peachyyarngoddess Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman”	Question For Men	peachyyarngoddess	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:30 PM

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-2	If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female? Last year I threatened my SO that if he didn’t hang out with a friend who isn’t related to him or isn’t facilitated by me or his family by the end of the year, I was going to leave him because I don’t date men who don’t have friends… he didn’t actually have any friends and asked his coworker to go hunting with him. It was within the bounds of what I asked so I stayed. We were together for 6 months without hanging out with a single person not facilitated by me or his family when I said that… we g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 04:21 PM
-1	If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female? In my experience, we usually are compatible with the jerks but we don’t know they are jerks yet. And the guy she may be complaining to is probably a kind man (not a nice guy) who she isn’t compatible with. They could have different goals and aspirations or he could be a slob or have a problem she can’t wait around for him to fix like alcoholism. Like yeah he is probably a very kind sweet guy to her. But there’s still other factors as to why she isn’t attracted to him and I can promise you it’s n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 04:15 PM
1	If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female? Nice guys are not kind men. Kindness and being nice are two different things. I am a bit of a bitch and I am “nice” to people I would run over with a car if it wasn’t illegal, didn’t effect people I care deeply about, or most importantly I wouldn’t have to face God and be sent to hell for it… however my acts of kindness are genuine and come out in different ways without the person feeling like I’m just “being nice” out of social obligation. Kind men are still capable of having unattractive trait…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/24 03:53 PM
–	There is nothing wrong with not being selected by women Also don’t forget, if a man or woman is in a relationship with somebody that they don’t feel like is the right fit for them, they build resentment. Looking back, I’ve resented a lot of men because I didn’t want to be with them or I’d try to give them a chance but they didn’t meet a standard for how I felt like I should be treated or the life I wanted, and I know some of those guys resented me for various reasons including that I didn’t like being abused by them so I began to resent them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/24 05:25 PM
1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are I think it’s a societal issue from before us. There’s no man vs woman problem with this one. It’s a “people before us” while I still believe virginity is special in a sense because of innocence and experience, people take it way too seriously. Should a child’s virginity protected in healthy safe ways? Yeah duh. But the actual concept of virginity is oppressive for both virgins and the ones people want to use it against. Including men. People treat it like they are conquering virgins and stealing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 06:58 PM
2	Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom. I almost questioned if my dad wrote this until I saw the last line about being up late doing stuff and I laughed and said “nah mom is always the one up late and dad is in bed by 9” I think it depends on the person. I personally have realized that as I’ve gotten older, I enjoy having my own space. I don’t mind having a main couples bedroom. But I would hope I have enough space to have a nice office with hobby stuff and an extra bed that I find comfy because sometimes I am too cold at night and ot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 05:47 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” That’s the thing though… In the context of the situation that inspired this post, it isn’t an excuse on the basis of gender. I regularly get my car maintenance on time, I am known for working in construction and knowing how to use tools. I am known for working on my old diesel truck.. I am also known to be really damn busy the last 2 years. So when I ran out of time to go to the gas station and didn’t want to go at night in the dark, I just went home and said I’ll do it tomorrow. Then the next d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 05:35 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Tbh if you said that to me I’d reply with “fair point” I just don’t like the replies that feel hostile or putting me down for a silly joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:46 PM
1	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market Also, SMV yes it’s a real thing, I’ve tried to give the underdogs a chance and got burned. That was my point of the other comment. I don’t want to go out of my league because it always ends up with large burns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 02:47 PM
1	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market I can promise you I’m not out here as some man hater. I love and respect my father, my little brother has always been my favorite person and I’ve been his number 1 supporter, I’ve always been a daddy’s girl and my papa’s girl since I was born (God rest his soul) and majority of my closest friends are men. I have dated (not relationships) some really great men who were only looking for casual dating because they knew they couldn’t commit and it was out of respect and they were clear about it. But…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 02:28 PM
