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pdtrading/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:10 PM
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Honestly, I seriously love what you wrote. This is very meditatively true. What would you suggest though? How would a person go about this? Do you just accept them for that and keep them as a plate?
/r/askTRP26/11/15 05:41 AM
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That was very beautifully expressed. I went through the same thing of taking it in one by one and just accepting it. Its definitely a hard pill to swallow, a very tough reality, but you are right. Its taking it in steps not all at once. My recent theory is on Awalt, and understanding that not everychick is the same, but that they have the tendency to do so.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 05:40 PM
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For someone on a 14 hour shift, you are absolutely right and awesome at putting it at such a correct way. That book No more mr.nice guy is the MUST READ, first thing to do in TRP I personally believe. When I was bluepill, I had 0 boundries. At RP its something that I learn effectively and enforce gradually. Ultimately having confidence and faith in myself.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:14 PM
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Im sorry, but what the fuck did I just read?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:15 PM
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I gotta say. If there was a thread on this guys boss, Dan. We'd find one hell of a freaking natural Alpha in that guy. I want to learn or know more about him!!
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 02:38 PM
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I fucking love you! You just hit the nail on some of the women that I have met, and even am currently noticing. Such a clear distinct way to realize this truth. Hear him out guys, this is 99% America right now.....granted even the eastern world.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 02:34 PM
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I went through a tough breakup, started on my path to trp, met someone I was really liking, and she started all this bs drama shyt since last week, but went no contact since yesterday. I derailed off the trp wagon, and I gotta thank you for your FR. I see so many similarities to my story at this point, but the mistake was that I went beta before the sex. I regret it all, as I am feeling pretty damn stabbed and depressed. But the lesson here is AWALT............ Fuck............
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 01:10 AM
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I am currently having this problem. Do you have any suggestions or insight on curing it? I've started to watch less porn, to nearly none!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 10:16 PM
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Beautiful! That last sentence man! "Because the man can do something they can’t: feel confident and conquer anxiety. That’s why a man, to turn on a girl, shouldn’t bend over backwards to please her, but rather live an awesome life, selfishly. He shouldn’t build an awesome life for her, because she can’t play in the world series. He should build an awesome life for himself and then allow her to live vicariously through it. " I love this!
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 09:15 PM
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I was going to say this. This is the main key difference between the three you mentioned.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 09:12 PM
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Honestly, this was a very good approach to the validity of Shit testing. Its a great way for somebody in the anger/depressed state (talking from exp) to see it this way. I've been dealing with distance with somebody that I was talking too, and this is a great way to deal with it. Looking at the bigger picture, that if they do it, then it works out for both parties in the long run. Its a good tie with abundance/scarcity mindset also.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 04:17 PM
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I cannot blame you one bit. My ex did this speal once. She was telling me how she doesn't find emotions in having sex with me while we were having it, "its just sex". I said why not? Shes like idk. Then I motioned for anal, she said NO. I said, you did that with your ex. She said yea, but it was "that one time and just sex". I tried again, she screamed no, and said if you do it again, were not having sex. I tucked my soldier in my pants and walked the fuck out of that door.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 10:12 PM
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what a bitch.... lol you should of fucked her right in the ass after that!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:30 PM
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That is sooo fucking on point. Pure gold on that analysis.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 09:28 PM
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You got love from another person broheem. I love that you got up and walked off. Id do the same shyt.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 07:08 PM
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u/OmLaLa I under know means think I have the smv I want, but the way you described Cam is a proceeding problem that I literally just had until I read this FR today. Great job man, it makes me realize that I need to understand Frame much better!!
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 04:32 PM
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Not to mention that no man will ever match up to this guy. On top of that, she will always end up comparing for the next beta guy and she will never be satisfied, while that next guy eventually becomes rp himself.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 02:00 PM
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God this was an incredible post! Thank you for taking the time and sharing both articles and the synopsis to it. I mean damn, talk about fucking ALPHA WIDOWED! This guy is such a fucking TRP posterboy that it is incredible. Im not only inspired by his actions and thought process, it is so much more endearing to hear it from the womans perspective. To understand that all things don't last, and that you should always be true to you and maintain your frame. To be so detached is incredible.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/15 01:58 PM
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I heard and read that taking ZMA and L-arganine do wonders for the T level. Does anybody here on TRP use these two as a combo? Has it helped you in anyway?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:44 PM
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That has to be one of the most redpill, Alpha but not trying to sound Alpha answers Ive seen. Its very impressive, to think so far ahead on both your and her spectrum. And not to mention, you've evidently left her much better than when you found her. That is noble. Your a true Alphamale.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 09:08 PM
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This FR was a good reminder.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 08:23 PM
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Lol I laughed when you said that she was a stone cold bitch in the most complimentary way. I see, so New York seems rather fair. I guess the goal has become to marry up in terms of career woman, but honestly its such a bad spectrum. I thought marrying a chick from another country would be key, (though I've been loosing sight of the concept of marriage); but even those woman are becoming ridiculously Feministic. I take it that you moved from New York. I actually work in Manhattan, and went to sch…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:32 PM
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What state is that? I wonder if NY has something like this.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 02:25 PM
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What Omlala said is spot on. You should just ignore and move on to better things in life.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 08:35 PM
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I do not have the experience you share, but I will say this. You should take the initiative to have sex with her. But lead her. If she still refuses, be ok about it. But slowly move forward.
