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Thank you. Is this real? I'm still in shock from the developer getting fired... I knew Feminism in tech was bad but not this bad. You know what would make a good portlandia episode... A hipster tumblr feminist traveling back in time and getting in serious confrontation with REAL 60's sexual revolution hippies.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 04:29 AM
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I just learned about the ada initiative from your post. Do you have a link to where it says men thinking or talking about sex harms women? I'm not getting any good search results. I'm not doubting you, I'm curious.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 02:08 AM
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Posts like this is what makes me come back and read /r/MensRights. Thank you.
/r/MensRights21/03/13 01:00 AM
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I wish that Feminism wasn't a hate movement and really was about caring for mothers, wives daughters and equality (of opportunity). EDIT: to the Feminists down voting. Tell me how patriarchy and objectification "theories" does not lead to hate or at least resentment? Please do not confuse real patriarchy with feminist patriarchy "theory" in your response. The ultimate Feminists are the radicals. If patriarchy "theory" says that women have been perpetually oppressed no wonder they are thinking of…
/r/MensRights21/03/13 12:24 AM
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My apologies for spamming /r/MensRights with this stuff but I remembered this transfobic RadFem comment from the Hacking my Vagina post. I figured I post this since we are talking about the crazy in tech and I see this happening around/near the Hacker News community. The following comment was copied from HN. Warning: this is not a politically correct viewpoint, but nevertheless it's my perspective. The actual best thing about this post being in first place on Hacker News is not that it's a woman…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 05:24 AM
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Here are some examples Startup dudes: Cut the sexist crap - Grab your pitchforks someone called a woman sexy. Check the profile of Dan Shapiro. The Woman in the Facebook Frat House Notes from UPenn's Forum on Brogramming and Sexism in Computer Science - re-frame the term "Brogramming" in to something that is sexist against women but no mention of it having any negative connotation against men. Written by a feminist. "Lighten up" - check some of the comments. "Women who enforce the patriarchy" co…
/r/MensRights20/03/13 01:13 AM
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My experience with women in tech has been good. However, I feel the chills when I read about guys getting bullied by white knights and feminists. I can see people being afraid of hiring women due to the possibility of bad PR. It's sad that feminists and white knights haven't notice they are hurting women.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 12:22 AM
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Unfortunately, there seems to be a good number of feminists on Hacker News. It's also not hard run in to radfem comments. It's easy to find those comments by reading the women in tech posts or using the search. Hacker News is very influential. There are powerful and influential people that follow that site. A lot of those people have built and are building businesses that we use every day. I hope that those people will never adopt the anti-free speech, ultra politically correct fundamentalism an…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 11:15 PM
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"Feminist patriarchy theory" is a theory, but "patriarchy" is not That is true. I agree with you. Your reply was sent a month later and this reply is being sent one month after your reply. :o)
/r/MensRights18/01/13 05:18 AM
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And the concept of undermining someone's self-confidence in order to make them "vulnerable" to you is really skeevy, don't you think? A neg is not supposed to be an insult or hurt your self confidence. It is supposed to be used on people with bitch shields and very high confidence. I see it as a way to give people with bitch shields a chance to interact and not just assume they are bad people. A successful neg will give a positive response. You should not be getting those types of negs if you ar…
/r/MensRights21/10/12 02:34 AM
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Everyone negs not just puas and I have seen women do it to men quite a bit. It is supposed to be playful. If you are getting a bad response from negs you are doing it wrong. A lot of people don't seem to get PUA negs. They have one agenda - to get in your pants. Nothing respectful about that either. You are not supposed to loose anything by having sex unless you use your sexuality for control. PUAs generally want to be more successful with the gender of interest (not all PUAS are male). Even if …
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:29 PM
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That's very interesting. Do you know of any interesting articles about Game Theory (not PUA game) and mating strategies? Edit: I'm sure there are PUAs interested in this sort of research.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 01:39 AM
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I suspect some women and Feminists fear PUA for the same reason they fear porn, sex dolls/robots, sexually confident women, the male pill, etc. It frees men from those women's sexual control. There is an example given by Snakepliskinist on youtube I'm open for different opinions on this.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 01:33 AM
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This is a bit off topic but, I'm curious about how prostitutes did not get pregnant in the days before mass produced birth control. Did they just deal with constant pregnancy?
