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| 1 | If You’re Worried About Other People Seeing you Hit on Girls…I live in a smaller city. On multiple occasions I've approached the same girl twice without even remembering her. She would say something like "aren't you the guy that approached me a few months ago?" I used to be terrified for this situation. Now I laugh and say, "ah so you do remember me!" or "must have been my twin brother." Awkwardness can become exciting instead of terrifying. Took a girl home a few weeks ago after this happened. There's really nothing as good in life as connecting with bea… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/23 11:24 AM |
| 2 | I Broke a Crucial Rule of TRPA lot has been said already, let me give some practical advice: When you break up, do it during daylight, do it out of the house somewhere outside without many people. This is the best setting because it will force the both of you to be strong, and it doesn't anchor a big sadness in her own home. If that is not possible, do it at your place, not hers. If you know you're going to be a little bitch and afraid you're not gonna say it, you'll first text her 'we need to talk'. It's pretty much burnin… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/23 08:55 PM |
| 9 | Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them?Very well written. Interested in what else you have to say on the subject. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/23 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Stop being lonely.Try book clubs, debate clubs. Again the question is: what activity makes it a necessity for people to engage? Many intellectual activities revolve around lectures which doesn't require any real interaction. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/23 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Stop being lonely.Self-esteem should not be an issue here. As long as you keep showing up and participate, a tribe will eventually absorb you. That's the beauty of activities that force people to come together regularly. People are innately hesitant and suspicious to new people. Keep showing up and it is in our nature for that suspiciousness to make room for trust. There's literally nothing you have to do. You don't have to be a clown entertaining them, you don't need to pass a test of coolness. You just need to … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/23 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Stop being lonely.Make it your number one priority. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/23 02:42 PM |
| 3 | The delusion that your unicorn will change your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/22 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Philosophy and HypergamyIt's one thing to observe it (what OP does perfectly), something else to conclude from it moral judgements. You can see the trick being played on you but still enjoy it. Even more so, people love to be fooled, they pay to see it happen! I believe many relationships asymptotically approach (as you beautifully put it) this state of companionship (oxytocine on a chemical level) , where you accept and enjoy using each other in a dynamic equilibrium where boredom and affection can spiral through time… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | FUCKING COWARDThe fact that you’re saying something has to change, you’re already going places | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:22 PM |
| 8 | Unashamed. The Highest Stage Of Seduction.When you're on the street and see a girl you want to talk to, when you wonder "but what should I say?", the true question you are asking yourself is: "What can I say that is socially acceptable? What can I say so I won't look awkward or come across as weird?" My answer: Accept the fact that you will be awkward, and there's a good chance you'll weird her out. "But what should I say?" Again, if you accept the inevitable. You can say whatever you want. Say the first thing that comes to mind: "Hi I … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/21 10:49 AM |
| 3 | How do I quit wasting my youth?Shitty weather countries have the best club scenes. Find friends first (expat fb groups for example, general international organisations or international student groups tend to have your age and above, no problem that you’re not a student anymore). Being part of such an organisation is literally gonna give you opportunities to go out every week and meet people. The problem you’re facing isn’t new and has been institutionalised exactly because people want to meet people. It’s a basic need. Also, … | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Giving upYou’re asking us to help you find motivation, but I’ll tell you not feeling motivated, having these moments with zero lust for life, that is the prime motivator. It is the only motivation you ever need. Make the search for your lust for life, make it your life’s philosophy. You don’t wait to be motivated to go lift, you lift to get motivated. You don’t wait to be motivated to find a friend, you find a friend to be motivated. The ways are plenty: meetup.com, book club, local soccer field, work so… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Asking for HelpYou're afraid of competition because it can show you who you really are instead of the illusions we have of ourselves. Cooperation and competition is not a dichotomy, they are not opposed to one another and the "primal" natural selection is the best example of their strong relation. It's a typical pattern for low self-esteem men to not compete when terrified of losing. Little do they know that losing isn't failing. Quitting is failing. Not competing is failing. Losing in sports, muscle fatigue n… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 58 | How/Where do I start approaching girls?Always have to laugh when a guy says, “I have it all figured out except approaching girls”. Have you been on a sidewalk lately? Wave and say hi and remember that the pain of rejection is just the pain of growth. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/21 01:03 PM |
