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pastillarouge/r/askTRP12/02/18 09:49 AM
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If I were you, I'd go to social events with alcohol to find girls to make out with. That's how I got better. Plus sometimes she's drunk enough that she won't remember your kisses. A couple of suggestions I would give are: Read the mood. If it's a cool, sensual moment make sure to go slow and do small nibbles and subtle tongue action. Mix this with a warm handling of her body (feel her hips, her ass, her back. Hold her closer and closer to your body). Warm up the engine before going full throttle…
/r/askTRP12/02/18 08:27 AM
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My first time was disaster, although in hindsight it was a valuable learning experience. The girl I was with is a solid 7/10, great body but a butter face. I couldn't get it hard though because 1. I had fapped a lot the night before 2. I was wearing a condom and 3. That same night, I had me a couple of shots of whiskey. When nothing happened she felt a little bad for me. I managed to blame my lack of performance on the alcohol. Later on, on our later meet ups, I managed to fuck her good by not c…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:50 PM
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It's always good to start with a strong foundation. Make sure to dress well (see here) and always be lifting. Men respond better and more positively to other men who look like they've earned the respect they demand and expect. With that said, after having tried what you mentioned I would just hold frame, befriend the guy, be cool with him, and enjoy the rest of my night and not getting results, I would insult back. Maybe tease them back about their focus on you. Note, don't show that they've got…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:12 AM
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I think I'll try that route and get craiglists professional photos done for that ~$50. Did you have 3 different uniforms/wardrobes for your 3 pro photos? 3 different locations too? How tall are you? Thanks for your input! I'm disappointed I missed yours though (no homo) but I understand you wanting to stay anonymous and not get doxxed.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 08:14 PM
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http://archive.is/o93Tj From r.trp itself
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:58 PM
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I have felt the need to keep texting so that I could stay on her radar. I used to think this too. This is the perfect way to display neediness though. Think of texting as bumper cars, the more you pursue her, the farther you push her away. Like user pitchfork says, any attraction that you can provoke in her should be done in person. Find a way to meet up with her again (without excessive texting). If she's not pulling her weight in trying to make a meeting happen, then it's a lost cause. Just mo…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:47 PM
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user anusbleach has a great point. Just let yourself go and be aware of your surroundings. A rowdy bar or house party isn't the time nor place for deep convos. Practice shooting the shit with your friends and being a bit over the top, funny and facetious. Embrace it. I tend to be a serious person who prefers deep conversations with few people. I would even say to try to change this description of yourself to incorporate the above. You can be a serious person if need be but you can also rip on yo…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:39 PM
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Just to clarify my point: I don't mean that you can't have special moments and even secrets with women or that you can't prioritize certain female attachments over other male attachments, I just mean that if you need someone for advice or mentorship, or even somebody to be vulnerable around, never choose a woman. If you do, it'll come back to bite you in the ass. The relationship will forever be soured because she'll no longer see you as the stoic rock that she can lean on during tough times. Sh…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 11:26 PM
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I would add on that no women can truly be a valued friend. Sure, they are great for companionship and sex, but if you need a confidant or somebody to talk about your troubles, only a fellow red pill brother would do.
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:53 PM
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Dude, when it's your ass on the line (you'll be working with her on a big project in 2 months), fuck that. I'd snitch on her faster than a post-wall slut finds a beta-bux. If you have a boss that values hard work and everyone contributing to projects and tasks, then he'll understand. She's not pulling her weight so why should you babysit her? I would avoid doing it in a whiny or petty way though. Straight talk, no-bs is the best way. Hopefully you have this sort of communication down with your b…
/r/askTRP13/05/17 04:44 PM
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Thanks for your input. It has been really well told and invaluable.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 08:17 AM
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Take comfort in the fact that women are huge flakes. That's just their nature. That's just how it is. They see another shiny toy and focus their attention on that and lose sight of everything else. Don't take it personal. Either, in a next encounter with her restart the momentum in having her attracted to you, or move on.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 07:53 AM
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I would just pick a date that's solely convenient for you. You: Let's meet up Sunday at X 7:30 Her: Yeah that sounds great! ^or Sorry, I can't do Sunday. How about (a date that works for her)? You can either agree if you have an open time at her suggestion or offer another time. The gist of this is that she'll be wanting to change her schedule around to meet you. If she's not in that position yet then you should have worked harder/smarter in attracting her before having texted her. Remember, tex…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 07:44 AM
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This is excellent advice. I particularly like the post you provide in #4. However, I've shared this one many times before and I feel like it's equally as helpful. It sure has helped me a lot.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 08:15 PM
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This to the fullest. I'm 29 and I look back to when I was 19-20 19-26. So many opportunities wasted and ignored. I shouldn't be complaining as I'm not even 30 yet but the feeling of regret is a powerful thing.
