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paulwalkr/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/16 06:15 AM
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Turkish rug huh? That's what they're calling it these days? Hahhaah
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:39 PM
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This is good basic advice. Or you could take it to the next level by practicing some dark triad on her. Toy with her. See how far you can push her. You've already written her off so why not maximize her utility to you.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:00 PM
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This is powerful.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 05:40 AM
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If you haven't read 48 LOP then make time for it. It's about 100x the content.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 05:04 AM
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She nodded but not truly understanding other then her current feelings. That's fine. This is a long game. I've got time. This post is full of gems, this was just one of them I liked.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/16 09:42 PM
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STFU because there is no reason to intervene between your wife's brain and her hamster. This was particularly insightful.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 05:32 AM
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Username checks out
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/16 05:28 AM
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I didn't see anything specific to married dudes but It made for a good read. Up vote for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/16 08:22 PM
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You forgot to mention the mammalian diving reflex.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 05:15 PM
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Hey congrats you've joined the ranks of adults who can manage their money
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 05:03 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 10:47 PM
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I hear ya. Unfortunately I'm ape-man, long arms and 5'11, so not imposingly tall or imposingly thick, lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 10:41 PM
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Ideal body IMO. Imo a little light on the arms but that's just personal preference. You got abs you got women, period.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 05:41 AM
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Prose man, prose.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 05:33 AM
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Link #2 should go to leangains.com. Martin is the father of modern IF.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 03:31 AM
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Yeah I think it's more of a Veni Vidi Vici moment.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:17 AM
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showing up and trying gets you most of the way there.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 12:20 AM
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very solid and inspiring post dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/16 12:01 AM
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Good FR and I liked the lessons learned.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 07:51 PM
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AFCs aren't part of the fraternity.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 07:50 PM
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step 4, taking immediate action, is key for me. If I just refuse to think about it and just do it, I find that improvement is easier. Like approaching women, don't stop and think, because nothing good can come from that. Just approach. Start. Initiate. Act.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:08 PM
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upvote for self-awareness.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 04:46 PM
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This is much better RP advice than drinking water and having a morning shake. A deliberate approach to your day is key.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 05:42 AM
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well done sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 05:46 AM
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Strike the iron while it's hot. it was a subtle response to this gem
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 10:19 PM
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after all, it's a doggy dog world.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:19 PM
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You did what you wanted to do, and it was right because you wanted it. this is truly an amoral and alpha mindset. Reminds me of The Rational Male.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/16 02:37 AM
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Don't wait for permission, or perfect openings. It's okay for things to be awkward and not completely smooth. Even being a fairly experienced guy, I often have no idea if the girl is going to be receptive until I go for it. So just fucking go for it. All very solid advice. Upvote for you sir. You can't be a better man without learning to act upon women.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 08:13 PM
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Hence why DT is a big part of my MAP at the moment.. What is DT?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/16 01:44 AM
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upvote for scholarly citations.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/16 04:24 PM
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this
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 06:41 PM
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I agree with /u/MRPguy in that a lot of moms just use it as a crutch and a pity party to influence BP husbands. It truly isn't that hard. I had the kids for one or more weeks on various occasions and whether men deal with it differently or what, I wasn't that stressed. I wholeheartedly agree with your other points. Lifting, managing finances, upkeep around the house, and dating her are key. Being awesome is key. MRP is RP on hard mode because you have one chick to game, and she's already bored. …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 01:46 AM
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I think the main lesson in the 10k hours idea is that you should seek mastery in your chosen area, and not be satisfied with a cursory understanding of something. Rather, we should dive deep.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 01:09 AM
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asking her what she wanted was your first mistake.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 02:28 AM
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see /r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP13/01/16 02:27 AM
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where everyone works together in a social setting? Yeah, we call that a group of women.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 01:06 AM
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If you feel like going, just go. Sounds like your mom is at least doing better. Take a break, enjoy yourself.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:20 PM
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We're going to want an update on this down the road :-)
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 06:44 PM
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Oak porn lol
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/16 06:48 AM
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why not? Use it for practicing banter. No need to hard close someone since you'll maybe see them on a daily basis. No harm in conversation though.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:39 PM
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maybe take a PWO if you'd prefer not to pass up the sex. I'd imagine it'd still be giving you energy after the workout, I know mine does.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:09 PM
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you could be in the friend zone. Have you tried an actual voice call with any of these girls?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:56 PM
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Not having a place to go. She seemed to be down, but the logistics were not there. Your place wasn't an option because of the distance.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:55 PM
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I'd let it sit for a half day or more, but if you want to give her a second chance, or if you believe it's legit, just send another text an be like "let's meet this X at Y".
