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Question For Womenpearllovespink/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:36 AM
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It’s not weird at all. I doubted you were a woman because most women over the age of 20 are more self aware than this. You commented that you were actually a woman, I then added 22 year old woman. It was nothing but sarcasm and advice. Anyways, are you telling me to look at your reddit profile or your other profile? Why would you expect men to be respectful and proper on a kink profile? One where you wrote that u wanted FWB at that. The responses you got were on par in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:58 PM
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It’s not weird at all. I doubted you were a woman because most women over the age of 20 are more self aware than this. You commented that you were actually a woman, I then added 22 year old woman. It was nothing but sarcasm and advice. Anyways, are you telling me to look at your reddit profile or your other profile? Why would you expect men to be respectful and proper on a kink profile? One where you wrote that u wanted FWB at that. The responses you got were on par in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:57 PM
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It’s not weird at all. I doubted you were a woman because most women over the age of 20 are more self aware than this. You commented that you were actually a woman, I then added 22 year old woman. It was nothing but sarcasm and advice. Anyways, are you telling me to look at your reddit profile or your other profile? Why would you expect men to be respectful and proper on a kink profile? One where you wrote that u wanted FWB at that. The responses you got were on par in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:57 PM
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It’s weird that she would come on a dating sub to complain about sex profiles lol. Not only that, but she expected the men to be all nice and proper when speaking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:45 PM
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Then you should do the wise thing and take my advice, 22 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:38 PM
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28-35. I’ve always disliked older guys. I like my men in my age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:06 PM
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This reads like a man pretending to be a woman but I’ll entertain it. First off, you should take FWB out of your profile. They’re treating you like a slut because FWB is promiscuous behavior. How else should they approach you? There is no right way to approach promiscuous women. Their parents did not teach them how to approach promiscuous women. You’re getting upset at a problem you created for yourself. Men will sleep with you no matter what you have in your bio if they find you attractive. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:21 PM
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I don’t live in fear around men but use discernment. There’s certain things I just don’t do if it’s just me around men. Like leave my drink unattended, get wasted, not going back to houses on the first date, wearing certain clothing etc. Women can be violent towards women too. Everyone is dangerous these days. You have to use good judgment. Im curious to know what situations you’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:46 AM
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None. But I did have a red piller tell me he would be happy with a 6. It was a manosphere talking point I’m sure he didn’t realize I picked up on. He told me he watched red pill videos and podcast on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:45 AM
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21 year olds don’t chase after 30+ year old men unless you’re paying their tuition. So I hope you’re brainstorming ways to get rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:48 PM
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If you think “good girls” are still going to be available 10 years from now, you’re in for a rude awakening. They will either be married, divorced, baby mamas, or serial daters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:08 PM
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10 years from now lmao. What’s stopping you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:52 PM
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Sure. Either way, it won’t work out because you’re not all on one accord. Oh and your “fun use only” motto only fuels women to act like hoes because they see men giving hoes attention while ignoring the others. You are actually apart of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:52 PM
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You should be getting to know someone and judging by their actions what they bring to the table. I can talk all the shit I want about what I bring, it doesn’t mean it’s true or that I can actually make it happen. The question overall is gaslighting and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:45 PM
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This is pure, anger, delusion, and frustration. Nothing you’re saying will solve your dating problems. You didn’t even list these “trajectories” in your post because there are none. Men will still date and marry hoes regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:17 AM
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A bot will never replace a natural born woman lmao. This topic takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:34 AM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:39 AM
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Okay, just making sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:38 AM
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You lost me at financially stable. At least be a high earning stupid guy that knows how to finesse to the top. If he’s not smart enough to figure that out, I don’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:51 PM
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You can find a way and other loop holes for your spouse to have control over almost all of the things listed. My question to you is why would anyone go out of their way to do that? You’re meeting with a lawyer and signing a bunch of legal documents. You know…like a marriage. It would be easier to just marry and get the better benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:48 PM
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I just visited the sub for the first time. It’s extremely left leaning. I’m more of a moderate so I’m not agreeing with everything posted. What topics are you asking about specifically? It’s not a space I would participate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:37 PM
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Or maybe you’re getting it from people that don’t know wtf they’re talking about. Like rapist Andrew Tate and two time divorcee Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:50 PM
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Every man I met off of an app always says the opposite. That women throw themselves at them and they have to reject them. The only men complaining are undesirable or broke lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:47 PM
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I’m not sure if I would like a picnic as a first date. Maybe second date. I don’t think you should start out with a low budget date if she’s used to extravagant places. You don’t have to take her to the most expensive place but go somewhere decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:03 PM
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Men being scared of competition with other men. Idk what to tell you. Man up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:56 PM
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The weak and damaged ones will take it out on others. I charge it to the game. Take your loss and learn how to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:54 PM
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How so? You’re just running women off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:02 AM
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Most red pill men that actually date are VERY open about being red pill. They wear it with a badge of honor. So I doubt what you’re saying is true. I’ve been out with a a couple red pill guys that loved talking about their podcast and always brought up the same subjects on the podcast during the date. It was too easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:28 AM
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I don’t care about foreign women. Have fun. I’m not interested and neither are the men I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:53 PM
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I’m speaking from a woman’s POV I guess. My own as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:35 PM
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I’m not sure to be honest. Only the men can speak on that. I think the majority of women who use apps are trash and might have things to hide. While others simply just don’t care to hide them because they’ll get matches regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:53 PM
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Where in my post did I state that was the only way to get rich? I actually outsource employees from another country so I think it’s hilarious that you somehow think we’re evil for playing the capitalism game. Guess what? I’m winning at it and I’m not poor lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:50 PM
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The man always controls marriage. It doesn’t matter what the situation is. Women don’t propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:48 PM
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It’s not. Some of us have actually been responsible in life with decisions which is why I deserve and I’m with a high value man. I’m completely honest in all my profiles because I have absolutely nothing to hide. I’m not ashamed of anything in my life. I don’t have to code anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:59 PM
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You think so? A lot of people get engaged without it being discussed. Now almost everyone discusses marriage first. I’m not picky and don’t mind how I get engaged. I just won’t be the one doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:41 PM
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Not sure how many times I have to state this but stop taking advice from femcels. No, I did not look at the thread and have no interest to. People can hit on whoever the fuck they want as long as it’s respectful and done in an appropriate manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:50 AM
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You all discussed this arrangement before hand? He wanted you to propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:46 AM
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That’s called capitalism. Sorry, that’s the world we live in. You can either get with the program or end up poor. This doesn’t make someone a bad person or immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:00 AM
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The things you wrote about men are accurate. Which is why I hate dating apps. What a waste of time. While what you wrote about women is false. You’re thinking too hard and women honestly have no reason to lie on these apps where we have an endless amount of options. It’s men who have to code things in order to seem less harsh in order to get better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:54 AM
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Why didn’t he want to propose to propose to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:47 AM
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This is a fact. Please stick to your guns. You’ve lived and experienced it. Don’t let inexperienced men on here try to change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:46 AM
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It’s not a preplanned proposal. It’s a simple conversation about marriage, their views, expectations, and interests. Everyone couple should be having this talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:43 AM
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It is shameful and embarrassing. Men are aware that they control marriage. If they aren’t proposing, it’s because they have no desire to marry you or they aren’t ready. Why would I propose knowing that he’s planning on never proposing or not ready? Just to walk around with a ring on my finger that I bought for 10 years with no marriage? That makes sense to you? Most couples have the marriage talk. There is no need for hints when it’s openly talked about. If you can’t discuss marriage with your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:39 AM
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For the love of god, please stop taking advice from femcels. Let them go into their basement and have their easy Tinder sex in peace. If you go to a social place or gathering with normal women, they don’t mind being approached. A lot of you wouldn’t be on this earth right now if it wasn’t for cold approaches. Stop making excuses and approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:50 AM
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You’re buying pussy no matter how you try to spin it and that’s not what I’m speaking on. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:46 AM
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Your problem isn’t rare and it’s quite common. I just turned 30 and you wouldn’t believe how many men that I knew from the past have randomly asked me out. When I ask “Why didn’t you ask me out before?” The answer is always that they just didn’t have enough money or time to cater to women. I think if more men were more honest about their situation, dating wouldn’t be so bad. Because your problem isn’t that you don’t want partnership, you just don’t have the funds for it right now and that’s okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:31 PM
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Women don’t like JP lol. Hate to break it you. I haven’t seen the video but I probably would’ve laughed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:42 PM
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Struggle? It’s damn near impossible unless you’re rich or paying cash for it. Most 25 year olds are not attracted to 55 year olds. We’re talking about casual sex. Even 40 year olds are not all down with that. Let’s break that group of women down. There are those that have never been married and looking for marriage, divorced and looking to remarry, women who don’t have casual sex, and those who are not looking for anything but just a good time. The “fun” just looking for a good time women are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:34 PM
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Please don’t bring that passport bs up. We all know you can buy pussy overseas for cheap. It’s been done for years now. You’re not stating anything groundbreaking. We’re talking about people that want real meaningful marriages in the us, not mail order brides and prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:22 PM
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Have you tried therapy? Maybe get a mentor in your career field?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:19 PM
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If you plan to start looking for a wife in your mid 30’s, dating will be much harder. You’ll be dating a lot of women with children, divorcees, or women like the OP described. You’re at the perfect age to start vetting women for marriage. You should start looking now but your mind isn’t there yet. What’s stopping you if I may ask? If you would’ve said you don’t mind being 50 and single my tune would’ve been different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:31 AM
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I’m 100% positive my parents don’t know who I’m sleeping with. They don’t even know when I started having sex. What was the point of this example in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:45 PM
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But how long do you plan on doing that for? The rest of your life? It’s a little unrealistic to expect easy casual sex with women at 50/60.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:42 PM
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Wouldn’t that be a “you” problem? You’re definitely not the only man having this issue. An old guy friend met up with me yesterday professing his love for me. Told me he wants to start a family and get married. While a girl he described as “crazy” and a “hoe” kept calling his phone repeatedly. He denied calling her first but I know that wasn’t the truth. I think it’s a discipline issue. I’m not sure if you can blame women because you personally can’t stop sleeping with them. A lot of women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:40 PM
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She added her parents on social media? Then had the boldness to post pics blacked out drunk knowing they can see it? That’s not normal and extremely weird. All of my friends that have family or older friends on social media usually post the stuff they only want certain people to see on their close friends. I haven’t added my parents at all because like I said, that’s weird af. They don’t need to see me partying and blowing hookah in the club lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:29 PM
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It’s none of her parents business who she’s sleeping with past 18 years old. Most women don’t go around telling their parents who they sleep with. That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:24 PM
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I think some women are making a mistake. They’re living for the moment because men have put us through hell and back since high school. It’s much easier and enjoyable to be in the company of men when you’re older. Dating casually is easy. However, being alone will get to them eventually. Maybe not now but around 40/50. I feel the same way about men too. Dating with money and freedom is a lot of fun. But don’t let it get you sidetracked when it comes to your personal life goals. It’s hard to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:22 PM
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GoD pUt U hErE to RePrOdUcE! I heard that one for the first time a few weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:14 PM
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I don’t like looking at it from a prostitution angle but I agree with your point. Men no longer want to pay for dates or ask women to go 50/50. Then expect sex in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:09 PM
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A lot of those men are married. That’s why the group was created in the first place. A bunch of married men joining dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:58 PM
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This makes absolutely no sense. Please make sense of it. Also, there are men that can relate to what I’m saying as well. They might not be on this sub but they’re out there. The difference is they’re top men who can be choosy about who they sleep with and have had a plethora of sex throughout their life already. They’re disciplined enough to pass up on sex. It’s not a big deal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:48 PM
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Relationships are not prostitution and don’t come close to it. Women also pay for shit and have to put in effort. Things might not always be completely even but the point is you’re practicing reciprocity with your partner in some fashion. If you just want to pay for a sexual relationship, you should become a sugar daddy and make that arrangement. However, that’s not comparable to a real relationship and it will never be. You’re just simply paying for sex. You probably won’t get with any woman re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:44 PM
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It depends on how social you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:34 PM
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The fallacies and weird complaints make it hard for anyone to take them seriously. Idk how they can’t see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:11 AM
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What science do you have to back this? There’s a reason why women skip over fuck boys and men in general. You don’t think we want to sleep with them? Some of us just have the discipline and restraint to know how bad the outcome is and pass on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:02 AM
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So your solution is basically legal prostitution? You would like pay women for sex? Do I have this correct? I’m not sure how this is a good dating method but okay. Also, a lot of these women still won’t have sex with you. Just use you until they can’t anymore. They aren’t prostitutes, just women who don’t really like you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:59 AM
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This is false. If you’re active socially, your constantly meeting new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:55 AM
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I hear what you’re saying but you can’t use any of these excuses for dating women who aren’t truly into you. You’re paying women to use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:14 AM
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It’s actually not that hard. Men who have active social lives have no problem dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:10 AM
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I’m saying this is false. Someone with self control and discipline can go without sex even when horny or when the opportunity presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:39 PM
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Anywhere. There are no limitations on where a man can hit on me at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:58 PM
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Heavily disagree. Women have higher standards than men. It doesn’t matter how horny women are. If a man doesn’t meet our standards, we’re not having sex. We will not have sex with any man just because we woke up wanting sex. While men will sleep with an ugly woman they aren’t interested in at all just to get off. Women move with a lot more discernment than men when it comes to sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:55 PM
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You should take a page out the book of women and not settle. When women don’t like what’s being presented to them by a man, we move on. There’s no point in dating or chasing someone you’re not compatible with. It’s a waste of time and money. Idk it seems like women are more comfortable being alone than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:44 PM
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Im not sure what type of woman you men are dating but they sound extremely boring or uninterested. If she can't hold a 20 minute phone conversation, she won't be able to hold one on a date either. Men should start vetting women better since you are the ones left with the bill in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:43 PM
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As someone who loves international travel, it is amazing but I always go with a group of people so it isn’t that costly. The most expensive thing is always the plane ticket. I do it on the weekend too so I’m only missing a few days of work. You have to master traveling on a budget lol. I think everyone can achieve it if it’s done a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:12 AM
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This isn’t true for the most part. I’m actually going through this right now with a bf. I appreciate that he saves but it does suck that we have to cut back on the dates and vacations. I do agree that it will get you less women. Only because women do look to men for some type of stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:53 PM
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What makes you think it’s impossible to achieve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:46 PM
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So do you wish to get married in the future or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:38 PM
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How old was he when he had a “lame” look? Everyone has had an awkward stage or glowed up. It doesn’t mean TRP is responsible for that. He’s giving TRP credit to gain a following and get income of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:20 PM
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Nope lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:44 PM
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Yep. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:42 PM
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No, I didn’t. They were below average. Ask next time before assuming things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:13 PM
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You can be average and have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:57 PM
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Dates and places where I could go and meet men. Oh, and holidays. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:28 PM
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I believe the same goes with dating. Everything I said still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:19 PM
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I know what blue pill is. From reading the comments, he’s an extremely attractive man that would be successful with any dating strategy. Why use him to push this false narrative? It’s not shocking but on brand for TRP supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:18 PM
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Most women don’t do a face full of makeup every time they leave the house. Do you know how long that takes? When you go to your local Target, take a good look at the women around the store. The majority of them, if any, will not have a full face of makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:11 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:08 PM
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How is marriage reaching a peak exactly? I’m not understanding this concept. Married people start businesses together, have children, start many journeys etc. You’re just getting started. The average woman actually gets fucked over the most in a divorce. Only the top 1% of women would someone come out on top. It sounds to me like you read too much bs off the internet. So believe what you want. What do you expect to do when you’re 50+ years old alone? I want to know your plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:06 PM
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It sounds like a bs study then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:43 PM
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Why are you following me into different threads to troll? You’re disrupting the conversation with your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:41 PM
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So an attractive man tried different methods of dating and was successful in both. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:10 PM
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How did he compare his method to people considered blue pill? How was this performed? How was the data collected?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:07 PM
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I’ll never understand this rhetoric. Especially since every guy I dated didn’t have enough sex for me lmao. What makes marriage unhappy? Because you don’t believe in it or because you actually believe married people don’t have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:05 PM
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While this is true, I know people in relationships and marriages that have listened to red pill advice it has literally ruined marriages. The cult has done a lot of damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:04 PM
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I hate TRP with all my heart but it’s mainstream unfortunately. Future had Kevin Samuels in a music video. I knew we were at the end of times when I saw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:00 PM
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It’s already mainstream if you ask me and society is continuously becoming worse of course. Didn’t they have to teach a class to kids in the UK because of Andrew state and TRP? The US won’t do shit of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:57 PM
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Maybe try dating someone in your career field?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:46 PM
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You should try dating more high quality women. Me and my friends would’ve given you nothing but compliments. I don’t think they were on your level at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:11 PM
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It sounds like he attempted to but is actually not a great person to date. You have to vet more properly or more harshly. I even used to hold myself accountable for that when I was single because it would happen to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:09 PM
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I disagree with this too. Overall, women try their best to make it work. We’re the ones that want the marriage, wedding, children, and all that other jazz. A lot of men only go along with it because they know that’s what the women want. Women overall spend a lot more time focusing on relationships. Too much time if you ask me. One of the things my friends joke around and say when we’re having relationship trouble is “Relax because he’s not thinking about you right now”. It’s 100% true. Women inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:06 PM
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I agree. Or maybe she really is that boring. If you only date strictly through apps those women can be weird too. I would suggest trying to meet someone in person. It’s harder but worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:59 PM
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Both of them are strange. The first girl is really weird. Why would you greet someone at your house in pajamas? She has no home training. The second girl is also weird. Why wouldn’t she want you to have on work clothes? Let me guess, both of them were extremely underdressed? I thought you were showing up in suits or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:56 PM
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I’m in a relationship but at least one of those things mentioned in the OP applies to my man. It’s almost impossible to find someone who doesn’t believe in some of the things mentioned. You just have to pick and choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:18 PM
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How many “bad in bed” experiences have you had? That’s not a common complaint men have. It’s more of a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:55 PM
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How much extra income? You better be high six figures or seven figures. The average man doesn’t make either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:41 PM
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If you’re willing to provide and already planning to cover the bill, why do you want women to offer? This comes off like you think women are trying to use you and you want to test them. You can’t say “I’m a provider” in one breathe then say “she should make a fake ass attempt to pay”. That is not how providers behave. Once again, a true provider doesn’t require women to pay for dates. You’re coming across more of a 60/40 guy. You don’t mind taking care of some of it but you still want women to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:29 PM
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Everyone can have their own personal standards. That doesn’t mean it’s going to happen. What you just requested would be doing you a disservice but if that’s what you think you can get, then stick with it. Those are your standards right? Stand on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:20 PM
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I always text and have phone conversations with men before I meet with them. No, I don’t know them. But I can get a feel of what they’re like and what their intentions are. If you call them and they say very little on the phone, chances are they’re like that in person too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:16 PM
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I think a drink date for online dating is appropriate. But if you met in person, a well thought out date is for sure required. I haven’t paid for a date in my life at 30. The whole 50/50 date concept seems like more of a Gen Z thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:14 PM
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Yeah we can end this right now but it’s been interesting. Men like you are the reason why women no longer post on here. You dislike women so much that you attack random women on Reddit forums to make yourself feel better inside. This is your only interaction with a women that you’ll have for the day and it makes you feel powerful that you can possibly try and put someone down. Too bad I see you motherfuckers for what you really are. Weak ass incels that don’t get women so you take your anger to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:08 PM
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You think I need a man to eat at night? Hilarious. It’s called having standards. Do I try to bash men for wanting a feminine, fit, and friendly woman? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:44 PM
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If I said “false”, you would call me a liar anyway. You came into this thread specifically to trash women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:41 PM
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If I said “false”, you would call me a liar anyway. You came into this thread specifically to trash women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:41 PM
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Are you saying you don’t mind dating Burger King workers? Did you marry someone in that profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:33 PM
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Are you insulting me? Because you can get reported and we can end this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:32 PM
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I felt that way at 28/29 lol. But I also don’t want to meet at some bar because I think that’s low effort and it’s always been awkward for me when I dated like that. If I had a positive experience with a bar type of date, maybe I would feel differently about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:31 PM
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What did I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:20 PM
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This sounds like a great plan if you want to get with a Burger King worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:19 PM
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How is she a whore? Because she doesn’t want Applebees for dinner? We already know women with standards are hoes or users to you all. Honestly, that’s not the woman’s problem. It’s yours. So I don’t care what the men say about that. Men have their standards and women have ours as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:18 PM
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There are other things to do besides dinner that are acceptable. The woman should be able to see that they put in effort so you can be comfortable and enjoy each other’s company. I love bowling and Top Golf. Those aren’t cheap at all. With food and drinks, the bill is always $100+. You could do something more laid back like wine tasting or a well planned picnic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:13 PM
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You can call whatever you want. I don’t know you and you don’t know me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:03 PM
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The previous post is just discussing dating prep, so I also discussed dating prep. Once again, please keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:02 PM
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Women also have something called standards just like men. You’re basically saying low effort is the standard and any woman that expects more than low effort isn’t worth it lmao. I guess if you’re dating down or desire to marry a Walmart worker, this is the attitude to have. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:57 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:50 AM
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Is your goal right now just to argue with me? Because nothing you said made a lick of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:44 AM
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You don’t need cosmetic surgery. Your face isn’t ugly. I think you would look hot with muscles. You won’t gain them overnight so be patient. It would give you more sex appeal and make you more noticeable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:05 AM
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Where did you go on your date where you dressed up at?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:45 AM
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What do you mean what happens? It shows that you’re putting in effort. However, the gym is not date prep. That’s something you do for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:38 AM
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Do you know how long it takes me to get dressed for a date? I’m doing hair, makeup, nails, wearing brand new clothing etc. All just to look top notch for a man who might just want sex from me. That is not low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:34 AM
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But men are also fat. So where do we go from here? Remember that you asked for the date, not her. You decided to take a fat person out. That was your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:31 AM
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There’s a lot of men with no personality too tho. I hope the people making these personality complaints are well rounded vibrant people in person. Sounds like some of you wanted to be entertained by the woman. I deal with a lot of men like this because of my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:24 AM
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Or maybe they just don’t like you. Because she’s putting on a big smile for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:18 AM
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I think that’s more telling about the girls you’re choosing to date and vetting. You should be vetting people before you even decide to take them out. It sounds like a classic case of men chasing women that never liked them to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:16 AM
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This is false. In all my relationships, I always put in more effort than them. I wish I could be in a relationship where someone put in more effort than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:12 AM
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People dating over forty don’t have as much time to date. They have children and other obligations to tend to. You’re not in that same position at 21 or even 30. While they might not require a pricey long date I’m sure they’ll still appreciate one. I can’t even see the sub to see what you’re talking about specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:09 AM
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I seriously doubt that. You believe or think there was zero downside. One of those women might’ve really liked you until they pulled up to your low effort date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:03 AM
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This is a lie lmao. Some men truly dgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:01 AM
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You aren’t adding things up and keeping a spreadsheet. Women should just be mindful about the effort men put into dates. It can be a cheaper date but just a well thought out one that takes some work. The man who takes you to the local bar or Applebees is most likely not that into you. I even had a man break this down for me before. He would take women he wasn’t really into or low earners to cheap restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:59 AM
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Same but my parents make about the same amount now. My dad makes a little more and it was actually the opposite growing up. I’m not sure what country you’re in but we go by household income in the US if your married. Your mom and dad would be considered at the same socioeconomic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:40 AM
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With time and some money. Invest in the people around you that you care about. Make sure she knows that you’re looking for something serious. Then on the second date let her know that you want to be serious with her specifically. Tell her important things about your life. Ask her thought provoking questions as well. Things about herself that she can open up to you about. Make sure the dates are well planned and not cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:19 AM
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Well to be accurate, I can’t stop a man from doing anything. My bf can call and break up with me right now for no reason at all. I don’t have autonomy over anyone but myself. Look at it like this. If you’re looking to pump and dump someone, are you really interested in investing your time and hard earned money into someone you aren’t interested in? If so, you’re either rich or rare. Because most men won’t spend more than one date with you if they just want sex. You aren’t worth the money or inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:08 AM
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Some men know how to hide their tracks well. Women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:01 AM
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Why the extreme? Do you really think that’s the only option women have? I could be with someone who actually cares about me and doesn’t want to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:59 PM
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Listen, a man could introduce you to his entire family and still be playing you. Remember friends and family will always have his best interest. The woman is the employee and friends & family are HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:53 PM
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Idk why. It’s not hard. Good looking doesn’t mean they’ll treat you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:49 PM
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I said dates with an S. I would recommend the minimum number of dates be 4 just to be on the safe side. Most men will not spend an abundant amount of time and money on women they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:47 PM
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I stayed because I don’t think sex is the most important thing in a relationship. However, I didn’t enjoy it and always thought about seeing other people. I’m glad the relationships ended. Sex is actually very important to me but partnership means more. It holds more power. Bf #1 wasn’t that bad because he was amazing at forplay. It was better than the sex. Bf #2 was just bad overall. You can tell he was a beginner. D size definitely played a part in both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:39 PM
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For some women this is totally fine. I know I don’t care. If I’m dating you, I obviously somewhat enjoy your company. I’m down for a good dinner and drinks. He can go sleep with whomever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:45 PM
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Make sure the dates are high quality, not cheap, and well thought out. Let the man plan everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:43 PM
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How is it cheating if you all didn’t come to an agreement to stop dating other people? Regardless if she is or not, I’m sure she’ll still keep her options open. Why should a woman give every guy in her phone up for something that could fall through at any moment? Maybe your worth it, maybe your not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:42 PM
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How can I say this in an appropriate manner. I can tell a lot of you haven’t really experienced life yet. A man who takes care of his woman is not insecure. To even think this way is a mindset I’ll never understand because the people around me don’t think or behave like this. I’m at the stage in my life where everyone is getting engaged or married. So to even read this is mind boggling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:34 PM
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Stupid concept. This is the type of attitude deadbeat fathers and men who wonder why they’re still single at 35+ have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:24 PM
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This post is amazing. It’s too bad most men don’t operate like this when dating. And by most, I mean a good 95% don’t do this. But to add some context, my bf said he didn’t care when we had sex because he knew my feelings about him were genuine. Even if I didn’t prove it yet, he trusted me and knew I was going to stick around. He knew has wasn’t going anywhere either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:38 PM
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Your solution is to meet women in person in the niche you enjoy. You don’t have to rely on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:12 PM
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I’ve been sexually assaulted by approaching men myself. At the end of the day, I know that there are really shitty people in this world and extremely good ones. Or I could walk around with a “I hate all men” attitude. I guess that’s the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:31 PM
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I read your reasoning again and it is a bit of a stretch. You can hype someone up and make them think and feel like a 10 but a socially aware person would know they aren’t. Most women know they aren’t 10’s. An example of this is my friends telling me that I was too good for my boyfriend and to leave him. But I know deep down inside that we are on the same level overall. We are at the same place in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:27 PM
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I agree. I can’t even say “women don’t do that” anymore because some of them are just as socially inept as the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:22 PM
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Why would they be disingenuous? Those women are clearly not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:45 PM
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Most men don’t lose their shit. I say this as someone who gets hit on a lot. Also, is she really busy or uninterested? Because if Chad asked for her number she would make time for him. She’s not busy but uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:42 PM
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Okay? Is everyone you meet in life respectful? I meet disrespectful people everywhere. It’s called life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:40 PM
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Men have also been doing that for years as well. Those particular women are just weird. Unless you’re jogging down the street or running on a treadmill, you shouldn’t have an issue with someone having a quick conversation with you. You will get accepted or rejected when approaching women anywhere. It’s all part of the game. The post still sounds like an excuse to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:51 PM
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That’s weird af and 100% some strange Gen Z rhetoric. Go ask your parents how they met. There was no social media around back then. They literally had to approach each other in order to date or hook up. I’m only 30 and this social hook up culture is new to me. My prom date met me and asked me out in person lol. I think meeting online and on apps is much worse actually. U literally have nothing to go off of but looks. You can get to know someone better in person before giving your number out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:43 PM
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I’ll never understand why the men on here perceive me giving my friend a compliment as a “lie”. I’m not looking at my friends in a sexual manner. If she gets dressed up to go out and I like her outfit, I’m going to give a compliment. It’s that simple. You only disagree with the compliment because you personally don’t find her desirable. That’s all. This way of thinking is strange to say the least. Secondly, most women don’t think they’re 10’s. Not even the ones who are really 10’s. You should se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:28 PM
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I’ve never seen a woman on here say that but I was just having this conversation. I don’t think the women on here are a good reflection of women out in the real world. There are literally videos of women coaching other women on how to look approachable and what places to go to get approached. What he’s saying isn’t reality. If you went to a bar or club last night, I’m 100% positive the men approached women. It’s a normal thing to do and apart of being a social being. Women don’t have a problem w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:24 PM
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I think this is a reflection of women on PPD only if you get where I’m going with this. I do believe the responses are genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:16 PM
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My man makes a lot more than me already? So what are you talking about? He actually wanted me to move in rent free and I declined. We’re both childless too. The men I date don’t require me to go half on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:01 PM
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Do you know me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:58 AM
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You’re assuming less because I’m working less than him. What about doing chores, cooking, cleaning, child rearing etc. That’s not “real” work to you I’m guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:57 AM
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We are all anonymous tho lol. I don’t see anyone with a photo up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:55 AM
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I’m shocked by a lot of the responses in this thread honestly. This is not the response I would get in real life with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:16 AM
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Why did you stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:13 AM
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Yes. I’ll leave it at that. Short and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:10 AM
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And they’re paying for it. It’s not a random sexpat romance like women. These men are literally planning sex tourism vacations in groups. Then fly back to the US to trash western women after they just paid prostitutes for sex. It’s a big joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:07 AM
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Where in either of my post did I embrace sex tourism? I’m definitely condemning it for both men and women. What I’m pointing out is the women aren’t going around bragging about taking advantage of people and shit talking western men. They’re doing their dirt in silence and shutting the fuck up. This is nothing to brag about or be proud of. Oh and one last thing. One of your fellow passport bros checked me on here and said it’s not sex tourism if you don’t pay for it. Most women don’t pay for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:07 AM
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You don’t see women making videos about how many men they slept with on vacation or starting a passport girl movement. They’re also not trashing western men. They know it’s just spontaneous sex and will go right back to dating the same men when they get back to the US. Most importantly, a lot of those women DONT pay those men. Maybe the old and undesirable women but I highly doubt a young woman is paying to sleep with them. When I was in Jamaica, I’m positive those men would have no problem slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:18 AM
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It’s predatory because the passport bros are not marrying these women but participating in sex tourism. If they were marrying these women, I don’t think anyone would care or make a big deal out of it. They also diss American women every chance they get. Get on your flight and leave Western women alone. Sex tourism has been a thing but those men knew to keep quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:14 AM
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I’m not sure why the people on here think you can police my thoughts or tell me wtf to say. It’s hilarious actually. It’s stupid to think you have control of what comes out of my mouth. I will say my peace however I want on the topic whether you like it or not. Skip my post if you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:05 PM
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Are you dumb? I already explained why I included children in my post and I don’t give af if you don’t like it. It’s my stance on the situation period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:17 PM
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Would the word “ours” make you more comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:14 PM
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No one is working “harder” if I’m taking care of children and the household while he’s at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:50 PM
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I’m not running on any loses. I also work full time. The split is not based on my income at all. It’s my personal decision and preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:49 PM
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Yes. It depends on my situation like I previously explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:47 PM
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He can make just as much as me because I’m not fucking broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:29 PM
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The only people who think like this are the naive 50/50 individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:29 PM
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If you think it works, go for it! I know one thing. I won’t spend the rest of my life going half on the everything with someone. I would rather be by myself. You can make it work, but will you be HAPPY? You most likely won’t. My parents made it work but was it a smooth happy marriage? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:26 PM
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My friends dream is to live on a small farm with family. I hope you can make it happen. Everything is super expensive these days. Your gf is lucky that she owns property. I’m not going hard on 50/50 because of some gripe I have with it. I literally saw my parents argue over who will pay for what all the time. We lived in a high COL area for a good school system and safety. They made it work but were they happy? No. Everything always became about money all the time. If you can’t afford to take ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:42 PM
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That’s the only time I think a 50/50 marriage might work. If both parties are high earners. But that’s not the reality for most people. We’re talking the top 1%. Then finding someone whose marriage minded in the same field that is willing to have children is another challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:25 PM
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I would actually rather have a full time job or continue to run my small businesses. If we have children, I’ll definitely be part time. Are you asking where the other 70% goes to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:20 PM
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And hypothetically, that’s what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:55 PM
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You asked a question and I answered that I would get therapy instead of worrying about getting back at someone. That’s what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:29 PM
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You can dream all you want for this amazing man with excellent conflict resolution skills. Y’all will still be arguing every week. At least you will come up with a solution I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:14 PM
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Are you currently with your child’s father? Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:12 PM
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It does not work like that when you have children. This situation might be “cute” when you are childless but it’s totally different when children come into the picture. You say you shouldn’t be thinking about how to divide the ER bill when that’s literally what 50/50 is lmao. Everything is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:09 PM
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Having a revengeful mindset means you need therapy. It’s not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:06 PM
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Or maybe you shouldn’t go 50/50 because you will be constantly arguing over expenses with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:04 PM
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I’ll say this because a lot of the younger people in here aren’t thinking long term. A 50/50 marriage with children is NOT ideal. Your little shared one bedroom is “cute” but it will not survive a marriage with children involved. You’ll find out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:00 PM
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Do you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:57 PM
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Your situation is different. Your mother literally had another stream of income to depend on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:57 PM
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Step dad? What age were you when they got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:52 PM
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I grew up in it and know what it’s like. This 50/50 stuff is a new concept for this generation but not for me. I saw it first hand for 18+ years. I wouldn’t recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:49 PM
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Most don’t speak on it because people usually assume that you have some type of financial troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:47 PM
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A fight is not “fine” when this is a lifestyle and not a one time thing. You’ll be fighting all the time over money, expenses, and even chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:46 PM
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Material items and unexpected expenses will always be some type of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:45 PM
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But that’s the thing with a 50/50 marriage. It is always one big fight about who pays for what. Conflict resolution skills won’t make your kids ER bill disappear. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:44 PM
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Did you and the partner have kids? It’s all good now but when children come things are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:42 PM
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I’m not married. I grew up in a 50/50 household.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:39 PM
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Actually it’s not. None of my friends know wtf an FDS is. I haven’t met one person who knows what it is actually. Red Pill is now mainstream. Way more men are now online crying about their issues instead of getting the proper help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:36 PM
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Absolutely nothing. But the men believe the more money you pay means the more work women must do for them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:32 PM
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It depends. If I’m contributing to 30% of the bills, I would have to have a job. I can’t work full time and do a bulk of the chores. I would have to have a part time position or not work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:32 PM
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A 70/30 split is ideal for me. I have written at least a dozen post on why 50/50 marriages are not ideal. If you want a struggle marriage, go 50/50. It’s not a fun life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:47 PM
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My man and I are more polar and we balance each other out. He’s more laid back while I’m the outgoing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:45 PM
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If your searching for some way to get back at someone that’s no longer in your life, you obviously have some pain or built up anger inside. That isn’t healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:32 PM
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Actually it’s not. Most wealthy men just want a classy woman who is going to hold him and the household down while he’s working. They’re not out searching for virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:30 PM
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I wouldn’t do anything but get therapy and stop being so bitter. Learn how to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:25 PM
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Do you know me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:23 PM
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Umm we’re talking about in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:22 PM
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That’s fine. Just don’t call them tradcon or traditional because they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:36 PM
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Why would a woman you just met tell you her sexual history? You’re not her partner. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:35 PM
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Do you know men with options? How much like are they having with this? Because the ones I know aren’t doing too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:35 PM
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I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:33 PM
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We are talking about women you’re courting for a date. Why would they spill all of their personal sex history with you? That makes no sense. Using celebrities as examples doesn’t make your point. Of course some women or people in general are willing to do questionable things for fame. That was not the scenario you presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:33 PM
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This sounds so…immature? Idk the right word to describe it. Average people get married to other average people every day. Same with ugly people. I don’t think my man is the player type but I know he’s had casual sex before. He even admitted that it’s really not his thing. Why would I hold that over his head? For what reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:16 AM
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You say it’s a bad reason but don’t list why exactly. Because the method works for most women. I don’t know any woman that will keep seeing men they have bad experiences with. You completely lost me there. How would you even know her previous sexual history unless she told you, which I doubt would happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:07 AM
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This isn’t reality lmao. Just internet dreams and fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:03 AM
3