/r/askTRP21/10/15 08:33 PM
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Why would some really high quality alpha male want to use an app to find "true Love" and put himself in a position of constant testing? It occurs to me that the true dynamic of nature has men and woman in two different polarities and themes of the world. Where the men are providers and woman are inherently subservient. Given the right quality of male this is usually the case. The hamster is strong in her.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:37 PM
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Damn this is an aspiring read! Most of the people that I meet who have an RP mindset, are the ones who went through tough relationships and learned. I see that they do the actions and rationalize it as, "oh its just that way" compared to us at RP who know the intrinisic psychological reason behind why these things occur. Its amazing to see an inspiration in person!
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:20 PM
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This is such a well versed and well written guide! Thank You!!
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:04 PM
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Thats freaking awesome! Thank you :) I gotta find me some escorts! lol.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 04:48 AM
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Lmfao, I shouldn't suggest this. But if you could link that, It would be amazing! But no seriously though, the woman that Ive met on Pof, are seriously something else. My ex was one of them, 6 months. The shit shes done with chad and blue pill me are way different. The shit I did with her after detaching and entering trp, are on another level. Most of the bitches are just that!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 08:18 PM
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^ Exactly what you just said. You only get that when you truly know your worth, and dont really care. There shouldn't be any emotional investment on it.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:35 PM
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Play the same hamster game with her. You had it before you met her. You use it to keep the weapon sharp. Turn the tables on her. You spend all your time with this ltr. Why does she feel threatened, can we work on strenghtening this relationship? Doesn't she trust you. Doesn't she love you? **Her reactions are a good way to see her true colors and if she lives up to YOUR standards. Not the other way around. You determine how valuable she deems you and think if YOU want to keep her around. Turn th…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:54 PM
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I had the same thought. Why would you want kids OP? Who the fuck wants a hanger going up their vagina to scrape some fetus out!!
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:48 PM
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Attraction is a tricky thing. Im no expert, but heres my thought. There is the type that you get at first look. This is a representation of many things, mostly on how high you smv is. Your physique, aura, stance which can assume confidence, style, wealth, how you carry yourself, and looks. All are the first glance that you mentioned. (what this does is hook them. Gets them interested. You want to have this, but for yourself on a daily basis. To better yourself. Not to attract woman. When you do …
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:26 PM
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Then for this time, thats all you should use them for. Their your family, no matter how bad, they are the ones who are always there for you. Being sick, they are there. Just learn to detach. You forget about expectations, and accept them for who they are. And you enjoy their company man. Dont quit Uni, just focus your attention there and lift. When you get a real hobby that you are passionate about, you forget about your virginity and woman. Besides Italian woman are pretty freaking hot, and fam…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:25 PM
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Everything this man just said!! ^ Don't look for any sympathy, that's what you want to fight against. The thing is that your at a prime age of high testosterone, and school and it is very different from the real world. If you can, get a drivers license. And save up for a car. Car sex is better then no sex. If sex is so important to you. You can drive to new places, and adventure. Testing your innate alpha natural skills. Being a dare devil to adventuring and trying new things and locations. Lear…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 01:13 PM
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You. Yes you, are clearly a man who is self actualized, got to where you are through the burn and scorne and accepted the red pill and learned. Thank you for sharing those comments. There is so much truth to all of this, and we should all learn from it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 01:27 PM
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Hey man I know where you are coming from. I think you have to keep in mind that the desi mentality is very different (even though its changing in modern times) compared to the western lifestyle. You sound like you are still in search for the one, as you talk about the beta providers. Its true, our culture definitely is a feminist based one, where the girls are too smart for their own good, and the good guy is this hritik roshan looking dude with money, and will only LOVE one girl. keep in mind t…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:54 PM
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not to mention over weight at times!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:41 PM
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I could only imagine if I read this comment a few months back! Its freaking great!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 08:36 PM
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Dont mention it. Thats a good one, also way of the superior man, by david deida. you should also definitely read 48 laws of power.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 03:15 PM
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This is a great service your providing. Thanks for helping this community grow man!
