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9

So what should song lyrics be? Hard data? Preaching?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 09:09 PM
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Here’s a tip, songs are expressive of momentary emotions rather than factual.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 07:04 PM
1

If a man shows half his shlong, I would consider it half naked. But also fully naked at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:58 PM
1

The only equivalent is if a man lets random women smell his musk (which can’t be done online)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:56 PM
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Because I'm not red or blue, I'm purple
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:46 AM
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Gains 2 pounds? That’s a jog and a dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:02 AM
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I am a child, and I am married. Let me tell you, it’s not very fun. First of all, my wife and I are not old enough to go to the bar or do anything, really. If Mr. Peterson has this idea, I assume that he is not a child himself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 08:08 AM
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I’m just curious if you are intentionally spelling the word “all “ wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:26 PM
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They're probably not spending their time on purple pill debate for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 03:12 PM
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Aroused when you don’t want to be? I can’t imagine that but I suppose everyone’s body is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:30 AM
6

Yes, someone please explain the logistics because I can't imagine how this goes with a male or female. A man is pumped full of viagra and someone else does the penetrating while he is tied up or held down or something? It seems like the key word is "reported" meaning it didn't actually happen but was reported anyway. I can understand if a man just wanted to have pull-out but then the partner kept him in, but that sounds like it's not what we're talking about...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 12:40 AM
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Its 2020, i wear masks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 02:19 AM
1

Don’t you think men try to become successful and famous to impress and attract women? I think the two go together
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:58 PM
0

His worldview is internally consistent. Well I think it's illogical to use those things as analogies but prescribe different solutions to each. Maybe it's just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:29 PM
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I completely agree with that (and we're not talking about JBP anymore). It takes extreme wealth inequality to produce an iphone, for if the factory workers were paid like executives, no one could afford it in the first place. But I can't help but wonder what the US would be like if we tried to make sure everyone had health care, education, etc rather than access to an iphone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 11:27 PM
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The irony is that it’s the deeds of the people who contribute to social inequality that push society further in a way that raises the minimum standard of living. So those hot rich people hooking up out of wedlock are raising the standard of living for the poor ugly folks? By making sex tapes, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:11 PM
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Re: first clip- Wow, he actually says that inequality of wealth is de-stabilizing to society there! Most of that clip, he sounds like he might be a liberal except where he says "left wing governments don't produce equality" and I imagine he's talking about USSR rather than Scandinavian countries? So what do I make of this? Is JBP actually a fiscal progressive? What is his conclusion or solution? Just that we don't know the answer? I have never heard him advocate for more taxation or social progr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:28 PM
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He does say that, just as he says he's not a conservative. But if you actually pay attention to how much time he spends talking about one thing and how little talking about the other, it becomes obvious what he cares about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:18 PM
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That's many other cans of worms to discuss and I'm just talking about what JP says. I've never heard him say any of those things as reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 08:16 PM
1

Ok so again, why does this change when talking about sex? If we want to take advantage of competence, why would we encourage a more even sexual distribution?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:04 PM
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Stop me where I have his views wrong- Hierarchies are tied to the concept of value. (this is nature/free market) Society should reinforce hierarchy in regards to wealth by allowing free market. Society should not reinforce hierarchy in regards to sex, it should enforce monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:08 PM
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I don't think he's part of RP or follows it and I've never heard him give romantic advice. I was thinking more of his attitude about gender roles and decline of social norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:47 PM
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You said 'free market', I call that 'nature takes its course' or the 80/20 rule or whatever. The people who have the most effectiveness/attractiveness are going to continue to amass most of the wealth/sexual partners unless there are social boundaries put in place. For wealth, he says it's all natural, it's hierarchy, it's the way it goes. For sex, he says we must have one partner for all or else there will be social degradation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:43 PM
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Sure, so if he thinks we should let nature take its course with money, why not with sex as well? Also... so it's not "good", it's just "the best for prosperity"? It sounds like you're trying really hard to make your agreement sound like a disagreement!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:28 PM
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I like a lot of his Jungian explanations of pop culture, I like his personal responsibility attitude, I think he is wrongly maligned by the media for the most part. That said, the guy either has zero self awareness or is intellectually dishonest. He seems to think that having high openness makes him a liberal when he spends hours criticizing liberals but keeps his mouth shut about conservatives. He strongly advocates social enforcement of monogamy (and I phrased that much better than he infamous…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:56 PM
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Better question- What does JP think about RP? He seems to repeat a lot of their talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:48 PM
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Ok, I read it as claiming you're not red pilled when you're actually a RP gatekeeper
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:23 PM
0

