peanutbutterandjam28 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase	ADVICE	peanutbutterandjam28	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 11:14 AM

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1	My Terrible Attitude May Ruin my Relationship I feel a lot of empathy towards you cause I was the exact same. A few points: - emotion control doesn’t necessarily just get better with age, but by being able to understand and rationalise your emotions. Journaling helped me enormously - if something upsets you, stop for 5 minutes and write why you think you feel that way, what’s the trigger (as opposed to blaming it on the other person). OWNING the emotion instead of projecting on others will change the way you live your relationships - obvs t…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/24 11:20 AM
2	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase I’m thinking I may be putting too much importance on sex at the beginning of a relationship so that becomes central for my partner too, which then can’t settle for anything less intense. I definitely take care of my partners at a deeper level too, but I’m afraid that’s not the main energy I give off	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/24 08:17 AM
2	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase I’m not a native English speaker. And frankly if anything I’m the one giving too much in a relationship until I don’t accept it anymore :)	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/24 08:13 AM
1	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase I feel exactly the same about the people I’ve been with before, I’ve definitely thought there was something wrong with me for feeling like that. Glad to know that this doesn’t happen with the right person	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 10:05 PM
1	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase That’s beautiful and I’m genuinely happy some people have that. But I’d say she can express that part of herself because you create a safe space for her. Not every person gets a partner like that, because we keep on attracting people that are similar to us, or because we come from a messed up family system	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 07:19 PM
2	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase Absolutely - I do believe it’s an addiction like any other	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 02:57 PM
3	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase Thank you! My main fear is that if it’s not fun for me then it’s no fun for them either, and I’m terrified of men leaving to find sexual satisfaction elsewhere. Maybe I should avoid putting sex at the center of my relationship and make it the focus of our connection	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 12:57 PM
2	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase Thank you, this gives me hope 🩷 what changed in yourself to make this possible?	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 12:55 PM
1	Can’t go past the honeymoon phase Long story short, my parents have been together for 30+ years but, since I can remember, it was a very dry and empty relationship. I have never, not once, seen affection between my parents or any sign that there’s love between them. My mother has been quietly suffering for years due to my father’s inability to emotionally be there for her and support her. I somehow see myself in my mother and have been doing everything in my power to never be in this situation in my life	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/24 12:54 PM
1	Stop Chasing the Honeymoon Phase That’s beautiful! Thanks for sharing this 🩷	/r/RedPillWomen	21/04/24 12:46 PM
1	Stop Chasing the Honeymoon Phase It was so beautiful to read this. What do you think keeps the spark alive for you? Is intimacy still as satisfactory as in the beginning?	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/24 12:56 PM