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:21 AM
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Nice. I enjoy a well-researched comment. Upvote for you sir.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:17 AM
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don't respond or if you do respond, send an "ok" with no punctuation. Let the hamster run free.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:18 AM
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I like how you painted a picture of the very different nature of men and women. We can't treat them like men or expect them to act like men. TRP is just a formula for applying male logic to the female psyche. And as you demonstrated, it works wonderfully.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 11:53 PM
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turn off the male hamster, keep the brain.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/16 11:45 PM
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That's an odd juxtaposition considering TRP is about maximizing benefit to one's self.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:04 PM
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this is more of a type of response to the shit test (agree and amplify). I guess you could say that A&A, along with most of the usual shit test responses, are contained within 'amused mastery'. I think of amused mastery as more maintaining frame regardless of your chosen response. For example, you could simply ignore her question (a valid response to a shit test) and still consider that amused mastery.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 09:05 PM
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Dark triad angle here. Love it.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:13 AM
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If it makes you feel better, a good friend of mine did some classes at a CC, maybe like a year or so, got familiar with coding, zero prior experience. Got an entry level QA engineer position, paid maybe like 14-16 an hour. A couple years in he has moved up and makes like 70k because he is a go-getter.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 01:23 AM
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Is the advice they gave you not working? Just curious what AskTRP has to offer you in the way of career choices. Off the top of my head and through the lens of very limited experience I've seen software engineers, salesmen, and finance do really well money-wise. Those are also careers where you prove your worth through your actions, not through past academic performance.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 12:30 AM
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what did you text this girl?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:50 PM
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what was your big mistake you made this semester?
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:47 PM
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Some will, some won't, so what. Next.
/r/askTRP29/12/15 01:41 AM
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Oneitis
/r/askTRP26/12/15 05:45 PM
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Might be easier to learn RP with girls with whom you don't have a history of being beta.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 05:03 PM
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Be the oak.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/15 05:00 PM
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I don't know what you want man, of course Tinder is different because some dudes use it for dating. That's it's purpose. FB I'd just a giant validation machine. Think of the usual "awesome guy with an awesome life doing awesome things". Do you picture a guy spending time on FB? I sure as hell dont.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:16 AM
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Because its not real and also a waste of time.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:01 AM
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Passive aggressive people use covert contracts and get butthurt when the other party doesn't live up to their end. Then they act like an asshole.
/r/askTRP23/12/15 11:05 PM
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Cue hamster
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:48 PM
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"Heyy" hahaha you knew what was coming
/r/askTRP23/12/15 04:44 PM
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the argument generally is there's not much to be gained from texting just to text. If she's messaging you it means at some point she was interested, so the best use of your time is to set up a date or meeting.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:40 PM
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Go do X, but don't touch her at all and throw in a couple mentions about how you consider her like a sister / aunt, should get the message across.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:42 AM
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Do you want me to text or call you each day? PM me man. You can do this.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 04:39 AM
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so basically you're having trouble quitting smoking? https://www.reddit.com/r/stopsmoking
/r/askTRP18/12/15 12:04 AM
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I had been looking forward to going stag and didn’t want to just bring a friend Seems like a good response. You had your own plan and elected to not include her.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 10:48 PM
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asking questions might help spark his dominant traits, like "what's a fantasy of yours"
/r/askTRP17/12/15 09:10 PM
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i still enjoy studying medicine and the science and it has many alternatives career routes in the UK and abroad. So......find one of those careers. Are you asking TRP for permission or what
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:19 PM
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yeah I was kind of searching your post for any indicator of sex, looks like there's nothing. I don't get how asking her if she wants you to be serious gets you anywhere. You don't negotiate or ask permission to have a relationship with a girl. Read the sidebar man.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:17 PM
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are you an orbiter?
/r/askTRP17/12/15 08:09 PM
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I mean context is everything, but i don't picture that as really ruining the mood. Could just be that she just wasn't really into it that time.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 05:29 PM
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have you not googled what to do for identity theft? I'm pretty sure you want to pull your credit report and check for accuracy. Not living in a bad area would be a great solution to your personal safety.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 05:27 PM
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dominance is just one of the four points, perhaps the emotion wasn't great, or some other factor was off.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:52 PM
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Haha nice, I love it
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:57 AM
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hey, it's steelegrind, X gave me your number. we should hang out, you free on Friday at 9?
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:57 AM
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It's definitely an exercise in getting out of your own head. I think for a lot of people this happens easier when you're doing something you love. Having something you love is often a function of how much you know about something. Perhaps try digging deep into an interest you have, whether that be lifting, competing in indoor soccer, or underwater basket weaving. Distract yourself with life's pleasures. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 12:55 AM
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I think this is the perfect opportunity for me to step into rp. I've done a few of the readings, but haven't had the chance to finish all of them. Based on what you've read, what do you think you should do?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 11:21 PM
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read more. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ykmhu/the_guide_to_accepting_yourself_even_when_women/
/r/askTRP16/12/15 11:19 PM
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As GFs? I don't think TRP is about having GFs. Low SMV girls might seem easier to snag but don't really produce much increase in TRP skill. since high school is more about social standing? High school is about not messing up your future and learning how the world works. Practice TRP skills, learn and grow.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 11:17 PM
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E.g won't respond to a short text or have any disrespect towards her TRP isn't about disrespecting women, so if this is your approach you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:50 PM
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doesn't matter what you say in response as long as it's delivered with a playful attitude and a smirk.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 10:06 PM
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Anger phase is a blackhole that I (and many others seem) to fall back into. I get angry knowing I was doing something right I just don't know what. TRP showed me terms and models and now I struggle to emulate it. what exactly are you angry about?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 09:59 PM
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Any advice on correcting my path? hahaha wtf man, are you serious? My girlfriend is great but I don't lift, I don't learn anymore and I started playing video games again. Face it, you are a BB.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 09:26 PM
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practice IDGAF, OI, maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 09:24 PM
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If she had sex with 15 guys in the fifteen months we didn't really talk, im obviously not going to wife her up, but is she had sex with a guy or two, I think she is worthy of my commitment. Can you really trust her to respond with a truthful number?
