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| 9 | Girl called me bro?It's just a word, bro. | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I think I'm finally gonna do it (need some advice from shy guys)You may also enjoy: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskRedditAfterDark/comments/9xlkda/shy_guys_of_arad_how_do_you_like_to_be_hit_on_at/ | /r/seduction | 26/02/19 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Friend's ex is talking and I feel like is trying something?If you compromise your values to get laid, you'll get laid more and attract people that share your lack of values. If you don't, you'll get laid slightly less, but you'll be a happier person and also attract people that share your values. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 05:12 PM |
| 10 | I'm about to stick my dick in crazy...is it really a terrible Idea?It's a bad idea, but you'll probably do it anyway ;-) But for the love of god use protection! | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Library crushIf you study the same subject, go up to her next time and say"Hey, I've been looking all over for this book, but now I see you had ik all along. Can I borrow it for a while?". Then when you give it back you say "Hey, thanks, let me buy you cup of coffee". BAM. Invite me to your wedding! | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Advice on getting with an older woman.Be outspoken about your intentions. Initiate kino. Don't try to push through any no's or requests to slow down. Oh, and age jokes are usually not a turn on :D If she makes them herself, use that occasion to say that you don't really care about the numbers. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 11:00 PM |
| 293 | Cutest rejection everYour response to the "rejection" was great. That makes all the difference! | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm having a crush on my HR. Would it be appropriate to message her on FB?It sounds like she's a good HR-professional, so the odds of her pursuing anything with a future hire is close to zero. There's nothing wrong with thanking someone for a good job interview experience, it's a good networking thing to do. She might appreciate it. But you send it to their work e-mail and keep it professional. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Qualifying Girls Before The First DateDo dates have to be expensive? I was gamed by a PUA in London who was amazing at hanging out with women and hardly spending any money on it. He knew the best places to have a romantic walk, knew when the museums were free entrance, knew exotic places to hang out (rooftops, places near the water, etc.). He also knew exactly how to sell it so that you would feel like you were on an exotic adventure. Worked really well for him. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 09:14 PM |
| 5 | How important are physical looks in attraction?It depends on what you're looking for. If you want girls to spontaneously hit on you in a loud and crazy bar, your looks and confidence are very important. If you want to pick up girls in more traditional settings like a date, confidence and charisma are probably best (looks still help, obviously). If you're looking for a lifelong partner, suddenly personality and having social/emotional skills matter a lot more. There's actually some research that better-looking people have shorter relationship… | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | I'm very empathic and often act like a nice guy.You tell them you're attracted to them, or you ask them out on a date. Think of it this way. When you have feelings for someone, keeping that a secret isn't very nice, honestly. You are keeping information from them that might affect how they chose to interact with you. You are taking away a decision that should be theirs to make. It's more ethical to express that attraction, so the other person can chose to respond to that. Nothing wrong with expressing that in ways that are most likely to attr… | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 06:53 AM |
| 2 | I'm very empathic and often act like a nice guy.The nice guy trap is thinking girls will notice what a great friend you are and will automatically want to fuck you if you hang around long enough. Nice guys are often anything but nice or empathic. Keep being empathic and a good person. Those are really desirable traits! But DO make your sexual interest known to girls you want to be with. Be the guy who is empathic, good, and not afraid to express his sexual attraction. I've dated a natural helper and he was impressive af. I remember we walking… | /r/seduction | 07/02/19 10:38 PM |
| 83 | [FR] Tinder match to lay within 4 hours; full text convos attachedYeah. Field reports are fine but name and pic is not cool. | /r/seduction | 05/02/19 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Friends cockblocking me in every possible waysSince your friends are normally good guys, I'm going to make a wild guess as to why they turn into dicks in PUA situations. I could be wildy off the mark, so don't be offended if this doesn't sound like you. Do they know you are into PUA? Do talk about it often? Does your talk make it sound like this is the best way to pick up women? Could your talking be perceived as you putting yourself above them? Did you try to convince your friends to get into it? Did they think it sounded super forced? It … | /r/seduction | 01/02/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | My dating life is slowly driving me to suicideDude, you're on a PUA subreddit, you know stuff doesn't happen naturally most of the time ;-) Making friends after college is hard for sure, but it's not hopeless. There are tons of people who are left without circle, hate the circle they're in, or really want to expand their circles. The best way I know to make friends is to find things you're passionate about, and then share that passion with a group of like-minded people. It sounds like you are suffering from loneliness big time, and friends … | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 11:11 PM |