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 02:56 PM
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Thats exactly the spirit! You go for you. And remember, every freaking person, was at that point of being fat or lanky. Everybody has a stage 1, a worst point. What defines success is the guy willing to work hard to move past it. In a year, this guy wont mean shyt to you. In essence he may even become a buddy, but lets not get ahead of ourselves. Im glad to hear that your taking the right path and doing what makes you happy. Really try to read that book. No more mr. Nice guy! It will teach you a…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:49 PM
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I suggest always hug! you set the tone of your confidence in touch. They know to always embrace it.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:45 PM
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threesome it!
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:43 PM
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The less you say, the more mysterious you are. The more mysterious you are the more confident you become. The more confident you become, the more wet her panties get. Do the math friend. It only matters what you think. Not her. Do what works for you. You can keep that as a secret, and if she ever finds out, you have a sly grin and mention what u/Modified_Hackware said! Your past, is then. You are a new person now! Embrace it, and let others embrace you!
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:43 PM
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Ill give you the best advice possible kid. It helped me when I needed it. "Fuck him". A fight doesn't need to be a fight. Bigger guys use intimidation in order to scare off ppl, its a basic animalistic thought process. But they have more to loose. They work harder for their size. You should learn to fight, and eat, and lift to grow yourself. Use this as a catalyst to evolve and get to the next better stage of yourself. As for the gym, if you can change it, do so. If not, ignore the faggot who do…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:37 PM
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Loose the V card man! It'll be a sting at first, but its completely worth it in the long run. Society has taught us this irrational thought of finding the one, and having love with it. This causes alot of problems down the road, such as ED. You as a man need to loose the romanticism, and find your primitive carnal side, where sex is just sex, and for the right person and own personal needs you can make it a love based experience. But in order to do that, you have to be sexually confident. Better…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:26 PM
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I know the feeling. I dont have proof of being cheated on aside my ex's actions. But who the fuck cares at this point. Just move forward and grow for yourself! Like you said, blocked and next :)
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:11 PM
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Thank you:) I really appreciate it man. How did you deal with your shit test?
/r/askTRP10/10/15 10:30 PM
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I dont blame you for the guilty feelings. Its almost a right of passage, that in time when you give a bit of distance, and the vines of attachment grow weaker from malnutrition of this girl emotionally feeding it, you will be fine to fuck again. I have the same problem. Past the break up, and have ED. Its because I've always seeked emotional attachment with woman, and associated sex as a higher plane of a relationship. Unfortunately, while we're out trying to figure out what gets our dicks hard,…
/r/askTRP10/10/15 04:39 AM
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Someone is going to enjoy this chick, why not be you? Go for it. Be suttle, and go the kiss. If she says no, you know your answer. And be cool about it. No need to be embarrased. Its human nature, you go for what you want. THats alpha my friend. If she doesn't like it, you acknowledge it, curteously say sorry and move forward to find another woman. ;)
/r/askTRP10/10/15 03:42 AM
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Why do you need a reason? More so, from a random stranger on the internet. Do you find that an acceptable trait? Do you think its fair, and more so, are you willing to condone it? Thats where your TRP journey starts. Its with, why is she doing this? Why do you rely on her so much to accept this behavior? Can you imagine yourself going out to get what you want, and be treated the way you deserve?
/r/askTRP10/10/15 03:38 AM
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WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!! NO!!!!!!!!!!111 STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You aren't realizing what you learned from TRP young Jedi! Everything you want is limiting you from your better self!! Seriously cut that shyt out. You are still attached to her. You are still emotional to her. You are still in a ego phase with her. You have to let this one go, big guy! Understand that you having ED problems was the reason for her to dump you the next week, and stay away for 2 months so far, instead of working with you. Why …
/r/askTRP10/10/15 03:34 AM
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Oh boy. I see nobody responded to you here. That sucks, this is a post that should get more attention. If Im first, then hear what I have to say......... I had a very shitty relationship which led me from being the romantic bb to the on the path trp male I am atm. There were good times and there were bad times. I did alot for my woman, and I was rewarded by the same shit test. I dont see this continuing, I see you as a friend, I dont know, etc............ I first tried to explain why we were gre…
/r/askTRP10/10/15 03:12 AM
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lmfao never thought of this!
