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My boyfriend is Russian, and when I met his mom she took me aside and said “Russian men are like spoiled babies. I tried to raise <my boyfriend> better and we’ve been in this country for so long, but if he ever acts like that you need to put him in his place.” The stereotype of some cultures having “macho” men really irks me. I’m Arab and it’s the same shit for men I know from my culture. Being “rough” or “tough” is just a shitty excuse to get away with being abusive and trying to disguise it as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:15 PM
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I thought this was a good article and wanted to share. I have a very well-compensated career, and I will likely end up being the higher earner in whatever relationship I enter. In the past I didn't care so much about that, as I assumed that whoever I might end up with would hopefully want to support me in my career and would realize he needs to take over more of the burden of household work. It's been increasingly apparent over the last few years of dating that most men will not do that. The rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:27 PM
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I haven’t been pregnant, but from talking to other women about it, it sounds like it’s a situation where you may only physically require an extra 500 cals/day but your hormones are going so crazy you’re hungry as hell and can easily put away way more. Similar to the luteal phase right before my period, I burn maybe an extra 1-200 but I’m so hungry some days I eat an extra 500. Basically every woman I know either has or has had body image issues, disordered eating, or an eating disorder. Pregnanc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 02:05 PM
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Even better was “Um akshully women also enjoy anal because it pushes against the vagina which pushes against the inside of the clit.” As if their dick is so good it can really travel through all of your pelvic tissues to make you orgasm. With that logic, vigorously fingering their belly button should make them come from the pressure it puts on their lower stomach that goes all the way to their dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:56 PM
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And a PI. Guaranteed he's hiding assets, and that would ultimately fuck her over when it comes to determining alimony / child support payments. My dad did this exact thing to my mom, gave her an "allowance" to cover groceries, all the household expenses, and the costs of raising my sister and I, around $2-3k per month (I forget the exact number). She had to hire a PI to find where he kept the assets he was hiding to make off well for child support. A few months after the divorce was finalized I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:26 PM
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I’m guessing it’s synonymous with r/deceasedbedchambers (since idk if it’s against the rules to post).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:43 PM
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This is so sad, but not uncommon. Many men want to be better at everything (other than cooking, cleaning, etc) than their SO and will act terribly when you’re inevitably better than them. This really comes to a head with LVM after having children, when the children get old enough to start accomplishing things (even little kids) the man will start to get jealous and insecure and compete with the kids for their wife’s attention. One of the ways I like to vet men I’m dating is by playing games like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:49 PM
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Lmao the fact that this is a craigslist post says almost as much about him as the actual content 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:41 PM
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IMO this is really dependent on the situation. There are some truly lovely heirloom rings out there, my great grandmother’s ring was really beautiful (and then my uncle gave it to his first wife who lost it a few months into their engagement ugh). I also think that if he has sisters, they should get first dibs on the ring because they’re related by blood to the original owner, but I might be biased because my mom had her heart set in her grandma’s ring before my uncle took it and lost it. There …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:14 AM
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Hell, I make 4x more than my boyfriend but you can bet I won't be splitting the cost of my own ring. The reddit / pickme attitude of "Wedding rings are a waste! My husband proposed with a ring he handcrafted from duct tape and cardboard and I couldn't be happier!" really irks me. I'm not saying everyone needs to pay an arm and a leg for a ring, but presumably you will be married to this person your whole life, that could be 40+ years of marriage. Even a couple thousand is not much money when you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:17 PM
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Lol, I’m glad someone noticed the flair!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:23 PM
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I honestly just don't feel enough of a connection with the name. I would probably feel differently if I had a better relationship with my dad's side of the family. They all live in a different country, don't speak English, and I don't speak their language so I have no contact with them. So in that sense, the name doesn't feel like mine because it is from a culture I am really not a part of. My mom and my sister share the name of course, but I wouldn't want my children to have it, and I wouldn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 05:51 PM
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Haha, you’re good! It’s a valid point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:58 PM
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I’m going to hope that’s it’s being too gross to properly rinse the soap off of themselves in the shower, so it dries crusty after they dry themselves with it. The alternative is too awful to even consider :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:58 PM
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LOL. People keep bringing this up so I edited the post at the bottom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:54 PM
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Exactly. If you’re going to his place you should already be fairly confident he is HV. If his bathroom is great that is another point toward being HV, if it’s shit he is LV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:43 PM
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I plan on taking the last name of whoever I marry. The reason being my dad is a massive asshole and we do not have a good relationship at all, I’ll be marrying a HVM if the time ever comes, so I would much rather have his name than my dad’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:48 PM
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Well that's why I specified "solid faith system." A lot of the bible belt is Christian by culture, not by values. Most likely the same "Christians" who are racist, COVID-denying, Trump supporters are the ones driving those numbers up lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:42 PM
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Obviously this might not be an option depending on your religious beliefs, but a lot of religious people think that porn is a sin so they won't watch it. My boyfriend is pretty lax with his beliefs now, but he was raised in a pretty strict Orthodox household and so it's been pretty deeply ingrained in him how disgusting porn, rough sex (because it's supposed to be a loving act), etc are. It doesn't even need to be Christianity, any guy with a solid faith system (even if there isn't a specific di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 09:00 PM
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The “what he says he likes” frame should be a woman actually not wearing makeup, and the first frame here should be “what he means he likes” since men’s idea of natural beauty is basically still a full face of makeup, sans heavy eyeshadow or lipstick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:09 PM
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Gotta ask, is this in ATX? I used to live there, and it was sure full of entitled tech bros just like this guy who felt they were above everyone else because they were from Cali and making six figures. This whole scenario is especially ridiculous because the city is breaking records every day in its COVID numbers, it makes it even more necessary to vet the people you're dating prior because 1. you don't know where they've been and 2. it's more risky to go out so it sure as hell better be worth i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:13 PM
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I just about lost my shit at that comment. The mental gymnastics men do, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:33 AM
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