/r/askTRP16/12/15 08:34 PM
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maintain frame by not offering to pay the bill when you go out. Stay cheerful. Ignore it and don't talk about it. They'll eventually get over it.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:42 PM
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No you have not. Do what you want to do. You don't want to meet her so don't. Maintain your frame.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 07:28 PM
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if your gf is saying this it means she's been picking up signals that you are not happy. If you're not happy it means you don't have outcome independence. If you don't have outcome independence it means you need to work on your IDGAF. When you sincerely DGAF, everything is amusing and easy, and people are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:07 PM
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she's not an HB9, she's just some girl. This all the way, it's called maintaining frame.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 06:03 PM
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A. If she offers me a gift and if I offer nothing, I might look like a social retard and that might hurt me. Not true. Someone gives you a gift and you don't give them one in return is a sign of superiority. Like oh hey, wow, thanks for this gift, you are so adorable. You absolutely don't apologize for not getting her a gift. Just one scenario though.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 05:25 PM
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what /u/theebenedetto said, easy solution is to not let it bother you. Spending a ton of effort on something you might not be able to really change is not the TRP method.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 11:53 PM
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kinda depends man. depends on who you're supervising, who you'll report to in your new company, the actual salary hit, and your tolerance for change.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 08:12 PM
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woops, interpreted that she was on her way "home" as in she's coming back from break. My bad. I think it's too early to next her. Shit happens man, girls have bad days/weeks. What you can do is maintain frame, arrange a one-on-one, and see if you can still give her the tingles. If she's not willing to play ball, she's taking herself out of the game, not much you can (or should) do about that.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:51 PM
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maybe she went home for the holidays and hooked up with an ex-bf.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:37 PM
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are there any other IOIs?
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:33 PM
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Hey , it was nice meeting you , give me a buzz once you are in town. I would get to know you better perfect
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:44 PM
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I came home and told my wife I was signing up for classes at a ASL University that is local to us Why not just sign up, go, and if it ever comes up be like 'oh yeah signed up for this class that I'm really loving'. Telling a LTR what you're planning on doing is just asking for her to give you shit about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 04:28 PM
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jazzercise
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:21 PM
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get out of your head, you're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 05:56 AM
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How he develops the mindset that best serves him is contextual to his own circumstance. This is the essence of masculinity, and therefore the essence of the red pill. Focus on the self and maintain frame. A lot of redpillers are by definition not maintaining frame when they attempt to act and behave in an unnatural way. Your transition to realizing your own genetic potential as a man is a function of understanding yourself and acting to fulfill your own destiny, not one that someone else has han…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 08:00 AM
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OP did not initiate spellcheck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 03:12 PM
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fecal transplants.
/r/askTRP20/11/15 03:48 AM
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this doesn't make a lot of sense, especially if you are saying you ignore men and women at work. Seems like you're giving up a lot of potential power by not interacting with people.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:57 PM
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yeah the "I'm not like that anymore" could just be a shit test and she's just testing you. She probably even said that to Chad haha
/r/askTRP19/11/15 06:54 PM
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I've been wondering if something like this exists, but I'm not digging the robot voice haha
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/15 06:43 AM
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Mastery is pretty damn awesome. Puts you in a really strategic, long-term viewpoint for yourself, which I personally lack. Examples from history make it easier to digest. I also liked that he broke out why you should adopt different strategies at each phase, integrating some of what I assume is the 48 Laws of Power. Haven't read 48 LoP yet so not sure where specifically it overlaps.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/15 09:18 PM
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There's an evolutionary reason for it though. She proved to herself that I am genetically unworthy of being the father of her children. Weird when you put it like this, but that's exactly the biological reason.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 07:39 PM
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I think you'd see more benefit by compliance to simple commands, i.e. "put on this plastic princess tiara", rather than "blow me". If she's not in the mood, and you don't have a history of compliance, "blow me" is less likely to be obeyed.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 01:06 AM
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instead of reinforcing her concern that she's not a sexy person at all or that she's no good at sex, now she knows you did want to have sex with her but she screwed it up by being so boring that she can't even do the simple non-sexual thing you asked her to do like put her hair up. This is good. You must condition her.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 12:48 AM
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if this was 4chan you'd be called an autist.
/r/askTRP10/11/15 06:18 AM
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that's the point. you maybe even see gains with a 5 minute routine 4x a week. But what's the point? If I spend the rest of my week jacking off and playing video games there's still a problem, and that's a lack of dignity and self respect.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 05:14 AM
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