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You're never too busy to use a card and gift/ flower service... 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 10:50 AM
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Definitely! Even if it is official and now online doesn't mean I won't be ruffling feathers 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:15 PM
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Ah, I never saw it from that angle! It's given me some food for thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:19 PM
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I don't really care about being internet official, I know it's a superficial front really. I just appreciated the gesture. I understand that FDS doesn't advocate this but I am also not ready for marriage yet- there are thing employment wise I want to fulfill first; therefore, this is enough. I'm not one the constantly post about my relationship and judging his use of social media, he isn't either. You're not raining on my parade either, sometimes we need to hear these things to help us stay grou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 09:31 AM
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Jesus, I went on there to find out what MGTOW actually was and I must say I'm so incredibly disappointed in them all. Want to be single? That's okay. Think women are a drain on your wallet? Whatever, son. But purposely ruining others lives as they cheer each other on is a disgusting. It's literally a sub reddit dedicated for degrading and defaming women with hate. And people have the audacity to come FDS to them...? 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 11:49 AM
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When I was working in a bar I had a conversation with another where he told me he was only into bitches. He said that bitches were hot, the coldness, disinterest, and overall unpleasantness was something he found attractive. Then he started to say I was a nice, lovely girl and it was refreshing for a girl to be nice. I wouldn't honestly say I was a particularly nice person but 🤷🏻‍♀️. Anyway, after about 5 minutes of this I started calling him a masochist to which he venomly rejected. I wonder wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:04 AM
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There are so many people I know who need to see this. I've told them (men and women) countless times times to leave relationships that was not working for them, they weren't happy in, or just didn't want to be in. But time, and time again they choose to stay in those dreary relationships because they don't want to be alone. Just fyi, there is nothing better than hearing a "I was single because I was focusing on XY and Z."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:48 AM
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"How was I meant to tell my ex gf she was fat and I wasn't attracted to he without hurting her feelings" He then went on to compliment her, saying how good she looked since working out all while we were on a date... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:48 AM
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I've met mine on tinder, he's an engineer of somesort (Can't go into too much detail). With tinder, I never talked long to people who didn't have a decent job. I'm looking to settle down, not to date loads of people. It's just the case of finding someone who has the same ideology as you, and as we all know it can take forever! Just don't give up, there is someone for everyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:16 AM
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I knew I liked my guy and wanted to be with him as soon as he said "if there are any problems, just talk to me and we can sort it out."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:04 AM
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The guy I'm seeing drove almost 2 hours to meet me on our first and second date. Now we drive in rotation. Yes the drive can feel like a chore but it is incredibly worthwhile to see him. I will always reiterate, if they want to see you they will. I'm glad you stuck to your guns and didn't change for low effort!✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:58 AM
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I'm 5'2-4, I can't remember 100% since it's been a while since I've measured myself 😂 Generally the men I have mostly dated long term were/ are around 5'7-6'. I personally don't think height is a huge issue although I do have my own preferences (that they're taller than me in heels), but it also really depends on their attitude towards their own height in general. I have been on dates where men have brought up their height and then proceeded to tell me how shallow women are, and their own prefer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 08:39 PM
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Nobody will ever really love a wolf in sheeps clothing. I don't really advocate picking someone just because they have money either. By marrying a guy for money you're basically a paid for sugar baby. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 04:27 PM
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I somewhat feel like you're not okay being by yourself. After the last relationship I had, I've been single for 2 years and only had about 3 sexual partners which in total probably lasted around 6 months. I found that I was on this spiral and everyone I met fed into the spiral I was on. I also found that I chose people who were 'good' enough but logically, they weren't in my league. I've decided to get back on the horse and try at dating again, and a month in I've found a guy who is incredibly n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 01:03 AM
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Definitely, I love a good gaming sesh but that's all it is- a game. We've all done the usual swearing but I've never directed hate towards someone else. I've had people pm with more abuse because what they had said previously was not enough. Recently an acquaintance of mine became very close friends with a group in America. They advocate and actively talk about violence against women. His attitude was not very pleasant in the first place, but now he's repulsive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:53 AM
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I really don't see why a sexual count matters. Unless you're a virgin who has recently been christened by the gates of heaven, you really have no right to get upset if the number is higher than 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:43 AM
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Black women are proven to experience the most difficultly when finding relationships. I wouldn't feel too dejected, just keep being your badass self!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:29 AM
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I have really bad sinuses so anyone who can't put up with that, I automatically assume they're okay with me taking dump in the crapper 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:27 AM
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I hate going on mic also, the abuse you can recieve is unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 12:22 AM
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He has probably distributed it to his friends etc as well. This is so sad to see, she needs to press charges such a massive privacy betrayal. She's letting him get away with it to do the same to someone else. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 12:40 PM
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Try CBT it will provide you with tips to help change your mindset. I started this about a month ago and can see some improvements! Edit: I do want to say that it's incredibly hard! Mostly, it is getting myself not to think as negatively as I have been, and to not be so hard on myself. It's more of the case of being able to identify my own ques and trying to stop it before it is happening. I still have episodes, hard. But I'd like to think they're not as intense as before..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 11:44 PM
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I'm not a man 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 11:16 PM
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