PM
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Birth control for women is used to treat acne, pain, and hormonal dysfunction. Things like pcos.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 02:37 PM
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And this is why I said I also support the MR movement because feminism doesn't cover most men's issues. Did you even read the original post?
/r/MensRights25/12/12 11:56 AM
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have a nice life being brainwashed.
/r/MensRights25/12/12 11:47 AM
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this is why you're wrong.
/r/MensRights25/12/12 11:31 AM
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ahh, this make sense. thanks.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 08:35 PM
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fucked up people who murder are fucked up people. I don't see what sex/ gender has to do with it.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 08:02 PM
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I've been told more than a handful of times "you're a woman so you're just as bad as the rest" as well as "well you don't have a penis, so you may as well stop trying to make your point." "you're a woman so you will never understand" as if I don't experience empathy. as if I'm just some money grubbing succubus. as if no man has ever broken my heart yet I'm STILL not giving up and still searching for someone to actually, truly love, not just looking for someone to marry and then suck away their p…
/r/MensRights24/12/12 07:50 PM
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I identify as egalitarian as a woman, because saying I'm a feminist is just embarrassing as it's always going to be misinterpreted, and saying I'm an MRA makes me look like a hateful sonofabitch. So I admit to neither, saying that I agree with different points for both. I think that feminism is trying to help make a lot of things different for men, but I also think there are points of the MR movement that aren't covered by feminism and need support too.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 07:47 PM
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I don't bother posting. I like the articles, but the discussion makes me want to cry. And generally if I weigh in on the discussion and someone figures out I am a woman, they will do their best to see to it that I DO cry (yes, how womanly of me to be upset, har har) We aren't all monsters... and we don't all hate men. I quite like men.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 07:27 PM
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Same.
/r/MensRights17/12/12 12:42 AM
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s'okay. being around him as a teen was what gave me the crazy determination to do well in school so I could go to college and get away.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 10:52 PM
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I sorry bro.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 10:50 PM
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My dad chose alcoholism over being a father so... ya know... :/
/r/MensRights16/12/12 08:26 PM
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I assumed she was referring to the fact that men have to fight off rape charges so hard... but they have to fight them off, when they're falsely accused... so it's like she's saying "women would never lie, all men who are accused of rape must have done it" and she also believes that MRAs don't believe in convicting them because they believe all women lie and all of the men are innocent. That's what I got out of it.
/r/MensRights14/12/12 01:27 AM
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sometimes, no. let's say a woman gets pregnant but the man who she slept with isn't ready for a child, but she wants to go ahead with the pregnancy. man stays with her because he feels it's "the right thing to do" or some such (she threatens him into staying, who knows). baby is born. mother and father's names go on birth certificate. mother dies shortly after from birth complications; BAM. dad is now a single parent, and he never wanted this. edit, I just thought of something more likely; I kno…
/r/MensRights03/12/12 03:45 AM
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oh no, I get it. I hate that "I'm a parent, you don't know what hard work is" shit too. No, I don't have kids, but yes, I have been a full-time student, full-time worker. Just as exhausting as having a kid, however at least the only person you have to worry about keeping alive is yourself at that point. I could see how being responsible for an infant's life is pretty stressful.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 01:21 PM
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I'd say it's probably just as/ more exhausting and frustrating than work. Just because you're not getting paid doesn't mean it's not a job. Having a young kid is like... waking up in the morning, going to work, then going home and working more to cook/ clean/ amuse and care for your child. Is an unpaid internship not still a job/ work? Most would say it is. I'm not being disagreeable, I swear. I just feel like people who haven't had kids (myself included) couldn't possibly understand how hard it…
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:57 PM
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Fuck off, it isn't a fucking job because you aren't getting paid for it but that's the problem; raising a kid is a huge responsibility, a massive time suck (like time that could be used working), and on top of that you have to provide for yourself and the child. what I think that particular image was getting at is that people will shit all over single parents who need help like charity and welfare calling them lazy, or stupid for having a kid they can't afford. when really they have trouble affo…
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:20 PM
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I disagreed with Just like she chose to have sex and get pregnant but then agreed when it was finished off with and even carry it to term means its her choice, her responsibility If she didn't want to be a mother at 16, abortion and adoption are options. sadly they aren't in some countries, but those are the countries that need better equality rights. If she lives in a first world country, she has no right to complain. I realize that friends and family can be a huge influence, but at the end of …
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:15 PM
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Low cut tops are EXPRESSLY designed to show off a woman's breasts not necessarily. having fun bags attached to your chest, makes that whole area get pretty hot when exercising/ when it's warm out. low cut tops help stop boob sweat and generally keep women cooler. low cut tops aren't just made to show off boobs, especially when you take into account athletic apparel/ tank tops. they could be higher cut, sure, but honestly the more skin that's exposed, the more cool you'll be.
