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Logisticspeaceful_friend/r/seduction26/06/21 06:54 PM
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absolutely. have you ever met someone with "good vibes". attractive right?
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:06 PM
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loving kindness meditation has been great for this part for me personally
/r/seduction01/07/21 07:05 PM
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Just say you write software and make cool shit that helps tons of people and get paid really well. What’s not to love about a rich, intelligent creative. If she’s not smart enough to appreciate that, is she really worth your time?
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:52 PM
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You can have them both blow you at the same time then fuck one of them. Many fun options, just enjoy yourself and go with it.
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:50 PM
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Dangerfield was sooooooooooo funny!!!!!
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:48 PM
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Spiritual awakening
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:47 PM
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Meditation
/r/seduction30/06/21 05:45 PM
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Hell ya! Love your vibe. Biggie was the shit!
/r/seduction29/06/21 07:13 AM
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Damn bro way to be resilient and upbeat! Your parents sound seriously dope. Sometimes “bf” is a shit test and you can respond by amplifying the frame like “Who, me? I mean we just met, but okay.” 🤣 Check out https://www.masculinedevelopment.com/pass-shit-test-2-strategies/#I_Have_A_Boyfriend Go get em!!
/r/seduction29/06/21 06:23 AM
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Some of the cooler women I know don’t use social media. Social media is kinda like having a drinking problem or smoking, it’s not healthy and a nasty habit. It’s proven to cause depression. He said while using social media 🤦‍♂️ lmao.
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:37 PM
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Name checks out 🙃
/r/seduction28/06/21 04:29 PM
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Psychological, possibly psychiatric, maybe even dating coach depending on what you’re dealing with. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/psychiatrists
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:19 AM
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Exactly. I had a chick bring a stereo to my house so we could fuck despite 8 other people in the living room one door over.
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:43 AM
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Would you like to hold hands? Or look at her, reach for her hand and if she doesn’t pull way and smiles you’re good. If you’re alone with a chick in your house she’d probably like to hold hands.
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:37 AM
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Lol wat. Guys are obviously obsessed with vaginas
/r/seduction28/06/21 02:28 AM
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Agree about getting help. This meditation can lift mood rather profoundly https://vimeo.com/245422628
/r/seduction28/06/21 02:00 AM
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Wouldn’t over focus on one person. Many women in the world. Blessings and hope that’s a helpful mindset for ya friend.
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:05 PM
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Interesting, ya maybe it’s good to break it off early if it’s not compatible. Gets hard with feelings on both sides tho hmm.
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:48 AM
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Ok just read up on it, these are wildly amusing https://www.masculinedevelopment.com/pass-shit-test-2-strategies/
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:21 AM
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Haven’t read game books in forever and forgot lol. So yes, but also asking where to find more detailed info on it in the subs sidebar
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:09 AM
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Also curious. They knock on your door? Are they selling avon lol.
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:22 AM
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Regarding shit test, can’t seem to find in the sidebar. Anyone know where the info is? Can obv google but I want to read info from this sub to aid communication.
/r/seduction27/06/21 04:20 AM
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Lol there you go
/r/seduction27/06/21 03:30 AM
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I suppose that’s called the numbers game? Ya attractive girls are in high demand. Where did you go?
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:19 AM
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Probably approach anxiety.
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:28 PM
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Oh nice I’ve done the massage one and got laid with a gorgeous gal. Hand holding and eye gazing can be quite intimate. If the chick starts rubbing your palm that’s dope, or you can rub hers.
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:25 PM
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Ah malls. Good idea, thanks! Glad you found some attractive women. Sorry it was tiring tho. Great job getting out there!
/r/seduction26/06/21 09:20 PM
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Why do you ask?
/r/seduction26/06/21 05:21 PM
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Loving kindness meditation https://vimeo.com/245422628
/r/seduction26/06/21 04:19 AM
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ghosting blows. I got it a lot in the 2000s personally, back when I was out sleeping with a lot of women. I think it's all just part of the experience. rejection hurts tho!
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:32 PM
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You'll find someone great brother! Could studying active listening help? or pop an anxiety med or work on social anxiety with a pro? I honestly don't know of course, I just want to see you succeed and be happy. Blessings to ya!
/r/seduction25/06/21 06:30 PM
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Or until they do a lot of meditation or therapy to figure out how to live more productively with their insecure attachment 🙃
/r/seduction23/06/21 03:46 PM
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ya attachment theory is fascinating. you can find a scientifically validated test here if interested https://testyourself.psychtests.com/testid/2859
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:13 PM
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Ask them to take an attachment type quiz that’s scientifically validated 🙃 only go for secure attachments. This also shows you have high standards which is attractive. Sorry you had to deal with that!!! Constant validation is most likely an anxious attachment type.
