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Question For Womenpearllovespink/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:36 AM
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It’s not weird at all. I doubted you were a woman because most women over the age of 20 are more self aware than this. You commented that you were actually a woman, I then added 22 year old woman. It was nothing but sarcasm and advice. Anyways, are you telling me to look at your reddit profile or your other profile? Why would you expect men to be respectful and proper on a kink profile? One where you wrote that u wanted FWB at that. The responses you got were on par in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:58 PM
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It’s not weird at all. I doubted you were a woman because most women over the age of 20 are more self aware than this. You commented that you were actually a woman, I then added 22 year old woman. It was nothing but sarcasm and advice. Anyways, are you telling me to look at your reddit profile or your other profile? Why would you expect men to be respectful and proper on a kink profile? One where you wrote that u wanted FWB at that. The responses you got were on par in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:57 PM
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It’s not weird at all. I doubted you were a woman because most women over the age of 20 are more self aware than this. You commented that you were actually a woman, I then added 22 year old woman. It was nothing but sarcasm and advice. Anyways, are you telling me to look at your reddit profile or your other profile? Why would you expect men to be respectful and proper on a kink profile? One where you wrote that u wanted FWB at that. The responses you got were on par in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:57 PM
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It’s weird that she would come on a dating sub to complain about sex profiles lol. Not only that, but she expected the men to be all nice and proper when speaking to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:45 PM
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Then you should do the wise thing and take my advice, 22 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:38 PM
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28-35. I’ve always disliked older guys. I like my men in my age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:06 PM
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This reads like a man pretending to be a woman but I’ll entertain it. First off, you should take FWB out of your profile. They’re treating you like a slut because FWB is promiscuous behavior. How else should they approach you? There is no right way to approach promiscuous women. Their parents did not teach them how to approach promiscuous women. You’re getting upset at a problem you created for yourself. Men will sleep with you no matter what you have in your bio if they find you attractive. It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:21 PM
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I don’t live in fear around men but use discernment. There’s certain things I just don’t do if it’s just me around men. Like leave my drink unattended, get wasted, not going back to houses on the first date, wearing certain clothing etc. Women can be violent towards women too. Everyone is dangerous these days. You have to use good judgment. Im curious to know what situations you’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:46 AM
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None. But I did have a red piller tell me he would be happy with a 6. It was a manosphere talking point I’m sure he didn’t realize I picked up on. He told me he watched red pill videos and podcast on the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 12:45 AM
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Owning property doesn’t make one wealthy or rich. I too own property, but I’m not rich. Nor am I interested in coughing up 50k so someone can show me affection. Doesn’t seem like a pleasant situation or arrangement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:02 PM
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I highly doubt it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:49 PM
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21 year olds don’t chase after 30+ year old men unless you’re paying their tuition. So I hope you’re brainstorming ways to get rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:48 PM
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If you think “good girls” are still going to be available 10 years from now, you’re in for a rude awakening. They will either be married, divorced, baby mamas, or serial daters.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:08 PM
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10 years from now lmao. What’s stopping you now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:52 PM
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Sure. Either way, it won’t work out because you’re not all on one accord. Oh and your “fun use only” motto only fuels women to act like hoes because they see men giving hoes attention while ignoring the others. You are actually apart of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 04:52 PM
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You should be getting to know someone and judging by their actions what they bring to the table. I can talk all the shit I want about what I bring, it doesn’t mean it’s true or that I can actually make it happen. The question overall is gaslighting and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:45 PM
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This is pure, anger, delusion, and frustration. Nothing you’re saying will solve your dating problems. You didn’t even list these “trajectories” in your post because there are none. Men will still date and marry hoes regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:17 AM
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A bot will never replace a natural born woman lmao. This topic takes the cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:34 AM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:39 AM
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Okay, just making sure lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:38 AM
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You lost me at financially stable. At least be a high earning stupid guy that knows how to finesse to the top. If he’s not smart enough to figure that out, I don’t want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:51 PM
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You can find a way and other loop holes for your spouse to have control over almost all of the things listed. My question to you is why would anyone go out of their way to do that? You’re meeting with a lawyer and signing a bunch of legal documents. You know…like a marriage. It would be easier to just marry and get the better benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:48 PM
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I just visited the sub for the first time. It’s extremely left leaning. I’m more of a moderate so I’m not agreeing with everything posted. What topics are you asking about specifically? It’s not a space I would participate in.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:37 PM
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Or maybe you’re getting it from people that don’t know wtf they’re talking about. Like rapist Andrew Tate and two time divorcee Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:50 PM
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Every man I met off of an app always says the opposite. That women throw themselves at them and they have to reject them. The only men complaining are undesirable or broke lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 10:47 PM
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I’m not sure if I would like a picnic as a first date. Maybe second date. I don’t think you should start out with a low budget date if she’s used to extravagant places. You don’t have to take her to the most expensive place but go somewhere decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 07:03 PM
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Men being scared of competition with other men. Idk what to tell you. Man up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:56 PM
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The weak and damaged ones will take it out on others. I charge it to the game. Take your loss and learn how to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:54 PM
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Before the sexual revolution men called all the shots when it came to women lmao. You don’t think that’s toxic? Thanks for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 12:28 AM
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That’s bullshit. Men contributed to making it this way and you’re just continuing with the nonsense making things even more horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:01 PM
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Dating should not be treated like a game. That sounds like something a narcissist would say. You’re supposed to be getting to know someone you’re into. Not trying to find ways to finesse and manipulate women into sex. This is why women are fine by themselves now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:15 PM
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Why does know your market mean specifically? Are you going after slutty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:05 PM
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He’s been in the US for years now. My entire point is he could go back to his home country or another country and do exactly what you said. He won’t because he specifically called those women broke gold diggers and users when I talked to him about it. He doesn’t want the women you’re speaking on. Because he already knows how it is coming from one of those countries. He’s aware that the women sleep around for money. His desire is to marry someone that actually loves him and not his wallet. Most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:59 AM
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So if both parties never bring it up, what happens? I might not bring up TRP but I’ll ask about your views on marriage and children. That doesn’t make me a feminist. I would actually be considered the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:23 AM
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How would this even work? Because most women are never the one to bring up TRP. It doesn’t even cross my mind on dates. You have no clue what my stance is. You’re running women off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:16 AM
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How so? You’re just running women off
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 04:02 AM
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Most red pill men that actually date are VERY open about being red pill. They wear it with a badge of honor. So I doubt what you’re saying is true. I’ve been out with a a couple red pill guys that loved talking about their podcast and always brought up the same subjects on the podcast during the date. It was too easy to spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:28 AM
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Caribbean. I just said he doesn’t like women from poor countries including his own lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:53 AM
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Lol he has a job, green card, his own place, drives a new BMW, and has an American education. He’s also not Muslim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:21 AM
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My bf is foreign 😂 He knows women from his country just want money and doesn’t like dating them. He prefers american women and not women from poor countries that will use him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:23 PM
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I don’t care about foreign women. Have fun. I’m not interested and neither are the men I date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:53 PM
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I’m speaking from a woman’s POV I guess. My own as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:35 PM
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I’m not sure to be honest. Only the men can speak on that. I think the majority of women who use apps are trash and might have things to hide. While others simply just don’t care to hide them because they’ll get matches regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:53 PM
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Where in my post did I state that was the only way to get rich? I actually outsource employees from another country so I think it’s hilarious that you somehow think we’re evil for playing the capitalism game. Guess what? I’m winning at it and I’m not poor lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:50 PM
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The man always controls marriage. It doesn’t matter what the situation is. Women don’t propose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:48 PM
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It’s not. Some of us have actually been responsible in life with decisions which is why I deserve and I’m with a high value man. I’m completely honest in all my profiles because I have absolutely nothing to hide. I’m not ashamed of anything in my life. I don’t have to code anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:59 PM
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You think so? A lot of people get engaged without it being discussed. Now almost everyone discusses marriage first. I’m not picky and don’t mind how I get engaged. I just won’t be the one doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:41 PM
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Not sure how many times I have to state this but stop taking advice from femcels. No, I did not look at the thread and have no interest to. People can hit on whoever the fuck they want as long as it’s respectful and done in an appropriate manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:50 AM
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You all discussed this arrangement before hand? He wanted you to propose?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:46 AM
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That’s called capitalism. Sorry, that’s the world we live in. You can either get with the program or end up poor. This doesn’t make someone a bad person or immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:00 AM
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The things you wrote about men are accurate. Which is why I hate dating apps. What a waste of time. While what you wrote about women is false. You’re thinking too hard and women honestly have no reason to lie on these apps where we have an endless amount of options. It’s men who have to code things in order to seem less harsh in order to get better results.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:54 AM
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Why didn’t he want to propose to propose to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:47 AM
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This is a fact. Please stick to your guns. You’ve lived and experienced it. Don’t let inexperienced men on here try to change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:46 AM
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It’s not a preplanned proposal. It’s a simple conversation about marriage, their views, expectations, and interests. Everyone couple should be having this talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:43 AM
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It is shameful and embarrassing. Men are aware that they control marriage. If they aren’t proposing, it’s because they have no desire to marry you or they aren’t ready. Why would I propose knowing that he’s planning on never proposing or not ready? Just to walk around with a ring on my finger that I bought for 10 years with no marriage? That makes sense to you? Most couples have the marriage talk. There is no need for hints when it’s openly talked about. If you can’t discuss marriage with your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:39 AM
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For the love of god, please stop taking advice from femcels. Let them go into their basement and have their easy Tinder sex in peace. If you go to a social place or gathering with normal women, they don’t mind being approached. A lot of you wouldn’t be on this earth right now if it wasn’t for cold approaches. Stop making excuses and approach women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:50 AM
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You’re buying pussy no matter how you try to spin it and that’s not what I’m speaking on. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:46 AM
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Your problem isn’t rare and it’s quite common. I just turned 30 and you wouldn’t believe how many men that I knew from the past have randomly asked me out. When I ask “Why didn’t you ask me out before?” The answer is always that they just didn’t have enough money or time to cater to women. I think if more men were more honest about their situation, dating wouldn’t be so bad. Because your problem isn’t that you don’t want partnership, you just don’t have the funds for it right now and that’s okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:31 PM
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Women don’t like JP lol. Hate to break it you. I haven’t seen the video but I probably would’ve laughed too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:42 PM
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Struggle? It’s damn near impossible unless you’re rich or paying cash for it. Most 25 year olds are not attracted to 55 year olds. We’re talking about casual sex. Even 40 year olds are not all down with that. Let’s break that group of women down. There are those that have never been married and looking for marriage, divorced and looking to remarry, women who don’t have casual sex, and those who are not looking for anything but just a good time. The “fun” just looking for a good time women are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:34 PM
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Please don’t bring that passport bs up. We all know you can buy pussy overseas for cheap. It’s been done for years now. You’re not stating anything groundbreaking. We’re talking about people that want real meaningful marriages in the us, not mail order brides and prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:22 PM
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Have you tried therapy? Maybe get a mentor in your career field?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:19 PM
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If you plan to start looking for a wife in your mid 30’s, dating will be much harder. You’ll be dating a lot of women with children, divorcees, or women like the OP described. You’re at the perfect age to start vetting women for marriage. You should start looking now but your mind isn’t there yet. What’s stopping you if I may ask? If you would’ve said you don’t mind being 50 and single my tune would’ve been different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 11:31 AM
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I’m 100% positive my parents don’t know who I’m sleeping with. They don’t even know when I started having sex. What was the point of this example in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:45 PM
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But how long do you plan on doing that for? The rest of your life? It’s a little unrealistic to expect easy casual sex with women at 50/60.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:42 PM
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Wouldn’t that be a “you” problem? You’re definitely not the only man having this issue. An old guy friend met up with me yesterday professing his love for me. Told me he wants to start a family and get married. While a girl he described as “crazy” and a “hoe” kept calling his phone repeatedly. He denied calling her first but I know that wasn’t the truth. I think it’s a discipline issue. I’m not sure if you can blame women because you personally can’t stop sleeping with them. A lot of women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:40 PM
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She added her parents on social media? Then had the boldness to post pics blacked out drunk knowing they can see it? That’s not normal and extremely weird. All of my friends that have family or older friends on social media usually post the stuff they only want certain people to see on their close friends. I haven’t added my parents at all because like I said, that’s weird af. They don’t need to see me partying and blowing hookah in the club lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:29 PM
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It’s none of her parents business who she’s sleeping with past 18 years old. Most women don’t go around telling their parents who they sleep with. That’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:24 PM
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I think some women are making a mistake. They’re living for the moment because men have put us through hell and back since high school. It’s much easier and enjoyable to be in the company of men when you’re older. Dating casually is easy. However, being alone will get to them eventually. Maybe not now but around 40/50. I feel the same way about men too. Dating with money and freedom is a lot of fun. But don’t let it get you sidetracked when it comes to your personal life goals. It’s hard to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:22 PM
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GoD pUt U hErE to RePrOdUcE! I heard that one for the first time a few weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:14 PM
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I don’t like looking at it from a prostitution angle but I agree with your point. Men no longer want to pay for dates or ask women to go 50/50. Then expect sex in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 11:09 PM
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It’s not comparable in any fashion. Would you compare your mother to a prostitute for getting with your father? Paying for a date is not paying for sex. You’re supposed to be getting to know someone and enjoying company on a date. If you’re just setting a play up to get sex, stop dating and just keep things up front with women. You just want a sex partner. A date isn’t necessary for that. You’re wasting your money and her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:10 PM
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A lot of those men are married. That’s why the group was created in the first place. A bunch of married men joining dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:58 PM
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This makes absolutely no sense. Please make sense of it. Also, there are men that can relate to what I’m saying as well. They might not be on this sub but they’re out there. The difference is they’re top men who can be choosy about who they sleep with and have had a plethora of sex throughout their life already. They’re disciplined enough to pass up on sex. It’s not a big deal to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:48 PM
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Relationships are not prostitution and don’t come close to it. Women also pay for shit and have to put in effort. Things might not always be completely even but the point is you’re practicing reciprocity with your partner in some fashion. If you just want to pay for a sexual relationship, you should become a sugar daddy and make that arrangement. However, that’s not comparable to a real relationship and it will never be. You’re just simply paying for sex. You probably won’t get with any woman re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:44 PM
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It depends on how social you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 01:34 PM
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The fallacies and weird complaints make it hard for anyone to take them seriously. Idk how they can’t see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:11 AM
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What science do you have to back this? There’s a reason why women skip over fuck boys and men in general. You don’t think we want to sleep with them? Some of us just have the discipline and restraint to know how bad the outcome is and pass on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:02 AM
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So your solution is basically legal prostitution? You would like pay women for sex? Do I have this correct? I’m not sure how this is a good dating method but okay. Also, a lot of these women still won’t have sex with you. Just use you until they can’t anymore. They aren’t prostitutes, just women who don’t really like you that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:59 AM
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This is false. If you’re active socially, your constantly meeting new people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:55 AM
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I hear what you’re saying but you can’t use any of these excuses for dating women who aren’t truly into you. You’re paying women to use you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:14 AM
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It’s actually not that hard. Men who have active social lives have no problem dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 12:10 AM
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I’m saying this is false. Someone with self control and discipline can go without sex even when horny or when the opportunity presents itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:39 PM
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Anywhere. There are no limitations on where a man can hit on me at.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:58 PM
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Heavily disagree. Women have higher standards than men. It doesn’t matter how horny women are. If a man doesn’t meet our standards, we’re not having sex. We will not have sex with any man just because we woke up wanting sex. While men will sleep with an ugly woman they aren’t interested in at all just to get off. Women move with a lot more discernment than men when it comes to sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:55 PM
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You should take a page out the book of women and not settle. When women don’t like what’s being presented to them by a man, we move on. There’s no point in dating or chasing someone you’re not compatible with. It’s a waste of time and money. Idk it seems like women are more comfortable being alone than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:44 PM
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Im not sure what type of woman you men are dating but they sound extremely boring or uninterested. If she can't hold a 20 minute phone conversation, she won't be able to hold one on a date either. Men should start vetting women better since you are the ones left with the bill in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:43 PM
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I believe in equality for all people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:00 AM
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I’m sure you’re pretty young so I wouldn’t give up so soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:45 AM
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You’re correct. I don’t put effort towards causes or people I don’t believe in for the most part. It’s not an avoidance because I was never going to do it in the first place. I’m walking in my purpose and confident in my beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:44 AM
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As someone who loves international travel, it is amazing but I always go with a group of people so it isn’t that costly. The most expensive thing is always the plane ticket. I do it on the weekend too so I’m only missing a few days of work. You have to master traveling on a budget lol. I think everyone can achieve it if it’s done a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:12 AM
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Yes, if it’s for a cause they believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:09 AM
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What made you come to this conclusion? Have you had bad experiences with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:08 AM
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Not all of them are family. I went out of my way to make friends and find a partner. I think people in general should stand up for what they believe in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:07 AM
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This isn’t true for the most part. I’m actually going through this right now with a bf. I appreciate that he saves but it does suck that we have to cut back on the dates and vacations. I do agree that it will get you less women. Only because women do look to men for some type of stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:53 PM
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Why do you have this belief tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:49 PM
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Absolutely. They’re my family and friends. Why wouldn’t they? I also look out for them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:46 PM
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What makes you think it’s impossible to achieve this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:46 PM
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So do you wish to get married in the future or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:38 PM
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The only men I ask for protection from is the men in my family, friends, and boyfriend. Idgaf if anyone else does these things. It’s out of my control. But you’re missing the point here. It’s not my responsibility to correct or try to change the mind of femcels. Respectfully, women have more important problems to try to rally and gain support for. I stand up for what I believe in. My beliefs are that femcels aren’t a top priority and I won’t put my energy into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:37 PM
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How old was he when he had a “lame” look? Everyone has had an awkward stage or glowed up. It doesn’t mean TRP is responsible for that. He’s giving TRP credit to gain a following and get income of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:20 PM
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You’re assuming because the police department is 88% male that women did not play a role in the investigation leading to his arrest and indictment. When I just fucking told you that female police get involved in rape and sexual trafficking cases. Those are the cases where female police officers are needed the most really. So wtf are you talking about? You have no way to prove that ONLY male police handled this investigation. Give credit to the Romanian police and move on. And no the fuck it does…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:59 PM
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Nope lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:44 PM
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Yep. It happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:42 PM
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Men PHYSICALLY arrested him. Do you know there are other people that work at police departments like investigators and detectives? In fact, because this was directly dealing with human trafficking and rape it’s usually required that female police step in to deal with investigations like this. You don’t know who led what in this investigation. So just give credit to the ROMANIAN POLICE department. Stop fucking saying “men” held him responsible. That’s not the fucking truth. It was the work of bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:39 PM
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No, I didn’t. They were below average. Ask next time before assuming things.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 06:13 PM
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You can be average and have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:57 PM
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His following consist of both men and boys. Are you being fr right now 😂 There are lost men too. I don’t have to make a strawman because everything I’m saying is a fact. You’re grasping at straws attempting to try to use “Men” as the equivalent of an entire police department where WOMEN work. You can try to play as many games as possible, it won’t work. Men, boys, teen boys, whatever you would like to call them are still supporting Andrew Tate strong. Before and after the arrest. The Romanian po…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:55 PM
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Dates and places where I could go and meet men. Oh, and holidays. That’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:28 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? You said Men hold Andrew Tate accountable but they’re willing to risk fucking jail time to defend him. How can you say men are holding him accountable when they’re literally enabling him and making him more famous. Men are NOT holding him accountable at all. How dare you discredit and disrespect the women of the Romanian government. I shouldn’t be shocked but how low can you get? Are you insinuating that only MEN work for the Romanian government? Are you serious right …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:26 PM
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I believe the same goes with dating. Everything I said still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:19 PM
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I know what blue pill is. From reading the comments, he’s an extremely attractive man that would be successful with any dating strategy. Why use him to push this false narrative? It’s not shocking but on brand for TRP supporters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:18 PM
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Men? The same men on social media cheering him on, harassing anyone that speaks against him, doxxing people, verbally harassing people just to have his fucking back? You can’t be serious right now. I’m assuming you’re purposely being intellectually dishonest. And just to be clear, the fucking government held him accountable. It wasn’t “men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:13 PM
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Most women don’t do a face full of makeup every time they leave the house. Do you know how long that takes? When you go to your local Target, take a good look at the women around the store. The majority of them, if any, will not have a full face of makeup on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:11 PM
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Okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:08 PM
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How is marriage reaching a peak exactly? I’m not understanding this concept. Married people start businesses together, have children, start many journeys etc. You’re just getting started. The average woman actually gets fucked over the most in a divorce. Only the top 1% of women would someone come out on top. It sounds to me like you read too much bs off the internet. So believe what you want. What do you expect to do when you’re 50+ years old alone? I want to know your plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:06 PM
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No, you meant exactly what you said. Which is why you just repeated your damn post. This entire logic of yours is absolutely asinine and ridiculous. Accountability does not mean correct and reprimand people around you. It means to correct your own fucking self. Men do NOT always hold other men accountable. If that was the truth, motherfuckers like Andrew Tate wouldn’t have a fucking platform. Stop with the bs. It is not anyone’s job, men or woman to hold anyone else accountable. Everyone should …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:57 PM
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It sounds like a bs study then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:43 PM
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Why are you following me into different threads to troll? You’re disrupting the conversation with your ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:41 PM
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Why should I be held accountable over another woman’s problems? Are you fucking serious right now? It is not my fucking job to fix another woman’s problems. I’m accountable for my actions and my actions only. What you’re describing is not accountability. Maybe you should revisit the definition. I am not required to fix anyone’s issues but my own. You’re just making excuses for yourself like I previously said. How about you hold your own self accountable and figure out what’s preventing you from …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:19 PM
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So an attractive man tried different methods of dating and was successful in both. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:10 PM
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How did he compare his method to people considered blue pill? How was this performed? How was the data collected?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:07 PM
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I’ll never understand this rhetoric. Especially since every guy I dated didn’t have enough sex for me lmao. What makes marriage unhappy? Because you don’t believe in it or because you actually believe married people don’t have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:05 PM
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While this is true, I know people in relationships and marriages that have listened to red pill advice it has literally ruined marriages. The cult has done a lot of damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:04 PM
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I hate TRP with all my heart but it’s mainstream unfortunately. Future had Kevin Samuels in a music video. I knew we were at the end of times when I saw that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 04:00 PM
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It’s already mainstream if you ask me and society is continuously becoming worse of course. Didn’t they have to teach a class to kids in the UK because of Andrew state and TRP? The US won’t do shit of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:57 PM
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This to be false because I know people who vacation in Colombia, DR, and Brazil. Those women don’t care about what you look like. They want their money. You’re speaking from a white mans prospective in Asia. That is totally different from other minorities. White men get worshipped everywhere especially in Asia so what you’re saying might be true. But let’s not act like there aren’t white men in these same countries paying for sex too. Let’s not be intellectually dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:53 PM
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Where are these weird femcels located? I only find them on Reddit and I’m here to let you know that they don’t make decisions for anyone. They’re in the minority. I don’t know any outside of the internet. So if you would like weird femcels to make decisions about your dating life, believe them I guess. It’s weird because you’re taking advice from women you wouldn’t even date lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:49 PM
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Maybe try dating someone in your career field?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:46 PM
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By whom? What woman said this? As a collective, women did not decide this. The only women trying to enforce this are weird femcels and I absolutely actually hate using that word. When me and my friends go out to bars and clubs, it’s expected that men will approach us. Not sure what places you frequent but it’s a big world outside of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:18 PM
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You should try dating more high quality women. Me and my friends would’ve given you nothing but compliments. I don’t think they were on your level at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:11 PM
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It sounds like he attempted to but is actually not a great person to date. You have to vet more properly or more harshly. I even used to hold myself accountable for that when I was single because it would happen to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:09 PM
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This isn’t true. Because if it was men would’ve stopped approaching me a long time ago. Sounds like a cop out to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:07 PM
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I disagree with this too. Overall, women try their best to make it work. We’re the ones that want the marriage, wedding, children, and all that other jazz. A lot of men only go along with it because they know that’s what the women want. Women overall spend a lot more time focusing on relationships. Too much time if you ask me. One of the things my friends joke around and say when we’re having relationship trouble is “Relax because he’s not thinking about you right now”. It’s 100% true. Women inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:06 PM
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I agree. Or maybe she really is that boring. If you only date strictly through apps those women can be weird too. I would suggest trying to meet someone in person. It’s harder but worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:59 PM
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I don’t believe he dates at all but thank you for attempting to clear that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:57 PM
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Both of them are strange. The first girl is really weird. Why would you greet someone at your house in pajamas? She has no home training. The second girl is also weird. Why wouldn’t she want you to have on work clothes? Let me guess, both of them were extremely underdressed? I thought you were showing up in suits or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:56 PM
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I’m in a relationship but at least one of those things mentioned in the OP applies to my man. It’s almost impossible to find someone who doesn’t believe in some of the things mentioned. You just have to pick and choose wisely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:18 PM
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How many “bad in bed” experiences have you had? That’s not a common complaint men have. It’s more of a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:55 PM
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How much extra income? You better be high six figures or seven figures. The average man doesn’t make either.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:41 PM
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If you’re willing to provide and already planning to cover the bill, why do you want women to offer? This comes off like you think women are trying to use you and you want to test them. You can’t say “I’m a provider” in one breathe then say “she should make a fake ass attempt to pay”. That is not how providers behave. Once again, a true provider doesn’t require women to pay for dates. You’re coming across more of a 60/40 guy. You don’t mind taking care of some of it but you still want women to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:29 PM
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Everyone can have their own personal standards. That doesn’t mean it’s going to happen. What you just requested would be doing you a disservice but if that’s what you think you can get, then stick with it. Those are your standards right? Stand on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:20 PM
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I always text and have phone conversations with men before I meet with them. No, I don’t know them. But I can get a feel of what they’re like and what their intentions are. If you call them and they say very little on the phone, chances are they’re like that in person too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:16 PM
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I think a drink date for online dating is appropriate. But if you met in person, a well thought out date is for sure required. I haven’t paid for a date in my life at 30. The whole 50/50 date concept seems like more of a Gen Z thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:14 PM
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Yeah we can end this right now but it’s been interesting. Men like you are the reason why women no longer post on here. You dislike women so much that you attack random women on Reddit forums to make yourself feel better inside. This is your only interaction with a women that you’ll have for the day and it makes you feel powerful that you can possibly try and put someone down. Too bad I see you motherfuckers for what you really are. Weak ass incels that don’t get women so you take your anger to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:08 PM
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So you only go on first dates and don’t go past that lmao? What type of arrangement is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:59 PM
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Having a child is not apart of being an adult. Please visit the childfree sub and ask them that. I would love to hear their responses lmao. You’re not a parent or even a marriage minded person. I’m not sure why you’re attempting to give parenting tips.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:55 PM
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If we’re on a 70/30 split, I don’t mind at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:52 PM
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If you have to answer a question with another question, you already lost. I know why you’re here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:51 PM
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You think I need a man to eat at night? Hilarious. It’s called having standards. Do I try to bash men for wanting a feminine, fit, and friendly woman? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:44 PM
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If I said “false”, you would call me a liar anyway. You came into this thread specifically to trash women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:41 PM
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If I said “false”, you would call me a liar anyway. You came into this thread specifically to trash women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:41 PM
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I can’t even read what you just wrote. Better grammar please. I don’t mind a little errors but this is too much. The only sentence that is sort of eligible is the last one. Both men and women should 100% bring money to the table. You cannot make a marriage or family work in 2023 without money. Both parties should seek out a partner that is in good standing financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:40 PM
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Well it’s been statistically proven that most people date at their socioeconomic level. It’s actually a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:34 PM
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Are you saying you don’t mind dating Burger King workers? Did you marry someone in that profession?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:33 PM
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Are you insulting me? Because you can get reported and we can end this now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:32 PM
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I felt that way at 28/29 lol. But I also don’t want to meet at some bar because I think that’s low effort and it’s always been awkward for me when I dated like that. If I had a positive experience with a bar type of date, maybe I would feel differently about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:31 PM
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Why are you even speaking on dating women if you don’t enjoy it or even think women are worth it? Just to bash women? I think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:27 PM
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I’m glad you pointed this out. Because the fact that men don’t do anything “extra” to prepare for a date is telling. Let me also state that not all men are like this, mainly just the ones who post on here and some others that I won’t get into. I know men who do go above and beyond to plan and prepare for dates in real life. So no, that isn’t every day life for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:25 PM
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What did I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:20 PM
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This sounds like a great plan if you want to get with a Burger King worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:19 PM
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How is she a whore? Because she doesn’t want Applebees for dinner? We already know women with standards are hoes or users to you all. Honestly, that’s not the woman’s problem. It’s yours. So I don’t care what the men say about that. Men have their standards and women have ours as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:18 PM
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There are other things to do besides dinner that are acceptable. The woman should be able to see that they put in effort so you can be comfortable and enjoy each other’s company. I love bowling and Top Golf. Those aren’t cheap at all. With food and drinks, the bill is always $100+. You could do something more laid back like wine tasting or a well planned picnic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:13 PM
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You can call whatever you want. I don’t know you and you don’t know me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:03 PM
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The previous post is just discussing dating prep, so I also discussed dating prep. Once again, please keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:02 PM
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I’m beyond that bar so I can’t relate. Men would take me out just for the conversation and vibes. But my advice to you is to vet better as a man. Date women who actually like you. Stop going out with women just because they’re pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:01 PM
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Women also have something called standards just like men. You’re basically saying low effort is the standard and any woman that expects more than low effort isn’t worth it lmao. I guess if you’re dating down or desire to marry a Walmart worker, this is the attitude to have. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:57 AM
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Not necessarily. You can always date women on your financial level. They might not mind cheap dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:54 AM
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Men that actually like you should invest and spend money on you. This thread is specifically talking about pump and dumps. Keep up please. If you don’t know or understand the value women bring to a marriage or relationship, that’s not my problem. Your parents should’ve taught you that already.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:53 AM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:50 AM
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Is your goal right now just to argue with me? Because nothing you said made a lick of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:44 AM
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Nothing I’ve said in this thread indicates that I don’t do chores. Y’all really just say anything on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:43 AM
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How can I child rear with no children? Having children isn’t part of being an adult, it’s a decision. Taking care of multiple people is a job. If both parents worked, they would just get sent to daycare. I’m the daycare worker for the day. It’s not a difficult concept to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:41 AM
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You don’t need cosmetic surgery. Your face isn’t ugly. I think you would look hot with muscles. You won’t gain them overnight so be patient. It would give you more sex appeal and make you more noticeable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 09:05 AM
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Where did you go on your date where you dressed up at?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:45 AM
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What do you mean what happens? It shows that you’re putting in effort. However, the gym is not date prep. That’s something you do for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:38 AM
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Do you know how long it takes me to get dressed for a date? I’m doing hair, makeup, nails, wearing brand new clothing etc. All just to look top notch for a man who might just want sex from me. That is not low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:34 AM
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But men are also fat. So where do we go from here? Remember that you asked for the date, not her. You decided to take a fat person out. That was your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:31 AM
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All he’s saying is she might not be compatible with you but could be with someone else despite her boring personality you claim she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:28 AM
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There’s a lot of men with no personality too tho. I hope the people making these personality complaints are well rounded vibrant people in person. Sounds like some of you wanted to be entertained by the woman. I deal with a lot of men like this because of my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:24 AM
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Or maybe they just don’t like you. Because she’s putting on a big smile for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:18 AM
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I think that’s more telling about the girls you’re choosing to date and vetting. You should be vetting people before you even decide to take them out. It sounds like a classic case of men chasing women that never liked them to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:16 AM
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This is false. In all my relationships, I always put in more effort than them. I wish I could be in a relationship where someone put in more effort than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:12 AM
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People dating over forty don’t have as much time to date. They have children and other obligations to tend to. You’re not in that same position at 21 or even 30. While they might not require a pricey long date I’m sure they’ll still appreciate one. I can’t even see the sub to see what you’re talking about specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:09 AM
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I seriously doubt that. You believe or think there was zero downside. One of those women might’ve really liked you until they pulled up to your low effort date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:03 AM
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We’re talking about physical attraction. If you were speaking on something other than that, then you should’ve specified. The only men that are willing to pay for multiple expensive dates just to pump and dump are rich men or sociopaths. Women who date rich men know wtf they’re getting into already. That just leaves the sociopaths left. The average american does not have 1k+ to waste on a women they don’t even like just to leave them. I’m not sure what kind of fallacy you’re thinking of but it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:32 AM
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No, I think you’re just a bit inexperienced and that’s okay. People don’t date people they aren’t attracted to. Unless you’re a millionaire of course. There’s nothing “naive” about that. It’s basic 101 dating. This honestly sounds like projection on your end.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 02:24 AM
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I already mentioned that sex tourism exist for women. I never denied it. So no, it’s not false. Not everyone is a white male lmao. The black men who go to the Dominican Republic and Brazil for sex are pay for it. White men who also go to popular sex tourism countries are also paying for it too. What I’m saying is most women can get it for free anywhere. We don’t have to pay. The only time women pay for sex is when they’re old and unfortunate looking. While men pay for sex regardless of looks in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:06 AM
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This is a lie lmao. Some men truly dgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 01:01 AM
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You aren’t adding things up and keeping a spreadsheet. Women should just be mindful about the effort men put into dates. It can be a cheaper date but just a well thought out one that takes some work. The man who takes you to the local bar or Applebees is most likely not that into you. I even had a man break this down for me before. He would take women he wasn’t really into or low earners to cheap restaurants.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:59 AM
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Mutual attraction? Isn’t he paying for multiple dates to sleep with her? That makes zero sense. He’s obviously attracted to her. No one is that stupid to throw away money like that. When men take me out for multiple dates at nice restaurants, I look at it as they’re investing into me because I mean something to them. I hold value and they want me in their lives because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:45 AM
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Same but my parents make about the same amount now. My dad makes a little more and it was actually the opposite growing up. I’m not sure what country you’re in but we go by household income in the US if your married. Your mom and dad would be considered at the same socioeconomic level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:40 AM
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I guess so. What I’m trying to figure out is why someone who isn’t considered desirable would throw an opportunity away to be in a meaningful relationship with someone that actually likes them back. For what reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:25 AM
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With time and some money. Invest in the people around you that you care about. Make sure she knows that you’re looking for something serious. Then on the second date let her know that you want to be serious with her specifically. Tell her important things about your life. Ask her thought provoking questions as well. Things about herself that she can open up to you about. Make sure the dates are well planned and not cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:19 AM
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Well to be accurate, I can’t stop a man from doing anything. My bf can call and break up with me right now for no reason at all. I don’t have autonomy over anyone but myself. Look at it like this. If you’re looking to pump and dump someone, are you really interested in investing your time and hard earned money into someone you aren’t interested in? If so, you’re either rich or rare. Because most men won’t spend more than one date with you if they just want sex. You aren’t worth the money or inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:08 AM
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Some men know how to hide their tracks well. Women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 12:01 AM
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Why the extreme? Do you really think that’s the only option women have? I could be with someone who actually cares about me and doesn’t want to pump and dump.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:59 PM
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Listen, a man could introduce you to his entire family and still be playing you. Remember friends and family will always have his best interest. The woman is the employee and friends & family are HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:53 PM
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Idk why. It’s not hard. Good looking doesn’t mean they’ll treat you right.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:49 PM
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I said dates with an S. I would recommend the minimum number of dates be 4 just to be on the safe side. Most men will not spend an abundant amount of time and money on women they don’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:47 PM
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I stayed because I don’t think sex is the most important thing in a relationship. However, I didn’t enjoy it and always thought about seeing other people. I’m glad the relationships ended. Sex is actually very important to me but partnership means more. It holds more power. Bf #1 wasn’t that bad because he was amazing at forplay. It was better than the sex. Bf #2 was just bad overall. You can tell he was a beginner. D size definitely played a part in both lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:39 PM
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For some women this is totally fine. I know I don’t care. If I’m dating you, I obviously somewhat enjoy your company. I’m down for a good dinner and drinks. He can go sleep with whomever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:45 PM
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Make sure the dates are high quality, not cheap, and well thought out. Let the man plan everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:43 PM
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How is it cheating if you all didn’t come to an agreement to stop dating other people? Regardless if she is or not, I’m sure she’ll still keep her options open. Why should a woman give every guy in her phone up for something that could fall through at any moment? Maybe your worth it, maybe your not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:42 PM
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How can I say this in an appropriate manner. I can tell a lot of you haven’t really experienced life yet. A man who takes care of his woman is not insecure. To even think this way is a mindset I’ll never understand because the people around me don’t think or behave like this. I’m at the stage in my life where everyone is getting engaged or married. So to even read this is mind boggling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:34 PM
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Stupid concept. This is the type of attitude deadbeat fathers and men who wonder why they’re still single at 35+ have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:24 PM
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This post is amazing. It’s too bad most men don’t operate like this when dating. And by most, I mean a good 95% don’t do this. But to add some context, my bf said he didn’t care when we had sex because he knew my feelings about him were genuine. Even if I didn’t prove it yet, he trusted me and knew I was going to stick around. He knew has wasn’t going anywhere either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:38 PM
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Your solution is to meet women in person in the niche you enjoy. You don’t have to rely on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:12 PM
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No, I just recognize that there are good and bad people in this world. Everyone can’t be a good person. Life has to go on. I still have to date and meet men because my goal is marriage. Despite what has happened to me in the past, I’ve had more good experiences than bad with meeting men. I also no longer approach men, I let them approach me. I don’t recommend any woman to approach a man. The men you’re rejecting have been rejected before. Trust and believe that. You aren’t the first and won’t be…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:09 PM
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I’ve been sexually assaulted by approaching men myself. At the end of the day, I know that there are really shitty people in this world and extremely good ones. Or I could walk around with a “I hate all men” attitude. I guess that’s the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:31 PM
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I read your reasoning again and it is a bit of a stretch. You can hype someone up and make them think and feel like a 10 but a socially aware person would know they aren’t. Most women know they aren’t 10’s. An example of this is my friends telling me that I was too good for my boyfriend and to leave him. But I know deep down inside that we are on the same level overall. We are at the same place in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:27 PM
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I agree. I can’t even say “women don’t do that” anymore because some of them are just as socially inept as the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:22 PM
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Why would they be disingenuous? Those women are clearly not friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:45 PM
2