Understood but these men are not looking for real traditionalism. A lot of them don’t even want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:02 AM
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You should stop generalizing all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:00 AM
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Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:29 PM
9

Attractive men also slut shame. Idk where you got that only ugly men do it. Your question is a little gaslight-ish to me. Like seriously? Who wants to be known as hoe? Whose to say I don’t respect the person who did it? How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:22 PM
2

Women don’t have to tell you anything about their sexually history. Your not their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:19 PM
4

Do you hear how they talk? They aren’t even tradcon, just misogynist or incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:17 PM
1

Men think that other men don’t cheat more is crazy. You can tell these are red pill men because the men outside of the internet would say differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:33 PM
23

Are you serious? There’s an n-count conversation on here daily but you don’t think men care about chastity lol? Women get slut shamed everyday. This is a case of men kicking their own selves in the balls. You want to shame women but also want quick sex at the same time. You can’t have it both ways. You all did yourselves this disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:28 PM
2

As someone whose had bad experiences, it’s best for me to wait and get to know the person first. The only time limit I put on myself is the first couple dates. The rest is based on discernment. I do think having sex on the first date is classless tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:44 PM
2

I agree that putting a specific time limit on things is a bit much but that time limit is there for most women for a reason. Once you’ve had several bad relationships, you do have to look in the mirror and ask what you can you do better. Not getting to know someone before sleeping with them is an issue with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:30 PM
2

I don’t care how close you feel to someone, you don’t know them after one date. You’re waiting because you want to get to know them better. That is the goal here, not to purposely have them wait for the sake of waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:41 PM
1

I wouldn’t describe it as a spreadsheet but what I’ve been taught and know to do from advice and personal experiences. I stick to my guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:40 PM
2

40k isn’t enough for anyone anymore. They’re in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:38 PM
23

There is no 5 stages for women. I can’t speak for all women but I can’t relate. I’ve never been in denial, angry, depressed, bargaining, or acceptance. Dating in my 30’s has been fun so far. It’s basically dating men with more money with more money in my account. I’m in a relationship now. I’m sure my experience is vastly different for someone in their late 30’s but I don’t think your thread is about them. Sounds like you’re trying to say the misogynist red pill is equivalent to women entering t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:37 PM
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I’m a woman and money most definitely makes a difference. I don’t see how anyone can deny that these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:26 PM
3

This is just simply not true. My extremely attractive friends won’t even acknowledge your presence if you’re too ugly. They just act like you don’t exist when you try to talk to them. Then proceed to laugh at you behind your back. While my average or ugly friends will at least have a conversation with you and might even give you their number. Why? Because they’re literally dating on their level and used to these type of men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:46 PM
9

Why would you label her a man? Is your racism coming out or are you a misogynist? I can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:04 PM
3

As someone who is friends with top tier beautiful women, this is bullshit. You have to have the money and the looks to get with them. If you see an extremely ugly man with one of them, you better believe he has the money to make up for the ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:38 PM
9

Michelle Obama has talked a lot about her relationship with Barack in her book, podcast, and many interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:30 PM
0

While this is true, the foundation is usually similar. We all come from different cultures but the foundational principles of a lot of our cultures are more similar than different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:24 PM
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You made a blanket statement about women that is false. If what you said was factual, how would these single parent households ran by women be functional? Or are you saying single mothers only do the things you mentioned because they’re forced to do it? Single mothers are active around the house while married women do nothing. Is that statement accurate or not according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:22 PM
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This is false. First off, most women are the sole care takers in the household. I also believe most households are now ran by women due to the declining marriage rates and out of wedlock births.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:14 PM
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A man that has traditional values or was raised in a traditional household and also wants to live that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:49 PM
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What excuse do men give? Because I don’t think they give an explanation at all. This post sounds personal. I tell things straight up and don’t hide the truth. Especially after a break up. What do I have to lie to u about? We aren’t even together. You don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:48 PM
7

Men these days don’t pay almost all the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:43 PM
0

To me it means a traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:41 PM
3

Some men care about partnership and building a family legacy. It’s not all about sex for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:40 PM
1

The bodycount thing is frivolous. Because you will never know a real number anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:07 PM
0

Not being attracted to broke men will never be outdated. You need money and resources to raise a family. It will be like this for the rest of your life. There is no changing this. There’s nothing misandrist about being able to care for your wife and kids. I have no feelings towards the rest of the things named. They might or might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:44 PM
1

Idk the culture there but I’m still kind of shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:07 AM
1

I’m someone who was raised correctly. I’m also not pro-approach men. I’ve been sexually assaulted by approaching men. No thanks. It’s not effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:05 AM
1

Most aren’t but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:02 AM
2

I want my kid to be as social as possible. I’m signing my kid up for multiple social groups, sports, and clubs. My biggest regret as a child is quitting sports. It didn’t impact me socially but in other ways. I believe sports overall helps you build good character and discipline along with social skills. He will of course be taught good manners and social etiquette at home first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:58 PM
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This isn’t true at all. There are so many things that go into genetics. You have little control on how your kids come out no matter how ugly or attractive your child is. What if they’re disabled? Would you still love them? People who procreate for attractive children bother me. It’s definitely a trauma response from being picked on as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:52 PM
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What does this have to do with age? Are you labeling me immature because I was raised on basic societal norms, traditions, and principles like most people? Do I have that correct? If so, you might want to look in the mirror. Pot calling the kettle black. You can’t change the fucking world. Who do you think you are? The president? God? What a joke lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:48 PM
1

