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| 9 | Everything in this subreddit is useless in AmericaWhat advice did you receive here that was useless, exactly? | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:33 AM |
| 32 | Everything in this subreddit is useless in AmericaThat’s funny because the advice in the sub is almost entirely based on American / Western dating culture. I suppose you could try for an arranged marriage in India? | /r/seduction | 12/07/26 01:24 AM |
| 6 | Reading this sub makes me over-think everythingOk. Have fun and remember to wash your hands | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 11:56 PM |
| 12 | 100% serious: should I give up?You’ve had more success in your one year of trying than most guys here have had in several or more. Myself included, I even needed two years to get off the ground. And now you’re talking about giving up? I swear so many guys who wind up here have zero idea what real adversity and perseverance looks like. “Omg I tried to learn seduction and how to pickup girls for one year and I only had sex with one girl this whole time, should I quit?” This is what you sound like right now. So you tell us, shou… | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Leslie Abramson: the woman who fought for male victims of abuseAh gotcha | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Leslie Abramson: the woman who fought for male victims of abuseWhat did I do? | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 04:37 AM |
| -5 | Leslie Abramson: the woman who fought for male victims of abuseYeah at first the title got me, hell yes let’s support women who support men and then the example given is the lawyer for the menendez brothers and her failed legal defense of two murderous psychopaths | /r/MensRights | 10/03/26 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I am 25 now and never been with a girl. :(Are you ever alone with girls and just failing to escalate or are you not even getting to that point? | /r/seduction | 10/02/26 03:35 AM |
| 5 | Vulnerability is consistently rated as one of the most attractive traits in men by women. Not weakness—vulnerability. The willingness to be authentic even when it's uncomfortable.This is a great post, though it’s like the 400-level grad course when many guys here are at “Talking to girls like a human being 101”. If you have the mental and emotional maturity to be direct with women (and yourself) about your desires and needs like this you probably don’t need this sub. So… take notes y’all. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 02:40 AM |
| 7 | Why approachingIf you are genuinely confident and can handle rejection, it’s not self devaluation. Some people disagree with me and that’s fine but in my opinion, confidently asking a girl to take a step with you (asking for socials, phone number, a date, to go back to your place, whatever) and doing it well IS a display of value in and of itself. Now, confidence is a skill that can be learned. One of the best ways to work out that muscle and get it strong is by pushing your limits and cold approaching. That’s… | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 05:46 PM |
| 6 | The PUA lifestyle - Life as a projectThat’s gonna be a no from me, dawg | /r/seduction | 23/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 2 | How to get more than sex from a certain girlI got you. Honestly we talk a lot about things like how girls decide if a dude is fuckable in the first five seconds, and how first impressions are everything, but don’t sell yourself short either - you have intuition too. If you ignore what your dick is telling you, are your eyes and ears telling you that she’s available or even capable of what you are looking for? If not, you can’t change her, you’re just gonna get oneitis and a broken heart (and it’ll be your own fault). Best we can do is enj… | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 04:12 AM |
| 12 | How to get more than sex from a certain girlI mean, from everything you’ve described about her it just sounds like she is not seeking the same kind of relationship you are. Also - you’ve gone on one date and hooked up. I’m old, but even “in my day” that hardly meant you guys are now exclusive or something. She doesn’t seem crazy about you and it’s difficult after this much (first impressions, first date, first kiss, first lay, etc) to change that. But do you even really want to try? I’m not getting the vibe that you really like this girl … | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 03:53 AM |
| 4 | What book changed your dating life?..(for the better)Yeah, the couch move is a classic push-pull, it’s just nice to have an actual example of it in practice. | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 07:01 PM |
| 22 | What book changed your dating life?..(for the better)Had to do with reframing. I don’t remember exactly how he put it but, we were sitting alone on her couch, what I did was immediately after the kiss rejection, not upset or sad or anything, just being my regular happy self, I got up and just moved a bit further away on the couch. Not all the way on the opposite end, just far enough to create some uncomfortable space. She asked if I was ok and all I said with a smile was “of course, I just really respect boundaries.” Within a minute she had closed… | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 04:40 PM |
| 11 | What book changed your dating life?..(for the better)Models was fine but I gravitated more to Rules of The Game. Decent mix of sharing personal experiences, stories, “here’s what you do in this situation”, and a 30-day program for growth. It has probably aged a little bit for the worse but it was hugely helpful at the time. Strauss’ advice on kissing in particular was spot-on. He has a bit on what to do if you get rejected on a kiss and it works. I took his advice and turned getting rejected for a kiss into getting laid in the span of 5 minutes. S… | /r/seduction | 25/09/25 03:52 PM |
