peachhhhhhhhhh Archive

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1	Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY. Yes, I think we just disagree on what that reason is. In my experience, FWB with no romantic feelings involved is rare. It’s why the “so, what are we?” memes are a thing. While a man could likely have casual sex indefinitely without proposing conditions, a woman may provide sex with the condition (or at least hope) of a serious relationship coming out of it. Many will fake the ‘cool girl, down for anything, no strings attached’ vibe, including faking orgasms and playing up how ‘freaky’ they are.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 07:30 PM
1	Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY. Why doesn’t my point stand if they have sex more than once? Women fake orgasms for entire relationships. Guys with average genetics can and do elicit these feelings from women. Once a woman is with one eager to please, earnest man who makes her cum, she won’t go back to attractive players. Unless she has issues and never cared about cumming to begin with. Stability and comfort ends up being the #1 priority for most women. Once they’re done being young and dumb, which we all are before we learn.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/23 05:23 PM
1	Casual sex is a pipe dream for most men. Here’s the real reason WHY. Though I want to, I wont touch on everything you’ve said here as I get the impression that your views have been mostly formed and you wont stray from them. I do want to challenge the idea that if a woman marries someone less attractive than her past parters, the bedroom will end up dead, she’ll be unsatisfied and yearning for the Chads of her past, etc. In general, women are not as interested in visual stimuli when it comes to sex. Think about the market for porn and erotic content. The consumer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/23 08:28 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Little kids waddling in puffy snowsuits bring me such joy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 07:12 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Love it. In Canada, Thanksgiving is in October. That leaves both November and December to fully dedicate to Christmas. :) I’ve got 8 nieces & nephews who make it completely worth it to dive head first in the magic. It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Christmas, the Bing Crosby version.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 02:14 PM
0	How can loyalty exist if hypergamy is real Yep. You’re more likely to lose her with this paranoia alone than you will from her being swept away by someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/11/21 01:47 PM
16	Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? I wouldn’t care if my partner had had lots of casual sex in the past, but if those quick sexual encounters were very recent then it could make me question whether of not he’s looking for a relationship or if I will suffer the same “fate”. I think its common for young adults to have a non-committal phase they grow out of. To me it’s always been most important that quick encounters aren’t his ONLY experience. If someone has only had short term flings and no long-term relationships it is a red flag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 01:49 PM
1	Man's desire for an emotional connection with a woman surpasses his desire for sex - and the harsh reality is that men will never be able to satisfy this desire I mean most people would probably disagree that men value love above sex. Haven’t you heard “women fake orgasms, men fake love” before? The sentiment being that the man fakes the love in order to orgasm, the woman fakes the orgasm to please the man she loves. I also don’t think women dislike “passionate love”. First of all, a big crush is NOT the same as love. IMO true love comes from a deep knowing of a person, not surface level infatuation. The main reason that’s it’s a turnoff when someone ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 12:15 PM
1	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? No. Very attractive men are bad at sex. If you’re constantly having one night stands, you’re not required to learn to please a woman. You learn nothing from pumping and dumping, and 99% of the time the woman doesn’t cum. Average looking men will put in the time and effort to learn how to make you cum. Women orgasm when they’re comfortable, not with some random jacked chad who doesn’t need to make that effort. I’m so sick of people overestimating how much pleasure women get from casual sex. The w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/21 12:08 AM
9	Women, what do you think WE get wrong about you? Yep. Women are in general happier when their partner is less attractive than them. We value stability and don’t like feeling inferior. For men, having a super hot partner is a status symbol. I think some people confuse having high standards (for emotional treatment) with being confident in your looks. They think that an overweight, average looking woman having a long list of requirements for a partner must mean she overvalues herself and thinks she’s way hotter than she is. It’s not true. Most w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/21 07:30 PM
2	Would you rather be an attractive man or an attractive woman? Absolutely! I lead a healthy lifestyle, don’t drink or do drugs, and sleep is really important to me. Mainly because I’d like to live a long life. I would of course like to preserve a youthful look as long as I can, but I think it’s important to come to terms with ageing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 11:51 PM
1	Would you rather be an attractive man or an attractive woman? Maybe!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 12:53 PM
2	Would you rather be an attractive man or an attractive woman? Attractive man. For so many reasons. I remember being in second grade, telling a joke and no one laughing. A few minutes later the male class clown retold it and got tons of laughs. I still remember thinking “they’d think I was funny if I were a boy.” Now, as an adult, I believe I would have more success in the workplace and be more respected if I were male. I’d be less afraid of aging, less focused on my appearance overall. I really hate that no matter how much I try to focus on inner growth, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 01:49 AM