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 08:44 PM
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I freaking love you and this post! Its right on the money, we are hunters galore!! Honestly, OP Id say work on SMV, and build yourself up to be something confidently fierce. So even a bad day is a good one. And go to places you enjoy. Comic-con, bookstores if you like anime. Homly girls are usually at a cafe, or grocery, etc. Esp. in baking isles. Gym rats in the gym, but they ususally ride the cocktreadmills instead of the cock carasol. Etc. Im working on this too! I wouldn't go for a online gi…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 08:39 PM
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Unfortunately for you, everything that u/53x12 said couldn't have been more true. You should take his advice. I think you should actually give the girl some space. If she lost attraction for you, you cant bargain your way back. Also, its impossible to ALWAYS be attracted to someone, especially when the girl is so young. Highschool constitues drama. She probably gets her mill of the day from her friends saying that shes dating a older guy. That's what got her attracted in the first place, The tab…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 04:16 PM
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I dated this chick who had a messed up past (to my viewpoint) and she had some disease thing going on where she gained weight. She used to look pretty hot, but by the time my blue pill ass got her, she had gained some heavy weight. Not fat, but chunky, making her go from a once was 8 that got fucked left and right, to a 5 or 6, thinking shes still a 8, still getting fucked left and right. Her best friend, has three kids or something from different dudes. So reading your post made me think that w…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:05 PM
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Great freaking exp for you. Pretty damn AWESOME!!
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 08:53 PM
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In this day and age, nearly every chick is on that shyt.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:00 PM
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I remember your other post. I had commented something on that too. Good job man, glad to see that you went through it and figured it out. She wasn't worth it. But you learned that by going through with it. It must be nerve fucking racking to alway's have to play aloof, and avoid texting, knowing you want to. Checking your phone and whatnot. I say good job man!! You pulled through, and learned that even if you LTR'd this Tinder chick. Fuck it, it aint worth having to be on your toes, just to make…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 03:58 PM
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This is a great FR. You cover so many things along the line of attracting the girls. Such as keeping your frame, They go for the dangerous and alpha guy. Its sad, but being a good provider means your the guy they settle for at times.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:45 PM
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lol agreed. Hey I guess it isn't pretty degenerate of me to "lock down" in other words emotionally force and mentally manipulate a decent wife in my late 20's so that she is bound to the shackles of responsibility and being subservient to a degenerate man. So she can change her goals in life of being free to adventure the world, to be brought down in a whim of child bearing, and loss of attraction. Being sound that she wakes up to a man like me every morning, while her friends are out getting wr…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 02:20 PM
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This is going to be my mantra. I fucking love it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 12:02 PM
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I dont agree with that to be honest with you. I think, that like most woman, the reality is that they arent too smart. She put herself in a situation that was detrimental to her commitment. She put herself in the place of getting drunk, which sounds like a girls night out shyt. It sounds like her friends woo'd her. Chances are, she has hit the wall friends in her home town, who she speals like a little piggy to about her sexual exploits about her alpha bf. THey are clearly jealous, and though sh…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 09:26 PM
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Fuck this bitch, not literally. She's illiterate for one. She "did" older guys. I'm certain she meant dig. Anyways, not that I dislike milfs. They are walking, talking and attractive vaginas. I just wouldn't waste my time with a dumbass chick like this. These are the same woman that say, oh a real man will love me for me, and my mistakes. Wont judge my poor choices in life, but I can give them shyt for not having a decent career or a well defined body. Fuck that shit. Seduce them, pump and dump …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 09:08 PM
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Your name is Nishal. That sounds Indian, are you hindu by any chance? Because Hinduism is one super Red pill truthed religion, but society and govt. have changed it wayy too much!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 07:22 PM
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They should all be viewed as a utensil to fuck! Dont give them money. If they bitch, fuckem and find another. If you had that kind of tail in the first place, you can get another. Hence Abundance!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 02:38 PM
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Thank You for your post brotha! It is definitely motivating, I'll tell you that! I recently broke up and it opened my eyes. I dont think my ex will be back, and that is for the best. I dont realistically need the validation, though I do want it. I have been in a hybrid monk mode, and Im still working on it. Your post really cheered me up, as I have alot of bs going on! Cheers! Btw, Im religious and have been where you were. Still may be a bit there. But Im learning to accept my religion in the s…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 02:33 PM
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Her family and friends will never support you. Its her they will always support. They don't care if your hungry man. Fuck it and next her. Trust me, I had similar shyt to deal with.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 05:18 AM
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Ive been on Models, and its messing with my head. A few weeks back, I was more into my anger phase, and it ushered a true idgaf mentality. As Im slipping from the anger, and moving towards the ideals of Models, I see more of my bluepill self. Its really confusing!