And that’s your problem now. Listening to a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:43 PM
1

Because money DOES have an impact on who women choose to sleep with whether you would like to admit it or not. Not everyone has the same standards. There are some 6-7’s who do require a man to have a decent income. Why would anyone fuck a man that can’t afford a kid in 2023? It’s pure stupidity to me but women with low standards will do what they please. What club promotes are you talking about? You’re obviously describing the ones that just post pics on Instagram all day. The ones I know make b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:43 PM
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My focus is you thinking your children will be ugly if you have children with a 4/10. That’s not how genetics work. I’ve seen ugly people make gorgeous kids and beautiful people make ugly babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:26 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:55 PM
1

That’s not a troll post. I’m asking him to give a specific definition for FDS, not just things he’s seen strangers post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:51 PM
1

So why even bring money into the equation at all? A perfect 10 still isn’t sleeping with a broke man. Not all men can afford five star restaurants so it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:24 PM
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That’s a tough one. Attractive women are not accepting dates at TGI Fridays. If the teacher can provide me with the proper date I’m going with him. However, if I’m comparing the teacher to entrepreneur making 250k+ I’m going with him. But whey even bring money into the situation if it’s not a serious relationship? It’s a pointless argument. It could go either way depending on the vibe. That money isn’t mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:27 PM
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Because traditionally we do not approach men. It’s not my job to boost your confidence, it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:15 PM
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How can it be pushed when it has always been a model beauty standard for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:07 PM
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So from my understanding, after you get to a healthy weight is when you can focus on building muscle. You have to transition from eating less to eating more but healthy foods only while lifting weights. This is just my info from things I’ve read and the weight loss sites I follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:07 AM
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Men don’t have to be flashy for me to find out how much you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:55 AM
1

They never had high standards to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:52 AM
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That’s false. Attractive 10/10 women are not sleeping with broke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:51 AM
1

Used up? Men can have casual sex but women can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:44 AM
1

All relationships don’t start off casual. Some people date with intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:42 AM
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He did not stare whether he was referring to casual sex or a relationship so her post still stands. A hook up doesn’t give a fuck about money anyway so why even bring it up? It would be irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:39 AM
1

Big Ed has something red pillers don’t have; some confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:37 AM
1

Beauty is subjective. What’s beautiful to me might not be beautiful to the next person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:36 AM
1

You’re a good example of men wanting to date women out of their league and then complaining about being single. It makes no sense. You explained why you’re doing it but wouldn’t you be happier partnering with someone on your level if you aren’t having success dating perfect 10 women? Also, two unattractive people can make a cute kid. I don’t know where you got this from. Just like two attractive people can make ugly children. You’re trying to outclass genetics when it doesn’t even work like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:33 AM
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Sure. Men traditionally still approach women. Men don’t have confidence in themselves anymore. Therefore, women aren’t being approached or courted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:23 AM
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FDS didn’t create this phenomenon. The tall, dark, and handsome man has always gotten more love. It’s been around for ages before the sub existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:18 AM
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I’m glad you said it. Because I don’t know one attractive man that uses these terms. Edit: your username speaks for itself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:12 AM
1

While this is true some new money millionaires just require you to have a good paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:10 AM
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That’s a lie. If I’m shooting for commitment, I want the guy making 110k over the guy making 60k. I’ve literally chose an engineer over a teacher before. Club promoters can make a lot of money. That’s why their known to get a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:08 AM
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That’s the downside of it. But you can still dedicate some of your free time to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:03 AM
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Because you’re older. Everything gets harder when you’re older. You have less options and the people that were making 75k when you were making 25k are making even more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:01 AM
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The OP is right about having a photo in dress clothes. Your suit and tie pic is your best pic. If you aren’t that attractive know how to properly take a good selfie pic. Put some effort into it please. The most common thing I see is guys in cars with the camera super close to their face. It’s usually not flattering. The advice you gave to women is just a reflection of the type of women you find on apps. There’s not much to change honestly. Well I guess my point is you can’t. That’s just who they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:56 AM
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Or women who don’t meet their ridiculous standards. They love shit talking them too lol. I just sit back and listen to them tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:45 AM
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You ran into a red piller in person huh? I’m sorry you had to go through that. Dealing with it online is bad enough. They’re no different in real life either. A bunch of lost and bitter hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:28 AM
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Maybe the women slightly lower than you aren’t used to a lot of male attention and don’t know how to properly date vs the attractive women who are more savvy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:21 AM
2

You have a point. People did have more resources back then because everything was cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:19 AM
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I don’t think that’s true either though. The barista would be thrilled if he landed a lawyer or someone who makes significantly more than him. Broke men also care about careers. It’s less stress and work for them. Having a degree doesn’t make you a better partner but having money to provide for a family does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:17 AM
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Most women are not afraid of being approached. It’s more like men are too afraid of rejection and don’t want to shoot their shot at women in person because they lack social skills. People had to be social because there was no social media. You had no choice but to approach women to get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:12 AM
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The same reason why a man might empty his bank account for a stripper or onlyfans girl. Everyone lust after someone. It doesn’t mean they make better spouses. No where in my post am I trying to “fool” you. I’m actually trying to understand the point you’re attempting to get across which is why I’m asking you questions. I’m not a “Karen”, I’m a black woman. A man’s qualities and traits do contribute to his attractiveness when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:09 AM
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Upstate or the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:11 AM
1

A rehabilitation center is different from an assisted living facility. I’ve seen them in rehabilitation facilities but never in a assisted living or nursing home under 55. One is for short term stay and the other is for long term/life long stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:08 AM
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I’ve never seen anyone under 55 in there because of weight. Most can still get around at that age whether it be on a wheel chair or with a cain. They are able to still care for themselves which is the biggest factor when deciding whether or not to put someone in assisted living care. Most are still self sufficient under 55.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:50 PM
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It’s only stupid or broke men who believe that careers don’t matter or that they have an “attitude”. As someone who dates amongst other professionals, careers DO matter. Successful men are very conscious of their image and prefer to have an equally successful partner. Only red pill bums shit on women that have careers. Try that career bashing shit in circles where everyone is successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:33 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:29 PM
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So which one is it? Are fat people under 55 in assisted living homes or are they being rejected? You’re contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:28 PM
1

I’m talking maybe a generation ago. Men like your fathers age, not the 1940’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:26 PM
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I feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:03 PM
2

Fine, I won’t say “most” but a reasonable portion of women are having this issue. It would be naive to ignore it. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:46 PM
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There are women who have the looks, right attitude, and career but are still single. This isn’t a small amount either but a large percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:44 PM
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He’s actually wise beyond his years and smarter than most adults judging from his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:42 PM
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Because men became simps for women who aren’t into them. They’re willing to text, FaceTime, send money and flowers to women that don’t like them. Instead of paying attention to women who are on their level and actually into them. Women who play those games do so because they don’t want them and have options to get who they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:41 PM
2

It’s totally different here. They stopped giving out pensions a long time ago. We only have 401k’s and Roth IRA’s now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:36 PM
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It’s actually pretty common. Most are in the obese category. Very few are slim and in shape. It’s harder to walk when you get older so most don’t do any exercise at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:34 PM
3

This is bs. I’ve worked at several assisted living facilities and I’ve never seen a fat person under 55 living there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:32 PM
2

The same goes for average women. Which is why smv is some bs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:29 PM
3

I’m also speaking on the average guy. They want super attractive girlfriends too. The ones with and without high salaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:40 PM
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If we’re going based off the job analogy, women are not under qualified but overqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:02 PM
2

Some of you do want model looking or above average girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:54 PM
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But most are overqualified vs. under qualified. Where are you getting that from? When you’re overqualified and still can’t get a job, it’s extremely frustrating and yes you’ll hear complaints. That’s the problem. A lot of women are overqualified and still can’t find commitment. That’s where the complaining comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:37 PM
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It’s the same amount of effort the men before u put in. Nothing has changed. If anything, it’s easier then ever because of social media and dating apps. You don’t even have to approach a woman anymore. Men before you actually had it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:25 PM
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The problem with this narrative is you’re trying to force women to find unattractive people attractive. While women don’t get that grace. You will never hear a woman complaining about beauty standards because we already know the drill. But for some reason, there is a group of men who thinks it shouldn’t apply to them. Men have their beauty standards and women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:40 PM
2

Those seem like great ages to have children. You got to enjoy life and build a nice career for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:36 PM
5

You must live down south or the Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:24 PM
3

Well you explained the mindset of a lot of men these days. The problem is a lot of you will carry this mindset well into your 30’s. Then you’ll start saying “Why would I settle when I have all of this money now”. The cycle continues from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:20 PM
3

When did you and your wife have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:16 PM
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Where have you been? The government is talking about it and trying to come up with ways to increase the birth rate. Giving incentives to have children, banning abortions, trying to ban certain contraceptives etc. The main problem is they’re not addressing the real issue which is people not being able to afford children anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:14 PM
2

The only push back I have is it’s mostly financial. A lot of men don’t have the money to date or marry in their 20’s. Now that I’m older, men have even opened up to me about it. Straight up told me that they always liked me they just didn’t have the time or money because of work. Then factor on college they were attending in order to make more money. This wasn’t just one guy but several. I’ve ended relationships because my partner worked too much. The main reason is financial but I know it’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:09 PM
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I don’t give a shit how hard it is for you. What you’re not explaining is why a man would discuss this on a date. Because only an idiot would think it’s acceptable to talk about red pill content with a woman during a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:00 PM
2

Involuntary celibate means you can’t get sex. Women will always have access to sex. So no it’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:55 PM
1

Because it was never said by any of the people who run FDS. He’s taking anything he reads over there and running with it. That’s like me hearing a red piller say “it’s okay to abandon your child if you get a hoe pregnant” and I run around saying red pill men are deadbeats lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:47 PM
1

Are you going to give a definition or continue to talk shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:45 PM
2

It’s an automatic red flag for me and I never plan on seeing them again but I at least get to tell them how stupid it is to their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:44 PM
2

You know what’s funny? I’m positive a woman would never say anything about scrotes or FDS on a date. But men have openly discussed TRP and manosphere content on dates with me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:28 PM
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Women can’t be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:19 PM
2

You should treat FDS like the red pill. All of those women are not following all those rules. Just like red pillers don’t because they’re just lonely men that want attention from women at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:15 PM
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Who said they did? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:11 PM
1

Not everyone meets online and is a dating app person. Even the ones who are on them still vet. Well, the men who are seriously dating of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:11 PM
1

The only time I’ve offered to split a bill is because I never wanted to see the guy ever again. This can be a very bad thing too. Just to let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:03 PM
2

Because men usually don’t marry and have children with sugar babies. A woman who is taken care of by a bf is also no where equivalent to a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:00 PM
1

What is an FDS woman? Y’all just like to talk shit about them. To the point where there is no clear definition anymore. All I see is women with standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:56 PM
-2

They intertwine but are not directly tied together. They’re singular subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:53 PM
1

That’s absolutely false. I have older relatives who I love, remember, and I’ll proudly carry the legacy they created for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:30 PM
3

You basically just summing up wtf I said. Whose the clown?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:29 PM
2

I actually read his post wrong. My bad. I’ll leave it up for context tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:59 PM
3

I agree. But all attractive men are not automatically red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:55 PM
2

I’m not the one who brought up interest and hobbies, the person I quoted did. The thread is actually about hobbies. The OP is asking what Red Pillers do for hobbies. Maybe read instead of attacking any random woman that replies to the thread. The men I know don’t have nerdy hobbies because they aren’t nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:47 PM
2

Are we talking about divorce or finances in a marriage? Which one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:31 PM
1

A dad bod to me is chubby man that carries weight well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:24 PM
10

I’m waiting to hear his response lol. His rhetoric doesn’t make sense and is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:00 PM
4

But that’s not a real partnership. A real husband would assure you that things would get better and even help you with the job search. In sickness and in health. That means you’re together no matter. The good times and the bad. If you want a marriage where things will be great all the time, you shouldn’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:58 PM
2

You would be better off never marrying if this is how you think. You’re not marrying for the right reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:52 PM
-4

None of the things you mentioned are attractive interests to me. If you hang around women more you would know these are not hobbies we desire a man to have. Unless you’re 50+ of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:51 PM
5

I’m glad you’re working with your son and his diet. My main problem at that age was not knowing how to cook healthy meals and diet properly. I would recommend that your daughter gets some therapy if she’s totally shut off from dating. She’s still young and should be living her best single life!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:17 PM
1

Life is not meaningless. There are people that get married and build a legacy with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:11 PM
7

You’re an anomaly. Most of the men I met in college are less cute now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:09 PM
1

Your logic was bullshit. You had to use an extreme example of someone potentially dying lmao. The topic of the conversation was a fucking kiss. You have to be joking here. If not, let me repeat myself and tell you to move in because you’re lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:58 PM
0

I would tell you to ask what she’s looking for and eventually make your intentions known so your time won’t be wasted. Not all female friends are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:56 PM
1

If you have to use drastic examples that include losing your life to make a point, you lost sir. Move on. Stop making a joke out of women’s sexuality for your pleasure or out of boredom. Whatever the reason was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:33 PM
1

You’re not engaging in good faith. If I kiss the same sex, that would make ANYONE man or woman either gay or bisexual. Or are you one of these new Gen Z kids that think you can fuck, kiss, flirt with the same sex and be “straight”. Because your NOT. You can try to gaslight and word pick all you want. You know exactly what the fuck you did and what I’m saying. It’s very stupid to ask straight women would they do gay things. My opinion. I dgaf if you agree or not. Men like to play around with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:21 PM
2

She’s an anomaly. The majority of mass shooters and violent people are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:05 PM
0

Or maybe because incels aka red pill men are potentially dangerous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:03 PM
1

If your choice of action is kissing either a man or a woman, you’re indeed asking if I would be willing to partake in lesbian/bisexual behavior. Cut the bs. You know exactly what you’re doing. Of course anyone is “free” to do anything. But a man would never question another man if he would kiss an. Attractive man. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:00 PM
1

The thread is weird because you’re basically asking me if I would turn bisexual if I only had an ugly man to kiss on. My answer is neither. No one would ever ask a man this question so I’m not sure why men they can do this shit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:30 PM
4

This is a lot. First things first, don’t ever touch skin bleach. The women who told you to do that are horrible people. There are a ton of women who actually prefer dark skin over light skin. Why get rid of something so beautiful? You should be focused on losing weight. Have you looked at any of the weight loss subs on here? You’re not losing weight because a starvation diet isn’t sustainable. I would hold off on everything else and focus on weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:27 PM
2

Some girls are just not smart. Ask an intelligent woman or someone who works in the beauty industry. It’s not about their preference, it’s about what looks best on you. If I prefer a clean shaven look but the beard looks better, I’m going to tell you to keep the beard. Anyone telling you to get a dad bod is an idiot. An in shape man always looks better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:21 PM
1

There is no benefit to dating a broke man. Broke men with no money can barely take care of themselves. He can’t support me or potentially a future family. It’s a no on my end. You should be financially stable before dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:12 PM
-1

How? Are you leading with sex while dating? If so, there goes your problem right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:07 PM
-1

I’m not promiscuous but this isn’t true. Women can’t stand being in competition with other women. The fact that you have no baggage is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:53 PM
2

Try it. They have better morals, take education and work seriously, are family oriented etc. I could keep going and going honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:51 PM
3

Why should I even expect a guy I’m dating to try and shit on me? If a red pill man follows the rules and your little handbook you will be treated poorly. Nothing about that lifestyle is designed to keep a woman happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:48 PM
1

But it does make a man better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:44 PM
2

This is false. Women do value a man that does chores and work around the house. Just like men value women who do the same. It sounds like you’re frustrated because women would also like them to be attractive on top of that. Men should really stop trying to shame women into dropping their standards for looks. Men have theirs and we are allowed to have ours too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:43 PM
1

Get a non-American man. One that is first or second generation. I’m not talking about that passport bro weirdo stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:38 PM
9

Who is fucking red pill guys. The ones who go around identifying as red pill usually don’t get sex. They’re losers voicing their frustration about women and bold enough to do it in person. Like I give af as a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:35 PM
5

Most red pill men I meet in person are not the bad boy type. They’re just assholes or losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:30 PM
7

Fuck boy Chads are naturals when it comes to being misogynistic. All attractive men are not smashing and dashing on women. Some were raised right and so used to getting women that treating women in that manner is below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:27 PM
2

They bring absolutely nothing to the table but mental and probably physical abuse. Oh, and bad sex. An all around lose/lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:14 PM
–

I was abstinent for over a year and was happy. This was by choice btw. You’re trying to justify rape which is sick. I’ve lost respect for your entire post/argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:10 PM
–

You’re not entitled to sex. That statement is true. Sex is also needed to live a healthy life. Two things can be true at once. Just because you “need” something doesn’t mean you are entitled to it. The homeless exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:05 PM
1

I get number 2 but don’t necessarily agree with it. Bec women do wisen up and start dating smarter. I don’t know what status you are but I’m assuming you think very highly of yourself. No comment with #9
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:46 PM
1

What do you want her to pay for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:43 PM
5

You can usually tell because men don’t ask direct questions associated with the conversation and they aren’t really into it. Someone I dated used to do it and it was obvious he didn’t care to speak to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:42 PM
4

They usually turn into baby mamas after a while but yes they can be a category.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:39 PM
1

Women do not make the decision to marry. That is a man’s job. Men gatekeep marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:53 AM
4

As someone who isn’t photogenic and looks 10x better in person, it has benefited me for sure. I just don’t take good photos. It has nothing to do with trying to deceive anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:33 PM
-1

Yet we still can’t demand the most valuable thing men control. Marriage! So who gives af about these superficial advantages when we don’t even have the real advantage that matters the most in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:29 PM
1

What do you mean? What’s your specific question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:10 AM
6

So do men. Men also have standards for beauty. Not sure what forgiveness you’re referring too. Women marry for stability, not looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:58 PM
1

Women do talk about men’s looks like that but we don’t care as long as we’re treated well and happy. That’s the difference. The women who are super picky about men being over 6 ft or no relationship are in the minority. Women who are super picky about looks are always single anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:54 PM
1

She’s not working. I stated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:44 PM
2

A single woman with no kids can afford a soft life with the right income. Can a man provide it? Hell yeah. He just has to have the funds. My friend is currently not working due to personal reasons and her bf is taking care of a lot of her expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:02 PM
1

You shouldn’t. U don’t have the resources to provide the lifestyle for a woman of that caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:58 PM
1

I’m okay with average men. I think my bf is average looks wise and I’m fine with that. Can I get a better looking man? Yes, but does he make as much as my man? Does he treat me better? Does he want to commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:54 PM
2

Many of them don’t but I can say the same about average or even ugly girls. All women have their problems. Now the issue with skinny women is they get away with their problems while the average and ugly girls don’t. They have no accountability because no one holds them accountable. Now all pretty women don’t behave like this. I know some that have it together. Like I said before, ugly women have problems too. You left one category out. The ones who are boring and have no personality because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:25 PM
2

So here’s the thing. I get this too. Pretty women come with a lot of maintenance and they can be problematic. But the ones who have it together are getting chose with no problem and have a ton of options. They’re the top pick for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:56 AM
3

It makes absolutely no sense. I’m not sure why TRP continues to push this narrative. I think it’s to get educated women to “settle” for men who don’t meet their standards and deter other women from having a lucrative career.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:34 AM
3

This is false. Successful men love successful women. That’s why most doctors tend to marry other doctors. The only people that look down on hard working women are red pill losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:26 AM
1

They aren’t decent men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:48 AM
2

Let me reword that. If the Instagram model was never an Instagram model and a corporate working girl she would still be more desired over the cute girl. IG models only get slack because of their career choice. That’s the only reason men deem them as damaged goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:31 AM
3

But understand that the Instagram model only gets slack because of their profession. If they revamp themselves into corporate women or something of that nature, they would be more desired than the cute chick still.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:20 AM
9

The subject doesn’t get talked about enough but the number of men that have openly admitted to wanting a woman their friends would also find attractive is eye opening. It’s also a very weird place for me to be in since my look is non traditional. Some will love it, some won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:12 AM
5

You’re only labeling Summer the sexy one because she dresses slutty. If she covered up 90% of the time she would have a girl next door look just like Ana. Like I said, it’s not a good comparison because both women are equally attractive. One just shows more skin than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:54 AM
8

I do think people marry their equals. But I guess my point is men are not chasing around 4/10 for relationships or marriage. Saying they can get “decent men” is questionable. I only know one unattractive married woman and the husband always struggled financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:51 AM
3