1	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market If that’s the case, you are either very unlucky or missjudging the value of everyone involved. Very unlucky. I didn’t misjudge them because that would imply they were truthful and not pretending to be somebody they aren’t. My last abusive relationship everyone including myself thought he was great. To the point when I was two weeks in a seeing some red flags I told my male friend about it and he said “you’re just being paranoid he is great so far” and then two weeks later the dude is drunk at a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 01:20 PM
1	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market I didn’t know I wasn’t going to like them. I went in unsure of if I’d like them or not. That’s a huge difference. Just because in hind sight I ended up miserable from them and disliking them doesn’t mean that I didn’t give them an honest shot and was just unsure of it I would or not. I’ve been unsure of tons of people and it differs person to person but within the case of dating down, looking back it never worked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 08:42 PM
-1	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market I didn’t find out I didn’t like them until after I was dating them. I may have not been excited to date them when I first was meeting them, but after experiencing their personality that’s when I decided I didn’t like them. You got it a bit backwards, because we can’t know if we like them or don’t like them until after dating. But also, thanks for confirming why we shouldn’t date below our league like people tell us to for your soft fragile egos. We are constantly told “oh come on give him a chan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:52 PM
-4	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market It takes time to realize the difference between guys who are only with you because they can’t even get a 3 usually and you’re a 7, but they always want a 9, and guys who actually like you. I know a few guys who would date and marry me right now so they weren’t alone but they would treat me badly my whole life because they don’t actually genuinely like me. I see all of their point about how hard it is for them but they keep missing the point we make about how they genuinely don’t like us they jus…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 01:43 PM
2	In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating Market I have a friend who uses them on occasion (rare, this man somehow pulls an impressive amount of young hot women for his age and looks. I’ve seen pics and videos and he is on a few girls OF page and no he doesn’t have money) and they literally do inspections on men checking them for warts and sores before approving the transaction. And beyond that it’s condoms and other safe practices!	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 01:29 PM
4	There isn't more solidarity among women than men I sent you a DM I was sold at heavy metal and you being an electrical engineer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 06:34 AM
4	There isn't more solidarity among women than men Do you wanna be my friend?! 🥹	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 06:32 AM
1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. Funny enough, every man I’ve dated who is anti dildo is also deeply addicted to porn and has performance issues caused by it. Where as every man I’ve dated who is chill about dildos don’t usually watch porn and pretty good in bed. I wish I could see the science and exact data for this but I am stuck only having my own experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:47 AM
1	Watching porn is not cheating and it is controlling to stop people watching it. I’ve been in a “no porn pro dildo” situation. But that’s because we have the mutual respect of “I don’t watch porn, you let me do it with you, if I finish first, the dildo keeps me from my hand cramping up finishing you everyone wins” in his words.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:42 AM
1	The saying "women mature faster" is a lie. We don’t. We are EXPECTED to mature faster. We mature about the same rate if treated equally.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:37 AM
1	Would you prefer to date in the West or Asia as a Man Dating in the west. Depending on where in Asia ranges from honor killings to controlling every aspect of their marriage. My mom wants me to marry for love and my dad wants me to marry somebody like him (I’ll be single forever 😭) and dating in different cultures from Asia sounds miserable	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:28 AM
6	There isn't more solidarity among women than men While I’ve collectively been abused by more men because I keep attempting to have relationships and connections with men, I have been abused in the most disgusting horrid ways by women. I struggle to get along with other women and have girl friends because of how bad my female friendships were as a child. I know what to expect from a man. But other women? I don’t know what they are going to do. I attempt to be a girls girl because I have no women in my corner but they make it so hard to stay a g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 05:10 AM
–	Is red pill about getting the hottest girl for the lowest price? TLDR below Majority of the self identified red pillers would never use charisma. I don’t think most would even pay for it either… but don’t hold me to that one. You’d probably be more bluepill if you think Warren Buffett wallets are not required. Which I’d agree because I’ve never experienced dating a man making 100,000k or more (to my knowledge) so clearly it’s not required. Usually good conversation and friendly joking and banter does it. Men underestimate smelling good as well. I love using perfumes tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/24 04:51 AM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Eye roll can be sassy and playful so I accept.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:18 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Why do you watch TV and Netflix entertainment when all of that is produced and created by people who are dramatic for a living and dramatic in a daily life as well. Have you ever met a theater kid? Why spend money on Netflix to entertain yourself with needless capitalism drama when you can have real human interactions?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 04:16 PM
