paspartuu Archive

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2	Asking for compliments Neediness is unattractive, yes, but I think one should be able to be vulnerable and (occasionally) needy in front of their significant others. I believe the people in a healthy long-term relationship should be able to lean on each other. (Equally and in small measures, not in a way where the other must constantly carry the other for years and never be able to lean on someone themselves)	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/14 05:17 PM
1	Asking for compliments I would think it depends a lot on how one says it and what one expects to hear. And does the nice thing has to be a compliment? Depending on the situation, can't it be something like "You're gonna be okay and everything will work out, hang in there, I like you"? I don't think it's manipulation, it's a direct request for comforting. Maybe that's in the ear of the listener though, maybe I'm interpreting the whole thing wrong. I sort of do the same thing with hugs, occasionally if I feel tired or o…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/08/14 08:37 AM