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…if anything, I see the opposite. Marriage + house + 2.5 kids is still the goal for most people and so many people cannot be single for longer than a month and hop from one relationship to the next. Unfortunate, imo. Even celebrities, with all their financial freedom and choice. People say that feminism has changed so much about our society but it really hasn’t outside of super progressive bubbles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:28 PM
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Um, it’s literally the opposite. Women are constantly being encouraged to date men for reasons other than actually finding him attractive and sexy. “oh he’s a good man, nice, stable. He’ll take care of you, make you laugh”. Most women prefer ugly men who worship them over good looking men who make them feel jealous and insecure. Men on the other hand, put looks first and everything else second.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 12:40 AM
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why don’t these kinds of posts ever point out which types of women they’re specifically speaking about? Most women do seek out “good men”. The ones who get hung up on abusive, cheating bums usually have many vices themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:11 AM
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I have a few times but was shy or felt too unattractive to approach them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:04 AM
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cheating. I was in a long term relationship for my entire young years, where I did some cheating of my own and I found myself wishing he would just do the same and leave me tf alone. he was also very abusive which is half of what made me want to cheat in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 02:05 AM
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do u spend any time at all on this site? If I were to go by what most other women say is attractive in most subs, especially the woman-dominant ones, the hottest men would be either fat or Shaggy Doo-skinny, under 6 feet with glasses and snaggle teeth. Conventionally attractive men get met with “Ew, he looks fake/scary/too masculine/hard-bodied/arrogant” etc. I’ve never seen men react like that to hot women, on the other hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:39 PM
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IMO it’s because they have low self esteem and want to be the “prize” in the relationship. I’ve talked to women who had the option to date the type of guy who had it all (looks, money, character) in the past and they all said they didn’t want to at the time because, basically, the guys knew their worth. Not even in an arrogant way but the women felt these men were “too perfect” for them. Many attractive women mistakenly think that a scrub will be more needy and more faithful than a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:34 PM
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it’s not just socioeconomic reasons, they are mostly brainwashed to believe that blonde and white means someone is an automatic 10. I’ve seen Mexican, Peruvian, Colombian women who resemble Kim Kardashian & living in the USA or Europe acting like their 3/10 white boyfriend is young Brad Pitt himself. Some even believe that THEY are the lucky ones. Colonialism, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:51 AM
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I haven’t paid much attention to Joe since 2011 and I don’t know who Sophie is. From someone on the outside, I don’t get why people are attacking him and suggesting he’s talking trash about her. Celebrity media report rumours and speculative crap all the time, doesn’t he mean he’s saying these things. Seems people just don’t like him and his bros and want an excuse to go in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:25 PM
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lol, what? Women have much more varied preferences than men. As to your other point, lots of people like to front for the internet. Most women are not that obsessed with nor going to get the chance to be with a man who is 6”4, handsome af and makes 8 figures or whatever. There are much more pretty girls than super tall and rich men to go around. Also, I rarely see men or thin and conventionally hot women praising obese body positive women. It’s usually other plus sized women doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:29 PM
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it’s definitely a real thing. It was my mom’s situation with my stepfather until recently. There are some women who do have other options but will settle with a “soft” or “beta” guy they’re not super attracted to, but who makes them feel secure. And then they usually end up resenting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:18 AM
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if the end goal is just sex and fun, that’s cool. would be nice if some of these famous guys would wrap it up, tho. Too many women who just want to have a child with rappers and rich guys to use as a cash cow. Kids should be made out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:34 AM
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Lol no it doesn’t. It could mean she is problematic, though. Maybe attachment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 07:31 PM
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Like this or this .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:00 AM
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the overweight woman, by far. People forget that most of the world is in fact, broke by American standards. Here in Ontario, Canada it’s pretty much the norm for people in their 20s, 30s and sometimes even 40s to still be living in their parent’s home or with multiple roommates and taking the bus. You won’t see 24 year olds with their own place and 50k truck like in most of the States. Not having money to spend doesn’t stop broke men from dating in most places.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:48 PM
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i agree. And I’ve done it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 03:56 AM
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yeah this is me every time. It usually eventually tapers off to be normal so I just accept my obsession at the beginning.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/23 04:36 PM
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none and the amount of times I’ve even seen someone like that irl has been rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 02:42 PM
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They ban everybody lol. I’m not sure what their process is but tons of people get banned without posting there. I’m shocked that more women aren’t banned from AskWomen. They’re militant about “progressive” views.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 01:26 PM
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that’s what I’ve seen too. A lot of them were so angry at Billie, even. Younger people online are practically militant about any gap larger than 2-3 years being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 02:37 AM
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I think it’s more of a personality type issue. I could never vent to my mother about anything without a “fix it” reaction or just blaming me for whatever I was venting about. And I know other women like that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:03 PM
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waist to hip ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 12:43 AM
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I don’t think being wealthy or “high value” is the determining factor. Rather it should be whether he’s a degenerate or not. If he makes music talking about partying, drugs and “hoes” or is an athlete that spends all his off time in strip clubs and nightclubs doing cocaine, then I do question the intelligence of women who think these men would make good family men and partners. Some undoubtedly just get together with them for the money and fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:02 PM
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I think you should break it off with this guys and allow yourself to get more experience in the world and with dating. I felt the same way at your age, that barely anyone would ever want me, and it’s not healthy. It caused me to put up with abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/22 11:30 PM
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I understand that feeling/realization. For me, I have pretty much learned everything by myself from scratch since my mom didn’t teach me anything due to her BPD and detached parenting. The one thing she knows how to do well though, is clean and organize. I think it’s important to teach those habits as young as possible because most people get lazy as adults.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/22 09:52 PM
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lol @ that person trying to straw man you- “show us an exact quote of someone calling you bitchy” as if that’s pertinent to the discussion or would alter their opinion about your comment. I really don’t see how you could have worded it any better. As someone who used to be heavier and always struggled with weight I don’t find this offensive.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 02:46 AM
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“it’s so impersonal, mechanical, detached.” I think that’s a big reason why it’s become the main focus of sex for some people. It’s a sex positive/lib feminism thing. Use a man for impersonal oral sex the same way some of them use women. Most popular female rap artists and some pop artists talk about this. Not my thing personally.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 02:14 PM
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It’s never been that common where I live
