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ROAST-A-SCROTEpeaka25/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:14 PM
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NAH, SISpeaka25/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:32 PM
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On OLD, their main goal is to get laid, not to genuinely date and get to know someone so they can find a partner in life. Not meeting up prevents them from getting laid, so of course they make it seem like you're the issue because their instinct is to gaslight. Even if you did 'vet' someone slowly to eventually meet up, where do you go from there? You'll never know who they've been with and what precautions they're taking, so it's always a risk. Better to avoid it until it's reasonably safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:25 PM
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They like it that way because they want it to be degrading as possible. They hate women so much and they want to see women humiliated and in pain as much as possible during sex. It's despicable what sex has become due to the normalization of violent porn (which is a redundant term at this point.) 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:42 PM
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Yeah, really. I remember talking to a bartender who would get pissed if he went to a party and people asked him to make drinks/bartend since they were asking him to do his job for free. This is no different. It's one thing if someone offers it to, but it's shitty to expect it or feel entitled to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:49 PM
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If I was a hairstylist, I'd be so annoyed if I started dating a guy and he just expected me to give him free haircuts. Then I'd be livid if I found out that was the entire reason he wanted to date me in the first place. How do men like this not see how ridiculous they are? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:25 PM
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Do you think women do these videos to show what an ~amazing girlfriend~ they are to get some kind of recognition/appreciation that they aren't getting from their boyfriends? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:02 PM
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Lol yeah, same. No one can claim "not all men" with dogs not liking men, though. 🙄😂 It's pretty disturbing how common it is for animals to not like or be scared of men, but it says a lot. I've never heard of any dogs or cats specifically being scared of just women. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:22 PM
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Ugh Call Her Daddy is such trash. I'm so over this sex positive bullshit that encourages "empowerment" through sexual degradation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:47 AM
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I bet these dudes think they can get laid after these walk dates. Literally no effort whatsoever and they expect you to give them your body. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:20 PM
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Lol mte! Aside from how unbelievably creepy that is, how is that even considered an activity in his mind?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:12 AM
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This is so fkn ridiculous and disgusting to me. What is so special about his self-proclaimed ugly dick that a woman should be GRATEFUL to have it inside her? Literally, what the fuck does any woman get out of that? I wish I had the delusional entitlement of a man. 🙄🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 03:58 PM
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Yeah that's why it's so terrifying. You could be married to someone seemingly perfect who just turns one day. You never can really know what someone is capable of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:22 PM
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Wow. Someone actually claimed that she was the one sexually abusing HIM. Like she's abusive for asking him that he not masturbate when she's around. Can you imagine reading her post and making it about THAT? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:42 AM
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Yes, exactly. 💔 There's so much responsibility when choosing a partner and future father of your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:23 AM
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Yeah it's a big red flag to me if a man flat out dislikes animals/pets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:09 AM
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Ugh family annihilators are so fucking terrifying to me. Anyone who tells single women they need to lower their standards clearly doesn't see that lowering your standards as a woman can literally get you killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:36 AM
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Yep. Worse though since they'd prefer not to pay anything, if they can help it. Split the bill and still get laid, and it's sold to women as empowerment. What a time to be a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:44 AM
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It is ridiculous that women are still expected to fulfill traditional gender roles when most men aren't even capable of fulfilling theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:51 PM
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Yep, same. I just say I don't kiss on the first date at the end. They'll take that however they want to, but then you get to see how they react to a physical boundary being expressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 11:22 PM
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Oh yeah, it's absolutely engrained in us from childhood to value male approval and validation above all. We're taught that we're only worthwhile if we have a man's approval in the form of a relationship, which is why single women are called old maids and single men are bachelors. I feel like you just get to an age where it's like.. what does male approval actually get me? Not a whole lot. 😂 I will just never understand or respect women who value male validation so much that they throw other wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:38 PM
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What does anyone get out of prioritizing men to try to appeal to them? Literally what does male validation provide? It's like they think that men won't mistreat them if they seek their approval and cater to their needs. Sadly, it does nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 05:32 PM