| 13 | Can you really attract women if you’re not doing well inside?1) Depends what you mean by “not doing well”, plenty of girls have a nature to nurture and will absolutely be attracted to guys who are kinda fucked up on the inside and vulnerable, as long as they are decently attractive physically 2) Yeah you can absolutely fake it, I think most people put on a face to get just through a regular day, putting on a facade that you’re all put together is a pretty normal thing to do so you can just fit in, forget just attracting a girl. You can always try to meet … | /r/seduction | 28/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 8 | I don't understand “game”Look, you either have the attitude that you can change your circumstances and get better at attracting women, or you don’t. Not every guy is born to be tall with dimples and a great head of hair. There are things outside of your control. There are however, things within your control that you can work on. There is knowledge and tips about how to interact with women that can help you. I am a tall guy with dimples and a full head of hair and it still wasn’t easy for me, I had to learn and grow and … | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 10:12 PM |
| 327 | 3 Texting Techniques That Consistently Get Me Laid From TinderAlright, fine, I’ll eat the downvotes for this and stick my neck out but I ultimately don’t give a shit if this post is botted or not. The post follows the rules of the sub, offers advice and experience, and most importantly - the advice is good. It applies in just about all theories of game (Models, Rules of the Game, etc) and the dude offered many examples for use. If it is botted, ok, I think that’s weird that someone feels the need to do that, but reading through, I think the post itself bel… | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 06:59 PM |
| 27 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?It is, you’ve just gotten inside your own head so much you’re making it seem more complicated than it is. That could be due to the autism, or your ego going on the defensive so it seems like too hard of a task to do, or something else. I sympathize, but that doesn’t change the fact that to go out with a girl, you’ll likely have to ask one out. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 04:58 AM |
| 28 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?“Hey :) I’m ____. Look, I never do this, but do you want to grab a bite to eat/go grab a coffee/come to this party/go do something later?” | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 04:53 AM |
| 6 | (FIELD REPORT): Went out and was on point socially, but still very hesitant to be polarizing with women.Steps in the right direction. Continue working out those social muscles and pushing your limits. Next goal for you should be to approach a girl with intent. Intent to converse, intent to flirt, intent to ask back to your place - whatever, I don’t care. Work up to it and do it. See a girl you like who has something you can talk about going on and go talk to her. And hold your eye contact - so important. That’s confidence incarnate right there. Remember that progress is not linear. If you have a n… | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 03:20 AM |
| 2 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalOk… but how does faking it until you make it apply to what we are talking about with the kiss thing? Anyways we are probably pretty close to being the same page here. I’m just saying that after you’ve been with a lot of women you know that you won’t always get those strong indicators we talked about (eye contact, touching, hair playing, etc). Some girls flirt differently. Some girls are shy or have zero clue how to flirt. That’s why I developed the line I gave, for situations where I wasn’t quit… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalThis might just be a difference of philosophy here, like you said you are talking about “displaying confidence”, which is fine, I’m talking about being confident. Confident enough to be politely direct with a girl and actually be ok with what happens. Which you will (hopefully) agree is better than lacking the confidence to ever find out if the girl is ready for a kiss and missing the moment completely, OR, being overconfident and being shot-down if you go in for a kiss and get rejected. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 10:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalIt’s never failed for me and it’s my go-to close, take it if you want or modify it however you want or don’t. No biggie. Because in a way, it’s definitely seeking validation, yeah. But that’s kind of literally the point of the post - what indicators can you get that a girl is actually ready for a kiss? If you get away from game “theory” and are talking about what works practically, it is so bold to show that you are confident just being so direct and flat-out with a girl… that’s literally what i… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 02:04 PM |