2	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” It really is. Who has time for getting fuel or an oil change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/24 12:19 AM
2	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” It’s okay, we are tired of the sandwich jokes but here we are… still getting them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:56 PM
6	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I get that too. 😬	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:55 PM
3	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” But people who say this don’t get to experience that fun in bed. 😢	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 11:42 PM
0	Ladies of PPD, whom would you believe in this hypothetical scenario? It’s traumatic waking up next to anyone after being drunk. I’ve woke up fully clothed next to guy friends trying to cuddle with me in their deep drunk sleep fully clothed. As for the sex part, that sucks I hate how much alcohol has to do with sex culture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:38 PM
0	Ladies of PPD, whom would you believe in this hypothetical scenario? This is why I live by the rule of “no sex while drunk” because all my friends can testify that every time we have gone out I’ve never hooked up with anyone. I don’t ever want to wake up hurting from somebody doing something to me while I was way too drunk and I barely could stand or move ever again. Therefore I loudly proclaim “I don’t have sex while drunk” so if somebody actually does that, there’s no chance in hell it was consensual because since I’ve started being vocal about it and living by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 09:16 PM
6	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I’m not saying they aren’t. I’m just saying that the assumption they are is a bit much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:37 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Love this answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:33 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” If you take away the “so you have a good day” and add some sass and zig zag snapping I’d probably laugh but adding makes it feel.. off putting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:33 PM
5	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I feel that one. Part of being a woman is letting men explain things they like to them for hours.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:30 PM
4	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” It happens on occasion you’d be surprised.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:26 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Hell yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:25 PM
5	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” My favorite response	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:25 PM
1	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I respect the sass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:24 PM
2	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Fair answer I’d find funny	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:22 PM
3	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Well that’s no fun. Dramatic people can be fun and expressive. Not boring and dull	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:22 PM
3	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Probably tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 08:20 PM
4	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” My dumb ass would fall for it tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:58 PM
3	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” My car is too low to do it myself so I just take it to a shop but that requires time to take it to a shop I have too much to do lately 😭 I used to do my truck maintenance with my guy friends helping me get off the oil filter because I didn’t have the grip strength. I’ve even changed my own alternator. Car maintenance sucks for everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:03 PM
3	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I went to high school with most of these men. We are in our late 20’s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 06:00 PM
5	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Reasonable, simple. I like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:56 PM
3	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I’ve been guilty of falling for the first one so very good. I like this answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:54 PM
4	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” I sent a Snapchat video joking like this and I got a lot of really weird hostile responses. And so I was curious what is going through men’s heads when we joke like this. I’m glad you think like this because it was supposed to be a funny joke and next week I’d be getting my oil changed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:53 PM
5	How do you handle this joke? “It’s so hard being a woman” Fair answer.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 05:49 PM
–	What’s happening when you start going to the gym? I don’t want to speak for other women but I will speculate on 3 things I think is what is happening and why it’s harder and what I think is better options.. (this is my opinion not a fact) 1) social anxiety. I think too many men and women have social anxiety and it’s keeping them from finding people organically 2) cat calling type behavior, a lot of men don’t care how they talk to women they just go for the kill and say whatever creepy thought on their mind. And do whatever weird action they can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 01:02 AM