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That was after a "particularly painful incident" involving anal sex. Which implies that there were other times that were painful, but there was an incident that was very painful. I don't really blame her for not wanting to have regular sex with him after he caused her pain (during sex she only had because he wanted it, not because she enjoyed it). Less frequent sex still doesn't excuse his apparent entitlement. Regardless, the lack of anal sex is the main driver behind him wanting to pay for it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:53 PM
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They like that "they're not ruined by this sick world yet" so they get the honors of doing it themselves. They'll be the ones to harden these young women and they see it as a privilege to do so. They are the "sick world."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 06:05 PM
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Same! I grew up in a house where my dad did his own laundry (and cooked and cleaned), so I was actually shocked to learn that this is still a thing. I remember talking to friends years ago who were discussing at what point they'd start to do their then-boyfriend's (now husband's) laundry. And I was like.. WTF 🤨. It seems so old world to me (and old enough that even my Boomer parents didn't do it), so I was surprised to hear women my age talking about it as if it was a normal expectation. No fuck…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:11 PM
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Sexually unfulfilled because of a lack of anal sex. 🙄 What the fuck? I can't even imagine how devastated I'd be to marry someone and then have them tell me they never would have married me if they knew they couldn't have anal sex. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:38 AM
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"Soft, loving and supportive." 😂 Yikes at all of this. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:12 AM
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Omg so I didn't actually date the guy, but I met someone at work who was trying to pursue me for a little bit at the start of the pandemic. He was former military AND had gotten a divorce about a year prior (I didn't know he was that recently divorced). HOLY SHIT did he have a boatload of issues and baggage. I couldn't even keep track of everything. He was so wounded and delicate, playing the victim all the time and talking about how much 'hurt' he'd been through with his ex-wife. He talked abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:51 AM
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I know he's likely exaggerating at an attempt to be "funny," but literally who the fuck is using carrots, TV remotes, KNIVES, and corn? Like.. chill, bro. 😂 Women don't even need penetration to have an orgasm, so we're certainly not desperate to just insert anything we can. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 11:45 PM
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It says a lot that he assumes sex is even on the table on the first date. 🙄 People saying shit like this is astounding to me. Women have so much on the line to have sex (and are almost guaranteed to get nothing out of it) and men really just expect it for NOTHING. They're not even willing to pay for DINNER. They want a free escort service. This is what was achieved with sexual "liberation." 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:07 PM
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Ahh I'm asexual too!! 😊 I suspected something was different about me for awhile, but only fully realized it during this pandemic, actually. I'm glad to know I'm not alone around here! I'm heteroromantic, though, so I'm stuck with men (unfortunately). I've also loved having FDS because it makes me feel more comfortable in having that boundary of no sex. My sexual experiences, while consensual, have all been absolutely terrible/scarring, so I developed a lot of anxiety around sex and intimacy. I f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:07 PM
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This is so embarrassing. She's talking about them as if they're puppies. 🙄 Literally who are these adorable men? Where are they? She's trying so desperately hard to earn their allegiance. More women need to learn that trying to win over men gets you absolutely nowhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 05:51 AM
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YES. I was actually talking about this with one of my friends. We never see men that are so attractive that we stop and do a double take. It's so rare that I'll even encounter men that I find physically attractive. I've pretty much spent my entire life surrounded by sub par dudes and almost entirely beautiful women. The struggle is real as a straight woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:00 AM
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Lol omg the not-so-subtle guilt trip at the end.. "Or, you can be part of the problem and only make things worse for him. Your call." Fuck OFF, bro! It's like they can literally only empathize with other men. Oh yeah.. because women aren't people to them. I always have to remind myself of that. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:20 AM
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Seriously. Both sides of this had me cringing. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:47 PM
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I agree. I feel like he was praising her for how awesome she is and then he's trying to say something along the lines of.. 'what is she doing with me?' because he feels like he doesn't deserve someone as amazing as her. He definitely could've worded it better, but I didn't take it as a bad thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:25 PM
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So disgusting. Can you imagine having a baby with a man only to learn he has an issue with changing her diaper because it makes him uncomfortable? Literally any reason for it is alarming. And that's something you find out after it's too late. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:28 AM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:27 AM
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Omgggg. Who the fuck matches with these losers? "Don't get too excited" like it's a fucking privilege to match with him. And maybe you'll 'earn' the honor of getting fucked by him for awhile. 🙄 Why do they have such a high opinion of themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:09 AM
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Hey, not to sound like a total creep but I'm about to say something I'm aware is super creepy. finger guns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:27 PM