| 7 | Where should I game during pandemic as an 36M guy?Get away from the busy places. Address the elephant in the room straight away: "Hi excuse me, I saw you over there and I know this is unusual with covid -heck its probably unusual without covid too - but I like your style. I thought fuck it. Wait you don't have covid do you? " Boom, a little accusation and if she likes what she sees she's ready to engage. The only diiference today is: give her even more space to start. If she's comfortable from a meter away and you feel she wants to talk (spoile… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Why Transgression is Attractive to WomenThere are some really great insights here. I think you could reach a far bigger TRP audience if you would cut it up into smaller articles. Apart from that, the content is powerful. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 21 | In a class full of older women. How can i make the most of it?Be social to literally everyone. Just be the guy that greets everyone, always. Some will greet you and move on, others will turn to you and stay. The beauty of these set ups is you see these women on multiple occasions so familiarity will instantly settle in the next time they see you. Although tempting, be careful not to lock your attention on the hotter ones. Talk to their friends. One day you'll stand outside with one of them talking for half an hour and you can invite her over for coffee/win… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 3 | I’m fucking devastated guysAfter I leave work, I don’t have the energy to go out and try to find a chick to game in a random bar, etc. Alright first of all, online dating is a shit show for betas. What you say here is blatant BS. If you want to be a man, you have to be in the street. You don't even have to go out to bars. Just talk to girls during the day. Online dating is only going to give you significant increase in lays if you're up there in the top 10% and girls naturally come up to you. When you're like everyone els… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 10:21 AM |
| 3 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayExposure is key. Keep dating, keep meeting girls. It's like learning how to drive a car. Don't over analyse the first time your engine shuts off. You did well by showing up. Keep going! | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | On resentment, hate and war: why you’re not responsible for the world in which you liveThe guy makes some good points | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/20 07:17 AM |
| 2 | I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghostedI just saw your update. Yep nothing much you could do. If you happen to talk to her in the future anyway, don't be afraid to flirt and tease her. Actually in general, if you're older, use it as a weapon. Once you're teasing a younger girl and she asks you your age say "too old for you". But I don't think you need a lot of advice. You're banging 20 year olds. Enjoy the good life stranger. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghostedok baby x | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 06:39 PM |
| 0 | I'm 42, had sex with a 20 yr old Sat, now ghostedFirst of all, congrats. There are a lot of people here in the comments talking shit but they all wish they were you. I'm gonna go slightly against the current here of most posts. She's 20, which means sex is still something very precious and perhaps sometimes scary to her. She may look like a full grown woman but inside hides a very insecure teenager feeling a fraud in the big big world. Whatever she's going through right now (whether she's feeling regret or not), it's not your fault and you can… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The boss of my boss is asking me to allow my boss to take credit for my work?A simple rule: don't respect someone that is clearly disrespecting you. Whether it's on your job or a guy cutting the line in the supermarket. Now that doesn't mean you need to act like a little bitch and start yelling like Sarah would. If I were you I'd go up to the boss of your boss and explain clearly that it's your work, as in, "I'm sure this is a misunderstanding what you asked me". It is the most powerful way. You don't initiate conflict but put the ball right into their hands, indicating … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Father died, girlfriend left me shortly afterYes you're entitled to some emotion, yes you're a real fucking human being. Feel, and be human. You cannot control the death of your father. You cannot control your girlfriend. What you can control is you. So no need to be stiff and emotionless, be there for your family. Show your emotions, but do not throw them onto someone. Take full responsibility for them. Do not lean out and hope for people to support you (I tends to lead to more grief and suffering), but if people support you, be thankful … | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Best Friend died of a drugs overdose yesterday.There's a difference between weakness and vulnerability. The general rule of TRP is not to be weak. But I'll tell you it's more than ok to be vulnerable. Be there for others, for his mom. Be the strongest person on the funeral by helping others, and let yourself be helped. Don't hide your emotions. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 06:34 AM |