Something tells me your flair is sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:08 PM
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all the kinky shit you're into that you don't tell people about. WHOOO TOLD YOUUUUUU
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 09:27 PM
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I thought that rape fantasies were for people who have previously been raped in their formative years and are trying to regain a healthy sexual mindset but need a little simulated rape because that's part of their sexuality still. As with most discussions here, there is a correlation/causation mixup in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:18 PM
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Agreed on all that. I thought the point was that the 99% simply would die off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 11:03 PM
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You think feudalism didn't have an underclass? Good luck getting a weird robot dog thing to work on your house, rich people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:33 PM
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That’s not what their summary says. How can plutocrats function without an underclass?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 10:22 PM
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Wouldn’t the lower upper class eventually lose money to the highest upper class?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 04:41 PM
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I don’t understand, are you saying they invent robots with wallets?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:30 PM
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Surprise! I don’t want to read a 35 page PDF to see whether I agree with you or not. Can you give us the gist of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:29 PM
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What if you live with a man? What if you live with two women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 02:24 PM
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I have no idea how to interpret this
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:53 PM
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Not really, a stripper is a job. Men on OLD aren't doing a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 09:34 PM
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Men don't get attention, their money does.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 08:33 PM
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I agree it’s silly but I don’t know why redpillers wouldn’t be into that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:17 AM
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Can you (or someone else) talk more about MRP being a shitty sequel? I see RP as a bunch of clueless college kids and MRP being militant cultists who are WAY more serious about their lives than RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:43 AM
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YMMV. I usually want more sex the more I have it and I supplement with porn. I have never gotten into freaky stuff, I don't even like watching blow jobs. I see the two as completely different- sex is good for bonding with your partner, masturbation/porn is good for just having a relaxing orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/19 01:07 AM
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Couldn't the same be said about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 02:44 PM
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I always thought those were just white guys who also pretend to be women in other subs- “how dare you assume my gender “ etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:14 AM
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What happens when your rival gets a better house than you? I don’t know why certain people would stop working
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:11 AM
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Figurative autism. I just can't wrap my head around why people are so irrational and can't explain their behavior. I also think way too much about small decisions and barely at all about large decisions. Sounds irrational, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 09:00 PM
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Have you ever been to the coast? It's leet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:33 PM
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Still, you might have mistaken flirting for interrogation. First impressions are important and that should be done in person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:44 PM
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You chatted for 30 min? Big mistake! Get her number and meet up, texting is the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 02:39 PM
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Hi, this is a non-edifying question and I would downvote if I had the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 07:49 PM
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Introverts can learn social skills. If you’re not social, how can you expect to meet anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/19 05:52 AM
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I've heard that you just "ask consent" and since "consent is sexy", everything else just falls into place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:22 AM
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I’m not sure why there would be leftovers. I know lots of ugly shitty couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/19 03:36 PM
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It seems like there aren't actually any RP women in this sub because if you go on /r/marriedredpill , it's guys talking about their dread and their plates, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/19 02:51 PM
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Shit, mom's on social media ask to borrow me on her posts about me I totally don't understand this sentence... They ask? to borrow? you on her posts about you?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/19 01:11 AM
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You can’t online date, you just meet online. If the dating doesn’t happen afk, you’re not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 12:13 AM
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Feasted and discarded? You make it sound like they took a piece of her vagina each time and now there is nothing left for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:45 AM
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I don't think so. /r/AskMen recently banned all self-pitying posts (talking about imaginary girlfriends, etc) to favorable response. It's also very protective of saying hurtful things to women. Or did you just mean "pill" subs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 06:06 PM
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I can see that being true, maybe I/men just compartmentalize stress differently or don't get as emotionally involved at work (well that's definitely true) so the quality of the stress is different?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:59 PM
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Women work, which stresses them out, which lowers their libido. When I get stressed out I need a relaxing activity, like sex. Hence the mismatch. If I were wealthy, I could have a wife who didn't need to work and would be more available for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 07:22 PM
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I'm really confused by the hiking and biking answers here... Isn't Tinder for hookups? I've only gone out with a few matches but it was always something sexual on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 12:03 AM
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Late 30s. Are you saying you "wouldn't be doing any of this" meaning fitness? I can't imagine a wife wouldn't want you to look fit.
/r/MGTOW209/07/19 10:19 PM
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I haven't seen that but it wouldn't surprise me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 10:58 PM
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I think Models is a good read. Helps a young man get his shit together without the "women are only for breeding" language you see upvoted on red pill subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:12 PM
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I'm not sure what you're asking. I'm talking about having a party and inviting friends to come to it. Otherwise, people just stay home with their kids watching tv.
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 04:26 PM
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Hmm, I've had the opposite problem my whole life. I had people around in my 20's but since my 30's, I'm practically nonexistent unless I do all the organizing.
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 04:18 PM
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They still aren’t answering the question. What is this person going to do in the woods? What is going to bring them a meaningful life? Are they going to meditate? Ride dirt bikes? Have beastiality?
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 03:46 PM
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I’m not so much worried about dying, it’s the 30 years leading up to it that I don’t want to spend alone.
/r/MGTOW207/07/19 03:42 PM
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Well, what's a better thing to do when you're uninformed than ask questions?
/r/MGTOW206/07/19 10:16 PM
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The biological purpose of sex is pregnancy, not pleasure. A woman can get pregnant about once per year, a men can get different women pregnant potentially every day. That's all biological. You're asking about socialization but I think at some point feminists will have to look beyond sociology for real answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:44 PM
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I see purple as being the reality of red with the empathy of blue. Being natural has nothing to do with the pill color or what percentage they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/19 02:17 AM
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Why enjoyable? You like other people making bad decisions? Also, they aren't 'falling', they are just finding themselves unhappy with what society was encouraging.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 05:53 PM
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Right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/19 02:38 PM
1