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How far we've come from the days of Little Miss Sunshine. 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:56 PM
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Ugh so condescending. "I'm sure your little woman brain will struggle to understand the ENLIGHTENED concept of ETHICAL NON-MONOGAMY 😏." Please... 🙄 Literally what does this dude have to offer anyone? I will never understand why they think women will jump at the chance to be their side piece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:06 PM
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Ha yes and honestly, beards are worse. They cover up way more than makeup can! You can't hide bone structure with makeup. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:22 PM
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Yep, exactly! They want a girl who eats burgers and fries, but she has to be a size 2. She better be and look perfect, but she can't do any of the things that are necessary to maintain that (or at least not in a way that's visible or apparent to him). They essentially just want prepackaged low-maintenance dolls who are perfect straight out of the box - no upkeep necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:21 PM
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It's interesting, the comment about married women dissociating from single women.. I've always found that to be true until my closest friend right now who's married with kids. I never would've thought she'd want to be friends with me since I'm a single woman, but she loves having friends with completely different lives from her. I find it so refreshing. She doesn't feel the need to only be surrounded by people who are like her. And she's so encouraging and awesome about the fact that I'm single …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:04 PM
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"Natural" to them = flawless and effortlessly perfect without makeup. The types of guys who claim to want natural girls are the same ones who joke about taking a girl swimming on the first date. They consider makeup to be deceptive and don't want to be 'tricked.' 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:01 AM
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Omg that is the dream. ❤️ I love that she has that life and I only wish I could have a situation as wonderful as that. Her married friend is super jealous and fuck that.. trying to rain on her parade. 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:34 AM
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Yeah it's so fake. Saying "she jokes about kink meisha (idk how it's spelled)" after SPELLING IT CORRECTLY... "Which makes me feel very guilty and not wanna do anything sexual" ? But why, tho? Why would that term make a man not want to do anything sexual? It's so contrived and like.. "wahhh 😩😩 my girlfriend's making me feel bad. ☹️☹️" Ok, bro lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:06 AM
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Yeah I've had a few delivery people kinda lurk, waiting for me to open the door to confirm it was the right address. I usually just wave/say thanks and they leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:45 AM
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This hits deep. I didn't realize until very recently that I was raised to always think about what men would like with regards to what I did. Even though I wasn't in a relationship through any of it. If I wanted to get my hair cut shorter, my mom would make a comment that "boys don't like short hair" or "boys like long hair." It's engrained and it becomes such an unconscious thing. I've even bought duvet covers/decor based on some hypothetical future boyfriend/husband. 🙄 Never something floral or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:37 AM
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Lol so ignoring the fact that he thinks all women in their 30s are apparently ugly, he knows that women filter based on age (rightfully so!) and wants to appear to the 'hot' young ones, so he makes himself 24.. and openly admits it! 🤦🏼‍♀️ He's also immediately trying to call you out by implying that you're lying about your age when HE'S LITERALLY DOING THAT. The projection is hilarious. He essentially called himself out by even bringing it up. All you have to do with these dudes is sit back and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:47 PM
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Oh for sure! It's a manipulation to try to appeal to women's empathy and be like.. "I'm a sweet sad boy, I'm sowwy. ☹️" It's so gross and transparent. 🙄 Once you take a step back and see it for what it is, it's impossible to go back to feeling bad for them or believing a word they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 03:04 AM
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This same bullshit, different guy. 🙄 Do they all take a class on how to be a ~damaged~ fuckboy? I can't even deal with it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:59 PM
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Ew. 🙁 Seeing shit like this makes me never want to sleep with a man again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:27 AM
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Omg. 🙁 I literally can't even imagine either of my brothers EVER doing that. What a disappointing thing to realize in such a horrific way. That'd be reason enough to cut off contact with anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 05:55 PM
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I agree completely. It's frustrating to have valid concerns with shit like this and seeing hyper sexualized women, but then you get grouped with all the conservatives who are up in arms over it. Women who have a problem with other women degrading themselves for the benefit of men (and calling it empowerment!) are automatically labeled as prudes or told they need to loosen up. Sex positivity and choice feminism is a very frustrating thing to deal with as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 07:20 AM
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The dude saying he DESERVES BETTER than someone who's into low-brow, low-life sketchy things like him... what. 😦🤦🏼‍♀️ Bro, you're lucky if anyone even wants you. Why are they so fucking entitled? 😖 These same dudes would be pissed at women for having standards or valuing themselves. Men will always want what they can't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:08 PM
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Omg wow. 😧 Sleeping with disgusting men can literally make you sick. 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:54 AM
