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| 1 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I think your point stands with regard to Ben Shapiro but bringing up Tate was an unforced error on your part. Bro really is a human trafficker To engage with your argument tho I honestly agree, I think if you agree with the content then it isn’t joking. Some of those accounts are satirical, but some of the ones linked clearly aren’t. I’m with the guys here, I think they’re within rights to view this as a yellow or red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/25 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Women often view toxicity through a male-centric lens, making them less likely to recognize their own toxic behavior.If you have an argument, make it? Commenter wasn’t saying “this never happens” which would be gaslighting. Commenter is saying “I don’t see these as toxic” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Do you live in the society from The Invention of Lying where everyone is just straightforwardly honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father.Tbh I had to reread this a few times because baby mama isn’t slang where I’m from. So it reads like you’re saying “mothers and fathers” not “random women and the guys who get them pregnant” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Considering men who struggle with dating and lash out at women instead of doing something constructive to help themselves, what emotion is behind that choice? What's the emotional "why" behind the behavior?Me when my worldview requires me to believe that women have a moral obligation to be psychic and to only fuck short nerds I exclusively fuck short nerds but this is like. Insane to me. What are you even suggesting she should have done. Is it some moral crime to get married and then get divorced later? If her first husband wasn’t a Chad (to your estimation) I imagine you’d just be complaining that she divorced a nice guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Do you think being sort of selfish and oblivious in your 20s is specific only to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:56 PM |
| 4 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Ok you’re so real for this, I’m autistic and I’m reading this thread like wtf are any of you talking about I don’t understand why people act like a random hot neurotypical woman is a representative for literally all women forever. Not all of us are Stacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:56 PM |
| 3 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.As opposed to men who are always happy to fuck ugly women they don’t want. It doesn’t make them resentful assholes at all Like how can you defend this, why does your worldview assume that it’s only women who suffer from narcissism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:53 PM |
| 0 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.It’s been a day and it’s still up so I guess you can stop being a martyr | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.You get shit for saying it bc it’s rude and self centered to say you know more about what people want than they do lol Also sexual attraction doesn’t correlate w misandry. I’ve met gay men that were misandrists. Implying they’re fucking women bc they hate men reeks of insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:51 PM |
| 5 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Fat chicks can be funny even if they’re still fat but I get it. You saw something about short guys so you were like I’m gonna say the reverse about fat women. It wasn’t really about logic, just an emotional knee jerk response on your part. But you were wrong tho, fat women are funny as fuck and cool as hell. So are short men! Maybe it has something to do with persisting even when society would rather you not exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:49 PM |
| 16 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.Honestly I’m pretty anti red pill but you’re completely correct. That is weird advice. I’m also bi and if I date women it’s terrible if I’m the one who’s more interested. I mostly only ever get laid with men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:46 PM |
| 1 | As a bi woman, dating women is way harder than dating men.It’s rly not like that bc too much sexual attention can get you assaulted and killed just from walking down the street, whereas too much money only seems to get you killed if you own an insurance company | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men about their true sexual preferencesI hope it’s obvious that people with rape fantasies do not actually want to be raped in real life Of course there is a tie between desire and the erotica you consume, but let’s not kid ourselves. What about the people who jerk off to vore? Do you seriously think they want to be like, eaten and killed in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/25 05:18 AM |
| 6 | Telling women not to change for men is actually toxic adviceI was told my whole life “if you lost weight you’d be so pretty” and it gave me an eating disorder. Before you ask I’m underweight now and struggle to eat food besides protein shakes, so not to worry, I’m not a fat bitch you can just write off You’re mistaken, flat out. Women are absolutely told “you need to make this change so men will want you.” I wonder - are you from California? Portland maybe? Come to Texas, and I’ll show you the barn where my father told me “if you just stop talking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Self improvement leads to resentment“Why did I spend 4 years improving myself and going to the gym for nothing” Because the 4 years would have passed anyway? Would that time really have been better spent .. what, gaming? Gooning? Listen I’ve been to college and had autism, i can appreciate the classics, but I don’t get the mindset of “man I improved myself for NOTHING”. You still improved yourself? You’re healthier and you have a skill you didn’t have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/25 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Men have as much reason to be off-put by female sexuality as women have to be off-put by male sexualityAh, these are all fair points. I was thinking of sex workers who sell their own content through non OF means, but OF was more pertinent to the post so I totally understand why it came off like that. I can’t really defend OF that much anymore. And yes, it’s true that even someone selling porn via her website mag have a husband or boss forcing her to do so. However, I still think with anonymous sites like pornhub — which often refuse to take down videos of revenge porn, for instance — you run a hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 03:02 PM |