Most men don’t lose their shit. I say this as someone who gets hit on a lot. Also, is she really busy or uninterested? Because if Chad asked for her number she would make time for him. She’s not busy but uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:42 PM
1

Okay? Is everyone you meet in life respectful? I meet disrespectful people everywhere. It’s called life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:40 PM
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Men have also been doing that for years as well. Those particular women are just weird. Unless you’re jogging down the street or running on a treadmill, you shouldn’t have an issue with someone having a quick conversation with you. You will get accepted or rejected when approaching women anywhere. It’s all part of the game. The post still sounds like an excuse to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:51 PM
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That’s weird af and 100% some strange Gen Z rhetoric. Go ask your parents how they met. There was no social media around back then. They literally had to approach each other in order to date or hook up. I’m only 30 and this social hook up culture is new to me. My prom date met me and asked me out in person lol. I think meeting online and on apps is much worse actually. U literally have nothing to go off of but looks. You can get to know someone better in person before giving your number out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:43 PM
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I’ll never understand why the men on here perceive me giving my friend a compliment as a “lie”. I’m not looking at my friends in a sexual manner. If she gets dressed up to go out and I like her outfit, I’m going to give a compliment. It’s that simple. You only disagree with the compliment because you personally don’t find her desirable. That’s all. This way of thinking is strange to say the least. Secondly, most women don’t think they’re 10’s. Not even the ones who are really 10’s. You should se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:28 PM
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I’ve never seen a woman on here say that but I was just having this conversation. I don’t think the women on here are a good reflection of women out in the real world. There are literally videos of women coaching other women on how to look approachable and what places to go to get approached. What he’s saying isn’t reality. If you went to a bar or club last night, I’m 100% positive the men approached women. It’s a normal thing to do and apart of being a social being. Women don’t have a problem w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:24 PM
1

I think this is a reflection of women on PPD only if you get where I’m going with this. I do believe the responses are genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:16 PM
1

My man makes a lot more than me already? So what are you talking about? He actually wanted me to move in rent free and I declined. We’re both childless too. The men I date don’t require me to go half on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:01 PM
1

Do you know me?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:58 AM
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You’re assuming less because I’m working less than him. What about doing chores, cooking, cleaning, child rearing etc. That’s not “real” work to you I’m guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:57 AM
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We are all anonymous tho lol. I don’t see anyone with a photo up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:55 AM
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Yep men in other countries have never asked me for a dime. Even in the broke poverty stricken ones, they just wanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:54 AM
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I’m shocked by a lot of the responses in this thread honestly. This is not the response I would get in real life with my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:16 AM
1

Why did you stick around?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:13 AM
1

Yes. I’ll leave it at that. Short and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:10 AM
3

And they’re paying for it. It’s not a random sexpat romance like women. These men are literally planning sex tourism vacations in groups. Then fly back to the US to trash western women after they just paid prostitutes for sex. It’s a big joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:07 AM
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Where in either of my post did I embrace sex tourism? I’m definitely condemning it for both men and women. What I’m pointing out is the women aren’t going around bragging about taking advantage of people and shit talking western men. They’re doing their dirt in silence and shutting the fuck up. This is nothing to brag about or be proud of. Oh and one last thing. One of your fellow passport bros checked me on here and said it’s not sex tourism if you don’t pay for it. Most women don’t pay for sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:07 AM
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You don’t see women making videos about how many men they slept with on vacation or starting a passport girl movement. They’re also not trashing western men. They know it’s just spontaneous sex and will go right back to dating the same men when they get back to the US. Most importantly, a lot of those women DONT pay those men. Maybe the old and undesirable women but I highly doubt a young woman is paying to sleep with them. When I was in Jamaica, I’m positive those men would have no problem slee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:18 AM
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It’s predatory because the passport bros are not marrying these women but participating in sex tourism. If they were marrying these women, I don’t think anyone would care or make a big deal out of it. They also diss American women every chance they get. Get on your flight and leave Western women alone. Sex tourism has been a thing but those men knew to keep quiet about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:14 AM
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I’m not sure why the people on here think you can police my thoughts or tell me wtf to say. It’s hilarious actually. It’s stupid to think you have control of what comes out of my mouth. I will say my peace however I want on the topic whether you like it or not. Skip my post if you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:05 PM
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Are you dumb? I already explained why I included children in my post and I don’t give af if you don’t like it. It’s my stance on the situation period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:17 PM
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Would the word “ours” make you more comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:14 PM
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No one is working “harder” if I’m taking care of children and the household while he’s at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:50 PM
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I’m not running on any loses. I also work full time. The split is not based on my income at all. It’s my personal decision and preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:49 PM
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Yes. It depends on my situation like I previously explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:47 PM
1

