paytoncp Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process.... Loved reading this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 03:43 PM
14	How can you ever truly know if this is what's actually going on or not? I know this is a meme, but seriously. What is the point in being with someone if you can't ever know for sure if they are honest or not? I don't want to live an illusion in a relationship. I don't want to be lied to. Like some other ladies have already said, you can never truly know, but I think I'm starting to make peace with that. The way I see it, constantly worrying about him cheating/thinking of cheating will do nothing to stop him. If he's a cheater, he will cheat regardless of anything you say or do. Instead of letting the worries consume me, I'm trying to instead remind myself that the moment I have reason to be suspicious I will confront it head on. Once I find the evidence, I'm strong enough to lea…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/20 09:48 PM
30	Louder for the ladies in the back. Yep. He didn't cheat on you because he found someone hotter, he cheated on you because he found someone newer. Cheaters are willing to throw beautiful, wonderful women away just to get the high of a new "conquest".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/20 12:51 AM
6	Let's share the best and worst gifts we have ever received from a man. What discerns a LVM/NVM from a HVM in terms of gift giving? I was in a similar position, same thing with the keeping it from my family and everything. Guys can give us every excuse in the book, but at the end of the day it all comes down to one thing: if he wanted to, he would. Plain and simple. He knew it would be hurtful to not get his long term girlfriend a birthday gift, he simply didn't care enough to do it. It's hard to think about it in that way, but once you break up with him you'll be able to find someone who cares and wants to show you how much…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 12:58 AM
15	Let's share the best and worst gifts we have ever received from a man. What discerns a LVM/NVM from a HVM in terms of gift giving? Okay I think you might win this thread lmao WHAT	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/06/20 12:45 AM
5	Wholesome Proud of you! It's a hard decision to make even when you know it's the right one but you definitely won't regret it <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/06/20 08:50 PM
35	Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me mad I just don't understand how so many of them can be so brazen with what they're doing. I finally broke up with my ex because he was on a dating app... in the city where we both live... where many of my close friends are also on dating apps... like did he not think one of them would stumble across it and tell me about it? He used his real name and face and everything lol. Then tried to lie about it when I had all the screenshots already, smh. What do they expect?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/05/20 01:51 AM
30	And this is how you spot HV relationships: 💚🚦💯 My take on spirituality - I can see why a lot of people would disagree with this one but I view spirituality as completely separate from religion. I think of it as more of the sense of humbleness that comes with realizing that there is a whole universe out there that is beyond your understanding, and you are not the center of it. I think it's a crucial part of empathy to recognize that you are not the "main character" in the world with everyone else being your side characters, and that everyone …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:49 PM
17	Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. Disgusting Right? It bothers me when people excuse the actions of kids that age because they "didn't realize what they were doing" or something like that. Smaller bad decisions like shoplifting or something, sure, you're still learning and growing but something as serious as this? A 14 year old is not too young to fully comprehend how awful this is and have the self control to not be a monster.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:37 PM
29	Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯 I think another would be the "discussing rather than fighting" thing because it's kinda similar to the whole "I don't want drama" type of guys who really just mean they don't want you to voice your concerns in the relationship at all and will tell you you're "picking a fight/starting drama" to shut you up when you try.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/20 02:21 PM
8	Are you being a Mommy Girlfriend or a Partner? Really liked the point about unconditional love. I never thought of it that way, but you're absolutely right. My mommy gf days are definitely over lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/20 05:35 PM
3	What was your turning point to follow FDS? Thank you I really appreciate that! Proud of you too :) It's nice to have a place to go to be reminded that hey wait a minute, we don't need to put up with subpar treatment. WE are the prize!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/20 04:08 PM
10	What was your turning point to follow FDS? I stumbled across this sub while still with my ex and reading it made me sad because I knew I agreed with 90% of the things being said here, but I wasn't living them at all. I stopped looking but it never really left my mind. I joined here the day after I left him and now it's been a month with no regrets<3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 08:51 PM
12	Congrats on 70k+ Members! I'm new and mostly just lurk, but this sub is helping me through a breakup and opening my eyes to just how unacceptably he treated me even before the things that led to me ending it. I also feel more confident now that when I do get back into dating, I won't be letting anyone waste my time just to "be nice" or "give them a chance".	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/20 04:09 PM