| 4 | Men have as much reason to be off-put by female sexuality as women have to be off-put by male sexuality“Some men would feel hurt / jealous / extremely angry if their partner talked about them the way you talk about yours” Or even just, “most men don’t like partners who make them feel disposable and like a last resort.” Or what have you It’s fine to comment on people’s behavior or arguments. You just shouldn’t call them names as a civility thing. I know you already know that, but just throwing it out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Men have as much reason to be off-put by female sexuality as women have to be off-put by male sexualityThere is not a lot of science to support porn addiction. You might have a point that it’s addictive to the same extent as eating chocolate or other dopaminagenic activities, but it’s not addictive like alcohol or whatever. A lot of the big porn addiction studies are funded by Mormons or other groups with an obvious anti porn agenda. I say this not being a huge pornography fan — in fact I find it traumatic to see porn, personally speaking. But the idea of porn addiction doesn’t seem to bear out i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 02:01 PM |
| 4 | Men have as much reason to be off-put by female sexuality as women have to be off-put by male sexualityHow is it not nasty and personal to call somebody promiscuous and say anyone who dates them is settling. Like please walk me through how that sentiment ISNT personal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 01:36 PM |
| 5 | Men have as much reason to be off-put by female sexuality as women have to be off-put by male sexualityMan speak for yourself all my girl friends can talk abt lately is wanting a femboy bf, seems very common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 01:36 PM |
| 8 | Men have as much reason to be off-put by female sexuality as women have to be off-put by male sexualityI disagree that paying for porn is pathetic. From an ethical perspective it’s vastly superior to getting it for free: someone selling their own porn at least gives you some reassurance that they weren’t trafficked or otherwise non consenting. People literally make jokes about how sometimes on pornhub you find videos where there’s used needles in the frame or people shouting in other languages. When they make those jokes, the joke is “human trafficking and rape” Paying for porn is an important pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 8 | Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards.This may seem impossible to believe but I promise you there are “high value” men who don’t want to trade their wives in for a newer model - even when she gets old! I’m from a pretty conservative community and this concept just makes no sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:21 PM |
| 8 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeIf consent means “give permission to do (x)” — eg “yes I consent to this paperwork,” “yes I consent to this search” — then can you explain how consenting readily lessens the value of later consent? If I cheerfully consent to sign five petitions on my way home, but I don’t sign the sixth, in what way does that cheapen my consent? How is it even relevant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women?I was honestly thinking of guys who hit on me by saying psychotic and scary shit, sorry if you think I should pity fuck a schizophrenic man at 7-11 but I’m not doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree or disagree with these widely debated Red Pill statements about women?When women say this they don’t mean “I hate that a guy in a triforce shirt asked me out,” they mean, “my only options are the dudes who would fuck a bag of flour with a hole cut in the side” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 02:47 AM |
| 2 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.Can you post a link to the grandma study? I’m about to get on a plane or id Google it myself Anyway you seem combative as hell and I don’t think my response warranted the rudeness lol. But sure ok let’s do it no one is asking you to You got mad when I “didn’t provide arguments. this is about the wall Great! Thanks for clarifying. So since I’m just being a lazy prat in the Delta lounge I figured I’d find a source. Let’s use this one from The Rational Male — I haven’t heard of this person but it w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 11:01 PM |
| -1 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.Was I supposed to argue against literally all red pill ideology in my short comment? Do you want me to argue why I think the wall is stupid or what? Give me a CLAIM and I can dispute that. I can’t argue against the entire premise of the red pill because it means something different to different subcultures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:02 PM |
| 11 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.Nah, you’re misunderstanding. To be more precise tho, it’s less a punishment fantasy and more a revenge fantasy Like, the whole concept of the wall is “fuck you, someday you’ll be washed up and I’ll have a hot gf”. It’s vindictive framing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:42 PM |