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 01:53 AM
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I agree and also a lot of women’s clothing just looks cheaply made and sheer these days even if it’s not a garment meant to look sexy. Just regular tops. I was at the beach the other week and 90% of the women/girls under 40 were wearing tiny thong bikinis when it wasn’t that common 5-10 years ago. I think that since big booties and curves are “trendy” these days it also plays a part in making clothes seem more revealing. I’m also seeing so many more obvious BBLs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:47 PM
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thats true though lib feminism is now more and more present
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:42 AM
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plus i hardly know anybody who “applauds” men who do this especially as we move towards more egalitarian societies and softer men. Most women think it’s gross and problematic if a man has slept with dozens and dozens of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:42 PM
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there seem to be a lot of vacuous ideologies and immaturity on this sub. It seems that whenever men discuss “women” here, they really mean 20 something year old women who are the types that sleep with rappers, athletes, mafiosos and millionaires. That is not the average woman, at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:42 PM
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Echoing the other comments that said social media. People become famous off of nonsense, offensive YouTube videos and Instagram pictures these days, which takes away the allure. It’s also why shows like The Hills wouldn’t be popular now. It’s not messy and crazy enough for young people’s standards.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/22 06:07 PM
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it’s still very possible, the main problem is finding a compatible partner, particularly among millennial/Gen Z men in progressive big cities. I live in a place like this and it’s mainly the men in trades (mostly Eastern European and Latin American men) who have stay at home wives.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 10:30 PM
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yeah I’ve been saying this. I also think that most of these men must be from the southern US or something when they say that they see Lizzo-sized women being regularly hit on and approached by young, in shape men. that would never happen where I’m from (Toronto). And the colorism and pickiness here from Latino and black men is through the roof here. even when they’re unattractive and broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 03:14 PM
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same. I think living in a big city outside the US has something to do with it. In toronto you have to be gorgeous for ugly or handsome men to approach you in public if they don’t know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:40 PM
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I haven’t seen this except in situations when a famous or online “influencer” woman is dating/married to a nobody guy. Her fans will send him nudes and hit on him because he’s hers. But in real life, most normal mentally healthy women aren’t interested in married men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:23 PM
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that’s misandry. But I do see a lot of ageist, sexist comments from young women towards other women which is weird to me coming from the most “woke” generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:08 AM
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I think these types of people are genuinely low IQ individuals and just plain shitty. Like the parents in the Gabriel Fernandez case. The mother had the IQ of a preteen girl. She obviously wasn’t going to care about stability or reflect on if she was mentally and emotionally ready for children. This is a common thing amongst ghetto women of all races in North America. They just feel in “love” with their bum bf at the moment and want to have a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 04:03 AM
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where in the world does the second situation happen? A man who looks like Chris Evans is not having sex with no average woman .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:01 PM
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I like regular people and random boxers and footballers more than famous actors and singers but I would say Chris Evans, Zac Efron, Channing Tatum, Chase Stokes are all hot, perfect looking men. I think men like Bradley Cooper, James Franco and Daddy Yankee are also very attractive but not as “perfect” per se. Ugly in terms of celebrities would be Pitbull, Vin Diesel, Marc Anthony, Micheal Cera. I’m also not into Jake Gylenhaal or Ryan Reynolds but they seem to be loved by a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:20 AM
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Not much, no big scandals or anything. I remember there were two or three teachers who were on the younger side, that definitely felt flattered by the attention from students. One of them, a mid 30s woman would always wear these skintight pencil skirts and thigh high boots much to the chargrin of the older woman teachers lol. I graduated in 2011.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 06:43 AM
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they’re probably not very hygienic themselves. Ironically, a lot of people from wealthy nations don’t consider daily showers, grooming and tooth brushing to be necessary. I’ve known women with bad B.O and bedrooms that stank badly with clothes and trash littered everywhere lol. So I definitely believe men can be that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 07:52 PM
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I’m 27 and I don’t care one way or the other. I believe life experiences are more important than the number and I was married very young so an older man who has been through that would not be a burden for me. There are also younger men who have been in LTRs with children etc. I only care that he is hardworking and willing to have a family, and that we are attracted obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 05:32 AM
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Both of them. Though I feel that number 2 is slightly worse because it’s highly unlikely that was a one time thing. I know so many women who see it as no biggie for their husband to go to get lap dances and occasionally cheat with escorts or random women but will freak out over flirty texts and Facebook friends. And I do not understand their logic. I’m not one of the women who thinks the physical means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 05:40 PM
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lol the gag is, most of these blubbering North American and UK men who seek out Eastern European and South American women for their “femininity and submissiveness” usually end up being dominated and giving in to every whim of their Russian/Romanian/Colombian/Brazilian wife. These women are used to dealing with strong men and aren’t weak or dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:39 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 02:11 PM
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If I have to, guy #1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 03:01 AM
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No. many people just wear the same few stylish items over and over and aren’t well off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:44 AM
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because they know they “have” her on lock, as such a woman is likely to have low self esteem. I have a friend who is facially cute but obese and works three jobs to support herself and her pothead hus-bum. Actually I’ve known a few young women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 01:45 AM
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yes it’s a sad state of affairs isn’t it? I know more women my age who are working sometimes multiple jobs to support a boyfriend/husbum than I do men supporting a woman and kids. Some of us still want husbands and fathers, not a roommate with benefits. That is one of the reasons, but not limited to, why I prefer foreign men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 03:44 PM
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I grew up with a girl who looks exactly like a slightly paler Jessica Alba. She just got married to a 3/10 uglay short white boy and no he is not wealthy by any means. Before that she had 1 very similar boyfriend and that’s it. We don’t really talk anymore but I really doubt that she was having casual sex at all. She was all about school and her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 08:43 PM
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Nope I don’t use tinder or anything No People have told me that the men I like are ugly so 🤷🏿‍♀️ I’m 28 F and spent most of my adult life in an LTR though until a couple of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 05:59 PM
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well unfortunately that amount would equal to abject poverty where I am. At least for me it’s not about being wealthy and presumptuous but about not being cheap/stingy and being a provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 03:05 PM
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lol most men my age can’t even rent where I live, they live with their parents. Although the same is true for women so people just see it as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 02:32 PM
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I mean, I don’t understand this whole phenomenon i.e why women feel they owe the guy their body for coffee or shrimp Alfredo and why men choose to spend lots of money on women who are clearly flakey and uninterested, then complain about it. You can’t tell when someone is just placating you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:59 PM