Your mother couldn’t afford the expenses between her and your step dad? Why wouldn’t you have gone? Private school is a luxury.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:46 PM
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That’s not costing your mother money though. Your father contributed money to private school and your mother was responsible for the uniform. Your mother could’ve been responsible for both but your dad took care of the private school tuition. He helped you and your mother financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:04 PM
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He can make just as much as me because I’m not fucking broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:29 PM
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The only people who think like this are the naive 50/50 individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:29 PM
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If you think it works, go for it! I know one thing. I won’t spend the rest of my life going half on the everything with someone. I would rather be by myself. You can make it work, but will you be HAPPY? You most likely won’t. My parents made it work but was it a smooth happy marriage? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:26 PM
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You’re not properly explaining how him contributing money cost your mom money. I’m not understanding that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:24 PM
1

How so? And if that’s the case, why have him pay anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:49 AM
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My friends dream is to live on a small farm with family. I hope you can make it happen. Everything is super expensive these days. Your gf is lucky that she owns property. I’m not going hard on 50/50 because of some gripe I have with it. I literally saw my parents argue over who will pay for what all the time. We lived in a high COL area for a good school system and safety. They made it work but were they happy? No. Everything always became about money all the time. If you can’t afford to take ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:42 PM
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That’s the only time I think a 50/50 marriage might work. If both parties are high earners. But that’s not the reality for most people. We’re talking the top 1%. Then finding someone whose marriage minded in the same field that is willing to have children is another challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:25 PM
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I would actually rather have a full time job or continue to run my small businesses. If we have children, I’ll definitely be part time. Are you asking where the other 70% goes to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:20 PM
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I would work on myself with no therapist since you’re refusing that answer lol. I would have a goal to glow up a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:25 PM
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You’re asking what would I do and I’m telling you I would get therapy. You are still bitter from the breakup. Idk what else to tell you. That’s what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:16 PM
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You’re refusing to accept that your father provided financial help for some odd reason. If he paid for private school, that is financial help regardless of whatever arrangement your parents had.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:14 PM
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And hypothetically, that’s what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:55 PM
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He paid for private school. This is financial help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:34 PM
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If he paid for anything for you, your mother had financial help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:30 PM
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You asked a question and I answered that I would get therapy instead of worrying about getting back at someone. That’s what I would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:29 PM
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If your father was providing for you anyway financially, she had another stream of income for her child. I don’t know your situation but I’m sure your father also gave you things you wanted or need. The point I’m trying to make is she had extra help. I don’t consider this a 50/50 situation really.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:22 PM
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You can dream all you want for this amazing man with excellent conflict resolution skills. Y’all will still be arguing every week. At least you will come up with a solution I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:14 PM
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What was the arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:12 PM
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Are you currently with your child’s father? Are you married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:12 PM
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It does not work like that when you have children. This situation might be “cute” when you are childless but it’s totally different when children come into the picture. You say you shouldn’t be thinking about how to divide the ER bill when that’s literally what 50/50 is lmao. Everything is 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:09 PM
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Having a revengeful mindset means you need therapy. It’s not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:06 PM
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You just said both of your fathers contributed. Like I said, your mother had another stream of income from another man. Me and you do not have the same situation at all. I’m talking about a straight up two parent household where both parents are going 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:05 PM
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Or maybe you shouldn’t go 50/50 because you will be constantly arguing over expenses with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:04 PM
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I’ll say this because a lot of the younger people in here aren’t thinking long term. A 50/50 marriage with children is NOT ideal. Your little shared one bedroom is “cute” but it will not survive a marriage with children involved. You’ll find out later.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:00 PM
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Do you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:57 PM
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Your situation is different. Your mother literally had another stream of income to depend on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:57 PM
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Step dad? What age were you when they got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:52 PM
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I grew up in it and know what it’s like. This 50/50 stuff is a new concept for this generation but not for me. I saw it first hand for 18+ years. I wouldn’t recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:49 PM
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Most don’t speak on it because people usually assume that you have some type of financial troubles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:47 PM
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A fight is not “fine” when this is a lifestyle and not a one time thing. You’ll be fighting all the time over money, expenses, and even chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:46 PM
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Material items and unexpected expenses will always be some type of argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:45 PM
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But that’s the thing with a 50/50 marriage. It is always one big fight about who pays for what. Conflict resolution skills won’t make your kids ER bill disappear. Sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:44 PM
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Did you and the partner have kids? It’s all good now but when children come things are completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:42 PM
1

I’m not married. I grew up in a 50/50 household.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:39 PM
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Actually it’s not. None of my friends know wtf an FDS is. I haven’t met one person who knows what it is actually. Red Pill is now mainstream. Way more men are now online crying about their issues instead of getting the proper help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:36 PM
2

This has nothing to do with prostitution but who will make the overall better husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:33 PM
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Absolutely nothing. But the men believe the more money you pay means the more work women must do for them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:32 PM
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It depends. If I’m contributing to 30% of the bills, I would have to have a job. I can’t work full time and do a bulk of the chores. I would have to have a part time position or not work at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 06:32 PM
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A 70/30 split is ideal for me. I have written at least a dozen post on why 50/50 marriages are not ideal. If you want a struggle marriage, go 50/50. It’s not a fun life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:47 PM
1

My man and I are more polar and we balance each other out. He’s more laid back while I’m the outgoing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:45 PM
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Chads can land beautiful women to sleep with. A beautiful woman can bag a hot guy with money. She has a lot of options too. Why would she settle for the broke hot guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:43 PM
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You think broke men get top notch women? I thought we were talking about high earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:37 PM
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If your searching for some way to get back at someone that’s no longer in your life, you obviously have some pain or built up anger inside. That isn’t healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:32 PM
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Actually it’s not. Most wealthy men just want a classy woman who is going to hold him and the household down while he’s working. They’re not out searching for virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:30 PM
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I wouldn’t do anything but get therapy and stop being so bitter. Learn how to heal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:25 PM
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Do you know me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:23 PM
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Umm we’re talking about in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:22 PM
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That’s fine. Just don’t call them tradcon or traditional because they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:36 PM
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Why would a woman you just met tell you her sexual history? You’re not her partner. That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:35 PM
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Do you know men with options? How much like are they having with this? Because the ones I know aren’t doing too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:35 PM
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I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:33 PM
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We are talking about women you’re courting for a date. Why would they spill all of their personal sex history with you? That makes no sense. Using celebrities as examples doesn’t make your point. Of course some women or people in general are willing to do questionable things for fame. That was not the scenario you presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 01:33 PM
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This sounds so…immature? Idk the right word to describe it. Average people get married to other average people every day. Same with ugly people. I don’t think my man is the player type but I know he’s had casual sex before. He even admitted that it’s really not his thing. Why would I hold that over his head? For what reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:16 AM
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You say it’s a bad reason but don’t list why exactly. Because the method works for most women. I don’t know any woman that will keep seeing men they have bad experiences with. You completely lost me there. How would you even know her previous sexual history unless she told you, which I doubt would happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:07 AM
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This isn’t reality lmao. Just internet dreams and fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:03 AM
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Understood but these men are not looking for real traditionalism. A lot of them don’t even want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:02 AM
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You should stop generalizing all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 03:00 AM
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Sarcasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:29 PM
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Attractive men also slut shame. Idk where you got that only ugly men do it. Your question is a little gaslight-ish to me. Like seriously? Who wants to be known as hoe? Whose to say I don’t respect the person who did it? How did you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:22 PM
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Women don’t have to tell you anything about their sexually history. Your not their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:19 PM
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Do you hear how they talk? They aren’t even tradcon, just misogynist or incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:17 PM
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Men think that other men don’t cheat more is crazy. You can tell these are red pill men because the men outside of the internet would say differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:33 PM
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Are you serious? There’s an n-count conversation on here daily but you don’t think men care about chastity lol? Women get slut shamed everyday. This is a case of men kicking their own selves in the balls. You want to shame women but also want quick sex at the same time. You can’t have it both ways. You all did yourselves this disservice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:28 PM
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As someone whose had bad experiences, it’s best for me to wait and get to know the person first. The only time limit I put on myself is the first couple dates. The rest is based on discernment. I do think having sex on the first date is classless tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:44 PM
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I agree that putting a specific time limit on things is a bit much but that time limit is there for most women for a reason. Once you’ve had several bad relationships, you do have to look in the mirror and ask what you can you do better. Not getting to know someone before sleeping with them is an issue with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:30 PM
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I don’t care how close you feel to someone, you don’t know them after one date. You’re waiting because you want to get to know them better. That is the goal here, not to purposely have them wait for the sake of waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:41 PM
1

I wouldn’t describe it as a spreadsheet but what I’ve been taught and know to do from advice and personal experiences. I stick to my guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:40 PM
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40k isn’t enough for anyone anymore. They’re in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:38 PM
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There is no 5 stages for women. I can’t speak for all women but I can’t relate. I’ve never been in denial, angry, depressed, bargaining, or acceptance. Dating in my 30’s has been fun so far. It’s basically dating men with more money with more money in my account. I’m in a relationship now. I’m sure my experience is vastly different for someone in their late 30’s but I don’t think your thread is about them. Sounds like you’re trying to say the misogynist red pill is equivalent to women entering t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:37 PM
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I’m a woman and money most definitely makes a difference. I don’t see how anyone can deny that these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:26 PM
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This is just simply not true. My extremely attractive friends won’t even acknowledge your presence if you’re too ugly. They just act like you don’t exist when you try to talk to them. Then proceed to laugh at you behind your back. While my average or ugly friends will at least have a conversation with you and might even give you their number. Why? Because they’re literally dating on their level and used to these type of men approaching them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:46 PM
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Why would you label her a man? Is your racism coming out or are you a misogynist? I can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:04 PM
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As someone who is friends with top tier beautiful women, this is bullshit. You have to have the money and the looks to get with them. If you see an extremely ugly man with one of them, you better believe he has the money to make up for the ugliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:38 PM
9

Michelle Obama has talked a lot about her relationship with Barack in her book, podcast, and many interviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:30 PM
0

While this is true, the foundation is usually similar. We all come from different cultures but the foundational principles of a lot of our cultures are more similar than different.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:24 PM
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You made a blanket statement about women that is false. If what you said was factual, how would these single parent households ran by women be functional? Or are you saying single mothers only do the things you mentioned because they’re forced to do it? Single mothers are active around the house while married women do nothing. Is that statement accurate or not according to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:22 PM
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This is false. First off, most women are the sole care takers in the household. I also believe most households are now ran by women due to the declining marriage rates and out of wedlock births.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:14 PM
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A man that has traditional values or was raised in a traditional household and also wants to live that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:49 PM
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What excuse do men give? Because I don’t think they give an explanation at all. This post sounds personal. I tell things straight up and don’t hide the truth. Especially after a break up. What do I have to lie to u about? We aren’t even together. You don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:48 PM
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Men these days don’t pay almost all the bills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:43 PM
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To me it means a traditional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:41 PM
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Some men care about partnership and building a family legacy. It’s not all about sex for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:40 PM
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The bodycount thing is frivolous. Because you will never know a real number anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:07 PM
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Not being attracted to broke men will never be outdated. You need money and resources to raise a family. It will be like this for the rest of your life. There is no changing this. There’s nothing misandrist about being able to care for your wife and kids. I have no feelings towards the rest of the things named. They might or might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:44 PM
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The women also lack real life experience and social skills. The internet has effected everyone. Also, women have been sexually assaulted. I’m not going to act like that’s not a thing because it’s very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:21 PM
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Actually, it’s not. It’s clear you don’t know or understand this dynamic because you or the people u hang around don’t partake in it. Men have the upper hand when you approach them. They know that you’re sexually attracted to them and some men WILL take advantage of that. It’s totally different when a man approaches a woman. Don’t compare my life with the stage of modern dating. I’m happily in a relationship. Hbu?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 01:19 PM
1

Idk the culture there but I’m still kind of shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:07 AM
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I’m someone who was raised correctly. I’m also not pro-approach men. I’ve been sexually assaulted by approaching men. No thanks. It’s not effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:05 AM
1

Most aren’t but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:02 AM
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I want my kid to be as social as possible. I’m signing my kid up for multiple social groups, sports, and clubs. My biggest regret as a child is quitting sports. It didn’t impact me socially but in other ways. I believe sports overall helps you build good character and discipline along with social skills. He will of course be taught good manners and social etiquette at home first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 08:58 PM
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It’s clear you aren’t around women with standards or extremely attractive women. Because I did not mess around with broke men in my early 20’s. I was always taken out to eat or had things bought for me. Low self esteem and ugly girls don’t usually care tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:54 PM
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This isn’t true at all. There are so many things that go into genetics. You have little control on how your kids come out no matter how ugly or attractive your child is. What if they’re disabled? Would you still love them? People who procreate for attractive children bother me. It’s definitely a trauma response from being picked on as a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:52 PM
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What does this have to do with age? Are you labeling me immature because I was raised on basic societal norms, traditions, and principles like most people? Do I have that correct? If so, you might want to look in the mirror. Pot calling the kettle black. You can’t change the fucking world. Who do you think you are? The president? God? What a joke lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:48 PM
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And that’s your problem now. Listening to a rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:43 PM
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Because money DOES have an impact on who women choose to sleep with whether you would like to admit it or not. Not everyone has the same standards. There are some 6-7’s who do require a man to have a decent income. Why would anyone fuck a man that can’t afford a kid in 2023? It’s pure stupidity to me but women with low standards will do what they please. What club promotes are you talking about? You’re obviously describing the ones that just post pics on Instagram all day. The ones I know make b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:43 PM
1

My focus is you thinking your children will be ugly if you have children with a 4/10. That’s not how genetics work. I’ve seen ugly people make gorgeous kids and beautiful people make ugly babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:26 PM
1

Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:55 PM
1

That’s not a troll post. I’m asking him to give a specific definition for FDS, not just things he’s seen strangers post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:51 PM
1

So why even bring money into the equation at all? A perfect 10 still isn’t sleeping with a broke man. Not all men can afford five star restaurants so it does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:24 PM
1

That’s a tough one. Attractive women are not accepting dates at TGI Fridays. If the teacher can provide me with the proper date I’m going with him. However, if I’m comparing the teacher to entrepreneur making 250k+ I’m going with him. But whey even bring money into the situation if it’s not a serious relationship? It’s a pointless argument. It could go either way depending on the vibe. That money isn’t mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:27 PM
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Because traditionally we do not approach men. It’s not my job to boost your confidence, it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:15 PM
1

How can it be pushed when it has always been a model beauty standard for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:07 PM
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So from my understanding, after you get to a healthy weight is when you can focus on building muscle. You have to transition from eating less to eating more but healthy foods only while lifting weights. This is just my info from things I’ve read and the weight loss sites I follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:07 AM
1

Men don’t have to be flashy for me to find out how much you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:55 AM
1

They never had high standards to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:52 AM
0

That’s false. Attractive 10/10 women are not sleeping with broke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:51 AM
1

Used up? Men can have casual sex but women can’t?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:44 AM
1

All relationships don’t start off casual. Some people date with intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:42 AM
1

He did not stare whether he was referring to casual sex or a relationship so her post still stands. A hook up doesn’t give a fuck about money anyway so why even bring it up? It would be irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:39 AM
1

Big Ed has something red pillers don’t have; some confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:37 AM
1

Beauty is subjective. What’s beautiful to me might not be beautiful to the next person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:36 AM
1

You’re a good example of men wanting to date women out of their league and then complaining about being single. It makes no sense. You explained why you’re doing it but wouldn’t you be happier partnering with someone on your level if you aren’t having success dating perfect 10 women? Also, two unattractive people can make a cute kid. I don’t know where you got this from. Just like two attractive people can make ugly children. You’re trying to outclass genetics when it doesn’t even work like that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:33 AM
0

Sure. Men traditionally still approach women. Men don’t have confidence in themselves anymore. Therefore, women aren’t being approached or courted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:23 AM
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FDS didn’t create this phenomenon. The tall, dark, and handsome man has always gotten more love. It’s been around for ages before the sub existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:18 AM
0

I’m glad you said it. Because I don’t know one attractive man that uses these terms. Edit: your username speaks for itself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:12 AM
1

While this is true some new money millionaires just require you to have a good paying job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:10 AM
2

That’s a lie. If I’m shooting for commitment, I want the guy making 110k over the guy making 60k. I’ve literally chose an engineer over a teacher before. Club promoters can make a lot of money. That’s why their known to get a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:08 AM
1

That’s the downside of it. But you can still dedicate some of your free time to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:03 AM
2

Because you’re older. Everything gets harder when you’re older. You have less options and the people that were making 75k when you were making 25k are making even more now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 10:01 AM
2

The OP is right about having a photo in dress clothes. Your suit and tie pic is your best pic. If you aren’t that attractive know how to properly take a good selfie pic. Put some effort into it please. The most common thing I see is guys in cars with the camera super close to their face. It’s usually not flattering. The advice you gave to women is just a reflection of the type of women you find on apps. There’s not much to change honestly. Well I guess my point is you can’t. That’s just who they…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:56 AM
1

Or women who don’t meet their ridiculous standards. They love shit talking them too lol. I just sit back and listen to them tell on themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:45 AM
1

So all fat people are broke now? If no one wants them, then how are they in assisted living facilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:41 AM
2

You ran into a red piller in person huh? I’m sorry you had to go through that. Dealing with it online is bad enough. They’re no different in real life either. A bunch of lost and bitter hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:28 AM
1

Do you know how much some assisted living spaces cost? Trust, they will take them if there’s room for them. If the rehab facility can handle them, so can an assistant living center. It’s the same people working in both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:23 AM
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Maybe the women slightly lower than you aren’t used to a lot of male attention and don’t know how to properly date vs the attractive women who are more savvy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:21 AM
2

You have a point. People did have more resources back then because everything was cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:19 AM
2

I don’t think that’s true either though. The barista would be thrilled if he landed a lawyer or someone who makes significantly more than him. Broke men also care about careers. It’s less stress and work for them. Having a degree doesn’t make you a better partner but having money to provide for a family does.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:17 AM
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Most women are not afraid of being approached. It’s more like men are too afraid of rejection and don’t want to shoot their shot at women in person because they lack social skills. People had to be social because there was no social media. You had no choice but to approach women to get to know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:12 AM
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The same reason why a man might empty his bank account for a stripper or onlyfans girl. Everyone lust after someone. It doesn’t mean they make better spouses. No where in my post am I trying to “fool” you. I’m actually trying to understand the point you’re attempting to get across which is why I’m asking you questions. I’m not a “Karen”, I’m a black woman. A man’s qualities and traits do contribute to his attractiveness when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:09 AM
1

Upstate or the city?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:11 AM
1

A rehabilitation center is different from an assisted living facility. I’ve seen them in rehabilitation facilities but never in a assisted living or nursing home under 55. One is for short term stay and the other is for long term/life long stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:08 AM
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I’ve never seen anyone under 55 in there because of weight. Most can still get around at that age whether it be on a wheel chair or with a cain. They are able to still care for themselves which is the biggest factor when deciding whether or not to put someone in assisted living care. Most are still self sufficient under 55.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:50 PM
1

It’s only stupid or broke men who believe that careers don’t matter or that they have an “attitude”. As someone who dates amongst other professionals, careers DO matter. Successful men are very conscious of their image and prefer to have an equally successful partner. Only red pill bums shit on women that have careers. Try that career bashing shit in circles where everyone is successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:33 PM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:29 PM
3

So which one is it? Are fat people under 55 in assisted living homes or are they being rejected? You’re contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:28 PM
1

I’m talking maybe a generation ago. Men like your fathers age, not the 1940’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:26 PM
0

I feel sorry for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:03 PM
2

Fine, I won’t say “most” but a reasonable portion of women are having this issue. It would be naive to ignore it. I see it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:46 PM
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There are women who have the looks, right attitude, and career but are still single. This isn’t a small amount either but a large percentage of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:44 PM
-1

He’s actually wise beyond his years and smarter than most adults judging from his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:42 PM
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Because men became simps for women who aren’t into them. They’re willing to text, FaceTime, send money and flowers to women that don’t like them. Instead of paying attention to women who are on their level and actually into them. Women who play those games do so because they don’t want them and have options to get who they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:41 PM
2

It’s totally different here. They stopped giving out pensions a long time ago. We only have 401k’s and Roth IRA’s now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:36 PM
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It’s actually pretty common. Most are in the obese category. Very few are slim and in shape. It’s harder to walk when you get older so most don’t do any exercise at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:34 PM
3

This is bs. I’ve worked at several assisted living facilities and I’ve never seen a fat person under 55 living there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:32 PM
2

The same goes for average women. Which is why smv is some bs to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:29 PM
3

I’m also speaking on the average guy. They want super attractive girlfriends too. The ones with and without high salaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:40 PM
-2

If we’re going based off the job analogy, women are not under qualified but overqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:02 PM
1

Spend their money on what? A fucking date? If you think women who keep their money don’t spend it on their household or children, where do you think the money is going to?? Because that’s exactly what it’s used for. The home, children, and savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:01 PM
2

Some of you do want model looking or above average girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:54 PM
-2

But most are overqualified vs. under qualified. Where are you getting that from? When you’re overqualified and still can’t get a job, it’s extremely frustrating and yes you’ll hear complaints. That’s the problem. A lot of women are overqualified and still can’t find commitment. That’s where the complaining comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:37 PM
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It’s the same amount of effort the men before u put in. Nothing has changed. If anything, it’s easier then ever because of social media and dating apps. You don’t even have to approach a woman anymore. Men before you actually had it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:25 PM
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The problem with this narrative is you’re trying to force women to find unattractive people attractive. While women don’t get that grace. You will never hear a woman complaining about beauty standards because we already know the drill. But for some reason, there is a group of men who thinks it shouldn’t apply to them. Men have their beauty standards and women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:40 PM
2