| 2 | My dating life is slowly driving me to suicideIt sounds like you feel you need a girlfriend so you can have a social life again. That's a lot of expectation to put on one girl. Can you work on making new friends and building up a social life for yourself again? That will go a great way towards making you more emotionally stable and attractive to girls. You are doing really well in other parts of your life, so if you can widen your social circle with some real friendships, you'd really have a good thing going. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 10:54 PM |
| 3 | My dating life is slowly driving me to suicideI'm sorry you're having such a tough time. You don't have to wait for a girlfriend to travel, go to shows, go camping or go out, and I think you know that. You say you feel healthy mentally, but your suicidal ideation, your deep state of mourning for your past relationship and your obsession with finding a new one makes me feel that might not be entirely true. As much as it sucks, you may need to let go of these things and reach some emotional stability first, before you can start dating success… | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 10:42 PM |
| 4 | I was going to have sex and lose my virginity with a girl who liked me and I couldn't get an erection. Is it possible to make her interested in me again?Girls can take it a lack of erection as a sign that you're not attracted to her, but more experienced girls know that not getting erect can happen to everyone. Keep on gaming her, unless she acts bitchy about your night together. Also, congrats on your first time! | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 10:29 PM |
| 12 | Models by Mark Manson (Animated Video)Manson makes a lot of good progress to move PUA away from jerkish behavior, actually. And calling people "failure as a human" doesn't really help make your case :-) xoxo | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 10:20 AM |
| 24 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.No problem. Sorry you got burned, OP! | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 06:12 PM |
| 161 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.Okay, I'll also have an attempt at explaining why you should be very weary of gaming people who are at work. They are literally stuck! They are forced to listen to you, interact with you, and be nice to you. As you hopefully know, not having any agency is a pretty bad start for romance. You as a customer can make their life miserable, and customers frequently do. Sure, you might be a pick up guy going for a quick number close, but your target doesn't know you're going to next them if they declin… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | There is a person who never forgets your birthday. Does this person like you or is this a game?This person most likely has some affection for you, nothing too weird. If seduction is your goal, you'll need to do a little more investigating to find out if their affection is of a friendly or romantic nature. Good luck! :-) | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 12:28 PM |
| 2 | How do I find out what turns me on?Yeah, it really is. You could also suffer from low libido (about 10% of men do, I read somewhere. A lot more common than you'd think), or you could have a kind of mental block that stops you from having sexual thoughts. You could certaintly talk to a doctor or a pyschologist about it, but it might also be interesting to try a few things out first , see what works for you, and where this "wrong" feeling is coming from. If you can put more words to it, it might be easier to find the source of the … | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 01:27 PM |
| 3 | How do I find out what turns me on?It sounds like you're saying that you do not experience sexual attraction? There's many different ways for people to experience sexuality and sexual attraction. There's people who are asexual (who generally don't feel sexual attraction at all, though there's a of of variety in degrees there), there are demisexuals (who only feel sexual attration to people they really like), greysexual (who occasionally feel sexual attraction), and so on. If you feel any of those descriptions fit for you, have a … | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Need help with dorm game, with regards to blatant pick-up and social proofNormal advice on this sub is "just ask her out, and if it doesn't work, move on to the next". But is that what you want to do? Cause it sounds like this girl could be a really good friend to you, help you learn more social skills, and provide social proof. Those sounds like three things you need. I'm not convinced by her IOI. When I have an awkward guy in one of my social groups, I will go out of my way to make him feel welcome and boost his self esteem. I would do all of the things you mentione… | /r/seduction | 14/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 34 | Field report. Feels good, but critique me.I just had to google Law of Jante, so I would be much impressed with that quality of gym interaction :-) If someone would ask me for my number in front of four gym regulars, I probably wouldn't give it even if I really liked the guy. I might not feel comfortable with one or more of those four guys, and wouldn't want them to know personal information about me - including that I'm dating and who I give my number too. I might be worried about getting reputation in my home gym. Or I might resent bei… | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 02:57 PM |
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