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| 1 | Just found this small-ish YouTuber - wondering if anyone here has recommended her yet? This video reminds me a lot of the ideas I read here. It's mainly about how society grooms girls and women to accept abuse, but also mentions choice feminism and toxic beauty standards. | DISCUSSION | partyangesagt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:48 PM |
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| 30 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)You should definitely read A Thousand Splendid Suns then, Kite Runner is great at pointing out inequality in society and ATSS has that same theme, but on steroids. Might be a rough read if you’re a victim of domestic or familial abuse, but it’s a 10/10 book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 110 | I can't believe how much she got downvoted so much for thisThis video reminds me of the time my ex got really mad at me for simply saying I didn't think the movie was very good, lol. There are just certain groups of men who attach onto particular pieces of media and attack people, but especially women, who don't like the same media. Cyberpunk for example, a female journalist gave the game a very high score but said that the game gave her a major seizure and the game at the time had no seizure warnings. Naturally this woman received DEATH THREATS and was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 7 | “Strangers don’t owe you any loyalty”The other woman can be the victim of a manipulative cheating man yes, but when they learn the truth of the situation and choose to continue relations with said manipulative man they are also partially at fault. My ex-friend is a homewrecker and while I can see where she would be a victim (around 10 years younger than the man, has an eating disorder, extremely low self-esteem) it was her choice to be his secret side woman for half a year even though our mutual friend tried multiple times to talk … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 29 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.Literal freaking monkeys interpret staring as a threat, yet most human men think leering at women is socially acceptable 🤔 I dare men to stare at silverback gorillas the way they stare at us. I love being a woman but society really treats us like shit. Shouldn't we have a right to safety? I mean the basis of modern society is to abandon our caveman ways of the strongest rules, yet men traumatize and terrorize us for funsies. Like actually. I doubt that man on the train or the strange man I met h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:38 PM |
| 22 | Interpreting men's social media useOne way is to get their guard down. Search up a few popular insta models/cosplayers and one day when you're chatting with him tell him that lately you've found [insert names of insta models/cosplayers here] and you're really impressed by them or some shit (like how pretty or fit they are, or the cosplays are good) and ask what he thinks or if he knows any more pretty models or cosplayers. Basically if you act like you're into their degenerate hobby they'll be a lot more likely to open up about i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:04 PM |
| 55 | Interpreting men's social media useFacts, and to add, some guys have finstas that they use solely for following /soft/porn accounts so that they can make their real insta look clean. Just keep that in mind ladies!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:47 PM |
| 58 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.The only safe place is inside your own home. I was at a track in a public park and I had to rush to the bathroom (running gives me the runs). As I'm walking as fast as I can there some random man who was going towards the track turns around to talk to me about running and stretches, literally all the way to the door of bathroom. Wtf. Anyways if I wasn't having a bathroom emergency I would've been more freaked out since usually it's deserted around the bathroom. But thank god the park worker that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:40 PM |
| 12 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenA Brief History of Neoliberalism by David Harvey is a great introduction to how neoliberalism affects democracy, you may be interested in Gramsci's prison notebooks as well. I wish I could remember more books we read in my culture, neoliberalism, and globalism course 😅 if your college has an INTS department, that's where you're gonna find the good shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 14 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔Yes she genuinely believes they are the love of each other’s lives. Full delusion mode. Also he conveniently doesn’t believe in marriage anymore! I know she has crippling self esteem issues and mental illness but this is far too much, fuck everyone who knew about it and didn’t tell her she needs to stop, this man is a red flag factory. When I swooped in months later and found out the situation and obviously was critical of it I get hit with the “you haven’t talked to me for a long time how do yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 13 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔One of my friends was like this. 23yrs old, knew the 30s man had been with his wife for years, fucked around behind her back for 7 MONTHS until I told his poor wife what was going on (I had been out of the picture for awhile so I didn’t know what kind of depraved pickmesha shit she was doing). I honestly don’t know when he would’ve admitted it to her, our mutual friend who told me all of the details told me that she had been gently nudging him to tell his wife the whole 7 months but didn’t want … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 28 | So glad I found this subreddit. Fuck everything.That's like saying when someone looked on their SO's phone and found out he's having an affair, that it's the girls fault for looking and the cheating doesn't come into play? That actually does happen on /relationships and /relationship_advice tho 😬 according to reddit if you're a woman you're not allowed to act on your man being sus, it's ToXiC. I'm not joking, look at any post where the woman says she went through her bf's phone, 99% of the time it's preceded by "I know it's wrong and I feel l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 26 | Libfems - BuT iT's EmPoWeRiNgIt’s pretty much impossible to ‘protect’ children with how the internet is today, even if you keep them away from computers