Those seem like great ages to have children. You got to enjoy life and build a nice career for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:36 PM
1

You don’t know wtf you’re talking about. Most women in two parent households do this! Have you seen the fucking economy? No one can survive on one income for 4 people anymore. Hell, I was raised like this! It’s literally how I grew up. Like I said, you don’t know how households or marriages work. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:32 PM
1

If you think women are saying “oh the bill didn’t come to $300 so I’m never calling him again” I’m a bit worried. Because that doesn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:28 PM
5

You must live down south or the Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:24 PM
3

Well you explained the mindset of a lot of men these days. The problem is a lot of you will carry this mindset well into your 30’s. Then you’ll start saying “Why would I settle when I have all of this money now”. The cycle continues from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:20 PM
3

When did you and your wife have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:16 PM
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Where have you been? The government is talking about it and trying to come up with ways to increase the birth rate. Giving incentives to have children, banning abortions, trying to ban certain contraceptives etc. The main problem is they’re not addressing the real issue which is people not being able to afford children anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:14 PM
2

The only push back I have is it’s mostly financial. A lot of men don’t have the money to date or marry in their 20’s. Now that I’m older, men have even opened up to me about it. Straight up told me that they always liked me they just didn’t have the time or money because of work. Then factor on college they were attending in order to make more money. This wasn’t just one guy but several. I’ve ended relationships because my partner worked too much. The main reason is financial but I know it’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:09 PM
1

You paying for dates while courting a woman is not prostitution or anything close to it. If you view it as such, you’re not ready for a relationship or marriage which will cost a shit load of money you won’t want to spend. Stay single and don’t waste anyone’s time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:03 PM
1

I don’t give a shit how hard it is for you. What you’re not explaining is why a man would discuss this on a date. Because only an idiot would think it’s acceptable to talk about red pill content with a woman during a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:00 PM
2

Involuntary celibate means you can’t get sex. Women will always have access to sex. So no it’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:55 PM
1

What you consider reasonable or unrealistic is based on your relationship. Do wtf you want but I dont pay for anything on dates. I do cook and buy groceries for my man because that’s what works for us. I’ll buy takeout too when I don’t feel like cooking. For you to expect a wife who works, takes care of the house, and child rearing to go half on dates is fucking crazy. That is not provider behavior. That’s not even going 50/50 because the wife is doing the majority of work at home. You want wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:53 PM
1

Because it was never said by any of the people who run FDS. He’s taking anything he reads over there and running with it. That’s like me hearing a red piller say “it’s okay to abandon your child if you get a hoe pregnant” and I run around saying red pill men are deadbeats lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:47 PM
1

Are you going to give a definition or continue to talk shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:45 PM
2

It’s an automatic red flag for me and I never plan on seeing them again but I at least get to tell them how stupid it is to their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:44 PM
1

If you think a prostitute is a better investment then you’re lost. Any man that wants a prostitute to have his children is a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:41 PM
1

How so? Your not fully vetting them for a relationship. You’re vetting them to see if it’s someone you would like to go out on a date with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:37 PM
1

Most men who are providers to housewives are “give them everything types”. Traditionalism has been around for years now. You just don’t agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:36 PM
2

You know what’s funny? I’m positive a woman would never say anything about scrotes or FDS on a date. But men have openly discussed TRP and manosphere content on dates with me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:28 PM
-2

Women can’t be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:19 PM
2

You should treat FDS like the red pill. All of those women are not following all those rules. Just like red pillers don’t because they’re just lonely men that want attention from women at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:15 PM
-3

Who said they did? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:11 PM
1

Not everyone meets online and is a dating app person. Even the ones who are on them still vet. Well, the men who are seriously dating of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:11 PM
0

Because they have the money to spend on them and like being around the woman. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:08 PM
0

You get what you pay for. Most perfect 10 women will expect to have dinners and expensive dates and you will be responsible for it. If you can’t afford it, you just can’t afford a 10. Because other men will pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:07 PM
0

Because they’re contributing in the kitchen, child rearing, and around the home while working. You want them to split dinner dates too? That’s not unreasonable at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:05 PM
1

The only time I’ve offered to split a bill is because I never wanted to see the guy ever again. This can be a very bad thing too. Just to let you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:03 PM
2

Because men usually don’t marry and have children with sugar babies. A woman who is taken care of by a bf is also no where equivalent to a sugar baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:00 PM
1

What is an FDS woman? Y’all just like to talk shit about them. To the point where there is no clear definition anymore. All I see is women with standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:56 PM
-2

They intertwine but are not directly tied together. They’re singular subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:53 PM
1

That’s absolutely false. I have older relatives who I love, remember, and I’ll proudly carry the legacy they created for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:30 PM
3

You basically just summing up wtf I said. Whose the clown?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:29 PM
2

I actually read his post wrong. My bad. I’ll leave it up for context tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:59 PM
3

I agree. But all attractive men are not automatically red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:55 PM
2

I’m not the one who brought up interest and hobbies, the person I quoted did. The thread is actually about hobbies. The OP is asking what Red Pillers do for hobbies. Maybe read instead of attacking any random woman that replies to the thread. The men I know don’t have nerdy hobbies because they aren’t nerds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:47 PM
2

Are we talking about divorce or finances in a marriage? Which one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:31 PM
1

A dad bod to me is chubby man that carries weight well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:24 PM
5

You accuse someone else of wanting to exploit men only to reveal yourself as a man that wants to exploit women. Projection at its finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:02 PM
10

I’m waiting to hear his response lol. His rhetoric doesn’t make sense and is unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:00 PM
4

But that’s not a real partnership. A real husband would assure you that things would get better and even help you with the job search. In sickness and in health. That means you’re together no matter. The good times and the bad. If you want a marriage where things will be great all the time, you shouldn’t get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:58 PM
2

You would be better off never marrying if this is how you think. You’re not marrying for the right reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:52 PM
-4

None of the things you mentioned are attractive interests to me. If you hang around women more you would know these are not hobbies we desire a man to have. Unless you’re 50+ of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:51 PM
5

I’m glad you’re working with your son and his diet. My main problem at that age was not knowing how to cook healthy meals and diet properly. I would recommend that your daughter gets some therapy if she’s totally shut off from dating. She’s still young and should be living her best single life!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:17 PM
1

Life is not meaningless. There are people that get married and build a legacy with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:11 PM
7

You’re an anomaly. Most of the men I met in college are less cute now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:09 PM
1

Your logic was bullshit. You had to use an extreme example of someone potentially dying lmao. The topic of the conversation was a fucking kiss. You have to be joking here. If not, let me repeat myself and tell you to move in because you’re lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:58 PM
0

I would tell you to ask what she’s looking for and eventually make your intentions known so your time won’t be wasted. Not all female friends are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:56 PM
1

If you have to use drastic examples that include losing your life to make a point, you lost sir. Move on. Stop making a joke out of women’s sexuality for your pleasure or out of boredom. Whatever the reason was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:33 PM
1

You’re not engaging in good faith. If I kiss the same sex, that would make ANYONE man or woman either gay or bisexual. Or are you one of these new Gen Z kids that think you can fuck, kiss, flirt with the same sex and be “straight”. Because your NOT. You can try to gaslight and word pick all you want. You know exactly what the fuck you did and what I’m saying. It’s very stupid to ask straight women would they do gay things. My opinion. I dgaf if you agree or not. Men like to play around with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:21 PM
2

She’s an anomaly. The majority of mass shooters and violent people are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:05 PM
0

Or maybe because incels aka red pill men are potentially dangerous people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:03 PM
1

If your choice of action is kissing either a man or a woman, you’re indeed asking if I would be willing to partake in lesbian/bisexual behavior. Cut the bs. You know exactly what you’re doing. Of course anyone is “free” to do anything. But a man would never question another man if he would kiss an. Attractive man. Knock it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 03:00 PM
1

The thread is weird because you’re basically asking me if I would turn bisexual if I only had an ugly man to kiss on. My answer is neither. No one would ever ask a man this question so I’m not sure why men they can do this shit to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:30 PM
4

This is a lot. First things first, don’t ever touch skin bleach. The women who told you to do that are horrible people. There are a ton of women who actually prefer dark skin over light skin. Why get rid of something so beautiful? You should be focused on losing weight. Have you looked at any of the weight loss subs on here? You’re not losing weight because a starvation diet isn’t sustainable. I would hold off on everything else and focus on weight loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:27 PM
2

Some girls are just not smart. Ask an intelligent woman or someone who works in the beauty industry. It’s not about their preference, it’s about what looks best on you. If I prefer a clean shaven look but the beard looks better, I’m going to tell you to keep the beard. Anyone telling you to get a dad bod is an idiot. An in shape man always looks better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:21 PM
1

There is no benefit to dating a broke man. Broke men with no money can barely take care of themselves. He can’t support me or potentially a future family. It’s a no on my end. You should be financially stable before dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:12 PM
-1

How? Are you leading with sex while dating? If so, there goes your problem right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:07 PM
-1

I’m not promiscuous but this isn’t true. Women can’t stand being in competition with other women. The fact that you have no baggage is a plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:53 PM
2

Try it. They have better morals, take education and work seriously, are family oriented etc. I could keep going and going honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:51 PM
3

Why should I even expect a guy I’m dating to try and shit on me? If a red pill man follows the rules and your little handbook you will be treated poorly. Nothing about that lifestyle is designed to keep a woman happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:48 PM
1

But it does make a man better lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:44 PM
2

This is false. Women do value a man that does chores and work around the house. Just like men value women who do the same. It sounds like you’re frustrated because women would also like them to be attractive on top of that. Men should really stop trying to shame women into dropping their standards for looks. Men have theirs and we are allowed to have ours too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:43 PM
1

Get a non-American man. One that is first or second generation. I’m not talking about that passport bro weirdo stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:38 PM
9

Who is fucking red pill guys. The ones who go around identifying as red pill usually don’t get sex. They’re losers voicing their frustration about women and bold enough to do it in person. Like I give af as a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:35 PM
5

Most red pill men I meet in person are not the bad boy type. They’re just assholes or losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:30 PM
7

Fuck boy Chads are naturals when it comes to being misogynistic. All attractive men are not smashing and dashing on women. Some were raised right and so used to getting women that treating women in that manner is below them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:27 PM
2

They bring absolutely nothing to the table but mental and probably physical abuse. Oh, and bad sex. An all around lose/lose situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:14 PM
–

I was abstinent for over a year and was happy. This was by choice btw. You’re trying to justify rape which is sick. I’ve lost respect for your entire post/argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:10 PM
–

You’re not entitled to sex. That statement is true. Sex is also needed to live a healthy life. Two things can be true at once. Just because you “need” something doesn’t mean you are entitled to it. The homeless exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:05 PM
1

I get number 2 but don’t necessarily agree with it. Bec women do wisen up and start dating smarter. I don’t know what status you are but I’m assuming you think very highly of yourself. No comment with #9
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:46 PM
1

What do you want her to pay for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:43 PM
5

You can usually tell because men don’t ask direct questions associated with the conversation and they aren’t really into it. Someone I dated used to do it and it was obvious he didn’t care to speak to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:42 PM
4

They usually turn into baby mamas after a while but yes they can be a category.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:39 PM
1

Women do not make the decision to marry. That is a man’s job. Men gatekeep marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:53 AM
4

As someone who isn’t photogenic and looks 10x better in person, it has benefited me for sure. I just don’t take good photos. It has nothing to do with trying to deceive anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:33 PM
-1

Yet we still can’t demand the most valuable thing men control. Marriage! So who gives af about these superficial advantages when we don’t even have the real advantage that matters the most in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:29 PM
1

What do you mean? What’s your specific question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:10 AM
6

So do men. Men also have standards for beauty. Not sure what forgiveness you’re referring too. Women marry for stability, not looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:58 PM
1

Women do talk about men’s looks like that but we don’t care as long as we’re treated well and happy. That’s the difference. The women who are super picky about men being over 6 ft or no relationship are in the minority. Women who are super picky about looks are always single anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:54 PM
1

She’s not working. I stated that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:44 PM
2

A single woman with no kids can afford a soft life with the right income. Can a man provide it? Hell yeah. He just has to have the funds. My friend is currently not working due to personal reasons and her bf is taking care of a lot of her expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:02 PM
1

You shouldn’t. U don’t have the resources to provide the lifestyle for a woman of that caliber.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:58 PM
1

I’m okay with average men. I think my bf is average looks wise and I’m fine with that. Can I get a better looking man? Yes, but does he make as much as my man? Does he treat me better? Does he want to commit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:54 PM
1

Average men don’t want below average women. They actually try to go for more attractive women first then go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:42 PM
1

I don’t want to make minimum wage it’s nice that the government gives you all those perks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:41 PM
1

Yeah it’s clear you don’t have much experience with this. It’s very rare that broke people even have the range or desire to hang in places with rich and successful people. The small amount of women who do have proximity won’t marry these men. They’re assuming you’re living a similar lifestyle as them. When they find out that you aren’t, you aren’t really taken seriously. They might sleep with you but you won’t marry. How do I know this? This was literally my life once upon a time. It’s very rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:39 PM
1

Brazilian butt lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:34 PM
1

No thank you. Europe isn’t that much cheaper. It’s actually more expensive. I thought you were about to tell me to move to Mexico or something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:32 PM
1

By other 4/10 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:31 PM
2

Many of them don’t but I can say the same about average or even ugly girls. All women have their problems. Now the issue with skinny women is they get away with their problems while the average and ugly girls don’t. They have no accountability because no one holds them accountable. Now all pretty women don’t behave like this. I know some that have it together. Like I said before, ugly women have problems too. You left one category out. The ones who are boring and have no personality because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:25 PM
2

Are you a catch yourself or are you dating on your level?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:25 PM
1

What is a PMC type? How do you explain successful black people marrying each other? Is that racist to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:23 PM
1

Sure, but they are picked last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:52 PM
2

It does. How many threads and times do they have to say “yOuR dEgrEeS DoNt MaTtER. If men who are not bums are dating people in proximity to them, then yes df they do. Unless you want a man that works at McDonald’s of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:51 PM
1

Maybe because “murica” is expensive honey.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:46 PM
2

No, YOU want a girl next door. Women with BBL’s and fake boobs get married all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:45 PM
1

Yes, this is why I try to surround myself with successful people. Proximity is everything when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:59 AM
1

Well I’m not a man. If you think she’s more attractive good for you lol. Summer does have the better body still.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:57 AM
2

So here’s the thing. I get this too. Pretty women come with a lot of maintenance and they can be problematic. But the ones who have it together are getting chose with no problem and have a ton of options. They’re the top pick for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:56 AM
1

Chads are above “decent”. An average guy isn’t a Chad. He’s just average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:53 AM
1

There’s different types of struggles. Living paycheck to paycheck struggling while sitting in a 3000 sq ft home vs living in an apartment in a not so good neighborhood working a dead end job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:52 AM
1

A 4/10 is below average
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:49 AM
1

Exactly. Which goes against TRP rhetoric they’re pushing on the internet to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 09:48 AM
3

It makes absolutely no sense. I’m not sure why TRP continues to push this narrative. I think it’s to get educated women to “settle” for men who don’t meet their standards and deter other women from having a lucrative career.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:34 AM
3

This is false. Successful men love successful women. That’s why most doctors tend to marry other doctors. The only people that look down on hard working women are red pill losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:26 AM
1

They aren’t decent men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:48 AM
4

A lot of men will still want to go after their “dream girl” and she’s not a 4. Yes, even the ones who aren’t Chads. I wouldn’t label a man with a struggling career and financial troubles as “decent”. I didn’t say they weren’t a perfect match for each other because they are. They are both financially and physically on the same level basically. I guess my point is I don’t run into a lot of couples like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:37 AM
2

How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:32 AM
2

Let me reword that. If the Instagram model was never an Instagram model and a corporate working girl she would still be more desired over the cute girl. IG models only get slack because of their career choice. That’s the only reason men deem them as damaged goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:31 AM
2

Are you trolling?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:27 AM
3

The same can be said for 4/10 women. They’re invisible to a lot of men including their equals. A man with no education that has a struggling career is not a “decent man” to marry. He was an assistant manager at McDonald’s then became a TSA agent eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:26 AM
3

But understand that the Instagram model only gets slack because of their profession. If they revamp themselves into corporate women or something of that nature, they would be more desired than the cute chick still.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:20 AM
9

The subject doesn’t get talked about enough but the number of men that have openly admitted to wanting a woman their friends would also find attractive is eye opening. It’s also a very weird place for me to be in since my look is non traditional. Some will love it, some won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:12 AM
5

You’re only labeling Summer the sexy one because she dresses slutty. If she covered up 90% of the time she would have a girl next door look just like Ana. Like I said, it’s not a good comparison because both women are equally attractive. One just shows more skin than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:54 AM
8

I do think people marry their equals. But I guess my point is men are not chasing around 4/10 for relationships or marriage. Saying they can get “decent men” is questionable. I only know one unattractive married woman and the husband always struggled financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:51 AM
2

If it doesn’t change, we will break up eventually. It’s honestly insulting when I think about it. Let me stop thinking about it lol. We discussed spending more time together but didn’t touch on the money aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:46 AM
3

That might be the case but judging from what I see, men don’t find 4/10 women desirable. They aren’t rushing to get with them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:43 AM
1

In what way are you an asshole to these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:42 AM
9

What’s the opposite of Chad again? He’s not rushing to marry a 4/10 either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:41 AM
8

Absolutely. I’m only speaking on looks and not careers of course. But Summer just has the better body. They’re both facially on the same level. Idk if those women were good to compare/contrast because they’re on par looks wise in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:38 AM
2

And how is that working out for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:33 AM
2

Because you sound ridiculous and don’t practice what you preach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:31 AM
9

If this were true, there would be a lot more happily married women walking around. Men are not rushing to marry a 4/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:31 AM
2

Yea I’m done with this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:27 AM
1

Being an asshole is not a positive thing. You’re trying to turn it into one. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:21 AM
12

They won’t pick the extremely attractive girl because they can’t get her. If they could, they would be with her. They’re with the cute girl instead because that’s what they can get. The men that can get the extremely attractive women WILL marry them if they’re a match period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:10 AM
2

Because he has enough money. He might not have as much disposable money as before but he’s not poor. I once had a guy that didn’t make much spend his last on me. I actually would categorize him in the working class category. He didn’t make much at all and still spent money on me all the time. It’s also the little things that count. He doesn’t have to splurge to make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:06 AM
0

You’re probably lacking experience because I doubt you are walking around being assholes to women and they’re begging to date. That is not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:02 AM
4

This isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:57 PM
8

It’s not talked about a lot in here because most of the men are not concerned with marriage. They are indulging in red pill content trying to figure out different ways to get laid. They’re not even close to “settling down” lol. Now that we’re passed that, this sub is the only place where I have heard the narrative that men desire to marry less attractive women. That’s simply not true. Both men and women “settle” but most at least try or attempt to find an attractive partner that meets their stan…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:54 PM
2

It’s not synonymous but you can be an asshole by catching an attitude. What’s your point here? Overall, it’s not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:43 PM
2

It’s more resentment than jealousy. Especially since he wasn’t even seriously dating some of these girls he was spending money on. It does make me feel some type of way and question his true feelings about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:24 PM
1

We already unpacked and covered that. I’m talking about men who are assholes to me specifically. I don’t like them or desire to date them. In fact, I’m not the person you want to catch an attitude with or say a slick comment because I will check you. I don’t care who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:21 PM
3

No man has ever been as asshole to me and I said to myself “Wow can’t wait to go out with him!”. I have blocked a bunch of guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:27 PM
2

The relationship is already chaotic because he started an intense new job and I’m working two jobs. We’re both rolling with the punches. Life is not always easy. Relationships are not always easy. I say that to say, he might’ve done things for other women because he had more money and time back then. We’re in this for the long term. Things will change, and if they don’t I’ll leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:10 PM
3

You won’t. I’m actually considering breaking up with my bf because of his asshole attitude. It’s not attractive and shows that you have questionable character. Before you ask, he was not an asshole towards me. I’m noticing him having that attitude towards other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:55 PM
-6

That’s false. You’re basically saying you’ll have better luck being an asshole than a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:35 PM
2

A lot of women are insecure but there are some that will check this behavior and happily block you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:32 PM
0

I actually do everything you mentioned to men but for different reasons. I might “neg” a man if I’m unsure about him and want to say a question or comment as a joke to see how he responds. I don’t text back right away to new men because I don’t want them to feel or think that they have access to me all the time. But just a quick reminder to both sexes that you’re still in competition at the end of the day. Don’t ruin a potential relationship with the silly games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:30 PM
12

Everything you just mentioned would push me away, not make me want you more. These tactics only work on extremely insecure women. You ignore me, I’ll find someone else that will entertain me. Did you forget you’re competing with other men here? If you “joke” about my appearance I’ll just go call someone who actually appreciates me. I can’t stand a man with a bad attitude with horrible jokes. You can’t pretend to “love” someone. You can pretend to like them. The naive ones will fall for it and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:06 PM
1

Get help. You need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:41 PM
1

What a slap in the face to your alleged “millionaire black mother” for you to be online and most likely real life around your loser friends saying such disgusting things about black women. I’m sure she is already ashamed of you. So there’s no need for me to say “she should be ashamed”. You’re clearly a black man dealing with mental illness that goes untreated because you’re too much of a punk and too prideful to get help. You most definitely don’t have luck with women. You’re just another self h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:38 PM
1

