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Needed this. Thanks.
/r/seduction04/12/17 06:19 AM
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Are you gonna hurt these women?
/r/seduction03/12/17 07:06 AM
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I personally think the pre-med was a bad example. It's good to make assumptions, especially if it's funny or lead to deeper topics like family, passion, and dreams; it also allows her to correct you and divulge more information about herself without you "interrogating" her (you simply made a statement of observation). In that same example, if you were to say, "oh, I took pre-med, too," then that would be a bad example, as you're now taking the focus away from her unto you in an abrupt way, which…
/r/seduction01/12/17 05:47 AM
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I agree. It's a combination of various factors, but it's well known that men can engage their emotions (attraction) instantaneously upon laying eyes on a physically attractive woman. Women can be attracted by physical features, but their emotions can only be engaged through seeing the man's character/confidence/frame, which obviously takes a lot of time, verbal+non verbal communication, and shit tests. At the bare minimum, the initial process of falling in love is different between the genders.
/r/seduction27/10/17 06:21 PM
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As CCW often says, "women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear" and (paraphrased) "women fall in love much slower than men". All of this to say, you shouldn't spill the beans until you know she's head over heels in love with you, and even then, there's a right way to go about it which is not to break your frame and vomit your emotions on her lap.
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:31 PM
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Read the book 10-15x. Oh wait...
/r/seduction18/10/17 03:49 PM
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I agree. His stuff may be elementary, but he lays a good foundation upon which other inner game and techniques will thrive. And like you said, 97% (according to CCW) are completely clueless and come off as creepy half the time; it's very easy to stand out when you master the fundamentals.
/r/seduction12/10/17 07:10 PM
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Genuinely curious: why do you think this sub dislikes CCW?
/r/seduction12/10/17 02:00 AM
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His pulling seemed very mild compared to what I've seen others do.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:55 PM
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And that's when women REALLY start approving you and chasing you. Funny how that works.
/r/seduction23/09/17 12:53 AM
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I'm on the shorter side, too. But like all the other comments say, it's less about your actual height and more about your "inner height", if that makes sense. Be centered; be unflinching. Be confident to the point that you're almost cocky. Being fit also helps, but carry yourself with your chin up, chest out, shoulders back, back straight. That kind of body language will communicate more about yourself than your actual height will (plus, you might be able to add an inch to your height).
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:53 PM
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I apologize if I came off condescending; "don't knock it till you try it" is all I'm saying. By all means, live your life the way you want; I'm simply offering something that might cure some people's weak eye contact problem.
/r/seduction10/08/17 11:44 PM
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Before you do any of these, try NoFap or not watching porn and masturbating for a week (2 weeks to be sure). I guarantee your eye contact will improve dramatically. Also, your opinion means shit if you haven't or couldn't do 90 days of hardmode; if you have and you still have an opinion, I will at least respect it.
/r/seduction10/08/17 09:05 PM
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I appreciate you.
/r/seduction11/06/17 02:41 PM
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Going beyond the actually content of the texts, you were investing more into the texts than her (aka your texts are longer) which comes off as needy. Yes, direct the convo, but keep it simple and fun. Don't respond right away (you're a busy person with your own life). But your first mistake is probably expecting too much from online dating apps, and it doesn't seem like the girl was super interested in the first place, so don't sweat it.
/r/seduction11/06/17 02:39 PM
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What if she sits inside the table with a wall next to her so you're essentially "trapping" her when you sit next to her?
/r/seduction10/06/17 03:01 PM
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Completely agree. Even if you're able to escape the friendzone, you're going to be fighting an uphill battle since the girl friendzoned you for a reason and she will test you even harder to make sure you're the real deal. Sometimes, it's just a little too late or the girl is simply just not into you and you can't do anything to change that unless you change to fit her idea of a perfect male (which means compromising who you truly are and submitting to what she wants aka acting like a female, whi…
/r/seduction08/06/17 04:52 AM
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Class of girl has nothing to do with it; almost all women around the world are biologically wired the same. And she's right: the friendzone is real. Also, I get what you mean, but I'm still of the opinion that rejection and friendzoning is one and the same;, so let's just agree to disagree. I believe a guy can move out of the friendzone. BUT he must know exactly how to do it. He pretty much has to know how women and relationships work. Most guys don't, and the friendzoned guy was probably friend…
/r/seduction08/06/17 04:25 AM
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What I'm saying is being "friendzoned" and being rejected is one and the same. In the late 2000's, the word "friendzone" was popularized and became the replacement for "rejected" as if it was something different. Of course the friendzone exists--you're placed there when you're rejected; I"m not denying that. But guys usually throw the friendzone term around as if it was the girl's fault or evil intent for rejecting such a great, nice guy. At the end of the day, you were rejected, plain and simpl…
/r/seduction08/06/17 02:54 AM
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"I was friendzoned." No, you were rejected, plain and simple. Could have been your fault for not being direct nor escalating, or maybe she just wasn't into you at no fault of your own. At the end of the day, the result is the same. Stop sugarcoating or obsessing over it. It's not a big deal. Move on.
/r/seduction28/05/17 02:02 AM
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Most women will forgive you for being too aggressive, but if she likes you, she will not forgive you for failing to be aggressive enough. Thanks for this.
/r/seduction28/05/17 01:18 AM
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That can come across as shady/deceitful. Better to look into the abyss of your own soul.
/r/seduction27/05/17 05:50 AM
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She seems to be already pretty attracted to you. If she doesn't know you too well, give her 8 weeks from the first date to be really attracted to you. Women fall in love a lot slowly than men. Yes, escalate and have fun, but don't be desperate to cling unto her, especially if she seems like she's backing off a bit from your advances. Give her space , be confident, and she'll naturally open up to you more and more.
/r/seduction24/05/17 01:16 AM
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I certainly believe it. Our primitive core male/female natures dictate that men lead and women follow.
/r/seduction21/05/17 02:26 AM
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Usually the awkward are drawn to the awkward--which is fine, if that's what you want. Become what you want to attract.
/r/seduction21/05/17 01:58 AM
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Brah, do you even face lift?
/r/seduction08/05/17 03:47 PM
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Well put
/r/seduction08/05/17 03:43 PM
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Have enough self-worth and confidence to be chill even when others are smothering her with attention. Still be a part of the convo, but act as if you know she only has real attention for you. Don't try to compete for her attention; that comes off as needy. I was almost about to be in the flipside of this situation. I had a girl whom I was interested in talking with this new guy on the block. I had an urge to go up to them and join the conversation, but I caught myself and simply enjoyed the comp…
/r/seduction08/05/17 03:38 PM
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Just curious: why are you on seddit?
/r/seduction05/05/17 06:28 AM
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This is Corey Wayne 101.
/r/seduction30/04/17 12:39 AM
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Solid tips.
/r/seduction27/04/17 03:54 PM
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Have some self-respect to let her go, whether she comes back or not. You're not losing her; she's losing you.
/r/seduction20/04/17 06:27 AM
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