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It's one of the nicest ways a girl can reject you.
/r/seduction14/02/20 07:01 PM
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At least you got to the point with that opener
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:31 PM
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You can tell he's a beginner at cold approach, but at least he gets to the point. You can tell he doesn't have the skills to turn a conversation about the weather to bed breaking sex. So what's your advice to him?
/r/seduction08/02/20 05:30 PM
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Instead of personal attacks, perhaps a psychiatrist can ease some of that mental pain.
/r/seduction08/02/20 04:09 PM
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I know which one you are talking about, but most of tylers videos are down. I have no idea what happened to RSD or if they have disbanded... but yeah that video is legendary
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:55 PM
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Check out the Genuine Man series of articles by Hector Castillo on girlschase. But basically you need to go through a massive douchebag asshole phase to cultivate that edge and you tone it down later on but that edge will still be there and girls and guys alike will feel it. You will automatically go on the offensive if someone tries to step on your boundaries, etc.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:54 PM
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How good are your cold approaches? If you do the same shit and don't learn then it doesn't matter how many you do.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:49 PM
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Don't do that man.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:45 PM
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You're on the seduction subreddit bro. Don't act like shit like this doesn't work even though it didn't in this case.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:45 PM
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No, or no thank you is much more respectful than I don't know you. If someone said I don't know you, it's not really that far from saying fuck off.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:40 PM
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That's not even rude. I've seen girls threaten to call the police if a guy wouldn't leave them alone even though the guy basically just said hi
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:15 PM
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I don't think these were rude IMO. I've seen girls threaten to call the police screaming when a guy tried to pick her up on the bus with my own eyes. The guy had the balls to ask again and yeah...
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:12 PM
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It's pretty rude of her to say that, but its more of a spur of the moment kind of thing if the girl isn't used to being approached
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:04 PM
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I don't know about valentines day, but I think its a thing for couples? So in that context, she would be right.
/r/seduction08/02/20 03:03 PM
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Definitely going to try calling.
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:57 PM
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Nice, racking up that compliance. As much as I like a structured date, don't let it drag on, the fact that she is willingly going to your house she has already considered the fact of sleeping with you. I'd kiss her 5 mins of her walking in the front door just to set the mood and if it turns into a hot makeout... Well what are you waiting for? The pasta can wait ;) have a good time!
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:47 PM
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The conversations you seem to be getting into are of the platonic kind. A quick fix would be to start off with something that is more to the point, like hey you look good today or whatever, and then would you like to get a coffee sometime, etc. That way she knows why you are asking her for her number. If you have time, you could ask her logistical questions and setup or suggest a date on the spot or most desirably you could go on a date right then and there.
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:29 PM
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You better have a good lawyer
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:17 PM
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Sometimes she can just be very shy. Or it can be a shit test if shes very high value. But I don't think eye contact or flirting is an honest sign of attraction. There are some girls that do that with everyone. The best indicator for me is when girls make it as easy as possible for you. So either they bring you to their place or they have no objection going to your place right away if you give them a reason to.
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:16 PM
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I used to play it stone cold, but it just ends up as jealousy games and lost many girls because of it. It's nice that you made her chase, but there is a fine line between a girl chasing you and a girl resenting you for making her feel rejected. When you fall into the latter that girl is done with you. Not going to say too much, but she's already receptive to you, so making moves won't make you seem needy. If you don't want to be "that guy" you would have already taken her to bed on the first nig…
/r/seduction08/02/20 02:05 PM
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The ideal scenario would be insta date, next would be scan logistics and setup or ask for a coffee, etc. Then it would make sense to get her number. But if shes in a hurry, you can exchange a few words and get her insta or phone since its less personal, but honestly it wouldn't hurt to just make your point clear and ask her for a coffee sometime, etc and get her number.
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:48 PM
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Hangout and more rounds, say you would mind if she stayed etc. But if shes going, you don't necessarily have to offer anything, but if she asks you and the situation kind of demands it then you can give her a drive or a walk etc. I was stone cold when I gamed and I had to add in elements of gratitude to not lose girls, but sometimes if you are too nice to have to do the opposite.
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:43 PM
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I'm pretty sure if you don't talk about it she won't mention it. Girls generally aren't the ones bringing up topics like that.
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:17 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:16 PM
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Facebook is fine, I only use facebook for messages so I keep it minimal. But I'm surprised you didn't try to close the deal when you got back to the dorm or whatever.
/r/seduction08/02/20 01:13 PM
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Yeah that comparison with the girls before and after is true lol. In your other post you said you had 3 girls up to the 200 mark so you got another 3 between 200 and 300? Damn shits getting tight. Well no amount of talking will actually make me cold approach i think i just gotta own up and do it. Its good to hear negative responses are rare.