| 8 | If Cinderella is the fairytale of a low SMV woman capturing a top 20% man. Then what is male equivalent fairytale for men's struggles?Yeah and he had to be okay with the fact that she had the same flaws as him, something which would be unthinkable to the red pill dudes here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 05:09 PM |
| – | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?A buzz cut isn’t a “poor life choice” just because you don’t want to fuck women with shaved heads lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageThis analogy isn’t really 1:1. It’s not like the post was saying “take my friend Bertha, she has syphilis but she’ll suck you silly.” Like even in your analogy the poor man is being sarcastically compared to “a doctor who can provide for your family.” Your obvious contempt ruined your metaphor — sad! OP clearly likes promiscuous women, whereas the woman in your analogy is clearly disdainful of poor men. That’s the difference lol Anyway I unironically agree with your hypothetical, sans the annoyi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 01:58 PM |
| 6 | How exactly do you think you can "sniff out bad personalities"?Most men are great. But for a certain type of guy? They’ll pretend they want marriage when they don’t; they’ll pretend they want kids when they don’t; they’ll pretend they want more than sex when they don’t. It’s not like women are delulu to notice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 02:22 AM |
| 5 | How exactly do you think you can "sniff out bad personalities"?I didn’t realize this sub was solely limited to straight people, can you point to where that’s written? Because dating standards affect all of us, gender roles affect all of us, sorry you don’t wanna hear from gay people but it’ll keep happening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 01:48 AM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?True, but the way one expresses those feelings ought to be fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:51 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Okay, I can see I’m not going to get you to see my perspective, thanks for engaging though lol. It’s fine if you’d take the consort cage but it’s not fair to resent women for not climbing in ourselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:47 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?You can always go on estrogen and get a BBL and get implants, what’s stopping you? Some of us don’t want plastic surgery, believe it or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 11:46 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Let’s use an analogy. Imagine aliens invade the planet (topical with the drone shit I guess) and start rounding people up to work in the mines. One of the aliens does promise to give you an exalted role as its consort; you won’t have to work. You’ll have every luxury you could ever want, can work on your art or hobbies, whatever. You aren’t attracted to the alien but you agree because, hey, beats working. I could just say “the alien wants to fuck you”, and maybe most of the other aliens are fuck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:32 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?I see homeless women all the time? This is such an odd comment. Maybe you don’t live in a very big city or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:14 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Why do all of you people forget ugly women exist! If you picture a farmer from Iowa named Bertha who’s built like a longshoreman, do you seriously think she’s going on any yachts? Like all of these posts assume a young white American woman who is conventionally attractive. It is so bizarre to me. I don’t know how you move through the world thinking every woman has Stacy priv | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:13 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?So your stance is that women have easier lives because if they wanted to, they could find a man to provide for them. I don’t think that’s true for all of us but even if it were, I have self respect? I want to have a career and discuss philosophy and be a participant in society. Saying I’m privileged because I could hypothetically change my personality and become a trad wife is insane. Imagine the most autistic guy you know. Now picture him female. No, not like that - he’s still got acne and pit … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 10:01 PM |
| – | What is meant by "women live on easy mode"?Do you think being born with a vagina means people throw money and gifts at you? Because that is not true lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/24 09:58 PM |
| 2 | There needs to be a movement of men that advocate for freedom for men in society.Birth control fucks up your body. Thank god my husband shoots blanks but like. If I were fucking a guy who could get me pregnant I still wouldn’t use the BC pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"?You’re mostly right because when I was so depressed that I didn’t eat, shower, or leave my apartment I was technically in education all the time. Other than that, I say it’s a race to the bottom because I’ve been at that bottom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 03:19 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"?So is life just a race to the bottom for you, or is it only women who you think ought to live meaningless lives of stagnation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 02:53 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.You’re so right, why think about ways for things to improve when you can simply do nothing and die about it. Good idea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 01:05 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.You