Could be... but still...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:15 PM
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Hitting my 30s and seeing my liberal, career-focused, female friends suddenly wanting babies despite not being in relationships with responsible men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:13 PM
5

Yeah, seriously! How soon would you do anal sex if you just spent a whole day squeezing out a nine pound turd? There's some recovery time, dude!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 09:11 PM
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From my experience, liberal, 25 year old women don't want to be anyone's wife anyway. But by the time they are 35 or whatever, they really just want to have a baby. PS. I love it when 20-somethings think they have people and life all figured out. It's very cute to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 02:07 AM
3

Yeah, I'm just always going, "ok... SMV... Shaking my vag?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 10:30 PM
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Side question, what is it with you people and your silly acronyms? I can't google "OLD" because it's a real word so I guess I just have to remain in the dark because I'm not reading redpill lingo every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 07:06 PM
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It’s about being comfortable and exuding it. Read “Models” maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:36 PM
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I'm a great looking dude and I could never get any women interested in me for a long time. It wasn't until I changed my attitude that my situation completely turned around. Inversely, I have friends who are gross but charming and always seem to have cute girls hanging off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 04:19 PM
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In Keanu's case, he probably just doesn't want to touch a bunch of strangers. As for the #metoo feminists are taking over angle... Have any of you looked at the Biden photos? He has both hands around people's necks and going in for a kiss while they are squirming away. It's not even close to something a respectful person does on accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 05:21 PM
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Could be true, seems like a wash or could go either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:43 PM
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I have always heard that a married man with kids is a weaker candidate because he will be less hungry to prove himself and demanding of more work-life balance. Married men complain that the younger guys get better treatment because they will work late and go out with co-workers/clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 06:19 PM
1

I wouldn’t call it clarity, I would Call it being free from my duties
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 03:13 PM
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I would be curious what a working fathers contribution to raising a child is worth to give that more perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 03:29 AM
1