| 10 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.Start stacking. You lose most of your free time being unprepared. Use the crushing feeling to throw out aaaalll the fucking bullshit you piled up into your life. Hours wasted on social media for one. If you're in a good company that has a gym for employees or you're gym is close, hit the gym before lunch and eat faster afterwards or just during afternoon work. If you want to do something after work (gym, sport, whatever), don't go home first, just come prepared to work. Save yourself an extra ho… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Rapport Seeking Voicemumbling, not opening your mouth when you speak. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Rapport Seeking VoiceWell written. Let me add some practical advice for whoever is looking to work on controlling his voice: Read books and read them out loud. It will help you develop your voice and, equally important for people with an insecure upbringing, develop your articulation. Speaking with a potato in your mouth is a similar rapport seeking reflex. Stop it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/20 11:11 AM |
| 1 | My sister took her life and my world is fucked.I want to be my old self again, I want to be eager and hungry for success, but it feels impossible. You remember what you ate this morning. Therefore your brain is changing every moment of every day. Your brain needs time to process. Never forget to add time to your mental frustrations. I know you want things to be different now. They won't. But I can promise you things will be different in time. You don't need happiness now and hunger for success. They'll come back to you that I can promise. In… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | GF told me her body count....If she hasn't been in serious comitments, then, say if she started at 18 (pretty old for some girls), she's had 50 guys over 6 years. Which is about one guy every 1-2 months. Being single while semi-good looking in college, this is even easy as a guy. And of course in summer you fuck a lot more. I'm way over 50 easily and I don't feel it matters a thing towards my future plates. So now we put that in perspective. Take a moment to think about how little your dick is that you're so insecure about … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.Meet her on monday. Amuse yourself. Have a good time. Seriously. If she wants to meet you it's not because she wants to walk away. It's because she wants you to take control, tell her to chill, don't make a big deal out of anything and just KNOW that if you don't take her drama seriously but just goof around, you'll be banging in no time. Tease the shit out of her. Playful accusations. If she's being 'serious' telling you "she wants to talk", you say "You wanna do a threesome?" And of course, if… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 7 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.It's just up to you to lead brother. She's younger so she's testing the water throwing it out there that she doesn't know what to think about that. And if you respond by being awkward you are literally communicating that she's right about making a deal out of it. This is what true shit tests look like. They are unconscious from her side and test you for your integrity. The answer to shit tests is always the same: Agree and Amplify. If she persists on the same shit test, you simply ignore. If she… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 03:05 PM |
| 25 | Is online dating full of fat girls everywhere?Honestly Tinder in Europe is filled with beautiful girls. You just have to keep in mind that the algorithms match you with your level. You'll notice instantly that getting higher quality pictures of yourself is drastically changing the category you're swiping in. But I don't know about the US or Hinge. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/20 08:29 AM |
| 9 | I have some questions about approaching locations and frequency of using those locations (and some others).You're obviously very self-aware and worse, you don't feel enough for the world. Ironically, day game is the best way to go to get rid of these petty feelings. You're basically pretending to yourself you have something to lose, your reputation. So how about this: do you want to fuck girls and have a shitty reputation with some people, or do you want to be a 'nice guy' that no one even knows about? In both cases, no one will give a fuck about you, but in the first case, you get to fuck girls. Be … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 01:01 PM |
| 2 | SuicidalSo I read you fucked two girls in your life. Honestly that's all I need to know you don't know women. I fucked two girls this week and TRP will forever always be an internet version of some pieces of the truth which tends to sound good, but once you start fucking girls regularly, TRP becomes locker room talk. It's strong boys impressing you with strong words and some half-truths mostly based on there few experiences. It's first class entertainment but at the end of the talk you have to get on th… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | My ex was seriously the best fuck ever and looked like a porn star. I have been spinning in circles for 6 months and nothing has even come CLOSE to the sex we had. It is seriously depressing. I cannot go back to my ex. What do I do?There are a lot of very sexual girls out there, many who just need to meet the right guy to get in touch with their own sexuality. Be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | My life is decent and I'm lucky. I am also depressed and nothing excites me.New plates/girls put so much pressure on me to care about them and give them validation ALL the fucking time. No. You are putting that pressure on you. I miss sunsets and company. I miss road trips. It's not because you have money and lift that suddenly life becomes a walk around the rose garden. What you're saying here is key. Stop waiting for someone else to inject you with a new dose of fun. Take initiative. Small steps. Ask a friend to hang out but actually plan to DO something. Go for a run… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 08:30 PM |