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:38 AM
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lol thankyou man, it is greatly appreciated. Especially seeing the post's and replies from you and others here. I can't say that I have a follow up. I have yet to succeed and find myself, but Im definitley in the process. But I will absolutely keep what you said in mind. I like the title of it too. I haven't had sex since my ex, but I have been on dates. I just need to find a way to capitalize. P.S /u/iLLprincipLeS thanks for your comment man. I didn't realize this, but after reading your post, …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:59 AM
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Thats freaking genius. I never thought of it that way. But I feel like a ltr might help it then.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 02:58 AM
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Its really too much to name. But essentially, all of hinduism and buddhism is where the concepts of TRP derive from when you look through it. Warrior mentality, keeping frame, stories of awalt exist through the goddesses, following your passion and growing for your own needs, mgtow. The essence of becoming a complete man are there through their texts, and stories. Understanding that attachment is bad, everything has an end, etc. You see the Dieties with plates. I mean the kama sutra was derived …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 10:37 PM
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Im Hindu, and though I think you should extract the benefits of a religion to cater to your positivity and personal growth and needs, Hinduism teaches sooo much about Trp that it amazes me how little of its original teachings are passed. Society screwed alot of its theories up, but when you learn about the theories (that buddihism practice aswell, the path of a yogi) you realize what masculinity is, and how everything in nature falls into place, and it is the essence of what TRP is. The main god…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 08:44 PM
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This is a great post. Something I wish that I had worked on earlier today, needed to read this sooner :? Quick qn though, can you emphasize on your interactions in the beginning of getting the plates? Id say Im struggling there.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 08:27 PM
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Why validate it? Fuck it. Just enjoy the ride. KISS. Do you plan to marry her? True story, I met my ex on a dating site. She was a ho, I literally was a virgin. Went through hell in the fucking relationship. She broke up with me, I turned to red pill. And lets see where life takes us. Kiss man, keep it simple stupid. Dont be too invested, but go for the LTR. If its not your turn, it will be someone elses. When you say AWALT, its not just that they all have the tendency for hypergamy. They are AL…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 04:16 PM
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I hear that french song from when they're in the hotel room, as OP is going back and forth with zed plate!
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 01:26 PM
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Fucking beautiful! Im at work, clapping with a slight tear of proud manhood coming down! Good SHyt!
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 01:15 PM
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Not all actually. If you show off a bluepill mindset to them too, forget about it. They'll think that they were the reincarnate of Jesus Christ or Krishna themselves. Give a woman, who is soundly cute, but has a mediocre body enough attention, shes gonna think shes a hb20 in her fucking mind.......... Lesson learned.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:37 PM
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Agreed. My 3 count is far greater! lol.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:33 PM
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Can you elaborate on your post with things that worked for you. How you developed those connections with the partners, how you met them, and like your typical interaction with them?
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 03:28 PM
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Here you go Friend! I feel bad for you, simply because I (like others and yourself) have gone through this shit. They get anal, you dont. Fuck em. Leave. Shes older, she'll deteriorate quicker then you. Plus your a a man. I got this from a article yesterday. Read it! I wish you luck on your TRP journey man. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3kw43o/female_duties_vs_male_duties_in_committed/ Leadership, dominance, security (economic, physical, emotional), entertainment, commitment. Of c…
/r/askTRP16/09/15 08:43 PM
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Yea I've seen some of their posts. Its a bit much I think, but I think that Ill try it and rub one out, here and there.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 08:31 PM
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Hmmm I have one. Im gonna give this a shot!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:55 PM
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Nope I dont take anything. I dont drink or smoke either. The only thing I can think of is supplements (whey, creatine, multivitamine, glucosamine). I have performed well before, but thats because I had an emotional connection to the person. But now......?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:47 PM
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I went through a break up with my first LTR, but even then. When I first started having sex with her, I found it hard to get hard. (was a virgin, super anxious, etc.) But afterwards, I got good. But I had a hard time cumming with a condom on. I feel like now, I have this huge problem and dont know if its that the condom is there. Im emotionally not connected to the woman, or Im just pissed. Glad you solved the anxiety and dehydration issue though.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:37 PM
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I hope you handed her that hand towell to wipe her face. If she ever says that again "of course you have a condom" Say, better safe then sorry. But you did ans. positive. When I used to get dates, for some reason I naturally stopped watching porn. Im going to try this!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:35 PM
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Ok, Im definitely going to give this a shot today. I caved in, but my God, it felt amazing! Yikes 90 days seems like a long time.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 07:33 PM
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I need to get the last one. Although my diet has been shit lately.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:24 PM
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Its been a week that Ive stopped fapping and porn. Hopefully this helps man!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:23 PM
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Also, don't masturbate to porn. Wait until you feel like you need a release and only use your imagination. I usually lift but Im definitely going to try this one! This should be good!