want me to solve the entire fucking issue that this subreddit is built around? Seems a little unreasonable mate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 01:04 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.I think this varies from hobby to hobby? I specifically didn’t pick sports or something like that, and maybe don’t show up SOLELY to hit on chicks, but most of the people I know who are dating, met through ttrpg or role play. If you don’t wanna risk it that’s fine too, but it’s not like literally any expression of interest gets you ejected from the social space forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 08:33 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.Do you think women can’t have hobbies or something? You can meet a girl at DND night or paintball night or whatever it is you do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:47 PM |
| – | If you feel women are boring, unappealing, and have wrong opinions, then just be happy single.Well I’m sure as shit not happy with the state of modern men, so I guess we can just flip the table instead of finishing this monopoly game. Or we can try to discuss solutions and compromise, since that presents a path forward other than lying down to rot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/24 06:45 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Why do you only swipe right on the minority of men?Don’t you get it? Women bad but ugly women subhuman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 09:47 PM |
| 5 | The Orgasm Gap Is Mainly About Biology and The Rest is Entirely Women's Own FaultWhy are you acting like your experience is the true objective one and everyone else is coping. Like im happy for you or whatever but just because you come that way doesn’t make you the Womanhood Ambassador | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:23 AM |
| 7 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?I’m pretty disappointed with the response from women in this thread. I’m just some tranny (ie not a man or a woman) but I think it comes off as callous to be like “lol skill issue” when men are talking about childhood bullying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?You can say rape or SA on Reddit, no one is going to censor your posts here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 01:07 PM |
| -1 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?What’s the difference between neurosis and a disorder that causes people to be in and out of inpatient? Are you for real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 01:05 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?I think it’s fair to want to have kids, but your disdain for people who chose not to is really telling. I get mildly annoyed when people leave their shopping carts out, it’s selfish, but I don’t rage like this because it doesn’t affect me in any meaningful way. You talk about childless people like they ran over your dog. It’s interesting because I really don’t think about parents very much at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 01:28 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?If they’re such slattern hedonists it’s probably a good thing they aren’t having unwanted kids, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 12:56 PM |
| 9 | Women are not entitled to anything from menBelieving the government has a responsibility to do (x) is different from believing Bob down the street must do (x) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 09:32 PM |
| – | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..I was under the impression that RP adherents made moral claims at times, but I guess I can see how some parts might claim amorality I also don’t really see how protecting your wife is related to whether it’s okay for widows to remarry. If you just meant it as an analogy it’s not an intuitive one for me. But tbh the idea of operating without any ethical framework is pretty alien to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 12:15 AM |
| 12 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..So do you believe ethically that widows have a moral obligation to stay single after their husbands die? If so, is that the case for random accidents too, or just in cases of war? I’d be curious if you also believe men whose wives die must also remain single for the rest of their lives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences.the distribution of something And what am I supposed to be distributing? It couldn’t possibly be my body, right? What in the People’s Wife is this shit 😂 By that logic, a man who’s ripped as hell who chooses to be single is “hoarding” resources when he chooses to live alone instead of building houses for people. There is nothing in Marxist or feminist thought to suggest that “hoarding” your own body is a crime against the lower class. Like… there’s no such thing as the pussy bourgeoise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences.No, it’s not zero sum. I’m not the person you’re asking but it seems like they’re saying if a man has sex with ten women, he’ll probably come 9 out of 10 times (probably all 10 if we’re being real.) If a woman has sex with ten men, she is way less likely to orgasm each time. Women tend not to come from vaginal penetration alone. I guess it’s possible that all ten guys are also willing to do oral or hand stuff, but that’s a different hurdle to cross than, “does she have a vagina”. I’m not saying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 06:43 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menFor point 1, nobody wants to date someone who clearly looks down on them. These women can tell you think they’re gross, so they’re not interested. Idk what else to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 11:43 PM |