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Yeah it's usually not sustainable, so it's almost always fleeting. I always thought it was nice if a guy was very communicative by text, but it's just not something that can be kept up over time. Then you run the risk of things being misinterpreted or coming across as too available, so it can cause things to fade out quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:57 AM
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Somehow I doubt this is much of a departure from how they normally treat girls. 🙄 But now they're gonna proudly boast about it. So fkn gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:54 AM
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Ugh. 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:40 AM
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Wait wtf? How was this greenlit? So many people were involved in making an ad like this (which is super gross, but doesn't really even make that much sense otherwise). It's astounding that no one along the way was like.. um, why don't we NOT do that. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:45 PM
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Yeah, same. Kissing is extremely intimate for me and it's just not something I even want to do with most men, especially ones that I barely know. I let it happen a couple times before establishing the boundary that I don't do it on the first date and I absolutely hated it each time lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:43 PM
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Omg on a lunch date?! I cannot imagine kissing for the first time after a lunch date lol. And what an overreaction from him.. It's definitely not an attitude to tell someone you don't kiss on a first date. And news for him: being pretty with an attitude usually does keep a man 🤷🏼‍♀️ haha. I've been the ultimate nice girl in the past and that certainly doesn't keep them interested. It's good he exposed himself early. 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:36 PM
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Absolutely! Finding this awesome group of ladies has changed my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:38 AM
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Wow I am fascinated by the concept of not being able to stop doing this. I have literally never wanted to have sex after a first date, much less had to stop myself from doing it. I barely even want to kiss on the first date. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:01 AM
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Girl, yes. I did it very late in my twenties because I felt like I needed to get it over with, and I regret it. I only had awful experiences. It definitely could've been worse, but you're better off with a vibrator until you find a man who proves himself to be worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:16 AM
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Love this. I'm so done with male entitlement. They don't even like women having any sort of bar (especially not a high one) because it prevents them from having easy access, which they feel they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:58 PM
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"never any pics of her alone. Why is this? Is it because she knows guys wack it to her, so she makes them uncomfortable by putting her kids in the pics? It's the only explanation I can think of." Are you FUCKING kidding me? Like.. yes, dude, this is all about you. 🙄 Everything women do when living their lives must be related to men, right? 🤦🏼‍♀️ It would literally never occur to me that some disgusting POS would try to look me up later so he could jerk off to pictures on social media, so I'd bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:05 PM
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Yeah, same! This has always been a frustration with mine with that advice around here. I'm lucky if I find one who's worthwhile.. I certainly can't find enough to have multiple in the queue at once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:50 PM
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I don't even understand the logic here. If a guy (or anyone, really) abruptly cancels on me, I assume he's not interested and move on with my life. Why do men expect women to waste their time proving their interest to them, especially when the guy is purposefully doing things to show he's not interested? 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:40 PM
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Fucking yikes. Everything about this is abhorrent, but the fact that he says, "I am not concerned if you have vanilla relationships as long as it does not interfere with your TRAINING." Like he's training dogs! 😧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:38 PM
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It makes me sad that this is what girls are taught to want. Then they're expected to prove how chill they are to win guys over. Asking for anything more makes them seem needy, demanding, and old-fashioned. 😕 It ensures that guys get all the control and get to call the shots. A change needs to be made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:32 PM
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Nah, fuck that shit. 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:46 AM
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Yeah, uh "cellulite" (a bullshit marketing term, btw) is not something that men even have. And not to say men don't deal with body image issues (although not nearly to the degree that women do), but men are already allowed to be all of these things. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:11 PM
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~Something to think about.~ 🙄 Why don't you go fuck yourself, bro? Also, setting everything/actual rape aside, who the fuck "likes" that "sort" of a blowjob? As if any woman enjoys that! His actual, serious suggestion is to find a stand-in bangmaid who will suck his dick the way he likes to preserve the family unit? 😖 Like.. have you thought about letting another women have her face fucked by your fiance to the point of bodily harm so you don't have to break up? Men disgust me. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:32 PM
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How on earth can someone type all that out and still question whether or not they're the asshole? They need to break up for her safety. The fact that he has so much contempt and zero empathy towards her is extremely alarming. She could get seriously ill and nearly die and he'd find a way to blame her. It's not safe for her to be living with someone like that. What a disgusting piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:38 PM