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:23 PM
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I tried that, but I clearly didn't do it right. Im going to try to be more chill.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:21 PM
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Hmm ok. Ive Ive stopped it for now, about 7 days alongside nofap. I had sex the other day, and for some reason couldn’t get hard. She was attractive too. I don’t get why though? I think in the past, I always needed to feel an emotional connection/ “love”/ or commitment. Maybe that’s why?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:21 PM
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Hey OP, I have a serious question for you that might help me. How did you overcome ED?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 02:02 PM
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Lol, dont apologize for the rant. Were here to learn about mindsets and develop them, and that happens by expressing each others opinions. I have to agree with alot of what you said, but the funny thing is, until I read your rant, it didnt exactly dawn on me that these are the things that my ex did/does. As a matter of fact, every woman does. Its cringeworth to watch that. I personally believe that facebook should be an outlet, for us men to use in promoting our selves/ marketing our values. Its…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:50 PM
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bitch cant cook. Shes worthless. You can get a slow cooker and a hb8 to fucking cook you a dinner and give you a bj!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 03:48 AM
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Yea I guess your right. But it was all her and her friends idea. I was the one that felt like shit, but Im recovering well I believe! She wanted to break up for months, and Id hold on. If I pushed, she would change her mind. Fucking unstable. But thanks man, I guess I did do the breakup :) Shit test passed!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 03:47 AM
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I still for some reason find it hard to do this. I decided to turn my fb off yesterday. I wanted to enter a monk mode without those distractions and really just embrace life. I hope it helps me man.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 03:45 AM
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She paid me back the money. It wasn't alot, but I was a bit of a dick about it. She really turned sour to the end of the relationship. She wanted the break up, I didn't. I was too beta. She just called me and said she wanted to break up at the end of the week, I told her fuck that, were done today. And ended it. I dont see her coming back. She has alot of text book trp stuff. Dysfunctional past, very high partner count, etc. I was full on betablueballpill, lovey dovey, romantic, white knight. I …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 08:29 PM
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I have a question for you OP. I broke up a few months back. My ex owed me money, and I ended up keeping her on fb. Her family aswell. I never commented or spoke to the bitch again, especially after we broke up. She never bothered me again either. I unfollowed her/and family so I never see her posts. I ended up posting my progress and how much fun Ive had and all the shyt that I have done. I see her face in the side message thing, and I get hit in the feels here and there, but my anger out ways a…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 07:57 PM
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Very, very often adventurous sex is used to lock down a man, and women will withhold it once their goal is achieved. Very true, and very very useful. I see (especially myself), that men who are BB, new to TRP, have this problem big time. Your ex, or LTR has had amazing cc adventures with entry to every door for that amusement ride, but somehow your denied all of it, except for one or two. It was my biggest complaint/ and problem aside having loyalty. Simply put......... Dont give up your bag of …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 04:57 PM
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I needed to understand all this for my last LTR. It could have really helped but its time to move forward for me. Im 25, and Im not sure if your older/younger but what you say is 100% truthfull and helpful. I need to find a way to move out, though I prefer to live with family. I've been fishing too much, and its not helping. I need to just not care, and talk to as many woman normally and not try so hard. Idk why I've been looking so badly for a relationship or fwb. But its not helping my progres…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 02:16 AM
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Got you. Thank you. I need to work on this and internalizing TRP. I have confidence issues I believe and eating clean and clothing.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 07:10 PM
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Im trying to understand how to build my smv after my breakup. Can you describe how you went about it?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 06:16 PM
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stupid fucking bitches. my ex did the same shyt. With some loser ass dude, who she for god knows what reason thought he was alpha. I come along, much more physically alpha, but blue pill to the core mentally and get denied most things, except for the shyt I forced in. Its not worth it, go find a better bitch. Or pay hookers.Fuckit.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 06:09 PM
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A girl just literally asked me, are you a narcissist. I ignored her, and she started validating herself.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:49 AM
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Why respect a woman who doesn't throw themselves at you when you mock them. Aside immediate family members, these musty bitches don't deserve it.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:12 AM
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The TV show: Satisfaction. It is actually right spot on with ALOT of TRP material. I dont know why its not mentioned here more often, or at all!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 12:27 AM
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Truly inspiring and beautiful story. Its a position of power that most people can never experience, saving someones life! Congrats from another trp bretherin!
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 12:19 AM
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I completely agree with you. My past experience has definitely taught me this. You can't take them seriously and they all have BPD at this point. To much dysfunctional situations with their past.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/15 11:26 PM
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Its incredible. We are in complete different places in our lives, but my last LTR, which is the time span of 1/4 yours and exp. with woman, was soooo close to yours its incredible. Thankyou for sharing your FR. It truly helps me, and others around willing to grow, learn from your experience. You reminded me of soooo much shyt that I had subconsciously repressed. Hit the ball for a homerun!!