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There was this woman (30’s) who would beg my ex’s brother to see him and go to his place, even after he told her he didn’t have the bus money to go to her. LOL. I’ve known a few thirsty women tbh. Most of the guys in question were average looking and not wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 09:20 PM
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I mean 30 is not an “old man”. That’s freaking young. Don’t know why this sub thinks that most 30+ year old males are financial engineers living alone, with all this wisdom and life experience. Of the women I know of who had relationships with older men, they were mostly normal women who just fell for someone older. Not everyone comes from a culture that deems people emotionally immature until 25 or 30. I also did know of 2 girls who were 19-25 and dated MUCH older men 40+. One had a child with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/21 02:34 AM
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many are but those men also only want beautiful women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:45 PM
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it’s a cardinal sin to say this on Reddit for some reason. Not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:52 AM
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Not anymore tbh. There are many cheap doctors advertising on Instagram these days. There are a lot of “poor” by American standards women getting BBL’s and Botox.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 02:01 AM
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This has been the case for a long time imo. I know of several people over 50 who simply never had kids because of no desire or fertility/health issues. Social media just has a lot of cringe people making “childfree” their whole personality these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 08:13 PM
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Cheapness/frugality/greediness. People who take pride in being jailbirds, criminals, bums, growing up in the ‘hood
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:11 PM
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Not really. Grown men are the ones who will hide their partner from their friends like a fifteen year old if she isn’t hot enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:39 PM
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Agreed with yours. That’s why I think this sub is made up of a lot of young neurotic white boys because grown women really don’t have these “Chad” standards for men. Even really attractive women usually don’t want a man who is physically as good looking as them because it’s intimidating. Most real life age gap relationships aren’t 21 year old amateur models with 45 year old Donald Trump businessmen. Reddit seems to believe this. Most are between low to middle income unattractive people. Not all …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:21 PM
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About what I expected tbh. Their problem is internal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:34 PM
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true. Men who rant about wanting women to ask them out are only thinking of attractive women, and those women don’t need to seek men out. I’m sure they’ll be on cloud 9 when a stuttering chubby girl asks them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:36 PM
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I agree. I also never cared about these “movements” promoting women’s public nakedness, free the nipple, dress masculine etc. because they just cater to the male gaze anyway and they’re dumb. It’s “empowering” for a pretty 22 year old with perfect 32D boobs to walk around with no bra, no makeup and a men’s undershirt with shredded up denim shorts but many of these same people in favor will shame older or unattractive women or woc for doing the same. lol. It’s performative crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:49 PM
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girl the major demographic on Reddit and this sub is yt and East Asian men. They think Doja Cat and Kim K are fat. You sound fine to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 03:07 AM
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same example as what you mentioned for men tbh. I think being devalued by someone you’re in love with would be hurtful to anyone. In one of my girl talk FB groups a lot of women mentioned feeling hurt about their man having been freakier in bed with the ex than he is with them, liking her body more, treating her better.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 04:22 AM
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If you mean the type of baloney that is pushed on social media and certain wokester circles then yes I disagree with a lot of it. I don’t like the misandry and shaming of women who are mothers. Also, women have been trading in on their youth and beauty since forever. I don’t see how this is empowering especially since only some women can benefit from it. A woman getting breast implants, twerking for cash and bragging about being a freak in bed doesn’t “hurt” men or the patriarchy at all. lol. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:49 PM
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ikr. do people on this sub not realize that like... people who aren’t introverted, cerebral types exist? There are plenty of men who approach women in public and plenty of women who are receptive to it if he seems hygienic and respectful. I swear this sub is populated by 17 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 11:52 PM
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I dunno OP, our tastes really are too varied to give one solid answer. It’s not like in men’s case, where it’s either between a (likely white or pale Asian) Victoria’s Secret model or an Instagram model. I’ve met conventionally attractive women who love full on DJ Khaled/Rick Ross obese men and others who are disgusted by them. So much of it will depend on a woman’s age, class, ethnicity, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:10 PM
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RMV: wanting a family unit and a provider (or at least provides financially more than me). I have no problem bearing most or all of the domestic things. I would enjoy it rather than a career. SMV: not that much that I wouldn’t do I guess. My main thing is to lose more weight and save money to go to Mexico for a BBL and lipo
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 12:23 AM
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mmkay there is a difference between party girls and hoes who want to hook up with gringos and take their money, and the regular women who date and marry their own. I will say though, that infidelity and cheating is not uncommon with Latin American women, same as with the men. And yes it’s not the Middle East but still very sexist compared to the U.S or the UK. There are Latinas living in the U.S who think that waking up at 4AM to cook their husband’s lunch for the day is just part of being a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 06:37 AM
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Well yes I agree about the points talking about the culture being much warmer and more family oriented than North American or European cultures. But I think this guy is probably dealing with escorts or something. Latin Americans are very misogynistic. It wouldn’t at all be seen well for a woman to walk into a bar and make out with a stranger. Latin American women are expected to LOOK sexy and show skin but act chaste and conservative. Also, women there care much more about money and status than …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/21 03:15 AM
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I mean, sometimes I find that this isn’t true though. At least in societies where women don’t necessarily need a man for money anymore. There are a lot of attractive women who would rather be with a simp who worships them over an alpha male. A lot of Stacies are highly sensitive to a male telling them “no” or telling them what to do even in the most benign contexts. The truth is, many attractive women are threatened at the prospect of dating high value alpha men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:19 PM
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lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:00 AM
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No. This BS gets advised to poor naive women on dating advice pages all the time. It might be useful when it comes to work and seeking employment or something but not with men. I’ve known a couple of fat girls with bright, friendly confident personalities and most men were still turned off by them. A pretty, slim girl can be shy, negative and dull yet have men talking about her “great personality, which made them fall in lOve”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:28 AM
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yup. I remember when someone like Adriana Lima was regarded as so unique and stunning but now people with enough money for it are just replicating her face with a trip to the doctor’s office.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:23 AM
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this tired ass debate again. secondly, I’ve said it before on this sub and I’ll say it again, I don’t know why you people think that all or most women in their 20s look like damn Kendall Jenner. Even so-called feminists make it seem like this is the case. Not all young women have the world at their fingertips so to speak. So they aren’t “losing” anything really by dating an older man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:23 AM
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I agree with this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:28 PM