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I don't think this requires an argument or debate with a man. That would speak volumes if a man not only wants to split the bill, but is willing to argue about it. He should just know better already. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm at the point where I'd split the bill if it was really an issue (I'd never offer it up), but that'd be the end of it and I wouldn't see him again. It should just come naturally to him. Pre-FDS I would always offer and most men (who ended up not going anywhere) INSISTED on paying and wouldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:48 AM
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Came in to say exactly that. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:15 PM
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I feel like that's one of those situations where people believe what they want to (very naively) because the reality is so unbelievably horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:24 PM
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Ugh ethical non-monogamy. 🙄 I used to see that made-up term pop up on OLD all the time and thought it was such bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:40 PM
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As if men aren't doing this already. 🙄 I really wonder what that looks like for a woman to prove she's "worthy" to a man cause I'm sure it looks pretty similar to a doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:05 PM
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Yeah it honestly sounds like she's trolling/fucking with him and I'm here for it, if so. I've seen women on Twitter saying they fuck with guys by talking about scenarios just like this when the guy talks about getting kinky to scare the guys off. They don't like it so much when the tables are turned and they're the ones being included in the degradation. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:33 PM
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They do it because they can. They have no respect for women and they're putting in the least amount of effort because there are Cool Girls who want to act like they're ~just one of the guys~. Why would they try when they can get away with doing so little and so many women will still fuck them? I firmly believe this is the worst time in history to date.. the bar has never been lower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:41 PM
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Oh HELL NO. It's actually unbelievable how much she tried with him. I would've blocked after that first message. 🙅🏼‍♀️ It really goes to show, though, that trying to reasonably explain to these lvm/nvm does NOTHING. You cannot get through to them because they've already made up their minds that women are terrible. They deserve to be shunned. It's just awful that men like this tend to just resort to violence against women rather than be critical of their own behavior and evolve as human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:25 AM
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I'll never understand the logic of men like this. Wahhhh I'm just so ugly.. fuck women for not wanting to sleep with me when I'm abrasive and shitty to make myself feel better by cutting them down. 🙄 Oh but he's such a Nice Guy, though, huh? I have no sympathy for these assholes. 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:29 AM
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Yeah, this whole story is why I never have male friends. 🤦🏼‍♀️🙅🏼‍♀️ They'll never give a fuck about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 02:23 AM
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I always interpreted it as being about the unconditional love of a mother to her children. That you ask so much of your mother growing up and she'll give it all to you and not expect anything in return. Not making any assumption about that being good or bad (or that all mothers are like that), but I always just saw it as a book about familial unconditional love, rather than romantic love of what's expected between partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:46 AM
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Haha yes. I've actually googled how to get rid of it because it bothers me so much. They should be nameless until they've proven themselves! 🙅🏼‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 05:33 AM
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Ha, same! Never save phone numbers and I get annoyed when Apple does that Maybe: Name thing because it gives them too much legitimacy. 😑😂 And once they've fucked up, the whole thread gets deleted and they become no one to me. ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 03:48 AM
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I love how he pretends like a fleshlight is a legitimate replacement for a living, breathing woman. He knows it's not, but men fucking hate that women have control over whether or not they get to have sex. Oh boo hoo.. you're gonna fuck your microwaved mayo fleshlight over sex with an actual woman? What a loss for women everywhere! 🙄 Like women are actually threatened by that. 😂 That's all women are to most men, though: warm holes. They fundamentally don't see women as human beings. If most wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:32 PM
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YES. That's literally all anyone ever does here and it gets so old. There are very few people who aren't super outdoorsy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:19 PM
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Yeah, same. I have a friend who was just dating a guy who led her on for months and then sent her the "I'm just not ready for a relationship" text almost immediately after she made it clear she wasn't going to be sleeping with him. We had literal paragraphs of texts about him back and forth (tbf a lot of it was me telling her she deserved better, to get rid of him and move on), but she kept giving him the benefit of the doubt and thinking he was just a sweet, insecure guy. Then of course he reve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:50 AM
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Yeah it automatically makes me think they're pathetic. I think they do it to put it in women's minds that they're a catch without having to actually prove it. Pre-FDS I went out with a guy who I actually really liked who made ("joking") comments about how if I "played my cards right and didn't fuck it up" that X could happen. And I remember being like hm.. 🤔. He played it off in such a way that I didn't immediately see it as a dealbreaker, but it became clearer and clearer that he thought exactl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:40 AM
3

