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1	Anyone had success countering the 'silver bullet' strategy? In the video, his strategy was to overload the court so the judge couldn't rule against him without analysing all the facts and simply take the wife word for it. You can print everything out. However, you could also create a quarterly subset of messages with just a few samples to give an overview of the relationship. For example: Q1 2015: A loving email showing you cared about each other Q2 2015: A message thanking you for attending her graduation or a cousin's wedding, and vice versa Q3 2015: A…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/26 01:10 AM
1	Anyone had success countering the 'silver bullet' strategy? Not gonna lie, you're in for a stressful time, sleepless nights, and you might even lose some weight. In my experience, the more interest you show in the house, the more she'll want it, just out of spite. Try to get it for the reasons you mentioned, but without showing too much enthusiasm. Make it look like the second option would be just as good for you. I wish you the best of luck. And never move out of the house if you want it.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/07/26 12:54 AM
2	Anyone had success countering the 'silver bullet' strategy? This guy could mitigate it. Check the video: https://youtu.be/x-yjElxa9fg?si=yi2V3ERBjnzPkUU8 In this video, Phil Kedge shares an educational case-study scenario about a father who used a massive digital record to defeat false domestic abuse allegations and bypass a lengthy court delay. Here is a summary of the core story and tactical takeaways from the video: The Scenario The Setup: A father ("Roger") separated from his ex-partner ("Victoria") after a 9-year relationship. She cut off his contac…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 08:28 PM
1	Anyone had success countering the 'silver bullet' strategy? Does she paid half? Can she afford your half? Probably not. Try to find evidence that it will be a great disadvantage to both to sell it now. That you would both lose equity. Bluff and tell her that for the price she wants for it, she can keep it, and pay you that. If not, then you might consider keeping it borrowing some money from family. If she thinks that you don't want it, she won't fight that hard for it. Try to settle it before court. The judges are a wildcard and usually benefit the wome…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/26 08:01 PM
1	Self Representing Divorce case using AI..Anyone?? But the A.I. is (or will be) trained with almost all the knowledge in the world, it has access to the latest discoveries, edge breakthroughs, and all the patients and case studies. It has the potential to become the best doctor in the world with more accurate diagnoses than a human.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/07/26 12:20 PM
3	Self Representing Divorce case using AI..Anyone?? It can definitely be done successfully, but you must keep in mind that AI can hallucinate laws and case law. These tools also tend to act like "yes-men" that simply agree with whatever you suggest. Two years ago, when AI was still relatively new, I used ChatGPT to draft a court application for my lawyer to review and submit to court. He read through it and congratulated me on the quality of the work. It was highly convincing, and nobody noticed any issues, but later I realized that some of the c…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/26 09:48 PM
2	Trying to deal with extreme isolation amid divorce Too early for dating. A 15 yo relationship needs more recovery time, of 2 to 3 years. Portuguese generally speak good english. Or try to find an expat community. If you were in the south there are a few british condo groups.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/07/26 01:23 AM
1	Expensive lawyer Do you both need a lawyer? Can't her lawyer do the filing and you go pro-se?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/06/26 05:02 PM
1	Why do lots of divorced men who hookup try to hookup with cougars and single moms when there are younger women to have sex with? No joke. Just an honest answer to OP's question based on my experience.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/06/26 03:43 AM
14	Someone just offed his ex wife and himself over custody and divorce It is heartbreakingly similar in the UK, Australia, Germany, and several other European countries. The court itself is only part of the problem. The entire family law system is fueled by an industry of people who profit from keeping the parental conflict alive. Social assistants, Guardians ad Litem, lawyers, and visitation supervisors often operate like parasites feeding off the escalation. Instead of de-escalating tension and focusing on the well-being of the family, the system incentivizes pro…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 04:44 AM
5	Why do lots of divorced men who hookup try to hookup with cougars and single moms when there are younger women to have sex with? We prefer younger women without kids, but after some time in the desert, we end up lowering our standards. We like to get the low hanging fruit because it is easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/26 08:48 PM
3	Ive lost everything After everything she did to you, the kids, and the family, that someone else is actually doing you a favor. They are the ones being misled into dealing with all that poison now.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/26 02:10 AM