That might be the case but judging from what I see, men don’t find 4/10 women desirable. They aren’t rushing to get with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:43 AM
9

What’s the opposite of Chad again? He’s not rushing to marry a 4/10 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:41 AM
8

Absolutely. I’m only speaking on looks and not careers of course. But Summer just has the better body. They’re both facially on the same level. Idk if those women were good to compare/contrast because they’re on par looks wise in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:38 AM
9

If this were true, there would be a lot more happily married women walking around. Men are not rushing to marry a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:31 AM
12

They won’t pick the extremely attractive girl because they can’t get her. If they could, they would be with her. They’re with the cute girl instead because that’s what they can get. The men that can get the extremely attractive women WILL marry them if they’re a match period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:10 AM
2

Because he has enough money. He might not have as much disposable money as before but he’s not poor. I once had a guy that didn’t make much spend his last on me. I actually would categorize him in the working class category. He didn’t make much at all and still spent money on me all the time. It’s also the little things that count. He doesn’t have to splurge to make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:06 AM
4

This isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:57 PM
8

It’s not talked about a lot in here because most of the men are not concerned with marriage. They are indulging in red pill content trying to figure out different ways to get laid. They’re not even close to “settling down” lol. Now that we’re passed that, this sub is the only place where I have heard the narrative that men desire to marry less attractive women. That’s simply not true. Both men and women “settle” but most at least try or attempt to find an attractive partner that meets their stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:54 PM
2

It’s more resentment than jealousy. Especially since he wasn’t even seriously dating some of these girls he was spending money on. It does make me feel some type of way and question his true feelings about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:24 PM
3

No man has ever been as asshole to me and I said to myself “Wow can’t wait to go out with him!”. I have blocked a bunch of guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:27 PM
2

The relationship is already chaotic because he started an intense new job and I’m working two jobs. We’re both rolling with the punches. Life is not always easy. Relationships are not always easy. I say that to say, he might’ve done things for other women because he had more money and time back then. We’re in this for the long term. Things will change, and if they don’t I’ll leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:10 PM
3

You won’t. I’m actually considering breaking up with my bf because of his asshole attitude. It’s not attractive and shows that you have questionable character. Before you ask, he was not an asshole towards me. I’m noticing him having that attitude towards other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:55 PM
-6

That’s false. You’re basically saying you’ll have better luck being an asshole than a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:35 PM
2

A lot of women are insecure but there are some that will check this behavior and happily block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:32 PM
0

I actually do everything you mentioned to men but for different reasons. I might “neg” a man if I’m unsure about him and want to say a question or comment as a joke to see how he responds. I don’t text back right away to new men because I don’t want them to feel or think that they have access to me all the time. But just a quick reminder to both sexes that you’re still in competition at the end of the day. Don’t ruin a potential relationship with the silly games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:30 PM
12

Everything you just mentioned would push me away, not make me want you more. These tactics only work on extremely insecure women. You ignore me, I’ll find someone else that will entertain me. Did you forget you’re competing with other men here? If you “joke” about my appearance I’ll just go call someone who actually appreciates me. I can’t stand a man with a bad attitude with horrible jokes. You can’t pretend to “love” someone. You can pretend to like them. The naive ones will fall for it and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:06 PM
1

Get help. You need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:41 PM
1

What a slap in the face to your alleged “millionaire black mother” for you to be online and most likely real life around your loser friends saying such disgusting things about black women. I’m sure she is already ashamed of you. So there’s no need for me to say “she should be ashamed”. You’re clearly a black man dealing with mental illness that goes untreated because you’re too much of a punk and too prideful to get help. You most definitely don’t have luck with women. You’re just another self h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:38 PM
1

We are not the poorest group. You’re just spewing things you hear broke ass broken men say online because you hate black women and that’s not my problem. While you’re hating black women you could be reading a book to get an education, encouraging your friends to get out the street and make something of themselves, or certifications to get better jobs. Yet, here you are on reddit arguing with women lmao. Black men are their own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:54 PM
3

I’ll speak from a different POV because I’m sort of going through this now. If you’re in an unstable relationship, you will feel some type of way about it. You’re having problems and finding things out about his past relationships. Wondering why you aren’t getting the same treatment. Then you start to wonder if you would be happier if you got those perks. Of course then some insecurity or anger might kick in when you realize you’re being treated differently. If you are happy with how things are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:35 PM
1

This is ignorant as fuck. I won’t dissect everything you wrote because the entire post is a mess but let’s make one thing clear. Black women are the most educated group of women in the country. Which debunks your bullshit “fucking all day” nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:09 PM
3

Have you seen some of the post on here? Some of the men do want virgins because they don’t want to be compared to other men. They’re insecure af. Unless you’re basically calling them liars which isn’t that far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:34 AM
0

That’s what you got from his post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:20 PM
1

No, you cannot. I didn’t know how important vegetables were at 6 years old. Most 6 year olds don’t. I ate whatever was given and prepared for me like most children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:09 PM
2

Not as a child you don’t. I didn’t buy food, prepare food, cook, get groceries etc. That’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:29 PM
2

I did read that wrong but I disagree with this as well. I’ve had men I seriously dated ask me to have their children. Some men are just attracted to bigger women. If everyone is happy and healthy most men aren’t worried. And of course, you can also lose weight. Fat people don’t have to be fat forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:44 PM
1

This is an assumption and a false one. Everyone’s situation is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:28 PM
3

I don’t think a lot of people realize that people that became fat during childhood never got a choice. I never got to choose what I wanted my body to look like. I was fed whatever and weight was gained. Children that are victims of childhood obesity were never given a choice to “stay fit”. We were never fit to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:25 PM
1

It actually wasn’t as I’ve been fat since my childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:22 PM
3

I don’t think he’s trying to make it cool but just stating reality. Most people are fat and will date fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:21 PM
4

I’m not okay with being fat which is why I go to the gym and eat healthy. Do I not deserve to date or to be live because I’m on a weight loss journey? I also heavily disagree with you. I’m overweight from my childhood. I don’t even know wtf being at a healthy weight feels like. Does that mean I don’t care about the people around me? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:20 PM
1

If they aren’t ALL obese then why are you avoiding dating black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:16 PM
2

This is not true. Most women date around their age rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:13 PM
1

Wow. I can’t take this thread seriously anymore. All black women are not obese. Out of my friend group I’m the only overweight one. I’m talking about all cultures as well. Let’s not politic the diaspora in this. You dated other African woman because you wanted to and because you’re in close proximity to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:08 PM
2

Do you live in the Deep South?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:04 PM
1

Elaborate then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:01 PM
9

Fat men don’t approach me. I think it’s a self esteem issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:55 PM
16

The slim women don’t want them. They have to compete with younger, hotter, and richer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:54 PM
2

So you believe women who don’t want children treat their partners like children instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:51 PM
3

Is she scared of giving birth or child free? Not wanting kids means no adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:49 PM
3

You’re chasing after women who aren’t interested in you. The women you don’t find attractive are most likely on your level looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:44 PM
1

I don’t dislike it but don’t like it either. I’m doing the change for me. But getting the last laugh in the end will make me feel better about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:47 AM
2

I want them to see me happy and successful with someone else. Especially after I fix what they dislike about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:00 AM
10

I hope you didn’t give home the time of day after he rejected that STI test. He sounds like a stupid red pill supporter. They’re weird in real life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:10 PM
1

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:08 PM
1

You have to be more specific. Pretty women usually require more money as they expect a certain lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:38 PM
1

It depends. What type of woman are we talking about? A girlfriend, high value woman, or just someone you’re messing around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:33 PM
1

It’s weird. Body dysmorphia is rubbing off on men to but in a weird way. They can’t tell how much anyone weighs or recognize a surgery body when they see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:30 PM
0

I only know one man that consumes red pill content heavily that successfully gets women. It has nothing to do with the content as he’s always been successful business wise. His income attracts women. He’s also very attractive. But deep down inside, he’s not happy. He’s opened up to me before about certain aspects of his life and he’s not happy being alone or spending money on hoes. The small percentage of red pill men that have the looks or money are still not happy in life even when they get ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:36 PM
7

It’s not a flex. A question was asked and I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:25 PM
2

Women mess with low value men because they’re either low value themselves or can’t get a high value man to seriously date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:24 PM
2

You were pretty specific about HVM but okay lol. I don’t think women are concerned with getting cut off by low value men unless they’re also low themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:16 PM
3

But the thread title also says fucked zoned by HVM. You discuss it in your post as well. I can’t relate to the other part of your question. I don’t date or smash low value men. I can only speak on my relationship with high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:01 PM
1

Damn mine is 0.81%. All I’ll say is I’ve been extremely lucky and there’s a reason I won’t relocate anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:52 PM
4

I keep telling men that most of the women they lust after are probably 170+.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:40 PM
4

If he’s truly a high value man, why would you want to cut contact? True high value men have resources and connections. If they don’t desire to have a relationship, that’s just fine. I’ll keep you at arms reach for networking purposes. Also, I know why some high value men reject me. The problem can be fixed. I want them to see my upgraded life soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:33 PM
20

Women cheat at the same rate. We just don’t get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:25 PM
1

I thought about it but was too scared. The crime in Mexico is unpredictable. I only wanted to stay for about a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:24 PM
2

Well you’re doing everything correctly. I’m happy you have enough money to take care of your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:21 PM
2

She’s a lucky woman. This is why women are taught to marry well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:48 PM
1

How much has your business increased within the last few years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:47 PM
1

Interesting. I didn’t know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:46 PM
2

Are you saving for her retirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:43 PM
1

It’s not that serious. You’ll either be rejected or accepted. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:21 PM
1

I can read perfectly fine. You believe white collar women are hardcore feminists and they’re just as bad if not worse than “the ratchet ones”. I have no clue wtf you mean by “expect given their attractiveness”. Maybe you can elaborate on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:16 PM
1

But why are women forced to become independent? Men aren’t marrying at the same rate. The marriage rates are dropping more than ever. Women don’t have a choice but to be independent. Would you like us to be homeless? A man has to make enough money to take care of 2-3 other people not including himself. That’s extremely difficult in this economy. Most men aren’t making that kind of money. You’re blaming inflation and the state of the economy on women and it’s not our fault. Find someone else to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:57 PM
1

It’s not always easy for women to find boyfriend’s. That’s not true at all. A bunch of women wouldn’t be single if it were so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:51 PM
1

Not at all. It never truly feels like we’re single. There’s always someone to spend time with of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:49 PM
1

Men don’t want to get married to every woman they have sex with. That’s what you’re basically saying here. You don’t have to tell me how to date. I’m good on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:43 PM
0

There are still millions of women who desire to marry. “A lot” is a stretch by a lot. I hear women talk about not having children but I haven’t heard conversations about not marrying. Most women don’t like being alone but they’re willing to be alone if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:40 PM
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It might be a personality issue then. Maybe you have something else going on. A guy who is a true 8 and a millionaire shouldn’t have trouble getting women anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:38 PM
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Well for one, women who do that are in the minority by a lot. Secondly, they probably don’t consider it sex tourism because it isn’t. They’re not paying to have sex with men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:36 PM
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You want desirable looking women but consider them superficial? If you’re willing to move to a different country for looks you’re just as superficial as the people you are talking about. The only difference is they can afford it and the passport bros can’t. Well, there’s more to the passport bros but you get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:33 PM
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More options for sex, not more options for men that want to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:08 AM
1

No, I’m talking for young women because women outnumber men by a lot. Statistically, there won’t be enough men for women. There’s not a passport babe movement because women don’t usually participate in sex tourism. At least not younger women. We would rather be alone honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:07 AM
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No but I’m active.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:07 AM
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Or meet foreign women already in the US. They probably aren’t dirt poor and might be a little westernized though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:06 PM
2

I do believe everyone deserves to find true love but statistically speaking, specifically for women, that might not happen. Now that I think about it, women should be the main ones with a passport babes movement lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:04 PM
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It’s not a fact. Go visit Miami, NYC, and LA. You won’t run into those problems there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:57 PM
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America is huge. You’re in the wrong city. The problem with this scenario is you probably can’t afford Miami or LA. You most likely can’t afford those women or the lifestyle for that matter either. It’s also a financial problem for the passport bros, not just a physical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:56 PM
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It has nothing to do with comfortability and everything to do with desirability. If they were considered desirable in the US, financially and physically, they wouldn’t be going to different countries at all. Like you said, they’re below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:52 PM
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A bum that makes 140k and works 10 hour days? He doesn’t have time to clean the house, cook dinner, or clean up for that matter. You’re extremely blind to the reality of homes where both parents work full time jobs. Women end up doing the majority of the child rearing and housework along with working 8+ hours a day. That isn’t easy nor is it fair. The only one who needs a reality check is you lol. I grew up in this environment and know what it’s like first hand. How about yourself? I’m curious b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:41 PM
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So your answer is men go throughout life thinking about how to please and attract women? Because that’s basically what you wrote. Please save it with the woe is me crap. I’m a black woman. My privileges are extremely slim in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:32 PM
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Do you mean that you disagree? It’s hard to be a wife when you have to work 9 hour days and take care of the entire household. That’s not an easy job. Women don’t even want the weddings anymore. None of it is worth it to then. Not even the elaborate weddings you probably can’t pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:14 PM
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I doubt that will happen. But we might have a workforce or economy issue in 20-40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:09 PM
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What do the majority of men go through life thinking about? The fact that you like watching women get “humbled” speaks to your character. That’s all I’ll say about that for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:05 PM
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Women are choosing not to procreate for good reasons. That’s my only response to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:49 PM
0

They’re actually fucking the minds of innocent men up for a paycheck and for their own personal egos of course. The majority of women are not misandrist and delusional. Their podcast is an inaccurate portrayal of the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:46 PM
6

The birth rate being down is more complex than just birth control usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:33 PM
1

Biden created an additional plan for families called the American Families Plan. He wants to bring it back. They obviously accomplished what they wanted. https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2021/04/28/fact-sheet-the-american-families-plan/ https://fortune.com/2023/02/08/biden-sotu-bring-back-expanded-child-tax-credit/amp/ Has it moved the needle in Japan significantly? Because I hear they’re still having major issues when it comes to child birth. The fact of the matter i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:09 PM
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Um they already do. Biden has given tons of family tax credits and incentives. Look it up. We will never be the UK, Hungary, or Japan as we have a capitalist society. The reason Roe v. Wade was overturned was complete bullshit. They need more women to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:44 PM
1

I’ve never understood this topic because my libido has been higher than every guy I dated. Maybe the girl you’re seeing just doesn’t like having sex with you. That’s the only time I didn’t have the urge to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:39 PM
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The birth rate is down. If more men are alone and not dating, you’re probably not getting anyone pregnant. The government is all about their money. They wouldn’t care about this issue if it wasn’t for the lack of child birth. They need you and your children to fuel the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:30 PM
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Y’all keep posting these women and just proving my point. They don’t have a lot of educated women on their podcast a lot. So when they do, they make them into a video headline. Most of the women are dense hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:38 PM
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They put women who suck dick on only fans for a living on the podcast and not college educated women with lucrative careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:35 PM
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Here you go. You can read about it. More women are going to college while men are going less. “men represent only 40% of college students in 2020-2021. This has been happening for years; in the last five years, men have accounted for more than 70% of the decrease in students entering US universities.” https://observatory.tec.mx/edu-news/women-dominate-american-universities/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:45 PM
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What does money have to do with it? I brought up an PHD candidate because I’m positive they have better morals and character than a bitch sucking dick on Onlyfans. Most people period don’t have a PHD. That was an example. Why are you acting like it’s unrealistic for women to earn them though? Strange. I also specifically said PHD candidate. Do you know what that means? You only need a bachelors degree for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:41 PM
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The majority of women do have lucrative careers. What are you talking about? Women outnumber men in college by a lot. Yet, they bring out a bunch of Onlyfans girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:35 PM
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So your claim is that educated white collar women are all ratchet and feminist? And are worse than the slutty dumb women? Are you standing behind this claim before I give you a response?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:30 PM
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This is true. His post was a lot to unpack lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:25 PM
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You’re missing my point but pointed out the obvious at the same time. Why do they only want delusional misandrist women on their podcast?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:23 PM
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Who told you this lie? The majority of women who are single aren’t even having sex according to studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:15 PM
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What was confusing about this? Please let me know. I’m curious. “I couldn’t tell until the response but I should’ve known because most men aren’t honest about chasing women who don’t want them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:13 PM
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What does that have to do with them wifing hoes? You just made it worse by adding that they are also cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:08 PM
1

If they had more serious conversations and weren’t out to demean women, more educated guest would come in there. They don’t want to be associated with them for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:07 PM
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It’s believable. My whole point is those women are rare. They’re not making appearances every episode. The main women on the podcast are drunk hoes and college girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:54 AM
1

Oh okay. I didn’t understand what you were trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:44 AM
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He claimed her as his girl lmao. They wife hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:43 AM
1

How about bring women that have been out of school for at least 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:42 AM
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I’m talking about someone that will actually be able to challenge their misogynist views successfully. Not a woman that wants to have a few drinks and talk about her partners or who she wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:57 PM
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The overall podcast is extremely lax and all over the place for a reason. It’s not serious at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:53 PM
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Yes! Thank you for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:50 PM
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I read the comments and video title for context. I’m good over here. Thanks for checking on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:49 PM
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If they’re still single I don’t see a problem with it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:05 PM
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You complicated things by bringing up marriage. There are investigators that can find out if someone is hiding cash because a lot of well off men do that during divorces. Sorry, I can’t think of the name right now. But if you’re hiding money during a legal dispute where you will most likely be paying up, it can potentially be found. Now it looks bad that you were dishonest about your finances in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:02 PM
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Some of them do wait around. There are men that try to date me and are still there after my breakups lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:57 PM
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I have a steve. He’s not cute enough, doesn’t match my salary, and I heard the sex was bad. The other is standoffish sometimes and I’m not into that. We have different views too. Idk if I would be happy with him. I have a third too but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:48 PM
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I have watched clips of their show before. I’m not clueless about who they are, things they discuss, or the women they have on the show. No, I wont contribute to their income and watch their show. I know enough about them already. I asked about what educated women are on their show and one woman was posted lmao. Conversation over. I got my answer already and I already knew what it was going to be. Most of the girls on the show are not career going women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:30 PM
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But the majority of them are not women with PHD’s and lucrative careers. Let’s be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:20 PM
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But they still have to get chosen so what the fuck are you talking about? Someone’s ugly aunty can’t just volunteer and end up on the show because she won’t be chosen to participate in the first place. You’re obviously a red pill Fresh and Fit fan and I know your type very well. ThAtS nOt FaLsE. Yes, the fuck it is. But you wouldn’t know that would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:07 PM
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I’m not giving them views and one dumb educated women doesn’t represent the collective. Judging by the comments she was giving her own personal opinion on things. That means nothing. You found one educated woman. Congrats. What about the Onlyfans girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:02 PM
1

Then why did one of the guys date a girl off of only fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:00 PM
1