I feel like that's my mental response to 99% of men on OLD. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 05:09 AM
20

Yeah I'm sure that's true/possible, but you really have to be capable of ignoring A LOT to look at that and not think it's alarming. 😂 Even if you thought it was a joke. Either way, he's going to attract people who match his shittiness. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:38 AM
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They'd deserve each other, then. 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:34 AM
116

Absolutely. Took me way too long to realize this. Either Googling or texting a friend/mom/family member to figure out what he meant, what he's doing, why he hasn't texted, etc. Always, always, always a bad sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:57 AM
12

Ha to be fair it might be worse in the South..? But it's really just the average 'Murrican man now. 😬🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:31 AM
1

Yeah it's terrible. And it's one of the better dating apps. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:22 AM
12

I want you to know you are not alone, by any means. I have been where you are. I recommend taking a step back and dating yourself. Self-romancing is a lifestyle. Buy yourself flowers, cook yourself a lovely dinner or get takeout from your favorite restaurant, take a bath with candles. Make yourself feel special. Learn the things that you love about you and what you enjoy about your life without a man. If you don't currently have that, think about what you can do that would make your life more en…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:08 AM
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Ugh I'm out West and I can sadly report that it's not just the South. Just add some mountain photos and it's basically the same here. 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:49 AM
27

Ew wtf? And that doesn't even make sense... 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:30 AM
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I don't understand the motivation behind making a bitter ass profile like this. It's great when they do cause they show all their red flags straight out of the gate, but like.. what woman does he honestly think he's going to attract with this? No one worthwhile is gonna read that and say, "sign me up!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:23 AM
11

Ha yes it's the tackiest description of a dream woman I've ever seen in my life. He's got a real search ahead of him to find that in a woman who's also all-cunning, all-sexy, well-read, artistic, independent, heart-speaking, and badass. 🙄 Good luck with that, bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:15 AM
17

I've found that to be the case with most dudes now. They have nothing to offer and still expect the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:05 PM
70

Ew literally every message he sent is off in some way. Blocking was a good call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 09:16 PM
21