| 3 | I struggle to get erect with new girlsBeing relaxed really is key. The female version of this is girls not being able to get wet. Thinking that you have to relax is mostly counter-productive. What helps is: Chill background music and talk to her about it. Literally throw it out there. Girls never care as long as you're confident and open about what's going on. Tell them it takes some time. If you know her for a while, let her play with your balls gently which is by nature relaxing and arousing. It's important in general that you sho… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Shaved My Head Due to Shitty Hairline. Should I Grow it Back or Embrace the Bald?The before picture isn't really good. I mean your hair makes you look 'nice' and kind of like you have no idea what to do with your hair which is even worse. It's the mediocre look. I like the bold picture because it makes you more dangerous, more explicit. Girls will love it or hate it, which is a lot better than staying somewhere in the insecure middle. I'd say add a piercing in your ear, work on your style (black turtleneck would go perfect for you). Girls love a more edgy grounded guy who da… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Just found my now ex-gf has been fucking 50+ sugar daddies in the last 9 months. I'm sick to my stomach.Try to see that this has nothing to do with you and wholly belongs to her shitty personality which may have formed this way because of friends, beta guys, bad parenting, whatever it doesn't matter. Sucks it had to be you she played with. Whether she loves you or not, her personality isn't strong enough to keep herself away from horrible behaviour. Therefore she's not worthy of you. There really are better ones out there. Just don't ignore the flags. Honestly i believe there's a strong correlatio… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 01:23 PM |
| 3 | My(26F) Father (54M) Has the Biggest Case of Oneitis Ever, How Do I Help Him?As already mentioned, helping someone who doesn't want to be helped is pretty much impossible and it mostly hurts a lot for the person trying. But I don't believe that means there's nothing you can do. My father is a heavy alcoholic and unemployed, living on inherited money and the state. We (me and my siblings) have tried to help him but we hit the same wall which I guess you're feeling. So instead of trying to talk him into therapy or something, I now tell him I'm there for him. And if he ever… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 08:27 PM |
| 14 | Girl gives me advice for the next girl I see? Just ignore?Exactly this. Wtf is wrong with you OP? Your inability to accept that a girl might like to see at least a little something genuine from you instead of this feigned indifference is laughable. She obviously had a good time and wouldn't mind seeing you again and you 100% failed her shittest and her comfort test, which makes me respect her a lot more than you for walking away from your bullshit. Your inability to tell her you had a good time after the first time is pure uncut weakness. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Which ways do guys normally find a girlfriend?"Been there done that" hahaha this guy is funny. You want a girlfriend, but you don't want to put in the effort? How about stop being a little bitch and develop an actual personality instead of masturbating on reddit porn. You don't deserve love in this world, you have to earn that shit. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 09:05 AM |
| 13 | Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a dateThis is what you need to hear | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 17 | Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a dateUnicorns don't exist. It's a harsh reality every guy needs to learn sooner or later. It's obvious from your original post that you're lacking a lot of skill and knowledge about women. You might not believe this but one day soon you'll find her with a guy and 'woops look at that apparently she was ready for a relationship'. As the ancient PUA wisdom states, attraction is not a choice. Which means you can create it in someone, and it's your fault if you don't. But here's the good news, you can lea… | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 08:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I get a group of friends?Get involved in exchange student programs. Go to their events like boardgame nights, look for a buddy program etc. Exchange students are a lot more open to meeting new people in general. Don't lock yourself up. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 07:47 PM |
| 12 | Mindset to stop basing self-worth on womenJordan Peterson talks about this. The difference between weakness and vulnerability. Not showing vulnerability is weakness too. Strong connections, even with other guys, are fundamentally build, not on needing each other, but on choosing to connect while there being no need for it. If your sole reason to connect to girls is that you want to fuck them, you indeed will find yourself having no clue what to say or connect over. To rewire your brain, try finding a generic interest in people in genera… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 02:19 PM |