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:52 AM
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looks doable but damn its incredible you lasted 3 months. for me its the going out part thats difficult. its nice to hear it becomes really easy, props my man
/r/seduction18/02/19 03:39 AM
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share it bruh
/r/seduction17/02/19 11:28 PM
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I like how when she said "like a sexy and hot troublemaker" referring to herself you misinterpreted it as a compliment to you. I would've left the next text as "I have a feeling we won't get along though, I'm more of a dog person." Using her dogs as a close was nice. "How would you feel about a quick adventure with a cute boy around ____ though, it being his first time and all." I'd cut out the entire cat lady axe murderer text and leave it with, "I'm leaving tmr lol" The skydiving exaggeration …
/r/seduction17/02/19 08:35 PM
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Damn dude I could feel the adrenaline reading that post. I thought I was the only one who gets nervous but still gets results. I have moments of extreme confidence and moments of hella anxiety. As I have to deal with social anxiety on top of approach anxiety. What's your approach # and lay # so far since you started in August 2018?
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:46 PM
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We are both 5'5 and meet girls at a metro station that is 5 mins away from our house. Then I show them my drawings while they're in my bedroom and make out. We're basically the same lol, other than the fact my results are all from social circle. I need balls like you my man.
/r/seduction17/02/19 06:16 PM
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This is really good motivation for day game, it's been something I've been very interested in but lacked the balls.
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:52 PM
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Not possible to get laid with zero game. Trust me. But Tinder is basically for good looking folks with low level/decent game. I'm not good looking so my results are 100x better IRL
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:33 PM
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PWF?
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:32 PM
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It's just a FR lol. If you can't learn anything from it nor provide feedback then don't bother commenting. You're the one who sounds like he has something to prove. Normies? As in the average guy? The average guy would not be able to pull this off, as ordinary as this FR may seem to someone at an intermediate level, OP is no average guy for sure. OP is far, far above the average guy in terms of game.
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:31 PM
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whats so good about it
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:23 PM
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exactly my thoughts
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:21 PM
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The impressive thing is that you did it fairly smoothly despite the adrenaline or stress you may have been feeling. This post feels pretty meh when you don't feel the adrenaline. But it's pretty smooth all things considered, other than the texting. Which appeared try hard, despite the fact that you're push pulling and disqualifying. It all translates to a lot of effort. But the way you led the convo was solid, however. But all in all, other than beginner adrenaline you were feeling, it wasn't a …
/r/seduction17/02/19 05:17 PM
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My 2018 results in social circle game ~20 ask outs, 7 lays, 6 dates, 6 hinted/wanted a relationship, 5 fwb, 3 gf material, 1 gf. I only went for girls that gave some sort of signal.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:38 PM
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haha
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:18 PM
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This is a textbook case of why girls keep guys in the friend zone and why guys stay in the friend zone. 99% in favor of the girl, 1% in favor of the guy.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:17 PM
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auto rejection
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:26 AM
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oh lord
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:19 AM
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thats some skill right there
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:17 AM
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real talk
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:14 AM
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I personally I take it to the limit. I don't rape girls, but I sleep with all conservative girls I make out with on the first date. My dates are planned for sex to happen and they usually happen 1 to 2 hours into the first date. Then I spend the rest of the date with her in bed cuddling bonding and getting to know each other. Ass backwards compared to what normal people do
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:59 AM
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ive never seen a conservative girl make out with someone shes not sexually interested in.
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:28 AM
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read my second line pls
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:12 AM
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OOooo give her a little tour of the house... thats something i havent thought of. makes her know her surroundings and feel comfy and secure. but i cant use it cause my grandparents are roaming around the house and whenever they see a girl i bring back they go like "naaa shes too slutty" or "AYYYYYEEE THIS ONES GOOD MARRY HER" screaming in chinese lol. id avoid all that drama and go straight to my room with a girl ​ solid lay btw ​ ​
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:41 AM
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if you make out with her on the first date it means u couldve slept with her on the first date unless if shes a party girl then making out doesnt meant anything
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:26 AM
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I tell them to meet me at a subway station. My house is 5 mins walk away from one so I just walk around the block with them and make some moves to gauge their interest. If I can manage at least a make out or I can tell if shes ready to make out (some girls don't like pda especially high caliber ones) I walk her to my house and bring her in. Sometimes my grandparents are around and don't see us so I sometimes use that as an excuse to go upstairs. Usually though we end up talking about my art and …
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:17 AM
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For all those who think gaming women is exhausting. It becomes who are you after a while
/r/seduction07/09/18 10:04 PM
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Nailed it. You can sacrifice your life to defend your country and still lose the war and your country. But you did your duty and that's what matters.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 06:10 PM
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Simple cure... talk to girls that aren't intimidating to get the ball rolling. Or even talk to the guys there, to open up your mood. Going in to any place and immediately putting yourself in the most uncomfortable position and over thinking it is extremely self damaging. Your punishing yourself for not being able to run before you can walk. If you are not good with woman, it's time to get off your high horse and work on the basics with less intimidating women. Unattractive women don't motivate y…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 07:33 AM
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