What does worse than white girls mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:58 PM
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I’m not sure if y’all are being obtuse or completely missing the point. They’re purposely choosing these type of women to embarrass themselves for content and to push a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:57 PM
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There are many educational institutions in the Miami area. They are purposefully not choosing those type of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:55 PM
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But they’re choosing certain types of women and they know this. They want the ones that will embarrass themselves because it makes for good content and pushes their false narrative. Why would they have PHD candidates on their that would challenge their opinion and make them look stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:54 PM
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They’re trying to embarrass them for content and push a false narrative to men. That all women are slutty dumb users. You don’t see doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, or engineers on the podcast for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:48 PM
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My aunt drives a Porsche and she’s not rich. Actually, quite a few of my relatives drive expensive cars and I wouldn’t put them in the rich category. Upper middle class maybe but not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:44 PM
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He’s complaining whether he wants to admit it or not. That’s why he’s in this thread hyping up women living in Thailand saying they understand the value of a dollar compared to women in the US. None of the things mentioned in his post are positive compliments about these women other than their looks. He mentioned his car to paint a picture that he is living a certain lifestyle. Driving a 120k is for sure flaunting your wealth. I think he knows this and enjoys it. I’m not stopping him. He has the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:24 PM
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I never said broke people could afford hyper expensive cars. I said it doesn’t automatically make you rich. What do you not get about that? And I pay close to $600 monthly with excellent credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:17 PM
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Are you okay with spending this amount of money on dates? It just sounds like you’re uncomfortable with it but if it doesn’t bother you, do your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:03 PM
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It was self explanatory. I couldn’t tell if she was a male or woman. What’s confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:00 PM
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When I bought my Mercedes it was the same exact process and the car was far from 200k. I think we are all adults here and know how car buying works. A 120k car financed still doesn’t automatically make you rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:48 PM
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This isn’t true. Most women go on vacation strictly to vacation. The women that are hoes in their hometown will also be hoes in Miami too. That’s who they are. My travel group is true reflection of that. The only ones who sleep around also sleep around back home. Nothing changed but the environment. The rest of us aren’t hoes. We have a certain set of standards that won’t change no matter what. It doesn’t matter the city or situation, I’m sticking to my morals. A city shouldn’t change that. Do I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:42 PM
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I’m so sick of addressing this. If rape is heavily unreported there’s no way of knowing a true number of women that have aborted due to rape. Stop down playing rape abortions to push a narrative. Every woman I know that has been raped never reported that shit out of fear. How the hell would you know whose birth control failed? How would you know whose in an abusive relationship? You don’t. So stop coming up with made up numbers and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:35 PM
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I couldn’t tell until the response but I should’ve known because most men aren’t honest about chasing women who don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:14 AM
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So are you happy dating these women because you don’t sound too thrilled to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:12 AM
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$100 isn’t a lot of money for a date. That’s literally $50 per person. Most Americans can’t afford to live on 35k. It might be the average income but all that means is most Americans are poor or working class. The average educated American with a decent paying salary can afford $100 a week for a date. You aren’t poor or working class so I’m not sure why you expect the women you date to have a low standard of living. The average salary of a college educated person is 80k. This is what you should …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:09 AM
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I’m happily in a relationship with a high value man. Idc about your unwarranted opinion. Did u get all that anger out of your system?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:03 AM
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You’re playing the victim and it’s not going to work with me. Not when I as a black person have literally seen other black people come from absolutely nothing with no privilege and make something of themselves. That included going to college broke af but they found a way to complete it. You stating that oppression doesn’t exist tells me all I need to know about you. You should’ve went to college lmao. I can’t help you. You have too many flaws in your argument but I’ll stop right here. Education …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:53 PM
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Going to college is shitting on poor people? I would like you to know that my poor black mother worked hard in high school to get scholarships and still had to work everyday to pay for college. My privilege is earned. My black parents busted their asses so I can attend the best schools districts and have my college tuition paid for. I’m not a privileged white girl. I’m a black girl that knows what struggle looks like. I’m lucky to have parents that could provide me with a better life. In what wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:55 PM
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Who cares if it’s paid for by your parents money? The important part is you completed your education. Why do you expect an 18 year old to have 100k+ for college? This sounds like a bunch of hatred and jealousy. A woman choosing a partner based on those things is called dating smart. Why would I start a family with a man who can barely afford children? I don’t want my kids living a hard life. I don’t want the role of a man. Not sure where you’re getting that from. Because I’m working? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:30 PM
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Are you a man? If so, it’s rare that men admit to doing this lol. Especially on here. That’s why there’s so much woman bashing these days. She doesn’t want me and I did everything for her, I spent so much money on her, I gave her half my paycheck and she still didn’t want me etc lol. Men enjoy chasing after what they can’t have. Then complain that they’re single and unhappy. It’s really weird these days. A guy just made a thread on this same topic lol. Spending a bunch of money on pretty girls t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:21 PM
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You summed this up pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:14 PM
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Why would having a decent amount of money not be a bare minimum? You want women to marry broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:10 PM
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Both can be true. A 120k car that you most likely financed doesn’t make you rich at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:03 PM
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Women in the US actually work hard for their money. They aren’t opening their legs to foreigners for a little bit of cash. Those women respect your American dollar and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:01 PM
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That’s exactly what he’s doing. Then complaining that the pretty girls don’t actually like him for him lol. He must be new to this lifestyle. I guess he’s learned his lesson now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:59 PM
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There’s old money everywhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:56 PM
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Driving a Porsche doesn’t equate to rich but they also aren’t working at Wendy’s either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:53 PM
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You must be running into stupid women or they’re playing dumb on purpose. When a guy tells me his salary sometimes I act shocked too lol. I’ve already looked up his LinkedIn profile and know how much he makes. Or you could be dating girls who don’t care as long as everything is paid for. They expect you to pay regardless no matter what the cost is. Those type’s usually aren’t taking you seriously. They’re aware of how much these dates cost and expect you to pay. Also, a $100 date isn’t expensive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:41 PM
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First off, the internet should not be teaching men how to have casual sex. You should be befriending positive people with healthy sex lives that can give you tips. Or you can learn by trial and error. The generation before you did so why can’t you? Unless you are a college student, casual sex should not be your main focus in life. Learn how to build meaningful relationships with women. A player is exactly what you’re describing. Someone who just wants to have casual sex with multiple different w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:20 PM
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When I discovered the red pill back in 2016-2017, it was hot garbage back then too. Yes some of it was self improvement but a lot of it is how to be a player, not how to become a good husband or boyfriend. That content is pushed to women all the time. How to be a good gf, wife, fiancé etc. How to get a man to propose. Even before the internet, popular women’s magazines were literally dedicated to how to please a man. Anything about men really. The same topics I just mentioned lol. It’s heavily p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:34 PM
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I think it’s a lot more than 10%. You have to think about the amount of pressure that gets put on women to be married and have children by a certain age. Men don’t deal with the same pressure or societal standards. YouTube is what’s getting the most views and has been for years. The main source for red pill content is youtube. It’s not for men looking for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:08 PM
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I don’t think this is true. There a books, groups, and other resources women turn to during the dating process. Women who are dating to marry take it very seriously. Theses women aren’t playing around. Men usually don’t do these things. Red pill content is garbage and not for men who want to be husbands. The average man is not focused on how to improve their dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:10 PM
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Men also don’t date logically a lot of times. There’s a trend of men chasing women who don’t want them at all. They know they don’t really want them but chase after them anyway. How about the men who date hoes because they have the look that they want. Both sexes make poor choices when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:07 PM
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I know. Which is why I don’t feel bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:23 PM
2

Maybe try a new hobby? Hiking or the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:40 PM
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There’s an entire female dating sub called Female Dating Strategies that all the men on here hate lol. Ironically, the OP is saying the same things mentioned on that sub when it comes to women dating like only going out with attractive millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:35 PM
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I’m not trying to get too personal but do you work full time? I’m exhausted after work to do anything. So is my bf. He has a PS5 and I’ve never even seen him play it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:27 PM
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Your plan for high value women is unrealistic. There are more educated high value women than men. There’s an overall imbalance in the dating world already as women outnumber men. It can get even worse depending on your race as well. Bottom line is women have less options than men. Add on these high requirements you’re mentioning and it’s even more slim. It’s not every day that you find a single multimillionaire looking to marry. It’s much easier to meet your very easy requirements for HVM than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:54 PM
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This is actually a great question. I never thought about this before. Im grossed out by the men choosing to stay single so they can sleep with multiple women weekly. I read your description and it kind of matches what I’m thinking about. I assume that they’re sleeping with a bunch of different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:27 PM
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If he likes, I love it. I’m happy for the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:22 PM
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Mid thirties isn’t that old. It’s actually relatively young. But the women you date aren’t taking you seriously. If you talk to them like how your post reads, they just want you for money. Even if you don’t, they still just want you for money. Yes, even at 35 years old. Those girls want someone their own age. The problem is they aren’t wealthy yet. If you’re okay with that situation, I don’t have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:17 PM
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You don’t carry and will never have that option. Be careful next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:07 PM
1

Prospects as far as what? A stepfather?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:59 PM
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By stupid people who lack education on pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:58 PM
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I live in a blue state and can go schedule one right now. Anything else? Roe v. Wade overturned only effects the poor or working class. That most likely procreated with other poor people that can’t pay for children. Doesn’t really help your argument but okay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:55 PM
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Why should I pay for men who don’t want to take responsibility for their children? That’s not the job of the collective. I’m willing to help people that actually need it. Not able bodied men who don’t want to take care of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:43 PM
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Name a country that does paper abortion for research purposes. Single mothers in the US already get a reasonable amount of money. Actually, the only people the government will put in real effort to save if you’re poor are single mothers. There’s a running joke for women that if you’re poor, just have a child. Because now the government will actually care and give you benefits. I’m black and would know as my community makes up 72% of OOW births. Most women I know or grew up with are single parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:34 PM
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The government is already paying millions of dollars to single mothers. I can think of 10 programs at the top of my head. Why the fuck should men get off on their responsibilities and put it on the government? You want the government to shell out MORE money so men can opt out of their responsibilities? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:33 PM
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And your paper abortion will never become a thing because the government isn’t stupid and thinks your argument is utterly ridiculous 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:30 PM
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Women who were raped “asked” for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:29 PM
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Whenever the men on here say this it just goes to show you don’t know much about pregnancy or procreation for that matter lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:28 PM
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Rape, medical problems, birth control failure, lethal pregnancies, women in abusive relationships etc. There are many reasons why women get abortions other than having unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:26 PM
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Or I recognize biology and understand that we all are fucking equal. We are different from a biological standpoint. You say “not fair”, I say that’s life. Life is not fair all the time. Go blame god. This is what a lot of women mean when they say the new generation of men want to be women badly. All this paper abortion talk has confirmed it for me. Older men took care of their responsibilities. They didn’t make excuses for their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:25 PM
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Because the government would end up paying instead of the men. The government is not responsible for paying for their children that they created. When single mothers apply for certain government benefits they ask if they’re receiving child support. If the answer is no, the government will go after the father for child support before they grant the mother anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:21 PM
-1

But did it pass? No lol. You can lobby for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:15 PM
1

I have a super high sex drive. I want it every night. Most men I date can’t keep up. Well, they can but they’re usually tired from work. I’ll wake up early for morning sex if that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:15 AM
2

I don’t care as long as it doesn’t become an addiction type of situation. It should be hobby you do in your free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:13 AM
2

Agreed but one is an emotional cunt and the other actually has some balls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:06 AM
2

That’s messed up. Can the men challenge it at least? What country is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:05 AM
5

You can have sex with a partner instead of random women. That way you two can discuss forms of BC the both of you will use and a plan just in case you have a pregnancy scare. You can also get a vasectomy if that’s not good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:25 PM
2

It depends on the position. Illogical people are usually not the ones to get promoted and they don’t make great leaders/bosses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:18 PM
2

The mother of your child would file and you would then receive the summon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:17 PM
11

Neither is birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:15 PM
3

What do you mean how? You can’t ignore a summon for court. You’ll get arrested and they’ll bring you to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:00 PM
9

I know. Condoms are the better option with strangers anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:59 PM
4

Family court can summon you to determine paternity and put you on child support. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:45 PM
2

Parenthood rights are to protect the child. Not the mother or father.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:43 PM
1

What is the collective and why should they be responsible for someone else’s mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:42 PM
1

You don’t have to “ask” for anything. You decided to have unprotected sex and create a child. You made your decision already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:40 PM
1

There is no such thing as paper abortion and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:35 PM
4

You can always freeze your sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:32 PM
6

It’s complete bs. Society should tell you this as women are moving up the corporate ladder and holding higher positions now more than ever. We also aren’t afraid of being alone. Trump was a lot more emotional and illogical than Hilary. He’s the perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:30 PM
1

This is ridiculous. You’re assuming every woman you sleep with is on the pill. Not a smart way for a man who doesn’t want kids to roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:16 PM
1

There is no way you can change that because (1) The government will never let you get out of paying for your child (2) You will never have autonomy over another person’s body. There’s an imbalance when it comes to last minute termination. You’re on an equal playing field when it comes to procreation. You still did it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:42 PM
1

It’s common for attractive men. I know a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:12 PM
1

I never said there wasn’t an imbalance. Life is not fair. Not everything is always equal. Women are the ones who carry and they will always have the last say so. You still made the decision to lay down and have a child regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:07 PM
1

Isn’t it women’s history month? When is international men’s day?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:42 PM
1

So you didn’t do the actual research and find this info. You’re relying on other people to do it for you. Which is why you’re so clueless when it comes to the topic. I genuinely have no idea of what you’re talking about. No one dropped a link about women getting pregnant by disposed condoms and you can’t even pull it up lmao. It doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:38 PM
1

Rape overall goes unreported. So what are you talking about? There is no separate column in the crime database for rapes that end up in pregnancy. The only women that would report a pregnancy from rape are the same ones that reported the actual rape. It makes no sense to do one and not the other. Therefore, the numbers are unreported because rape overall is unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:35 PM
1

I don’t see a link? Link where? A link about getting pregnant by disposed condoms? I don’t see one. I think it’s scary that you think this is a real thing. I’m not sure if you’re being genuine or not and I kind of think you are which is scary. The lack of sex education taught in schools really needs to be stepped up. I’m praying you’re a high school kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:15 PM
1

You should also quote the most important thing I said which is it goes UNREPORTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:10 PM
1

No, they already made the choice together when he got her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:09 PM
1

No, because it’s her womb and she has a right to make any last minute decisions when it comes to her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:33 PM
2

You’re moving the goal post discussing women that are rapist. The OP was not talking about women who violated or forced themselves onto men. I think we both know this. Stop attempting to shift the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:31 PM
1

I asked you to post statistics of men who got women pregnant by disposing condoms or not disposing them of course. I’m waiting. A sex ed class would really benefit the majority of men who are anti fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:29 PM
1

Are you saying women are unable to get pregnant by rape? Women bring it up a lot because it DOES happen at high numbers. More than you think and the statistics are unreported by a lot. It’s a fear that most women have because it’s very possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:26 PM
1

I didn’t even read both articles because I’m very aware that these situations are not common. I’m not saying they don’t matter, they’re rare and don’t accurately represent your argument. These are not the average men rallying to opt out of pregnancy. You can try to project all you want but we both know that these situations are rare. 98% of men who want to opt out of fatherhood are just irresponsible. They were not raped or trapped by anyone. You weaken your argument by bringing up these extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:13 PM
1

You are discussing unprotected sex or failed BC. How are you not? That’s the only way women get pregnant. You’re using the same weak arguments as the pro-lifers. It’s doesn’t matter how little it happens, women are still raped and end up pregnant, medical abortions still happen, birth control still fails. Add all three of those up and the numbers aren’t so little anymore. You’re looking at thousands of women who don’t have access to abortion. You brought up the anti-abortion argument and I state…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:06 PM
3

I have no clue what you’re even talking about. What does the pill have to do with what the OP said? Men who get vasectomies don’t want children at all. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:56 PM
1

You choose to have a child when you have unprotected sex. If you both agree to unprotected sex, you’re agreeing to become parents if that’s what the outcome is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:53 PM
2

That’s fine but don’t complain that no one is speaking on something that’s not the fucking topic at hand. Start a thread of female rapist and I’ll participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:50 PM
2

Wow. You’re really focused on the wrong things and it’s sad. You could actually be speaking on topics that actually matter. That semen snatching bullshit doesn’t exist. Stop bringing it up and pick up a biology/health book while your at it. That is not the only form of paternity fraud. You decide to use an example that doesn’t even occur lol. How old are you? No where in my post did I say women couldn’t opt out. I said you can’t. We are the ones carrying full term. Women rightfully deserve to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:47 PM
0

Is it outrage or are you really saying something sick that requires me to speak up and express my disdain for your comments? Aren’t you black? Didn’t your mother and grandmother tell you to get in the house when there’s a thunderstorm approaching? My grandmother wouldn’t even cut a tv on. You can use prevention for all the bullshit you are mentioning. That doesn’t exist during child birth. This conversation is so sick and pointless. Get a new argument and rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:36 PM
2

Because women are the ones carrying. Anything can happen. I don’t think men understand how serious childbirth is. You can literally die.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:30 PM
1

Why are you all bringing up rare and damn near impossible situations to prove your points? They do NOT represent the men petitioning to opt out of fatherhood. All you’re doing is weakening your argument. You’re talking about professional athletes that make millions of dollars. That is NOT the average man on the street. We are talking about a couple hundred people out of millions of men lol. Do you not understand how ridiculous that sounds? I also have a close friend who works with athletes and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:28 PM
1

You all have to use these drastic and rare examples because you have nothing else that makes logical sense. My question to you is why use these examples at all when they don’t represent 99% of men in these situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:17 PM
2

I’m criticizing your example because it doesn’t represent the majority of men who desire to opt out of fatherhood. You’re actually doing these men a disservice by using an unrealistic example. Even they know that this situation is not theirs and isn’t even close to it. Why not use an example that mirrors their experience more closely? Because you know that shit would make absolutely no fucking sense. So now you have to use damn near impossible examples like men who get vasectomies and use condom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:12 PM
1

I never said men should have absolutely no rights. I was responding to WHY there is an imbalance. It’s the woman who will have to carry for 9 months. She will have to give birth. Death is always on the table for childbirth and even afterwards when the child is born. If I’m the one carrying a child and my life is at risk, of course things will be more in my favor. This is honestly not a hard concept. To question why an imbalance exist in the first place is fucking crazy. Saying the black maternal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:05 PM
10

You all post drastic examples like this because that’s all you have. It’s damn near impossible to get a woman pregnant with a vasectomy on top of condom use. Most couples who make decisions like this are married. These accidental pregnancies that most men are having are with random women they’re having sex with. This obviously makes a difference as a married couple would most likely come up with a solution without anyone having to go cry to the government about their personal problems. The reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:53 PM
2

The Drake thing was made up. You lost the argument right there. I can’t even take the post seriously. You took a Twitter joke/rumor and are trying to make an argument out of it. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:43 PM
1

I’m black and we have the highest maternal death rate in the country. I take this subject very seriously. It isn’t always due to poor health care but racism in the medical field. No matter what race you are, comparing death during childbirth to getting murdered is not only disgusting but absolutely asinine. You can control one, you can’t control the other. Most people are not randomly murdered out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:40 PM
2

Unprotected sex isn’t the only reason why women get abortions. Your life or your child’s life could be at risk medically, you could’ve gotten raped, and birth control can fail. So the anti-abortion crowd loses with that argument every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:27 PM
2

Don’t sleep with a woman you’re not 100% sure you want as a mother of your child. Don’t get women pregnant if you don’t want a child. See how easy this can be reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:24 PM
3

They hate women so much that they just want to see them suffer. It doesn’t matter if it makes logical sense or not to them. The goal is to see women upset and take away any power they have in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:22 PM
3

I was okay with #2 until you brought up “semen snatching”. You’re going to lose every time you bring that nonsense up. You don’t get to opt out of your responsibilities because you don’t like the outcome. The government will now be raising your child instead of you and that should be your responsibility. The government isn’t paying for your kid when you’re able to provide for it on your own. Do you understand how the system even works lol? You want single mothers to receive less benefits when mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:19 PM
2

You make the decision to have a child the moment you have unprotected sex. Abortion isn’t birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:13 PM
3

No we aren’t. The CMV is challenging men who think they shouldn’t pay child support. It has nothing to do with female rapist that end up pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:10 PM
2

Have you ever asked yourself WHY there is an imbalance. It’s the woman that will be giving birth. Women die every year during childbirth. It’s something that could literally take your fucking life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:07 PM
2

Cool. Then don’t make comments about people being quiet about topics that aren’t the discussion. It takes away from the conversation at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:04 PM
6

Because it’s a female rape topic, not a child support topic. You should go start a thread on female rapist if that’s what you want to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:00 PM
6

You’re losing your argument by bringing up shit that doesn’t happen. What woman is digging in trash cans for condoms? You do know you have to have the proper tools to inseminate yourself. What woman has those laying around the house? Y’all really sound ridiculous saying shit like this. It doesn’t help your weak argument. It’s not shocking at all that you’re team deadbeat. Nothing you all say ever makes logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:58 AM
4

We don’t need to be told this because we’ll be the ones pregnant and carrying for 9 months. The responsibility is already on us before the baby is even born.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:53 AM
1

I’m saying the same exact thing about the men. There is no misogyny on my end. Both sexes need fucking help. You on the other hand, are filled with misogynistic views. No one signs up to get their ass beat by a man. You should go research DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:20 AM
1

Why do you think nothing has worked for you? There has to be a reason for this. You should’ve at least made one female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:17 AM
5

There is nothing misogynistic about stating women attracted to dysfunction are probably dealing with some type of trauma. I also believe the men who have 3 baby mamas are also dealing with some type of trauma. You have no clue what those women have been through in life. It’s ignorant to say they aren’t dealing with trauma because of your personally small minded view of them. Anyone attracted to a violent person that can harm them needs serious help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:16 AM
2

What are your interest outside of video games? Have you thought about doing community service work? Fundraising? Charity events? It doesn’t hurt to give back and be a good person. Plus it’s a tax write off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:52 AM
2

Have you thought about getting a new hobby? If you’re a gym going guy, maybe try a sport? Tennis is a good one if you want to mingle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:35 AM
3

One word; trauma. Those women are dealing with trauma and lack guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:23 AM
1

Is it a FAANG? Is your lifestyle high maintenance? Do you take women on expensive dates? I kind of get a feel of how much a man makes by his lifestyle and job title. Yes, dates matter but most men don’t feel like paying for pricey dates unless they’re trying to win you over or are making money in the high six figures range.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:21 AM
6