| 107 | How do I get a group of friends?The basic problem here is your perspective on how to approach the idea of working yourself into a tribe. In other words, you're looking to be adopted by a tribe and everything you do and say will reflect that, and that is not a good thing because your behaviour will lean towards needy and fake. Instead of focussing on acquiring a tribe, I would advice on becoming a social dude in general. I was in line this morning to enter the library. Guess what, I talked to the girl next to me and even the gu… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Did my first cold approach and ...Like what everyone is saying here. You did well. Of course keep going. Welcome to the adventure of a lifetime. After a while you'll see girls like that are just as awkward as you are. They suck in game too and they need a strong guy to see that and to help them through that first phase. The only way to get there is stone cold experience. So keep going. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/20 08:04 PM |
| 58 | Always be busyA very important message which I believe can help all of us gain more peace of mind. The relentless tyranny of our own mind when it is under-stimulated and starts generating its own stimulus is definitely also what Seneca is addressing when he said: "we suffer more often in imagination that in reality." An important addition to this post, and which it is hinting at, is the question: What activities lead to being busy in a "good" way and which to more suffering? Many among us, including myself, a… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/19 01:18 PM |
| 84 | Little to no social life.We often have a state of belief that being successful in the eyes of society (looks, money, career) will automatically generate a wealth of people to surround ourselves with. We imagine Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos to never be lonely etc. Truth is, these people tend to be just like us 98% of their time, alone behind a desk, looking at screens, walking in boring meetings with people they don't connect with. I believe what you go through is what every man has to go through sooner or later, the inevita… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:33 AM |
| 3 | What are your top 3 red pill truths?The quality of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts and actions. To that end: stop moralising. Stop thinking what others should think, say or do. It's the last moral lesson anyone needs to set himself free. Also to that end: engage yourself in the ecosystem around you. If you do the same gym routine since last month, your mind is not stimulated anymore. Lift, but more importantly, find at least one sport in which your can build skill and mastery. Stimulate your neural connections in… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 01:53 PM |
| 35 | Real talk, does anybody else feel like a fish out of water trying to approach girls in person?From strangers to sex is a marathon, not a sprint. If you gonna start by staring at a stranger and wonder how you can get her to like you, her to open up to you, get her number and eventually fuck her, you're thinking wwwaaaay to far ahead and you're setting yourself up to falter, plastic smiles and walking home alone. Start with the basics. Stop focussing on fucking them, but on the bare basics. First, focus solely on that approach. I don't care if you ruin it three seconds in, that's not impor… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I'm going fucking insane being aloneI believe the most important thing has been said already: to engage yourself in your environment. No one is going to ask you to come and join their sports club, but if you go up to them, they'll gladly pull you in, teach you a new skill set and you can all go and get a drink at the end of the day. TRP stresses that lifting is important, which it is, but it's the basic building block which focuses on you. Now you hit the second wall, your relationships to others. The hardest part here is to find … | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Need you guys to shit test me"too old for you" is a generic good response I use often. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Need you guys to shit test me"How old are you?" (When coming out of a club together) "Where are we going?" and "I'm really tired I think I'm off to bed." "Where did you get that shirt?" "I saw you talking to another girl just a minute ago." When her friend comes up to you two and says: "we're gonna go." | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 05:02 PM |
| 0 | Need you guys to shit test me"You should buy me a drink" Do you say that to all the boys? "Do you say that to all the girls?" I try to. "How many girls have you slept with?" Not a lot. Mostly I kick em out after sex. "What kind of girls do you like?" The kind that enjoys morning anal sex in the shower. You have a nice shower? Does it come with an adjustable shower head? I have one of those. Just love it. Wanna see it tomorrow morning? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Need you guys to shit test meShould I be worried that you want to peg me in the shower? | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Need you guys to shit test meI have a cat. Her name is Elizabeth. She's fucking adorable. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Short (5'5) virgin asian male, struggling to get dates and socialize in collegeOne of those white kids here. I had severe eczema as well at the end of high school / first years of college. The biggest progress in my life came from making that an absolute priority of fixing that. It took me a while (a lot of medication didn't do a thing), but the key was to not settle with it. I took every medication out there, and more importantly, changed my habits (healthy food / reduce sugar intake etc / extra vitamin pills / daily skin care products / overall hygiene / ...). You need t… | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 12:34 PM |
| 48 | When I am mysterious, I don't talk much and be boring, when I just talk, I lose frame.Comedians and magicians tend to be people with a past of low selfesteem. So you may be funny in general, but if you're 'just funny', then that probably originates from a validation seeking nature. Try to be not funny for a while, but just talkative. If you find that all the while you have an intrinsic urge to 'entertain' people with being funny, that means you can't handle social pressure very well. That tension is very important if you want to build sexuality and frame in general. Being funny i… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 07:32 PM |