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This is how the whole world works but PPD stays delusional. In places like Colombia and Brazil where women are known for beauty, being an ugly woman can even negatively affect her career and education. And the men are some of thee ugliest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 01:23 AM
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y’know it’s the same for WOC right? Other than East Asian
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 07:11 PM
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it’s really ridiculous. Earlier today I saw comments calling Chad Michael Murray a “disgusting predator” and a p3do for kissing Hilary Duff in a movie, since at the time she was 17 and he was a paltry 4 years older than her. People were freaking out saying they would never watch the movie again and would cancel the actor. Do they really think Hilary was disgusted and traumatized from kissing an attractive, young actor who by all accounts seems like a normal/good guy? So dumb. And I’ve seen the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 02:58 AM
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Very true, I have also brought up class making a difference in PPD, your points make sense. Although I have always thought this sub was full of UMC college students. I don’t think lower class, low inhibition types of people would be analyzing sex and relationships on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 12:53 AM
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What is “indirect”? The way teens with a crush communicate? I’m going to say direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 08:49 PM
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I think communication, similar personality types and genuine respect and passionate love are all you need really. I know it sounds obvious but really, the unhappiest marriages I know have partners that don’t see each other as equals. This includes macho alpha manchildren and their overburdened wives and resentful women who are way more attractive and/or accomplished than their male partners. This is what I’ve seen the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 07:33 PM
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lol all of that modelling stuff and Instagram pages are a massive cope and don’t translate to real life. Nobody is coddling plus size women or lining up to date them in real life. And that’s in supposedly “fat loving” North America here. In Europe and Asia people would treat a woman Lizzo’s size as a leper!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 03:19 PM
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True, at least compared to the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 07:55 PM
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Yeah, I don’t get the top comments saying things are more “organic” and easy there. Most Europeans are cold and don’t like talking to anyone they don’t know. They stick to their familiar circles and rarely mix with immigrants. There is also a much narrower definition of what is attractive there compared to the U.S. as in race, body types, physical features, way of dress..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:17 AM
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my mother’s side of the family is polish too. I’ve heard plenty of Polish people call Jennifer Lopez and Beyoncé (when they were young and in their prime) FAT and unattractive. If you ain’t blonde and pencil thin you may as well be Precious Jones to those people LOL. So I believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:00 PM
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yeah for sure. They Asian girl knew she wasn’t conventionally unattractive so she volunteered to go last and spare the feelings. If I were the thick girl I would have just planted myself at 5 from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 05:44 PM
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what do y’all think of this video? SAD AF but it’s the world we live in, as we know. I was not surprised by the final results or this European guys ranking. How about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 12:57 PM
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so you’re saying this or this is fat and unattractive in your opinion? are you a yt European?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 06:19 AM
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we been knew
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 03:47 AM
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No. If the woman being nice or complimenting them is unattractive or overweight they will make it a point to act aloof or let her know he’s got a girlfriend/wife lol. Men will just use any excuse to proposition a pretty girl, they know deep down it’s not flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 07:29 PM
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Nobody ever acknowledges this in these discussions. And even in western countries, not all young women are middle class, pretty and thin, travelling the world and pursuing university degrees. Life is not a movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:07 PM
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I agree. I think a lot of people are afraid to look vulnerable in relationships especially in the more individualistic cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 06:49 PM
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I think it means financially and in terms of acts of love like wanting to do things to make their family better off .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:44 PM
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I guess California or Texas. It’s naturally beautiful and warm there but is a first world country and there are lots of fine Mexican guys and cute blond white men in those parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:42 PM
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That’s Latinas as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:13 PM
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Sounds like an autistic man or someone low IQ. I wouldn’t want a family/husband relationship with somebody like that but for sex, I would. I don’t approach men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:10 PM
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aren’t you Eastern European? Girl nobody from there would avoid openly telling a fat girl she fat and looks bad to them. Especially a female friend, they gon’ remind her every single day she needs to lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:55 PM
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I think it’s less about being dishonest and more because men are not primarily valued for their looks the way women are. Women who are empathetic will try to boost women they know are ugly or fat because society has taught us that beauty = value for women. Telling a woman she’s unattractive and gross looking is like saying she has no worth as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 07:40 PM
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not really. It’s either Kylie or Kendall, with different hair or eye colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:32 PM
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They’re either pickme-shas who want to show men they are “cool” or blue pill feminists who disagree with traditional family dynamics.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 11:11 PM
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What do you mean by “young people”? College students? I don’t really see this happening at all, then. The only people not having sex are inkels and nerdy types who just have no interest in sex and partying. To me “fat” is someone like Lizzo’s size and it’s rare to see that among middle/upper middle class university students. Most males are not fat and most girls I see are no bigger than a size 6. I live in Canada and it’s the same everywhere I’ve been in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 04:57 PM
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Right? It’s not even just men. It seems like people like the person you replied to don’t acknowledge that disabled women, older women, unattractive/fat women exist in poor neighborhoods too. They can’t escort or strip for $300+ a day, either. The “they have no choice” argument is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:54 PM
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Thank you, this is exactly what I wanted to comment. Europeans, less superficial? Ha! They are just like Canadians! (I’m Canadian) They love to drag Americans at every opportunity and claim they’re such hateful and discriminatory people. But really, it’s the opposite. All the Americans I’ve met have been so kind and helpful to me, and I am an unattractive WOC. All the Europeans I have personally met are classist and RUDE to anyone conventionally unattractive. And like Canadians, they stick to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:20 PM
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I don’t get your point, with the exception of perhaps Priscilla Chan, these women look fit, younger than their husbands and quite pretty. Not all men, particularly these men who are mostly older and/or low-inhib types, are into the baddie/stripper look.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:56 PM
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Just being unhygienic and unkempt. I don’t need fashionable or a sharp dresser, just neat and clean. I like the soccer player look. Being over 55 (I am 27 but I like older men). Personally, I am not very attracted to pale Northern European phenotypes like Ed Sheeran or Piqué nor dark Sub Saharan African phenotypes like Kodak Black or Seal. Not a “dealbreaker” but not my preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 07:07 PM
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only morons say women do it out of necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 07:58 PM
1

