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Yikes, not gonna lie, I would heed her warning. The violence doesn’t disappear with her, it’s a part of him. There will always be parts of life that are difficult. Do you want to put your trust in someone that handles them in an extremely unproductive way? The point is to have that love and respect go both ways, to the point you can trust that he will make wise choices because he loves and cherishes you. I feel like this guy isn’t done baking yet, let him cook a little bit longer.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/26 05:10 PM
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Can’t quite put my finger on it, but flat out something doesn’t feel right with this situation. Please be cautious, good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 11:48 PM
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Have you met him irl?
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 11:04 PM
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THIS SO SO SO MUCH
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 10:53 PM
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How does he react if you don’t change your mind and continue to disagree?
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 10:52 PM
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Yeah this is not a good relationship situation, I fear you’re being manipulated and abused. Good luck. Reach out if you need resources.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/26 10:51 PM
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Curl my lashes and put on mascara, tight top, loose cropped jeans, and some sort of a short kitten heel. I find the lashes make me flirty, clothes are chic and for my body type and attract both men and women, and the shoes force me to be a bit more elegant and aware of myself.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/26 08:21 PM
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Do it. If she’s into you, she’ll be thrilled. If she is t, you’ll know.
/r/seduction20/05/26 12:34 AM
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GOOD FOR YOU!!! It doesn’t make your partner wrong for not joining, but that’s GREAT that both of you support the idea of you traveling by yourself! It is seriously a life-changing experience. I cried for a minute as my plane was taking off on my first European trip ever, by myself, knowing that i had worked hard to get myself to that exact moment in life. It feels good to feel proud of yourself for doing something FOR YOURSELF. I’m cheering you on! Edit: coming back to just say, my life really …
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 05:36 PM
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Yes, lexapro and weed. I love myself and I love my life! And I got to the point completely on my own while I was still single! I started traveling around Europe by myself in my late 20’s, lived every single minute of it and really grew into a person I love.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 04:17 PM
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I’m with you Op!! I’m back and forth between these 2 subs as well, not quite fitting in with either. So much of both subs seem to be for people still searching for their partner.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/26 10:18 PM
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I will only be exclusive with one person at a time. If we have not had a conversation about it, we are not exclusive.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/26 12:30 AM
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Don’t settle or you’ll never truly be happy. At the same time, don’t be closed off to the future looking different from you expect
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/26 12:04 PM
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Women that married “rich” men. Edit: and are on this subreddit. I met my husband online dating (and tinder at that) in 2018
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 04:26 PM
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We exist, we just don’t post much, I only occasionally comment bc I get told I’m wrong or the person I’m responding to has multiple excuses for why they can’t help themselves
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/26 12:08 PM
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Learning not to emasculate my husband AND that not everything in life needs to be as efficient as possible. Sometimes all that matters is that things get done, even if it’s not done MY way.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/26 11:15 AM
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This!!!
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/26 01:24 PM
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Biggest thing I feel like men look for when marrying, is a complete person. They want you to be stable already in life, so they can come in and just spoil you and have fun. They don’t want to feel like they have to rescue or fix you, they want to be able to go ahead and show you off. Don’t worry, they won’t bounce when things get tough, they respect you from the beginning and work it out. Speaking as someone married to a Dr, and my best friend from growing up is married to a Wall Street guy. I’m…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/26 01:23 PM
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Right?? Tell him your “business” is booming and you need to hire on another employee to make sure you can keep up with the increasing workload as the children are getting older. You don’t want anything to start slipping through the cracks. Difference between now and leave-it-to-beaver days? Kids do way more now, so you have to be out of the house more carting them around.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/26 01:29 PM
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The answer to this is extremely subjective.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/26 08:30 PM
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He shouldn’t have done that (he isn’t the parent), but also, if they’re 2.5, cut their hair. It’s weird when people hold onto it that way. I’m a hairstylist of 20yrs. It usually signals to me that the parent is struggling with the child growing up among other things, not the child having issues. I’ve only had 1 client where this isn’t the case (her 4yr old is obsessed with the story of Samson in the bible). Save a few of the curly locks, and then let the rest go. I know it can be emotional for m…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/26 12:17 PM
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My hubs is the same, so I told him if he wasn’t gonna do it he needed to hire people to do it, that he needs to be an adult. He did, and we don’t argue over it or his free time for 2yrs now
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/25 11:22 AM
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Neither of you are wrong for being who you are, but now that you know, you need to end it. Keeping it going would be the wrong part.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 11:32 PM
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It’s kind of code for it, but I’m a millennial, maybe it diff for gen z
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:47 AM
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When talking to him about working out, stop making it about his weight. Make it abt him being healthy and alive, being around so that he CAN be married to you
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 11:51 AM
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I sat back and let him pursue me, and now we’ve been married 5 years and he STILL “pursues” me. A lot of it imo is setting your boundaries and sticking to them. This was the first relationship where I was able to do that, and it’s been magical! Although trust me, a lot of that has to do with how wonderful my husband is. I STAYED SINGLE until I found someone that respected all of my boundaries. Waiting was so worth it, being with him the last 7 years have been the happiest of my life!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/24 11:53 AM
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Have you asked what you can do to make his DAY easier, and then done it? Little things in the here & now have a huge impact when big things crop up like this
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/24 01:36 PM
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I had never heard this before either. Googled it, found an actual medical study on it from a dr in Oregon, and now have words to put to what my husband does when I confront him about xyz. Thank you omegatoomuch!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/23 01:24 PM
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It’s ok boo, took some courage to post this knowing that it would be ripped. I’m like another couple posters where I understand where you’re coming from, it starts to make you question your own value when it’s all low value guys hitting on you all of the time. My advice would be to always act kind but stern in your response, because you never know who is watching😉
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/23 11:47 AM
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Agree with this so hard
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 03:42 PM
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Yup, not having kids here, and I 10000% support my friends with kids. Why? Because I’m actually their real friend and I care about their wellbeing and happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/23 12:42 PM
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I agree, focus on enjoying being in the present right now, savor every moment of this part of your beautiful relationship with this man! You’re on an exciting path with so many good things on the horizon. Don’t forget to stop and smell the roses!
