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| 19 | Game gets better when you stop watering dead plants.Remove attention immediately. On to the next one and maybe not hearing from you for a while will get her mind running 😙 | /r/seduction | 17/10/23 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?There’s also a “want what you can’t have” aspect to it. I had a gay friend in college who all the girls wanted to get with and he was convinced this was part of it. Didn’t hurt that he was very disciplined with his gym routines. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.It’s more about just not being a push over. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 08:35 AM |
| 3 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?Girls love when you make sexually suggestive remarks (sexual innuendo). However if you are straight forward it triggers their “creep” alarm so you gotta be smooth about it. It also just comes down to timing, if a girl isn’t into it just move into the next one. Repetition | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 08:09 PM |
| 1 | How to stay away from logical conversation?Yea it’s important to keep things light and fun. One hard fast rule to follow on a date is no politics - nothin bores a girl quicker. Beyond that I wouldn’t be worried about getting a little technical; girls are turned on by smarts and confidence even if they have no idea what you are talking about. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:05 AM |
| 6 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.What if a girl starts chatting with me at the gym? At the time I assumed she was just being nice but now I regret not escalating and asking her for her number. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1?Learn what a “shit test” is. Women will say things to see if it rattles you. If it does you don’t get the pussy. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLThe problem with online dating is the top 20% of guys hook up 90% of the ladies. The rest of us get the scraps. I’ve had the same experience as you as an average looking guy. You can try tayloring your profile or working with a professional photographer but in general I feel like online dating is a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:38 PM |
| -4 | I recently started working 12 hour shifts due to my boss being on vacation. When girls tell you they have no time and too much to do, BULLSHIT. She is just not motivated to mee you.💯percent. Girls will always make time for the right guy who asks. If I ask a girl on a date and she tells me she can’t because she has a hair appt i instantly move on. After all if she liked me she would cancel the hair appt. All guys get rejected it’s all about who can adapt and thrive | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to and make progress with the gym receptionist?Follow @gotpickup on Twitter before you talk to this girl, I can already tell you are going to make some mistakes. But that’s what learning to create sexual tension with women is about, learning from mistakes. The worst thing you can do is not even try right | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Std scareName checks out! Isn’t it super super rare to catch an STD from oral sex!? I’m not positive and also not positive | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | To what degree do looks actually matter?Read “The Game” by Neil Strauss. Looks don’t much matter to women compared to social status and power. Why do you think you see beautiful women with bald dudes. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 09:18 PM |
| -1 | How did I fumble all girls last nightlogistics of isolation my man! you got a crash course - creating and building sexual tension, I can't tell for sure but it sounds like you may have failed a shit test at some point. You'll figure out what you did wrong and correct for next time champ, keep escalating and practicing kino | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?Women use “I have a BF” as a shit test all the time. Alphas continue to pursue as betas drops off. The real world solution is to brush it off, act like you didn’t hear what she said, or make a joke about it and use it to demonstrate your value over said BF | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Who dates the hottest girls, excluding rappers, celebrities & sports athletes ?Bald guys. I went to see the David Koechner at Helium Comedy Club the other night. He has a whole bit about hot girls date bald guys. Then he proceeds to go into the crowd and find beautiful women who were dating bald guys and grill them about why they were together!! Not only was it brilliant it was freaking hilarious 😆 | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 7 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herYou literally can’t message a girl without considering first if your message could be in any way interpreted as needy. If there is even a sliver of doubt in your mind Do Not Press Send | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Girls have this thing where they want what other people have so they can advance in life and feel secure. Monkeybranchers, they grab the next branch up above you if they can! | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | I turn 25 tomorrow and as a birthday pact I am going to talk to a girl every single day for rest of the year25 is not late; That’s a great time to start. I follow @gotpickup on Twitter for excellent tips and tricks. He also does coaching. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Anything that helps build your confidence , wrestling working out karate meditation reading books traveling the world etc ( most people are more concerned with things that make them less masculine like smoking weed, masturbating to porn, heavy drinking etc. those bad habits KILL your T lvls) | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 04:45 PM |
| 5 | I got a girl by ignoring herAttention from guys is like crack for the ladies but if you give her too much she assumes you are a desperate loser lol. You played it correctly by just acting like you didn’t care either way | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way...Yup, approaching groups is easier because their guard isn’t up as much. Neil Strauss covers this in “The Game” | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do y’all neg?A neg only works on attractive girls. If you read the book “The Game” by Neil Strauss he goes in depth. Average looking girls you don’t really need to neg. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Wanting a threesomeBasically you get the 2 people together you want to have a threesome with and take turns giving each other 4 hand massages until you guys start making out | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | I feel clueless and usually the guys I like have somebody.Dating people through work can be awkward if things don't work out, pursue hobbies and things that make you happy and meet people that way. Make more friends and maybe they will introduce you to single guys. Go to group meet ups etc | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Any ideas for fun, unconventional dates?Arcades are fun, take her to a play and then out for a drink, I went on a blind date at a grocery store one time and we got to know each other pretty quickly | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Daygame failureThere’s tons of material online google “kino seduction” and DHV seduction , I like The Game by Neil Strauss | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Daygame failureWork on Kino and Demonstrating Value | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 11:05 PM |
| 4 | How to make a move on a friend? (20M)You need to learn Kino! Google kino seduction. Touching a girls arm, stroking her hair, escalation! | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.Ok cool I followed you | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.Mainly "the game" and stuff I've read on this forum like field reports. Feel free to make some suggestions | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.Thanks for the post, I need to reread "The Game" , the book he wrote, tons of good material | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 07:18 PM |
| 8 | could we have like a weekly Q&A like threads other subreddits have where you can ask one question but don't want to waste a thread on it?YES WE CAN!!! YES WE CAN!! | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Seduction at WorkThanks for the feedback | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Seduction at WorkBasically I was like “thought you would like it, anyway feel free to chat”. Obviously I was hoping she would want to talk to me at some point but it’s probably not happening because I’m an idiot 😂 | /r/seduction | 24/10/19 07:27 PM |
| 3 | I know that speaking in a loud clear voice (not in an obnoxious way ) shows confidenceAnother way to exhibit confidence is simply through action, parallel parking, fixing something, killing a spider. Chicks eat that shit up! | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 04:00 PM |
| 20 | Just got out of the Friend Zone. Knew I would get rejected. Actually feels strangely good.You did the right thing, if she doesn’t want to be your girlfriend you need to move on and being “just friends” is the worst way to do that. Women like to keep guys who like them on a string for personal gratification, that’s the whole reason the friend zone exists. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Failed 8 times. Need reevaluation.Read The Game by Neil Strauss , approaching girls by themselves is challenging because their guard is up. Neil teaches you how to meet girls in groups which is actually much easier once you learn some strategies 👍🏼😉 | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl in a group?“The Game” has a lot of great strategies for approaching groups, it’s actually easier because a girls guards are up when she is by herself | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?The Dalai Lama and other Buddhists give a lot of great advice on how to avoid being judgmental and stereotyping etc. Follow him on twitter and grab “the universe in a single atom” | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Question on neediness and textingDont respond to her texts right away, act like you are busy and have better things to do. Use push pull to make her want you | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 05:15 PM |
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