/r/seduction22/06/21 06:05 PM
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See if your doctor will prescribe an anti anxiety drug perhaps?
/r/seduction16/06/21 10:57 PM
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Is it helpful to generalize all humans?
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:18 PM
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Facing fears is such a powerful way to live man, nice one!
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:12 PM
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Asking questions and listening can work. I’m not into pickup tho anymore, preferring relationships now. How to win friends and influence people is a good book for how to be genuine and get people to like you.
/r/seduction16/06/21 04:50 AM
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Far out! Had never heard of love bombing. Sounds super important to watch out for https://www.healthline.com/health/love-bombing
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:23 PM
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Also, kindness is deep and attractive. “Nice” is shallow and likely unattractive. I find a lot of “nice” people are actually assholes who don’t communicate well. Definitely not saying that’s you! Just something I’ve observed in life personally. A regular loving kindness meditation will gradually help you to be more kind, loving, and compassionate. If you’re into that sort of thing.
/r/seduction15/06/21 09:26 PM
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Good point. Every human is unique, but that seems to get a bit lost when generalizing women in the hopes of understanding them...
/r/seduction15/06/21 09:24 PM
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Hopefully the Artificial General Intelligence likes humans. If so it will obscenely accelerate our technological abilities. Star Trek level.
/r/seduction14/06/21 12:29 AM
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I feel it. Kid you not it took 20 tries. Something I recommend to family is to assess fit early and move on if it’s not there. There are some good tests for this such as https://centerforclinicalexcellence.com/fit-software-tools/
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:42 PM
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Zoom?
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:38 PM
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Not a fan of therapy?
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:35 PM
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You sure sound smart to me brother.
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:32 PM
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Dude, you are awesome! Congratulations on the financial success!!! I would personally recommend a good psychotherapist (phd preferably) who does cognitive behavioral therapy to help you look at life from a fresh perspective. I used this to find mine https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists I also filtered by positive psychology as I like that research/technique/view. They can be a great asset in terms of planning and clarifying too. These days remote is easy to find. Oh, also meditation may…
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:27 PM
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Thanks, that’s helpful data for my non profit I want to start. Lol my college roommate paid his way through school the same way 🤣
/r/seduction13/06/21 08:11 PM
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Great attitude bro!
/r/seduction13/06/21 07:10 PM
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How did you afford living expenses while studying?
/r/seduction13/06/21 07:08 PM
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Lol. AI... listen to Elon. Climate change, listen to any scientist. But there will be tons of positive breakthroughs of course, and if we work hard enough maybe our race can continue without needing to move to mars.
/r/seduction13/06/21 07:04 PM
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It’s sad not everyone comes from a good family. I actually want to start a non profit to help children who are gifted and come from poverty to help get them into college.
/r/seduction13/06/21 07:02 PM
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yes there is a caloric deficit in that situation. although I wouldn't call calories nutrients. when I lose weight, I eat more and gain it back.
/r/seduction13/06/21 01:22 AM
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Eating plants and/or a little meat I can shed 5-10 pounds a month personally. I have the opposite issue, It’s actually a bit of a challenge to keep weight on. How’s your diet?
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:37 PM
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Since you’re 19 I’m going to guess from school. Fond memories of so many experiences at that age.... enjoy and perhaps consider being grateful for your health.
/r/seduction12/06/21 08:32 PM
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How do you get invited to stuff like that, like where do you meet these folks?
/r/seduction12/06/21 04:54 AM
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Spain sounds awesome. I hear New York is pretty great that way too.
/r/seduction11/06/21 11:28 PM
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How do you find “picnic park drink ups”? Sounds fun.
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:59 PM
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Where do you live where beautiful women are walking around everywhere?!?!
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:52 PM
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Still together?
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:15 PM
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Um, ya dude! Chicks don’t just do that for no reason 🙃
/r/seduction11/06/21 04:13 PM
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Seconding the other fellow in that you have tremendous value! Sorry you are dealing with low self esteem, that’s a brutal feeling. Psychotherapy might help you reframe things so you can more accurately perceive reality, and feel better as a result. Much love friend.
/r/seduction11/06/21 03:53 PM
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I think this is really the core issue. Self compassion. Self worth. Self love. Self care. Getting those dialed in is attractive and also a fuckton of hard work.
/r/seduction11/06/21 03:47 PM
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