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ADVICEpeachhh629/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 01:18 PM
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For skin, I use a gentle cream cleanser followed by sunscreen in the mornings. At night I remove all makeup with an oil cleanser and follow with AHA, moisturising serum and heavy moisturiser. I use a silk pillow case to keep this all on my face during the night as cotton absorbs your products. The next morning my skin looks amazing! For hair I use a simple amino acid shampoo and conditioner around twice a week and then set in hot curlers. These curls hold for a few days. I use a boar bristle bru…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:23 AM
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I second Dita. I have read her book “My Beauty Mark” and would thoroughly recommend it. She never explicitly mentions RP but she does advocate femininity, poise, and always looking your best. I don’t believe a man has seen her in sweatpants ever.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:12 AM
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I would love this, or even some small scale chat via a messaging app (Kik, whatsapp, etc) but have been too afraid to ask in case it wasn’t allowed!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:47 PM
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I think this could be the start of the most amazing life for you all ❤️ I truly wish you all the best. Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 07:01 PM
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Happy New Year to you too! Your post wasn’t harsh. It can be hard to read the truth sometimes. I have been where OP is, but this sub really works its magic and if you can get past the perceived harshness it is very freeing. The truth will set you free!
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 09:10 PM
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I just want to say that the way you delivered this advice was wonderful. Thank you for being a brilliant example of compassionate honesty.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 09:04 PM
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Some of these are absolutely absurd.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 03:20 PM
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Yay! I was looking forward to this thread. Secret 1: Accept him as he is, look to his good side. I think this secret is foundational to a happy relationship. It is definitely something I have struggled with, even when I didn't notice it, I have always tried to change him even in the smallest of ways. During the holidays I have tried to step back, and just let him be who he is. I have noticed he is different around his family than he is around me, possibly because he feels less obligated to be af…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/17 08:34 PM
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I would like to lose about 15-20lbs and I have asked the sub for advice on this before. I have never felt hatred towards me, or as if I am unwelcome. There are harsh truths on the sub but that’s why I am here: to improve! I agree with other users that being fat is not an excuse. Ageing is different - everyone gets older, but I do believe you can age well whether you are a man or a woman. Being fat hinders my relationship, my work life, my health, and my self esteem. There is no room for taking o…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 11:28 AM
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Oh wow!! What a lovely belated Christmas present, congratulations ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 11:03 PM
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Thank you for offering this for everyone, and I do hope your family are OK! Sending positive thoughts :). I don’t have a tarot question but I was wondering, how do you apply to tarot to your RP lifestyle? Do you ask the deck questions daily? I have a deck but haven’t used it in this way and I would be interested in making it work for self improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 03:25 PM
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Great idea! Thank you for this :) I have almost skim-read the entire PDF now, the book is incredibly helpful! I definitely want to put the exercises into practice each week and I think it would be great to get a discussion going.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 10:56 AM
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Thank you for giving me your honest opinion, I don't have answers to many of your questions, so they are definitely something I will be thinking about for quite some time. Do you have actual timelines? You are 28....if you want to enjoy marriage before having kids you are already at 30 which is the 'beginning of the end'. Yes, within the next 2-3 years. the way you talk, and your inability to handle these types of situations makes you sound more like you are 19, you also give off the impression …
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 08:10 PM
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Yes, we talk openly about marriage and children in our future! I don't know No
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 07:56 PM
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This is exactly my line of thinking, but some other posters have drawn my attention to the fact that, I am just his girlfriend, not his wife. I don't actually have the authority I thought I did. It's not what I wanted to hear but probably what I needed to hear :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 06:57 PM
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For many, holidays are just for family and that may be his mother's line of thinking. Yes, I never really thought of it this way, or that marriage changed things. I can understand this perspective. We talk about marriage, and she refers to me as her DIL. Although we aren't married I've been in the mindset of being married for the last few years, I guess. I side with those telling you to go to your family's Christmas. You aren't married. She's not your MIL. You don't owe her any holidays. This is…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 06:55 PM
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Yes, sorry, she refers to me as her DIL and I refer to her as my MIL. We feel like we have known each other long enough that we can refer to each other that way. I guess I never really thought about whether being married to him changes the dynamics, but I guess it does.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 06:52 PM
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Lose around 15-20lbs Make exercise a habit (5-6 days per week) Start the home business I always wanted to do! Continually work on myself and strengthen my relationship Save 8-10k Dedicate more time each week to developing my craft
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 04:17 PM
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This is frustrating because I feel like my problem is that I'm not a very organized person, I shy away from learning to cook because it makes me anxious (though I'm slowly getting better), I don't know how to prioritize my time and I feel unmotivated to start my day as a lonely SAHM. I agree with the sentiment that it is better to "just do it!" rather than spending too much time in your own head. It's great that you have a well developed awareness of the situation, but it's time for action now. …
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 04:10 PM
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I mean, if you guys live close enough to both of your parents, it's not unreasonable for them to want to see you. I don't think they're being unreasonable for asking. I think she's unreasonable because she won't take no for an answer, ignores our plans, and wants to spend every single holiday with us throughout the entire year. If he regularly buckles to his mother, then that's not a his-mom problem. That's a him problem, and you're not going to change him. Perhaps his other qualities make the r…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 03:39 PM
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I'm 28!! Sorry. I didn't even see the typo on my flair. And yes, I never had an issue with him being home for Christmas during the first few years but I'm 28 now and he is 30.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 03:29 PM
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I’m watching it now and finding julianne Moore’s character insufferable already!!