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:38 AM
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Every time someone mentions Game Theory on the MR sites I think of this Game Theory and not PUA game.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:32 AM
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Feminism... The biggest shit test ever... among other things...
/r/MensRights20/10/12 12:27 AM
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get yourself a microphone. I already have the time vortex headphones but not every one can afford to buy a time vortex microphone to speak with Dr. Warren Farrell in the past... Mind your privilege. Thanks for the explanation though ;-P
/r/MensRights18/10/12 08:30 PM
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The audio is a bit muffled and I'm not familiar with the terminology he was using. Can someone help and explain what he said in the video? Thank you!
/r/MensRights18/10/12 06:25 PM
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Unfortunately it's very common to get a down votes in /r/MensRights no matter what you write. There are people that hate the MRM and this sub and down vote anything. Some people say that reddit has automatic down votes. have an up-vote...
/r/MensRights18/10/12 05:56 PM
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The Amazing Atheist has an excellent video about this
/r/MensRights18/10/12 04:12 AM
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There is more then one definition of patriarchy. Here is one from Wikipedia. Feminist patriarchy theory: Most forms of feminism characterize patriarchy as an unjust social system that is oppressive to women. As feminist and political theorist Carole Pateman writes, "The patriarchal construction of the difference between masculinity and femininity is the political difference between freedom and subjection."[27] In feminist theory the concept of patriarchy often includes all the social mechanisms …
/r/MensRights18/10/12 03:43 AM
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The majority of top influential positions are held by men but it does not mean these people represent men.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 07:18 PM
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Women have created a vague, unfalsifiable theory called "patriarchy" Did you mean Feminists or women? edit: I guess the feminist that created this concept was a woman but I don't know the history.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 06:47 PM
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Indeed edit: but I'm open to science backed rebuttals. edit: let me make it clear I don't deny that occasional discrimination against men and women exists in the workplace of modern countries. However we should not just assume systematic gender issues to be caused by discrimination/sexism.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 06:38 PM
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Some suggestions... It might make it more clear to leave only "It is never ok to hit your partner." checked. The bad check boxes could be set to a darker shade to differentiate from it's never ok box.
/r/MensRights16/10/12 10:10 PM
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Liberal politics are hostile to society at large I'm sure liberals will like to debate you on that. I'm not interested in discussing if Liberal politics is hostile to society or not. However It will be much harder for a partisan MRM to grow. I agree that Paul E. use the same tactics of Feminists and that is the biggest reason for not moving this sub to AVFM.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 08:30 PM
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who is VA? edit: Violentacrez?
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:53 PM
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Whats on r/nsfl ? (I prefer not to go there)
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:49 PM
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Was the initial intention vandalism and violence? This seem to have been a pro-abortion/choice protest that went bad. I like to see a different news source then Catholic news before I blame the violence entirely on Feminists.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 06:01 PM
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This community should keep its own independent space. I don't agree with AVFM Paul Elam style and I know I'm not the only one. AVFM community can be seen as hostile against liberal politics. I think moving this sub over to AVFM is more benefitial to AVFM then to the overall MRM. The beauty of this subreddit is that people from other subs can easily join the discussion and not be quickly censored or banned by mods.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 05:06 PM
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Nice. I can't donate but I try to mention her youtube channel whenever I can.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 03:48 AM
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There are links to her blog, twitter and paypal donation on her youtube channel https://www.youtube.com/user/girlwriteswhat GWW is brilliant.
/r/MensRights15/10/12 02:50 AM
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AFAIK men's only club != programing class in school.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 10:57 PM
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Would a men's only club attract only men who are uncomfortable with women? That is not a true comparison. A better argument would be men and women learn better in segregated classrooms which IIRC I have seen some reports to be true. I think separating genders is not a good thing in this case since college kids are still learning about the opposite sex. I don't see how this is helpful to women in the industry since they are going to have to deal with men that had less contact with women because o…
/r/MensRights14/10/12 10:09 PM
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Doesn't this attract women that are uncomfortable with men?
