pbg924 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Beware: After years of a committed relationship, a SCROTE will decide that you were just FWB the entire time. He will play dumb and try to gaslight you. Do not believe his lies girl. That's so f-ing stupid. So dude, I guess you spend time with & money on women you DON'T like?! FOH. And don't say it's a "like you enough to f--- you" situation because you don't need to spend that much time with someone just for sex. But I've seen several males on YouTube who give relationship advice to women state things like "some guys will do all the relationship things with you knowing they have no intention of things going anywhere with you just to fill a void. If he doesn't label what you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 01:12 AM
76	It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one. Loyalty to Black men that isn't returned. Also, lack of attraction towards the majority of White men, which may also be a trauma-based reaction to the atrocities of slavery. So that leaves other men of color at best. Most Asian (including Indian), Native American, & Middle Eastern men almost exclusively date within their own, respective ethnic groups. Partially due to their culture & partially due to the media's misrepresentation of Black women. I don't think this is quite as prominent among Lat…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 12:46 AM
56	It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one. This is beautifully articulated. It's such a complicated history, starting with us (Black women) feeling like we have to make up for the rest of the world not treating Black men like men while simultaneously fearing them. We feel obligated to protect their (especially) fragile sense of masculinity. During slavery, Black men no doubt felt powerless & impotent because they couldn't be with their families, couldn't protect Black women from being raped by slave masters, & had to cower towards White …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/20 12:29 AM
7	If he’s still blaming women for his behavior, he is NOT a HVM. A HVM is not “the right man for the right one”, he’s the right man 100% of the time and does not exploit Pickmeishas just because he can. Right. How a person behaves is a reflection of his or her character; how you treat said person is a reflection of yours.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 07:04 PM
-2	Male shouldn't be the standard of successful careers. Because it's not grammatically correct. Can't do it. But that's just me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 06:14 AM
10	Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything. When you’re truly over someone, you won’t care if they see you leveling up. It refers to keeping your ex as friends on social media & taking the time & energy to post yourself doing well / fun things (regardless of whether it's true or not) to make him jealous. Or if you truly are doing well & are just posting your fun experiences & achievements as people do, in the back of your mind you think "take that" & hope he sees the post & 1) knows you're doing great without him &/or 2) truly regrets losing you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 12:32 AM
8	Men know men are trash and that’s why they’re so overprotective of their hypothetical daughters. And THAT'S the real solution right there!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 07:06 PM
3	Real, fulfilling sex is about connection & mutuality... Just because your partner likes doggy-style doesn't mean he's totally disconnected from & using you. It's only a problem if that's predominately how he wants to engage, especially the first time. If that happens, halt all activities, pack up & leave. The filming comment is a good point, though I take note that he's put his phone on the nightstand where I left mine (or the coffee table or left it wherever). Most of the time they use it for music actually. But one thing this dude tried to pull was…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 12:08 AM
1	if they do you tit, do them 'TAT' You underestimate us. Especially single mothers. I wish I would find out my son did anything like that. I can't even fathom my response because I know I've raised him so much better than that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/08/20 09:58 PM