/r/askTRP07/05/17 04:57 PM
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Exactly. Without that initial self-improvement and DHV spike, OP would've had people contacting him to get a free ride and not to build friendships/relationships. His advice is good though but just as a sword is nearly useless when it's blunt, a huge network is quite ineffective if you have low SMV.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 06:25 PM
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[deleted] ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^<sup>0.4566</sup>
/r/askTRP28/12/16 10:37 PM
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/r/askTRP12/12/16 11:12 AM
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Basically this. OP, Watch what she does not what she says.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 07:26 AM
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Have you seen this? Race to the Top: A Guide for Low-SMV Minorities
/r/askTRP09/12/16 07:19 AM
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Dude, if she were single I would tell you to be more aggressive and direct in displaying your attraction towards her. I say this because this was a huge problem of mine in high school and it seems like a similar thing for you. Really big props to you though for making her laugh and keeping the mood light though. Since she's not single though and because of the fact that her boyfriend is your friend and you seem to both have mutual respect for each other, I would advise to not get too attached to…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 06:17 AM
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It seems like his Insta was an extension of his Tinder. If your natural of a friend is not super handsome, he probably has really interesting, fun pics of him doing cool things. Maybe he's super jacked too. Also maybe he has cute girls in his Insta pics? That foments competition amongst the ladies really well. Could you elaborate on what you saw on your friends Insta?
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:54 AM
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Pretty much what I'm thinking. I suggest he ask her out in person though. You can definitely own it more over a person to person conversation than over text messages.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:46 AM
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I say definitely ask her out. She's not a coworker and it's not like you'll be obligated to see her everyday since you say you change therapists every semester. You've got nothing to lose. I do advise that you ask her out in person though, not over text. Show up early (or around lunch) to a therapy session one day and casually drop by her office/desk first and just tell her you'd like to take her out one day. Be direct but also fun. Doing it in person is better because it shows you've got nothin…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:44 AM
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True. I didn't word my comment in the best way so I thank you for clarifying my point.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 05:06 AM
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Good advice here. OP, everyone else will be preoccupied with their shit so take comfort in the fact that not everyone's focus will be on you all the time. Alternatively though, try to take this opportunity to practice opening crowds and enthralling your audience. Back in school, I used to be like you. I would shake, turn red and sweat a lot every time I had to give a presentation. The anxiety and subsequent embarrassment would kill me. It didn't help that I always a quiet kid, so finding my voic…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 12:41 PM
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Are you pursuing other women? It's the best way to really push her out of your mind. Be active in chasing/gaming other women. This'll inevitably attract her as she'll start to naturally feel competitive the more successful you are. Remember, don't do it for her (to try to get out of the friendzone) Do it for yourself! Just keep ignoring her, work on self improvement and lift. If there's a risk that you'll lose her as friend due to your 'aloofness', then so be it. You're not there to be her frien…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 10:58 AM
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I told her I would make a move on the 8, she shamed me saying she looked like a child ... Why did you notify her in the first place? Were you trying to seek her approval? Also, never let women shame you into pursuing women 'your own age' (i.e. women hitting/about to hit the wall). I'm almost 30 and I when the opportunity presents itself, I unashamedly go for girls as young as 18 (although with tact too). Pretty much don't listen to any advice from women on picking up other women. They are simply…
/r/askTRP05/12/16 12:22 PM
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Yeah for men tattoos can signify many different things: rebelliousness & defiance, battle scars & memories, associations & affiliations, etc. Plus they look cool if they're well done/unique. For women, tattoos are like really short hair. It's unfeminine. Just like Longer Hair >>> Shorter Hair, No Tattoos >>> (any) Tattoos.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 06:35 AM
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The general rule is that you can't build attraction through text/electronic communication. So continuing to "text back and forth" will end up being counterproductive.* If I were in your shoes, I would soft next her and next time you visit your friend, text her to invite her to whatever fun thing you and your friend are doing. Continue escalating with her as before and then try to fuck her. *The only exception to this that I can think of is if your social media is on point. If you have awesome pi…
/r/askTRP28/11/16 02:05 AM
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Don't shit where you eat. Don't dip your pen in the company ink well. Don't try to hookup with coworkers/people from work.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 08:00 PM
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Exactly this. I realized that for a long time I was simply not aggressive and forward enough. An occasion of awkwardness and rejection is soooo much better as a learning experience than being cautious and having the night end with "...what if"s, "I'll escalate more next time we meet" and lost chances. In the case of mattyanon's comment, be Guy A. In order to avoid her ambiguity, Guy B doesn't exist. Guy B is dead. Always, always assume attraction. Always.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 06:29 PM
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Fuck marriage. It was for when people never slept around. That's thanks to feminism. I forgot where I read the this quote, but it really does apply: "Feminism has created a generation of women not worth saving."