2	Question for those that "gave up." Okay.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 01:01 PM
1	Question for those that "gave up." But that doesn’t mean women don’t get treated that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 11:35 AM
–	Alternative to dating apps I think it can be a fun experience!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 08:13 PM
–	Alternative to dating apps Honestly sign up for classes at your local community college. You can meet people between classes and in class! I have made friends this way! I haven’t been dating recently but there’s enough men and women usually. Unless you pick a random male dominated class. Don’t skip any study groups and if women are studying without headphones and out loud ask them a question about stuff they are studying. I take night classes and there’s tons of men and women around.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 07:45 PM
1	There are going to be very bad social consequences of women making 6-7 figure salaries via sex work. This is going to sound very red pill of me but I don’t support women doing sex work. I used to but there’s no ethical consumption of porn. It’s worse for our brains than drugs sometimes. It’s right below food addictions because food is like essential to survive and sex is important for survival. Studies show how damaging porn is to the brain. I believe smut books, porn, etc is harmful. I don’t have issues with nudity, sex, and kink documented in beautiful creative ways but the line is blurry. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 05:34 AM
2	What’s happening when you start going to the gym? I think it’s the fantasy of meeting a man in public and not on an app. I used to look at guys I thought were cute in hopes they would look at me. They never did. Didn’t change the low key maladaptive day dreaming I had of meeting a guy in public and falling in love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 05:08 AM
3	Question for those that "gave up." You’d be shocked how many men treat us like we aren’t good enough for them. An ex of mine would tell me to drop out because I’m too stupid for college and how my job doing childcare wasn’t good enough and I didn’t make enough money but again, said I was too stupid for college even though I had straight A’s. Maybe he was more successful than me in that moment as an electrician, but considering he was super abusive and I cleaned his blood off the walls from when his ex broke a mirror on him while …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 05:05 AM
2	The expectation for men to be completely self-actualized before even entering the dating market is absolutely ridiculous. This topic confuses me because I end up dating too many men who are basically projects at this point. Even befriending men like that too.. Low self esteem? I’m a cheer leader. No job? Lemme job hunt for you. Does drugs? Won’t date you unless sober let’s sober you up boo. Shy? That’s okay I’ll order for you. I honestly have hurt myself by dating men who aren’t anywhere close to self actualized. I think I dream of a man who is, but it’s not an expectation and isn’t a reality. I truly want a man wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:51 AM
1	Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive? My relationship has been so rocky the last few months and to the point we haven’t gotten back together but we are still seeing each other. Stress made us gain weight and I don’t like myself and I wish he didn’t have his shirt off and I miss his jaw line: he also slouches a lot which makes his torso worse. His legs are still very skinny. He said/did something while I was very sick in March that nuked a huge chunk of attraction. But obviously if I’m still seeing him and still sleeping with him it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:45 AM
3	Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive? I am going to be honest, I didn’t expect that. You two are adorable but my jaw dropped. You look so cute together!	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 04:36 AM
3	What does submission look like to you and would you do it for your future partner? This is a good way of saying it! I don’t mind being submissive, but submission means the person can be trusted to lead me correctly. This is the hardest part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:56 AM
0	Question for those that gave up - but found love anyways? Ima be honest, wlw searches can be a pain. Less options than you guys do. I am mostly into men but on occasion will turn tinder to women and it always hurts my soul. If I was only into women I’d be screwed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:19 AM
1	Question for those that gave up - but found love anyways? This is so real lol whenever I set my tinder to women I die a little inside. I just want a sapphic friendship but I can’t even get a bite 😭	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:17 AM
2	Question for those that gave up - but found love anyways? It’s hard to. Even when I would go places where social vetting could happen but rare, it’s still a gamble. I’ve gone to RPG game stores and men that I may have given a chance even if they were not usually appealing ruined their chances when I told them a guy in the group was making me uncomfortable and they did nothing and blew me off… I later sent a Megan’s law screenshot with him on the registry for CP and they didn’t even apologize. They social vetted themselves out by not catching on that I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:14 AM
2	Question for those that gave up - but found love anyways? I think it’s no social vetting. When we meet people out in the open there is usually social vetting. Meeting people online is just a gamble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 03:08 AM