1	5 years in, ex just had my 10 year old daughter tell the GAL I grabbed her by the neck. I'm spiraling and don't know how to handle this The GAL should have investigated that a bit better. She should have asked spontaneously, "Where was father when that happened?" Or she could have requested your daughter to show her how you did it, or how you grabbed her. Usually, a child remains silent because it did not happen and she was pressured to say it. Alternatively, she could have asked your daughter why daddy was angry. That is what a competent GAL would do. There are professionals trained to detect lies. Maybe you should ask the cour…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/26 01:49 AM
1	California Courts Favor Women Germany	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/26 01:20 PM
3	California Courts Favor Women I am not surprised. There is little that can be done to prevent it. You try to structure the case in a way that ties the judge's hands, leaving them no other option, but he will still find a loophole to rule however he wants. Then you appeal and get another judge to decide. That is exactly what I will end up doing. Where I live, the first appeal goes to a different judge within the same family court, and only after that does it move to the higher regional court. It is a risky move because you ca…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/05/26 02:49 AM
1	My daughter told the gal I hit her I am not in US. My ex-partner convinced our 5-year-old son to tell the GAL that I had hit him and would not stop, even when he was screaming and begging me to do so. However, when the GAL asked him to demonstrate with gestures how the hitting happened, my son went completely silent and could not show anything. This is exactly when her fabrication fell apart. Unfortunately, the GAL and CPS are still blaming both parents. She claims our son is acting this way due to a loyalty conflict, placing equ…	/r/Divorce_Men	17/05/26 03:15 AM
2	Can anyone recommend a good home paternity testing kit? (UK) For those looking for a way to get tested, one solution is to order two genealogy kits using DNA, such as those from MyHeritage. These kits usually cost around €29 each, and the process simply involves swabbing the cheek with two cotton swabs to obtain saliva samples. One person performs their own test, and the second kit is used on the child to collect saliva. Then, both kits are returned by mail, and a few days are waited for a definitive result. The rationale for this method is to learn about…	/r/MensRights	22/03/26 10:40 PM
144	Male Celebrity Admits Wife and Daughters "Became Physical" with Him - Nobody Pays Attention The mother groomed the daughters to follow her path in psychologically abusing the father. I wouldn't like to be in his shoes.	/r/MensRights	17/03/26 03:36 AM
7	Women ruined my life Looking at these three specific scenarios, there is a clear pattern or type emerging in the dynamics you are describing with women. High-Conflict Personalities, the Power Imbalance, shifting goalposts and "absentee" leadership are signs of a toxic workplace. Both in your private life and professional life, there seems to be a breakdown in interpersonal navigation. You are finding yourself in environments where the women in power or in your life are operating with inconsistent rules that you aren…	/r/MensRights	17/03/26 02:26 AM
14	Court orders divorced man to support his stepchildren financially In Germany they go after the paternal grandparents when the father cannot pay.	/r/MensRights	13/03/26 02:07 PM
70	Berlin abolishes the obligation to maintain men's restrooms in restaurants It favors women by guaranteeing them 50% and it creates a scenario where men may have no "men-only" space at all if an owner chooses all unisex for the remaining half. If an owner chooses the unisex option for the second 50% of the stalls, then women would technically have access to 100% of the restrooms in that establishment. If the bar is crowded, the "Unisex" stalls often become a second women's restroom in practice because women have a "backup" area, whereas men have no "primary" area. The d…	/r/MensRights	10/03/26 02:41 PM
8	Youtube Video: The entire retirement system is rigged against men Since women generally have a higher life expectancy, it could be argued that men should be allowed to retire earlier. In many countries, however, the opposite is true. Men are often required to work five years longer than women before they reach the official retirement age. Country Men's Age Women's Age The Gap China 60 50–55 5–10 Years Poland 65 60 5 Years Colombia 62 57 5 Years Israel 67 62 5 Years Uzbekistan 60 55 5 Years Austria 65 60.5 4.5 Years Romania 65 62 3 Years Turkey 60 58 2 Years	/r/MensRights	09/03/26 04:19 PM
33	German police conduct raids against people suspected of posting misogynistic hate speech online Is there an equivalent of this group in darknet, Hyphanet, or Tor? Because the unencrypted internet is not safe anymore.	/r/MensRights	09/03/26 02:55 AM
8	My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial? Sir, please watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJOM76Fr4jg https://youtube.com/shorts/cC9pD4jPTsY?si=2R5PlBDgG1yAxeRT https://youtube.com/shorts/egxDKl9ThLc?si=GsijgT26OTHJ2lyg	/r/MensRights	19/02/26 07:23 PM
21	- YouTube a champion for the falsely accused She and Pearl Davis are two of the best youtubers that alert for the injustices against men and the double standards in our society.	/r/MensRights	19/01/26 04:08 AM