That’s weird to me, personally. I would only want to date men with kids so that we understand each other better. BTW, I know it’s an unpopular opinion on Reddit but I don’t get why dating a single parent is considered such a huge “life killer” by people on here. Maybe cause I’m not an upper class person but the majority of people in their 20s and 30s are not making 100k a year and taking exotic trips around the globe and doing all these exhilarating things a parent doesn’t do. I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 07:27 PM
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I love a single braid or fishtail braids, so pretty and feminine, wish I was good at doing them. I think most styles look cute except for those ultra tight buns on top of the head
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 11:55 PM
1

Still struggling with number one hehe but yeah this is really the key. Simple.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/21 11:43 PM
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i dunno, I’ve rarely seen any natural dark haired ladies keep blonde for a long time, likely ‘cause of the damage. I think most people just find long, healthy hair more attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 08:28 PM
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I am so concerned about this myself. The man I’m talking to right now used to be very close to his ex wife’s mother, she used to cook for him etc. and i know my mother wouldn’t do all that, nevermind all her character and mental health issues. I think the best thing to do is involve them as least as possible in your LTR and say you aren’t close.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/21 07:34 AM
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What kind of people is FDS supposed to help? I can’t really imagine men waiting months to have intimacy with a woman while still investing time, money and emotions. Unless he is a simp and the woman is a Stacy. So I guess it’s for attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 06:31 PM
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I was younger than your op when I got married. I was 18, in total was a ten year relationship. He has a temperamental character by nature and was abusive verbally and physically. But I didn’t make things better by sexting and cheating with another man. I think we were both to blame. I shouldn’t have made that level of commitment to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:41 PM
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Seems like most people are not even reading the OP. She isn’t talking about friend GROUPS and old classmates and co-workers that you catch up with and message sometimes. She means one-on-one “good/best friends”. And IMO, the answer is no it can’t be strictly platonic. Very rarely, that is. We’ve all heard that Usher song.. Even here on Reddit, you’ll see posts from women who are hurt and jealous because their male best friend is getting married or got a girlfriend. If he’s a platonic “bro” , why…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:51 AM
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like I said in a response, most men in the world are tradcons. They like women who dress provocatively and are conventionally attractive but aren’t promiscuous. I’ve never heard of promiscuous women being “cherished”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:21 AM
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most men in the world are tradcons tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:16 AM
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Mostly agree but idk about class making a difference, as to whether they’re arrogant and mean or not. I grew up with a lot of attractive girls who came from loving two parent homes, middle/upper middle class and they were still hateful and bitchy. Many slept around and got into sex work despite having no “need” to. I think it depends on the type of mother a girl had. If she a was a vain woman who looked down on others, the daughter will very likely be the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 10:58 PM
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I mean, it seems to me that Anglo people in particular have a very convoluted view of these relationships. Not every woman in her 20s is a gorgeous, size 2 university grad that travels the world and parties in her spare time, completely naive and not having gone through hardship. And not every 45 year old man is a creepy, wicked potbellied pig that can’t get a girlfriend his own age. A woman in her 20s may have gone through divorce, had children and ultimately be in the same point in life social…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 11:06 PM
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I understand women who do it because they are financially trapped with kids. It could apply to men too but they aren’t usually at home with the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:27 PM
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I mean, those things can only do so much though. They can make a pretty girl look stunning, not turn a 3/10 into an 8/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:02 PM
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nah, I’ve heard my nephews and their dumbass male friends that range from late teens to late 20s talk about girls and they pick on everything from short hair to glasses to stretchmarks. Definitely won’t go near a girl who isn’t 115 lbs., forget chubby let alone obese/bbw. Men are just as complicit in crazy beauty standards as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 12:41 AM
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That’s my question about these types of posts as well. Women like Ashley graham and Iskra Lawrence are probably grossly obese to white/European descent men but other demographics of men would find them really attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:17 AM
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do you mean the current wave of woke social media feminists? Most of them aren’t unattractive women. They’re mostly pretty women who worship Cardi B and the City Girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:25 AM
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I don’t disagree with you but personality does play a part. The truth is, most gym freaks, especially young testosterone loaded males tend to have mean asshole personalities and even some Stacies who fit those guys’ standards are turned off by that. They might prefer an unfit guy who isn’t so vain and puts them on a pedestal. I’ve seen plenty of attractive girls admit they don’t want a Chad or a guy on their level because they’re intimidating and the competition is high. Women in general have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 01:07 AM
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You do know that woke Twitter doesn’t represent what most of the global pop. thinks right? Most males are very open about wanting a slim, young woman who cooks and cleans. Especially if you look at countries and cultures that aren’t so politically correct, which is the majority of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 05:51 PM
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from experience, I don’t want a man who hasn’t had at least a few partners, say between 5 and 10 idk. Sorry but that’s just me. My first boyfriend was a virgin and my ex husband had been with only 2 women before me. They were really bad at sex and intimacy and I felt kind of “settled for”. On the other hand, I also don’t want a man who is a regular at massage parlours and strip clubs and is always on the prowl. If a healthy medium is possible, that’s what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 09:52 PM
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I think this sub skews young and high inhib and neurotic. There are high school boys on this sub and early 20s guys who have never been married or had kids or anything. I think these types of guys are going to be vehemently against dating fat women and any women who don’t fit their ideal fantasy. But like you said, fat women and single moms, etc. are still dating and marrying in real life. I will say though, that the U.S and maybe Latin America are the only places where fat girls can “have a cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:52 AM
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I agree, there are many ways this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:05 PM
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The quote sounds like some nonsense but I do believe most m/f friendships carry some level of sexual attraction and hope for something more on the guys part. They usually don’t seem as organic as a same sex friendship. Men don’t try to be friends with 3/10 women and that says something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:10 PM
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Like traditional men treat women, with respect and admiration. I do not want to be treated like a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 04:56 PM