| 4 | Most women make it incredibly difficult for men to meet and connect with them these daysWhat do you want me to do, upload my wedding pictures lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Telling men not to treat women as sexual objects and to stop watching porn is just word salad and does not provide any real benefit to menIf Bertha the paranoid homeless schizophrenic grabs your dick in a parking garage, that’s totally the same as if Stacy does it, right? If not, then why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 10:49 AM |
| 12 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?You’re right, most violence against women is committed by men she knows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 05:01 PM |
| 8 | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?Are you saying it follows that most crime against women is perpetuated by women? If not, I’m not sure what your comment is trying to say - that violence against women is rare? I’m having trouble figuring out your argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:30 PM |
| – | I have a theory on a *possible reason why some women may hesitate to date a virgin, low n-count guy: The fear of being the starter gfTheory ain’t the same as praxis lol. Just because you aspire to plate spin doesn’t mean you’re adept at doing so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 10:37 AM |
| 6 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usGeneralizing is bad whether you’re a man or a woman, hope this helps And it’s all well and good that for you it’s “most women” (what an honor!) rather than all…but we’re discussing why people are distrustful of red pill ideology. They literally do advocate for saying it’s ALL women, you literally just said so yourself. No, all women are not inclined towards being (selfish/gold diggers/insult of the day) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usI mean i don’t think anyone should generalize lol I will also shit on FDS posters when I see them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 08:33 AM |
| 13 | Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit usPeople don’t say “women frequently”, they say “women.” They generalize. Be for real lol the acronym is AWALT not SWALT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Why some men are willing to enter into LTR with a woman but reluctant to make her his wife? Some comments to another post opened my eyes. It seems we women can't really trust some 'relationship guys' even. It seems some guys also separate women from LTR & women who are fit to be the wifeTbh not always. You’re forgetting the autists lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsThe conventional take on here is that the beta bux dude isn’t rly getting what he wants and has to settle, but I see your point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsThis is like saying we shouldn’t sympathize for beta bux dudes because they’re getting conned. What if we had sympathy for people who are kind but not super bright?? What then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 06:27 AM |
| – | Women should avoid dating late bloomer menBeing autistic is a neutral/good trait in some contexts, so idk what point 3 is about. Maybe you’d rather not have a kid with high support needs but “it might be an aspie :( “ is weird to think about your future child lol. Normal people don’t think that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Would the Male Heterosexual equivalent of yourself have an easier time or harder time in dating?Tbh I’m gonna be real, testosterone is a helluva drug. Some ppl were born as women and they become crazy hot dudes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:47 AM |
| 3 | The great "checklist" bait-and-switch (why most dating advice is useless)True, and any one of any neurotype can be cringe or socially awkward. This isn’t a comment about autism supremacy, it was pointing out that autistic people have something valuable to offer the world as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:41 AM |
| – | Bumble Backtracking is Proof That Men Will Always Be in ChargeThat’s so crazy lol, I guess I’m the one in charge of my relationship then since I’m the one who asked him out. Stay silly I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | There's absolutely zero logical reason why child support is still a mandatory thingDid you mean something else besides “take what they want from women by force”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | There's absolutely zero logical reason why child support is still a mandatory thingThank you for the rhetoric lecture. I don’t see a lot of principle of charity on here so it’s easy to forget my manners. Hey, speaking of rhetoric, another strategy is to consider your audience. Appeals to emotion, by choosing lurid analogies about sexual assault when that isn’t necessary for making one’s point, are also bad rhetoric. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 04:25 PM |
| 2 | There's absolutely zero logical reason why child support is still a mandatory thingIt just seems like kind of a lurid and emotionally charged analogy tbh. I think it’s underscoring the point you’re trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 03:36 PM |
| 4 | There's absolutely zero logical reason why child support is still a mandatory thingSo she gives him a shopping list? That still seems impractical - what if he cheaps out and buys the bad dollar store diapers that give my kid a rash - but less bad than what I was picturing. Although I was raised by divorced parents and my dad eventually moved across the country, so it wouldn’t have been very practical for him to purchase the Lunchables. I actually don’t hate your idea about vouchers, which you mentioned elsewhere, but I still think some things would require cash and not money. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | There's absolutely zero logical reason why child support is still a mandatory thingThe other reason is that most men don’t want to rape people. It’s a small subset of men who actually want to force themselves on others. Your suggestion that men would all be rapacious monsters without laws/govt is more misandristic than anything I’ve ever thought or said in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 02:37 PM |
