pdx216 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	It’s so difficult to find a girl I connect with both physically and mentally Try meeting woman that have similar interests. Find social events involving your hobbies. If there are none, continue to pursue your hobbies (ie: hiking) talk to everyone and open woman on hikes. See who’s responsive and make it work from there. Seems like you’ve already got somethings going for you, just need to find woman you actually like.	/r/seduction	15/02/20 05:57 AM
10	Advice for being in a new city. Hard to entre bars or clubs. Going out alone is one of the best experiences. I still think it’s scary as shit on the surface but once I commit to going out, I usually have an awesome time. My tips: - socialize with everyone the moment you walk out your door. Uber driver, people walking by. Just say hello. - have 2-3 bars you want to check out. Sometimes the vibe just isn’t great at one, don’t get discouraged, finish your drink and move on. - You can open anyone at a bar. “Hey man I like your shirt” or just “what’s up man”. …	/r/seduction	06/02/20 05:52 AM
1	What is like to date a 19 year old girl as a guy in his mid 30s? Have you guys done it before? Live your life man. If you want to pursue it, than pursue it. If you think you can’t handle a few people maybe raising an eyebrow, than maybe you shouldn’t. At the end of the day, live your life the way you want to live it. I’m 23 and my friends give me shit for hooking up with someone who is under 21! I once met an 18 year old who I thought was 24. She was just really mature. Would I date an 18 year old on paper? No. Would I date her if things shaked themselves out in a few months? Maybe. It de…	/r/seduction	05/02/20 06:35 AM
0	Potentially just got rejected. Tryna deal You’re good man! Onto the next one! They will be even better. Keep working on yourself 👍🏻	/r/seduction	30/01/20 07:12 AM
1	Action Steps for 2020 Yes. I am definitely in a good spot for it	/r/seduction	01/01/20 05:29 PM
1	[FR] First two public approaches in my entire life! Awesome dude! Continue to build, you have to start somewhere	/r/seduction	01/01/20 08:18 AM
2	Night game or staying with family on New year's eve? In the same boat - all my original plans fell through so I’d be going out solo. I’ve done it a handful of times in the past month but haven’t pulled. Since I’m 45 minutes from the city, I would have to get an air BnB to pull back to there. Weighing options but I’m definitely portraying AFC qualities. Where will you have more fun? Pick that option bc that’s all that matters. Cheers.	/r/seduction	31/12/19 06:52 PM
2	College Decision Time They both sound like great options. Pick that school that you feel most at home at. You won’t go wrong 👍🏻	/r/seduction	26/12/19 05:54 AM
8	How to behave solo in clubs/bars Also curious on this - I’ve been going out solo for the past month or so and the biggest thing I’ve learned is to approach a group or two in the beginning just to have a “home base.” I like having a group or two I can come back too if an approach goes poorly or I’m looking to chat with someone. That’s my tip & it’s allowed me to meet some awesome people and they have even introduced me to other people in the bar. Just be social, and be yourself!	/r/seduction	25/12/19 07:03 PM
-1	Do I look worse and fat than 5 years ago to not meet this girl again? You look similar. No worries	/r/seduction	22/12/19 02:16 AM
4	I did it. I finally did it, no cheat code. Well done man!	/r/seduction	16/12/19 02:13 AM
1	Hitting Up Ex-Girlfriend while home from college break? Bad idea - plenty of other fish in the sea	/r/seduction	15/12/19 12:08 AM
1	Need some advice/encouragement on how to approach girls while I’m alone at a bar tonight. Just wanted to follow up on how my night went! Started off by chatting up the Uber driver. We had an awesome conversation about sports and really connected around that. Bar 1: I arrived at Bar 1 and scoped things out from a corner for 15 seconds. Realized it wasn’t too busy and found a spot at the bar between two groups of people. Ordered my drink and didn’t really say much. Everyone was probably 7-10 years older than me (I’m 23). Chatted with the bartender, finished my drink and left. Very unsu…	/r/seduction	14/12/19 09:27 PM
7	How I get over the fear of going out alone? Hey man - I moved to a new city and ended up breaking up with my girlfriend of 4 years. I went out alone for the first time tonight. The first bar I went too was all older people (ages 27-37) and I’m 23. Had a drink at the bar but didn’t say a word to anyone but the bartender. After this, I went to a college-y bar which was packed. Got my drink. Opened a group of guys. We connected over a similar hobby but that was it. After that, I opened another group of people. Hung out with them all night. T…	/r/seduction	14/12/19 06:36 AM
3	Need some advice/encouragement on how to approach girls while I’m alone at a bar tonight. Hey man - I’m about to head out solo as well. I’ve never gone out by myself so I’m about to experience it all. I’m just focusing on having the mindset of: I’m here to have fun. Definitely warm up by talking to as many people as soon as you leave the house. Once you get to the bar, find people to talk too. Don’t worry about approaching the hottest chicks for a while. Get settled, make some friends and then move from there. I have little to no experience going out alone so this may completely blow…	/r/seduction	14/12/19 03:25 AM
1	Wingman in Philadelphia? 23	/r/seduction	13/12/19 08:14 PM
2	My sense of self-worth is wayyyy to tied to if women like me or not I feel this - definitely something I need to work on. How? I think it comes down to the idea of not putting women on pedestals. Just because you got her number doesn’t mean she means more to you at the current moment than the chick that made your coffee this morning. All mindset. Cheers mate.	/r/seduction	12/12/19 12:26 AM
11	The Stylelife Challenge Day 2-30 Was hoping the day 2 post would come. Keep it up	/r/seduction	03/12/19 04:19 AM
4	Went out alone for the first time, pulled a cougar What are some things you learned from it?	/r/seduction	24/11/19 07:56 PM