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Wow! Thats so crazy how did you guys first start talking on here?
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 06:22 PM
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Wow I love that story I'm so sorry about your dad though
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 09:43 PM
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What is HB8
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 09:42 PM
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I agree I cant picture myself with someone who also can sleep with men...it just takes away from what the attractive man to me is
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 05:02 PM
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Do you also work? I find it hard to clean when we both work and then I go to night classes. It's like we have to wait for the weekend on our day off to clean together.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/19 03:55 PM
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Yeah but the thing is some women dont value themselves less it's different for everyone
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 06:05 AM
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Yes I agree with being selective but at the end of the day it's not our choice women can make their own choices as long as they dont regret it later. If I ever had a one night stand I believe I would strongly regret it based on my own morals nd values but I'd someone else would not be personally affected emotionally by that then they shouldn't be judged for it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 12:19 AM
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Who cares about riding the whatever ? Seriously, sleeping with people does not make you any less of a valuable person.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/19 12:17 AM
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I dont recommend being a virgin till marriage I recommend doing whatever you feel is right and this is coming from someone who's only been with one partner I dont see the value in virginity and I think it's used against women to keep them in control dont buy into it.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 09:08 PM
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Lol we have been together for two years it's not just a next I wonder if this can be fixed
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 05:56 AM
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How do I even address this problem
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 05:53 AM
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DONT believe in this. A children's parents divorcing has nothing to do with their own character and their desires in regards to relationships. It is completely unfair to judge someone based off of how their parents conducted themselves. I also believe that people are who they are and sometimes it does not have anything to do with how they were raised. A child can witness their parents divorce and in that moment subconsciously decide that they will never go through that etc.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/19 04:48 PM
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Hi thanks for your response actually we have no lease its month to month and honestly Haha we have already drove ourselves crazy countless times I feel like I know him completely alllll the bad and he knows all of me as well. Now we just have to start a life together living with one another we both expect to do things together for example not necessarily split the hosie duties but do cleaning and cooking together split Bill's and of course I am fully prepared to leave if it gets bad and I'm well…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 07:47 PM
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I did say I dont understand because in a relationship I would consider open communication and understanding to be essential yet you're questioning doing just that which is detrimental to your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 03:44 PM
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Well I'm not hurt and I only assumed based on what you wrote my point is you should just bring it up, how is that hurtful?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 03:41 PM
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Wow, this is the problem. Never mentioned anything of the sort it's really quite surprising that you cant speak to ur bf about something so simple.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 03:37 PM
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You probably should too.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 03:24 PM
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I honestly domt understand why couples find it hard to take to each other about their feelings. This absolutely makes no sense it's as if they arent even close.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/19 03:05 PM
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Okay thank you
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 07:55 PM
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Thank you for the message I completely agree and understand. I guess I have let myself keep doing what I'm doing because I feel like I have to but I have an idea what it is that I want. I never actively work on being grateful but I also have to do that everyday.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 07:55 PM
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I know what you mean I really dont want to be one of those people who are never fulfilled and always want more and more and feel empty. I need to find a way to bring happiness and love into my life without actually having anything.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 07:53 PM
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Let's be friends!! Right now I am ready a psychology book on mood. The title is evading me..
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 07:21 PM
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Cool response! it's late so cant read it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 06:41 AM
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Lol that's more embarrassing for the writer of the post.