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 09:12 PM
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Your kidding me. Bitches in your age Im assuming not too old are BPD............Still? Their fucking post wall, and low in smv and these bitches still contrive the fact that their more than a pussy? Fuck, I know bitches in late teens to twenties are stupid, but their is no hope for these fuckers!
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 03:09 AM
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Im sorry that you had to go through that bro. If you can, read the story I posted by clicking my name. Its my relationship sumed up. Let me leave you with this parting gift. GTFO. Im sorry man, it means alot that she lives with you. But if this bitch, or any bitch gives you the option to leave. You keep your dignity and leave. Most people think, oh, shes testing me to see if Im the one guy who will stay. NO! ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT! Girls know value when they have it, except their add brain makes…
/r/askTRP09/09/15 02:26 AM
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I 1^ this guys comment. Your kind of like her lacky. Im reading No more Mr.Nice guy, great fucking book. I highly suggest you read it. Anyways, your not giving the whole story. What happened after she walked home, did she understand, was she bitchy, did she automatically start hinting that some chad is praising her. If she was ok, and offers you value aswell, meaning she helps you grow and not just offers once in a while sex, then it might be worth correcting her.
/r/askTRP09/09/15 01:13 AM
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Im curious to hear your story brotha, if you want to share it. I'd love to hear. I just got out of something wacky myself, and its been a learning lesson for me. I can't say I know what you mean by safety net.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 01:09 AM
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Your lucky that you get a taste of satisfaction at the very least. Believe me, I jut went through a bad breakup. Complete whiteknight, Lover, BP to the last pill. I was the one who got shattered. I doubt that I get that redemption, but its amazing to just fucking move on.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:04 AM
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Awesome. Id like to see a FR with this, if anybody has.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 08:28 PM
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Broke up in June myself, how did you transition from not caring so much, and going to this release monk mode state? I spiralled out of control after my breakup.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 07:32 PM
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And here society continues. This woman just gave rise to a future CC daughter, or Betafuckingbuck son, as you move on. Fuck her stupidity, society cant vilify shit. Your peace of mind and Happinness are your factor. You can provide a great life for your daughter, who will end up being successful in relationships and life. Just the dynamic of a Male role model to a daughter.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 06:44 PM
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Sorry you gotta go through this man. I had this similar problem, and went through hell with my ex, and still now that we broke up I am. Thanks to alot of rp'rs I am growing. I think you did the perfect thing. You ditch her ass, set your boundaries and let her live her life with betabuckorbiterfagnut. You set your boundaries, and move forward. Unfortunately, I don't understand the premise of why some of these guys are saying "you failed a shyt test. It wasn't Alpha. etc." This wasn't a shyt test.…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 07:34 PM
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This is a great way to look at woman, in order for you to grow. Their feminist hamster minds won't admit it. But their subconscious will appreciate it.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 05:02 PM
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You are right with this. I appreciate the advice definitely. I think my breakup recently got me to think this way. I used to work out to look good for her, where I had the same situation as OP. After my break up, Ive been working hard to raise my own value. To walk and feel different.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:29 AM
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Im really confused right now with my smv. If thats possible. I dont look bad, and I like I how look. I work out, im pretty muscular, and I have a dark appearance, but my nice guy nature makes me goofy happy. Until my recent break up, I haven't really held frame, and now its changing. My confidence is changing I think. But you are right. I still struggle with woman, and its because I have always been respectful and kept them in the pedestal. How did you find out about your smv?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 02:28 AM
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I'll report my progress. But Im still in a damage control phase I think. Still not completely over the ex. Still hell. But Ive approached more women, and I care much less. I need to trust it :]
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 07:07 PM
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You my man just made my day. Im not going to lie, Ive been doing the deeds to self improvement, though Im far from being where I need to be. Ive been reading no more mr. Nice guy, and it hits so close to home, its sleeping in my bed. Im in the process, but haven't found my plates yet. But I am socializing. I want that. I need that hb8 with dd's to crave me, not for my happiness. But for me to move forward!!
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 06:54 PM
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This same shyt happened to me. Its a fucking painful ass (no pain(al) in her ass) experience. To be the minivan, get fucked over, because some dude fucked your ex in the ass like you dreamed of, but didn't get because you were too beta. And the bitches act like its normal. Burn her with fire......... (anger phase).