| 34 | How to act while going out with a plate [HB8] and stumbling on another or a prospectTake the initiative. As a general rule, the one who communicates first in gonna be most trusted. So say to your girl "o hey there's someone here i'd like you to meet.", pull her in, and introduce them to each other in a formal non sexual manner. "Jane, this is Karen, she's studying X. Karen this is Jane, she's currently ....". They're gonna say hi. You focus back on one. If someone poses the 'how do you guys know each other' question. Be honest, say 'from school' or sth. None of them is gonna as… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck do I need to do to last longer in bed?!I second this. Next to Kegel exercises (contracting PC muscles) which strengthen that muscle group, I started gaining real duration increase by also doing "reverse Kegel" exercises. It's basically what you do when you pee, you push outward. Note that, when you pull your skin over the head of your penis, the stretching of that skin makes you contract that muscle. As long as you can relax that muscle, you can't ejaculate. So learn to gain full relaxation of that muscle and I'm sure you'll dramatic… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | What to fucking doSo now, I'm 22, have no fucking college degree, been stoning out working retail and fuck all. Depression, but the type I brought upon myself because I just didn't give a shit. This has been going on for a good 3 years. I discovered TRP about 6 months ago and I'm glad that I did. So now, with this shitty fucking start, what do I do. Here's the first thing you're gonna do: you're going to stop looking back. The hardest question we try to answer before getting to change is, "why didn't I do it alre… | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Today I realized I am a female beta. A female "nice guy" We finish last too, apparently.Ahh the classic "romcoms aren't reality afterall" experience. The painful truth is we actually want strong and independent women. Ironically, only few are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/19 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here completed the no friends -> lots of friends journey?The "too late" mentality is a fuckin disease. 28-40 is a man's legendary phase. And it's not about being the perfect guy, it's about moving in that direction. That movement is witnessed and adored by many. Man I'm almost 30 and wearing braces, but I've learned that insecurities tend to bemore destructive than whatever the thing is you're insecure about. I'm just smiling bright and getting laid more than ever. Turns out girls adore you when you turn common insecurities inside out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Younger girl I cold approached asking me how old I amIt's a standard shit test and the standard answer is something along the line of "too old for you girl". Say it in a cocky/funny way and tease her further on how her parents would be disappointed to know she's dating older guys. Just own it. Never apologise / feel guilty / feel awkward. If you can turn something simple like that around, she'll love you for it, and will want to fuck you only a whole lot more. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 17 | What's "the thing you do" to help you get out of the funk?For me, that's mostly a signal that I just need more sleep. I always feel nihilistic when sleep deprived for a couple of days. Secondly, it might originate out of a lack of variety in general. When it comes to working out, if it becomes dull, predictable etc. it's a good time to switch up routines, try out new machines, focus on other muscle groups, new exercises etc. This helps me a lot. Going in the gym and not knowing what I'll do but just see what I feel like doing. It's a lot more fun and m… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Question to you broskisIt's a good wakeup call to start setting boundaries. As a guy, you're almost 'expected' to want sex when a girl wants to fuck you, and we tend to fall into that idea. So like most people told you here, just use this feeling to look into the future and to stop pursuing the voice that tells you to fuck everything that wants to fuck you. Negative experiences are the strongest guidance in life. It's in the past, don't look back. Just use it to shape your mind more strongly. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 04:43 PM |
| 16 | Your StoryIf you're a skydive instructor or sth, fuck yes. But to keep it more realistic, here are some textbook examples: Stroll around town with a bottle of wine. Go to a closed park and jump over the fence. Find an apartment building under construction (with no windows or doors in yet). They're easy to access and always have an easy staircase to the top. Enjoy the view. Bring wine. During the day, go do a tourist attraction (local castles are always great. I always tend to go for viewpoints which are m… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 07:57 PM |
| 58 | Your StoryWell-written. Definitely an interesting point, that it's not just about creating an interesting life and assuming an easy return on that investment, but to shift your own narrative about it from a historical factual accomplishment summary to an ongoing act of comfort-breaking amusement. I'd add to the implicit question of 'how to improve your own story-telling': Stop downplaying yourself (like talking in a complaining voice) Never give advice (unless they specifically ask). If you tell a story, … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 02:39 PM |