| 10 | There's absolutely zero logical reason why child support is still a mandatory thingWho is going to audit these lists or make sure she isn’t lying? What if he starts arguing with her about the list and refuses to pay (“you listed milk as costing $x but if you bought generic it’d be this, I’m not paying it”)? Also, if someone stops paying child support it’s easy for the system to report and catch that - or easier than, “he paid for 1/3 of the things on my list but threw a fit about the other 2/3” Your solution sounds like a logistical nightmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/24 02:34 PM |
| 10 | The answer to misandry is a passportNgl this reads like you’re going insane in response to what’s clearly an obvious joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 09:28 PM |
| 6 | If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time?It’s not that complicated, I just want to come. If it took 15 seconds for me to come I might also enjoy sex more, and might pursue it with the same voracity as some men. The reason I “make men wait” is to make sure he’s not a convict or schizophrenic, and to ideally make sure he’s inquisitive enough to at least care about finding the clit even if he isn’t experienced. I don’t need Chad, I need someone who can be bothered to get me off. It’s really not that complex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/24 05:35 PM |
| -7 | Men can now message first on BumbleUnless they’re ugly lmao. You guys love to say “woman” when what you mean is “a female I personally would find fuckable”. Betsy the 5’11 farm girl with a square jaw does not get to pick between Dr. Chad and Chad Esq. Like think about it for five seconds lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Men can now message first on BumbleThat’s right everyone! Women too dumb to read :) Too busy collecting bedpost notches and breaking the hearts of innocent men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 11:29 PM |
| 6 | Pathological Entitlement in some MenWell tbh you aren’t MY therapist, nor are you the therapist of everyone on this thread. So it’s not really your job; you’re just fucking around on reddit like the rest of us I’m not even RP by the way but I do get a little annoyed at psych students who armchair dx from the safety of their computer desk. You can’t diagnose people properly without a clinical interview | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Pathological Entitlement in some Mena woman can travel elsewhere Not in Texas? Texas has fully said they plan to prosecute anyone who goes across state lines for an abortion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 01:22 PM |
| – | Do women consider guys with a missing penis to not be of marriage and relationship material?A vagina is largely a muscle, defined in part by vaginal lips and a clitoris, whereas a slack, featureless hole is something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn't have to pay halfAnd neither are men, so get back in the trenches, boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Most "male approaches" are just misunderstandings from womenWhat a weird and unscientific theory. So do you have any evidence for this theory, or do you just like to go off vibes, like in astrology? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenI’m sure this sounds super impressive and badass to you, but can you tell me what women are supposed to do if they’re autistic or ugly? Is the advice still “fuck some guy from the Circle K and hope to god he isn’t a serial killer” or will you just admit that when you say “woman” you only mean “hot white woman”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 03:52 PM |
| 6 | Maybe the issue is the extreme bitterness toward womenThe love of my life is 5’3” - are you gonna say “Chad but short” in response? At some point you’re eroding the structural integrity of the word “Chad”. Caveat that I’m a gay man, but gay men ime are even worse about height than straight women. ¯_(ツ)_/¯ And no he’s not some twink lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | FtM trans-man talks about experiencing male loneliness:You don’t sound like you think it’s tragic. You sound like you wrote this comment with one hand. I don’t give a shit if people are transphobic but I fucking hate this fake concern lmaooooo | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/06/23 02:33 PM |
| 2 | The whole “wOmEn dOn’T oWe yOu sEx” narrative is bullshit, the vast majority of men do not think this at all. Most men just rightfully expect to be able to get women at or below their level of attractiveness.It’s called “hiding your obvious disdain”. No need to telegraph every thought you have. It’s fine to “settle” but if you make it obvious, don’t be surprised if she’s annoyed by it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:50 PM |
| 1 | So with this lame trans stuff you can have penises that are feminine ?Yeah dude, this trans stuff is fucking disgusting. You should stay safe by googling “hot femboy asshole spasming HQ 4 hour edition” to learn more details | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/05/23 02:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV Women aren't usually lazy and entitled, they're usually just insecure (like men)I could say the same to these pathetic basement boy NEETs who don’t go anywhere but still want a hot Instagram gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexYou’re only talking about a subset of women, who benefit materially from objectification and are in the top 1%, and suggesting that all women deserve objectification just because some bitch in LA is making OF money. Ok, well I’m not, I have Asperger’s and a lazy eye. Why should I be harassed just because Stacy is making bank? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 02:37 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexMust be a cultural thing. I only hit on autistic goth chicks and they love my easygoing, gentle demeanor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexHey now, some of us are female autists on PPD. We should be allowed to mingle with our own kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:07 PM |
