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Maybe frowned upon in this subreddit but IMHO the higher the body count, the more you train yourself on one night stands, the harder it is to actually find something else i.e. a relationship. Not bragging, not really actually proud of it, my number tops 100 and I'm only 26. It was always easy for me to get laid and now I can't seem to even connect on another deeper level. It's actually very frustrating and disappointing and I'm having a really hard time reprogramming. Harder time than it seems i…
/r/seduction11/08/17 09:06 PM
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Play on user name
/r/seduction01/11/15 03:26 PM
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You have 2 choices. Take the red pill. Watch the movie. Become an enlightened panda. Or take the blue pill and stay a suffering panda. Once the choice is made there is no going back.
/r/seduction31/10/15 05:50 PM
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but.... you call yourself CollegeTownPUA? He calls himself St0neFace. You better start living up to your name!
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:04 PM
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far as i know being on that list is for life..... EDIT: I feel i need to clarify i do not know from personal experience. lol
/r/seduction18/03/13 10:30 PM
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Score! haha same here. Not a problem man
/r/seduction13/03/13 09:44 PM
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LOL I'll feel alot better if your being serious and not sarcastic, cuz that took a super long time for me to write and have it actually make sense....
/r/seduction12/03/13 10:05 PM
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for some reason mine does too....your not alone
/r/seduction25/02/13 05:00 PM
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Never D in the V if shes C, keep it NSA FFS and GTFO!!!
/r/seduction23/02/13 06:37 PM
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Agreed. Good call!
/r/seduction23/02/13 02:37 PM
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LOL I just went with how I learned to do it and use it frequently. And it works so well I tried to share it in vivid detail so that others may prosper!! Also I have alot of down time at work.... lol
/r/seduction23/02/13 02:36 PM
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she replies "hey" say "nice shoes, wanna fuck?" LOL No for real. Use something in the surroundings to start a conversation. If she is an 8 or above compliment her on something she is wearing and move on from there. If shes below an 8 compliment her in a genuine way. Not just a your hot beautiful gorgeous etc. She'll pick up on your games right away. Say something about her as an individual. I like the way you did your hair, if its unique ask her what gave her the idea to style it that way. Or sa…
/r/seduction22/02/13 10:50 PM
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If you want a relationship with her text her back something like "I may not be your boyfriend yet but it sounds like I can help you out with your testing dilemma" If you dont want a relationship I would go with something along the lines of "I'll help you test out some of those fantasies until you find yourself a half decent bf". This response communicates your intentions of hooking up on a more NSA level than a relationship level.
/r/seduction22/02/13 10:45 PM
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From my experience it works best if you two are facing each other. Take your hand, fingers extended but closed together (as if you were cupping water swimming breast-stroke), bring it up and towards her running your 2nd knuckle on your thumb just barely along the lower part of her jaw. Make sure your fingers are curved just enough that they will go inside of her hair (if its down) and sweep it out of the way. You want as much skin contact from your hand to her neck as possible. Note: Just beneat…
/r/seduction22/02/13 10:40 PM
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Ah. I apologize for the misinterpretation. Yes. You are correct. It does.
/r/seduction11/02/13 07:36 PM
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in all fairness unless OP failed to disclose, he didnt know about the ex-bf or potential baggage. I think we should all look at it the way I believe OP intended. F-close with a sad ending. Yea it sucks but it wasnt OP's fault. Nor did OP be a d-bag. I think all in all it was handled fairly well. Aside from getting attached that is. Note to OP. This sounds like alot of potential, undealt with baggage. might be best to move on and continue your PUA skills. Said my piece gents. G'day.
/r/seduction11/02/13 04:31 PM
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Why would that get downvoted? I thought it was a compliment. WELL FUCK COMPLIMENTS THEN! YOUR NOT FUNNY!!
/r/seduction07/12/12 02:52 PM
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HAHA. I like that even better. Stored away for good use elsewhere as well.
/r/seduction07/12/12 02:51 PM
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Upvote....because its funny.
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:47 PM
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Happy cake day grammar nazi! lol
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:47 PM
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Hahaha I take no shame in my terrible grammar. But I will apologize for it. I feel like the little kid with great ideas trying to talk to adults, that gets ignored and storms off screaming "I'm just trying to help!".
/r/seduction07/12/12 01:46 PM
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Absolutely. Iv noticed this as well. Idc if the girl is a ten...if she acts or talks in a way that turns me off she simply loses all attractiveness in my eyes. On the other hand....I have had too much of the personality that I look for and not enough attractiveness and be it selfish of me or not I couldnt get over it. Its that perfect balance you have to find if your looking for more than a hook up. But even a hookup the first analogy I said stands true.
/r/seduction06/12/12 10:37 PM
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Lady I picked up 2 weeks ago and am continuing relations with is absolutely astounded at the fact that I am a gentleman, courteous and overall respectful. But there is a fine line, that it took me years to figure out how to walk, between being all of those things while maintaining alpha...and being all of those things and looking beta as hell. Figure out how to do the first? and you will slay the ladies. Fall into the trap of the second? Welcome to the friendzone.
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:16 PM
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"Exclude physical violence" In that situation (been there done that) that phrase is nowhere in my vocabulary.
/r/seduction23/11/12 02:07 PM
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One thing I may comment on that would've helped your situation out. Isolate. Sounds like you did a great job a leading the group holding interest etc. But are you trying to get everyone in bed? LOL No. Just her. So you need to isolate her from the rest of the group. Maybe while everyone else was playing pong you could've said to her "I'm done with pong for a bit, lets go sit by the fire." or something along those lines. Her response is going to let you in on whether she wants to spend a little t…
/r/seduction23/11/12 01:36 PM
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Hahaha now i feel dumb.... I always thought it was intensive. Theres a reason I mostly stuck to sports.... but thank you! lol
/r/seduction23/11/12 01:25 PM
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Nice! Good to hear there are others that think like me. Thanks!