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like, 5’7 or taller although it’s negotiable. Short black hair, brown skinned Mexican guy with deep dimples and nice eyes, with great hygiene, a white smile and moderately fit. Ideally extroverted charming and masculine. So far , I have not attracted a man like that 🙂 I don’t attract any men at all really. I’m Mexican/Polish mixed kind of like Selena Gomez and fat like Lizzo level fat with big boobs and a butt. The post said “ideal”, may I remind you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 01:41 AM
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what are you talking about? The popular thing to do on Reddit, even in the woman-centric subs is to bash on tradwives and mothers/SAHMs. The popular subs always have some woman asking “DAE hate kids and never wants to get married?” that seems like more of statement than a question. Always goes triple platinum. Hardly anyone puts down career women in this day and age except maybe incels and misogynistic grannies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:42 AM
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Hmm I did know a boss who left his wife for his secretary but it was his own business. I was married for a long time and most of the other couples we knew were cheating. One lady had an affair partner of 20 years lol. She has a new man now and apparently they like to sleep around. Also, where I live it’s pretty common for women my age (20’s) to have sex with a guy they just met. When I was in high school girls were going to 19+ nightclubs with fake IDs and sometimes having sex with men they met …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:23 PM
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I do 🤷🏻‍♀️ They’re the types of males who don’t know what Reddit is, flirt, catcall, most of em’ visit escorts and strippers. They’re ugly, short, broke, non-white etc. And I’ve witnessed (attractive) women thirst after them, like embarrassingly. I swear the guys on this sub must either be kids or live in small town America.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 11:10 PM
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Yeah I’ve heard that too but I don’t see it tbh. People are shallow regardless of gender. I saw a post of an IG model and her obese best friend and people in her comments were shocked, praising her for being friends with a fat woman when she’s hot af. Most 8/10 girls don’t wanna be seen with a 3/10 girl in a club.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 03:08 AM
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yes a thousand percent As a woman, it dictates my quality of life in every aspect, not just when it comes to getting laid like a man. Women aren’t nice to unattractive women either. Maybe it’s my age (20’s) but pretty girls don’t want to be friends with you if you’re not attractive. It’s harder to get jobs too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 05:53 PM
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He’s busted which just proves once again that women don’t value looks very much compared to you whiny men. Women are into him because he plays the anti-hero in a beloved franchise and he’s a famous actor. Lots of busted, fat, senile male actors and music people have tons of beautiful women hanging off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:14 PM
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Mine is 4
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:17 PM
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why are males on this sub so dense? Most women don’t care about having the hottest man on their arm at all. Most women who are average and below average looking can’t even get near a “CHaD” and they are self aware enough to know this unlike men with Stacies. The hottest women don’t care about having a male model partner either. 99% would rather an ugly guy who “is good to them” and puts them on a pedestal. We aren’t men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 01:25 AM
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The hell.. there are a multitude of ways men can become attractive to women without having a traditionally attractive face or body. Unattractive women are fucked unless they win the lottery and can fix their face or badbuilt body. And anyway, most beautiful women love ugly men. The uglier the man, the more she will be pedestalized. Many women would rather have a pedestal than the physically sexiest man. Have you not seen the 50-11 posts on Reddit where women talk about preferences? They always f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 04:18 AM
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I mean, for those who want to have kids their partner being a SAHM could be a necessity at least until they start school. Daycare is at least $1800 a month where I live. It’s cheaper to stay home for most people. Also, Reddit isn’t the most reliable demographic for such questions. Most people on Reddit are the more neurotic, highly inhibited types and most don’t want a family. The incels on here are just mad that pretty girls don’t want them and believe that they would if women were sexist and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:08 AM
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I’m a woman and I do like compliments and male attention. I think it’s more of a character difference than a gender one. There are many women who like sexual attention and flaunting their appearances. It seems like most people don’t want to acknowledge this for some reason but not all women are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 11:13 PM
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To get attention from men (even though they likely don’t want to be approached by certain men) and to make other women envious. People can say they “just want to” dress sexy for no reason at all but there has to be some sort of motivation for it at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 10:31 PM
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I’m mad af, why lie. Those girls make a brain surgeon’s salary off of their T and A.. imagine! And they all lie about being natural, furthering men’s false beliefs about women’s bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:51 PM
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don’t care about height (I usually like short men), moderately fit as in lifts some weights or works construction, clean teeth, not too hairy, Latino (black hair, tan skin type). T shirt and jeans kind of guy I guess. These men don’t pay any attention to me. They are usually with very attractive white or LatinAmerican women. I believe part of it is location because these types of men aren’t common in Canada and are more desirable due to this. My only success with sexy muscular Latino men has bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:50 AM
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Bluepill- everything TRP- “women are only attracted to HVM, ugly poor men get no play. It’s over for shortcels and browncels” Femcels- “most men would choose a fat girl with an Adriana Lima face over a facially ugly girl with a perfect body. It’s ova unless you have a model tier face.” Sorry but both are blatantly false
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:14 PM
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Ok that’s some baloney bullshit. I’m just going to be honest, I’ve been around enough “low value men” to know that they have OPTIONS. The truth is, most women ain’t shit and date beneath themselves. Like the guy I’m in love with for example- ugly, short, Latino, 48 years old and works at In N Out. Lives in an apartment and has a child with Down Syndrome. The only “high value” thing about him is he keeps fit, but still, he’s no Adonis. And yet, this guy has two 40 year old MILFS, an average 40 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 01:11 AM
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IDK, a lot of Karens in these public freak out videos aren’t attractive and don’t look like they could have been. I think they just have zero self awareness. But pretty girls definitely know they are pretty and enjoy reaping the benefits of it. In my college class group project, these girls were talking about how men would tip them $50 at their waitressing jobs just for being pretty and giving them a smile, remarking “how easy” it was. Then they looked at me like “oops, you can’t relate”. The bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:13 PM
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lmao. Have you seen most famous male artists nowadays especially rappers who get tons of “groupies”? Most of these men are are fuggo drug addicts who don’t shower and can’t carry on a conversation. It’s their personas and status that get them women, same with the K Pop stars. Not being conventionally attractive. As for women being just as or more horny than men in general, I think there is a percentage of us women maybe 20-30% who are. I find lots of men attractive and I wouldn’t mind having sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 07:42 PM
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nope, never had one nor orbiters either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 06:49 PM