/r/MensRights14/10/12 08:34 PM
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Here is an example of Feminism hurting women while you are in pain. One of those breast cancer charities denied donations from pornhub (NSFW). It's possible they think not accepting money from pornhub is not as bad as loosing the larger amount of money from feminists & traditionalists.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 07:37 PM
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It's dangerous to talk about these things publicly and that is why I appreciate this guy for risking his neck! edit: IIRC I saw a post by a techie woman saying basically the same thing.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 05:02 PM
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I'm concern with the feminist take over of tech and Hacker News. I have seen many feminist comments on HN and some BS like Patriarchy theory, check your privilege etc. It would be great if some of the more patient and experienced MRA could keep an eye on HN comments. Feminist pops up on HN every time there is a discussion on gender or discrimination. The Hacker News post didn't get completely removed but I'm not finding it on the first couple of pages. I think HN admins are censoring some of the…
/r/MensRights14/10/12 04:29 PM
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I enjoy working with women but I fear Feminism in tech... Pay close attention to hn and you will notice the site being crowded with Feminism, with bs comments like "there is no institutionalized sexism against man", blaming the pay gap on man, the answer to mens problems is Feminism etc... It would be awesome if a LadyMRA/FeMRA wrote a blog targeting HN. I'm not sure if this has been tried... Could some MRAs keep an eye on HN? Pretty please?
/r/MensRights13/10/12 05:44 AM
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I simply answered with a smile, "Because I'm very good at what I do." Nice answer. I think some people discriminate because they think it's normal and haven't questioned or haven't been in a situation to change their mind. Traveling, seeing and living different cultures can make a difference. btw, check out the movie The Dictator, there are some good (terrible) jokes about health food store and Feminists. brace your self... here comes a very sexist joke http://youtu.be/8r9DZQpL2ZM
/r/MensRights13/10/12 05:00 AM
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Very well done. I'm saving this for future reference. Respect!
/r/MensRights10/10/12 04:16 AM
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Your conspiracy theories are entertaining but not all that far fetched. Controversy is a very old trick to promote a blog. Considering Paul Elam thinks his feminist style "stir shit" opinion peace articles is "good marketing" for the MRM. With that said, I don't think Paul Elam really needs to hire a RadFem actress though. There are real crazy RadFems out there and he does not need to create a fake one.
/r/MensRights08/10/12 08:57 PM
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Is she a terrorist, dominatrix or comedian? All of the above? I'm hoping she is just a comedian. The video was pretty funny... edit: The video is too extreme to be real but you never know...
/r/MensRights08/10/12 08:03 PM
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You are welcome. :o)
/r/MensRights08/10/12 12:40 AM
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There is a lot more then just Compulsory paternity leave in the article. It's unfortunate that this link did not get many hits. (judging by the amount of votes)
/r/MensRights07/10/12 05:10 PM
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Evo psych/Seduction/Biology or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love dating? I was just taking a peak at /r/seduction/ and found this article War between the sexes. You might find it interesting. edit: I'm still reading the article. I don't agree with everything in it but it's an interesting article. They didn't get the "eighty cents to every dollar" thing right...
/r/MensRights07/10/12 04:44 PM
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BTW there is a cool website and Youtube channel coming out... Skepchimp.org & Chimpanzee Frequency which will contain critical analysis exploring gender representations, myths and messages in popular sticks.
/r/MensRights05/10/12 05:14 PM
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Patriarchimp?
/r/MensRights05/10/12 04:00 PM
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I know good and kind white man living in terrible conditions. This type of privilege concept saddens me. As someone part of a "unprivileged minority" I find that video creepy. Besides a couple of guys protesting, the majority of people seem hypnotized with that bullshit.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 11:13 PM
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Just so you know, Libertarians (right wing libertarians in USA) are not safe from Feminism. I have seen Ron Paul supporters wearing "This is what a Femisnist looks like" shirts etc. OccupyWallStreet in NYC also had plenty of Libertarians/Ron Paul supporters. I haven't been keeping up with the latest on OWS though.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:43 PM
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This may have been a turning point for OccupyWallStreet. For as long as public space has existed, women and LGBTQ people have been trying to “occupy” it safely -- with distressingly little success. Harassing comments, groping, flashing and assault are a daily, global reality for women and LGBTQ individuals. Too often, these injustices are met with little or no response, regarded simply as “the price you pay” for being female, trans, or gay in public. As supporters of the Occupy movement, we beli…
/r/MensRights03/10/12 09:22 PM
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Awesome post. I have been a lurker for over a year and I have seen a lot of misunderstandings about the seduction community on /r/MensRights. I hope to see more of your posts in the future. I think the PUA/seduction community material can be useful to MRAs (including lady MRAs)
/r/MensRights03/10/12 04:52 AM
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The point from this ad is that penises (which implies man) are the problem. We can all agree that blaming penises is a bad thing right?