2	Why are fathers still treated as “secondary parents” in so many systems? Because those systems were made by women to women. Men only go there to be told what they did wrong, how much they are going to pay for it and for how long. They call it family court but in Germany, UK, and Australia they might better call it "the women's court". It is absurd this concept!	/r/MensRights	04/01/26 11:56 PM
2	Far right aren't the solution for mens rights During the previous German “traffic-light” coalition (SPD, Greens, FDP), the FDP, a center-right liberal party, through Justice Minister Marco Buschmann, pushed for a modernization of family law aimed at strengthening children’s rights to maintain meaningful relationships with both parents after separation. The reform focused on facilitating shared parental responsibility, improving custody and contact rules, and aligning child-support law more closely with real caregiving arrangements. The core…	/r/MensRights	27/12/25 02:59 AM
2	Is anyone else sitting on hundreds of matches on dating sites with women out of the country but getting no love locally? Based in Germany. I know which ones are the bots. Usually a chinese female in fancy places with non coerent profile info, like speaking spanish or italian. Based in europe or near me but none regional photo on the profile. The other ones might be bored sure. But they are not bots. They write with typos, they ghost or unmatch and express feelings. They do not request whatsapp immediately. And I never pay a dime. If the app requires pay to do its core job, I just uninstall, or login every few days…	/r/seduction	18/12/25 04:30 AM
4	Is anyone else sitting on hundreds of matches on dating sites with women out of the country but getting no love locally? I get it also but the profiles have been real. Peru, Argentina, Brasil, lots all over Africa, some from India. From around 1900 views, I have 1400 likes.	/r/seduction	18/12/25 01:43 AM
-3	Accused by (ex?) girlfriend, I’m scared and don’t know what to do (NSFW) Make yourself appear financially modest. Share with her the difficulties you are currently facing, such as the bank letters regarding your car loan default, foreclosure or the possibility that your employer might go bankrupt. Use one of these points carefully and make it look non-intentional. Make a timeline of the events and save all the messages. "she felt like I forced her" Her feelings are not an indication of any crime and you are not liable for the way she imagines she feels. How did you t…	/r/MensRights	12/12/25 12:43 PM
4	Australia's under 16 social media ban is beginning to impact free internet use in Australia. Will these laws discriminate against the rights of men to talk about men's rights issues on affected social media? Thank you for the accurate information. Unfortunately, the moment the internet began to challenge the established narrative and influence public opinion, censorship became inevitable. Measures like Chat Control and similar regulations have since been quietly pushed through in Europe.	/r/MensRights	05/12/25 02:01 AM
3	Men: Don’t get married India is very risky. Search for the ordeal that Pascal Mazurier has been through. And he was an important, respected person. Most of us a jareust common people.	/r/MensRights	19/11/25 01:26 AM
4	Men: Don’t get married I did that, and it did not work. She was devoted, did voluntary work, told me she helped children, was a virgin. I informed her from the beginning that I would never marry anyone that I haven't dated for 5 years. She waited, played the long game. As soon as the kid was out, it didn't last one month until she requested the divorce and request half of the property I had bought.	/r/MensRights	19/11/25 01:22 AM
1	Men: Don’t get married Yeah dude. He will for sure want a good retainer just for the initial part of the divorce. Please don't propose untested solutions.	/r/MensRights	19/11/25 01:13 AM
1	Men: Don’t get married Words of wisdom. Unfortunately, it is all true. No one in their right mind should ever do this.	/r/MensRights	19/11/25 01:03 AM
17	Conscription for men only decided in Germany I guess not. Still it is discriminatory for not including women: No, Germany does not currently conscript non-nationals, and foreign permanent residents would not be drafted. The recently passed legislation focuses on a new model of voluntary military service, which includes a mandatory questionnaire for all 18-year-old men to gauge interest, but it does not include a compulsory draft for non-Germans. Non-nationals are exempt: Foreign permanent residents who are not German nationals would not be…	/r/MensRights	12/11/25 11:26 PM
12	Family court law on parental contact for children to change - UK This new proposal to remove the legal presumption that contact with both parents is usually in a child’s best interest might seem protective on the surface, but in practice it will open a very dangerous door. By eliminating the presumption of shared parental involvement, we are creating a system where one parent (often the more vindictive or manipulative one) can even more easily weaponize the courts to exclude the other parent, especially fathers, from their children’s lives. Parental alienatio…	/r/MensRights	22/10/25 03:35 PM
5	AI’s anti-male bias and how to counter it I've noticed also in some interactions I had with chatgpt. Looked like the answer from a feminist. I am surprised that Elon allows Grok to be affected by this.	/r/MensRights	12/10/25 05:39 PM