1	Men Mistake Being A Passive Doormat As Being Nice Then Claim Women Don’t Want Nice Guys. I think neither of those two types of people think logically. I think both are mentally unwell, and addicted to the form of “intimacy” they’re receiving. An abusive relationship isn’t all abuse, it’s cyclical with tons of honeymoon phases where you finally get that intimacy you’ve been craving. Of course there’s extreme lows when she should probably come to her senses and gtfo. Kind of like the camgirl addict who has the cyclical low of realizing his bank account is drained, and there’s no way t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/21 01:20 AM
1	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? But by your definition of “best”, even if you and your partner were BOTH bringing your best, it wouldn’t guarantee you were happy. Giving the most you can possibly give is not generally a recipe for happiness, especially if that giving involves doing things you find degrading or unpleasant. I’m glad it works for you and I hope you are both happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/21 12:05 AM
2	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? To me it is relevant. Your definition of someone’s best is different from mine. I don’t think someone can be both their best self and wildly unhappy at the same time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 11:44 PM
1	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? Is your partner’s happiness important to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 11:00 PM
3	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? Well I’ve never been interrogated to that extent, and it would weird me out. Maybe “so what are you into?” but not “who have you done it the most with?”	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 10:43 PM
2	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? Are you saying that the more subservient and giving a person is, the closer they are to their best self? Even if they’re only doing those things because they don’t have a backbone, or don’t know how to express their needs, or think doing XYZ will make someone love them? If they were in a relationship where they gave everything they had to someone but held so much resentment and went to bed crying every night, is that really their “best” compared to the same person in a few years who now clearly …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 10:40 PM
2	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? Changing internally often shows externally. Becoming more headstrong and secure may be an internal change, but it will effect what you’re willing to tolerate from others. I’ve seen your other comments about wanting your partner’s “best”. Do you think a woman is at her best when she is most willing to tolerate mistreatment, and least likely to make her desires known? Are those good things?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 07:47 PM
2	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? What’s the difference between change and inconsistency?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 07:16 PM
1	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? What if they are a flawed individual (as most of us are), but they currently are the most stable and consistent they’ve ever been? If they say “I made mistakes in my past. I didn’t stand up for myself and didn’t yet know how to set boundaries. I was insecure. Now I know who I am, I know what I will and will not tolerate, and I know exactly what I want out of life.” Does someone who says that sound like an inconsistent person? Is it unacceptable to grow and change? I don’t think many of us come o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 06:44 PM
0	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? Yes! Please don’t think the responses here are a good representation of what all men think. A healthy, secure person shouldn’t think of your past partners as competition. It’s weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 03:59 PM
4	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? This is the healthy answer, and I’m happy to read it. It’s not a competition. Honestly, if a man were to ask me a bunch of questions about which exact sexual acts I’ve done with an ex, it would strike me as childish and a huge red flag. I’d gtfo. Jealousy of immediate “competition” is enough of a turnoff as it is, but being jealous of people your partner has been with in the PAST… that’s a problem for your therapist, not your partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 03:56 PM
6	Q4M What is more important for you to be treated fairly compared to your partner's exes or to be treated well? That’s a very impractical, made-up rule that likely only you follow. People change. It’s ridiculous to think someone would want to repeat the same exact sequence of events in every single relationship just because it’s somehow more “fair”. No one is obligated to perform sexual acts they thoroughly dislike only because they’ve done them before. It’s a very immature mindset, reminiscent of a sibling crying to their mom “but HE got a new toy, it’s not fair!” A romantic partner’s job is not to make …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 03:44 PM
1	Post-breakup: Men and Women are different. Who is saying that anyone is innocent?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 11:50 PM
2	Post-breakup: Men and Women are different. “Is the argument really that women and men do this equally because I just don’t see it?” Do what equally exactly? I’m not sure that what you’re describing is really measurable. You use an extremely abnormal case as your main example, then draw comparisons to custody battles. It’s a bit all over the place. ‘Doing whatever it takes to hurt the man’ - well surely not WHATEVER it takes, right? Because women sure aren’t topping the statistics for violent crime, sexual violence, kidnapping (often a fo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/21 01:38 AM
1	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have Except men who have the option to be selective ARE selective. You think famous attractive men sleep with every woman who expresses interest? Just because some men would have a go with just about any woman who looked their way doesn’t mean we should praise how graciously non-selective they are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 11:32 AM
1	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have I don’t think it’s helpful to generalize both sexes in that way. “Men are this way and women are this way.” doesn’t really encourage debate, does it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 11:18 AM