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/23 09:51 AM
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Plastic surgery!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 08:32 PM
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This happened to me, and then I married him! I’m really into fashion and the beauty industry, so when I met my husband he asked me to help him shop and which skincare lines would be good for him, and we got into going to the gym together. Is he always 100% consistent? No. But he’s so happy and more confident now, and the “work” I had to do was minimal. I thought it was fun to do together! I think the difference for me though is that HE wanted to change, I didn’t change him, he just asked me to h…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/23 01:29 PM
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Lost my virginity at 15, zero regrets. Married and very happy in life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 12:31 PM
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Is he believing it and agreeing? Or is he just watching and finds it interesting but doesn’t buy into all of that? I love watching/reading/talking about conspiracy theories, but I don’t believe in any of them. Just trying to give a different perspective!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/23 01:13 AM
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Atheists have morals tho?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/23 11:40 AM
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When it comes to the workout clothes, you could try swapping out just the top or bottom you’re wearing right at first, you don’t even need to change both! Whichever one you change, make it fitted. I have the feeling that changing the pants to cute workout leggings would be easier for you. Maybe when you do that, try to tie your shirt up in a cute knot or something
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/23 12:41 PM
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Go.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/23 12:07 PM
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Next time he comes home to you dressed up, the second he starts to talk put one finger over his mouth and coyly say “no jokes tonight” Then after you guys are done he’ll be way more open to you talking about how much you liked that. I would try not to make too big of a deal about it and embarrass him, or else foreplay will be ruined for him then. You got this!
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 03:33 AM
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Basically do low carb STRICTLY like he mentioned, and start lifting weights, and drink a ton of water/protein shakes
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/23 11:52 AM
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Do as well as you can at your job, workout, dress clean, and have good hygiene. Aspire to be the type of person that you think the type of person you want to date deserves.
/r/seduction05/10/22 11:45 PM
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Listen to this guy!!
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/17 02:57 AM
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I like the line "do you always take emotional support to your dates?"
/r/seduction24/07/17 07:07 PM
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From a girl's perspective, telling me I move elegantly isn't much different from telling me I'm beautiful. It's all surface and physical and has nothing to do with who I am. Unless I am a ballerina, then yes tell me I move elegantly because that did take thought and practice.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:37 PM
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Omg YES!!!! This is so true! I've tried explaining this before, but never found the correct words for it. A compliment like "you're beautiful" is cheap and meaningless. Tell me something that lets me know that you ACTUALLY see the real me! Compliment me on something I'm doing, not something surface. Set yourself apart. You think the last guy didn't tell me I'm beautiful, too? That always gets my attention a lot more and gives me butterflies.
/r/seduction18/07/17 02:31 PM
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Don't worry about it, someone is obviously very sensitive. And I knit. And bake. You didn't offend me in the slightest.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/17 11:41 AM
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Try initiating going primal on your current bf and see what happens. You should just jump him when he walks through the door! You said he says things like "you're pure", so he may not think that doing things like that are ok. Show him that it is with action!
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/17 12:06 PM
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Devil's advocate: These are just pictures. Out of context, you can make a picture say whatever you want it to. College isn't the only thing that changed between the before and after pics.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:40 PM
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Been there, my ex was talking to the scum on Craigslist though, so it was all local, and disgusting. Don't waste more of your time! Easier to say than do, I know, but once you're away from him you'll be wondering why in the hell you waited so long. His problem is not yours, and you CANNOT fix him. That trust is forever gone now. Lean on family and friends for support, it's not gonna be fun, but you're so worth it in the end <3
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/17 05:11 AM
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YES!! Any woman KNOWS that unless you have a medical condition of some kind, IVF is absolutely not necessary to become pregnant in your 30's!!! The entire time I was reading his post I was like "is this guy really young or something? How could he be so misinformed?"
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 10:58 AM
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Especially current girl! I don't think you need help, I think you just cleqrly articulated exactly what's going through your brain. Sometimes that scares people.
/r/seduction03/01/17 05:05 AM
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Girl here. If you're self conscious, try wearing boxer briefs to help cover them up, and do it with the lights off. Honestly though, she probably won't really care! If she asks about them, just chuckle and say you were young and dumb. The serious convo about what they're really from can happen at another time, it'll ruin the mood you're going for. Wear your scars with confidence! They're a part of your past that you've learned from and moved on. If you convincingly act like they're not a big dea…
/r/seduction03/01/17 04:48 AM
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