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 05:44 PM
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So much Truth that its ridiculous. I can tell that you were a nice guy, who swallowed the pill and reclaimed your manhood.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:00 PM
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That deserved a standing ovation.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 02:19 PM
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I need to view the chad threads.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:41 PM
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why would you tell to a girl your fucking sob story? do you think they are dumb and will care for you like mommy when you tell how the big bad exgirlfriend treated you like a doormat? lol I think I read one of Tomassi's article or a post where they said no woman will ever love you like your mother. I never knew that, I figured because Id take care of this chick when she was sick, she'd do the same. But no, thats my stupidity. I dont think that now. I wanted to see if really AWALT. And sure enoug…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:45 PM
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Im being told this by every guy, and every girl says otherwise. That fucking another girl will help me move on. I really hope so. I have alway's been too emotional, but I need to find another person to fuck. hmmm. Your question really threw me off. I wont lie, all this time I hoped that would happen. Regardless of knowing how I was treated like shyt. Logically I know people do not change. And I have so much hatred esp for her, I wouldnt be able to go. Its the ego and the emotions. BUT, I wont li…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:37 AM
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lol, yea the post was pretty long. I just had to let it out. I have been working on this though. Hanging with friends, and getting their insight. Its weird, they've all experienced a heart break, and have never read trp stuff, and are so red pill it baffles me.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 03:34 AM
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Did they find those emotions again? I feel like, its not possible after being self actualized. Im meeting some woman, but Its just not clicking.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:48 PM
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Right. I need to take those next few steps.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:47 PM
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lol that did cheer me up. Thankyou.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:46 PM
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Ive been approaching more, because I feel like I understand not caring, and the fact that awalt. Also the abundance mindset. It hasn't fully synced in yet. But being honest, I just feel damn depressed from this ONE girl, and it just has me at a lost. Its like I dont want to go through it again, the back of my mind subconsciously still cares for her, and Im just kind of down about it.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:46 PM
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Damn it, when your right you are right. She is my Kryptonite unfortunatly. I was really hoping that soemwhere along the lines, I become a Alpha, chad type person, who gets to plate her. But my mind is to fucked up right now. Shyt, thats actually what I would want.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 10:37 PM
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I have been doing that, and its hard even months after. But you are right, thankyou.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:31 PM
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lol thank you :)
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:30 PM
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I honestly don't know why I am. But I am. Ive spent the past two months meditating and reading, and I cant find that answer. I want to know why I feel this way myself. The only thing I can think of is that I am in scarcity mindset, she is a oneitus, my first. I truly worked like hell and did sacrifice alot during the 6 months, and do not feel appreciated (nice guy problems) and I have always had a hard time letting go. Im sort of a hoarder, with emotional attachments to inatimate objects even. E…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:30 PM
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I would greatly appreciate that help. Because THAT is exactly what I want to do. Leave her in the past, and move on fresh. I will pm you my skype name if you do not mind.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:24 PM
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lol I feel like slapping myself so I cannot blame you. Step 1: I feel like if I delete her from fb, I will look like a bitch. Shred any ounce of alpha. At the same time, I have been much more active, Ive gained size, look a bit better and been posting my life out on fb and ppl seem to think Im doing incredible. Between us I am not. Should I still delete her? Im sure she doesn't give two shyts, but should atleast burn. 2.) Done. 3.) I have been much more active, started hitting legs, hit a PR las…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 07:23 PM
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Your right. I hope that in the long run I do learn my lesson, and never have to experience this painful bs again. I haven't had any luck on Tinder. I do lift, and my physique is pretty good. But I really havent had luck on Tinder.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:23 PM
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Thank you for the suggestion. I am not going to lie, I dont feel comfortable meeting other woman right now, but you are right. When I think about it, if I found a more attractive female, I feel like it would easily over ride my feelings for this ex. I am fighting Awalt, It feels like a hopeless scenario that all woman are hypergamy and alway's cc. I feel like Ive lost complete faith in the gender and the way I was raised........from one damn chick. I will read 48 laws of power. I haven't read th…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:22 PM
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That is exactly what I am reading right now. Thank you for that, it really is a interesting book. Im realizing the mistakes I make, are from the years and youth of being a nice guy. Its really opening up my eyes.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:19 PM
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lol I like that saying. I'll keep it in mind.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:54 PM
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Hmmm thats something that I definitely haven't tried. I don't know why I made her important, but you are right I did. Thank You, I will give this a shot. I dont want sympathy from this, I did earlier at one point, but I am passed that. I did learn that if ever again a girl wants to break it off, I break it off. No heisitation. I used to think it was some sort of shyt test to see if Im worth it, but no girl who values you will ever be willing to test you to the point of loss. Do you have any sugg…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:43 PM
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