| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 558 | Pressure to take hormonal birth control | SEX STRATEGY | peasbwitu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:27 PM |
| 240 | I forget my audience | QUEEN SH*T | peasbwitu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Unsolicited dick pics. Using their tactics against them. | MALE DEPRAVITY | peasbwitu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | My man is great but selfish in bed | SCROTATION REPORT | peasbwitu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Papa is a giant scrote | SCROTATION REPORT | peasbwitu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:16 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Unsolicited dick pics. Using their tactics against them.I was just being silly in the moment. Using their tactics works really well. He was gone in 2. Minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | 🙄🙄 let’s idolize a couple that’s clearly miserable!!!That's how I see it. They were over each other romantically some time ago but they get along well enough and it keeps the money rolling in. I assume that of most celeb marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 36 | Is he your boyfriend or your man?Real men know what a real woman brings to the table and a Queens worth to his life is more than anything money can buy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 09:23 PM |
| 7 | I forget my audienceMine too. I only know 3 HVMs and he's one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 28 | I forget my audienceLiterally everyone online... you think writers on slate or daily beast who I follow on Twitter and they talk about stalkers... you think everyone has top security? You think AOC wasn't almost killed. This is the risk you run as a female with a voice. To think otherwise would be a mistake. Also I am older and a lawyer and not poor. If not me, who? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | I forget my audienceThanks mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 27 | I forget my audienceWell be careful bc apparently the term scrote in public causes mass shootings. Even though Dan Savage came up with it. Watch your words! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:42 PM |
| 20 | I forget my audienceAnd I am not trying to poke the bear but...ok, so you suggest I do what to avoid being shot? What's safe? What's dangerous? Using a term on Facebook might get me shot, is that what you are saying? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 08:37 PM |
| 49 | I forget my audienceDo you know how many female politicians and speakers get death threats? All of them. I am not trying to be a badass I am just saying I won't stop speaking up on any medium out of fear. https://www.wired.com/story/greta-thunberg-online-harassment/?utm_campaign=Hot%20News&utm_source=hs_email&utm_medium=email&utm_content=84640402&_hsenc=p2ANqtz-9k2o5PjJAym3BFG1fQwdzG4DpKaJAQkavaRZ9WXaenzKVgPgfbt5Ham04RqV8hurkF6r_i7tOBD8lUHyf0_ZaXPjSUPA&_hsmi=84640402 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 65 | I forget my audienceSo I should be afraid of what I say bc someone might shoot me? I mean...no. I won't be afraid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 07:18 PM |
| 74 | I forget my audienceI mean...I have been a lawyer over 20 years so... they can try but it usually doesn't go well for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:49 PM |
| 108 | I forget my audienceThe word scrote makes them so unhappy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:22 PM |
| 13 | I don’t really have words for this one.They also enjoy attention from men as women bc men never get that sort of attention. It's very fantasy based. Until it isn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:44 PM |
| 20 | Have you guys heard of The Body Language Guy on YouTube? He has a video about Gabby and her abuser that you guys should check out https://youtu.be/E9J0Oz47PAsI think that's the real fascination with the story, how could such a beautiful girl think she deserved that scrote? how well did he beat her down to think he was the good guy? Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlIt's literally the least they can do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:13 PM |
| 8 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlI did medical malpractice seeing women with this surgical mesh that ate through flesh or migrated. All these touted procedures that have had so many things go wrong for so many. But there's endless money in constant hormones or surgical placement... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 08:20 PM |
| 21 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlIf I use a sex toy, I put a condom on it...esp for anal. Easy clean up...why wouldn't women do that with an unknown penis that's been all over town and in his dirty undies. Ick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlI get that we don't want to give women the impression that all birth control is bad, there's plenty of situations women are in where they should be on it. However, I do think it's a poor message that taking hormones means raw dawgging and "cream pies." Unless you want a baby, pulling out should be ON TOP OF everything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlI would make men pull out, and cum in the condom outside of me. Away from me, in a corner. Ok, not that bad but seriously I have done internal orgasms with only my husband and a handful of times. Bc I don't want no babies and I've never been pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:42 PM |
| 6 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlI had such weird side effects on the pill, I became a zombie, had no interest in sex at all, no drive for life. For me, I always used condoms with men and tracked my cycle, plus I was from a time of HIV, etc. If I had less symptoms, I would have absolutely taken the pill when I was single or during college. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:39 PM |
| 9 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlMy sister had a terrible cycle and cramps and now takes a pill that makes her life easier. There's no issue with anyone taking what works for them and their lifestyle. It's just we aren't being given choices. I was pushed to take the pill and I was with a woman for years...why would I take the pill. Just in case, she said. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:36 PM |
| 9 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlI am in this "cool" group of girls on Facebook, and they deleted my post about this. Deleted it before it went live. Not a men's group. All women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:31 PM |
| 78 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlThat's the thing, so many things can make hormonal bc less effective.... allowing a man to cum inside you is much riskier in terms of pregnancy and disease. That should only be when you actively want pregnancy imho... no matter what bc you are on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 04:03 AM |