/r/MGTOW02/04/19 10:53 PM
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Idk what that is but followed it to find out. Seriously the only reason he doesnt believe in it is because hes financially greedy lol.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 10:51 PM
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Wow I am baffled at how accurately I predicted your potential response. Based off of your comment I expected you to assume that woman are simply seeking financial security. I think this is probably the biggest misconception you have lead your life with. Let me guess she probably made less than you and you couldn't fathom the idea of marrying her due to financial responsibilities and the possibility of divorce. You want to keep your finances safe and you probably never intended to marry her and o…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 09:57 PM
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Cut the bs you lead her on for a decade with no real commitment I'm glad you left her now she can be happy omg
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 09:18 PM
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This is MANIPULATION. I can almost bet he was not going to propose, only way he was is if he has a ring. Other than that he is trying to manipulate you. I am angry for you because I can relate to this even though it hasnt happened to me. He put the convienience of living rent free before your happiness. You are a good woman because you are trying but hes bot a good man because he is not leading a life with you. If he hasnt stood up for you against SIL, will he ever? Ugh I'm just mad so many woma…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 09:07 PM
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Lol be like okay you can cook and I'll cook and we meet up and have a picnic at the park lmfao
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:57 PM
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Yes and I'm asking if anyone else has had this issue.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:35 PM
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Ahahahahahaha that's funny cant do anything at his house bc mom will take over.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:34 PM
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Again my apologies for all the spelling errors
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:54 PM
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If we move in together we will both clean and cook and both work. I am in grad school now and am working full time. What bugs me is he never even Asks me how my school is going. Never check up on me never tells me how hes proud of me etc. I see men posting how proud they are of their girlfriends for doing grad school Nd how they are inspirations etc. And they just ho to school and not work. A class mate even asked me if my bf will check up on me and it got me thinking....I asked him why he doesn…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:51 PM
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I'm proud of you!!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:27 PM
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This is him wanting sex not cook for you smh
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:26 PM
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So sorry for all the errors I promise I'm not this bad but um just busy rn
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:15 PM
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This is why I brought it up I'm wondering if the only reason he doesnt want to move in at the moment is because I will have school to pay for but once I graduate I van contribute more. He seemed to have a concern that he would be contributing more in the apartment and later nust said it was a waste of money. He drops hints that I can support him through grad school lol but I think that's what hes trying to avoid doing for me but I could just be reading to much into why hes pushing moving out bac…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 05:14 PM
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Yes thank you !!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:59 PM
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I have no clue, I would be angry. My mom knows she csnt open my mail and then my bf actually comes to my house and opens it I ha e nothing to hide but I act crazy as if I'm cheating or something and I'm getting a letter from another guy etc... he thinks I'm crazy, I think hes invasive.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:57 PM
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I dont agree with this one he doesnt like how he was raised or how his little sister is being raised. I'm not sure how we would be as a father though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:39 PM
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Thank you I really need to think about it further and how I should bring it up
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:38 PM
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Wow never broke it down this way,makes look scary. Hes still really immature.... I might be too but not like him...
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:23 PM
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I think it bugs me because it's a reading he might not want to leave home. We have been taking about moving out since October 2018 it shouldn't take this long. After talking to his mom he told me moving out to an apartment is a waste of money. Hes trying to get a house now which I told him I'm not ready to do together. So he says he can do it alone...he told me by March we would have our own place. Its soon to be April, realistically how long should this take? At what point should I realize its …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 04:15 PM
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Thank you and honestly this is how it will be when I have my kids there is no way I am going to do all of those extra things for them. Its actually really sad because I havent really realized how different he is than every other guy I have ever met. My ex literally had an apartment at 19 he did his own laundry of course worked at night went to school in the mornings. I saw he bought his own home already with his current bf. I just remember this was surprising because he could have easily lived a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:45 PM
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Oh yeah I got a lot of those comments in the beginning he has kind of cooled it but will still call her when we are at the grocery store to make sure I for the right ingredients which I know I dont need help from anyone. Jeez.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:39 PM
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Honestly how do you recommend me saying anything there is no way in hell his mom is gonna stop he can begin cooking something and somehow she will end up finishing it. He comes home from work and his laundry is done. She wakes up to pack him lunch and makes him breakfeast. She calls him everyday to see when hes coming home... it's just how it is?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:37 PM
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:(
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:35 PM
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This is true idk how to approach rye conversation I usually just seem annoyed at all the little things. If he cooks for me at his house his mom is actually really upset and angry and used to comment on it saying I should get up and cook. He told her something and she has since backed off. Also his sister did it once too where she told me i should be the one cooking.....also i do cook for him at my house-_-
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:30 PM
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J want to get married by 30 and children by 30 too I am 24 going to be 25 in october...