"Women are biologically amoral".. What the fuck? If anything, I would say that about men. This is such bullshit. 🙄 While I have had friends who have stabbed me in the back, the most meaningful and genuine relationships I've had in my life have been friendships with women. Men simply aren't capable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:05 AM
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She is the queen of the pick mes with her hypersexualized schtick. Call Her Daddy is pretty much the podcast version of Victoria's Secret.. meant to be 'for women,' but it's really aimed at men. She is so gross and embarrassing. "Empowerment" for women really needs to come in some other form than talking gratuitously dirty, allowing their bodies to be used by men and then acting like a badass because they ~don't give a fuck~. You're not edgy or cool for calling women sl*ts or encouraging them to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:45 AM
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Yeah, for sure! I know a lot of this stuff about men in theory (it's obvious men only value women for how fuckable they are), but it's so different to see them explain it from their perspective. And as unflinchingly as they do! It's so disheartening and it is a bitter pill to swallow, but definitely helps to maintain perspective as a single woman. I'd rather be alone than deal with this shit. 🙅🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:15 AM
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Omg what a loser. Male entitlement always amazes me. Barging into HER place, refusing to pay rent in the event that he did move in, keeping her up at night when there's an easy solution that he refuses, telling her where her cat needs to be locked up simply because he doesn't like it..? It makes me so sad that women not only put up with behavior like this (even when he hasn't even moved in yet!), but actually question whether or not they're the ones being unreasonable. Can you imagine how much w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 04:06 AM
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Holy shit. Reading stuff like this makes it very easy be single. They really categorize women like this.. 'ones who will fuck me easily who I will immediately discard' vs 'ones I want to date who also need to fuck me but not as easily.' You're only good for sex as a woman. And they wonder why women want nothing to do with them. 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:29 AM
5

YES. You can feel it with a man that they're just biding their time to sleep with you. Especially once they get you alone and they wait a prescribed amount of time to make their move. 🙄 It all just feels so forced and unnatural. I hate dating for that exact reason - you're just another girl they're going through the motions with to try to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:03 PM
6

Men are entitled and only think about themselves. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:24 PM
35

This false equivalence. 🤦🏼‍♀️ Abortion seems to bring that out a lot in people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:25 PM
119

There's no way it's not a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:46 PM
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Yeah there's no way this is real. It's the way a dude would talk.. an actual woman would not be that blatant about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:46 PM
9

Ha yes. I feel like cats at least do more to support mental and emotional well-being, though. 😬😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:38 PM
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No, I think you need a baseline of attraction from the start. That's definitely the downside to online/apps is that it's harder to gauge physical attraction. It's hard to build that if it's not there. Women are definitely expected to have lower standards, though, which is bullshit. It's reinforced by popular culture saying that women care more about personality (not that it isn't important) and that women aren't visual creatures. There shouldn't be any reason for women to expect less or feel gui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:43 AM
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Dudes like this need to just remove themselves from the dating pool and buy a realdoll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:25 AM
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I will never understand women who turn on their own gender. And I don't get this argument in an age where men aren't doing much to 'earn their keep' otherwise. Men are no longer the primary breadwinners, nor are they even handy to fix cars or things around the house. Literally what is the point of having them around if they aren't expected to do anything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:01 AM
1

Same - I totally get where you're coming from. I'm asexual but can imagine experiencing sexual attraction with the right person (so I'm hoping I'm demi). It just hasn't happened yet, so I don't identify as demi. It took me a long time to realize there was a difference between romantic/aesthetic attraction and sexual attraction. I spent years confusing the two! I always felt like I was broken for not wanting sex the way most women do, but was relieved when I learned more about asexuality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:45 PM
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Fun fact: demisexual falls under the asexual umbrella, so you are mostly asexual and essentially very selectively allosexual (experiencing sexual attraction) to those you connect/bond with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:29 PM
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Demisexual actually falls under the asexual umbrella. It's a complete absence of sexual attraction and then sexual attraction can only develop once there's a deep connection formed - and it doesn't happen with just anyone. I would say the majority of people (including many women) in the world can and do experience sexual attraction without any connection whatsoever. Wanting to have a connection before sex is different than requiring a connection to even desire sex with someone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:26 PM
5

Omg one of the comments on that post giving him advice is ridiculous: SEXUALIZE THE CONVERSATION: If things are going well, and you should be able to tell because the girl is genuinely opening up and asking you questions about yourself, you establish a PROPER MAN TO WOMAN frame immediately. You must deliver sexualization lines with SEXUAL INTENT. You have to visualize yourself fucking the girl hard while saying the line. It has to have an animalistic vibe to it. Low, deep voice! Here are some ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:43 PM
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