1	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... When I was sent those messages from a fake Facebook account I was literally shaking from anxiety, about to throw up in his living room, and debating ghosting him. This man wouldn’t hurt a flag and worships the ground I walk on. If she never falsely accused him I would have never spent a long amount of time physically sick from fear. So if a guy tells me right away, I will probably end up physically sick from fear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:48 AM
1	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... That’s a bit different. Confessing false accusations is different than if you’ve been convicted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:45 AM
-1	Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual history Guilty. Not telling us doubles the chances because there’s no pressure to teach or perform.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:42 AM
4	Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual history I think just acting normal and giving us no idea if it’s a lot of women or none yet is actually significantly better. Plus nothing better than telling a man who gets laid a lot how bad he is while telling an inexperienced man how good he is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:40 AM
4	Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual history Those are the best ones. Also I love your flare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:37 AM
2	Inexperienced men should not be very forthcoming about their sexual history I’d rather not know than be stressed about being his first time or close to first time. I don’t mind inexperienced men but it puts so much pressure on me when I know. Also, many “experienced” men actually significantly worse in bed because they don’t actually care about their partners experience just them getting what they want. So a lot of inexperienced men have a very good shot compared to men who get laid a lot. However, my biggest advice to inexperienced men who are getting their chance: tak…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:36 AM
1	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... Months later after getting to know them and seeing their character. I’d rather a man tell me months after dating while talking about bad relationships or something than telling me right away. It’s a vulnerable thing that I don’t need to scare me off right away if it truly isn’t true. If I’m told too soon I will be spooked and looking for red flags. Hyper aware because I don’t want it happening to me again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:07 AM
0	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... I have a habit of getting men to drop their masks fast because I have a STRONG personality and it usually makes them crack. The false allegations will mean nothing once I’ve seen somebodies character over a period of months. But telling me sooner I’ll end up anxiously picking through every detail.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 02:03 AM
1	You're on a date & everything is going well, then they tell you they were falsely accused in the past... If they are on a date with me and randomly bring it up ima just assume he did it. There’s no reason to tell me the first date. And even if he didn’t, I’m going to be terrified of him because he told me. My most recent partner was accused by his ex wife from a fake Facebook profile and she got verbally abusive with me and that’s when I realized she, while pretending to be somebody else, was lying to me. I asked to meet her somewhere safe like a police station to talk about it in person and she re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 01:59 AM
1	Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be? Eh. Not really. If I pull back it’s because the relationship isn’t going too well. Not cheating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/09/24 12:19 AM
1	Why do men believe sex is degrading to women? Or they want it to be? This is so interesting because I’ve experienced what OP is saying but I also find what the men say interesting. Also the assumption that she is cheating is actually interesting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 05:37 PM
1	Women complaining from not getting approached anymore they dress up, doll up, “put themselves out there”, men are ignoring them and the only compliments they get are from other women. Wait what do you mean they are getting compliments from other women?! Women do not compliment other women anymore. I get dirty looks from women I compliment. Women’s hostility towards other women is at an all time high. I wish more women talked to me.. I definitely get more men approaching me in public still. Very nice men a lot of the time. I do notice when men who a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/24 09:06 PM
1	Why don't women respect submissive men? Not really. You’d be shocked how many men just like being submissive to women but don’t blow their money on them. I’ve met quite a few in person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 08:12 PM
1	Why don't women respect submissive men? He isn’t into findom.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 08:08 PM
1	Why don't women respect submissive men? lol nah he wouldn’t. He has been exposed to that and feels like that is weird and would want a connection and normal relationship first. Kinky fun second.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 08:04 PM
1	Why don't women respect submissive men? My current partner is submissive and honestly, we would be together if he didn’t have a psychotic ex wife who constantly causes me problems and does things that harms the kids but isn’t cps worthy. It’s exhausting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 07:55 PM