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:09 PM
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that's not the point. the point is that being a single parent is yes, an occupation, a full-time one at that, but then on top of that the parent ALSO has to find a way to bring in income. they're not talking about stay-at-home parents, they're talking about single parenthood. I think what the message in the picture is trying to say that it's shitty that single parents are looked down on for needed resources like welfare, that it's fucked up that they have two full time jobs (parent, and career) …
/r/MensRights02/12/12 12:04 PM
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I couldn't agree more. Just as money =/= inviting people to steal it, wearing provocative clothing =/= it's okay to rape me. The times when you've been mugged/ ripped off, you weren't looking for it, it just happened because if someone really wants it to happen, it'll happen. I think rape is pretty much the same way.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 03:49 AM
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I agree. It depends on the area. I wasn't thinking, obviously. I was literally thinking "If you're in any kind of highly populated, possibly sketchy area, don't take out your wad of cash." Idk though, I live in a small college town and I'm skeptical to take out my cash in buildings on campus even though the students here are all really friendly :/. Maybe I'm just paranoid.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 02:38 AM
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Wait, but he couldn't get an erection and his penis never went in her vagina. She just rubbed herself on him. If a man rubs his penis on a woman's vagina but there is no penetration, I think that's sexual assault. Then, she only went down on him because he asked her too. Now ignoring the fact that he asked her to, is involuntary oral sex considered rape? (again, serious question here.) It's just, reading this again, it wouldn't even seem like the man is accusing her of rape because he regrets it…
/r/MensRights05/11/12 02:27 AM
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thejosiekiller's comment is right on the money about reversing the sexes is it though? there was no sex. so is it attempted rape? sexual assault? do people consider attempted rape of women actual rape? (honestly curious, because even if the roles were reversed I don't see rape in this.)
/r/MensRights05/11/12 01:41 AM
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I think young women/ girls get cat called at because it's assumed they're too young and timid to really know how to react whereas it's more likely for an older woman to react boldly.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 11:16 PM
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I agree with you but the thing is its never wise to pull out a bunch of money; meanwhile we can't really say its unwise for a woman to wear revealing clothing, especially if its hot outside, what's comfortable for them, etc. I think acting provocatively is more risky than wearing less clothing than usual.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 11:14 PM
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Ah thank you for reason. They could've pulled off this analogy with the "I was showing off my money" bit. Because 'just because I pulled out a lot of money doesn't mean I should be mugged" is just as true as "I was wearing a tank top and skirt because it's hot outside, it's not an invitation to rape me"
/r/MensRights04/11/12 11:11 PM
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Cool.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 10:12 AM
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You're getting away from the point. This woman made an elderly handicapped man sit in the middle of an aisle because her massive stroller was taking up the space on the bus that is legally, by law, designated to him. Not only is it an unfair convenience, it was ILLEGAL. At least in the US, you have to allow the handicapped to use handicapped designated areas on buses. They are not "family designated" areas. If she can't play by the rules, she either shouldn't be using public transportation or sh…
/r/MensRights03/11/12 09:53 AM
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I grew up poor in the US and my parents always had a friend to babysit for them. I don't think its unreasonable not to ask people not to inconvenience the rest of us with their offspring. There's always a way.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 09:30 AM
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I think it depends on the age of the kids. If they're old enough to walk, make them walk. If they aren't old enough to be out for long/ not get tired, find an alternative. Don't drag them along on hours worth of running errands. If you don't have the resources like a car to be toting your kids around town, or the resource of a sitter to watch them while you go out on an adventure not suited for your kids to go along on, and are thereby inconveniencing society, try not having any.
/r/MensRights03/11/12 09:06 AM
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How about not taking your giant ass stroller on a fucking bus? Jesus
/r/MensRights03/11/12 05:28 AM
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I like reading here but I would never comment. I had someone tell me once "all women are selfish whores who only want money" and I was just like oh really... all of them... every single one... wow, okay. The number of men here I've seen generalize women as terrible people, like every single woman ever, concerns me as well.
/r/MensRights25/10/12 11:18 PM
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Hell, I'm a psych major and I agree with OP. Granted my degree is a B.S. not a B.A. but still, most people hear my major and assume I'm a feminist. Nope.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 07:49 AM
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NEVER the musician! I know its the club, which means they probably do this for all of their shows - its stupid.
/r/MensRights25/09/12 10:42 AM
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Aw thank you.
/r/MensRights07/09/12 01:54 AM
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Here to second (most of) your post. I read men's rights over 2X any day :/ I too once considered myself a feminist, and I guess in many ways I am... to the strictest dictionary definition. But it has so many terrible negative connotations, I really can't bring myself to call myself one any longer. Because I don't believe in equality + women's traditional privileges that men do not also receive. Just equality; and that's it.
/r/MensRights05/09/12 11:59 PM
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