/r/seduction20/11/12 10:10 PM
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I know about that last part, but one thing I have learned very much the hard way is if you defer from a topic or question out of fear for offending, it looks like you have something to hide. And probably the most important thing I've learned is in situations like that, be yourself and stay true to who you are. Because as soon as you try and be someone else your qualifying to her. Not making her qualify to you. You just lost control. IMHO
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:54 PM
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Thank you very much. Its too bad hes taken or we'd both be lady killers. lol!
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:52 PM
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It could have gone haywire. That was the first and only thing that really caught me off gaurd and I was like oh shit. But I didnt show it. Gave her my honest opinion something along the lines of "Yes, but I dont claim any religion. I want to find what works for me and I wont live one way and say I believe another and be a hypocrite." Alot more well versed and in more discussion mode than that. But she was pleased with my answer so it payed off.
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:51 PM
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Thank you. And no other reason that I could see other than another shit test or qualifier.....
/r/seduction20/11/12 06:48 PM
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You are awesome. Now just make everyone else believe it. If the first thought in your head after reading that was "I'm not awesome" or "How am I awesome?". Then you need to really put some work into your inner game. If you dont feel awesome how is anyone else supposed to get the vibe you want to put out?
/r/seduction19/11/12 11:22 PM
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agreed. IMHO there are two types of women at bar. those that are out to have fun and fuck around a bit and those that arent. thats the mindset at a bar. out in the "open" so to speak. women's minds arent made up one way or another. the guard is down. perfect setting to charm your way in.
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:11 PM
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/r/seduction14/09/12 09:01 PM
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I'll give the guy an upvote. there are millions of women out there. why not do something different and off the wall with a few? if your so quick to say no your clearly lacking two of the most important things in the PUA lifestyle. Self-confidence and open-mindedness. props for voicing your curiosity broski.
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:57 PM
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Im going to be blunt....as I was in the same situation 6 mos. ago. there were alot of neg things about the relationship i was in but one huge thing that my selfish dick couldnt get over. I settled for a 6.5 because of her personality and safety. those made her an 8.5 to me. but as time went on she went back down to the 6.5 and as selfish as it was I couldnt get over it plus being mixed with everything else going on. so. Be honest with yourself. even if you make yourself sound like an asshole. Ar…
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:40 PM
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nope. fucked her from the back while I smacked her on the ass.
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:20 PM
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Thank you. And everyone needs to know that you should never be afraid of just going for it ESPECIALLY when you really have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:17 PM
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Right?? lol It just popped in my head and I was in "fuck it" mode so i said it.
/r/seduction22/08/12 01:16 PM
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on the boat while it was still at the dock yes.
/r/seduction20/08/12 10:15 PM
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pizza hut
/r/seduction20/08/12 07:08 PM
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Right? I just couldnt believe how well it all worked out but it never would have had it not been for seddit.
/r/seduction20/08/12 07:00 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction20/08/12 06:59 PM
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no but 19yos never know what they want!!!!
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:25 PM
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Agree with most the other posts here. just thought id add my two cents. HB: hold my drink You: I'll hold your drink for a fee HB: What kind of fee At this point you can decide on how she says it on what kind of "fee" you want to put out there. A sip. a free drink. Hell if its early in the game # or k-close. or say you havent decided yet and your going to "save it for later". it all depends on the level your at with her and the vibe your getting. but thats how i prefer to handle that situation.
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:55 PM
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sidebar dude....
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:48 PM
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most relevant comment iv read.... thank you molsonice. That is exactly what iv been lacking these past few weeks. although i am coming off of a 1day number + next night F-close OKC date. so i have a little bit of reinvigorated energy towards this. despite only 3 hrs sleep LOL!
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:03 PM
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as a current salesman, this makes soooo much sense. iv actually been using much of what i pick up on seddit in just general interaction with my clients. male or female, many have the same emotional and psychological triggers. or "hot-buttons".
/r/seduction10/08/12 01:43 PM
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sounds like your oneitis keeps you from being genuine with other women therefore making your at bat percentage so to speak extremely low.
/r/seduction10/08/12 01:40 PM
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i...i...but....how u no kno???
/r/seduction31/07/12 02:38 PM
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who cares if she picked him out? as far as performance goes id say he did damn well...
/r/seduction19/07/12 10:13 PM
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giggety
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:21 PM
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sometime lurker and occasional poster here. between AFC and PUA. I have had this problem as well. It a little different for me because I'm 6'3" on the slender/muscular side at 190lbs. I don't look to start trouble but I'm very confrontational if there is a problem and I wont back down. I used to get into quite a bit of trouble just because AFC's, drunks and machos would start staring me down when I was social proofing (guys and girls) and when I realized it I would stare back until they broke aw…
/r/seduction14/07/12 03:03 PM
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why the hell should girls get off this subreddit? IMHO girls can learn just as much as guys and who in the hell wouldnt want a girl that you opened to flirt back with intention of picking you up? or even have a girl open YOU? If you want to be that close minded I suggest YOU might want to get off this subreddit...
/r/seduction14/07/12 02:46 PM
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Also, whoever downvoted this is a complete idiot and should leave seddit forever.
/r/seduction12/07/12 01:10 PM
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THIS IS GENIOUS!! I love it!
/r/seduction12/07/12 01:08 PM
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i regret i have but one upvote to give this fine gentleman.
/r/seduction12/07/12 01:06 PM
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