How much do escorts charge for a basic pregnancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 12:04 AM
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An escort is not paid to be monogamous, won’t make out, or go raw dog... or you know, love you, assuming you’re into that. Huge difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/19 08:36 PM
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For all I know she’s an autistic dilbert fanatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 03:57 PM
1

You really want your view changed bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:33 PM
1

What if it's not in the open but you can't break up for financial reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:20 PM
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Now you're a gatekeeper of cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 11:11 PM
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They're denying another person mating opportunities First of all, "mating opportunities?" You mean coitus? What if that isn't the case? What if the other person is also denying them sex? Why are the obligated to break up? What if they choose to stay together because it's not that big of a deal to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 10:47 PM
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why though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 09:23 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 05:21 PM
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So /u/katymarx , What do you think of the original question? Do you think most women are like you or are you unusual? Why do you think there are so many desperate men out there while most women seem (to men) to be indifferent? Why aren't women getting on these message boards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:27 AM
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I get what you're saying but "Allow access" is a disgusting way of putting it. I also find having sex with someone who is merely "allowing access" is completely unenjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 10:26 PM
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so, POWER
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 05:01 PM
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noone having their own place until like 35 years old, it’s no wonder. Did you miss the part where women are still having sex? I doubt they all have their own places.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/19 04:52 AM
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But men increasingly are autists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:27 PM
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Maybe you're only talking about in relationships. I think men also hate when people are faking in job interviews, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:45 AM
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Ok, that's exactly what I meant by community, so it's just down to word choice. You're saying that people should just make mistakes and learn but you also think people should have a strategy/theory? Where does that strategy come from? I'm saying it's good to learn from other people's experiences. Obviously you think so too or you wouldn't be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:43 AM
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I had that weird quote in mind when I wrote what I did. If you're actually trying to do the wrong thing (brush teeth) then you will never "succeed" because you will be analyzing all the wrong things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 04:40 AM
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Do women not mimic in their own way? Also, why is that special for women? Don't men hate fakers too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:51 AM
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If you think communities themselves are problems, why do you identify as 'red pill', isn't that a community identification?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:50 AM
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For me, I think I felt like I was trying when in hindsight I was nowhere close to doing the right things. I didn't understand dating at all and reading RP books told me what it meant to try. If you bring a toothbrush to a boxing ring and you keep losing, it's not for lack of trying. You have stop trying to brush their teeth and start punching. Ok, that was a goofy analogy but some people need to be told what's expected but do well once they know the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 01:48 AM
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I think crashing and burning is what leads to incels and MGTOW. Shouldn't there be some kind of community for giving men some basic expectations about what dating is like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:54 PM
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Women hate mimicry. Umm, can you back this up with something? This is a ridiculous thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:52 PM
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LOL, that's what I did. I went somewhere looking for something better and now I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/19 11:48 PM
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Also, strong men sometimes can't protect women from danger. What's the point? Are you saying women don't want these things?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:47 PM
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"fuck the pain away" and "all of these guys are terrible"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 07:38 PM
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Ok but you're saying one is no causality, one is causality. They could both be causal or non-causal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:48 PM
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I'm just saying "Causal" doesn't have to mean they are depressed because of the sex, it could be the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:30 PM
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to get un-depressed, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:22 PM
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Wouldn't it be causal the other way around? They could be having multiple partners BECAUSE they are depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 06:19 PM
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A person is as valuable as their utility to power
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:35 PM
1