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True, it is more organic I think plus it depends on your demographic. I checked out tinder for fun and it’s all university kids in my local area.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/20 11:52 PM
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There’s nothing wrong with it imo. People forget that not everyone is in the same trajectory in life. There are many women in their 20’s with kids who have been married, etc. At that point, they probably have more in common with an older divorced guy than with a college guy their age. Even if not, lots of guys in their 40’s are fit and look a lot younger. Male or female, I don’t see in what world 30’s and 40’s is old and dried up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:14 AM
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‘cause it’s embarrassing. Men can’t hide when they’re attracted to a woman, if he’s not making a move it’s because he’s not attracted to me and not interested. I have tried to make a first move on guys a couple of times in the past and I got burned BADLY lmao. And anyway, not all women are the same. Not sure why Reddit acts like horny women who give guys a chance don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 02:27 AM
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True for me 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m a depraved femcel with psychological issues though so keep that in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 12:15 AM
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⁠Most women are sexually invisible to me, and I think it's weird that the "Chad boogeyman" is out to "go bang all the 6s because he can." Some attractive guys might be like that, but I doubt it's most or many. I'm picky, I only want to date/sleep with/enter a relationship with similarly attractive women. Exactly, I don’t understand what the f these male pillosphere subs are always going on about. The vast majority of women are never touching a “Chad”, for any reason. It’s attractive women who se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:23 PM
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Physically attractive women. Unattractive women have it worse than men and pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 05:57 PM
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yeah, I made an average-looking male profile on a chatroom site once and tried to chat some women up and wow, NADA. Only a couple responded with unenthusiastic “hey”. And I mostly messaged average-below average women. So yeah, I can see why it’s tough. As a woman and a femcel, I dislike OLD as well. Everything is based on a 2D picture of yourself, it gives no room for nuance. even meeting someone at a bar is way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:16 AM
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are you kidding? You don’t see women going out of their way to do a random man favors or give him freebies, risking their job just because he’s cute. Only men do that shit because “girl had a nice ass”. The Halo Effect only applies to men imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 12:07 AM
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this is true of me, there is a lot of men I want to have sex with without being bonded with them at all. btw, these aren’t Chads but ugly-normie men that I think are sexy. And I do fantasize about and idealize men I’m attracted to. All women definitely aren’t like this, though I would say there is a decent amount, more than what is acknowledged.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 06:33 PM
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I dunno why people in first world countries pathologize women in the sex industry so much, the escorts and strippers in my city live in fancy condos and drive around in Aston Martins, that is when they’re not chilling on a beach somewhere lol. They live better than most men ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:14 PM
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well I’m not a misanthropist at all but the reality is that “regular” colds and flu kill more old and unhealthy people on a regular basis than COVID19 has. Don’t know why people are acting brand new. My government talked about flattening the curve, now it seems like they don’t want anything back to normal until the pop. is vaccinated in 2+ years. I’m over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:37 PM
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I’m wondering if a lot of these are people are high school students or just people who live in really small conservative towns in the US and Europe or something.. ‘cause realistically it isn’t hard for an average-below average guy to get a “Stacy”. The pillosphere acts as if hot girls with room temperature EQ’s and low standards don’t exist. Unpopular Reddit opinion, a lot of hot women like feeling validated by men and an ugly, shrimpy guy who makes her feel special has a chance. It’s infinitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:51 PM
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it’s easier than in Europe, that’s for sure. Not everyone wants to live in a low pay, expensive high tax nation and live in an ugly city apartment and take the train. Low income Americans get Medicaid and welfare and pensions are way better than in other countries. Yes I’ve seen Eastern/Southern European and Catholic Arab girls in Europe and Canada are not hard to get with. This is a good thing? It’s good for men who want casual sex I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 01:29 PM
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most unattractive women want average men’s attention
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:28 PM
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I dunno, it doesn’t bother me. Some people like to compartmentalize age so much, it’s dumb. Not everyone grows up middle-upper class and does the traditional college girl thing. Some people are parents at 22, some people just grow up differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:53 PM
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lol in what world are men “pretending” to be attracted to women like Lizzo? who’s obligating them? Almost all the men I see are very vocal about the fact they prefer DD’s, size 00 waist and a big booty. “Feel good” body positivity content online doesn’t reflect reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 08:43 PM
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well Reddit tends to attract a certain demographic in my opinion, high inhib men and women who don’t sleep around. Maybe they’re thinking of the girls they know in real life. In reality, there are a lot of low inhib women who hook up a lot, don’t have high standards, are “babymommas”, etc. But you probably won’t hear from those women or men similar to them on Reddit let alone in the pillosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:49 PM
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80-90%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:10 PM
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very true, though a lot of normie to pretty women are feminists. In fact most western feminist issues revolve around a pretty woman’s experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:09 PM
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very true. People assume such a relationship is always a rich/well off guy with a young hottie. I used to know of a 19 year old who had a child with a broke 50 something year old man. She was morbidly obese and not cute at all, to be blunt. Young girls like that are desperate for affection and really vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:22 PM
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exactly! How is it a better deal to work outside the home AND have to do all the housework and child care? In reality couples that fairly “share” the load are rare. I’ve even met women here paying the rent and all the bills for a man who treats her like garbage. It’s sad that they don’t expect more for themselves. Machismo is a thing in my culture but honestly I’m not really against it. The men are providers and know how to romance a woman. it’s great
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:58 AM
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I don’t use apps cause I prefer meeting men the traditional way/in person. I made a tinder once and it was mostly university guys looking for hook ups with cute girls. Not really my demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:57 PM
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yes, as long as he has minimal contact with BM.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:37 PM
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yes, if they’re 6+/10 looks wise. I spend a lot of time at the beach in the summer and I’ve seen troglodyte guys cold approach girls way out of their league pretty often. And that’s not counting the eyeballing, cat calls etc. Latino men are also ten times worse. I’m a fat femcel so it doesn’t happen to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:21 PM
1

