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There’s a lot to unpack here, but I’ll stick to the questions. The U.K. may have some better aspects, but maybe Canada would also be on the same level, and would probably be easier to get your cat across to? For the UK you’d have to ensure all vet stuff is up to date and get a vet passport, might even have to spend time in quarantine otherwise, which would be like a month in a shelter in essence, so would need to confirm if bringing your cat would be feasible. U.K. does have its own problems, it…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/26 05:54 PM
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So reporting to police is the best way forward, and the local DA support service will be best placed to provide you with information that is relevant to where you live. For instance, in the UK there’s something called a Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (also known as Claire’s Law) where people can request info about abusive partners is shared with the current partner (doesn’t even have to be requested by them, you just have to know some of their basic details like name etc., or the police the…
/r/ExRedPill08/06/26 02:48 PM
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Please speak to your local domestic abuse support service, they would be happy to offer advice and support you. You don’t need to have been in a committed relationship with him for it to be classed as domestic abuse. Stalking & harassment, psychological abuse; it’s all abuse. They’ll be able to help you safety plan and also accurately assess your risk. Coercive controlling people are often the most dangerous when they realise they have lost their grip on someone so please be careful.
/r/ExRedPill08/06/26 07:45 AM
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The ‘value’ thing is BS. People seeking partners find ‘value’ in companionship & emotional support; someone who will be there for them, who they can ‘do life’ with, have a laugh, have a cry, trust, share part of themselves with and have them share part of themselves back. Anyone can provide that if they are willing to do so, but it also requires some aspect of vulnerability, of courage and empathy. Only unhealthy relationships are transactional. The kind of ‘status’ women are more often attracte…
/r/ExRedPill29/05/26 11:20 AM
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Phone your local domestic abuse support service and ask them for their advice. They’ll be able to assess your risk and help you to safety plan. The narcissistic manipulative psycho/sociopath elements are highly likely to be emotional or psychological abuse: coercive control, gaslighting etc., and that kind of person can be really dangerous at the point of breakup. Clearly something in your relationship has made you question your safety in how to break up in a way that won’t come back to bite you…
/r/ExRedPill23/05/26 07:27 PM
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Equally those talking about survivorship bias could be impacted by reverse survivorship bias. Everyone approaches everything with their own internal biases, I think it’s important to recognise that
/r/ExRedPill21/05/26 10:40 AM
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Depends where you are. In UK there’s something called Andy’s Man Club that could be worth exploring, they’re all over the country and meet on a Monday evening at 7pm.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 04:07 PM
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Wholesome comics subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/WholesomeComics/s/NoBGcTdUGr
/r/ExRedPill11/02/26 07:22 AM
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People who talk in absolutes should be avoided at all costs. Human beings are extremely varied in their likes and dislikes, so people talking about how ‘all woman..’ are delusional. Yes confidence can be attractive, but shy guys are also finding partners and getting laid, so this logic is flawed. If you’re worried about this kinda thing, this might help reset your thinking
/r/ExRedPill10/02/26 12:08 PM
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The reason you feel like this is because you were in a psychologically abusive relationship. ‘Negging’ is emotional abuse, coercion and control elements are psychological abuse. You might want to look up local domestic use support services to help you process your experience and safety plan for if he does try to contact you again
/r/ExRedPill25/07/25 09:52 AM
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I’d say before dating learning to be you best self is a good start, so that you are working on the fact that you are a needy person and how to understand the harm this has in relationships and develop ways of creating more secure attachments - you can only change your response to behaviour, not the individual you are reacting to. Then, when you are ready to start dating, be yourself in terms of being authentic and sharing your interests, dreams etc, but avoid trauma-dumping all over this new per…
/r/ExRedPill03/06/25 05:04 PM
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Separate the negative self talk from you, giving it another name can help (e.g., Alan) then when those thoughts appear, you can dismiss them and replace with more positive affirmations (e.g., ‘fcuk off Alan, I’m awesome!’) repeat as required.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/25 03:30 PM
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Your best bet is to talk to your local domestic abuse support service, they will be able to assess your risk, offer you advice around your tech and home, and support you emotionally. This is their bread and butter so they really are the best people to speak to. To be clear, what you have described is emotional abuse, some elements of coercive control and lovebombing. This is known as post-separation abuse, and can ultimately be very dangerous, particularly when previous elements of control are n…
/r/ExRedPill29/11/24 02:53 PM
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