I figured. And hey, he could also be a middle class lover!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 11:02 PM
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Interesting word choice, usually I hear about lesbian sex as synonymous with no sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:42 PM
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I was confused about this for a long time but this is never what is meant by "male privilege". Feminism is concerned with sociological differences, not physical differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:22 PM
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Is it reasonable to think that women using reddit are by definition, not typical women whereas redditing actually is typical of men? Is it even possible know the actual proportion of women in this sub? It seems hard to speak for a gender when we are all anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 08:17 PM
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Hmm, I was honestly a little excited to get a reply from you but I think you may have replied to the wrong comment. Totally understandable, you're obviously writing to a lot of people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:18 AM
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There are good relevant posts upvoted to the top, hopefully that counts more than a few douchebags who want to make everything about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 01:13 AM
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I was googling that to no avail, I finally settled on "post menstrual cycle"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:43 AM
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the average man is a lot harder to deal with than they like to think. A lot of what you've said has really gotten me thinking so I'm trying to give this weird point a shot, too. Every girlfriend/wife I've had seems to go through phases with her friends or co-workers were she hates their guts but the next week or next month, it's like nothing has happened. Men seem to keep their distance more but I don't think there is anything comparable to this- everything is more "little high, little low" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 12:24 AM
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This is the answer I was going to say. In previous generations, wives weren't working jobs full time in addition to taking care of the house and kids. Now everybody is stressed out and resentful that their partner isn't helping more. It makes a bad recipe for a sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:53 PM
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Remember 'shit-tests'? The kind of feminism you are talking about is best understood as a society-wide shit test.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 05:36 AM
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No, this sub is a bunch of sexually frustrated men who have turned to the internet to relieve their stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 04:17 AM
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Can we have a working definition of black pill? Is it just really edgy red pills?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 05:11 AM
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This is a strawman. No one says masculinity itself is toxic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 12:27 AM
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I assured him that yes, it was all very unfeasible, and concluded that he will more probably gift me jewellery. (sp) Was this written as a joke by one of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 08:03 PM
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Are you saying the sentence reads like its trying to say "Women were prevented from having children which was their biggest threat"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 05:37 PM
2

Those are all pop songs, not Christmas songs that have been repeated for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:41 PM
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Ok let me clarify, Jessica Simpson and Lady Gaga aren't going to record cutesy christmas songs for all-ages mainstream audiences about being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 05:14 PM
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Of course. The point is, if the song were really about rape, why would people be doing cutesy christmas duets about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 04:41 PM
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I bet you weren't singing a cutesy song about it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 03:47 PM
2

Are money and diamonds things that are being handed out? Yes plz
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:13 AM
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In his view, sex drive is for a few high status bros
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 04:43 AM
1

You have explaining to do before me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:30 PM
1

Ok, explain what you meant and then we’ll have something to talk about
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 06:14 PM
7

Where are you coming from? This is purplepill, not some mgtow sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:41 PM
1

For sex? What kind of question is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:25 PM
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We need sources all around or this is a baseless conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:24 PM
1

Girls love Ryan Gosling but does he exist in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 09:59 PM
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They taught me that women get aroused when you say the word consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 02:19 AM
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Nope, everybody I know (mid and late30s) is too poor for kids, some of them have kids anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 02:13 AM
1