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:23 PM
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He also lives with them it is the dads house but hes not as involved hes busy etc
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:22 PM
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Should I wait to see if he actually does get a house at least? I want to know I'd it would ever happen. He says it will be soon.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:20 PM
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He has graduated and is working full time he keeps delaying us moving in together and it's annoying. At one point he mentioned all of the things his mom does makes him not want to leave. He also doesnr care about her opening his mail he tries to open my mail and I get to angry he will legit go through my things its messes up. He opened a letter I got from my healrh insurance ... that is not okay.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:18 PM
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He is Mexican American
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:13 AM
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Wow I'm sorry we are Americans
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:13 AM
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Also I wanted to give it some time to see if he is serious about the house. I just dont know how long to actually wait
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:01 AM
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I just dont know if this is a big enough thing to call it off? How can I convince myself that this is a deal breaker I am not sure? ...
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:00 AM
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Well, little things bug me also like he will be cooking with me and then he will go ask his mom if it's the right way....or what she would do. ..while I'm literally there cooking with him.... we can be at the grocery store and be will call her to ask what the right ingredients are....like seriously?
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:58 AM
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She calls him everyday at like 9 PM of he isnt home to tell him to come home and eat, he could be at my house or we could be out.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:56 AM
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We were supposed to be moving out in March but that didnt happen we were gonna get an apartment I'm pretty sure his mom convinced him that would be wasting money and that buying a house is a better deal. So now hes thinking of buying a house which is something I am not ready to do with him.... I was completely angry when he switched the plans up like that bc we discussed in November 2018 how by March we would move into an apartment
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:55 AM
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Omg any advice if he has been my bf for 2 years smh.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:49 AM
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Well in dating him and it bugs me... she calls him to come home and eat what she had cooked him etc.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 07:36 AM
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I am not saying this to be mean but your post is clear he does not value you at all and might not even like you. You literally give him everything and he still doesn't show his love... I cannot imagine this going anywhere and I really advice you to stop wasting your time he sounds awful. Why do you even like him? What has he done for you to stay?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 08:14 PM
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I believe telling someone is the right thing to do even if its hurtful I dont think its meddling at all. I would love it if someone told me that my bf was unfaithful and I would actually be appreciative. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and he's been wonderful but if someone told me they had been sleeping with him....I would immediately cut my feelings for him and never speak to him again. If one of my close friends were being cheated on I would tell them. If an acquaintance wa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 03:35 PM
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I honestly think she is.... this is too irrational and I honestly feel really bad I wonder how old OP is.....
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 03:29 PM
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1) sit outside in nature 2) journal 3) paint 4) skincare or body care like sheetmasks, nails, hair treatment, massages 5) read
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/19 04:17 PM
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Hes lying about looking for her, go with him see if it's true
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/19 11:54 PM
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Woah I read that you are only in your teens you still have time to glow up as they say. I am also 5ft 5 but I weigh 130.. not sure If this is good. But just adding because I think 95 it kind of too low. I would say work on buileing your personality right now. Some people just have personalities that make them so beautiful and magnetic. I strongly believe your looks will improve with age and that you shouldn't worry about it or compare yourself to your sis.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 09:43 PM
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Wow consider other people opinion and being nice to others not just a potential husband.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 10:59 PM
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I am 24 and slowly questioning things
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 09:39 PM
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Dont stay up go to sleep early!!! I'm 24 and that's just regular advice.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 09:06 PM
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Rules are not for everyone this seems childish just be true to yourself and be kind.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 08:57 PM
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I think it is wrong to expect that honestly one person should not be completely taken advantage of. It's not wrong if you are broke and your SO isnt though then he should be understanding.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 08:56 PM
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Dude that's not JUST a friend and listen to your gut. One every two weeks??? That's a lot that's how much I see my best girlfriend we have busy lives. That's too much, my BF can hang out with whoever's but he doesnt because he would rather hang with me and when his girlfriends want to hang w him he tries to bring me with him which I dont like bc he should probably go alone idc though. I would not trust him especially him admitting to kissing her. They should not be friends at all. They kissed be…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 10:40 PM
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Maybe hes going through a depression completely kills his libido and wouldn't want sex maybe hes not happy at all try to find out.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 09:00 PM
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