| 33 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlAll I want is for women to know all the details and risks and make informed choices. I am not saying hormonal bc is always bad either but it's def not a one size fits all and tracking and being connected to your cycle and using condoms or refraining from vaginal intercourse on most fertile days is not a foolish method. Both have risks... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 110 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlthe trouble and pain and risk women put themselves through for a barebacking is amazing to me. I can't imagine men would put something that looks like an IUD inside their balls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:16 PM |
| 152 | Pressure to take hormonal birth controlMore articles if others would like more info. They really aren't telling women all the long term implications. Look into the Essure cases, where doctors were shooting little coils into women's uteruses and missing the tubes. https://verilymag.com/2016/07/side-effects-of-the-pill-hormonal-contraceptives-birth-control-womens-health-fertility-awareness https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20180822-the-birth-control-pill-can-have-male-side-effects | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:14 PM |
| 18 | Why do so many women still want to get married?I was told we should continually vet even husbands using FDS lest we turn into bangmaids, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 09:50 PM |
| 63 | Why do so many women still want to get married?I am married 17 years and really happy. It doesn't work for everyone but it did for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 07:17 PM |
| 7 | Care to share examples of HV behaviour from the men in your life?My puppy broke her paw and my husband carries her down into the yard to go to the bathroom and then brings her water in a bowl while she's laying down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:26 PM |
| 16 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileRight? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 93 | TW: rape, murder. I just saw this on TikTok and had to share. This is one of the worst and most shocking things I ever heard in my life. So vileCould you imagine if this was said being about race or sexual orientation? But if it's a woman... we were just men's punching bags at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itThere's def a ph thing. Smokers are more acidic and people who eat crappy.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 03:26 PM |
| 37 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itI get itchy and feel gross with semen inside of me so I have always said no to that, except very occasionally with my husband. Birth control or not, no swimmers go near my eggs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:42 PM |
| 11 | Women choose to reduce their quality of life to let a man go raw and I‘m tired of itI have always felt odd because I literally have only had one man finish inside me (my husband) and I do that rarely. I always had men pull out, even with a condom. I felt like the real risk was the swimmers inside me. As the OG writer here says, all this BC stuff with hormones is to let men cum inside you. WHYYYYY? If you don't want a baby, don't let any sperm inside your vagina. That's been my policy always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 06:39 PM |
| 12 | Anyone else traumatised by their mothers having relationships with multiple men? I wish we could normalise dating without having to move in and blend families and all of that nonsense, especially if there are kids from a previous relationship.My mom has been married and divorced 3 times and now follows her man around like a puppy after like 15 years and he won't live with or marry her. I call her the ORIGINAL PICKME. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Eye-Openeningevery generation has garbage escape books, I was reading Flowers in the Attic and Anne Rice, it's no better. It's fun, trashy fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!Most of it is wanting to look good on a date...I want to be my best self... why would I then want to go sweat off all the work I put into looking cute? Plenty of time once you are in a relationship for exercise together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Britney Spears is a QUEEN who is STANDING UP for what's RIGHT!Hey you know my dad! Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:25 AM |
| 99 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Her dad seems like a wuss and both parents are dependent on her now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 03:47 PM |
| 76 | Say it louder for the people in the back!!Stealing this argument | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Dating a woman and ignoring the men who want me has been the best dating decision I’ve ever made.I have been with a man for 20 years but dated both before that. My guy was raised by women and I was raised by my dad so somehow, it works out...we are both like gay men. Or lesbians. Who knows?! But I definitely would date women if I became single again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 02:46 AM |
| -5 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureI wear makeup and I really enjoy makeup but for me, the art of it is to enhance what is already there. I am in my 40s so I find very heavy makeup makes me look much older. It tends to do the same to these women. I see these lovely girls with great natural everything pile on so much makeup. If you love makeup...I get it but the current looks with contour and crazy brows... that's for being on the Oscar's not heading to Target. Imho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Don’t change your last name for a manNo we use his but he doesn't know his dad so it's like a name for just us. Isn't really tied to a shit father just my good husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 11:22 PM |
| 5 | Don’t change your last name for a manThis is how I feel...I had the name of a family of men that I neither like or respect. At least with my husband, I chose to have him in my life and now we have 'our' name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Don’t change your last name for a manI struggled with this but I don't like my dad and I love my husband so I decided I would rather have his name. Since it's a man's last name either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 33 | The lie of "The Wall" is just male projection of loss of control over an entire population of women.I went to all girls camp every summer and we got along great and we were great at being on teams. So yes I agree with you... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 99 | The lie of "The Wall" is just male projection of loss of control over an entire population of women.90% of the world's issues are because the patriarchy has snuffed out the collective power and wisdom of the female. No woman in charge would decimate the land like a man would. Women are not perfect and we certainly need to learn to get along better with one another, but fundamentally, I believe women are better in government because we are more geared towards respecting life and the earth over greed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 47 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateExcellent points. The whole trusting our gut over the other person's comfort is the antithesis of how women are raised but we must be that way for our safety. A deer doesn't ponder the hunters intentions or worry she's hurting his feelings... she just runs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 8 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.I bring the 80s and 90s movie references. Gen x represent! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 16 | Yes ladies. It's OUR fault.Oh captain my captain. (Stands on kitchen chair) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 77 | Tiny quick vetting method: MEN AND CATSMy man loves cats and they love him. My 2 year old girl follows him around the house trying to play all damn day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 07:52 PM |