/r/askTRP09/10/16 09:23 PM
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Discipline, strict time management, a whole lot of sacrifice and not losing your resolve . Also check out this thread http://archive.is/DYGaA. My favorite comment: If it were easy, everyone would be doing it. Good luck
/r/askTRP03/10/16 07:50 AM
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Yeah, a bunch of pansies in here telling op to tell the truth because "imagine if she cheated on you!" yadda yadda. smh The guy you responded to hit the nail on the head: Men and Women are not the same. Might seem like a bunch of white knights are in here because it's asktrp which tends to attract a lot of newbies.
/r/askTRP02/10/16 06:02 AM
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I see your point of view and I agree that overall it's better to be honest but consider this different outlook: From an evolutionary standpoint, it's WAY worse for a women to be sexually unfaithful than a man simply because there exists a high probability that the man will get cuckolded. He'll end up raising an offspring that isn't his and thereby be a loser and not pass on his genes. If a man fucks around with other girls on the side, so what? He's just having a bit of fun and scratching an itc…
/r/askTRP02/10/16 05:55 AM
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You mentioned a lack of data. Here's an old okcupid (IIRC) chart on reply rates of people of different ethnicities. The reply rate of asian women to black men messages is the lowest of all the interactions. Just thought I'd point that out since it's relevant to your concern. http://i.imgur.com/VjyVpGe.jpg
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 07:44 AM
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It's possible but not probable to cultivate and sustain a redpill marriage in a blue pill culture. A lot of my relatives have redpill marriages here in America, and they make it work. But with a lot of the girls I grew up with, went to school with, and work with, I'd say my chances of having a redpill marriage are slim to none. Hence, the good advice: Do Not Marry
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 11:49 PM
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I don't condone selling off daughters or arranged marriages. I'd just like to see a change in culture such that young women look forward to finding a husband when they're in their prime. Or when/if they're off to college, it's okay to look for a Mrs. degree in addition to getting their schooling done. Or when they think they do find Mr. Right, that they seek their father's approval. A culture in which woman's chastity is highly regarded. Back in the old days, this was pretty common. I think that…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 10:26 PM
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Yeah no kidding. Back in the old country, my mother was married at 16. It worked for my parents then, but that certainly wouldn't fly nowadays. I think 18-20 years old is the sweet spot for girls today. Although that doesn't guarantee she'd be a good redpill ltr. Edit: wording/grammar
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 02:45 PM
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In the short term, I think that you're right. While they're young, they waste their youth and beauty doing the standard thing that they're wont to do: ride the cc, artificially (but not actually) increase their SMV by pursuing high-powered, stressful corporate gigs/degrees or divorce rape unsuspecting fools left and right for that sweet, sweet alimony $$. It's probably a lot of fun for them. It's after this time that a lot (not all) realize that they've played themselves. This is where Western S…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 02:41 PM
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Here is the original thread in case folks want to the see the shit show that is r.videos: http://archive.is/eCNle
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 09:12 PM
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Exactly this. Without a Facebook, there's no tinder or bumble etc. I use Instagram similarly and it does help with preselection and DHVs. Pro tip to those really considering deleting their Facebook cold turkey: unfollow everyone who you're friends with on Facebook. I mean everyone. That way you never see updates on anyone and your not tempted to comment on a status or like a picture or whatever. All that's left is a barren and empty feed.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 11:35 PM
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Never compliment a girl on her looks. She gets enough of them from thirsty betas. Again, never compliment.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 06:08 PM
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Like others have said, female friends are a good thing. When life is good and you are doing well (abundance mentality, fit, good standard of living, etc.) and you're obviously not hamstering yourself into being an orbiter, having female friends is a plus. It's when you need to confide in someone or talk about serious issues that a trusted male friend is ultimately what you need and want. Remember, if you're feeling down and/or stressed out any female (except maybe your Mom... maybe) that you see…
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:21 PM
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Just to piggyback off of your reply this seems to make a lot of sense to me and perhaps it could give you and others some good insight: https://np.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/3ydy5n/improvingskyrocketing_your_smv_outside_your/ Especially this excerpt (although the whole post is worth a read): Acquire qualities that other women seem to be oblivious to and skyrocket your SMV. Use your wits to be better. I read a thread on a forum once where men were discussing how unfeminine women are and h…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/16 09:16 PM
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Best advice here To OP, /u/RedArgonaut : I can totally relate to your college experience and employment struggles. Instead though, I studied business (also had a shit gpa) and after college, I had a number of 'lost years' where I wasn't really productive, lived at home, basically an incel neet. I ended up getting a job in business in my hometown but it was unfulfilling and lonely. I was the youngest person there by far and my actual tasks there were boring and repetitive. It was miserable. Now t…
/r/askTRP23/07/16 08:55 PM