Can't understand tone of voice? You must not be lifting enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:45 PM
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Thanks for a literal answer! You are apparently the first man to answer the question. Is this the Scott Adams list you mean? http://blog.dilbert.com/2018/01/24/persuasion-reading-list-updated-1-18/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 06:40 PM
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Ok I think your covert communication here translates to "No, I don't know of any books or blogs focusing on that topic, just occasional tidbits here and there."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 04:17 PM
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"Sorry, women. This guy on reddit said you're probably not competent enough to engage with me!" /s but seriously, that's quite different than- Great politicians, military generals, businessmen, salesmen to be sure, and of course master pickup artists all use covert communications to achieve their goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:36 PM
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I would not call TRP focused. It can be about anything ranging from bodybuilding, complaining about feminism, reporting self improvement and dating progress, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 03:01 PM
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Yes, I understand what it is. I'm wondering if there is more to read about it. Are there any writers who focus on this one topic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 02:40 PM
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I have read all the basics, my issue is they get to the point mentioned above and then stop when I wish they would go further. If this is true about communication, isn't it a much bigger deal? Shouldn't there be books entirely on this one subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 02:38 PM
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You're answering your own question. If someone is in a loving marriage, they won't leave their wife. If, however the problems are increasing with time, then maybe the man will leave for the 22 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 09:58 PM
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I have been thinking this the whole time. Wouldn't we all be emotional if we were accused of this? But then his defensive "I don't blackout, do you blackout?" lines and his obvious lying about the slang words makes me not give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 05:12 AM
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You guys, what if purge week never ends? There are no rules, we could be in purge foreverrrrrrrrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 03:11 AM
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Really, they should just make Gorsuch's vote count double. Then they don't have to confirm anyone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:40 PM
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Getting flustered and pissy at a woman is a sign that Kav is not an alpha and couldn't possibly have been a macho athlete rape bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 04:39 PM
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If you could give road head to any fictional character, who would it be and what kind of car would it be in?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 05:44 PM
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Sorry, was there actual communism at some point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 05:34 PM
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I think that's referring to the talk on this sub, not a dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 03:59 AM
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Just pointing out, "whole food" is not the expensive store called Whole Foods.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:29 PM
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Look at ingredients in food boxes. There is so much cheap sugar, cheap gluten, cheap soy and corn packed into all kinds of foods that don't need it. Even in "healthy" stores. It's infuriating to those of us who try to eat right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:07 PM
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I don't think he's saying the environment makes everyone fat but there are lots of environmental toxins which cause raw, natural foods to be less nutritious than they were 20 years ago. Yes, it can be cheaper to eat healthy whole food but this can be an irrelevant point. If you are a college student, you probably have access to a school gym and you likely have good grocery stores nearby and this isn't the case for most people. With inner city living where cheap, packaged food is the norm and car…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:03 PM
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But I would say disaster marriages are the reason things like MRP exists in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 10:43 PM
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No links needed. I wouldn't say cheating is advocated still but I misunderstood "plates" while married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:53 PM
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How did I not get that when I used to read that stuff? This changes my whole question if its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:36 PM
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I guess these men's parents are on MRP...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:29 PM
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"Spinning plates" is just flirting around, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:28 PM
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I mean I haven't been reading it lately but I used to read it. I've never seen anything advocating cheating. It's always 'break up'. I've seen talk about flirting with other women for 'dread' but not actually sleeping around. Is that what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 07:27 PM
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Billy is banging his co-worker. Wifey is drinking at home watching romcoms. Alpha cocks are slamming younger single girls, not housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:11 PM
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Sure but the whole cause of the open marriage is that the wife doesn't want to fuck, she wants to drink wine with girlfriends and watch romcoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:06 PM
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I have never seen MRP advocate cheating. It seems like its considered worse or at least equally bad to an open marriage. You seem to have the same idea as several other people in here that the wife has not lost her sex drive, she just no longer desires her husband. Is it unthinkable that the wife will keep on doing what she does while the husband gets some side-love?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:05 PM
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So you're saying is that opening the relationship would make the previously frigid wife's libido return when she has new options?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:02 PM
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That is far from a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:01 PM
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men have a much more difficult time getting casual sex than women. While I agree with the above, you're also implying that the actual cause of the dead bedroom is not the lack of woman's sex drive but just a lack of desire for her husband. I think it's more the case that the woman has no interest in sex and the man already has someone interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:00 PM
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62% is still embarrassing compared to men who are probably >99%. I can only speak for my own relationship but the sex being good has nothing to do with whether my wife wants it. When I'm stressed, I want sex to chill out. When she's stressed, she wants nothing to do with it. And because we both are adults, we get stressed a lot and then the problem moves to the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:52 PM