| 7 | I can't with people connect wellI know it might sound rather cliche, but forget about game and girls for some time. I have a good friend in your situation and he's just hammering himself down so much because he's focused way to hard on getting acquainted to girls, while he should be focusing on much more basic things. I bore people sometimes when I'm not being genuine in a conversation Two things here: 1, this post was genuine. These thoughts are what you should be having conversations about. I think you'll be surprised to fin… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:05 PM |
| 9 | Got kicked out of the club for "harassment"Clubs want to attract girls in general. So even if you're right, they don't care. They're also not in a legal court. It's their club, their rules. Doesn't make it 'right', I know, but don't act all bitchy when you get kicked out for pushing someones buttons. It's a club scene, enjoy yourself. If people act like that to you, walk away, they don't deserve your attention. If they want to be in a shitty toxic mood, their choice. Leave them at it. The world ain't fair. Get over it. Breathe. Smile. Ke… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:49 PM |
| 19 | FR: 1 Day Bumble Lay Whilst TravellingAnd that kids, is how it's done. That simple dynamic which was going on in that room before the second kiss, I'd say that is the true privilege of women in meeting strong stoic men like OP. All those women out there, they need us for adventures like this. Nicely written and an enjoyable read. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 07:07 PM |
| 0 | Where to meet milfs bros ?Go out to the right clubs and the right parties. They tend to flock just like us young people do. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 09:56 AM |
| 8 | Stop Whining. Love the painNietzsche forwarded this idea by distinguishing 'Goodness' from 'Greatness'. Greatness, he said, implies a willingness and the ability to withstand a large amount of pain, to process it and to use it for all its potential. Where greatness implies using pain, goodness implies the attempt of removing it from ones life as much as possible. Goodness strives to remove what's bad. Nietzsche would further proclaim one should not want to be good, but to be great. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | What to do with a humiliatingly small dick?" A report in the BJOG: An International Journal of Obstetrics and Gynaecology said that the average depth of the vagina is about 3.77 inches (9.6 cm), but that vaginal depth and appearance can vary widely. " https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/321220.php Truth is that when a penis is too large (which is very common from talking to girls), it can actually be very annoying thing for a girl. It takes a lot more foreplay for them and guys tend to hurt them in the heat of the action by thrus… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 06:30 PM |
| 2 | I don’t know why I’m so scared of social situations in JapanI haven't been to Japan so can't give any detailed experiences, but I do travel alone every year and I'd say test the water with good old cold approaches. Just fully rely on other people (both men and female) around you to move through your day and forget your phone. Ask them for time, directions and suggestions. Short and sweet touch and goes are mostly a good start. You'll quickly run into longer conversations. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 11:27 AM |
| 3 | How in the world are you able to beat easy dopamine addiction?I'd say the key is not to avoid dopamine, but to carefully choose its sources. Playing video games is fun at first but quickly turns your mind cloudy and tired. Eating french fries tastes good at first but makes you feel like shit afterwards. The problem to 'good dopamine' is that it only becomes available from a hobby when you grow competent in it. Learning to play a guitar was almost impossible to do after working hours for me as it costs so much energy and concentration to learn something new… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Dont know whats wrong with me... Kinda feeling like ending it allSo what you're feeling right now is one-itis. Which of course you know. I'd suggest to find a local RSD community and start going out with them. You'll find out that most RSD communities are actually packed with guys in your situation, but they all help each other to stay positive and keep going out. And that's key, honestly. Look, if you're in the negative spiral of thoughts you are right now, even sex would barely save you. You'd have sex and think: "I was terrible, I didn't last long enough, … | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 10:20 PM |
| 7 | Break up adviceStop being a little bitch | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 10:34 PM |
| 6 | The male-shaming is real in the bluepill hell.So you might have noticed that you've received some hate over this comment. This is mainly because respectfulness is a vital part of this community. Not respecting them will get you banned. As the sidebar states: Do not insult or harass members. Debate the ideas, not the person. If you have a point to be made, make it with well reasoned rationale. Calling members "beta" or "bitch" brings the level of discourse down to preadolescent schoolyard bickering. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | The male-shaming is real in the bluepill hell.Although I agree, the whole "fuck off" part wasn't really necessary. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Plate Spinning Alpha Male's Worst Enemy isn't Another Alpha MaleIt happened twice to me, actually. But I see it more as a good mechanism to weed out weak women from my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/19 12:19 PM |
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