| 143 | There are a lot of different flairs this could've went under, but I settled on this one.That's how abusers confuse children, by teaching you in a way about things that feel good (physically and attention) but being the completely inappropriate human to teach you those things. Never beat yourself up for the normal human reactions you had to a very fucked up situation. That's how abusers keep you quiet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 9 | The myth of the "cock carousel": male projectionI don't envy them. My younger days of sex without love were mostly looking for validation that I was good enough. I wouldn't say I regret it bc live and learn but it's the sex equivalent of eating McDonald's all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 06:01 PM |
| 4 | I finally broke up with my boyfriend!This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 04:10 AM |
| 61 | Green flags for breakfastMy husband makes me coffee every morning and he doesn't even drink coffee so he's very proud to do it well. Makes me feel special. It's the little things that mean the most to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 38 | Unless he waxes his butthole, men are not allowed to complain about "impossible male beauty standards"I remember I would get stubble in 5 hours and I was dating a guy who would touch my leg and call me gross. But his back hair was fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 26 | Unless he waxes his butthole, men are not allowed to complain about "impossible male beauty standards"I thought I was the only one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:10 AM |
| 5 | THIS is why I’m so hard on my friends who say marriage is just a piece of paper. THIS. Nobody in this world will look out for us and our progeny, so WE must take out our own insurance policiesAny man that takes or wants to long term keep a job with lots of travel does so because he can use it as a cover. If you love your partner, you hate being away from home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 12:03 AM |
| 18 | THIS is why I’m so hard on my friends who say marriage is just a piece of paper. THIS. Nobody in this world will look out for us and our progeny, so WE must take out our own insurance policiesExactly it should mean happy life full of travel and concerts as I spin around the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:20 PM |
| 14 | THIS is why I’m so hard on my friends who say marriage is just a piece of paper. THIS. Nobody in this world will look out for us and our progeny, so WE must take out our own insurance policiesI haven't seen that but then again not having kids I don't notice. I notice the old spinster comments in life... so no one is safe from ridicule it seems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 87 | THIS is why I’m so hard on my friends who say marriage is just a piece of paper. THIS. Nobody in this world will look out for us and our progeny, so WE must take out our own insurance policiesI don't think we should shame it but we should definitely let women know the profound downsides of having 0 work history, education or a big time gap. If you happen to be in that position, we are here to help you out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 07:40 PM |
| 7 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?If you can get your hands on a bit of thc or thc cbd hybrid gummies and microdose 5mg... it takes the edge off enough to enjoy without leaving you feeling impaired and no hangover. It's my way to be a bit more social but still very in control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Pornsick husband using wife to recreate what he watches 🤮Mike Adriano | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:52 AM |
| 5 | The negative neurological consequences of BDSM, written by a psychiatristSo I am a kinky person but more about tease and denial and the mind fuck than fusing sex and violence. Point being, not all kinky people are about pain. Some act like an animal or the opposite sex or enjoy being tied down but like....nothing about major pain. I think "kinky" is a fairly big umbrella. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:20 AM |
| 44 | I’m on woke tiktok again and the comments section are full of women who all admit their man left/cheated when they got cancer or any illness.I had a severe illness and was in the hospital 2 months and my husband never missed a visit and took care of me for about a year after. I literally felt like a burden but he never let me feel that way. So good men are out there, I married one. I feel so lucky but I have to say I lived the FDS lifestyle 20 years ago and it worked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 31 | Put your energy into the type of love that rewards youI have relationship love but the family part is in the toilet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 10:36 PM |
| 10 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).I want a refund for all the makeup I put on and new tights and the blow out and bikini wax and the nails and time and prep wasted. Your half is 200.00 plus tax. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?Facials are to be the norm now... uggh. All that time to look nice and they want to ruin it with jizz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Why is Hair Pulling and Choking (aggression) in Sex the Assumed Norm w/o Consent?As a woman in my 40s, I try to imagine myself in the scenarios you younger women are subjected to and it terrifies me. Sex is now only some type of bdsm... there's very little connecting anymore from what I see. It makes me so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:47 PM |
| 10 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Please someone have a nice brother or cousin they can introduce her to? She shouldn't need the help but she needs a few dates with an actual good human to see what she's missing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Sexism in MedicineI did this test over a few days that tests all your hormone levels. The name escapes me. I will find it. I had very high of certain kind of testosterone and really high levels of cortisol. No progesterone and too much estrogen. I have underlying condition that's auto inflammatory and was contributing to the high cortisol and overall mess. I started using cbd for anxiety and other herbs that reduce cortisol, auto inflammatory diet and supplemental progesterone. After year and a half everything is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 11:33 PM |
| 49 | Sexism in MedicineMy weight went nuts cause of a hormone imbalance and I definitely wasn't doing anything different but was always puffy. Had to figure it out myself and then weight came off. No thanks to doctors | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:16 PM |
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