Is it well known that your job title makes a lot of money? Sometimes women don’t know. Everyone recognizes a doctor or lawyer salary but it’s not clear sometimes with certain job titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:10 AM
-1

Yes but they’re always in a relationship lol. Someone loves them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:56 AM
3

I’m okay with it because I believe it protects both parties. There’s an understanding upfront about assets and how things will be divided. Most importantly, I think it protects both parties from getting screwed over. The both of you can come up with a solution that doesn’t leave the other party in a homeless shelter while y’all are on good terms and don’t hate each others guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:36 AM
2

Red Pill leaders like Andrew Tate and KS are just opening up the eyes of women who had no idea some men had so many disgusting thoughts and views about women. A female friend of mine introduced me to the community years ago after going through a nasty breakup. She was terrified after watching some youtube videos and was even willing to forgive her ex just to not enter the dating world. That’s how shook she was. It’s scary how much it’s grown since then. This had to be around 2016-2017. It’s main…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:55 AM
9

This topic is played out. A 50 year old dating a 20 year old will always be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:29 PM
10

No, the article is saying there’s usually an age gap when remarrying, meaning they’re not on their first marriage. That’s not the same as saying older men go for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:27 PM
5

I’m fine with it as long as finances are taken care of. That’s not an easy job for a man. You would be taking care of 3-4 people by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:51 PM
4

I think attractive people enjoy being around other attractive people. Even though the girl might not be a 10, in his eyes she’s attractive enough to be friendly with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:45 PM
1

That’s platonic but doesn’t really count in my opinion. You all basically used to date and it didn’t work out. I’m talking about a friend that didn’t date me or have the desire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:42 PM
1

High school and it continued from there. It’s not as bad at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:40 PM
2

I’m 29 and both women and men used to mistake me being friendly as flirting. I’ve gotten so much hate from other women for just being my friendly extrovert self towards men. The men just don’t care about boundaries and want to see how far they can go with me. It’s less about friendliness and more about testing my limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:15 AM
1

I’m talking about strictly platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:11 AM
1

Yeah I’m not debating about this. Have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:21 AM
3

I’m not. The goal is not to have sex on trips. I want a legitimate break. It’s weird that men think like this. I think it’s because men often do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:06 AM
1

I would make time for my male friends too. I don’t have any to make time for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:09 AM
-1

It’s hard for me to build genuine friendships with men because they all want to sleep with me. The only ones I’m sort of friends with are my friends boyfriends or husbands. Of course I can’t get too close to them because of boundary issues. I wish I had more guy friends that just wanted me strictly as a friend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:17 PM
1

Well I admitted it happens but you have to take into account how many are in relationships, marriages, or just don’t participate in casual sex. I personally see it as a waste because it’s not like I’m going to see you ever again lol. The percentage of women who do it is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:15 PM
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My friends boyfriend has get togethers all the time and invites everyone. The superbowl party was at his house and everyone was invited. It included his guy friends, his female friends, his friends girlfriends etc. An all married friend group sounds like you all are mid 30’s and that’s probably not the best place to mingle. But the under 30 crowd shouldn’t have this issue. I don’t have this problem and I’m 29. I think you missed my point. Some men have genuine female friends and they’re usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:11 PM
3

Yeah they are. I take several girls trip a year with about 5-8 girls. Usually only one single girl finds someone attractive and has sex. The rest of us are chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:38 PM
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I’ve noticed that it’s harder for average or unattractive guys to have female friends in their friend group. I usually only see attractive men have a bunch of female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:33 PM
1

Because I desire marriage. Compromising and having a child is my best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:11 PM
1

Just to clarify, I’ve had long term relationships as well. I just have more short term vs long term. The reason for that is complicated. I do agree that has nothing to do with body count atp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:08 PM
1

What does she do for a living if you don’t mind me asking? You don’t meet too many wealthy 25 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:05 PM
1

If you’re trying to figure out the ratio in sexual partners, that’s a bit weird. That’s actually weird af. If the number is too high for you, just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:04 PM
2

I said I’d make a sacrifice meaning I’m taking an oath to take care of my child no matter what happens in life. Whatever the outcome of my future pregnancy is, I have already made the decision to do my duties no matter what. I think there’s so many fucked up parents out there because they’re selfish, didn’t give af about parenthood, or didn’t realize how difficult it was. My mindset is the complete opposite. I’m making sure my life is in the best position possible mentally, physically, financial…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:02 PM
1

If I thought that my body count was that bad, I would lie to everyone. So no, not necessarily. But it’s not lol. So I don’t lie to anyone. I’m very open about not participating in casual sex and my short term relationships. It’s only on reddit where people try to break down ratios according to short and long term relationships lol. When I’m sure most of the guys I’ve dated have a body counts triple mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:14 PM
1

I suppose that would keep a 25 year old around for a while. How much money do you give her monthly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:09 PM
5

I go to both cities yearly and I’m pretty. I’ve never had sex there so why does it matter? Also, what’s up with men thinking women are complete hoes on vacation. I just had this conversation with a guy. My goal on vacation isn’t to sleep around. I know some people do it but it’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:08 PM
-1

They aren’t. Good thing my man isn’t an incel and I can be honest with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:05 PM
0

I have little to no experience with children and it has never been a priority for me to procreate. If I can find a man that doesn’t want children, that would be the best situation for me. However, I’m willing to make sacrifices if my husband is also willing to do the same. I’ll have a child for my husband and even though motherhood isn’t appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:27 PM
1

Based on what I know about retirement, I would only classify you as rich if you have close to 10 million saved up. Especially since you retired so early. If not, you’re living a middle class retired life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:20 PM
1

A man 30+ doesn’t have much in common with a 21 year old. They can have a preference but who they choose to date and marry is someone around their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:15 PM
1

And this is why women lie about their sex partners lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:13 PM
1

Have you retired yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:53 PM
2

It’s been statistically proven that most women prefer to date around their age range. So dream on I guess. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it certainly isn’t the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:20 PM
-1

A lot of my relationships are short term and I don’t participate in casual sex. I would rather my relationships be short term than have casual sex partners. I had a goal, he had a goal. It didn’t work out. That’s life. My body count isn’t high but it consist mostly of short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:16 PM
1

Are you rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:13 PM
1

Or maybe he cheated and it’s his fucking fault lol. This post is gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:11 PM
2

The average 30 something year old guy looks his age if not older and is probably overweight. Make a fake dating profile and go see for yourself. I’m not saying the men you’re talking about don’t exist (my man could pass for 28), but they’re extremely rare. Now let’s discuss the optics of it all. Do you really want to date a 23 year old at 35? Most 30 somethings I know have a “please no games” policy towards other 30+ women. A lot of 20 somethings aren’t looking for anything serious. An older man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:05 PM
1

Most men that desire marriage and children in their 30’s usually rush more than the women when they find a partner that they love. It’s happened to me and all of my friends. If they’re serious about you, the marriage and kids talk will happen sooner than you think. Life waits for no one. They might not be the one popping the kid out but they also want the same thing as you and don’t want to wait 5 years for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:54 PM
1

Women in their 20’s also have at least one of those usually. Unless you’re a college student of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:50 PM
1

Have you thought about getting a hobby outside of the house that involves women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:45 PM
1

I’ve actually never given this advice to men before, only women. Let’s see. Look presentable and dress well. If you take pride in your appearance, you’ll naturally feel good about yourself and exude confidence. Be sure and concise of your decisions when you’re out. Have a game plan. If your goal is to party and buy everyone a round of shots, do it with no hesitation. See a cute girl at the bar? Buy her a drink and ask for her number. Maybe you just want to listen to music or dance. Just be confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:39 PM
3

Why would you even want to date a woman that lies to you? How do you know if she’s lying or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:30 PM
6

Same. I have friends that sleep around and then I have some that have been in relationships for years or have married. Not sure how my friends bodycounts and relationships reflect my sex life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:29 PM
12

Bingo. All these indirect questions are bullshit lol. A woman’s views about sex isn’t a direct indication of how many people she’s been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:26 PM
1

This just gives you her POV on sex. How can you formulate a bodycount number from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:21 PM
1

My longest relationship is 1.5 years Been single since January 2020 (covid fucked everything up)-I’m taken now but just playing it up for the question. I started taking apps seriously around 2019. I never met up with anyone until then. Guess my body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:19 PM
1

I feel like I do that with everything he says vs him telling me. I guess I’m just not used to dealing with someone so private and introverted as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:08 PM
2

How nice are you with using your sales skills in the dating world? I used to work in sales too. My current man is super private and it’s been hard to get him to open up. I usually can get anyone to open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:48 PM
2

I prefer men to be straight forward. I even put that on my dating profile. You won’t believe how many men are on there just to have someone to talk to because they’re lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:26 PM
1

This post is strange. As if men don’t cross those same boundaries lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:15 PM
2

Me too. But I believe some men have a natural aura about them. They aren’t purposely trying to get this attention but they naturally attract this kind of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:52 PM
1

All three for me but if I had to rank them it would be Wisdom, then status, and action last.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:50 PM
0

Girl you got it bad. Comparing going half on dates to Welfare lmao. Laugh of the day. Just because it’s considered a poor thing in the UK does not mean it’s a poor thing in the US. It’s actually a VERY poor thing for a man to do over here. Women of higher social classes aren’t arguing about going 50/50. The bill is already taken care of by the men. It’s not even a question or debate. Escorts get paid to go on dates by lonely men that cannot get beautiful women. It is literally a contractual agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:54 PM
1

There is no benefit. It’s only called a “hoe phase” because women eventually wake up and realize the men they’re sleeping with are POS. While men are allowed to be hoes there entire lives with no “phases”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:38 PM
1

Women weren’t property back then either. They had a role to play in society and women are still playing that role. Capitalism has shook things up and blurred the lines a little. Now women have to be workers and still take care of the household. If you’re paying attention, local lawmakers, politicians, and billionaires are deeply regretting some decisions. The birth rate keeps dropping lower and lower. It will continue to be that way if nothing is done to help women with work and childcare. Socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:31 PM
1

The thing is, you do more than feel desired. You can go reference your rape statistics. Women don’t want to sign up to get used as a sex doll and the ones who do are already approaching men. You can miss me with the race reference. I’m black lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:19 PM
0

I can lose weight and you’ll still be ugly 😊 We are not the same sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:41 PM
1

My friends don’t pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:31 PM
1

Passed around? I mention that I get courted and your consensus is that I’m passed around? Didn’t know women in relationships were hoes or prostitutes. Last time I checked, women who get passed around don’t get dates at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:27 PM
1

Do you know why the girl is almost always being asked out? Because of traditionalism in society. Women do not approach men or ask men out. If you ask someone out, it is your responsibility to pay period.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:25 PM
0

Last time I checked, an escort is someone that gets paid for having sex. I don’t fuck anyone I go out with. I’ve never pulled my wallet out when I’m out with a man. So yes, I feel sorry for you. It’s even more depressing that you’ve been conditioned to think only prostitutes have paid dates. Sad. Thank goodness I’m in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:22 PM
1

I don’t even recall what you said about fat people nor do I care lmao. I’m positive I look better than any girl you’ve ever dated despite my size. You would NEVER have a chance to even speak to me. I have never had a problem dating in my entire life and I damn sure ain’t a 5/10. All my men are high value. Can you you say the same about your women? lol nope. You’re angry on Reddit venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:16 PM
-1

A 7/10=70%. That is average. A 5/10= 50% is below average lmao. Sorry about your IQ. Enjoy dating other below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:23 PM
0

Why is that? It’s usually the opposite in the US. Why are middle class women paying for dates? I feel sorry for y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:22 PM
0

I never said shit about them paying for your dinner. That’s hilarious Lmao. You’re not properly courting a woman. The woman wears the pants in your relationship. She calls the shots. Makes decisions about where to eat and pays for her food. But y’all want submissive women? She’s leading you lmao. You’re not a leader. None of what you mentioned is a representation of a MAN that knows how to be a leader and good partner. I wouldn’t take you seriously at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:20 PM
1

Well they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:14 PM
2

I’ve been courted in all my relationships. I’m sorry you can’t relate. I date high quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:14 PM
-1

Average is a 7/10 lol but whatever makes you sleep at night. And yes, you should be dating other unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:13 PM
1

That’s what I cooked. I’m having steak tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:11 PM
1

One is African and the other is American.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:43 PM
-1

What claim is empty? You’re literally inviting someone you don’t know out to eat, picking the restaurant, and expecting them to pay. You sound like the entitled one. That’s rude af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:41 PM
1

Do you ask them or do they offer? My friends in the Caribbean don’t pay on dates either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:39 PM
-1

There’s also women that are above other levels of men and just don’t want to settle. I see it all the time actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:38 PM
2

Eggplant and rice. My bf is taking me to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:37 PM
0

I was just correcting his statement. It has nothing to do with levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:36 PM
1

They live in London. I’m American and have never paid for a date. I thought this was a world wide thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:19 PM
-3

It doesn’t have shit to entitlement. If you invite someone out, it’s your job to pay. Blame your parents for the bad manners. Your friends are not an accurate comparison. You’re asking a stranger to go out with you. You should pay period. You wanted her to come out with you and she agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:18 PM
2

Mmmm this food is good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:13 PM
0

If you invite me out, it’s your responsibility to pay. This is why I try to vet people before the date. You’re paying regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:09 PM
-4

This isn’t true. My UK friends are not going half on dates. There’s nothing narcissistic about wanting to be courted properly by a man. If you ask me out, it’s your responsibility to pay. The same goes for me when I invite people places. The tab is my responsibility. You have to have money to golddig and most American men are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:08 PM
-3

Correction. I would rather die alone than be with someone I don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:03 PM
-2

A 5/10 face? No offense but you’re unattractive. Being fit is great but you’re still considered unattractive. I’m not sure why this sub puts so much emphasis on weight when facial features matter the most. You should try meeting women on your level in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:00 PM
-5

Disagree. Women get told the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:09 PM
1

What insecurities? How are they projecting on them if their being ignored. Which one is it? Are they being entertained or ignored. You’re contradicting yourself. Men lack awareness. Know where you stand in the dating game and work with it. Instead you want these size 4 supermodel looking women that you’ll never have. You’re choosing to be alone. You don’t want the women on your level. Now women shouldn’t date attractive men lmao. Imagine me telling men they shouldn’t date attractive women. Y’all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:22 PM
2

What happened to men not caring how much a woman makes lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:50 AM
1

This makes no sense. If these men were so many leagues above them, then why wouldn’t they be with them? The fact is they are usually below them. Whether it’s looks, personality, income etc. They’re not above or equal. You can’t bully women into settling with these men. This isn’t narcissism either. Stop misusing serious terms. You mention men leading when most men don’t know how to lead these days lol. There so many female run households. Women don’t need a man to lead or be led.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:39 AM
6

No, more like if I don’t find the one I’m looking for I would rather be alone than be with someone I don’t truly like. It’s that simple. Not sure how that’s narcissism. Y’all love throwing around terms on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:40 PM
1

Highly desired doesnt mean you’re automatically high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:30 PM
2

It’s clear that you’re very young because I’ve heard men say much worse about their wives around other men. Not sure how marriage problems proves anything about toxic masculinity. Your theory doesn’t make sense. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 04:52 PM
10

The majority of women don’t do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:19 PM
-4

You’re still not making sense. Marriage isn’t a walk in the park. Both men and women vent to friends when things gets rough. Nothing you are mentioning proves anything. People have marriage problems. No shit. Chad is the enforcer of toxic masculinity. Trash women are just participants. That’s what you’re not getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:18 PM
7

You think women desire to have 5 bf’s at a time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:09 PM
-1

Your logic still makes no sense. People have been having sex before marriage for years now. Sex is not the culprit. All that shacking up bs does contribute to it which is why I’m against it. Why get married when your gf is already doing wife things around the house for you? There is no incentive. You’re sort of close, but definitely off here. The rise in housing prices and inflation has made couples move in together more frequently to split the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:14 PM
4

This sub is not a good reflection of what you’re talking about considering 90% of the threads are complaining about women but don’t want to take advice from actual women and call them liars. My culture is big on toxic masculinity and the main people that fuel that are other men. Don’t blame women because Chad put you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:09 PM
3

I’m also in a very bougie suburb and most middle class women don’t have a bunch of baby daddies or kids from previous relationships. They get married and start families here with their husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:05 PM
0

That doesn’t makes sense. You have to be in a relationship before marriage so they were already having sex. This isn’t the 1920’s. Women don’t usually marry as virgins. People have been having sex before marriage for a long time now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:01 PM
18

You lost me at polyamory. Most women are not poly or cool with being gf #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:59 PM
5

I agree. We really have to stop the narrative on here that skinny/not fat=attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:27 PM
6

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:25 PM
2

Men are called low value by women for their lack of resources. Men are shaming other men for not being able to sleep around and bang a bunch of women. Toxic masculinity is the reason. Don’t put that on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:23 PM
2

How can you say they don’t care when there are women of certain socioeconomic groups that do care? That was his point. It can’t be a generalization when it mostly applies to lower class women. Middle class and rich women do care who they procreate with and marriage is usually prioritized.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:19 PM
1

How do you know they don’t have any money? Where are the statistics? The single mom explosion correlates with the drop in marriage rates. If you aren’t married, you’re basically a single mom or on your way to become one. Men stopped proposing which is causing these baby mama crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:13 PM
5

This has been a thing long before dating apps. The popular guys in school always got their choice of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:10 PM
39

Statistically, women are having less sex. We’ve caught on to the top male bs and would rather not have sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:08 PM
6

Most of the single women I know are not having a bunch of sex just because they can. We are not our lives like sex in the city. That was fictional. Your post is funny because you completely demolish ugly women. How can you make this generalization and then say it doesn’t apply for a large group of women lol? All women are not good looking enough where they can just demand a relationship. Even pretty girls can’t do that. All good looking girls don’t have good personalities. Your generalization th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:26 AM
1

I listed many other undesirable traits and that’s the only one you pick out? OLD attracts a lot of introverted men that would never approach a woman in public. It’s not my type but there’s somebody for everyone. I was talking about men as a collective on OLD btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:27 AM
1

The ones with the terrible attitudes are definitely sociopaths. To take a girl out to dinner and be a smart mouth jerk, then expect sex is for sure sociopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:06 PM
1

I haven’t seen every woman so I wouldn’t know honestly. But the ones I’m around in public mess with attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 02:19 PM
1

Are you reading the articles you are citing u/smarmypapsmears The one about fat women is saying there’s no need to openly announce that you dislike fat women. Its basically fat shaming women for no reason. The article has nothing to do with why men should date fat women or why they are weak for not dating them. “But we both know this isn’t about “preferences.” You act as though hordes of fat women are breaking down your front door eager for a ride on the You Expressway. But let’s be honest: that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:21 AM
0

They aren’t getting dates either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:11 AM
1

Looks wise, I don’t have a problem attracting good looking men. Their personalities are garbage most of the time. I’d say 90% of men who use OLD are introverted, quiet, or awkward. I haven’t even talked about the ones who have trash attitudes yet. Finding an interesting and outgoing guy with the right intentions is damn near impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:07 AM
4

This is the only thing they stood out to me. Women with awareness know why attractive 35+ men are single with no kids. They’re choosing to be single and unmarried. It’s the biggest red flag for men in their 30’s for me. You should ask yourself if you think they care or do all these women lack awareness? They didn’t care about his Chad circumstance. The women just wanted to have sex with him. “Women never asked why such a good looking man in his late 30’s or early 40’s was never married or had ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 11:01 AM
2

Some of them do but they’re chasing after Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:42 AM
2

The Chads I know on Tinder are hooking up. I’m sure of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:27 AM
0

Then why do they put “not looking for anything serious” “friends with benefits” “Just looking for friends” in their bio? I can assure you that isn’t luring women in.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:25 AM
1

Why aren’t you getting dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 10:10 AM
1

You lowkey sound like me but I’m a woman. Truth is, you just become pickier as you get older. It’s even worse because people are more flawed as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:50 AM
1

Some of them are dumb enough to use apps lol. Even worse, a lot of them still sound like fuck boys with “Netflix and chill” and “Just looking for fun” in their bio. The good looking ones are like 10% out of the bunch. Not all of them are ugly. You can tell who keeps themselves up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:20 PM
1

I love this answer 💕I feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:35 AM
1

I’m exaggerating a bit lol. No one is perfect. But they have all of the qualities you want in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:01 AM
8

Yes, and it lowkey hurt but whatever lol. It just made me step my game up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:39 AM
7

I guess if you say so. I can’t tell you about your life. Regardless, you’re definitely an anomaly. Idk how old you are but a lot of men 35+ are not good looking. They look out of shape and aged.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:16 AM
2

You didn’t have the same experiences when you were younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:07 AM
4

Do you think it’s because you’re more experienced and confident? That can play a role in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:03 AM
6

It’s the same thing basically. You have always been attractive and kept your looks up. That doesn’t make you more attractive now necessarily. You just have a more mature look as you age.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:57 PM
1