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Is your strategy more for finding a LTR or a ONS? I think that it's an efficient and satisfactory one for sure, however it seems more of the former than the latter to me. Since my goals are slightly skewed more toward getting my dick wet than finding a LTR, I'd do all the filtering online instead of quick 30-45 minute dates. As it has been said scores of times on r.TheRedPill before, when it comes to online dating you have to let your profile "do the talking" and pique her interest and curiosity…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 11:41 PM
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Best advice here. Good and concise. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 05:56 PM
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Reading OP's plea for help really reminded me of myself in college. Brings back a lot of sad but important memories. Well, at least one user (probably someone who's been RP'ed) had given him useful information. OP hasn't replied to this one yet but hopefully he reads it and takes it to heart. I'll paste what that user posted here: see me as this sexless loser so they feel non threatened There is a good chance they don't really see you at all. Perhaps like a useful puppy. Do they really know anyt…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 07:25 PM
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“It's supposed to be hard. If it were easy, everyone would do it.” Also what others are saying. Find a passion that helps with motivation and drive. Sleep plenty, eat well and lift and run. Good luck.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 03:22 PM
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The advice about speech, dress from mconfounded and 50pluspiller is really good. Follow it. Also, an incredible write-up that is super useful (read all of this): https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2jqjzr/race_to_the_top_a_guide_for_lowsmv_minorities/cleaok9 Added bonus (this may or may not apply to you): https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ltv5n/short_dude_game_part_1_im_55_and_being_short_isnt/
/r/askTRP29/05/16 06:22 PM
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Hmm... yeah I agree with you. There's no challenge or opportunity for improvement if she's legitimately not attractive at all. I'd suggest frequenting places where there are simply more non-chocolate girls. Maybe different bars/clubs or other parts of town where there are more of the kinds of girls that you're interested in. Then again, be social, be the fun guy that people want to be around. Be ready to retreat though if she's being too stubborn.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 11:57 PM
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Hear hear. Couldn't have said it better myself. OP should really pay attention to this comment.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 10:43 PM
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I would even go so far as letting his actions speak for him instead of texting. Next time she wants to hang out, he should oblige and go. While with her, just start treating her like a plate, escalate, etc. If she's DTF, he's got a plate. If not, he should just leave, use "Something came up and I gotta go", and soft next her. No contact from there on out. With the relationship over, he should be on the prowl for other chicks, LTR or plates.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:25 PM
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I hear that. The frustration is real but it's important to know how to channel that into productive self-improvement. After having read your comment again, I recall a post I saved from RPW that might apply to what the 35 year old BB archetype that you alluded to might be thinking. It won't be seen by many but I still think it's worth an x-post because of it's relevancy. Here is the link followed by it copied: https://archive.is/HeKYM OP u_LadyLumen's post: Anyone here ever surprised by the kinds…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 04:51 PM
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You bring up a good point. For some guys, you can only concentrate so much on your career, dreams and hobbies until you realize that you aren't happy with the amount of "hot women" that you're attracting. I think that that's why it's important to also focus on your Game (part PUA stuff and part mastering and maintaining the right Frame (in addition to the obvious RP tenets: lifting, good voice & body language, dressing well, etc ). If you have a career and a hobby that are conducive to improving…
/r/askTRP27/08/15 07:37 PM
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I would say so. You're priority is to make yourself happy first. It should be 'happy husband, happy life'. By extension, she'll then be happy: a good, strong rp relationship.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:08 PM
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For anyone who cares or is interested, she posted a follow up... here it is quoted. I [31f] came clean with my [34m] fiancee. Good news: Polygraph test is off. Bad news: So is the wedding. submitted by ___ First of all thanks to everyone who was supportive and had good advice and kind words for me. Even those of you who were rude and mean ended up adding to my decision to discuss this with Barry last night. We were at a very nice bar/restaurant for drinks with friends, and once they left Barry a…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 04:11 PM
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This was very well written. Thank you for your contribution. On a related note, did this happen to you pre-TRP? Or while you were swallowing the pill? I think it just goes to show how important a work-life balance is. If you had a life (and girls) outside of work, the abundance mentality would've let you see that she was just trying to reel you in as an orbiter.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 02:00 AM
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How did you end up getting burned at your workplace?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 01:43 AM
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Thanks for you reply. OP's advice is good but for a beginner like me, your tips are what have helped me make measurable progress so far. Ultimately though, I think a combination of both could bring about a lot of success.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 03:54 AM
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might want to put a NSFL tag on that bro
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 07:56 PM
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Good reply, however I would add that you just don't text back. Just ignore the text and if she brings it up later in person just say that you're really busy. Also, just see what happens if I make a move. if Don't be so hesitant. If you want to bang her, be direct and "make a move" i.e. show your intentions (kino, flirt, etc.). If she doesn't reciprocate learn from it and move on.
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