pastelitosimpatico Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	After this, she is still unsure if she should leave. The way this is narrated is so fucked up I wonder if it's a porn sick troll	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 12:34 PM
21	A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it. Met a guy recently that even looks so similar to Mark. All his behaviors were spot on: How he presents himself, how he is quick to appear as the blue prince, how he repeats everything you say but with different words and trying to mimic you. Fuuuuuuucking scary my dude.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 07:56 PM
8	We deserved to be protected. We deserved to be stood up for. We deserved to be treated with respect and kindness. I'm so glad we have this community. I validate you and I appreciate your strength sister. I hope you are healthy and safe now. You deserve love, nurture and support. In my personal experience I did not ever suffered domestic violence by a partner, but my heart is always with the women who did, with women and girls out there wishing for someone to save them. I have assumed as a duty to never leave a woman behind who is sharing her suffering to the world.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 06:43 PM
11	I did it. (TW: r*pe) I love your strength and fierceness sister! Thank YOU.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 05:11 PM
9	How I went from side character to main character in less than a year I love this so much! Posts like this helps us who are still absorbing all the wisdom and trying to practice it. I'm so glad everything's working out for you! About the community you are absolutely right!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/10/21 12:12 AM
60	Who’s watched Maid on Netflix. It's amazing! I love how they represent severe depression because it feels exactly like that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 02:39 AM
16	Make sure you are his first option. Men can fake and pretend you’re his #1 because they’re lonely, when in fact you aren’t the one they want. I mean that sucks, I hope you are okay and don't feel bad about it. At least he didn't wait for longer to say it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/21 11:11 PM
7	Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shit Oh my my 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 06:38 PM
124	Buzzfeed pushing dangerous LV shit To me this sounds like: -The woman wasn't even attracted to the man in the first place. -She needs to relearn about how to listen to her intuition. Which can perfectly help you in deciding if you are sexually compatible to someone. -Common sense. -Learn how to better please herself. -Have more normal dates and meet more people instead of fucking strangers. -Love herself more...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/21 04:57 AM
21	Case Study: The fortysomething year old "PICK ME". I'll even give a you a TLDR: I had sex with a man on the first date even though I was not attracted to him or even felt a connection. He feels the same way, but asked to have sex with me again. I felt ill reading the part of the first kiss. What a creep. I would expect this from very very young men like 20 to 28 yo, being clumsy and in love with the woman, but he said he wasn't interested in her so... I've been in her exact same position and they respected me and never tried to kiss me, . In my experience men who are not worth your time at all feel ENTITLED to any kind of physical touch. Or if you let yourself be touched like this you just enter their twisted "whore or Madonna" view.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/10/21 06:57 PM
61	I finally said NO to a narcissist Yeeees, love to read things like this. I'm so proud of you! Cheers! We come first 🥂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/21 10:01 PM
15	Using the carrot and stick approach to neg and emotionally abuse. 🚩🚩🚩 No surprise! Men like these barely like something about them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/10/21 03:11 PM
21	we hold SO Much power over men. even if you are partnered up already or not interested in a relationship at all, you can still empower women (and yourself) by spreading the fds messages. Yes yes YES ! How to spread the world without causing the opposite effect though?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 09:51 PM
47	Listen to your guts, ladies Put YOURSELF first, no matter what you are top #1 priority. It's soo easy to fall into the trap of not wanting to hurt the other person and walking on eggshells, it's not your job to be too careful of not hurting people by setting boundaries, set those MF boundaries tall as fuck, fuck them, fuck that pression of putting other people first and ignoring your uncomfort.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 07:55 PM
89	Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭 I decided to be celibate and single too! Feeling the best I have ever been in my life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 07:36 PM
93	Are we starting to see the slow decline of hookup culture? Sisters are waking up…uh oh scrotes 🤭 You don't have to force yourself through and it's ok back off even if you are at the edge of having sex or PiV if you aren't even enjoying yourself, and any decision regarding this should be respected. Like it is just as easy as that, sex doesn't have to be all about PiV, it's about feeling safe, cared, nurtured, sexy, where even just kissing feels amazing, where every touch matters and it isn't just a forced foreplay for PiV, and where the two of you are there to be vulnerable, caressed and lov…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 07:35 PM
8	No words. Rest in beautiful peace, Agnes Some people don't realize that extraordinary, strong, talented and amazing women can be a target of abuse. No one deserves to be killed by someone they trusted as much as to marry them/being a partner. Which makes me believe "partner" is just a concept being thrown away like it doesn't truly matters among some people. Truly sad, rip.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 05:06 PM
40	HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from Reddit I know! The comments are so terrible I thought the same, like they enjoy stories of women crying after experiences like this "oh yeah that's actually very empowering don't jUdGe" they are basically saying she deserves all that awful experience! Absolutely zero empathy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 03:40 PM
44	HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from Reddit I mean... People criticizing him are all "she can have all the casual sex she wants blablabla" Did they not read the part where he found her CRYING? Man, those comments suck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 03:28 PM
2	FDS is BACK! Omgg 😭😭😭 I NEED this sub. I need this community. This is the only community where I truly feel safe to share what I believe in. I've encountered irl feminist groups but they are all liberal feminism where they basically love to put men first.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 04:26 PM
1	Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times. He's stupid	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 01:20 AM
3	Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times. I hope the girl finds it and then goes to the police	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 01:17 AM
2	If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you. Literally this! This dude told me once he was "a bit narcissistic" and on phonecalls would say crazy and mean things, when I would confront him he would play dumb and make me believe I was crazy and hallucinating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 12:13 AM
1	If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you. Omg this one dude would keep on telling me if I knew who Dexter was, trying to explain me the series. That I liked him because he was like DiCrapio's character in The Wolf of Wall Street and etc etc. Girl. I was so f infatuated it hurts now from just remembering	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 12:11 AM
1	If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you. Oh my god. I've tried my best to learn this lesson. Many people tell I look like a really heartwarming person and tbh I don't know what they mean but it's been a long road learning to not trust everyone (lmao) I'm thankful for the people who have the balls to face their ugly side and be honest about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 12:03 AM
8	As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies??? Disgusting!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/21 02:48 PM
41	I don’t even desire sex with a man anymore That's why I love so much the term scrote	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 02:51 AM
24	Reality of a future with any scrote that uses porn. This poor woman. That's not a safe environment for her kid...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/21 02:43 AM
88	Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave. I hated the sc so much I almost downvote your post sis lmao this is is so pathetic	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/21 01:04 AM
153	Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life? This 100% I met a guy who seemed HV, yet he would keep pushing little by little my boundaries (too much love bombing even though I told him I wasn't feeling comfortable). And THEN he would be like: "Has anyone ever treated you like you were their priority?" To keep things short, he wanted to give me this "I can give you everything you asked for in a man" vibe, but when I told him I would not have sex with him, (Because he was sending me semi nudes and talking a lot about sex even THO he said at …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/21 08:37 PM