We are not the poorest group. You’re just spewing things you hear broke ass broken men say online because you hate black women and that’s not my problem. While you’re hating black women you could be reading a book to get an education, encouraging your friends to get out the street and make something of themselves, or certifications to get better jobs. Yet, here you are on reddit arguing with women lmao. Black men are their own worst enemy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:54 PM
3

I’ll speak from a different POV because I’m sort of going through this now. If you’re in an unstable relationship, you will feel some type of way about it. You’re having problems and finding things out about his past relationships. Wondering why you aren’t getting the same treatment. Then you start to wonder if you would be happier if you got those perks. Of course then some insecurity or anger might kick in when you realize you’re being treated differently. If you are happy with how things are …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:35 PM
1

This is ignorant as fuck. I won’t dissect everything you wrote because the entire post is a mess but let’s make one thing clear. Black women are the most educated group of women in the country. Which debunks your bullshit “fucking all day” nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:09 PM
3

Have you seen some of the post on here? Some of the men do want virgins because they don’t want to be compared to other men. They’re insecure af. Unless you’re basically calling them liars which isn’t that far fetched.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:34 AM
0

That’s what you got from his post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:20 PM
1

No, you cannot. I didn’t know how important vegetables were at 6 years old. Most 6 year olds don’t. I ate whatever was given and prepared for me like most children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 12:09 PM
2

Not as a child you don’t. I didn’t buy food, prepare food, cook, get groceries etc. That’s a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:29 PM
2

I did read that wrong but I disagree with this as well. I’ve had men I seriously dated ask me to have their children. Some men are just attracted to bigger women. If everyone is happy and healthy most men aren’t worried. And of course, you can also lose weight. Fat people don’t have to be fat forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:44 PM
1

This is an assumption and a false one. Everyone’s situation is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:28 PM
3

I don’t think a lot of people realize that people that became fat during childhood never got a choice. I never got to choose what I wanted my body to look like. I was fed whatever and weight was gained. Children that are victims of childhood obesity were never given a choice to “stay fit”. We were never fit to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:25 PM
1

It actually wasn’t as I’ve been fat since my childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:22 PM
3

I don’t think he’s trying to make it cool but just stating reality. Most people are fat and will date fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:21 PM
4

I’m not okay with being fat which is why I go to the gym and eat healthy. Do I not deserve to date or to be live because I’m on a weight loss journey? I also heavily disagree with you. I’m overweight from my childhood. I don’t even know wtf being at a healthy weight feels like. Does that mean I don’t care about the people around me? Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:20 PM
1

If they aren’t ALL obese then why are you avoiding dating black women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:16 PM
2

This is not true. Most women date around their age rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:13 PM
1

Wow. I can’t take this thread seriously anymore. All black women are not obese. Out of my friend group I’m the only overweight one. I’m talking about all cultures as well. Let’s not politic the diaspora in this. You dated other African woman because you wanted to and because you’re in close proximity to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:08 PM
2

Do you live in the Deep South?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:04 PM
1

Elaborate then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:01 PM
9

Fat men don’t approach me. I think it’s a self esteem issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:55 PM
16

The slim women don’t want them. They have to compete with younger, hotter, and richer men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:54 PM
2

So you believe women who don’t want children treat their partners like children instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:51 PM
3

Is she scared of giving birth or child free? Not wanting kids means no adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:49 PM
3

You’re chasing after women who aren’t interested in you. The women you don’t find attractive are most likely on your level looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:44 PM
0

Wtf. This couldn’t be anymore false lmao. Roe v. Wade?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 08:38 PM
1

I’m in the obese category according to bmi. I don’t have trouble finding sex. I want to say the article is bs but idk who they asked or what the criteria was. I’m also black and most women are overweight or obese. Our men don’t mind it. Some do, some don’t. There’s more “don’ts” from my personal experience. Edit: I just read the article and it’s European researchers lol. Europe has way stricter beauty standards than the US in general. This isn’t even a black or white thing but a cultural thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 09:31 AM
1

I don’t dislike it but don’t like it either. I’m doing the change for me. But getting the last laugh in the end will make me feel better about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:47 AM
2

I want them to see me happy and successful with someone else. Especially after I fix what they dislike about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:00 AM
1

As an overweight woman, I promise you I have no trouble finding sex anywhere. It’s never been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:51 PM
1

But you said women in their 30’s and 40’s can’t have casual sex. That’s what you wrote. You’re not consistent with your rhetoric at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:49 PM
10

I hope you didn’t give home the time of day after he rejected that STI test. He sounds like a stupid red pill supporter. They’re weird in real life too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:10 PM
1

Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:08 PM
1

You have to be more specific. Pretty women usually require more money as they expect a certain lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:38 PM
1

That’s false. Men are single more than ever well into their 30’s. Women in their 40’s just date younger men if they can’t find men their own age. It’s not hard for them at all. It will never be hard for a woman to get sex. So should women skip being educated? You can’t pinpoint a real issue and that’s your problem. But one thing I know for sure is casual sex is not the reason for less people being married less. At least not among women. Men were not looking to get married at all in my 20’s. No o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:38 PM
1

It depends. What type of woman are we talking about? A girlfriend, high value woman, or just someone you’re messing around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:33 PM
1

It’s weird. Body dysmorphia is rubbing off on men to but in a weird way. They can’t tell how much anyone weighs or recognize a surgery body when they see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:30 PM
0

Women can also fuck men above their level in their 30’s and 40’s. Why would those women want to settle down? Most women I know are education focused in their 20’s. They’re not spending their 20’s hyper focused on sexing men all day. That’s not the issue here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:46 PM
0

I only know one man that consumes red pill content heavily that successfully gets women. It has nothing to do with the content as he’s always been successful business wise. His income attracts women. He’s also very attractive. But deep down inside, he’s not happy. He’s opened up to me before about certain aspects of his life and he’s not happy being alone or spending money on hoes. The small percentage of red pill men that have the looks or money are still not happy in life even when they get ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:36 PM
1

So what’s your solution? You think women should have no rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:30 PM
7

It’s not a flex. A question was asked and I answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:25 PM
2

Women mess with low value men because they’re either low value themselves or can’t get a high value man to seriously date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:24 PM
2

You were pretty specific about HVM but okay lol. I don’t think women are concerned with getting cut off by low value men unless they’re also low themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:16 PM
3

But the thread title also says fucked zoned by HVM. You discuss it in your post as well. I can’t relate to the other part of your question. I don’t date or smash low value men. I can only speak on my relationship with high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:01 PM
1

Damn mine is 0.81%. All I’ll say is I’ve been extremely lucky and there’s a reason I won’t relocate anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:52 PM
4

I keep telling men that most of the women they lust after are probably 170+.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:40 PM
4

If he’s truly a high value man, why would you want to cut contact? True high value men have resources and connections. If they don’t desire to have a relationship, that’s just fine. I’ll keep you at arms reach for networking purposes. Also, I know why some high value men reject me. The problem can be fixed. I want them to see my upgraded life soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:33 PM
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Women cheat at the same rate. We just don’t get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:25 PM
1

I thought about it but was too scared. The crime in Mexico is unpredictable. I only wanted to stay for about a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:24 PM
2

Well you’re doing everything correctly. I’m happy you have enough money to take care of your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:21 PM
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Because your entire feminism argument is it’s their fault for the state of the economy. Even though women have had equal rights decades now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:20 PM
1

The civil rights act of 1964 was the most powerful law for the feminist movement and it was supported by a lot of people including the black and brown communities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:05 PM
1

But you’re blaming feminists for the state of the economy. Feminists are women, so you’re blaming women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:52 PM
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She’s a lucky woman. This is why women are taught to marry well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:48 PM
1

How much has your business increased within the last few years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:47 PM
1

Interesting. I didn’t know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:46 PM
2

Are you saving for her retirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 03:43 PM
1

It’s not that serious. You’ll either be rejected or accepted. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:21 PM
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I can read perfectly fine. You believe white collar women are hardcore feminists and they’re just as bad if not worse than “the ratchet ones”. I have no clue wtf you mean by “expect given their attractiveness”. Maybe you can elaborate on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:16 PM
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No jobs were specifically made for women. They just joined the workforce. Just for reference, this was many years ago and not a recent thing. You’re attacking women when the real problem is the government and companies not wanting to pay people a livable wage. Did you know some states still pay $8.25 minimum wage? There’s no way anyone can survive off of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:13 PM
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It for sure happens. No denying that. One thing dating apps did was put that info out there for everyone to deliberate and choose. But of course not everyone will meet on an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:07 PM
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I usually save those questions for the second date and casual ask them in between dates. I want to get to know them as a person first.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:07 PM
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That’s kind of accurate lol. Only because men usually pay for the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 10:06 PM
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But why are women forced to become independent? Men aren’t marrying at the same rate. The marriage rates are dropping more than ever. Women don’t have a choice but to be independent. Would you like us to be homeless? A man has to make enough money to take care of 2-3 other people not including himself. That’s extremely difficult in this economy. Most men aren’t making that kind of money. You’re blaming inflation and the state of the economy on women and it’s not our fault. Find someone else to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:57 PM
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No one even mentioned drunk sex. Like I said, this is your weak attempt to discredit rape victims. Go argue with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:52 PM
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It’s not always easy for women to find boyfriend’s. That’s not true at all. A bunch of women wouldn’t be single if it were so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:51 PM
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Not at all. It never truly feels like we’re single. There’s always someone to spend time with of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 09:49 PM
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Yeah conversation over. You’re attempting to discredit rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:50 PM
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Men don’t want to get married to every woman they have sex with. That’s what you’re basically saying here. You don’t have to tell me how to date. I’m good on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:43 PM
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I disagree. Those jobs can still be lucrative depending on their experience and location.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:42 PM
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There are still millions of women who desire to marry. “A lot” is a stretch by a lot. I hear women talk about not having children but I haven’t heard conversations about not marrying. Most women don’t like being alone but they’re willing to be alone if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:40 PM
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It might be a personality issue then. Maybe you have something else going on. A guy who is a true 8 and a millionaire shouldn’t have trouble getting women anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:38 PM
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Well for one, women who do that are in the minority by a lot. Secondly, they probably don’t consider it sex tourism because it isn’t. They’re not paying to have sex with men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:36 PM
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You want desirable looking women but consider them superficial? If you’re willing to move to a different country for looks you’re just as superficial as the people you are talking about. The only difference is they can afford it and the passport bros can’t. Well, there’s more to the passport bros but you get my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:33 PM
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More options for sex, not more options for men that want to marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:08 AM
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No, I’m talking for young women because women outnumber men by a lot. Statistically, there won’t be enough men for women. There’s not a passport babe movement because women don’t usually participate in sex tourism. At least not younger women. We would rather be alone honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:07 AM
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Then that’s there fault. They’re choosing to not earn a higher salary because they don’t want to put in the work and that’s fine. If you’re pre-law, you’re expected to go to law school. If you’re pre-med, you’re expected to go to med school. People who major in things like biology usually also end up going to medical school. Social work is one of those majors where you know you won’t be earning a lot of money unless you further your education. The same goes for an education degree as well. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:21 AM
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No but I’m active.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:07 AM
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Or meet foreign women already in the US. They probably aren’t dirt poor and might be a little westernized though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:06 PM
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I do believe everyone deserves to find true love but statistically speaking, specifically for women, that might not happen. Now that I think about it, women should be the main ones with a passport babes movement lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 11:04 PM
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It’s not a fact. Go visit Miami, NYC, and LA. You won’t run into those problems there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:57 PM
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America is huge. You’re in the wrong city. The problem with this scenario is you probably can’t afford Miami or LA. You most likely can’t afford those women or the lifestyle for that matter either. It’s also a financial problem for the passport bros, not just a physical one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:56 PM
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It has nothing to do with comfortability and everything to do with desirability. If they were considered desirable in the US, financially and physically, they wouldn’t be going to different countries at all. Like you said, they’re below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:52 PM
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I brought up advanced degrees to discuss degrees you deem useless like social work. Some degrees are meant for you to advance. It was only to counter your claim. My statement hasn’t changed. You can try to move the goalpost all you want. Notice how it’s always YOU bringing up these things and not me. I’m just responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 10:34 PM
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The only thing that was clarified and added was college educated women. Nothing was changed around. I clarified for you which is why we’ve been talking about college educated women for hours. No goalpost was moved. Edit: The majority of college educated women have lucrative careers. I hope I clarified that for you enough. 6 hours ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:55 PM
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I’m talking about overall as a collective. Isn’t that why we went over averages and medians 1000 times. Based on the both of them, college educated women have lucrative careers. I did not base anything on majors, but medians and averages. You’re the one that chose to drag majors into it. That’s what it all comes down to. There was no need to complicate things and drag unnecessary things into it. If you don’t agree with me, that’s perfectly fine. “Degrees like social work require other advanced d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:41 PM
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What does inflation have to do with me stating that educated women have lucrative careers? I’m not changing my stance on that btw. I never once said those numbers were bullshit. Point it out. I said the major isn’t popular anymore because of the poor pay among everyone. I wasn’t focusing on bachelor degrees at all. That just proves you didn’t read it or aren’t comprehending properly. I was focusing on advanced degrees. Some of these majors you consider useless like social work need a more advanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:20 PM
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Lucrative does not automatically mean wealthy and that was not the context I was using it in. I clearly meant profit and if you needed me to clear that up for you that could’ve been done 3 or 4 post ago. If you think an educated person would stay at 56k salary for their rest of their lives you also don’t know what you’re talking about. That number will obviously go up over time. You’re completely ignoring what I’m saying and I’m worried now. Because I clearly just fucking said certain degrees ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:58 PM
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That sounds like what desperate men go throughout life thinking about. Let’s not put this on the collective of men. It’s not fair to them. Men who actually have experience with women have other priorities. They aren’t worrying about how to attract anyone because it’s not that hard for them. Thousands of companies say that to avoid lawsuits and to sound desirable. That doesn’t mean they give a shit about black people. They’re protecting themselves and their brand. I’m not middle aged lmao. I’m 29…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:46 PM
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A bum that makes 140k and works 10 hour days? He doesn’t have time to clean the house, cook dinner, or clean up for that matter. You’re extremely blind to the reality of homes where both parents work full time jobs. Women end up doing the majority of the child rearing and housework along with working 8+ hours a day. That isn’t easy nor is it fair. The only one who needs a reality check is you lol. I grew up in this environment and know what it’s like first hand. How about yourself? I’m curious b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:41 PM
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So your answer is men go throughout life thinking about how to please and attract women? Because that’s basically what you wrote. Please save it with the woe is me crap. I’m a black woman. My privileges are extremely slim in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:32 PM
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Your right. Let’s not use that 54k statistic. People with no college diploma are making 31k median. You believe an educated person making 56k isn’t a lucrative career? That’s almost double the median of people with just a high school education. I feel like I’m repeating myself which isn’t a good sign here. Degrees like social work require other advanced degrees to go with it. I have a friend that works in social work but she also has a masters degree in social work as well. She’s earning close t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:28 PM
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Do you mean that you disagree? It’s hard to be a wife when you have to work 9 hour days and take care of the entire household. That’s not an easy job. Women don’t even want the weddings anymore. None of it is worth it to then. Not even the elaborate weddings you probably can’t pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:14 PM
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I doubt that will happen. But we might have a workforce or economy issue in 20-40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:09 PM
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What do the majority of men go through life thinking about? The fact that you like watching women get “humbled” speaks to your character. That’s all I’ll say about that for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:05 PM
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Women are choosing not to procreate for good reasons. That’s my only response to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:49 PM
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They’re actually fucking the minds of innocent men up for a paycheck and for their own personal egos of course. The majority of women are not misandrist and delusional. Their podcast is an inaccurate portrayal of the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:46 PM
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So what is your take on this information? Should people not attend college because they’ll start out making 55k upon graduation? While people with no degree continue to make 54k every year because there’s no upward mobility due to lack of education.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:41 PM
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The birth rate being down is more complex than just birth control usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:33 PM
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Biden created an additional plan for families called the American Families Plan. He wants to bring it back. They obviously accomplished what they wanted. https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2021/04/28/fact-sheet-the-american-families-plan/ https://fortune.com/2023/02/08/biden-sotu-bring-back-expanded-child-tax-credit/amp/ Has it moved the needle in Japan significantly? Because I hear they’re still having major issues when it comes to child birth. The fact of the matter i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:09 PM
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Um they already do. Biden has given tons of family tax credits and incentives. Look it up. We will never be the UK, Hungary, or Japan as we have a capitalist society. The reason Roe v. Wade was overturned was complete bullshit. They need more women to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:44 PM
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Or I’m calling it for what it is. A woman with the same degree and certification can make much less than a man simply because she’s a woman. The median individual income is 31k. It’s less than the average. That’s almost double the median according to your statistics. How is that not lucrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:36 PM
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All you did was point out gender discrimination in the workforce. It has been well known for years now that men make more money. You’re claiming these college educated women don’t have lucrative careers when the average US income is 35k. If they’re bringing in 77k, that is more than double the national average. So what are you talking about? How is that not lucrative? No narrative is being painted when we’re both looking at the same fucking statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:46 PM
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I’ve never understood this topic because my libido has been higher than every guy I dated. Maybe the girl you’re seeing just doesn’t like having sex with you. That’s the only time I didn’t have the urge to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:39 PM
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The birth rate is down. If more men are alone and not dating, you’re probably not getting anyone pregnant. The government is all about their money. They wouldn’t care about this issue if it wasn’t for the lack of child birth. They need you and your children to fuel the economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:30 PM
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Your statistics and POV is off. The STARTING salary of a college graduate is 55k. That’s completely normal. No one expects to graduate making 100k with a Bachelor’s Degree. If you do, congrats. You’re lucky and also apart of an extremely small percentage. You need to provide statistics on degrees earned by gender. Even if more men go for a specific degree, the college attendance gender imbalance will most likely even things out anyway. Making this pretty irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:23 PM
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It sounds like you’re the one making assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:54 PM
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Only a certain type of woman moves to Miami. I’m not saying all Miami transplants are hoes but take that however you want. Only a certain type of woman goes onto fresh and fit as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:47 PM
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The majority of college educated women have lucrative careers. I hope I clarified that for you enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:43 PM
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I’m very aware that Fresh and Fit will never be qualified as content I would watch for information or entertainment. It’s an inaccurate portrayal of women as most of them are only fans hoes or Miami thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:41 PM
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I’m not. You quoted me discussing that persons sex based on their comment and that was my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:39 PM
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Y’all keep posting these women and just proving my point. They don’t have a lot of educated women on their podcast a lot. So when they do, they make them into a video headline. Most of the women are dense hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:38 PM
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They put women who suck dick on only fans for a living on the podcast and not college educated women with lucrative careers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:35 PM
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Here you go. You can read about it. More women are going to college while men are going less. “men represent only 40% of college students in 2020-2021. This has been happening for years; in the last five years, men have accounted for more than 70% of the decrease in students entering US universities.” https://observatory.tec.mx/edu-news/women-dominate-american-universities/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:45 PM
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What does money have to do with it? I brought up an PHD candidate because I’m positive they have better morals and character than a bitch sucking dick on Onlyfans. Most people period don’t have a PHD. That was an example. Why are you acting like it’s unrealistic for women to earn them though? Strange. I also specifically said PHD candidate. Do you know what that means? You only need a bachelors degree for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 02:41 PM
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The majority of women do have lucrative careers. What are you talking about? Women outnumber men in college by a lot. Yet, they bring out a bunch of Onlyfans girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:35 PM
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So your claim is that educated white collar women are all ratchet and feminist? And are worse than the slutty dumb women? Are you standing behind this claim before I give you a response?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:30 PM
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This is true. His post was a lot to unpack lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:25 PM
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You’re missing my point but pointed out the obvious at the same time. Why do they only want delusional misandrist women on their podcast?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:23 PM
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Actually it’s not. There have been multiple studies on this subject. Rape is heavily unreported. “Only 310 out of every 1,000 sexual assaults are reported to police. That means more than 2 out of 3 go unreported.” https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system I have more statistics to share with you if you want more proof. I actually have the evidence to back up my claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:19 PM
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Who told you this lie? The majority of women who are single aren’t even having sex according to studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:15 PM
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What was confusing about this? Please let me know. I’m curious. “I couldn’t tell until the response but I should’ve known because most men aren’t honest about chasing women who don’t want them.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:13 PM
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What does that have to do with them wifing hoes? You just made it worse by adding that they are also cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:08 PM
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If they had more serious conversations and weren’t out to demean women, more educated guest would come in there. They don’t want to be associated with them for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:07 PM
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It’s believable. My whole point is those women are rare. They’re not making appearances every episode. The main women on the podcast are drunk hoes and college girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:54 AM
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Oh okay. I didn’t understand what you were trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:44 AM
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He claimed her as his girl lmao. They wife hoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:43 AM
1