and don’t give them a smartphone until they’re in high school they’ll still be socialized into this stuff to some degree by their peers. The best thing you can do for them is educate them, real sex ed that focuses on consent and boundaries, and obviously not in the libfem way that leaves them vulnerable to being preyed on by men. It’s vital to teach them that they must have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 7 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythDerogatory term for woman who marries a military guy, commonly stereotyped as having been a stripper before getting married to said military guy or trying to escape their shitty rural hometown. A dependa is: using their mil husband to get healthcare or education benefits, jobless or has a shitty job (part-time or MLM), crazy, and cheats on husband while deployed (deployed mil dudes cheat like crazy but we don't talk about that I guess). And if a dependa is fat or gets fat over the course of marr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 38 | The R/roastme threadsYep the few times I’ve looked at roastme literally all of the posts with women in them had some variation of “you look like you have daddy issues” 🤨I just don’t understand the appeal, most of the comments are so unoriginal and repetitive, if only bot comments were allowed it would actually be more interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:18 PM |
| 39 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄I’m quite curious about that as well. I think what he actually self-identifies with is the red flag part, not the ideology part 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:56 PM |
| 4 | FYI, r/Sex is now refusing to let porn addiction be discussed freely because it’s “sex negative” and only promoted by communities with “dubious ideas”. Reminder that your choices on the “neutral” subs are being made *for* you and it’s always pro-porn no matter how much evidence you find against it.Agreed. To add, labiaplasty wasn’t even a thing until porn got into the mainstream and taught girls and women with an ‘outie’ vulva that they are disgusting and abnormal. It’s so sad. Dumbass men ironically associate ‘outie’ vulvas with promiscuity even though most porn actresses have ‘innies’ 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsWtf this video is amazing. Gonna save it so I can revisit it in the future. Ok so here's the thing, and maybe this is the infatuation talking, but there really isn't anything negative about our relationship that I can think of besides the past with porn. He is committed and has made it clear he wants to get married to me when I'm ready, emotionally available and is good at showing his love for me, and I honestly think we do about equal stuff around the apartment (cooking, cleaning, but tbh he wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Why are some women always offended when someone doesn't support sex work?Sex work is a pillar of the patriarchy. I feel like a lot of women take offense to "I don't agree with sex work" the same way a lot of (American) Christians take offense to "I don't agree that fetuses are a gift from God." It's literally just ingrained in the culture to accept it as something irrefutably normal. Also there is just a lot of ignorance about the reality of sex work in general. In the same way that people who buy jewelry don't want to think about the extremely fucked up conditions o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 05:25 PM |
| 12 | The guy I was dating gaslighted me about my own boundary regarding Instagram ModelsRelate :/ omg this is gonna be a bit long so I apologize. I went through something similar with the guy I'm seeing right now. Month 3 of our relationship I found a screenshot of a nude from a porn sub on his phone (which he was using as art reference for pigtails and yeah I believe him since he draws as a hobby and that was the only thing like that on his phone, nonetheless...) and I gave him the "actually I'm really not ok with porn" talk, which was a pretty new opinion to me at the time since … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Tik Tok trend goes wrong when wife exposes LVM husbandCRINGE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 12 | Got banned from r/Feminism for saying that you don’t have to accept a dude’s Instagram model obsessionWell when I think racist kink my mind immediately jumps to slave-slave owner and cuckold, both of which I heavily associate with white men... 🤔 Yeah so I guess I’m really not that surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 04:30 PM |
| 116 | She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected.Is she an actual PhD holder? Super sad if she feels the need to prove herself like this :/ Also lol imagine being married to a manchild as a doctorate candidate... having to do all the housework AS WELL as the immense amount of research and studying you need to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 12:14 AM |
| 6 | "Wholesome" boomer meme. Hope she gets picked!I hate thissssssss why do people think it’s their right to leer at other people??? Like it’s fucking creepy whether your gf/wife joins in the objectification or not. I don’t care if you think I’m attractive I DO NOT want to be stared at, especially by men. Reminds me of the time I was at a pool with a girlfriend of mine on a military base and this man WITH HIS PREPUBESCENT SON RIGHT BESIDE HIM stared at us for a good 20 minutes like keep your fucking eyes to yourself. If he had been there with t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 2 | I feel bad for the girls who'll be "inspired" by this. Everyone thinks they'll be that rare success case of the Adult Industry, never one of the many painful failures...Reminder that the majority of sex workers are forced or groomed into the industry. It’s easy to blame women since they are the face of the industry but 99% of sex work is made for men, and most of the money from it goes to men whether it’s through the service or place that sex workers use, pimps, etc. But yeah you are right about social media, it definitelyyyy grooms some women into thinking that sex work is quirky and cool and not at all damaging. This is where the stereotypical hot young colle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 15 | LVM be likeLook up victory curl tutorials, looks like the same concept, I think you’d just have to fiddle around with the positioning of the curls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:59 PM |
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