No! I challenge everyone to go on any dating app and look at the 35+ men. They’re not as good looking as the 25+ men. Men would say the same about women too. It is what it is. Everyone ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:46 PM
14

If that’s you in your profile pic, you’re an anomaly. You have probably always been attractive and kept yourself up over the years. Other men that they’ve known for the same amount of time probably look like trash compared to you. So of course you’re going to stand out to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:44 PM
2

Women are also expected to provide things in a marriage. It’s a two way street. If marriage isn’t for you that’s fine but stop spreading this false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:40 PM
4

I don’t care what bullshit you’re posting from other men on Reddit of all places. A woman claiming you are husband material is the ultimate compliment and you should be flattered if it’s ever said to you. Stop trying to tell actually women with vagina’s what the fuck we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:26 PM
1

He’s telling the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:20 PM
1

It’s not a cultural difference. You’re correct and just debating with men who have no real life experience with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:20 PM
6

Those are all post by MEN. Not one woman describing what she considers husband material. Why don’t you ask women instead of assuming things that aren’t true? This thread is so weird 😂 It’s literally a bunch of men trying to tell women what they think. One big circle jerk of bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:06 PM
1

No No I’m not a man. Idk. A myth No Yes, some men are attracted to toxicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 06:04 PM
0

I don’t even know one honestly. The only one I can think of is a guy that is 40 and lonely. He does have a crazy baby mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:59 PM
5

I actually don’t understand that because it’s not true. It is some made up bullshit narrative that you and the op are running with. Go outside and touch grass. Maybe you’ll see what women really mean by husband material. I have never said it to ANYONE. I’m not responding to the last paragraph because it’s utter made up bullshit. I never said any of that. You will not put words in my mouth. You’re talking about knowledge of the opposite sex when women would never say this about “Marriage material…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:47 PM
1

Not true. She wouldn’t label the guy marriage material if she didn’t want to marry him lmao. What don’t y’all get about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:38 PM
2

It’s the same thing for a man. I’m not sure why you and the op are pushing this false narrative that it’s insulting. You should take it as the ultimate compliment if a woman calls you that. I have never even said it to any man I’ve dated because they weren’t deserving of the compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:21 PM
1

All this thread tells me is y’all don’t know wtf women mean when they describe a man as husband material. It is the ultimate compliment you can give a man. The shit I’m reading just shows y’all don’t know how women think or what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:18 PM
5

That is not what women are thinking when they say a man is husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:17 PM
2

If you were disrespecting yourself, that’s not a red pill issue. It was something you were dealing with internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:55 PM
14

A. I want to know right away. Idgaf about your extravagant date idea if you have kids. Save your money. I’m passing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:17 PM
2

You don’t go out of your way to please your girl friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:14 PM
0

Mmmm 90% of the post made by men on here are surrounded by TRP ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:13 PM
4

The majority of the comments are saying it’s anti-monogamy and I agree. The advice I usually hear are not for men who want long lasting stable marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:10 PM
1

No and they never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:09 PM
0

What makes you red pill in your relationship? In what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 02:07 PM
-3

So one guy out of the bunch. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 10:19 AM
0

Who said anything about ending things? We’re talking about basic dating. You’re not in love with anyone, you’re casually dating. Edit: You’re downvoting my post for telling the truth. Noted. Would you like to be lied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:33 AM
1

I don’t think women are oblivious. We know not all men are trash. Especially if you had great male role models in your life. But there are many men that you need to watch out for and move with caution. Women will never have a Red pill mindset. The majority are pick mes at heart and like male attention. That’s why there is no red pill version for women. Most misandry online is a response to TRP garbage lol. It’s not even a lot of women. I can’t take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:29 AM
1

We live in a work culture society. I live in a white collar city where “What do you do for a living” is a conversation starter. Not just for men you want to date but for everyone. Everyone ask the question to each other. It’s pretty normal where I live and work. I usually expect the question to be asked when I meet anyone no matter who they are. It’s extremely normalized. A woman wanting a household with steady income isn’t prostitution. I have to disagree with you there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:14 AM
1

I think this question is a little…naive? But I could be wrong. I remember watching a documentary and the topic was basically how much easier it is to have casual sex outside of the US. The women don’t take it as seriously as American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:09 AM
7

Isn’t TRP anti-monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:05 AM
2

It depends on what it is. Certain things your parents did can hurt you in the future. What if you were molested and your parents did nothing about it? They let it happen. Now you have trust issues in relationships. I’m sorry I had to use such a harsh example but some people really do have it bad out here. My parents fed me a lot of processed junk as a child which made me an overweight kid. Now I have to dig through piles of trash men to get to the decent ones while my skinny friends don’t have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:03 AM
0

It’s not hard at all. “What do you do for a living” is basically a conversation starter these days. Men have their careers listed on dating profiles so you don’t have to ask. If he tells me he works at a call center, I know he’s not making a lot. Of course, if I’m told he’s a lawyer, doctor, or architect I know he’s making a large amount of money. But you also have to do your due diligence. A lot of men that are just starting out in these professions might not be clearing 100k yet. But I’m posit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:46 AM
1

This is not true lol. She will go for the 300k guy over the 100k one. I do think some women will marry for love but you better believe she probably makes more than you. 100k is nothing these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:34 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:28 PM
10

There was a poster on here trying to convince me that a girl’s ass was real when it was an obvious BBL. She had visible surgery scars on her body. Said I was jealous because I said she got surgery. He got so upset that he ended up blocking me. So it’s true, social media has brainwashed these men. They don’t even know what’s real or fake anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:13 PM
-1

And the men are mad because I told the truth lol. It’s not even about power for me but protection. The power I have provides a certain layer of protection for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:07 PM
2

Understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:03 PM
0

How is that “used up”? What is used up about oral sex? Women also kiss men too. Is that “used up” as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:02 PM
0

Vagina doesn’t make sense either but you can somewhat make an argument out of it I guess. I don’t believe in this used up theory but the misogynist do. A mouth? There’s no logic behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:00 PM
1

You can get strange DNA in your mouth doing a number of different things. Drinking from someone, putting your mouth on something, nail biting, kissing etc. It makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:58 PM
-1

No. I just like my n-count extra small.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:57 PM
2

I don’t get it. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:22 PM
1

How is a mouth “used up”? I can understand a vagina but a mouth? Makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:21 PM
-1

I don’t count it. It doesn’t count. And it never will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:20 PM
1

If you didn’t care you wouldn’t have labeled me “mad”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:15 PM
1

Or maybe I truly believe that you’re an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:50 PM
1

Incel talk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:45 PM
9

I’ve had multiple men on here straight up tell me that they prefer teen girls and I was just a jealous woman for speaking up calling them predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:26 PM
1

Thanks for proving my point incel lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:19 PM
-1

Hell fucking no. A lot of you losers will insult and troll women on this sub when the conversation doesn’t go your way. Then you get mad when you get labeled an incel with your weird asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 06:41 PM
0

When you’re asking anyone for something in general, the other person holds the power. If you go to your boss for a raise, your job has the power to either say yes or no. You aren’t entitled to that money even if you’re a hard worker. The ball is in the woman’s court when you approach. Oh, and your generation doesn’t approach because you lack social skills. The generations before you had no problem going after what they wanted. You’re courting someone. I’m not sure why anyone is shocked about thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 01:25 PM
2

If this was true I would never date. I date different men all the time when I’m single. You’re very naive. Your beauty standard is different from the men I date clearly. They love my body and my ass specifically. You think all overweight women are mothers? Strange. Especially in a time where 70% of the population is overweight or obese. Skinny women are able to have children as well but you don’t think the same thing about them? Either way, a man thinking that I have kids is something minor. Yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 11:15 PM
1

I’m aware of this. It’s just hard for me to be in success hubs 24/7. The area I live in is very white. I have to travel to these places to hang or get work done. I’ll probably move by the end of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:59 PM
3

I hang out with other educated black people. A lot of them are either married or have children with no wife aka a baby mama. I’m not saying I meet no one child free and single but it’s definitely harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:45 PM
1

This is false. If you purchase a home in an HOA neighborhood, you do have to join. I’m not sure who told you otherwise but that is not legal in my county. You won’t get approved for wtf you described in above post. Are you crazy or you just aren’t American? They would never approve that shit. You’re bringing the property value down. A lot of your nonsense is just ignorance. I can’t stand when non-Americans try to talk like they know the American life. You don’t. Yeah you did actually. I just bum…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:42 PM
1

Why the face?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:07 PM
2

Thank you for being honest! All this tells me is the majority of the men responding to my post don’t get women approaching them. As soon as you approach men, they immediately know you not only somewhat like them but are sexually attracted to them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:19 PM
4

A Chad black man is a man whore 9 times out of 10. Just being honest. This has been my experience since childhood. Yes, I’m bringing race into it for context. I only date black men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:15 PM
1

I’m from a white collar type of city so I guess there’s a big difference. All of my aunts and uncles got basic office jobs that offered good benefits. They even retired there except one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:13 PM
2

I actually joined Reddit for workout advice, weight lifting, and meal prep inspo. I was always told it was a place for incels and white racist which is true for the most part. I have no clue how I came across this sub. It might’ve came across my home page or something. A lot of the dating woes posted on here are not relatable at all. I’m a woman and also a person or color. For example, men on here claim to be introverts and can’t get women. The black introverts I know have tons of women. Even br…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:10 PM
2

All of the men that you hit on wanted to marry you? All this tells me is you’re white and probably older. I’m sure I’m right. I know it’s less common with the younger generation and I wouldn’t recommend any woman to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:01 PM
1

That actually makes this generation look even more fucking stupid. Everyone was doing drugs and were still able to have family values & purchase real estate. Tell me you aren’t from the US without telling me you’re not from the US. Lots of neighborhoods have something called an HOA. You have to report and get approval for any structural changes. This is to prevent the property value in the neighborhood from going down. You would never be able to do any of that construction crap you’re talking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:24 PM
2

Yes. Prove yourself as a worthy person to date so we can further our relationship. This is not an unheard of concept so I’m not sure why you’re acting shocked or surprised. Maybe you don’t date much. There’s nothing delusional about that. I’m still in my prime. The wall isn’t hitting anytime soon. I’ll be married before that anyway. Men still bend over backwards for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:08 PM
2

Most men don’t have the money to be good providers in their 20’s. What the entire fuck are talking about? You made no valid points. Not only did our parents generation marry earlier but they married more of course. All that partying and bullshit you’re speaking of is not an accurate example. You must be speaking on men of the Gen Z generation. Men are fuck boys because they didn’t become financially stable and able to date until 30? Do you know the definition of a fuck boy? You sound dumb asl on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:02 PM
2

I disagree. The black community is quite conservative. Our elders didn’t have such trash marriage rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:53 PM
3

This is a problem everywhere. Add in black men that want to get married and the dating pool just gets smaller. Oh, and the black men who don’t date BW.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:46 PM
2

-3/10 trolling. Step it up. It’s purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:43 PM
3

Okay cool. Now your dating pool is more than cut in half. Your dating options are much smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:42 PM
2

I’m not though. If I felt like men were able to be providers in their 20’s I would’ve had children already. The fact is a lot of men don’t have their shit together mentally and financially until their late 20’s and early 30’s. Meaning they don’t take women seriously until then. You have no idea how many men I’ve met that have expressed to me that they can enjoy dating in their 30’s now that money isn’t an issue. Seriously dating in your 20’s is a struggle for most men due to lack of resources. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:13 PM
3

I usually approach men in my league or someone I was having a friendly conversation with. I got their number. They just wanted sex. The opposite happens when men approach me so why would I waste my time? I also don’t have a “league” per say. I have had attractive, ugly, average, rich, middle class, and broke men approach me. I don’t have a set league but I also don’t go for the hottest guy in the room. I don’t want him anyway. He’s most likely a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:35 PM
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A lot of black people in general have children at young ages. I have literally had people gasp and be shocked when I tell them I don’t have kids. This has been happening for 5 years now. Maybe you’re young so it’s not an issue for you at the moment? If you’re over 25, you know the struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:31 PM
2

As you should 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:28 PM
4

Why does it matter? Are you going to guide me to a place where there are an unlimited amount of childless black men with degrees that want marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:17 PM
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You couldn’t be more wrong. I’m a woman who used to approach men. Not frequently but here and there. Not only have I been sexually assaulted because of it but you guessed it, they wanted sex immediately and didn’t care about dating. Why would they give af when I’ve already showed interest in them and they know I want them? I’ve done most of the work for them already. Ask me next time instead of generalizing. I’m speaking on personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:14 PM
2

I want to root for fat men but they have such low self esteem. The only thing stopping me from dating an attractive fat guy is my reminder that their self esteem issues reflect how I’ll be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:11 PM
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I can’t believe I’m about to break this down but fuck it. It’s purge week. A lot of women don’t have the entire package and just because you don’t like the look of a curvy woman doesn’t mean the next man doesn’t. I have a pretty face, nice shape, and a fat ass. My body is well proportioned. This is a stupid cop out. You probably say the same about women leaving nightclubs in short dresses. All you have to do is ask if I have a child. That simple. Skinny women also have children but it doesn’t ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:07 PM
2

I’m not a divestor and never have been, ma’am. Black men have only seen the inside of my vagina. I don’t care how these women choose to handle this situation when brothers are bragging about dating White and Latina women left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:33 PM
1

It depends on your location. Tell this to someone living in NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:30 PM
1

Women still want children. Men are too broke and can’t afford to take care of a family in their 20’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:28 PM
1

You could’ve earned more than $3.35, you just chose a minimum wage job. The jobs that require bachelors degrees in 2023 were not asking for them in 1984 unless it was a field like STEM. I have family members that have never seen a college classroom but were making livable wages after high school. I’m talking jobs that included good benefits and pensions with just a high school diploma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:26 PM
5

I’m not a divestor nor do I date white men. I do, however, understand what these women are going through and have sympathy for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:15 PM
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I just want to point out how much I hate the term WOC. As a black woman, I have nothing in common with Asian women. This thread is relatable to other WOC but has nothing to do with black women. We choose our own men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:48 PM
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If all of your prospects were baby mamas, brokies, and former inmates, wouldn’t you try to date other races? They aren’t projecting anything. A lot of black men are effected by one of the things I mentioned. Trying to find a black man over 25 with no kids and a bachelors degree that’s never been arrested is a struggle. It’s not easy at all and just gets worse as you get older of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:46 PM
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I don’t feel like black women should be embarrassed about this. We try to date and uplift men in our communities. While some of the men choose to date out due to self hatred and other frivolous reasons. It’s the men that should be embarrassed, not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:40 PM
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Black women don’t mind dating white men but we’re still mostly race loyal to black men. This thread is mainly directed towards Asian or Hispanic women. Black women are not thirsty for white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:36 PM
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You’re pushing a narrative that isn’t true. We’re not discussing sex skills. I’m pointing out manipulation. You’re trying to put the blame on lack of sex skills when that is NOT the reason why this happens 99% of the time. He liked the sex but just doesn’t want to be with you. That is what happens most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:29 PM
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Who asked who for their phone number first? Who approached who? If I’m asking for his number, the ball is in his court and he has the control. The woman can kiss her standard’s goodbye. He is holding the power on how this plays out. Most men process women hitting on them as free sex! That is a fact. Why would men go above and beyond when they don’t have to? She hit on you remember? Any woman with standards is just asking to be hit in the face with tomatoes by approaching men first. There is no v…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:19 PM
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Used for sex to me is men leading you on instead of straight up saying “I’m just interested in sex at the moment”. If you tell a woman you’re looking for a relationship with her, she’s everything you want in a woman, you see a future with her, you want her to meet your family, you think about her 24/7 etc (I could type these bs things men say all day so I’ll stop here). Then you proceed to sleep with her and stop calling or only call when you want sex, you were used for sex. Someone manipulated …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:01 PM
-4

This isn’t the flex you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:55 PM
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The ball is in my court when a man approaches. I have total control of the situation. I get to reject, take his number, or friend zone him. He also has to prove himself to me once I give him the opportunity to take me out. There are many preventive ways you can do things when you hold all the power. You call the shots. If you get used for sex, you just don’t know wtf you’re doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:50 PM
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I’m not approaching a man. A great way to get used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:21 PM
1

I disagree. She might not have the family unit she dreamed of but other areas of her life could be going just fine. You do realize that marriage is out of the control of women? We can’t make someone marry us. I’m sure she wanted commitment and then a child like most people. That is totally out of her control. She can only dictate things that are in her control like education and her career. Men don’t understand that part of the equation and I’m not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:17 PM
1

You’re encouraging young children to commit suicide? How sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:05 PM
0

She made choices but they weren’t “bad” choices at all. There’s nothing wrong with focusing on your career and education in your 20’s. That’s what you’re supposed to do. Just because you deem her degrees as useless doesn’t mean she wasn’t trying to thrive and have a successful career. No one goes to college planning to be a failure when they graduate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 01:03 PM
1

How is it a them problem when she was in multiple long term relationships? They just didn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:55 PM
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Someone just posted her dating history. It sounds to me like she just became unlucky. Her story is not unfamiliar. A lot of women go through it. You just don’t hear about it because they aren’t dropping 20k to freeze their eggs and making it public.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:55 AM
1

Useless degrees aside, she did everything she was supposed to do. Her situation is just an unlucky one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:48 AM
0

Relationships end all the time for numerous reasons. You don’t know happened through out her lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:45 AM
3

How is it her fault? Do you know what happened in her relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:36 AM
7

That’s harsh. Kids are innocent and don’t ask to be brought into this world. I hope you’re pro-abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:35 AM
17

Some women have health issues and have frozen eggs before 30. But that’s definitely a rare case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:33 AM
1

The majority of the men on Reddit are white. That’s not an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:42 PM
1

You literally just said you planned on knocking up Bonquesha and having a child without being married. You’re just as bad. You want a thank you for staying out of jail or something? You also don’t get a pat on the back for taking care of a child you laid down and made. That’s what you’re supposed to do as a father. You’re intentionally creating a broken home your child will have to grown up in. If you’re going to have a child, I do agree that surrogacy or adoption are the better options here. Go…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:29 PM
2

You’re using the word dusty out of context here. You should label them unappealing or something else because dusty isn’t the word. Being a hard worker and high earner is literally the opposite of dusty. I don’t think they’re dusty btw lol. That’s all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:21 PM
2

I don’t mess around with the ones that look down on Black Americans. They also shut right up if you come from an educated upper middle class family. They cant say a word about me or my family. I prefer west African men btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:18 PM
1

I’m not seeing your point here at all. Asian men are some of the highest paid in the country. How exactly are they dusty? They have the highest marriage rates too. https://www.statista.com/statistics/185409/median-weekly-earnings-of-full-time-wage-and-salary-workers-by-gender-and-ethnicity/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:12 PM
1

Why do the Asian men have to be dusty lol? I actually like Western Asian men. They’re usually race loyal though. I prefer foreign black men overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:59 PM
1

When I tell them to work on themselves and do “xyz” I always get “you don’t know what men go through” as a response. Well I’m not a man but I am black lol. I had to earn every privilege I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:54 PM
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I know. I do hope more black women start dating out and find love elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:51 PM
1

You date out three times as much as black women I believe. Black men definitely date out. It’s not a large portion but a good size.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:50 PM
1

You’re the fucking problem in the black community and part of the reason we can’t thrive as a race. I have no respect for men like you. You were of course raised by a single mother and think there’s nothing wrong with it because you came out “okay”. You obviously didn’t if you think this lifestyle is progressive and the right thing to do. You’re just continuing generational trauma that plagues the black community. Raising your children in a broken home is never the right decision. I’ll pray for …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:47 PM
1

Those are surface level facts that don’t mean much. There’s a reason the OOW rate is over 70%. Let’s get to the root of the problem. The black men who have children aren’t getting married. They’re also procreating with different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:41 PM
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The ones that do have children are able to have multiple with different women. That statistics doesn’t mean much. It actually has nothing to do with what i said lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:39 PM
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If they truly loved them, they wouldn’t leave them to be single mothers by themselves and refuse to marry them. If you think marriage is a horrible idea, then don’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:52 PM
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The majority of men here making threads complaining every day aren’t Asian. They’re privileged white males who weren’t taught how to properly socialize in society. Now they’re mad at the world instead of working on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:50 PM
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I never said we didn’t complain but most of our complaints are valid. The number one thing I can think of is men not wanting to commit or marry at all. BM will tell you they love you, introduce you to their whole family, get you pregnant, and not marry you. I think that’s a valid complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:13 PM
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Black women still suck it up and deal with it too. While I come on PPD and hear white men complain about every little thing lol. It’s kind of funny when I think about it. We have it rough out here even with our own men. In all seriousness, I don’t think BW know how bad we have it because a lot of us don’t interracially date. Even if we wanted to, we’re at an obvious disadvantage. It makes me not want to try it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:50 PM
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If they ever decide to add women to the mandatory enlist, the women won’t be fighting if they don’t want to. There are hundreds of jobs you can do in the Army that don’t involve fighting. You can look them up right now. Capitalism is why the government knows to leave women alone. We have to stay home and make or raise children so the economy can be fueled by them in the future. Everything always goes back to the money. Requiring women to enlist would just further hurt the economy. Birth rates ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:42 PM
2