How about bring women that have been out of school for at least 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:42 AM
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I’m talking about someone that will actually be able to challenge their misogynist views successfully. Not a woman that wants to have a few drinks and talk about her partners or who she wants to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:57 PM
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The overall podcast is extremely lax and all over the place for a reason. It’s not serious at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:53 PM
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Yes! Thank you for that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:50 PM
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I read the comments and video title for context. I’m good over here. Thanks for checking on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:49 PM
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If they’re still single I don’t see a problem with it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:05 PM
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You complicated things by bringing up marriage. There are investigators that can find out if someone is hiding cash because a lot of well off men do that during divorces. Sorry, I can’t think of the name right now. But if you’re hiding money during a legal dispute where you will most likely be paying up, it can potentially be found. Now it looks bad that you were dishonest about your finances in court.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:02 PM
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Some of them do wait around. There are men that try to date me and are still there after my breakups lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:57 PM
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I have a steve. He’s not cute enough, doesn’t match my salary, and I heard the sex was bad. The other is standoffish sometimes and I’m not into that. We have different views too. Idk if I would be happy with him. I have a third too but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:48 PM
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I have watched clips of their show before. I’m not clueless about who they are, things they discuss, or the women they have on the show. No, I wont contribute to their income and watch their show. I know enough about them already. I asked about what educated women are on their show and one woman was posted lmao. Conversation over. I got my answer already and I already knew what it was going to be. Most of the girls on the show are not career going women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:30 PM
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But the majority of them are not women with PHD’s and lucrative careers. Let’s be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:20 PM
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But they still have to get chosen so what the fuck are you talking about? Someone’s ugly aunty can’t just volunteer and end up on the show because she won’t be chosen to participate in the first place. You’re obviously a red pill Fresh and Fit fan and I know your type very well. ThAtS nOt FaLsE. Yes, the fuck it is. But you wouldn’t know that would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:07 PM
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I’m not giving them views and one dumb educated women doesn’t represent the collective. Judging by the comments she was giving her own personal opinion on things. That means nothing. You found one educated woman. Congrats. What about the Onlyfans girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:02 PM
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Then why did one of the guys date a girl off of only fans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:00 PM
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What does worse than white girls mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:58 PM
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I’m not sure if y’all are being obtuse or completely missing the point. They’re purposely choosing these type of women to embarrass themselves for content and to push a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:57 PM
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There are many educational institutions in the Miami area. They are purposefully not choosing those type of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:55 PM
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But they’re choosing certain types of women and they know this. They want the ones that will embarrass themselves because it makes for good content and pushes their false narrative. Why would they have PHD candidates on their that would challenge their opinion and make them look stupid?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:54 PM
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They’re trying to embarrass them for content and push a false narrative to men. That all women are slutty dumb users. You don’t see doctors, lawyers, investment bankers, or engineers on the podcast for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:48 PM
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My aunt drives a Porsche and she’s not rich. Actually, quite a few of my relatives drive expensive cars and I wouldn’t put them in the rich category. Upper middle class maybe but not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:44 PM
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Well, I guess we both figured out why it’s a big deal in the US. The payout is probably higher than any country in the world lol. Imagine having a child with someone making 200k+. You’re entitled to 30% of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:28 PM
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He’s complaining whether he wants to admit it or not. That’s why he’s in this thread hyping up women living in Thailand saying they understand the value of a dollar compared to women in the US. None of the things mentioned in his post are positive compliments about these women other than their looks. He mentioned his car to paint a picture that he is living a certain lifestyle. Driving a 120k is for sure flaunting your wealth. I think he knows this and enjoys it. I’m not stopping him. He has the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:24 PM
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I never said broke people could afford hyper expensive cars. I said it doesn’t automatically make you rich. What do you not get about that? And I pay close to $600 monthly with excellent credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:17 PM
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Are you okay with spending this amount of money on dates? It just sounds like you’re uncomfortable with it but if it doesn’t bother you, do your thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:03 PM
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It was self explanatory. I couldn’t tell if she was a male or woman. What’s confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:00 PM
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A man has to voluntarily put himself on the birth certificate in the US as well. It seems like we use the court system a lot more than the UK because you can get a lot more money here. We don’t have a monthly child credit. So the only income women can rely on is child support. We do have methods to get men to pay like suspending driver’s licenses, passports, jail time, and will even take it out of your paycheck. But there are ways around all these things like you mentioned like working under the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:59 PM
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When I bought my Mercedes it was the same exact process and the car was far from 200k. I think we are all adults here and know how car buying works. A 120k car financed still doesn’t automatically make you rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:48 PM
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This isn’t true. Most women go on vacation strictly to vacation. The women that are hoes in their hometown will also be hoes in Miami too. That’s who they are. My travel group is true reflection of that. The only ones who sleep around also sleep around back home. Nothing changed but the environment. The rest of us aren’t hoes. We have a certain set of standards that won’t change no matter what. It doesn’t matter the city or situation, I’m sticking to my morals. A city shouldn’t change that. Do I…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:42 PM
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I’m so sick of addressing this. If rape is heavily unreported there’s no way of knowing a true number of women that have aborted due to rape. Stop down playing rape abortions to push a narrative. Every woman I know that has been raped never reported that shit out of fear. How the hell would you know whose birth control failed? How would you know whose in an abusive relationship? You don’t. So stop coming up with made up numbers and statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:35 PM
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I couldn’t tell until the response but I should’ve known because most men aren’t honest about chasing women who don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:14 AM
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With your high school education? Impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:13 AM
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So are you happy dating these women because you don’t sound too thrilled to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:12 AM
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$100 isn’t a lot of money for a date. That’s literally $50 per person. Most Americans can’t afford to live on 35k. It might be the average income but all that means is most Americans are poor or working class. The average educated American with a decent paying salary can afford $100 a week for a date. You aren’t poor or working class so I’m not sure why you expect the women you date to have a low standard of living. The average salary of a college educated person is 80k. This is what you should …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:09 AM
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I’m happily in a relationship with a high value man. Idc about your unwarranted opinion. Did u get all that anger out of your system?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:03 AM
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You’re playing the victim and it’s not going to work with me. Not when I as a black person have literally seen other black people come from absolutely nothing with no privilege and make something of themselves. That included going to college broke af but they found a way to complete it. You stating that oppression doesn’t exist tells me all I need to know about you. You should’ve went to college lmao. I can’t help you. You have too many flaws in your argument but I’ll stop right here. Education …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 11:53 PM
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Going to college is shitting on poor people? I would like you to know that my poor black mother worked hard in high school to get scholarships and still had to work everyday to pay for college. My privilege is earned. My black parents busted their asses so I can attend the best schools districts and have my college tuition paid for. I’m not a privileged white girl. I’m a black girl that knows what struggle looks like. I’m lucky to have parents that could provide me with a better life. In what wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:55 PM
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Who cares if it’s paid for by your parents money? The important part is you completed your education. Why do you expect an 18 year old to have 100k+ for college? This sounds like a bunch of hatred and jealousy. A woman choosing a partner based on those things is called dating smart. Why would I start a family with a man who can barely afford children? I don’t want my kids living a hard life. I don’t want the role of a man. Not sure where you’re getting that from. Because I’m working? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:30 PM
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Are you a man? If so, it’s rare that men admit to doing this lol. Especially on here. That’s why there’s so much woman bashing these days. She doesn’t want me and I did everything for her, I spent so much money on her, I gave her half my paycheck and she still didn’t want me etc lol. Men enjoy chasing after what they can’t have. Then complain that they’re single and unhappy. It’s really weird these days. A guy just made a thread on this same topic lol. Spending a bunch of money on pretty girls t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:21 PM
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You summed this up pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:14 PM
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Why would having a decent amount of money not be a bare minimum? You want women to marry broke?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:10 PM
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Both can be true. A 120k car that you most likely financed doesn’t make you rich at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:03 PM
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Women in the US actually work hard for their money. They aren’t opening their legs to foreigners for a little bit of cash. Those women respect your American dollar and that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:01 PM
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That’s exactly what he’s doing. Then complaining that the pretty girls don’t actually like him for him lol. He must be new to this lifestyle. I guess he’s learned his lesson now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:59 PM
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There’s old money everywhere in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:56 PM
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Driving a Porsche doesn’t equate to rich but they also aren’t working at Wendy’s either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:53 PM
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You must be running into stupid women or they’re playing dumb on purpose. When a guy tells me his salary sometimes I act shocked too lol. I’ve already looked up his LinkedIn profile and know how much he makes. Or you could be dating girls who don’t care as long as everything is paid for. They expect you to pay regardless no matter what the cost is. Those type’s usually aren’t taking you seriously. They’re aware of how much these dates cost and expect you to pay. Also, a $100 date isn’t expensive…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:41 PM
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The only difference between the UK and US is you can’t put a man on child support/CMS just because he’s on the birth certificate. You are required to file in court if you want child support. I don’t think that would ever work in the US because most men would just not pay it lol. There are men that are on child support and still don’t pay. We also don’t have monthly child benefits. You might get a child tax credit around tax time if you make below a certain amount. That’s about it. Taking a perce…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:32 PM
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First off, the internet should not be teaching men how to have casual sex. You should be befriending positive people with healthy sex lives that can give you tips. Or you can learn by trial and error. The generation before you did so why can’t you? Unless you are a college student, casual sex should not be your main focus in life. Learn how to build meaningful relationships with women. A player is exactly what you’re describing. Someone who just wants to have casual sex with multiple different w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 09:20 PM
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When I discovered the red pill back in 2016-2017, it was hot garbage back then too. Yes some of it was self improvement but a lot of it is how to be a player, not how to become a good husband or boyfriend. That content is pushed to women all the time. How to be a good gf, wife, fiancé etc. How to get a man to propose. Even before the internet, popular women’s magazines were literally dedicated to how to please a man. Anything about men really. The same topics I just mentioned lol. It’s heavily p…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:34 PM
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Why can’t you? Is it because you’re married or just can’t pull a 22 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:29 PM
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Because certain things can be inferred and I believe I’m speaking to a grown adult as you mentioned being divorced with a child. We were discussing what if a man didn’t sign a BC. How would paternity be determined. In both countries, the methods are the same. You’re saying that you can put any man on CMS and if he doesn’t pay, then you go to court? No paternity testing to confirm the child is there’s first? The government grants anyone child support in the UK? That’s interesting and I’m not sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:25 PM
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I think it’s a lot more than 10%. You have to think about the amount of pressure that gets put on women to be married and have children by a certain age. Men don’t deal with the same pressure or societal standards. YouTube is what’s getting the most views and has been for years. The main source for red pill content is youtube. It’s not for men looking for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:08 PM
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I don’t think this is true. There a books, groups, and other resources women turn to during the dating process. Women who are dating to marry take it very seriously. Theses women aren’t playing around. Men usually don’t do these things. Red pill content is garbage and not for men who want to be husbands. The average man is not focused on how to improve their dating life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:10 PM
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Men also don’t date logically a lot of times. There’s a trend of men chasing women who don’t want them at all. They know they don’t really want them but chase after them anyway. How about the men who date hoes because they have the look that they want. Both sexes make poor choices when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 07:07 PM
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I know. Which is why I don’t feel bad for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:23 PM
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I didn’t think that needed to be specified. It doesn’t matter what country you are in. Universally, you need to report to the government in order to get any paternity assistance or support. Your claim was that it doesn’t work the same in the UK and it does. It’s the same exact process actually. We can talk about cost and all the rest of the procedure but that wasn’t my point. You don’t need the father to sign the birth certificate in order to get support/CMS because it can be determined in court…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:19 PM
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Maybe try a new hobby? Hiking or the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:40 PM
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There’s an entire female dating sub called Female Dating Strategies that all the men on here hate lol. Ironically, the OP is saying the same things mentioned on that sub when it comes to women dating like only going out with attractive millionaires.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:35 PM
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I’m not trying to get too personal but do you work full time? I’m exhausted after work to do anything. So is my bf. He has a PS5 and I’ve never even seen him play it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:27 PM
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Like I said for the third time, it’s the same exact process in the US. You’re leaving out a very vital part in this which is the court system can establish paternity in both countries. “If you’re ordered to get a test by the Child Maintenance Service, they’ll tell you which laboratory to use.” They’re literally giving instructions on how to get a court ordered paternity test and listing the lab’s approved to use by the government. “If you’re getting a test to use in court You must use an accredi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:03 PM
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Your plan for high value women is unrealistic. There are more educated high value women than men. There’s an overall imbalance in the dating world already as women outnumber men. It can get even worse depending on your race as well. Bottom line is women have less options than men. Add on these high requirements you’re mentioning and it’s even more slim. It’s not every day that you find a single multimillionaire looking to marry. It’s much easier to meet your very easy requirements for HVM than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:54 PM
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It’s the same in the US. You don’t have to sign the birth certificate. I thought I explained this? You can be summoned by family court to determine paternity which would make you legally responsible if you’re the father. You’re actually ill informed about the laws in your own country. I found this out with one google search. Child support is called child maintenance in the UK. The government can order you to take a paternity test in order to pay up every month. It’s no different than the US. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:30 PM
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This is actually a great question. I never thought about this before. Im grossed out by the men choosing to stay single so they can sleep with multiple women weekly. I read your description and it kind of matches what I’m thinking about. I assume that they’re sleeping with a bunch of different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:27 PM
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If he likes, I love it. I’m happy for the girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:22 PM
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Mid thirties isn’t that old. It’s actually relatively young. But the women you date aren’t taking you seriously. If you talk to them like how your post reads, they just want you for money. Even if you don’t, they still just want you for money. Yes, even at 35 years old. Those girls want someone their own age. The problem is they aren’t wealthy yet. If you’re okay with that situation, I don’t have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:17 PM
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You don’t carry and will never have that option. Be careful next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:07 PM
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What states? Post your proof. The government is pro-family now more than ever due to the birth rate being down. So these made up situations you’re posting about are just dreams as far as I’m concerned. A parent could always attempt to forfeit parental rights btw. That’s not a new thing. Both parties have to agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 03:06 PM
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Prospects as far as what? A stepfather?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:59 PM
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By stupid people who lack education on pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:58 PM
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What do I have to be mad about exactly? Paper abortion isn’t real lmao. I’m mad about something that doesn’t exist and never will? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:56 PM
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I live in a blue state and can go schedule one right now. Anything else? Roe v. Wade overturned only effects the poor or working class. That most likely procreated with other poor people that can’t pay for children. Doesn’t really help your argument but okay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:55 PM
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I said what I said and that’s not an attack. You’re being emotional. I used the word “disappear” as in they don’t want to be in the child’s life and don’t plan on it. Y’all are equivalent to deadbeats. Hell, y’all are deadbeats. There is no difference actually. Pro paper abortion=pro deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:51 PM
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It doesn’t matter if it’s signed or not because the court has already established paternity legally. Not signing does absolutely nothing at this point but let your innocent child know that you were a deadbeat and didn’t want them. To my knowledge, there is no such thing in the UK. Where are you getting this info from? No, I’m not lobbying for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:47 PM
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Why should I pay for men who don’t want to take responsibility for their children? That’s not the job of the collective. I’m willing to help people that actually need it. Not able bodied men who don’t want to take care of their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:43 PM
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Your response was bs and I’m tired of playing games with you. A quote from an author/professor isn’t a pro-choice argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:41 PM
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Name a country that does paper abortion for research purposes. Single mothers in the US already get a reasonable amount of money. Actually, the only people the government will put in real effort to save if you’re poor are single mothers. There’s a running joke for women that if you’re poor, just have a child. Because now the government will actually care and give you benefits. I’m black and would know as my community makes up 72% of OOW births. Most women I know or grew up with are single parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:34 PM
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The government is already paying millions of dollars to single mothers. I can think of 10 programs at the top of my head. Why the fuck should men get off on their responsibilities and put it on the government? You want the government to shell out MORE money so men can opt out of their responsibilities? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:33 PM
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And your paper abortion will never become a thing because the government isn’t stupid and thinks your argument is utterly ridiculous 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:30 PM
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Women who were raped “asked” for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:29 PM
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Whenever the men on here say this it just goes to show you don’t know much about pregnancy or procreation for that matter lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:28 PM
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Rape, medical problems, birth control failure, lethal pregnancies, women in abusive relationships etc. There are many reasons why women get abortions other than having unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:26 PM
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Or I recognize biology and understand that we all are fucking equal. We are different from a biological standpoint. You say “not fair”, I say that’s life. Life is not fair all the time. Go blame god. This is what a lot of women mean when they say the new generation of men want to be women badly. All this paper abortion talk has confirmed it for me. Older men took care of their responsibilities. They didn’t make excuses for their mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:25 PM
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Because the government would end up paying instead of the men. The government is not responsible for paying for their children that they created. When single mothers apply for certain government benefits they ask if they’re receiving child support. If the answer is no, the government will go after the father for child support before they grant the mother anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:21 PM
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What does that have to do with my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:16 PM
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But did it pass? No lol. You can lobby for anything
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:15 PM
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I have a super high sex drive. I want it every night. Most men I date can’t keep up. Well, they can but they’re usually tired from work. I’ll wake up early for morning sex if that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:15 AM
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I don’t care as long as it doesn’t become an addiction type of situation. It should be hobby you do in your free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:13 AM
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Agreed but one is an emotional cunt and the other actually has some balls lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:06 AM
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That’s messed up. Can the men challenge it at least? What country is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:05 AM
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I was responding to your original comment. You said to not sign the birth certificate. I’m saying that doesn’t matter if you are biologically the father. You can be summoned and paternity will be established in court. I’m not sure if the court will order you to sign the birth certificate after that. It doesn’t really matter because paternity is already established legally. Some men do disappear when the baby is born. Don’t you hear all the men in this thread fighting for paper abortions lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:02 AM
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The concept of a paper abortion isn’t smart and anyone who believes in it isn’t smart either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:53 PM
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I’ve asked you multiple times to use a pro-choice argument for men. All you are doing is explain how paper abortions work. That’s a made up strategy and not a pro-choice argument. I’ll answer your question when you answer mine
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:53 PM
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You can have sex with a partner instead of random women. That way you two can discuss forms of BC the both of you will use and a plan just in case you have a pregnancy scare. You can also get a vasectomy if that’s not good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:25 PM
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It depends on the position. Illogical people are usually not the ones to get promoted and they don’t make great leaders/bosses.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:18 PM
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The mother of your child would file and you would then receive the summon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:17 PM
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Neither is birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:15 PM
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What do you mean how? You can’t ignore a summon for court. You’ll get arrested and they’ll bring you to court.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:00 PM
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I know. Condoms are the better option with strangers anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:59 PM
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I’ve asked you to explain your stance (You didn’t) and you’re upset because I don’t understand these ridiculous concepts you’re spewing. I’m sorry I don’t know these borderline incel Reddit terms. Is financial abortion the same concept as paper abortion? I asked you to use a pro-choice argument for men and you haven’t. You named dropped a made up strategy for men. That’s not a pro-choice argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:57 PM
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You’re all over the place and I have no clue what you are arguing anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:53 PM
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Family court can summon you to determine paternity and put you on child support. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:45 PM
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Parenthood rights are to protect the child. Not the mother or father.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:43 PM
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What is the collective and why should they be responsible for someone else’s mistake?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:42 PM
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You don’t have to “ask” for anything. You decided to have unprotected sex and create a child. You made your decision already.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:40 PM
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There is no such thing as paper abortion and never will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:35 PM
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You can always freeze your sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:32 PM
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It’s complete bs. Society should tell you this as women are moving up the corporate ladder and holding higher positions now more than ever. We also aren’t afraid of being alone. Trump was a lot more emotional and illogical than Hilary. He’s the perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:30 PM
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You said I was advocating for financial abortion. I never said this or advocated any such thing. “Yet I can see the hypocrisy in this argument you make and will advocate for financial abortion because it’s logical.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:43 PM
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No, you haven’t been precise with anything. You said I’m pro-financial abortion when I never said that. I’m pro-abortion in general. There’s no need to specify the type. I said don’t put that label on me multiple times because I never said it. I answered your question and you have no rebuttal for it. There’s no way to use pro-choice arguments for men. If there is, I would like you to use them. I’m interested in hearing them. You’re a certified gaslighter and I find it humorous and weird at the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:37 PM
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So basically your stance and argument is I can gaslight and falsely accuse you of things. So when you react, I get to call you more names and continue to gaslight you. Yeah no, gaslight 101. That doesn’t work on me. I don’t know why you unnecessarily called me emotional. You still haven’t given me a reason for it because you are FOS lol. It’s not projection, it was a random guess. I don’t know what’s going on in your brain. I don’t know why you would call my post something that it wasn’t other t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:23 PM
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Saying any gender sucks isn’t pro anything. But whatever, you can be whatever you want to be. It still makes no sense lol. You claimed I’m using pro-life arguments for men like I can use pro-choice arguments for them. What sense does that make? If men cannot give birth what pro-choice arguments can I use for them? Lmao. You are the one that’s not making a lick of sense here. Why are you so focused on financial abortions when I never specified such a thing. I even corrected you and you’re still r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:10 PM
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You’re fos and the emotional one lmao. Because I definitely replied to this post before I sent the other one. The post you were speaking on had nothing to do with deadbeats or jobs. That was written afterwards. Now you’re lying and being disingenuous. You called me emotional because I’m a woman. There was no reason for you to put that label on me. I never called you a deadbeat. I said you make excuses for them and I stand by that. I explained the job comment in my other post. I’m not on your tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:04 PM
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Your a feminist but your profile says both genders suck lol. You don’t sound pro anyone. I’m an advocate for all abortions. Not sure why you narrowed it down to financial. I’m not a feminist. Just a woman that’s pro-choice. It might seem like I’m using pro-choice talking points for women because they’re the ones pregnant. Men cannot have an abortion. If you all could, I would advocate for you all too. It’s biologically impossible for you to become pregnant and carry a child. What Ad hominems wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:56 PM
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I’m actually not an emotional thinker. Not sure if you’re saying that because I’m a woman or not but nothing about my post was emotional. You’re trying to downplay serious things women go through or maybe it’s just not important enough for you to include it at all. Whatever the reason may be, there’s nothing emotional about me bringing up things that you glossed over it. Those are legitimate reasons women decide to abort. You completely ignored that women who are on contraceptives still end up p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:47 PM
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Or maybe I already acknowledge that abortion has nothing to do with being a deadbeat that doesn’t take care of their responsibilities as a man. And yes, I’m employed. Sorry you can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:41 PM
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There is no deflecting. You threw in whatever like women don’t go through things like abuse, rape, manipulation, pregnancy complications etc. Some women do take precautions as there are multiple forms of birth control on the market. The problem with medicine is it doesn’t always work effectively. Why should those women be punished when they took the necessary steps to be responsible and not get pregnant? This and your “whatever” comment is while I’ll always be pro-choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:39 PM
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I discuss the thread topic. I don’t do goalpost conversations that aren’t on topic. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 07:34 PM
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That “whatever” you threw in at the end matters. The fact that you can’t see or understand that is the scary part.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:22 PM
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If you would like to have an abortion conversation, you can dm me or create another thread. Men wanting to neglect their children and not take responsibility for their actions has nothing to do with women’s autonomy and abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:21 PM
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Trying to compare this to abortion is asinine. Women have abortions for many reasons other than consensual unprotected sex. Men really need to step it up when it comes to sex education.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:18 PM
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This is ridiculous. You’re assuming every woman you sleep with is on the pill. Not a smart way for a man who doesn’t want kids to roll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:16 PM
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How is two people a good representation of the growing number of deadbeats that did NOT get someone pregnant like this? That’s why your argument is falling apart. You’re focusing on rare anomalies instead of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:12 PM
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Yeah you’re just repeating yourself at this point. Use protection and don’t get anyone pregnant bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:10 PM
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It’s 2023 and the government is still very much set and stone when it comes to determining paternity. It’s the same process year by year. People get pregnant everyday. Family court operates 5 days a week. It’s been in operation for many many many years now. You think they’re going to change things around because men don’t want to take responsibility for their actions? Lmao. On top of that, this would NOT work out in their favor. You would be costing the government money. So your little plan to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:11 PM
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You don’t get to make that decision for the last and final time. You aren’t carrying a child. Is Indentured servitude a new phrase for deadbeat? Because you still laid down and got someone pregnant at the end of the day. If you do the crime, you do the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:07 PM
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I didn’t say no one ever attempted this nonsense. I’m asking you to post a study of how many women have become pregnant from doing it because it’s extremely difficult if you know and understand the science behind it. You’re talking about 2 men out of millions of people in the world. Sperm dies within 20 minutes or less outside of the body. So the sperm in the condom is no good anyway. That’s why it’s frozen immediately when women get IVF. You would also need the insemination tools for it. The si…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 10:03 PM
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There is no way you can change that because (1) The government will never let you get out of paying for your child (2) You will never have autonomy over another person’s body. There’s an imbalance when it comes to last minute termination. You’re on an equal playing field when it comes to procreation. You still did it regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:42 PM
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And abortion can be used as a last resort in emergency situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:40 PM
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Your wants don’t matter when you already made the decision to have a child a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:14 PM
1