/r/MensRights02/10/12 08:47 PM
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Notice the words in bold are, problem, rather asshole action. This poster is messed up in so many levels! Edit: maybe it's some type of Freudian slip by the author. Edit: spelling & URL
/r/MensRights02/10/12 08:33 PM
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I am sorry to tell you this, but marketing and promoting is not your forte. What demographic are you trying to attract to AVFM and the MRM?
/r/MensRights01/10/12 05:07 AM
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I'm mostly a lurker but I have noticed that avoiceformen, who ever it is, does not take criticism very well. I don't get why you call your self a Feminist tho. Why not just be for women/mens rights or peoples rights.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 04:55 AM
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I just don't like the way he portrays women as the majority of them being immature, abusive, life sucking cunts. This is why I think some Paul Elam articles does more harm then good. I enjoy the evolutionary psychology articles and analyses & criticism of man, woman etc. and I have read a number of interesting articles in AVFM website but I would not share a link to AVFM with friends and family because of this "stir shit" and the over generalization that Paul Elam writes.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 04:46 AM
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I've been saying for a long time now that these are run by one person What is the evidence for this? I can see how David Futrelle would profit from quote mining Paul Elam. IIRC Paul Elam thinks that writing articles in a extremely provocative style helps promote MR issues. Controversy probably does drive some traffic to AVFM but there is no evidence that David Futrelle is Paul Elam.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 04:22 AM
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Some of them became hostesses, prostitutes etc, after they were hooked. Some of the woman seemed sort of addicted. A real sick mutual exploitation situation to be in. We got some down votes. I guess people are afraid of talking about this sort of thing.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 03:27 AM
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Watch "The Great Happiness Space" it's on Netflix. It's a documentary on Japanese male hosts. The documentary is amazing and disturbing at the same time. (not for the overly sensitive). I would be interested in seeing a discussion about this documentary in this subreddit.
/r/MensRights17/09/12 11:05 PM
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It's amazing this people actually exist in real life! This is not acting right? They really exist and say shit like that? The amount of illogical crazies in the world is even larger then I thought.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 06:49 AM
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Sexual selection is a big part of evolution. I'm confused by your post.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 02:30 AM
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I think the long GWW videos are amazing. Please keep making them.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 01:46 AM
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Do you plan on using other meme songs in the future? That should be fun. Nyan cat, derp song & HEYYEYAAEYAAAEYAEYAA? :D Eadit: fixced Nyan speling derrp
/r/MensRights11/09/12 01:42 AM
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Hey Typhonblue! Thank you for your support and work with MR! No it doesn't. At worse it's ambiguous. And it only 'looks like it blames women' if you come from the unsupported assumption that women abuse far less then men. It's unfortunate but that's what a large amount of people which include the nice and non idiotic believe. People don't have time, energy or enough drive to investigate everything that they see/hear. It is a sad human condition but it happens to all of us because it is impossibl…
/r/MensRights11/09/12 12:52 AM
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What I'm saying is that uninformed people can get the wrong impression from AVfM and that maybe AVfM could improve it's style to attract a larger demographic. edit: I absolutely agree with the part of feminism and critical thinking being incompatible.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 12:15 AM
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I've never seen anything on that website which was in any way "hate speech". I have seen a number of awesome articles but there are some articles which the overall writing style/approach are not really beneficial to MRM. I haven't seen hate but some critical and/or unfriendly words against Feminist, Liberals, PUAS that the uninitiated person would confuse with hate. I have also seen unnecessary use of words such as sluts (slut shaming?), some easily misunderstood generalizations and the occasion…
/r/MensRights11/09/12 12:07 AM
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that's crazy! thank you
/r/MensRights10/09/12 10:51 PM
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Do you have some links or more specific info I can search? I'm not doubting you I'm curious.
/r/MensRights10/09/12 10:00 PM
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but I'm not surprised by the following comment. king_jester: "There is no such thing as institutional misandry, so no, misandry does not permeate our culture. However, the headline is total click bait, but this is the NYT so no surprise there."
