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| 1 | Men: what are you go to briefs, boxer briefs, boxers, banana hammocks? What about when you're going on a date? Is it a different style? | Logistics | pdx4nhl | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 09:42 AM |
| 0 | What are the best forums/message boards to be a member of? | pdx4nhl | /r/askTRP | 20/09/20 03:34 AM |
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| 3 | Extreme flakiness from girls on the apps"Horrible depression pits" is accurate. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 10:51 PM |
| 38 | Extreme flakiness from girls on the appsUnless you are a man who in an 8-10 AND 6'+ AND your photos show you have money (well traveled, fancy weddings, etc) then you will have a tough time. I believe it's pretty well researched that 90% of women swipe on the top 10% of men even if those women are BBWs who are 5s AT BEST. Women, no matter how attractive they are, get TONS of attention from men on apps: they have inflated self worth and some women, imo, are on there just to get the dopamine hit of likes. I think some apps (if not all) h… | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 02:37 AM |
| 18 | Can’t dance, and won’t do itYou don't? Why not? Guys who can really dance don't need to do anything else to pull women. You can be ugly, poor, a shitty conversationalist, whatever...if you can dance and have fun, women will be all over it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | What's your the best advice you have regarding the dating world nowadays?For you in particular: you need to just get out more. Join a hiking club or kickball league. Study in the library or coffee shop. It's going to be really tough to meet people if you stay at home and cruise the apps every couple of months. In college I was terrified of getting out of my shell and now I really regret that. post college I decided to pursue some of the hobbies I was always interested in and made a bunch of friends that way. I had never really played volleyball in my life but joined … | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 06:12 AM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.I'm 5'5...can't imagine what life would be like if I were 6'. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Prestigious public school teacher here…probably hurts more than helps. Student loans and a used Toyota Corolla only gets you so far. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the PUA community basically dead?I’m going to be honest: The Game and Mystery introduced me to the term kino. Once I read about it, a lot clicked in how I had tripped into hookups before (inadvertent kino) and where I had gotten hung up (0 touch and then going in for a make out session at the end of the night and it being awkward). I was so inept but to be fair, I didn’t know what I didn’t know. The sole concept helped me so much. Peacocking and some of that may work well in Vegas, LA, NYC some places but it’s not going to fly … | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 9 | Starting to see a resurgence of “incel” posts/comments and I’d like to address them once and for allAnd your post is? Stop acting like a clown…even if this is just Reddit. Start acting your age and expected maturity level. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Negativity is Making Me Hate Women & Destroying My Game - HELP!!!You need to speak to a therapist. No one on Reddit can give you what you need. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500Does Tyler Dryden have any sort of credentials as a self help person: like an education or training is psychology? Or does he just ride on his persona in The Game? Is Ross Jeffries still alive? He seemed old 20 years ago. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500What ever happened to guys like Style, Mystery Tyler Durden...the whole crew from Neil's book? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 06:09 AM |
| 5 | Going on loads of dates can and will empty your wallet (and may turn you into a semi-functioning alcoholic).You go for coffee because you're pretty busy and have some fun things to do... "Hey, why don't we grab coffee tomorrow at 11am? I am going ________ in the early afternoon though. But I'd love to take some time to see how we click." Or whatever the fuck you want to say. It's cheaper, low pressure, you sound like a busy, cool guy. And you have a built in time limit if it sucks. | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 02:55 AM |
| 16 | The Discourse around men's height is inaccurate and social media is preying upon your insecuritiesAny woman who demands a guy be over 6'1" best be hot, rich and bisexual. Imagine being on a dating app as a guy and demanding some sort of physical aspect of woman like that? You'd be crucified and never get a date. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How can an average female date an attractive male? Someone “out of my league”?As others have said: be healthy and get to the gym. Have a good sense of humor. Hang out with guys who have similar interests: if you like the outdoors, join a hiking group. If you like board games, do that. Being kinky will help too…but that’s tough to force if you’re lights off and missionary primarily. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Ok guys I need help with dating. Why does no man consider me? Why does no one like me? Why do men cancel on me?Women have plenty of dating challenges...your post gives no info to go on. How are people supposed to help you without providing lame generic advice? You can read Cosmo or some trash for that kind of advice. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Ok guys I need help with dating. Why does no man consider me? Why does no one like me? Why do men cancel on me?This has to be a troll post. There is no actual info to offer any sort of guidance. I'm calling BS. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:30 AM |
| 2 | How are you supposed to apply any of this if there are 0 women interested in you?Bro, if those are really you're pictures then you are a very handsome guy. You need to talk to a therapist or something. You've got some major inner work to do on yourself based on this thread. I highly recommend you work on yourself. Get out and make yourself a better person: volunteer, join some adult sports leagues, join a book club, take on a new hobby, get to the gym...and if you really want to meet ladies - take a salsa dancing class and/or get your ass to some yoga classes (the same ones … | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 02:54 AM |
| 2 | Playboy model says she’s too beautiful for love: ‘Men are scared to date me’If you're going to approach a model, don't mention her looks at all. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | How to approach girls on the gym?I would say, just kinda nod your head and smile the first couple times...after you've recognized one another just say "hello" a few times...from there I would say kinda "run into her" waiting for a machine she's on or as you're leaving and just introduce yourself but don't come off as introducing yourself to hit on her. Make it seem like you'd do the exact same thing to a guy you see frequently, if that makes sense. You're just saying hello and being friendly. Then go from there. Like I said, it… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?This is such a garbage view. Get over yourself and move on. You’re a better person now…stay that way without being a resentful dumbass. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 07:48 PM |