| 93 | How do you make a female give you a kiss me signalIf she touches you a lot, and at nice moments she holds strong eye contact, especially with a lot of smiling - usually always been my best predictor that a girl was ready for a kiss. Being potentially rejected for a kiss is kind of a nightmare for me so whenever I felt chemistry and I was pretty sure but not 100% she was ready I would hedge my bets by saying a line, feel free to steal it, modify it for yourself if you think it would help: “Look, I can tell you don’t have time for bullshit, so I’… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Should I start hiring dating coaches?Well, u/Last_Consequence2760, you heard it right here from the horse’s mouth. There’s nothing a coach will tell you that is particularly more insightful than what you hear elsewhere, you’ll just get more attention. If you find more value in that, it’s your call | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Should I start hiring dating coaches?Good on you! Ok here’s another tip (for free, too!): remember that less is more when you’re just trying to chat a girl up and get a number/insta. Girls like anticipation, even if you’re drop dead handsome, it’s the mystery of who you are and how the future with you will go that really gets girls going. You take more and more of this away from a girl the more you talk right off the bat. (This is another reason why we say dms should mostly be brief and to the point: setting up a meet.) Don’t blath… | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:32 AM |
| 25 | Should I start hiring dating coaches?I can’t possibly comprehend what a dating coach would tell you for $2,000 USD that you wouldn’t hear here for free or in a $16 book. “Make more approaches.” But to be fair, I’ve never hired one so maybe they’re secretly based. It’s ok to fuck up when you’re learning how to flirt with women. It’s ok to fuck up at anything when you are learning. You’ll be fine, spend the money on something fun that you can tell a girl you did, or meet one at. Keep trying. Remember what works and what doesn’t. Ask … | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | How do you manage all the people in your life + easy way to do this?Sounds like you need spreadsheets for who you are spreading sheets I’ll see myself out now | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you manage all the people in your life + easy way to do this?What do you mean by “manage?” Generally I would just progress things with each girl until I could see if chemistry was there and/or bed them. After that, if there was mutual interest in keeping things going, I’d keep up with that girl, if there wasn’t, I wouldn’t. Even with multiple girls there’s truly not much to manage there. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 6 | How to handle women scared by my approachFew things you could do, obviously be mindful of your tone and the actual words you are saying, don’t just walk up next to some girl who is totally engrossed in something and say “HI HOW YOU DOIN.” The best thing, however, would be to just come up with something funny/witty to say next time you surprise a poor girl so you can snap that uneasiness. I don’t really have canned openers with girls and try to adapt to the situation, so unfortunately I don’t have a line that will work for you every tim… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:23 AM |
| 5 | How to handle women scared by my approachAre you making any eye contact with these girls prior to speaking? | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 01:54 AM |
| 20 | Decent car for getting girls?Buy a used 2012 Honda Odyssey on dealer financing, this lets all the girls know you aren’t afraid of commitment | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Strategy help neededPrepare to have a good time without her, and if she comes back in contact and you don’t have to bend over backwards just to see an ex-gf then enjoy that too. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 03:24 AM |
| 17 | How do you greet girls on the second date if you've already kissed on the first date?Kiss on the cheek. You’re not married or even exclusive at this point. Good question! | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Approaching someone at the canteen at work. What can happen?For just asking what someone’s name is? HR better just be calling to correct a timesheet or something | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Approaching someone at the canteen at work. What can happen?She might prefer to be alone and unbothered on her break. Or, she might be happy to have someone come by and talk for a minute. You don’t know until you find out. There’s nothing wrong with sitting with someone at the break room and chatting them up politely if they were people you just wanted to be friends with. So, what’s wrong with doing that with someone you find attractive? Just keep it polite, no innuendo, keep your head (and mouth) out of the gutter and take the hint if she prefers to be … | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on reviving negative position and escalating.You’re in college and too young to drink, and if you’re like I was at 19 you’re broke as a joke, living between part-time job checks too. The benefit of this is that you don’t have too many options to worry about. I liked coffee dates or inviting girls to parties I’d be going to. If you hate coffee and don’t party often, well I don’t know what you got going on in your college town, but if there’s 20k college kids there has to be something fun and free/cheap to do. Remember, you just want to spen… | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on reviving negative position and escalating.Agreed. If you like her, ask her to go do something with you. Just try to be cool and polite about it so that on the rare possibility she says no, it’s not awkward for you and her in class later. It’s no big deal either way and you have nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 03:46 AM |
