parvuscorvus Archive

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1	If society continues to act silly when it comes to gender dynamics between men and women. Then online dating apps should be the only valid place to form relationships. Do you mean that you don't want strangers approaching you and asking for a date/sex? In this case, i would agree and say that this is poor behavior. But if you mean that you would berate someone for approaching politely and making small talk, then I have to say that this is odd behavior and not pro-social at all. Sure, declining an interaction is fine, and the other person should gracefully accept and walk away from this. But expecting to not be spoken to in public is a recent phenomenon, and be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/25 11:09 PM
6	We need more two-way empathy, not sympathy This and the assumption that people are out to get you, that people are being intentionally harmful (refusal to consider intent in general), refusal to give benefit of the doubt, etc. I see it from both sides and think everyone would benefit from extending some grace to each other rather than immediately going on the aggressive defensive or even offensive from the jump.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/25 06:38 PM
5	Are Reddit women's sentiment regarding male attention reflective of women in real life? I feel like a lot of it depends on context. I firstly want to say that I think it is absurd and unreasonable for anyone, regardless of sex and/or gender identity, to expect they’ll never be approached in public. Humans are a social species, and I think a lot of people have some deep issues they need to look into and address in regards to this. That being said, the context of the situation matters. Where you are, what your intent is, what your expectations are, all matter. Small talk with the gro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 01:43 AM
1	Question about men crying I don’t think that’s necessarily the only factor, but I do think it plays a role for sure. It was never abnormal for me growing up to see the men in my life express emotion, so I never really heard people telling them to “man up” directly or subtly. I didn’t even really realize that there was societal pressure in that regard until I was much older and had other men tell me about it. I guess at least in my case, the abundance of emotionally expressive men in my formative years counteracted any of…	/r/MensRights	20/03/24 07:10 AM
2	Question about men crying No worries, I can understand it’s a sensitive topic. I don’t care about downvotes anyways.	/r/MensRights	20/03/24 07:06 AM
4	Question about men crying He definitely does. I know societally this is totally different, and have heard from multiple men irl and online that their perception is that showing any emotion like that seems to push women away from them, even previously dedicated partners. For me, it could be that I find this trait admirable because my father, grandfathers, and brothers have all been very emotionally open and I saw them cry throughout my life with happiness, sadness/grief, etc.	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 06:55 PM
-1	Question about men crying Obviously I don’t represent all women, but I personally like my partner to cry (not that I like him being sad of course) because it shows me that he is comfortable enough sharing that side of himself with me and I feel more emotionally connected and balanced.	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 06:02 PM
1	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? I don’t think that’s necessarily true across the board. I only have ever dated people who I was friends with for at least several months beforehand. It’s the same with most of my female friends, too. Of course, women aren’t a monolith (just as men aren’t), so it’s highly individual. But my perspective is, how would I even be interested in dating someone if I don’t even know anything about them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/24 11:41 AM
7	So, is talking to women at bars just… over? I think this is actually a mindset that turns a lot of women off of men. If 9/10 times the man is cold-approaching to initiate a romantic relationship, how could he even know if he is actually interested in this particular woman if they have never even had a conversation? This makes a lot of women feel like the men approaching them aren’t interested in them specifically, but are just looking for any woman at all. The lack of interest in learning about her as a person unless she is a sexual or ro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/24 09:24 PM
0	Better to lie to Women than be honest Will it technically work? If you’re charming enough, then sometimes, sure. But women also talk to one another about dating experiences, so if you (the general, ambiguous you) are doing this to multiple women in the same area, chances are you’ll start getting declined or ignored on principle. This is also assuming the woman is down for sex on the first date or within the first few dates. Many women aren’t. I myself wouldn’t even be interested or tempted until I’ve at least gotten to know the pers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/23 03:41 AM
2	Why do single women seem so happy compared to single men? Well, most often modern women aren’t interested in traditional men. Modern women don’t want to be jobless housewives. In fact, the complaint about lack of domestic skills is often one modern women cite as a reason for leaving or avoiding relationships with men. Most women today, including myself and friends in my circle, want to divide domestic labor equitably in the relationship as true partners, and have both have jobs outside of the home (not only because it is usually financially unrealistic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 12:42 AM
3	Women genuinely, "settling" never really works out I think, from observation, that men tend to want a partner for the sake of having a partner and it doesn’t necessarily matter who as long as the mostly fulfill the standards of that particular guy, whereas a lot of women I know tend to want specific people and aren’t necessarily just looking for a relationship in general. I think a lot of women aren’t willing to settle or lower their standards as much as men are because women seem to be more okay with being unpartnered and it is often in fact mo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 09:40 PM
2	CMV: There are plenty of good men out there, but there’s a shortage of high value good men which are the men women actually want I guess maybe I can’t relate. I can recognize when someone looks nice or is conventionally attractive, but it doesn’t mean I personally find them attractive. There is no degree or scale for me, I either am attracted to someone or am not. But for the sake of the scenario, person A is kind, and I find them attractive, person B is not kind and I find them attractive. I’d never choose person B, but I would consider person A, if other factors lined up. But again, mutual attraction plus kindness still…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 01:07 AM
2	CMV: There are plenty of good men out there, but there’s a shortage of high value good men which are the men women actually want As a woman, if I had the choice between someone who is kind but I have no attraction to or someone who is mean but I find very attractive, i would choose neither, I’d just stay single. The person who is kind who I’m not attracted to, i’d be friends with. Even if I were attracted to them it wouldn’t guarantee a relationship. We’d have to have compatibility in terms of personality, connection, and life goals. The person who is mean but I find attractive, I’d neither be romantically nor platonicall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/23 12:32 AM
6	Women are 100% repelled by genuinely kind men and respond positively to being mistreated Mistreatment isn’t the only reason relationships end. Someone could be a great person with admirable qualities, but simply have different goals in life or want a different lifestyle. There doesn’t have to be toxicity or abuse involved for two people to be incompatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/23 01:00 PM
3	Is this the conversation you want? I wonder with the percentage of people who experienced sexual contact while sleeping but didn’t consider it assault, if they had prior consent and agreement with their partners in place. As someone who has been inappropriately touched by a (now ex) partner while sleeping and woke up to that, it was awful and completely broke any trust I had and still effects me years later (albeit in smaller ways since therapy). Had they asked me beforehand if I’m okay with that, I would have said no because I d…	/r/MensRights	11/11/23 03:41 AM
2	I am anti-feminism, anti-redpill, and anti-blackpill. Men with mental illnesses do deserve help, from professionals trained to help them. They don’t deserve unfettered access to people that they harm. I say this as someone who has mental illnesses, specifically caused by trauma: it is no one’s responsibility but my own to seek out appropriate help and learn not to allow my problems to harm those around me, and it is no one’s obligation to allow me to harm them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/11/23 11:04 PM