| 36 | How to approach girls on the gym?You gotta play the LONG game at the gym, which is tough if you don't see her often. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?Get to the gym and take up some new hobbies. That alone will help with the ladies and even more so with your confidence and happiness. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 3 | What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub?Ask sex workers who their most creepy clients are (setting aside any violent ones) I bet they are creeped out most by guys who can’t or won’t interact socially and instead focuses 100% on getting their dick sucked. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 7 | What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub?I was watching a documentary on Phil Hartman last night: famous guy who could get tons of ladies who was evidently an incredible friend. Every single person said he was shit at relationships. Had he not gotten murdered he certainly would have gotten his third divorce. Here’s a guy who was great in every way, even meeting women well before the game, who was horrible at relationships. The Venn Diagram for pickup and long term relationships definitely overlap, but it’s not as significant as we all … | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?Is this actually surprising to people here? Of course it happens, of course they don’t care and it’s probably because they are into her or do t like you. Nothing you can do about it but remain relaxed and move on with your conversation with her. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Way of the simpI question how many woman a man has had sex with if he refers to sex as “rearranging her guts”. I question his maturity level too…which leads me to question his ability to seduce women even more. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | 10 rules that i've learned from around 50 laysRegarding hot women in bed: I’m not attractive and am short but I’ve hooked up with a decent amount of women…three of those have been well above average, one was great in bed (though we had a deep emotional connection) and two were awful. Just boring and 0 effort. That doesn’t mean all hot girls are shit bed and the rest are great but as OP said: hot girls can get laid whenever they want on command pretty much and no one is going to set the straight if they suck in bed…so they have no reason to … | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 13 | [deleted by user]I’m not sure if I’m reading this correctly, I apologize if I’m not…but are you implying Brad Pitt is 100% looks? Because that couldn’t be further from the truth. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 10:33 AM |
| 2 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Then practice yoga. Being an excellent dancer will never stop giving, my man. You’ll be the man at clubs, weddings, etc. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.I would almost say the friendships they make and the knowledge…even if it goes unused in real life. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | (To All My Struggling Guys) Stop Overthinking it. This is Game in a Nutshell.One thing this post misses: some men enjoy the hobby of picking up women…that’s their extracurricular activity. (Should it be? That’s a different discussion), but in essence there are men who like “studying” pickup, they like the camaraderie and the challenge of trying new and different things. Again, this may not be the best approach but it is an activity some men enjoy more than other activities. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.Pull the rip cord. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.In my experience, those three things shouldn't include: alcohol/drugs, porn or video games. | /r/seduction | 31/08/21 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?To add to the conversation: some women are rude to everyone…just like some men are rude to everyone | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | In response to the "do girls like muscles" postAdditionally, it shows people you have dedication to something that takes a lot of effort and discipline. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 3 | The number one trait you need to get laid.I’d say money first...but yeah, this is a good idea. Not just when dating but during many interactions. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 2 | i rejected a girl this weekend and could possibly have gotten laidYou made a wise decision. It doesn't sound like she was really capable of making good decisions, don't prey on that ever. It's sketchy at best, sexual assault at worst. | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.I think OP should also note that even if you aren't interested in a woman, if you take interest in them genuinely and joke around, many women will assume that this means you want to fuck them...which is not always the case. I think that's why some guys are nervous about interacting with women at work in 2021. Many men are like, "I want to make work more tolerable by having a laugh or two with coworkers but I don't want this to be misinterpreted as 'I want to fuck you'". | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 06:21 AM |
| 2 | Surprising Lessons from Romance NovelsWomen want to be romanced. Not vice versa. But then again I don’t really want flowers or a bubble bath or rose petals on the bed. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Why is the money myth always thrown aroundHuh? Dude. I want what you're smoking. Money attracts people. Money will make women date/fuck/marry complete pieces of shit. It's not everything but if you're rich...you are starting way ahead. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:20 AM |
| 2 | The Single Most Attractive Trait in a PersonYou have to have other qualities working for you also...like being fun, having a sense of humor, staying active, having lots of interests. You often can’t have one sole quality to be an attractive person. And OP isn’t saying that you only need this one. | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Do incels actually exist?Being ugly does not make an Incel. An Incel is made by a shit attitude and no desire to change it and themselves. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you start tinder conversationsTinder has been horrible for awhile. Maybe it’s better in different cities but I have lived in two way different cities and in both of them Tinder has been a tire fire. | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Vitaly has the ultimate lifeHis job is to get clicks and views. Everything he does is to that end. Keep that in mind. | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 09:10 AM |
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