| 14 | Why are redditors so against and negative about approaching women?You comment lumps desensitization to rejection along with desensitization to “the discomfort of women”. The first is fine, the second is not. I never advise people here to do the latter and I hope others here don’t either. Sometimes guys don’t approach women because they worry it will make the woman uncomfortable. What a lot of us are trying to get those people to realize is that you never know until you try, and in the vast majority of cases it is perfectly fine to just go up to a girl and talk… | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 04:35 PM |
| 26 | Neil Strauss 30 days - Day 2So, unless Strauss updated the challenge, the hardest day for me was the phone call one - dialing up (at least 5?) random numbers, playing it off as a mistaken call to whoever answers and then making the conversations as long as possible, not hanging up until the other person does. Not gonna lie, felt cringey as hell and it seemed like one of the few times the stylelife challenge just felt dated. But, a few pissed off people and one angry, possessive boyfriend later, I got through it. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Tired of WomenIf the girl has agreed to the date, she’s comfortable enough. It’s not your responsibility to try to make her feel better about that decision every day before the date. Remember, girls are getting off on the mystery and anticipation. Don’t take away from that by texting her every day beforehand. The risks outweigh the benefits. Once the date is set up, just be confident that the date will be a good time and move on quick from the inevitable flakes here and there. On to the next. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you reignite the chase with a man if you were too available?So, it is possible to rekindle these kinds of sparks. The “running into him on purpose and playing it off” move can actually work. If you’re not physically in eyesight of him at some point, and you’re no longer really speaking, he’s moved on or already in the process of moving on. You would need to dangle the carrot, basically. But more importantly, are you sure you really want this guy? The fact that he was done with you the moment you shared that you liked him is kind of an obvious sign that h… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Life is Comic ConGoing after the half naked ones at Comic Con is easy mode. Come back after you’ve slayed Victory Mk2 Gundam then we’ll talk bro | /r/seduction | 28/05/22 02:26 AM |
| 7 | Do some of you really think having sex with someone you’re not even attracted to is better than nothing?Yeah but if girls didn’t sometimes sleep with people they weren’t that attracted to, how would you get laid? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset.But the Gelgamek vagina is 3 feet wide and filled with razor sharp teeth | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How to Take Better Tinder PhotosDid you try googling “headshot photographers near me”? You should instantly get some results from local photographers and from the bigger sites like snappr and thumbtack. I’d recommend throwing a request on thumbtack and seeing if you get any bites. Shit, if you live in the Charlotte, NC area, [I’ll do it. ](www.dgimagery.net) | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Got a few questions about partying/clubbing1) immediately 2) I perform a complicated set of manouvers commonly referred to as the “Bernie lean” 3) the beauty of the Bernie is that it can be performed anywhere at any time. I once did a Bernie lean, at a Walgreens. Met a cute girl, with a nose ring 4) full tracksuit with single, thin gold chain | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 06:45 AM |
| 47 | How to Take Better Tinder PhotosOr… and just hear me out… look up a professional photographer in your area and just pay them $50-$200 for a handful of headshots? | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | So i was taking to a girl and her replies are normally kinda late, but I asked her something and she hasn't responded in a while.You answered your question at the end there. Reach out one last time and be ready to move on. On to the next! | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 12:29 AM |
| 2 | What do women like more, cut and ripped or husky/strong?In my experience girls will be split between the husky/otter mode fitness types so it’s pointless to tailor your workouts for that. However, I think there are certain body parts that most women can agree on. Most important probably being arms. Chicks dig big arms, or at least a little noticeable muscle there. Don’t tailor your workouts for hypothetical women. That’s your time to keep your body healthy. Honestly just the musculature that you get from eating somewhat okay and working out consisten… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I see this girl everywhere I goWhatever you do, be cool and respectful. Remember if you do something dickish that you still are going to see this girl all the time, and you don’t want to be in a place where you are dreading bumping in to her. People are gonna have different opinions on what you do, I just think in your position it’s most important HOW you do it. As for what to do, personally if a good chance came up to go for something, then I’d go for it. I like girls and if I’m feeling chemistry with one I’ll check and see … | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Why do women find me attractive one day and not the other?I can't see you on a day-to-day basis, but to answer this question I'm gonna assume you groom yourself, shower every day, and aren't generally taking breaks on your personal appearance on those off days you feel "invisible". Yes, in fact everyone should experience this. Attraction is deeply tied to personal experience, genetics, desires, and varies widely from