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It sounds like you have a good philosophy on that. I would just hope, though, that if he were really doing something wrong, you wouldn't take unnecessary blame on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:02 AM
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Ok, so in another part of this thread, you said this- I have shared way more negative things about my relationship with women on IRC than I EVER would with any men here. How does that go with this? Talking poorly about my husband to anyone is disloyal. Especially in a forum where he cannot defend himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:39 AM
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Ok, here is the other person who said disloyal earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:18 AM
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I'm new to this sub but I keep seeing the word 'disloyal' thrown around a lot. What does this mean here? Is talking about something to internet strangers really so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 10:29 PM
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What part of the text is 'badmouth'-ing? The first half is about how wonderful the wife is. Then its about the guy's own feelings of being miserable. He's not calling her names or accusing her of cheating or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:01 PM
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Certainly you don't want badmouth your spouse but framing it as a 'relationship issue' that you're both having and you're looking for perspective seems very common to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:33 PM
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You don't think friends usually vent to each other about relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:03 PM
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Chill, man. It's all food you can eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 10:07 PM
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ITT: let's ignore what this person is asking and judge them instead! I guess people are going after your medium and not your message?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 09:06 PM
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Individuals have a choice but an entire gender does not. Women are the gender that has to give birth to babies. I'm sorry that was so confusing for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 08:37 PM
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At this point I'm mostly just wondering what you think my agenda is. This sub seems like a good place to be in between agendas or to figure out other points of view. It seems like I must come off as aggressive to you because you're definitely coming off as defensive to me. I'm sure I've soaked up a lot of viewpoints from society as a whole but I'm not aware of whatever cause I'm preaching for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 08:36 PM
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You keep saying that I'm ignoring your points but the problem is that you keep bringing up things that sound contradictory. If a man's role is politics, power, labour and warfare, doesn't that put them in a more powerful position than women? Hence, women being disadvantaged and wanting to start a feminist movement? We don't have to continue this but I don't know why you don't see why this doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 06:05 PM
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That's called Sugar Daddies. It's more common than people talk about. My wife has several younger friends who do these arrangements sometimes. It definitely happens for exchanges of sex and shopping trips but outside of that, the two people have no use for each other. I live in a major city and I often see at least one couple like this any time I go out. As for why its not the most common, see the Muhammed Li comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 04:26 PM
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You're begging the question again. Why does being weaker make them less able to vote? Old men are frail but they still get to vote. Rich men don't fight in wars but they still get to vote. It sounds like you're saying that women have some other sexual or psychological power that balances out a relative lack of physical strength. I still don't get why that would prohibit them from voting. Do you think men are afraid of women's strange, sexy/psycho powers and didn't want them to vote? And if so, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 10:36 PM
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Just because women might be disadvantaged in some respects doesn't mean they are disadvantaged overall. I agree. But I don't see how my question is falling apart- Why would having weaker backs mean that women shouldn't vote? There's no amount of me thinking that's going to tell me what your worldview is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 09:47 PM
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By physical, I mean physical strength. I have no idea what a physical intellect would be. I don't think the question falls apart. Why would having weaker backs mean that they can't vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 08:48 PM
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I'm not telling you what I believe because I'm not trying to change your mind, I'm curious about how your view works. It sounds like you are saying that sexism occurs about equally for both men and women in different ways. So women weren't sent to war: Do we agree that women generally have a physical disadvantage? Or maybe it was also because women are potential child-bearers and needed protection? Either of those makes sense to me. But why do you think sexism meant women couldn't vote or own pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 08:35 PM
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You say a couple times that I'm arguing but I don't believe I have made any argument. I'm asking questions that you aren't answering. Why do you think women weren't allowed to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 07:37 PM
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I feel like some major question-begging is going on here. So if gender marginalization is a myth, why weren't women voting or fighting in wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 05:33 PM
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Nope he's pretty average
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 06:56 AM
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All of the above except I'm not sure what passionate beliefs he has, he's definitely a slacker.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 01:50 AM
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Since you were married, I'll assume you were into MRP. What's weird about those guys is when you read their own posts about all their weights they lifted and all the dread they raised... it still wasn't really wasn't getting them more sex. When they do finally 'attain sex', they treat it like they just leveled up and this amazing thing happened. And then they go and write a weird poem for other men to read in a support group on the internet. So I ask what's this all about? Are you actually getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 01:48 AM
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I have a friend who is a filthy hippy feminist and he gets all kinds of women. His hair and clothes are rarely washed and he smells like butt cheese. Somehow, women don't care. Like, classy women. One friend of mine is this wealthy editor and she went out with him several times. I have seen him in action. He is not a pickup artist and doesn't have any kind of game. He is just very friendly and sort of goofy. All these RP guys worship the gym and talk about how much everyone needs to lift. It's g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 01:26 AM
0