It’s common for attractive men. I know a handful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:12 PM
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If she can’t, the government will force you to pay one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:10 PM
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Idc about you personally. I’m having a discussion and waiting to see proof of women popping up pregnant from discarded condoms like you claim. So where’s the link to this nonexistent study?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:09 PM
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I never said there wasn’t an imbalance. Life is not fair. Not everything is always equal. Women are the ones who carry and they will always have the last say so. You still made the decision to lay down and have a child regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:07 PM
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That does not solve the monetary problem. Which means you are actually for the government raising your kids because you feel as though you shouldn’t pay after making the choice to have a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:05 PM
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I’m waiting for you to post the nonexistent link.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 09:03 PM
1

How is that possible? It’s not the government’s job to raise your kid and they won’t. You already made your decision to have unprotected sex and create a child. You’ll have wages garnished instead of handing them over directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:00 PM
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Isn’t it women’s history month? When is international men’s day?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:42 PM
1

There is no way men can have a say so over someone else’s autonomy. Your request isn’t possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:40 PM
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So you didn’t do the actual research and find this info. You’re relying on other people to do it for you. Which is why you’re so clueless when it comes to the topic. I genuinely have no idea of what you’re talking about. No one dropped a link about women getting pregnant by disposed condoms and you can’t even pull it up lmao. It doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:38 PM
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We can go back and forth all day. A woman can still back out for multiple reasons. It’s her womb. Men don’t do the carrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:36 PM
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Rape overall goes unreported. So what are you talking about? There is no separate column in the crime database for rapes that end up in pregnancy. The only women that would report a pregnancy from rape are the same ones that reported the actual rape. It makes no sense to do one and not the other. Therefore, the numbers are unreported because rape overall is unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:35 PM
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He doesn’t get that choice because he’s not the one carrying. That’s her womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:29 PM
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I don’t see a link? Link where? A link about getting pregnant by disposed condoms? I don’t see one. I think it’s scary that you think this is a real thing. I’m not sure if you’re being genuine or not and I kind of think you are which is scary. The lack of sex education taught in schools really needs to be stepped up. I’m praying you’re a high school kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:15 PM
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You should also quote the most important thing I said which is it goes UNREPORTED.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:10 PM
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No, they already made the choice together when he got her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:09 PM
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No, because it’s her womb and she has a right to make any last minute decisions when it comes to her body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:33 PM
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You’re moving the goal post discussing women that are rapist. The OP was not talking about women who violated or forced themselves onto men. I think we both know this. Stop attempting to shift the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:31 PM
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I asked you to post statistics of men who got women pregnant by disposing condoms or not disposing them of course. I’m waiting. A sex ed class would really benefit the majority of men who are anti fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:29 PM
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Are you saying women are unable to get pregnant by rape? Women bring it up a lot because it DOES happen at high numbers. More than you think and the statistics are unreported by a lot. It’s a fear that most women have because it’s very possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:26 PM
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You can’t absolve responsibility as that is scientifically impossible. You’re not the one pregnant. You can become a deadbeat. That’s about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:23 PM
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You are choosing to be a deadbeat. We all get that. You can opt out but your pockets can’t. When they government takes half your paycheck don’t complain. The mental gymnastics is crazy. You did not sign any paperwork before you had sex with anyone. This was not a business transaction. You willing laid down and had sex with someone unprotected and got them pregnant. That was your choice. You’re trying to move the goalpost. Like I said before, you just weaken your argument when you do this. No one…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:20 PM
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I didn’t even read both articles because I’m very aware that these situations are not common. I’m not saying they don’t matter, they’re rare and don’t accurately represent your argument. These are not the average men rallying to opt out of pregnancy. You can try to project all you want but we both know that these situations are rare. 98% of men who want to opt out of fatherhood are just irresponsible. They were not raped or trapped by anyone. You weaken your argument by bringing up these extreme…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:13 PM
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You are discussing unprotected sex or failed BC. How are you not? That’s the only way women get pregnant. You’re using the same weak arguments as the pro-lifers. It’s doesn’t matter how little it happens, women are still raped and end up pregnant, medical abortions still happen, birth control still fails. Add all three of those up and the numbers aren’t so little anymore. You’re looking at thousands of women who don’t have access to abortion. You brought up the anti-abortion argument and I state…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:06 PM
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I have no clue what you’re even talking about. What does the pill have to do with what the OP said? Men who get vasectomies don’t want children at all. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:56 PM
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You choose to have a child when you have unprotected sex. If you both agree to unprotected sex, you’re agreeing to become parents if that’s what the outcome is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:53 PM
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That’s fine but don’t complain that no one is speaking on something that’s not the fucking topic at hand. Start a thread of female rapist and I’ll participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:50 PM
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Wow. You’re really focused on the wrong things and it’s sad. You could actually be speaking on topics that actually matter. That semen snatching bullshit doesn’t exist. Stop bringing it up and pick up a biology/health book while your at it. That is not the only form of paternity fraud. You decide to use an example that doesn’t even occur lol. How old are you? No where in my post did I say women couldn’t opt out. I said you can’t. We are the ones carrying full term. Women rightfully deserve to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:47 PM
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Is it outrage or are you really saying something sick that requires me to speak up and express my disdain for your comments? Aren’t you black? Didn’t your mother and grandmother tell you to get in the house when there’s a thunderstorm approaching? My grandmother wouldn’t even cut a tv on. You can use prevention for all the bullshit you are mentioning. That doesn’t exist during child birth. This conversation is so sick and pointless. Get a new argument and rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:36 PM
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Because women are the ones carrying. Anything can happen. I don’t think men understand how serious childbirth is. You can literally die.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:30 PM
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Why are you all bringing up rare and damn near impossible situations to prove your points? They do NOT represent the men petitioning to opt out of fatherhood. All you’re doing is weakening your argument. You’re talking about professional athletes that make millions of dollars. That is NOT the average man on the street. We are talking about a couple hundred people out of millions of men lol. Do you not understand how ridiculous that sounds? I also have a close friend who works with athletes and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:28 PM
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You all have to use these drastic and rare examples because you have nothing else that makes logical sense. My question to you is why use these examples at all when they don’t represent 99% of men in these situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:17 PM
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I’m criticizing your example because it doesn’t represent the majority of men who desire to opt out of fatherhood. You’re actually doing these men a disservice by using an unrealistic example. Even they know that this situation is not theirs and isn’t even close to it. Why not use an example that mirrors their experience more closely? Because you know that shit would make absolutely no fucking sense. So now you have to use damn near impossible examples like men who get vasectomies and use condom…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:12 PM
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I never said men should have absolutely no rights. I was responding to WHY there is an imbalance. It’s the woman who will have to carry for 9 months. She will have to give birth. Death is always on the table for childbirth and even afterwards when the child is born. If I’m the one carrying a child and my life is at risk, of course things will be more in my favor. This is honestly not a hard concept. To question why an imbalance exist in the first place is fucking crazy. Saying the black maternal…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:05 PM
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You all post drastic examples like this because that’s all you have. It’s damn near impossible to get a woman pregnant with a vasectomy on top of condom use. Most couples who make decisions like this are married. These accidental pregnancies that most men are having are with random women they’re having sex with. This obviously makes a difference as a married couple would most likely come up with a solution without anyone having to go cry to the government about their personal problems. The reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:53 PM
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The Drake thing was made up. You lost the argument right there. I can’t even take the post seriously. You took a Twitter joke/rumor and are trying to make an argument out of it. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:43 PM
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I’m black and we have the highest maternal death rate in the country. I take this subject very seriously. It isn’t always due to poor health care but racism in the medical field. No matter what race you are, comparing death during childbirth to getting murdered is not only disgusting but absolutely asinine. You can control one, you can’t control the other. Most people are not randomly murdered out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:40 PM
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All you’re acknowledging is that it takes two people to make a baby. TWO PEOPLE, not one. Why the fuck should you be absolved of your responsibility? You did it. Stop going back to an example that isn’t true. You are NOT a sperm donor nor can you be compared to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:35 PM
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I don’t understand the mindset of men who think like you. That is your kid whether you like it or not. You’re not a sperm donor. You weren’t paid to drop your sperm off for pay. You willingly laid down with a woman and had unprotected sex. Did you take health class in high school? Did you pay attention? That’s how babies are made. You do the crime, you do the time. No, the government isn’t paying for your poor life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:32 PM
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Unprotected sex isn’t the only reason why women get abortions. Your life or your child’s life could be at risk medically, you could’ve gotten raped, and birth control can fail. So the anti-abortion crowd loses with that argument every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:27 PM
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Don’t sleep with a woman you’re not 100% sure you want as a mother of your child. Don’t get women pregnant if you don’t want a child. See how easy this can be reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:24 PM
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They hate women so much that they just want to see them suffer. It doesn’t matter if it makes logical sense or not to them. The goal is to see women upset and take away any power they have in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:22 PM
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I was okay with #2 until you brought up “semen snatching”. You’re going to lose every time you bring that nonsense up. You don’t get to opt out of your responsibilities because you don’t like the outcome. The government will now be raising your child instead of you and that should be your responsibility. The government isn’t paying for your kid when you’re able to provide for it on your own. Do you understand how the system even works lol? You want single mothers to receive less benefits when mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:19 PM
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You make the decision to have a child the moment you have unprotected sex. Abortion isn’t birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:13 PM
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No we aren’t. The CMV is challenging men who think they shouldn’t pay child support. It has nothing to do with female rapist that end up pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:10 PM
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Have you ever asked yourself WHY there is an imbalance. It’s the woman that will be giving birth. Women die every year during childbirth. It’s something that could literally take your fucking life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:07 PM
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Cool. Then don’t make comments about people being quiet about topics that aren’t the discussion. It takes away from the conversation at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:04 PM
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Because it’s a female rape topic, not a child support topic. You should go start a thread on female rapist if that’s what you want to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:00 PM
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You’re losing your argument by bringing up shit that doesn’t happen. What woman is digging in trash cans for condoms? You do know you have to have the proper tools to inseminate yourself. What woman has those laying around the house? Y’all really sound ridiculous saying shit like this. It doesn’t help your weak argument. It’s not shocking at all that you’re team deadbeat. Nothing you all say ever makes logical sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:58 AM
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We don’t need to be told this because we’ll be the ones pregnant and carrying for 9 months. The responsibility is already on us before the baby is even born.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:53 AM
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I’m saying the same exact thing about the men. There is no misogyny on my end. Both sexes need fucking help. You on the other hand, are filled with misogynistic views. No one signs up to get their ass beat by a man. You should go research DV.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:20 AM
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Why do you think nothing has worked for you? There has to be a reason for this. You should’ve at least made one female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:17 AM
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There is nothing misogynistic about stating women attracted to dysfunction are probably dealing with some type of trauma. I also believe the men who have 3 baby mamas are also dealing with some type of trauma. You have no clue what those women have been through in life. It’s ignorant to say they aren’t dealing with trauma because of your personally small minded view of them. Anyone attracted to a violent person that can harm them needs serious help.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 04:16 AM
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What are your interest outside of video games? Have you thought about doing community service work? Fundraising? Charity events? It doesn’t hurt to give back and be a good person. Plus it’s a tax write off lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:52 AM
2

Have you thought about getting a new hobby? If you’re a gym going guy, maybe try a sport? Tennis is a good one if you want to mingle with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:35 AM
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One word; trauma. Those women are dealing with trauma and lack guidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:23 AM
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Is it a FAANG? Is your lifestyle high maintenance? Do you take women on expensive dates? I kind of get a feel of how much a man makes by his lifestyle and job title. Yes, dates matter but most men don’t feel like paying for pricey dates unless they’re trying to win you over or are making money in the high six figures range.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:21 AM
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Is it well known that your job title makes a lot of money? Sometimes women don’t know. Everyone recognizes a doctor or lawyer salary but it’s not clear sometimes with certain job titles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 03:10 AM
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Yes but they’re always in a relationship lol. Someone loves them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:56 AM
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I’m okay with it because I believe it protects both parties. There’s an understanding upfront about assets and how things will be divided. Most importantly, I think it protects both parties from getting screwed over. The both of you can come up with a solution that doesn’t leave the other party in a homeless shelter while y’all are on good terms and don’t hate each others guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:36 AM
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Red Pill leaders like Andrew Tate and KS are just opening up the eyes of women who had no idea some men had so many disgusting thoughts and views about women. A female friend of mine introduced me to the community years ago after going through a nasty breakup. She was terrified after watching some youtube videos and was even willing to forgive her ex just to not enter the dating world. That’s how shook she was. It’s scary how much it’s grown since then. This had to be around 2016-2017. It’s main…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 12:55 AM
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This topic is played out. A 50 year old dating a 20 year old will always be creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:29 PM
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No, the article is saying there’s usually an age gap when remarrying, meaning they’re not on their first marriage. That’s not the same as saying older men go for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:27 PM
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You should take your own advice sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:50 PM
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I’m fine with it as long as finances are taken care of. That’s not an easy job for a man. You would be taking care of 3-4 people by yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:51 PM
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You can feel free to block me. I don’t have time for the trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:46 PM
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I think attractive people enjoy being around other attractive people. Even though the girl might not be a 10, in his eyes she’s attractive enough to be friendly with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:45 PM
1

That’s platonic but doesn’t really count in my opinion. You all basically used to date and it didn’t work out. I’m talking about a friend that didn’t date me or have the desire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:42 PM
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High school and it continued from there. It’s not as bad at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:40 PM
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You have no logic or lesson. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:15 AM
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I’m 29 and both women and men used to mistake me being friendly as flirting. I’ve gotten so much hate from other women for just being my friendly extrovert self towards men. The men just don’t care about boundaries and want to see how far they can go with me. It’s less about friendliness and more about testing my limits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:15 AM
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I’m talking about strictly platonic friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 02:11 AM
1

Yeah I’m not debating about this. Have a nice night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:21 AM
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I’m not. The goal is not to have sex on trips. I want a legitimate break. It’s weird that men think like this. I think it’s because men often do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:06 AM
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I would make time for my male friends too. I don’t have any to make time for lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 12:09 AM
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It’s hard for me to build genuine friendships with men because they all want to sleep with me. The only ones I’m sort of friends with are my friends boyfriends or husbands. Of course I can’t get too close to them because of boundary issues. I wish I had more guy friends that just wanted me strictly as a friend lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:17 PM
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Well I admitted it happens but you have to take into account how many are in relationships, marriages, or just don’t participate in casual sex. I personally see it as a waste because it’s not like I’m going to see you ever again lol. The percentage of women who do it is low.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:15 PM
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My friends boyfriend has get togethers all the time and invites everyone. The superbowl party was at his house and everyone was invited. It included his guy friends, his female friends, his friends girlfriends etc. An all married friend group sounds like you all are mid 30’s and that’s probably not the best place to mingle. But the under 30 crowd shouldn’t have this issue. I don’t have this problem and I’m 29. I think you missed my point. Some men have genuine female friends and they’re usually …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:11 PM
1

I figured that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:49 PM
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Yeah they are. I take several girls trip a year with about 5-8 girls. Usually only one single girl finds someone attractive and has sex. The rest of us are chilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:38 PM
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I’ve noticed that it’s harder for average or unattractive guys to have female friends in their friend group. I usually only see attractive men have a bunch of female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 10:33 PM
1

Because I desire marriage. Compromising and having a child is my best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:11 PM
1

Just to clarify, I’ve had long term relationships as well. I just have more short term vs long term. The reason for that is complicated. I do agree that has nothing to do with body count atp.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:08 PM
1

What does she do for a living if you don’t mind me asking? You don’t meet too many wealthy 25 year old women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:05 PM
1

If you’re trying to figure out the ratio in sexual partners, that’s a bit weird. That’s actually weird af. If the number is too high for you, just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:04 PM
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I said I’d make a sacrifice meaning I’m taking an oath to take care of my child no matter what happens in life. Whatever the outcome of my future pregnancy is, I have already made the decision to do my duties no matter what. I think there’s so many fucked up parents out there because they’re selfish, didn’t give af about parenthood, or didn’t realize how difficult it was. My mindset is the complete opposite. I’m making sure my life is in the best position possible mentally, physically, financial…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:02 PM
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If I thought that my body count was that bad, I would lie to everyone. So no, not necessarily. But it’s not lol. So I don’t lie to anyone. I’m very open about not participating in casual sex and my short term relationships. It’s only on reddit where people try to break down ratios according to short and long term relationships lol. When I’m sure most of the guys I’ve dated have a body counts triple mines.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:14 PM
1

I suppose that would keep a 25 year old around for a while. How much money do you give her monthly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:09 PM
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I go to both cities yearly and I’m pretty. I’ve never had sex there so why does it matter? Also, what’s up with men thinking women are complete hoes on vacation. I just had this conversation with a guy. My goal on vacation isn’t to sleep around. I know some people do it but it’s not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:08 PM
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They aren’t. Good thing my man isn’t an incel and I can be honest with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:05 PM
1

But he doesn’t want to be a father at 40+. Most men don’t. So yes, a want becomes a need in this situation. A lot of people both men and women have cut offs when it comes to having children. Just because I’m able to have kids at 35 doesn’t mean I want them at 35. Also, wives don’t come by easily. If it was that easy, this entire forum wouldn’t exist. So it’s now a need for his relationship as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 08:05 PM
0

I have little to no experience with children and it has never been a priority for me to procreate. If I can find a man that doesn’t want children, that would be the best situation for me. However, I’m willing to make sacrifices if my husband is also willing to do the same. I’ll have a child for my husband and even though motherhood isn’t appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:27 PM
1

Based on what I know about retirement, I would only classify you as rich if you have close to 10 million saved up. Especially since you retired so early. If not, you’re living a middle class retired life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:20 PM
1

A man 30+ doesn’t have much in common with a 21 year old. They can have a preference but who they choose to date and marry is someone around their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:15 PM
1

And this is why women lie about their sex partners lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 05:13 PM
1

Have you retired yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:53 PM
0

A want can become a need in this situation. Especially for a 30 something year old guy that doesn’t want to become a dad at 40. It’s now a “need” for him too according to his own standards with marriage, kids, age etc. Men that age don’t want to waste time either. I deal with them and would know. They are the first ones to bring up the marriage and kids conversation, not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:33 PM
2

It’s been statistically proven that most women prefer to date around their age range. So dream on I guess. I’m not saying it’s impossible but it certainly isn’t the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:20 PM
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A lot of my relationships are short term and I don’t participate in casual sex. I would rather my relationships be short term than have casual sex partners. I had a goal, he had a goal. It didn’t work out. That’s life. My body count isn’t high but it consist mostly of short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:16 PM
1