person to person. No one man will be found attractive by every single female, and vice versa. You are in a better position than many othe… | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Very lost with this girlWell have you actually pursued this girl? I may have misread but all I could see is that you have gone to a few dances. Have you actually asked this girl for coffee or anything? Seduction and kino escalation and push pull and sexual tension are all important, but at some point if you want a girl to be your lady you have to treat her like one. Ask her if she’d like to meet for a regular human everyday thing like espresso (are you in the Med or in the North Sea/Baltic area?) or some food. If she s… | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | this is not a self pitty post, i’m just confused on why this happens and wanted to right about it.I don’t think the advice you need is to set a weight limit on your search bar in dating apps, even though my asshole side thinks that is an awesome feature. My first thought is that something is lacking in your profile or whatever other women can see. There are whole articles written on how to make a more attractive profile. They can be really helpful, in fact my side hustle is literally taking professional headshots for people to use for business/social media because (some) people put so much i… | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 05:02 AM |
| 2 | Crush on a coworker.Sweet, that’s zero pressure when you think about it. At least one person knows you like this girl, so the only awkward thing would be if you DIDN’T do anything about it. Put a smile on and go ask for those digits. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Screwing up my habits on the weekendsNo advice here man, that’s terrible to hear and I can relate. Getting back in the saddle can be brutal. Almost 4 years ago I flew cross country to see my long term girlfriend who I hadn’t seen in person for six months, whole romantic weekend planned, well we had a huge fight, ended the relationship and I flew home heartbroken. I totally lost motivation and gained weight... I went back to a job I had quit a while before. I don’t really know how, but somehow I kept adding little things to get bett… | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Crush on a coworker.First off, is this a serious job and if so is she worth your career if any relationship goes bottom-up? Ok, with that disclaimer out of the way, if you two are both working at some store in the mall, go right ahead and ask her out. See if/when she’s available and go from there. | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 04:18 AM |
| 30 | I'm about to be a 27 year old virgin, should I go have sex just to get the monkey off my back even though im not really interested in casual sex?I’d recommend it. If you were my little brother and I knew you were a decent person, I’d host a party, invite a cute girl and try to set you up together. The issue I see for later life virgins isn’t so much they finally find someone and it doesn’t work because they’re inexperienced sexually, people can be pretty forgiving of that. It’s that a lot of potential life-partners buckle under the pressure of finding out that their interest is a virgin, and trust me, for girls, there can be immense pres… | /r/seduction | 17/08/18 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Go for it at work!? Don't want a #MeToo scene!Is she worth your career? | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Unusual Situation-- need adviceYou made moves. You took her out, you tried to kiss her, you invited her up. Either she doesn’t know what she wants at best, or she is playing little baby mind games at worst. Fuck that noise. | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 12:54 AM |
| 6 | How to Handle This Situation?“I’ve been on over 60+ dates with women so I know when a date goes good/bad.” Sorry it took me this long to write a response, my eyes just stopped rolling from this comment. Ok, not to be mean, but this isn’t really a mystery. Either she is actually super busy or just not that into you. By what you’ve said, you’ve put forward a good-faith effort to see this girl again. The ball is in her court, now. If she responds later wanting to meet you, you’re on, if not, move on. | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 02:07 AM |
| 7 | How to show sexual intent WITHOUT kissing?Not sure why you can’t kiss, and now you’ve got me curious why you can’t. That seems to be the larger issue, my friend. Kissing is the natural step towards sex, and, while isn’t completely necessary to have sex, generally sex and kissing kinda go hand-in-hand. Anyway, in my experience, talking to her is the best answer to your question. You can escalate kino all day but if you don’t go for some kind of close you’re just going to invoke feelings of confusion and doubt in the poor girl. Generally,… | /r/seduction | 02/01/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Got a couple of things that need a couple of answers!Please don’t be offended. First thing - you gotta learn how to kiss close, period. I don’t have the link on how to k-close, but with google at your disposal, there really is no excuse for not kissing a girl, who is dating you, while lying on top of you. FFS, if ever a man needed Sebastian the crab from little mermaid telling him to kiss de girl, it’s you. And please realize that it is ok to be sexually driven. The sex drive has kind of kept our species from going extinct for many thousands of ye… | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Please help me drop this girl.Damn that’s rough. The old “Girl I like still sleeping with her ex” story. Seems like you feel this relationship is doomed - it’s not 100% over, but you definitely received a fair warning that staying in this will probably torture you. Hope this little bit helps: relationships really come down to timing. I’m married now. If I’d met my wife when’s she was still getting over an ex and sleeping with him on/off, we would not be married. You enter the picture and she’s not over her ex yet. You’re not… | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 10:16 AM |