Taking testosterone is expensive, potentially harmful, and yes, there is a shady aspect to a lot of the doctors selling it in their specialty clinics. I'm not claiming to be a scientist but somatotypes are way more scientifically accepted than anything in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 10:00 PM
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Don't take a bunch of garbage from shady doctors. You probably don't need testosterone. Look up "ectomorph workout". You probably just have a different kind of body type that requires more food and more full-body workouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 08:44 PM
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Those were two parts of one thought. It sounds like you disagree with the premise that women are disadvantaged so I don't know why you think feminism even came about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:12 AM
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Ok, we can go in circles on the 70s thing but I'm content to leave it. Why would women need to be marginalized in order to necessitate feminism? Aren't women biologically disadvantaged before being marginalized by society?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 12:41 AM
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Well, if we're going to talk about something from the 70s, it seems only fair to list women's issues from the 70s as well. Otherwise, you make some interesting points.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 09:29 PM
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Military conscription? What is this, the 70s? No mention of women having weird health issues, having to carry and give birth to babies, and have recurring hormonal episodes?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 09:21 PM
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I'm not clear on how this is fallacious against feminism- Aren't working class men still more privileged than working class women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 08:39 PM
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I was in a relationship with a HSD but I wasn't always attracted to her and sometimes I couldn't keep up which was frustrating. Eventually I married someone really hot with a LSD (nice acronym) because I can always just entertain myself when she's not in the mood. It's not great either way but at least other people can envy me and that's what life is all about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 03:01 PM
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Sure I wasn't picky back then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 04:56 AM
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Well sure, eventually I did win. Remember when I said I got comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:25 AM
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Are we talking about 20 year old girls who want to party or 30 year old girls who want a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:27 AM
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This was exactly my story. My female friends constantly complained about creepy guys asking them out or making moves so I never dared reveal that I had feelings about girls until I was sure they liked me, which never happened. A little TRP gave me a lot more confidence to be comfortable about showing attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:26 AM
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Well, lots of people already think capitalism is oppressive so maybe it's not a point worth arguing but in the context of our discussion, I think what you're saying may be close to the reality in that companies are WAY more selective about who they hire than the applicants are about where they would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 06:32 PM
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Don't you think it's the same with a job? Is it oppressive that Google doesn't want to hire me for a top position because I'm not in the top 20% of smart people?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 06:14 PM
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Not all discrimination is bad. If someone isn't the hardest worker, isn't that a good reason not to hire them? Do you count that as oppression also?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 06:01 PM
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I get how it's unequal but how is it oppression? A person can change how attractive they are, especially a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 05:15 PM
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that's interesting, I'll check it out
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 10:54 PM
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So maybe I should make a post asking about other subs?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 06:33 PM
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No one here has any reading comprehension. When did I ever say ALL women? This has been a complete waste of time.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 06:32 PM
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I thought it was funny, sorry. Thanks for the links, I'll give them a try
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 02:56 AM
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Learning to communicate productively with "women" on reddit doesn't have to be any harder than learning to communicate productively with your wife So I just have to find a sub full of people who are married to my wife...
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 01:03 AM
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Why do you think redpill exists in the first place? Don't you think every man in there has tried being honest and listening and found it to be ineffective?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 12:55 AM
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Ok we can talk about whether people are individuals or groups but I'm basically hearing a "no" to my original question.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 12:30 AM
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Concepts like hamstering, shit tests, "Women don't love who we are, they love how we make them feel", never engage a woman who's picking a fight. I'm using heteronormative in a very flippant way but I mean that my wife is a stereotype woman. She is more than that but she is also that. She responds very favorably to the kinds of tips people have in that sub whereas before, we just got in a lot of unproductive fights (the kind of which I have never had with a man). I fully understand that there ar…
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 12:25 AM
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I don't know where you're coming from with this. If we were in a feminist thread and someone was saying that many women feel intimidated men who could overpower them, would you say "hey now, let's leave room for them to be individuals, they have nothing in common but their genitals"?
/r/ExRedPill25/07/18 12:08 AM
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In a perfect world, sure. But people are raised in an imperfect society and they develop imperfectly out of that.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/18 11:08 PM
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God, this is depressing. I didn't say anything close to that.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/18 11:02 PM
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Ok, this is the AskMen attitude I've been running into. Saying that people are different does not imply that they are a lesser species. Do you really think that women's communication styles and outlooks aren't distinguishable from men's? Do women have nothing uniquely in common with each other that can be learned from? Don't you think that women are socialized differently and by different people? Of course women aren't a monolith, I'm talking about tendencies.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/18 09:22 PM
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