Are you rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:13 PM
1

Or maybe he cheated and it’s his fucking fault lol. This post is gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:11 PM
2

The average 30 something year old guy looks his age if not older and is probably overweight. Make a fake dating profile and go see for yourself. I’m not saying the men you’re talking about don’t exist (my man could pass for 28), but they’re extremely rare. Now let’s discuss the optics of it all. Do you really want to date a 23 year old at 35? Most 30 somethings I know have a “please no games” policy towards other 30+ women. A lot of 20 somethings aren’t looking for anything serious. An older man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:05 PM
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Most men that desire marriage and children in their 30’s usually rush more than the women when they find a partner that they love. It’s happened to me and all of my friends. If they’re serious about you, the marriage and kids talk will happen sooner than you think. Life waits for no one. They might not be the one popping the kid out but they also want the same thing as you and don’t want to wait 5 years for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:54 PM
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Women in their 20’s also have at least one of those usually. Unless you’re a college student of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:50 PM
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Have you thought about getting a hobby outside of the house that involves women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:45 PM
1

I’ve actually never given this advice to men before, only women. Let’s see. Look presentable and dress well. If you take pride in your appearance, you’ll naturally feel good about yourself and exude confidence. Be sure and concise of your decisions when you’re out. Have a game plan. If your goal is to party and buy everyone a round of shots, do it with no hesitation. See a cute girl at the bar? Buy her a drink and ask for her number. Maybe you just want to listen to music or dance. Just be confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:39 PM
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Why would you even want to date a woman that lies to you? How do you know if she’s lying or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:30 PM
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Same. I have friends that sleep around and then I have some that have been in relationships for years or have married. Not sure how my friends bodycounts and relationships reflect my sex life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:29 PM
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Bingo. All these indirect questions are bullshit lol. A woman’s views about sex isn’t a direct indication of how many people she’s been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:26 PM
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This just gives you her POV on sex. How can you formulate a bodycount number from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:21 PM
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My longest relationship is 1.5 years Been single since January 2020 (covid fucked everything up)-I’m taken now but just playing it up for the question. I started taking apps seriously around 2019. I never met up with anyone until then. Guess my body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:19 PM
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I feel like I do that with everything he says vs him telling me. I guess I’m just not used to dealing with someone so private and introverted as a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 03:08 PM
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How nice are you with using your sales skills in the dating world? I used to work in sales too. My current man is super private and it’s been hard to get him to open up. I usually can get anyone to open up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 04:48 PM
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I prefer men to be straight forward. I even put that on my dating profile. You won’t believe how many men are on there just to have someone to talk to because they’re lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:26 PM
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This post is strange. As if men don’t cross those same boundaries lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:15 PM
2

Me too. But I believe some men have a natural aura about them. They aren’t purposely trying to get this attention but they naturally attract this kind of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:52 PM
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All three for me but if I had to rank them it would be Wisdom, then status, and action last.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:50 PM
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I should not be approaching men in fear. What do you not get about that? I should not have to have my phone ready to call the cops. I do NOT have this problem when men approach me. They’re not the aggressive type. It only happens when I approach men because they feel like they can test boundaries. Why? Because they’re socially aware that I’m attracted to them. Men who approach me have no idea how I feel about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:34 PM
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I guess. Good luck to the UK girlies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:31 PM
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Who said my man paid for everything? I pay for my own mortgage, house expenses, car note etc. A $150 date ain’t shit compared to all the things I just mentioned. Let’s be clear. If my man wanted to take care of me and be a provider, there’s nothing wrong with that. We plan on marrying and will combine incomes eventually. It’s called being traditional. If he wants me home with the kids, that’s what I’ll do. It doesn’t have shit to do with being an adult lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:24 PM
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Do you approach women ready to call the police? Why would you approach women at all if you have to have the phone ready to call the cops? Do you understand how you sound right now? Meeting new people is supposed to be a pleasurable experience. You aren’t supposed to be scared for your life ready to call 911. It’s a waste of time because you don’t know what you’re talking about and never been through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:58 PM
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Girl you got it bad. Comparing going half on dates to Welfare lmao. Laugh of the day. Just because it’s considered a poor thing in the UK does not mean it’s a poor thing in the US. It’s actually a VERY poor thing for a man to do over here. Women of higher social classes aren’t arguing about going 50/50. The bill is already taken care of by the men. It’s not even a question or debate. Escorts get paid to go on dates by lonely men that cannot get beautiful women. It is literally a contractual agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:54 PM
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It’s not tho 😂 stick to calling me fat. That’s all you got. I’m not ugly like you stupid. People like you excite me too. I can’t wait til the rest of this weight falls off. You won’t have shit to say then. You don’t have shit to say now either. Especially when the fat girl has a man who makes more money than you and looks better too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:26 PM
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🥴 <-Your face Talking about me won’t make your life better ugly 😂Go google a surgeon instead of talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:19 PM
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No, I said approaching men makes them more comfortable to test boundaries and yes that includes sexual assault and rape. Almost all men register women approaching them as “she wants to fuck me”. Because a woman approaching a man shows sexual interest. That makes men comfortable with doing things like grabbing your ass and breast in public unprovoked. They see nothing wrong with SA because they think because you’re attracted to them that they can test your boundaries. That is much different than …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:17 PM
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Why would I approach men when I’ve been sexually assaulted multiple times and feared for my life? There is no fucking seatbelt for that. Your entire thought process is asinine. You’re not a woman so you don’t know what it’s like to feel helpless and pray you make it out of a situation alive. Comparing rape and sexual assault to wearing a seatbelt is so fucking disrespectful and crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:33 PM
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Why would I lie when I’m acknowledging that I’m still fat? Lmfao I would just say that I lost weight and I’m skinny now. No need to lie about being fat dumb ass. Now let me go break my fast and eat my avocado.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:27 PM
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Men feel more comfortable crossing boundaries when women approach. They know you’re sexually attracted to them and like to test limits and boundaries. How do I know? Because it’s happened to me multiple times where I APPROACHED a man. I’ve been sexually assaulted more than once approaching men. Fuck that. It cannot be compared to men approaching women. Men don’t even know how women will respond when approaching. You don’t know what response you’re going to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:49 PM
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You’re a fucking fool. Didn’t I just say I lost weight dumb ass? You can talk all the shit you want about me to fit whatever narrative to make you feel better about your shitty life. I’m happily with my man, healthy and losing weight, and beautiful. While you’re “healthy” and still ugly in spirit and on the outside too. I bet money my diet is better than yours lmao. Fucking dipshit. I didn’t lose 50 lbs eating donuts. You’re low IQ and I have to clarify this for you I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:44 PM
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I get my numbers checked twice a year. Everything is normal. When’s the last time you’ve had a check up? Skinny people do the most shit talking while heavy drinking, smoking cigarettes, on drugs, trash eating, and haven’t been to a doctors office in years 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:55 PM
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Whatever you say ugly lol. At least I don’t have to sleep with people I find unattractive. All my boyfriends have been cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:43 PM
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There is no benefit. It’s only called a “hoe phase” because women eventually wake up and realize the men they’re sleeping with are POS. While men are allowed to be hoes there entire lives with no “phases”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:38 PM
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I have a man that’s coming home to me lmao. Like I said, you can’t relate ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:33 PM
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Women weren’t property back then either. They had a role to play in society and women are still playing that role. Capitalism has shook things up and blurred the lines a little. Now women have to be workers and still take care of the household. If you’re paying attention, local lawmakers, politicians, and billionaires are deeply regretting some decisions. The birth rate keeps dropping lower and lower. It will continue to be that way if nothing is done to help women with work and childcare. Socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:31 PM
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I’ve never been in the 300’s in my life but good luck to the people that are. Your spirit is ugly inside and out. And you wonder why no one wants you. I’m a product of childhood obesity dipshit. I have only lost weight as an adult. How can I be a sample when I have the house keys, credit cards, and all the rest of that shit lol. I’ve never been anyone’s sample. Always a girlfriend. You can’t relate. Please go work on yourself and leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:25 PM
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The thing is, you do more than feel desired. You can go reference your rape statistics. Women don’t want to sign up to get used as a sex doll and the ones who do are already approaching men. You can miss me with the race reference. I’m black lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:19 PM
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I’ve lost 50 lbs already. I’ll be skinny by the summer while you’re still on Reddit crying about being ugly. That will never change 😂 I’ve never been an ugly woman. I have always gotten men despite my weight. My man doesn’t even want me to lose anymore weight, little ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:11 PM
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I can lose weight and you’ll still be ugly 😊 We are not the same sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:41 PM
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My friends don’t pay for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:31 PM
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Passed around? I mention that I get courted and your consensus is that I’m passed around? Didn’t know women in relationships were hoes or prostitutes. Last time I checked, women who get passed around don’t get dates at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:27 PM
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Do you know why the girl is almost always being asked out? Because of traditionalism in society. Women do not approach men or ask men out. If you ask someone out, it is your responsibility to pay period.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:25 PM
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Last time I checked, an escort is someone that gets paid for having sex. I don’t fuck anyone I go out with. I’ve never pulled my wallet out when I’m out with a man. So yes, I feel sorry for you. It’s even more depressing that you’ve been conditioned to think only prostitutes have paid dates. Sad. Thank goodness I’m in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:22 PM
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I’m not writing an APA style paper for you lmao. You can read and know exactly what the fuck I said. You’re choosing not to respond because you have no rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:20 PM
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I don’t even recall what you said about fat people nor do I care lmao. I’m positive I look better than any girl you’ve ever dated despite my size. You would NEVER have a chance to even speak to me. I have never had a problem dating in my entire life and I damn sure ain’t a 5/10. All my men are high value. Can you you say the same about your women? lol nope. You’re angry on Reddit venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:16 PM
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A 7/10=70%. That is average. A 5/10= 50% is below average lmao. Sorry about your IQ. Enjoy dating other below average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:23 PM
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Why is that? It’s usually the opposite in the US. Why are middle class women paying for dates? I feel sorry for y’all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:22 PM
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I never said shit about them paying for your dinner. That’s hilarious Lmao. You’re not properly courting a woman. The woman wears the pants in your relationship. She calls the shots. Makes decisions about where to eat and pays for her food. But y’all want submissive women? She’s leading you lmao. You’re not a leader. None of what you mentioned is a representation of a MAN that knows how to be a leader and good partner. I wouldn’t take you seriously at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:20 PM
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Well they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:14 PM
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I’ve been courted in all my relationships. I’m sorry you can’t relate. I date high quality men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:14 PM
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Average is a 7/10 lol but whatever makes you sleep at night. And yes, you should be dating other unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:13 PM
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That’s what I cooked. I’m having steak tonight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:11 PM
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One is African and the other is American.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:43 PM
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What claim is empty? You’re literally inviting someone you don’t know out to eat, picking the restaurant, and expecting them to pay. You sound like the entitled one. That’s rude af.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:41 PM
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Do you ask them or do they offer? My friends in the Caribbean don’t pay on dates either.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:39 PM
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There’s also women that are above other levels of men and just don’t want to settle. I see it all the time actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:38 PM
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Eggplant and rice. My bf is taking me to dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:37 PM
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I was just correcting his statement. It has nothing to do with levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:36 PM
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They live in London. I’m American and have never paid for a date. I thought this was a world wide thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:19 PM
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It doesn’t have shit to entitlement. If you invite someone out, it’s your job to pay. Blame your parents for the bad manners. Your friends are not an accurate comparison. You’re asking a stranger to go out with you. You should pay period. You wanted her to come out with you and she agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:18 PM
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Mmmm this food is good
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:13 PM
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If you invite me out, it’s your responsibility to pay. This is why I try to vet people before the date. You’re paying regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:09 PM
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This isn’t true. My UK friends are not going half on dates. There’s nothing narcissistic about wanting to be courted properly by a man. If you ask me out, it’s your responsibility to pay. The same goes for me when I invite people places. The tab is my responsibility. You have to have money to golddig and most American men are broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:08 PM
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Correction. I would rather die alone than be with someone I don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:03 PM
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A 5/10 face? No offense but you’re unattractive. Being fit is great but you’re still considered unattractive. I’m not sure why this sub puts so much emphasis on weight when facial features matter the most. You should try meeting women on your level in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:00 PM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about. It’s not even worth a response. I’m not having a conversation with anyone who uses the term NPC. Enjoy your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:56 PM
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Disagree. Women get told the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:09 PM
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You keep quoting me a thousand times under the same post. It’s annoying. Live your fake millionaire lifestyle and don’t take my advice. Have fun being a baby daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 10:03 PM
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Chads get married tho. Why would they get seconds when they get first dibs? They don’t have to get second of anything if they don’t want it. And I don’t believe you. Nothing about you screams Chad. Wanting to be Chad over a husband just shows you never lived that lifestyle. It also shows that you have low standards. Your goal in life is to just hook up with random women lol. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:59 PM
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So you want to be a baby daddy and create a broken home? How trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:57 PM
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You’re not a millionaire. Please stop calling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:56 PM
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It does not. Even the men I know use the term “Wife material” for a reason. Because you’re more than just a pretty face and have your shit together. Same goes for men who get labeled Husband material. You’re much more than a hook up. I can see myself being with you for the rest of my life. How do you not understand that the compliment is ions better than just a “hook up”. You don’t have to want to get married to understand which compliment is better. You want to be Chad so bad that you’re blind …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:55 PM
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I can’t reason with someone who is completely delusional about what a husband is to women. Your inability to see things through a woman’s lens is holding you back. I even posted a thread with women describing what husband material means to them and you ignored it. There’s nothing else I can do to help you. Stop quoting me multiple times on the same post. Learn how to edit. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/106ziyp/ladies_of_ppd_what_do_you_consider_husband/?utm_source=share&utm_…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:50 PM
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Why do you keep quoting me about the same thing multiple times? Husband material does mean you’re physically attracted to someone. To the highest degree actually. Hook up material is just you look okay to sleep with and bring nothing else to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:46 PM
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But your reasoning doesn’t make sense. Before you explained your disdain for marriage you were naming a list of reasons why being seen as hook up material being better. Men who think like you never got to live the Chad life. You’re jealous and wish you had it like that. So to you, saying you want hook up material is better than being labeled as marriage material, which is the highest compliment a woman could give you. You all want something quick and player like, nothing long term. Like I said, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:44 PM
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They’re not often thrown out. That is a lie. Get a better attorney fake millionaire. You think he’s going to continue spending unlimited amounts of money on her while having serious marriage problems? Like I said, you don’t know shit about marriage. That is not the dynamic of a rich man in a relationship lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:40 PM
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What’s your net worth lmao. How much do you make yearly?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:37 PM
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Hook up material is code for hot and nothing to offer. If you had something to bring to the table, you would be more than hook ups material. You would be boyfriend or husband material. Does your gf know that you have no plans on ever marrying her? Do you want children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:35 PM
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Lmao but you’re on Reddit having a discussion and sharing your thoughts. What you say is up for debate and criticism. That’s why you’re on a debate sub. If you say stupid shit like being husband material is “bad” and hook up material is better this conversation wouldn’t even be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:48 PM
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That wasn’t my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:45 PM
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That’s what prenups are for. Aren’t you supposed to be cosplaying a millionaire? You don’t know a lot about money or how rich men roll lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:45 PM
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Look at your own post. Does it really matter. You aren’t a millionaire lmao. That was a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:43 PM
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You did. But either way you’re not a millionaire. So we can stop here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:43 PM
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If I told the guy I’m currently dating that he’s just hook up material I’m 100% sure he would take that as an insult. Men outside of PPD would be insulted by that. YOU just want sex and are seeing things through your lens only.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:38 PM
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I gave you the benefit of the doubt but you’re starting to sound like the brainwashed men off PPD. Everything is not all about dating sites. Try dating outside of apps and you will see how different things are. Ask a woman if she thinks men outside of apps are shallow. They’re usually worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 07:36 PM
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Looks is all that matters on OLD. Outside of OLD, you have more wiggle room to show off your personality. Maybe you aren’t that photogenic and look better in person. She might work in the same field as you and wants to get to know you better or network. Real life dating is so much better. Society has always been fixated on looks. People have always been told to be attractive and in shape. I think men got away with it in the past because they didn’t meet their wives through OLD. They didn’t have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:57 PM
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I’m talking about the dynamic of OLD and how it works. It wasn’t specifically directed towards you. I’m saying anyone that participates in OLD is relying strictly on looks. It’s damn near impossible to get to know you as a person when I have to look at your photos first before we can even have a conversation. That is 100% relying on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:41 PM
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I know a lot of married people too and they’re still having sex. Do things like work and children slow things down? Yes, but that doesn’t have shit to do with looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:37 PM
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Men with money hold all the power in the relationship. You have no clue what you’re talking about. It’s embarrassing at this point honestly. If he’s in a dead bedroom then why df would they even get married lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:35 PM
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You went from “I don’t make six figures” to “I’m a millionaire”. I don’t believe you. Only a fool would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:34 PM
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And those same women will end up married eventually. So where do we go from here? Most women still believe in the institution of marriage. I’m talking about the majority of women as a collective. Me labeling a man as a hook up is literally an insult. It basically means you don’t have shit to offer but looks. Once again, you don’t know how women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:33 PM
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It sounds like you dislike online dating and I do too. My question to you is why didn’t you explore other avenues. You could get a hobby that involves women if cold approaching isn’t your thing. There are number of things you could’ve done to be in proximity of women. But I think I got my answer. You said you worked too much which is normal these days. It’s actually my main complaint dating successful men my age. The guy I’m dating now is busy all the time. But I’m used to it. Like I said, it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:30 PM
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You said many end in dead bedrooms. I never said they didn’t exist. So post some statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:20 PM
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Now you’re a millionaire? Lmao. What? Yeah you’re lying now. Conversation over 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:19 PM
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Not everyone is delusional like you. Rich and ugly men are aware that most attractive women don’t love their looks. They can learn to live other qualities. He will move right on if it turns into a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:18 PM
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If I’m attracted to a man, I want him to be my husband! Not a fucking hook up. You don’t know how women think. Women DONT want to be viewed as hook up material. We want to be viewed as Wife Material. Women don’t go around looking to hook up with men. We’re looking for a partner. You’re thinking like a man, not like a woman. I’ve said this several times now and you still can’t get it through your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:16 PM
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Please cite this. Most people are still meeting in person. You just couldn’t do it and relied on lazy dating. Men approach me all the time. It’s still very much allowed. You just don’t do it. If you’re respectful, you shouldn’t have a problem with it. I wasn’t calling you a liar. I’m saying men lie about their jobs and even colleges on dating sites. I don’t have this problem in person. Men don’t lie to me about their profession when we’re discussing work. This isn’t insecurity but the truth. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:11 PM
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They do not. You need to cite where you read this because it’s not true. I just told you to stay lost on Reddit. Don’t believe me lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:06 PM
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If you aren’t a six figure earner you won’t have this problem lmao. What are you not getting about that? You’re pretending like you have this rich man’s lifestyle and you don’t. I don’t get it. Is it ego? A dream? If you don’t have shit, then why the fuck is she with you? It isn’t your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:04 PM
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We were talking about men with money. They most certainly can step out and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:02 PM
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So is husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:01 PM
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It can’t be a strawman when you said that shit. Now you’re mad because I broke down what a hook up is? A hook up is NOT a relationship. Even if you keep seeing her, y’all are still NOT monogamous. Women want monogamy and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:01 PM
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Most men aren’t six figure earners. You’re acting like you’re living a rich man’s lifestyle and you aren’t. Women have no incentive to marry you. Only rich men have to worry about being used for money. You’re literally talking about the top 1%. That isn’t you or most of the men on this sub who probably haven’t even graduated college yet. You don’t have to listen to me. Continue to be in denial lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:58 PM
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Maybe you should’ve tried dating in the real world and not just dating apps? I don’t feel sorry for you strictly dating app using men. Try dating outside the internet. It was your fault that you were single. Dating apps is lazy dating. My mindset is totally different on dating sites vs. the real world. I’m more inclined to give a guy my number in person while I would probably turn that same guy down on dating apps. All I got from your post is that you’re a lazy dater that relies strictly your lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:54 PM
1

Okay? You want a pat on the back?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:46 PM
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Every marriage doesn’t end up in a dead bedroom. You’re strawmaning now. Don’t believe me and stay lost on Reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:45 PM
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We were talking about two different things and you’re trying to combine them. DONT. I said a high value man doesn’t necessarily have to be attractive because they provide stability. That is different from a man that’s husband material. They’re not the same. Husband material is your dream man. Why would he not be attractive? All your post show me is you have little to no experience with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:43 PM
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You don’t know shit about marriage. Like I said in my previous post, if I’m not fucking him someone else is. Men will step out and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:41 PM
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Do you know what a hook up is? It means I just slept with you. We are NOT in a relationship. I just fucked you. That’s it. How the fuck is that ideal for a woman? We want RELATIONSHIPS. That is what YOU want. You want to be able to pump and dump women. That is not ideal for a woman. Husband Material is my dream guy. He has the looks, personality, the money, everything. Reducing yourself to hook up material is basically insulting yourself lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:39 PM
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How are you going to tell me? A woman…wtf I want? Some women do date men for money. ALL women don’t do this. I DONT do this. I said women marry for stability all the time. I never said they choose money over looks. Stop putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:35 PM
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Okay, good for you. I hope you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:32 PM
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You’ve seen women sleep around and then get MARRIED. You know just like how men sleep around and then get MARRIED. It’s no different. Your question was answered. Husband Material does mean she’s into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:31 PM
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Husband Material DOES mean you’re physically desirable. You are both dependable and desirable. You think I want my kids daddy to be ugly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:30 PM
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