/r/MensRights10/09/12 07:04 AM
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This article is also being discussed on ycombinator hacker news and I'm pleasantly surprised by some of the comments.
/r/MensRights10/09/12 05:49 AM
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That's good to know. As someone that don't know Masculism, I find the name repulsive because the ism makes me think it's a men version of Feminism with all its crazy theories.
/r/MensRights08/09/12 04:46 AM
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Atheism deluxe pro is better, it comes with even more stuff...
/r/MensRights04/09/12 10:04 PM
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Yes, but I think this is of interest since some MRAs have to deal with people that think sexism is the only reason for the lack of women in tech and that affirmative action is needed.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 04:08 AM
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I don't disagree with you but can you elaborate why feminism might be paradoxically holding women back from these professions. My reading comprehension can also fail some times.
/r/MensRights03/09/12 03:09 AM
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For those that prefer not to click on a manboobz link and give boobz traffic but still want to know who and what Noah and GMP is. GMP = Good Man Project and Noah Brand is the Editor-In-Chief.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 09:54 PM
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A woman wrote about this a while back... Why We Don’t Need More Women In Tech… Yet She thinks that women are not as interested in tech because they are not properly exposed to it at a young age. Here is a quote "The same applies to women as entrepreneurs, as VCs, as athletes, as part of any traditionally male-dominated profession: Drop the pop feminism and have the guts to get to the core of the problem. We must stop treating girls as gender-crippled, pink-collar versions of ourselves and start …
/r/MensRights02/09/12 09:41 PM
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Isn't prostitution illegal in New York and California?
/r/MensRights02/09/12 08:53 PM
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Excellent liberating food for thought article!
/r/MensRights16/08/12 04:52 AM
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Comment from user Raven01 Honesty beats Game hands down with the 20-something crowd too. It's not mutually exclusive. Most of the the game material I have seen claims it's easier if you are honest.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 04:44 AM
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There was some discussion about this video recently
/r/MensRights14/08/12 01:13 AM
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Yes, there is more to the story. I found a longer video of the smell event. He was smelling her for her boyfriend? Did he say "crying in the bathroom" at the end? That guy is quite obnoxious to say the least... edit: I found an even more complete video and its even worse. I would hate to be in that team because besides feeling sorry for the girl I can't stand when other guys use me as social proof for shit like that. Whats the best thing to do in that situation? (from a mra perspective) edit: Fo…
/r/MensRights13/08/12 06:44 AM
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She didn't have to accept the smelling if she didn't want to. Humans can be flirtatious and I thought it was cute. Those are gamers not people piloting drones, healthy flirting should be allowed. All the information I got was from this video and I hope I'm not missing anything. edit: I must say that the smell thing throw me off a bit... I only understood what he meant by smell after the fact. edit: I learned more about this event and changed my opinion, see my reply.
/r/MensRights13/08/12 03:29 AM
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Seems like the male version of Feminist Frequency. OMG people have physical attraction and business is exploiting it! Porn bad, ass bad, sex bad... The world is going to end! /s The thing I appreciate from the video is the reminder that woman also feels attraction (he called it objectification). If one is going to blame man for being human and feeling attraction then woman should be equally blamed.
/r/MensRights12/08/12 12:48 AM
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Its my first day posting to MR and Reddit. While I'm not entirely surprised and don't really care about reddit points, I find it creepy that people would down vote "Thank you for advocating for male victims." I would never down vote if someone posted "Thank you for advocating for female victims." Did I write something wrong?
/r/MensRights10/08/12 06:03 AM
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That's right, I'm thankful that thrway_1000 tried to help all victims.
/r/MensRights10/08/12 05:39 AM
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Thank you for advocating for male victims.
/r/MensRights09/08/12 10:34 PM
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That video is painful to listen to...
/r/MensRights09/08/12 10:23 PM
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I'm not a MRA but here are some of the reasons I visit this reddit. The continuous moralist man bashing in the tech field. For example Startup dudes: Cut the sexist crap where most people didn't listen to the original audio or The Woman in the Facebook Frat House The last line from the "every girl every boy" modified poem from Nancy R. Smith which says "There is a man who finds that the way to freedom has been made a little easier." I saw that when I was tremendously sick without healthcare and …
/r/MensRights09/08/12 10:03 PM
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try torrent sites or a VPN
/r/MensRights09/08/12 09:19 PM
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