| 8 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexThere’s one reason your analogy doesn’t hold up: there’s no fear of physical threat in the examples you listed. A man yelling on the street corner and a woman begging for money are both “unwanted attention,” but the woman begging me for money probably won’t physically harm me if I say no. The guy on the corner might follow me home or physically overpower me. Be real, dude: in the examples you gave, you’re not afraid, you’re annoyed. Sexual attention from random ass men is scary because you don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 08:01 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexYou can try not screaming out of your car. You can try meeting women at social events like game nights or cooking classes. You can give her an out - “hey, no worries if you’re not interested, but I’d love to get coffee.” Idk man I really don’t find it that hard to hit on women without them seeing it as creepy (before you ask I’m far from Chad thundercock - more like the eboy wojak lmao) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 14 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexDo you have this same energy towards divorce? “Of course his wife was after his money. Nobody forced him to wear Armani. Nobody forced him to wear a nice watch.” Your position — that men are powerless because the act of women existing is manipulative — is absurd. It suggests that men are toddlers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:35 PM |
| 17 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexYeah, someone caring about me as a person and being interested in my thoughts is more special than some dude who wants to awkwardly frot his dick between my legs until he gets off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:32 PM |
| 16 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexYeah no shit. “I’m fine with someone sleeping in my bed if he signs a piece of paper first.” There’s no discrepancy there. Sometimes behavior is contextual! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:30 PM |
| 8 | Women generally want men desired by other womenBut dudes love showing pictures of their hot gfs to their friends. It’s a social ritual. It would be a meaningless social ritual unless the men were happy to have other men desiring his girlfriend — woah, bro, she’s so hot. And so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlYou’re being too literal. I wasn’t saying they only drink one day a week. Just using “thirsty Thursday girls” as shorthand for someone who starts their drinking binges on Thursday night instead of Friday. I don’t drink very much myself. I still don’t think you just instantly become an ugly hag in your 30s just because you partied hard in your 20s. Seems kinda just world fallacy to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 06:28 PM |
| 0 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlYou think cirrhosis, alcohol-induced dementia, jaundice, etc show up at 30? Maybe if you were drinking a fifth of vodka every night. The thirsty Thursday girls will be fine until they’re married and middle aged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:42 PM |
| 2 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlI don’t think everyone who likes cats is exhibiting Cat Lady Syndrome (coming soon to DSM-6). I’m allergic to cats and can’t keep them, but I’ve met friends and family members with cats and they did have unique temperaments and personalities. I mean, even elephants exhibit play behaviors in the wild. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:38 PM |
| – | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?I’m not Mother Teresa. If you wouldn’t spend time eating pussy you don’t like, why would I waste time riding dick I don’t like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:30 PM |
| 4 | QW: For women who are against hookup culture, what made you not want casual sex and value sex as exclusively a romantic activity?Precious minutes of my life, usually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.We’re talking about women with disabilities that cause them to misunderstand social situations. You think maybe some of these autistic women think the guy is interested long term, only to realize they were used for a hookup after? You can’t just say “just read the situation better 4head” when we’re talking about autistic / severely socially stunted people lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:48 PM |
| 0 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?If they’re so fundamental you should be able to find a source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:03 AM |