| 3 | Going to 18+ club on Sunday, what to expect?Biggest difference between the two will be the noise and the dancing. Shit's loud in the club so you'll have to be pretty clear when you're talking with people and not a strain to try to listen to. It's really the best place to learn to do more with less conversation. A cool and loud "Hi, I'm ______." with a smile after making eye contact is one of your only pickup lines, so no need to think hard on an opener. No mumbling or complex jokes and avoid small talk without direction as always. Unless … | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Importance of facebook, instagram etcIn terms of game, if you don't really have much of a facebook account, it's not not that important. It is nice to have so that girls you meet can add you, and plenty of girls use FB messenger to talk more than actually texting. You don't need to work hard on its upkeep, I never really did, but bare minimum is to have a nice profile pic of yourself. If you meet someone, she likes you, she looks you up (she will), and she sees your name next to a terrible photo of you or a weed-leaf/illuminati log… | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Need help to getting into it.With the other shit like working out, going to school, working, trying a ton of different hobbies and interests, and overall just generally trying to shape myself into a better person, few years ago I started reading Neil Strauss' "Rules of The Game." Current edition is split in two halves: first is a collection of funny and thoughtful stories/reflections from his time in the game, second half is the "stylelife challenge," as it sounds, a 30-day challenge with little daily assignments, with the … | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Escalating when it's been platonicNothing too hard here, just looks like you might need to read up on your kino escalation - using touch to determine where you are with a girl and building her comfort level with you (as well as sexual tension). Sounds like you're doing fine on the latter if she's comfortable enough to flirt "hard" with you, but to remove any doubt you'll need to test the waters when you talk with her sometime during that party. If you're talking and both feeling pretty good, feel free to give her a quick, soft, … | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Can deleting your Facebook have a significant impact on how women view you?This. I'm not a huge fan of facebook, but it's still an asset, one that you can choose to use or not. It's helpful for keeping in touch with people you meet or knew ten years ago. Plus, if you meet a girl and she likes you, chances are pretty good that she's gonna look you up - better to have a facebook that she can see and, hey, if she adds you, that's probably one of the best indications that she's interested in you that you can get these days. I could go in greater depth if you'd like, but ba… | /r/seduction | 23/02/17 07:23 AM |
| 6 | When you go for the # close, what other information do you like to get from her?Social security and credit card # | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Super excited/nervous - Going out for first time with a group of gamers!You're going in excited and I can kinda tell there's no time to go over every little thing. My only advice is be prepared. Make sure you smell good, have a little cash on hand (not just a card) and your phone is charged. Bring gum, a lighter, and condoms. Sorry if I sound like your mom or some shit but its true. | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 12:15 AM |
| 4 | Lost my virginity, need adviceCongratulations on losing the v-card. How to be good at sex is pretty much an entire field of study. In my experience, touch is key. Learn the female erogenous zones: neck, breasts, butt, inner thigh. When you're exciting a girl, less is more. Touching teasing pulling squeezing. Don't spend too much time in one area. The vag is its whole own area - practice finding the clitoris and the g-spot. Get comfortable with body fluids. Encourage her to do what she likes. Girls can be just as filthy as us… | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Pickup advice for those below 21 but 18 or older?Locations? Generally the same as for people over 21 except bars. College, your workplace (if appropriate), festivals/concerts/raves/whatever you're into, social groups, activity groups, internet, etc. But even then there are plenty of 18+ clubs these days if you want to do it the old fashioned way. "thoughts you wish you had at this age" - Not to brag, but at that time I kinda took my own advice. I invested time in myself and learned my strengths/weaknesses. I made mistakes sometimes, had my hig… | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsUnderstood :) | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:24 PM |
| 4 | I've just had my first rejection... I FEEL GREAT!"And it wasn't a normal rejection, it was more like "GET THE FUCK OFF YOU FUCKER!"." I appreciate your intention and think you have a great attitude about rejection, but (not to be mean) you may want to closely examine what you did to trigger such a reaction. Maybe you can describe what happened in more detail? Like I said, you have a good attitude about rejection. Rejection happens - no biggie. Even the greatest 3-point shooters miss a shot here and there. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:22 PM |