Um no lol. I’m a plus size black woman and I have no problem getting dates with established black men. I was also raised upper middle class so I’m sure we frequent the same type of establishments. Some men, specifically black men, prefer a curvier woman. Im pretty and have a big behind. Can’t go wrong with me. Being with white women isn’t a flex or a sign of accomplishment. Especially when there are tons of educated beautiful black women available to date. It just makes you look like a self hate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:35 PM
1

I thought the men on this sub said expecting men to pay all the bills while women don’t do anything but pop out kids was toxic? Well, that’s your foreign wife. I’m sure she comes from a home with traditional values and expects her husband to share the same values. I’m not sure how a grown adult can be raised. Who is raising women past the age of 18? How is that raising someone when they’re already grown? The truth is women get out in the dating world and it’s not pleasant. We learn the truth abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:11 AM
2

I understand and know what you like. I’m telling you that black men as a collective like their women of all shapes and sizes, preferably a curvy shaped woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:03 AM
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What makes the western gold digger crazy? The foreign gold digger can be just as crazy. Not only that but you’re financially responsible for her as well. Even when you divorce and she moves on. Men on here say shit and don’t realize the seriousness of the issue. I’m just going to assume the majority of you are college kids or younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:00 AM
9

Fuck single fathers too then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:49 PM
1

Yes and no lol. I would have to switch my whole style up. But I’m willing to put in the effort and I have a good personality. I’m outgoing and extroverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:45 PM
4

Finally a purge thread that actually makes sense lmao. The rest of these are straight trauma porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:05 PM
1

I don’t know what you look like but I think you’re being harsh. Have you tried dating an average looking girl? Or one that’s not conveniently attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:02 PM
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I think it has a lot to do with race and the complaints about other things are bs just to cover up their disdain with the main character being black. I’m not a Disney fanatic but all the characters races didn’t all stay the same to my knowledge. There are other characters that are different races. Is everyone black? No, why would it be?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:05 PM
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You’re not that bright. You posted statistics and didn’t even read through them huh? Black women as a whole only make up 12% of interracial marriages lmao. Now you’re trying to drag education into it when that’s not what you said. Your remarks were “white men are their first choice” now it’s no one wants uneducated women when the statistics show men of all races marrying uneducated women 😂 Now let’s break down the education statistics since you can’t figure it out yourself. How pathetic. Of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:55 PM
1

You do not have to necessarily pay for it to be sex tourism. You can be traveling to a poor country and preying on the women for sex. There are literally guides on the internet on how to do this. Just because you’re ignorant to it doesn’t make it untrue. You don’t know shit as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:40 PM
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I have but I don’t party with white men often. Whenever I do party with them I get approached but I mostly frequent black clubs and lounges. My friend group is majority black. I’m more in proximity to black men on purpose. This is a choice of course. I’m also not going to act like WM don’t have a preference for skinnier women. So when I do get approached by a white man I’m kind of shocked. The last white guy that approached me was a rich one in Vegas. He was cute too. We spent all night talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:55 PM
1

Are you saying race has absolutely nothing to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:52 PM
1

This data actually proves the opposite lmao. Black women are race loyal to black men. As a black women, I would know this. Out of every race, black women have the lowest rate when it comes to intermarrying. Asian women are at 36%, Hispanic women are at 28%, and black women are at 12%. In comparison, white men are at 12% and white women are at 10%. This doesn’t work in your favor at all. Black women are not intermarrying in large numbers. The 12% statistic is extremely low especially compared to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:33 PM
0

If you’re going to a country to specifically target women, that is sex tourism. If you are in Spain and happen to sleep with someone that is not sex tourism. It’s not a difficult concept. Not sure why it’s so hard for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:21 PM
2

You can’t do anything to improve your looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:18 PM
2

So it’s really not a black woman thing at all then. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:24 PM
3

Lying about what? I’m waiting for you to post statistics since you believe these are wrong lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:01 PM
0

Your the one with the terrible comprehension but you want to talk shit about the US? I’m actually concerned about Australia right now but you could be a 15 year old kid playing on the computer judging from your responses. I don’t need you to post what I already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 03:00 PM
0

You don’t need to post anything about sex tourism because I’m well versed in it. You’re in denial. I’m a 29F what are you talking about lmao. This is getting weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:58 PM
2

Why don’t they dig you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:47 PM
7

The problem is millions of black men follow them. We both know they’re trash but the black men who watch them don’t think so. They believe they’re right. BM are harvesting these toxic ideologies and taking it out on women. Generational trauma is the cause for a lot of these behaviors on both sides. There’s a reason why I only date men from two parent homes. There’s a clear difference in the way I’m treated compared to single parent homes. When everyone wakes up and realizes we’re doing things to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:46 PM
3

White men are not black women’s first choice lmao. Not sure where you got that from but it’s not true and there’s no data to back it up because it’s false. Just like this study says if you can read it, we prefer our own men first. It’s all spread out from there. Me and my friends prefer other minorities over white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:37 PM
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You’re not married and if you were, you would’ve said so. You didn’t. He mentioned many different countries in his post, not just European countries. You came in with a narrative with “I sleep with women in different countries all the time”. That sounds like sex tourism to me so I called it out. Instead of acknowledging that sex tourism exist and that men DO participate in it, you decided to do the opposite and get offended. Get out your feelings next time. Once again, I don’t date white men so …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:34 PM
0

If you are going to a country to sleep with women it is sex tourism. Read my wording carefully. I know that’s difficult for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:25 PM
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Why are you making everything about yourself? Weird. I don’t care about your fucking success rate. I never said black women didn’t date white men. I said you are not our first choice and that’s the truth. Most go for other black men and the results represent this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:52 AM
1

Why df would acne be a “dating problem” when it can be cleared up? Seriously lol. Using acne as a dating excuse sounds so pathetic. The tech bros are out here winning. Idk what you’re talking about. They make good money and usually marry other women in tech. You’re lost af so let me help you out a little. The women tell the incel men on here to get hobbies so they can become more well rounded and meet women. If you’re already a well rounded person, why would I give af about your hobbies? I don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:49 AM
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Who have you married? You aren’t married at all lmao. You are bragging about going to different countries and sleeping with women which is sex tourism. Don’t be mad at me because you’re ignorant af. And don’t try to switch the narrative around now. You just said in your previous post that no one is marrying these women including you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:43 AM
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You’re really ignorant. Do you even know what sex tourism is? It doesn’t have shit to do with marriage. In fact, marriage would be the opposite. Please utilize google please. It’s free. You have no argument because you don’t even know wtf sex tourism is. I’m with a black man right now sir. This just goes to show how out of touch you are with Black American culture. Our marriage rates are the lowest out of every demographic. We have the highest OOW numbers. Even when BM interracially date, the OO…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:40 AM
3

Ya think? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:18 AM
5

This is true for me. A white man has to look like Leonardo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt in their prime for me to find them attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:16 AM
4

White men are not our first choice but yes some do like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:13 AM
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The only thing I’ll address is the “fit” complaint. You say you want fit women but most of the women BM glorify are overweight or obese. Those Instagram models with 50 inch asses are overweight or obese yet there’s tons of black men chasing after them. Why do you think skinny BW are taking weight gain drugs and supplements? They see fat asses being glorified and want some attention. I can’t take the fit complaint seriously with BM when a lot of your preferences are overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:11 AM
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Racism in the results or what you just described? Black men have an issue with marrying women. It’s some serious generational trauma going on or maybe it’s the hyper masculinity. I only know two married black men and they’re married to WW. I’m 29 and none of my friends my age or younger are married. Most don’t marry until their 30’s. Those are my only married friends and I don’t have a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:04 AM
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They’re naturally toxic. That’s why TRP speaks to them directly. Of course not all BM but a good number of them. The things TRP teaches men is stuff BM have been doing for years without the help of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:57 AM
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Judging from the complaints and experiences, I’m positive most men on here are white or non-black. Most of Reddit is of course white. The amount of black people that post on here isn’t large at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:54 AM
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I’m open to dating WM but I know I’m not their preference. I go where I’m wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:51 AM
2

Go to a golds gym or any gym for that matter. Avoid planet fitness of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:50 AM
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Now you know light skinned men can be just as hyper masculine. I actually find them more hyper masculine because they have to prove their toughness due to the pretty boy jokes and stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:48 AM
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There are plenty of masculine white men so idk where that’s coming from. WM also participate in toxic masculinity themselves. I’m not sure where they were going with this but I don’t think like this. There are different types of men of all races.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:46 AM
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I feel the same way lol. Dating experiences are a lot different in the black community. Yes, I can relate to it but some circumstances I read on here and think that this would never happen to a black person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:38 AM
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This is true from what I’ve heard from sex workers. I’ll leave it at that for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:34 AM
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Well the men have hyped up toxic black male YouTubers like Kevin Samuels and Fresh and Fit. You can add Andrew Tate in there since he’s biracial. Notice how there’s no woman equivalent to them? Why is that? I feel like the hate is coming more from one side than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:33 AM
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Not if you date black women. You’ll be fine. If you want to self hate and date out idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:29 AM
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Validation is the wrong word. I actually would say this about other races but I won’t go there. Black Americans are socialized at a young age that white features are better. It’s due to white supremacy and goes all the way back to slavery. The black children chose the white dolls because they have lighter skin. That’s why black parents are encouraged to buy their children black dolls as children and to not purchase white dolls. So they won’t be brainwashed into thinking black isn’t beautiful. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:28 AM
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Are you black? I can assure you this isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:19 AM
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But all of his wives were black women lmao. I can’t believe men actually listened to this stupid mf.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:14 AM
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Racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:13 AM
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Why? What’s wrong with liking black women a lot?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:12 AM
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It’s not silly at all. If you utilize your google function everything that you’re describing is sex tourism 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:46 AM
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Why would I be triggered? I don’t even date white men. You can do whatever you please, Australian. Black men don’t take these prostitution hoes seriously. They take their poor Dominican Republic trips and hop right back on the plane like nothing happened. Like they didn’t just buy pussy for $40. You better believe only the lame older men do that too. No one under 30 participates in sex tourism. You’re speaking like these men are specifically traveling for sex (which they do). Now you’re trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:45 AM
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I think you need to re-read. Your comprehension skills are so fucking terrible. I clearly stated that 900k immigrants came over here legally. Do you read before you reply? Most of these people aren’t poor. It cost money to become a citizen. The government screens these people as far as income and education before granting them citizenship. They can’t get immigrants either. Not all US immigrants are from Latin American.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:36 AM
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You didn’t defeat shit lol. Only pathetic clowns specifically travel to a country for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:30 AM
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Oh I don’t give a shit about men being used. Most sex tourism is not only exploitive but a lot of those women are underage. Sex tourism is predatory period. But I do want to make it clear that you’re still being used and are a walking ATM. That’s a fact. I don’t have to care to state these things. Im sooo jealous but I date men in the US with no problem 😂 I don’t have to jump on a plane to be treated nicely. What is there to be jealous of?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:29 AM
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I never said they would stop anyone from traveling. Where in my post did I say that? Comprehension is key. I said they have issued warnings and they have! A war or pandemic has to break out to stop travel completely. Why are you assuming that all US men go to wealthy countries to travel lmao? Why would they do that when their money goes further in poorer countries? That’s why the Caribbean, South America, and Thailand etc are all popular sex tourism destinations. It’s not projection when article…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:59 PM
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The only men who talk about traveling to meet women are incels and older men way past their prime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:53 PM
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It’s not. We had 900k immigrants come to the US legally and millions come illegally every year. Our population is a lot larger than yours. There is no need for US men to travel in order to meet foreign women because the world comes to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:52 PM
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If more American men went overseas, they would get used to the point where the government would step in warning people lmao. There’s a reason why they have warnings in some American Embassy’s in countries where sex tourism is rampant. That’s what you’re skating around. You’re not traveling to these countries looking for a life partner. You want “easy” women you can have sex with. Sex tourism in general is disgusting. Why are you traveling for sex if getting it in your own country isn’t an issue?…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:08 PM
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He has good manners, goes out of his way to make sure the women around him are comfortable, tries to be accommodating for everyone, always has kind things to say to everyone, and is just an overall chivalrous person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:34 PM
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Cool. Don’t believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:12 PM
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It’s not. My friend is dating a great guy and so many women are still all over him. I’ve actually never been jealous of anyones relationship until I met him. Of course he has other redeeming qualities but the main one that sticks out is he’s a genuinely good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:07 PM
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I’m others words, “be a good person”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:04 PM
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Men that are bad people usually don’t have it good in the dating game. You better believe word travels fast as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:01 PM
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Women that are having sex every night can’t be incels. So where do we go from here? You can stop the trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:59 PM
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If you think incels in America can get with attractive women in France, I have a bridge I can sell you 😂 Unless it’s prostitution of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:58 PM
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Then stop speaking on American topics then if you don’t know what’s going on. Do you see me speaking on Australian policies?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:55 PM
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I’m not threatened by anything. The incels are free to roam the world for cheap pussy that will just use them. You do know that there are tons of foreign women in the US right? Why can’t they get with them? What’s your excuse? Lol. We have a large number of immigrants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:54 PM
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How do you know I haven’t been overseas? Have you seen my passport? Why would I even own a passport if I’ve never been overseas lmao. I often date foreign men in the US (that are citizens) so I know how shit works. My current man is foreign. Still has an accent and everything. So you can gtfoh with your bs. I’m a woman that knows how the visa game goes. Like I previously stated, I date foreign men quite often. I’ve been to their countries. I know what goes down. I know the citizenship and visa p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:32 PM
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I disagree. You’re basically saying it’s a requirement for women to be virgins in order to live a traditional lifestyle or have a traditional marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:28 PM
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I’ve been overseas and watched men buy these women for chump change. Don’t tell me where the fuck I have or haven’t been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:26 PM
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What the fuck does child support have to do with this? Lmao I can’t take any of your post seriously. You think you know what’s going on in the US and you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:25 PM
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You’re delusional. People pay 20k+ to marry for a green card. I have been propositioned to marry for a green card in exchange of a large amount of money myself. Thousands of people risk their lives every year trying to cross the border. But no one wants to live here? I can’t take anything you’re saying seriously. I’m not even addressing the rest of your post. I’ll stop right here. People are literally dying to come here. But no one wants to live here? Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:22 PM
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Very true. It falls on women 95% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:47 PM
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Have you traveled out of the country? There are women overseas with the same exact mindset. They’re actually worse because they need the money vs. american women just wanting to live a certain lifestyle. We’re not desperate for your small amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:45 PM
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Less so? So they do it but they aren’t as bad lol. Is that supposed to be a positive thing? I would also argue that they’re equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:43 PM
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Not all American women are bitter and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:41 PM
1

Know that you’re being used for money? What else is there for me to know?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:40 PM
1

Men can get some of the benefits you’re referring to as well, especially college grants. Now housing and other benefits are harder for men but you’re still granted the opportunity to apply for it and potentially get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:39 PM
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While this is somewhat true, the government does the most for single women with children. Our infrastructure is weak in some departments but not when it comes to taking care of families. That will always be a priority because of capitalism. Poor countries don’t have the resources for this. Of course developed countries have a similar or much better infrastructure in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:34 PM
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You’re a walking ATM to them. Nothing more, nothing less. You’re going to countries getting low level women but you approve of them because they meet your standards looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:27 PM
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Well said! They’ll come up with excuses per usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:24 PM
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It’s not financially worth the hassle to expand outside of the country. The US is huge with over 300 million people. If it were a small country with a tiny population you might have an argument but that’s not the case here. Women in these countries are a lot more likely to use American men. He wasn’t lying when he said these women see you as a walking atm and green card. Why are you worried about western women? We don’t want to be financially responsible for a man that won’t even be able to work…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 01:21 PM
1

It it was the most important thing you wouldn’t have gotten a date at all. She obviously sees other qualities in you that are more attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:43 PM
3

A is the most realistic situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:41 PM
1

I was waiting for someone to post this. The dating standards he has listed for tradcon are extreme and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:39 PM
1

You can have traditional views without being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:33 PM
1

I’m a Christian and have conservative views but I’m left leaning for sure. I wasn’t raised on a farm in the south. Overall, almost all of my POV are traditional but I’m also realistic about modern dating as well. I don’t see a problem with using dating apps and filtering out men. Not everyone is looking for quick sex. However, I do think meeting people in person is much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:26 PM
0

Would “just be a bad person” be better advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:22 PM
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You know what has opened my eyes up about Andrew? This fool was running a successful yet illegal sex worker agency or whatever it was. He’s such an attention whore that he had to plant himself all over the internet while still doing illegal activities. He was a loud criminal that got caught. What an idiot. All he had to do was shut his mouth and live a quiet life in Romania. I guess the misogyny is so strong he had to show it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:20 PM
1

First off, it’s impossible for a woman to be an incel lol. An incel that gets sex regularly? Oh wow. This must be a new narrative y’all are trying to push. You don’t have to believe anything I just said. I know the truth bro lol. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 12:01 PM
1

About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:55 AM
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Who said he wasn’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:48 PM
2

They will dodge this message like any other positive message posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:43 PM
2

Why date at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:48 PM
11

Both. That’s why I don’t understand why men on here are quick to shame women for dating in their 20’s. It’s better than being divorced in your late 20’s or early 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:48 PM
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If both parties are on okay with not getting married I don’t see the issue. But just know that a lot of women are FOS when they go along with it. They would happily say yes if you got down on one knee with a 3 carat ring with no questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:45 PM
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That’s why I was against marriage in my early 20’s. Seems like a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 07:41 PM
4

What changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:44 PM
8

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:39 PM
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Yes, if both parties are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:39 PM
2

That’s situational. But marriage should be your end goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:37 PM
4

You know how real life works? People usually take advice and tips from people that have been SUCCESSFUL. They are the blueprint and can give you first hand knowledge. Why are you taking relationship advice from men that haven’t had successful relationships? I hear relationship advice from TRP all the time. So please save that excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 06:35 PM
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A lot of them do. Which was my point. What do you not get about that? I’m obviously not talking about ass wipes like Andrew Tate who is telling you to waste money buying cars and prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:46 PM
1

She can like you for both reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:44 PM
2

He said oral sex is devaluing manhood. Are you serious? Part of his post is correct but it has absolutely nothing to do with manhood or devaluing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:29 PM
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One that has progressed successfully over the years and still going strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:27 PM
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You sound upset. If the end goal isn’t relationships, then why do they give relationship advice? They should stick to giving dating advice but they usually end up giving relationship advice. Why? Because that’s how most normal people date. It eventually ends up in a relationship outside of the ass backwards red pill community. The red pill podcasters/YouTubers don’t even stay in their own lane because even they see how flawed that shit is themselves. Stop worrying about other married peoples liv…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 05:26 PM
1

You’re reading too much into it. I dated a guy that was very small in length and he was excellent at oral. Men who are not packing down there know they have to overcompensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:08 PM
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Men sitting around giving other men dating and relationship advice on podcast while none of them have ever had a successful relationship themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 03:03 PM
1

Because it’s the truth lol. Im way more selective on apps than in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:18 PM
1

It’s just an app. Relax. Most people are more attractive in person anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:43 AM
2

Mine has declined but I figured this would happen. It’s weird. I’ve always had high self esteem and I hit a plateau.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:37 AM
1

How would it be degrading? What you’re not getting is looks are not everything. Some women don’t figure that out until they’re older. Looks don’t pay the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:33 AM
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Because there are unattractive men that have sex all the time. No one is forcing you to do anything but just know that there are ugly men that don’t have these issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:32 AM
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I’m not sure. I don’t come across a lot of virgins but I don’t have a problem with them. What you need to ask yourself is why are they virgins at an older age? If it isn’t for religious reasons, most women might think there’s a deeper problem here. There might be or maybe there is none. That’s a question they will have to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 01:00 AM
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Yes, some of those women are. But I don’t tell anyone to lower their standards. If you don’t want to be with them, don’t be with them. Those women thought they could land someone better than you in their 20’s. Now they’re figuring out that they can’t lock down the men they desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:57 AM
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Are you serious? I say stuff like this all the time and get downvoted like hell lol. Y’all don’t want the truth and I still say it anyway because idgaf. I’m not lying to anyone on here. The truth hurts and a lot of men on here don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:40 AM
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Not necessarily. There are some women who are gorgeous that have a child. Not all overweight women are ugly. I’m an attractive curvy woman that dates regularly. I’ve never had an issue getting a man. You can’t just say I’m skinny with no kids, therefore I’m better lol. It doesn’t necessarily work like that. What else do you bring to the table besides being skinny and child free?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:56 PM
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