| 0 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?Source: it came to me in a dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?Lol if you’re fine with your theories being equivalent to the zodiac or single mom MLM schemes, that’s on you. I prefer to have theories that can be proven via research, but that’s a personal preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?Oh ok, that’s fine. I agree with that. “This is how it should be” seemed like a remark on all mens’ preferences - of course individual men have the right to whatever preferences make sense for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?I would love a source for that. While we’re both talking out our ass, I’ve never even heard of a man getting punched out because they were fighting over the same woman. I know multiple women who have been assaulted by men — maybe help me out with the math here? I know you can’t trust my anecdotal evidence, but surely you have some of your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?why do we all need to find a way of coping with it Well, I guess that’s an easy statement to make when you’ll call any man who disagrees a liar. Be real, if some guy said “nah I legitimately don’t care about n-count,” would you accept that new information? Would it change your world view at all? No, you’d just say he’s coping or in denial. That must be awfully convenient to your “everyone is coping with this dark anger towards slutty women” hypothesis. If someone didn’t feel the need to cope wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?Why is your random made up reason more legit than the other commenter’s equally made up reason? I don’t see anyone linking sources lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?as it should be Okay, I’m fine with celebrating manwhores - that’s cool with me, it seems like hard work (I wouldn’t know since I’m gay but I assume toiling in the pussy mines isn’t easy). Why does it follow that women should have to receive societal judgment? Why can’t it just be neutral? I’m fine with saying that a promiscuous man probably did more work to get there than an equally promiscuous woman…but that doesn’t mean the woman has done anything particularly bad or wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?I used to hate read it in high school — would have been pre Gamergate, even, in the Heartiste and ROK days. I’m autistic so I just hyper focused on it and read a lot of it for no good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 08:42 PM |
| – | 63% of men under 30 describe themselves as single, compared with 34% of women in the same age groupWe can’t assume all of the guys who are single are poor, downtrodden nice guys, though. Some of them are dudes in FWBs who will call it being single while the girl in question swears they’re dating. We don’t have enough data to conclude that all the single men are also lonely — some are having one night stands, some are asexual, some are gay and non monogamous. And, yeah, I’m sure some of them are lonely single dudes. But your takeaway can’t be “yes, these numbers prove that men languish in lone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 08:34 PM |
| -4 | How are bigger women improving their dating game if even?Don’t be a pedant. Nobody thinks “homophobia” is “fear of gay people.” It’s the same idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | If you only want intimacy through sex, you don’t actually care about intimacy. You just want sex.Yeah, all sex is created equal. Hey, tell you what, I’ll sleep with you but I’m going to need you to bend over first (let me enlighten you about pegging.) It’s all getting fucked after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Q4Bi/Pan/Trans people: as the ones caught in the middle of the gender war, I'm curious what your unique experiences are with the sexes.Irl im a femboy so I sometimes pass as a woman and other times as a guy depending on the proclivities of whoever I’m talking with. Tbh being a man is incredibly lonely - when I’m able to pass as a woman I feel more like people make an effort to include me in things and generally show me kindness. So I can understand the root of what it seems like a lot of straight men are talking about when they talk about dating. On the other hand, being catcalled is fucking terrifying and I’ve had moments on p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 05:09 AM |
| 2 | What are your actual dealbreakers?Cheating and social conservatism (don’t worry, I don’t think of these as morally equivalent - being a conservative is much worse) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | What does a modern woman bring to a relationship?The literal purpose of this subreddit is to comment on each others’ lives. Despite everything women aren’t (yet) banned from posting here! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Timeshare pussy?? Now I’ve seen everything. To me I would think that’d spoil a bit of the fun but what do I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?I mean if you’re telling other men “you should act like a shithead to women” I’m probably going to say “please don’t be a shithead to women.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?I’m happy to throw the gates open - I never had a ho phase but it sounds fun! However, I have a pretty low market value and that still won’t stop the issue of Stacy keeping her gate under lock and key. This seems like a plan you didn’t think through all the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?So if women are withholding attraction from you in the first example, are they also withholding hunger from you in the second? This analogy doesn’t seem to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How are women supposed to solve the sexlessness issue?Damn, never thought I’d see the day where PPD posters sing the praises of HRT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:23 PM |
| 18 | Ugly girls, what is your experience with dating?Just based on your responses, what the fuck could she have said to satisfy you? If she says she doesn’t get laid at all, you call her a liar or tell her to lower her standards (but if she lowers her standards too much and finds a shithead, that’s still her fault because she should have filtered and found a good man.) If she says she gets laid somewhat but got rejected a lot, her numbers have to exactly match those of the least successful guy or else “she has it on easy mode” and “she just wants … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Why being an amazing mother is not considered successful?I hope you have the same energy for women who want to ride the CC. To each their own, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 12:41 AM |
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