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 08:17 PM
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Yes. I have no problem with your feedback. Obviously part of the problem is my relationship, I was pretty clear on that before I even posted here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:02 PM
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You seem to lack self worth totally and view yourself as A) fat B) worthless C) disempowered D) incapable of change. This isn't attractive. I agree, that, along with needing to hit the gym, is likely what it is. He doesn't sound like a quality guy with high SMV or why would be stay with a woman he finds so ugly? Why do you stay with a guy that makes you feel so shitty? Because my relationship is much more complex than what I can put into words on a reddit post, and I have probably let my emotion…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:46 PM
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If it's anything else, I don't know what it is is because I can only go off what he has actually told me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:28 PM
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Yes. Whether it was 10lbs or 20lbs.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 09:08 AM
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Okay, I just read that thread. It was harrowing and definitely a wake up call. It actually made me feel pretty ill! Thank you for drawing my attention to it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 12:09 PM
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You can have "reasons" or "results" but you can't have both! That's helpful, thank you! I will memorise that. And yes, I agree!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 12:00 PM
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I will check it out, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 11:57 AM
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I don’t think you are harsh. Thank you for your advice and support! ❤️ I agree that I have to lose weight for myself and no one else. That starts today!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 07:55 AM
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I’ve also wondered that and it does bother me a little.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 07:28 AM
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I appreciate your advice! It is direct and truthful. You are right. I didn't think I was making excuses but now I have read it back I see what you mean. I agree that weight loss is necessary in my case for good health too, not just to look better. <3
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:38 PM
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Of course. But most of the comments on this thread are extremely helpful, and just what I needed, so I'm pleased about that! :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:31 PM
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I will :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:30 PM
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No, it happens all the time!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:28 PM
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I agree. Thank you for your response! I don't know why I let myself be at this weight. I wish I knew, I don't know why.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:25 PM
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I drink water constantly, I mean I am dehydrated no matter how much I drink, and constantly urinating (TMI, sorry) and have dry eyes too. I only drink water, I don't drink caffeine or sodas. By tired, I mean I'm tired no matter how much sleep I get, but I often wake up in the night or just have poor quality sleep in general.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:22 PM
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I'm not making excuses, I know it's something I need to do. I'm asking for help. And I am in the "overweight" category, which is exactly what I stated in my post.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 11:05 PM
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Okay, great - I have one of those thermometers. I will give that a go. I know what you mean - although I am not 5'7, I am 5' so the extra lbs looks a lot worse on me :P I think you are right that he can be a little controlling sometimes. I swear he does have good points, perhaps I haven't painted him very well in this post! :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 08:12 PM
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Oh I LOVE that book! Thank you for the great advice - "Change your mind to a thin person who is temporarily overweight" that is very profound :) I will try that, because I have definitely thought of myself as "fat forever" or just "stuck like this".
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 07:35 PM
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I agree that his behaviour isn't very supportive and it hasn't helped my self esteem issues. In other areas of life he is wonderful, but this area needs some work from both of us. We are both each other's first/only sexual partner, if that makes any difference at all. With all of that said, I am not quite sure where to go from there. Do I just do my part in this (work on self esteem/lose weight/get healthier/etc) and hope he follows suit? Over the years I have brought it up before (before I star…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 07:10 PM
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I think that is definitely part of it, being too caught up in my own head, thinking that I can't relax in my body and also worrying I'm taking too long! LOL it didn't occur to me to try and imagine something else to help but I will try. Thank you for all of your advice :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 06:58 PM
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Thank you! In the past I have tried calorie counting (1200) along with working out. I noticed that I had more success when eating less sugar and carbs than just eating anything as long as it was under the calorie limit. I suspect I might have some degree of insulin resistance because I can lose more weight at the same calorie intake if the carbs are lower. In terms of exercise I recently completed the C25K app and have dabbled with weight training but my upper body is still very weak. I think it…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 06:57 PM
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That's amazing!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 06:51 PM
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Thank you! I will. I do imagine that, I don't want to let that become a reality.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 03:40 PM
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That's an amazing loss :) Congratulations!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 03:38 PM
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Thank you! This is great advice. I already worked out that my calorie allowance needs to be around 1200-1300 and I’ve heard a lot about Keto and I think that lifestyle would suit me because it’s already everything I like to eat. I do do running for as it helps with work stress and depression but it’s intermittent and it would be good to make a schedule for that a few times per week. I’d like to incorporate weights too. I agree that telling my boyfriend about my goals in a positive way would be a…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 02:34 PM
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That’s a good idea to take it one phase at a time. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 02:18 PM
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Thank you! I’ve heard great things about keto.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 01:54 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful response, I really appreciate it! I would like to lose weight for myself too - I’d like to feel healthy and sexy and confident and comfortable in nice clothes. You’re right that it does feel like torture, because I feel the results can’t come quick enough. I know that weight loss requires patience and the problem is, I don’t have it. I can’t breathe in this body. If feels like a fat suit that I want to unzip and take off. I agree with you that it wo…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 01:46 PM
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Yes. This post was seeking the wake up call I needed. Since posting I have started Keto and my exercise regime and am already in ketosis.
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