Whoever allows themselves to get “used” is just a fool. We are adults, it’s pretty easy to feel out people’s intentions. I do think losing money is bit worse because it’s vital to your quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:26 PM
1

men’s love is conditional based a on a woman’s looks, a sad biological truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 09:00 PM
2

you must live in the deep south US
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:05 AM
2

female, purple/femcel-ish, 7 years. Ended because I didn’t feel respected or desired. It was a long time coming
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:35 AM
9

high inhib guys who want a relationship, imo. The men I I know that go to prostitutes are all male sluts who can get with women at a nightclub for free. They go to prostitutes when they don’t want to “bother” with convincing a normal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 07:29 PM
0

Latin America is like Eastern Europe the women are one million times better looking than the men and raised to appeal to men. Just go to Colombia or Brazil then. There are many redpilled siliconas there to you liking lmao!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 10:56 PM
3

it’s really just fat or super tall and manly. I really think having a nice body (slim, hourglass) makes everything else negligible for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 05:06 PM
5

Most women say they don’t like muscular, attractive men because they know those men are out of reach lol. Hot women will date an out of shape guy but very, very rarely the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:49 PM
1

They would go for the ones with the highest status.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 02:41 PM
1

lol “average women”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:17 AM
1

LAFF. Most rappers and pop artists surrounded by groupies are nasty, ugly drug addicts with no personality. Girls beg to sleep with them for the bragging rights of getting chosen by a famous guy. And most women can’t prioritize looks even if they wanted to. “Chads” and the most attractive men would laugh or gag at a sub 8 woman who shows interest. Moids can’t see anything past looks like women can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 04:07 AM
1

No. Blame the individual perpetrators. This caricaturization of all males as sick super villains is tired fourth wave feminist propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:34 AM
14

yes they are. They are just super discreet about it unlike most Western girls. And many of the ones who get married young will WILD OUT like they’re 18 again once they’re 40 and divorced from their cheating macho. Very common in the Latin American community.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 09:50 PM
3

a phrase used to infantalize women and absolve them of responsibility in the context of sex and relationships. A woman getting tipsy and cheating on her SO or pursuing a married man is in no way reflective of her crap moral character. Neither is sleeping with a male boss to get a promotion over the uglier women in the office who work hard. Only the men in these situations are sicko scum. Not her though, oh hell no. She’s a victim. That’s what a fauxminist would say, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:41 AM
3

yes, agreed. It’s tacky as hell to count pennies regardless of the gender dynamic. I’m a woman and my female coworker asked that I e-transfer her the $3.00 she paid for my coffee lol. I assumed I was going to just pay for us the next time but okay..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:12 PM
5

“snakes” who are way out of their league physically with room temperature iq’s that will be deferent to them. Rad Catholics who don’t believe in divorce or abortion. I thought that’s what redpill/mgtow/incel men want. Just go to Colombia or Brazil.
/r/MGTOW03/12/18 06:03 PM
1

A purely platonic relationship is not impossible but rare. Men generally pursue friendships with attractive women in hopes that it will turn into something more. I wouldn’t trust a guy with a female BFF, personally. There’s likely to be some history. I’ve seen a lot of posts on reddit alone of women feeling heartbroken because their best guy friend got married or got serious with someone. Doesn’t sound very platonic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:42 AM
1

Probably because they don’t want to deal with the same things they’ve seen older Latina women go through lol. Namely rampant cheating, abuse and waking up at 4am to make tortillas while singing along to Jenni Rivera.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:10 AM
1

there are a myriad of reasons why someone would lie, TF. I don’t understand the notion that we must blindly believe everyone who makes an accusation. It’s sad how senselessly this man was killed.
/r/MGTOW29/09/18 09:02 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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