| 2 | Need help with gamer girl"How do I get her to like me? ... I have approx. 30 hours to make it work." Seal the deal my friend - ask her if she's interested in meeting up! There's only so much you can accomplish talking via phone/text/IM and at some point you must convert any good image she has of you into something physical, or else what is the point? Good thing is time is going to be a great motivator for you, and if used for the right reasons will even help you appear like a more attractive option in her view. "Hey, I … | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 10:44 PM |
| 12 | It's Starting!Congrats on your weight loss! | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 10:35 PM |
| 23 | IM GOING FOR ITI'm really not sure what you're talking about. Whatever you do wash your hands | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 10:33 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsFalse dichotomy. I agree with the general attitude but it is possible to both respect people as human beings while practicing your social skills. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 10:31 PM |
| 3 | My personality is making me cautious.This is a good example of how being of the life of the party doesn't necessarily translate into getting laid. But what did you expect? Maybe one girl in 100,000 decides she doesn't care and starts making out with you in front of God and everyone at the party. Maybe you're one in 100,000 guys who is that type of confident to try to kiss this girl in front of everyone, and maybe the one in 500,000 guys who does it in a way that works. But, if she's like most human women, you'll need 1-on-1 time wi… | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 03:33 PM |
| 3 | How to take rejection with grace and setup Round 2!Great example of how to maturely handle hearing that girl you're into is unavailable. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | If anyone started with nothing no social skills, no life and is now successful with a gorgeous woman I am Intrested in your story as someone who is only starting to leave that position I would love advice on what I should be doing?My advice to you is to keep working on yourself and not worry about women just yet. I'll put it this way, you'll need to invest in yourself before others invest in you. You're 19, looking for a job and going to school. This is generally where most people should be at 19, so you're doing fine! This is the time when you get out in the world, meet people who haven't known you all your life, and you get to be whoever you want to be. This is when you find out about yourself, what your strengths and w… | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 03:09 PM |
| 30 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsGood for you. This is literally one of the exercises from Neil Strauss' stylelife challenge. Your goal of keeping the conversation going for at least 5 minutes is key. I really do think anyone can go up to someone and open "Wow, love your style," etc. but being able to turn that into a conversation and build rapport is something else entirely and really helps with life in general. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 02:37 PM |
| 3 | What are some materials that you would recommend to learn basics?How about looking at the "NEW HERE?" section: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ero8h/new_to_seddit_a_concise_guide_for_recovering_afcs/ | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 02:23 PM |
| 1 | You are in a group with girls, you make a "joke" what you do?Wow, I love this post. To be honest it really depends on what you're comfortable doing and what you can get away with (and this varies drastically from person to person). I want you to record trying some different things out on groups and post it because 1. it could allow for objective critique and 2. I think it could be a hilarious video | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I've ran into a serious problem with my game...You explain that there was another girl in the car. She is probably aware that there are other women in the world, so why are you having trouble explaining that fact? "Do I meticulously pick up all their hair after each date?" Well, yeah, you know you should generally clean your shit. But if it's clean and you just missed a stray hair, don't sweat it. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Should I be direct and bluntly ask girls if they have boyfriends?Clearly depends on how you're doing it. It's information you need to know if you're interested in her and information you're entitled to if she's interested in you. Both Diplipper and fezzesarecool gave great examples of how to find-out without asking straight-up, which I'd recommend since neither will make a big deal out of what is actually a deal-breaker piece of information. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 02:21 AM |
| 5 | I always get too clingy, I need some advice..You have two issues here, one small one about what to do tonight and one large one about what to do for life - I'm gonna address both. It's true, it's really easy to eat up someone's initial attraction for you until there is none left. It might help to remember that this goes both ways. There's plenty of girls out there worried that they are too clingy and driving off guys (and sometimes actually are). In both cases I believe the root of problem is, like most social problems, confidence (or lack… | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 01:58 AM |
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