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| 45 | Question: When a woman messes up against a guy. What is an acceptable action of earning his trust back VS He's using her mistake to abuse her/resentment is growing. | DISCUSSION | peculiarbuttonz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Needing advice during divorce & starting over. Feeling like I've amounted to nothing. How do I start over? | STRATEGY | peculiarbuttonz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Friend is using LVM bf for one last free vacation before dumping him. I'm on the fence if this is HV or LV on her part. | DISCUSSION | peculiarbuttonz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:39 PM |
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| 2 | I don’t even know where to start.Let him die. 😌💅🏽 He's made his choice, chose is bed, now let him make it and sleep in it. Forever. I used to be like this woman with my ex. Nah. Don't give them a care in the world. Same energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:07 AM |
| 50 | Ugh, expect?When I was a teen my male "friends" would scare us girls with these types of videos. They'd go to sites like efukt(sp?) and show us horrible things.That vid was one and I believe might still be out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:01 PM |
| 113 | Ugh, expect?Yet they forget the video where a guy shoved a glass jar up the butt and it broke... INSIDE OF HIM MIGHT I ADD!! And this moron kept recording the video while he had to dig out the shards. So yes oh mighty Scrotes, we really do fuck eVeRyThiNg Edit: Typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:51 PM |
| 19 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyNo go on dudes who eat their boogers, like the smell of their sneeze (aka: the spit) on their clothes, and can ONLY (refuses to learn any other recipe) cook unseasoned chicken. My ex was absolutely disgusting. The guy I'm talking to now cooks and takes me out to eat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 07:14 PM |
| 10 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?I was in $5k debt because ex-LVH was a soldier who didn't read the fine print about doing a TDY move and the Army's reimbursement policies. Had to wait a year for a washer and dryer. He spent the reimbursement money ($3k) on a crap-tastic laptop. Later on, him and his LV-Dad tried to guilt trip me into signing for loans on a house ($280k) and car ($30k.) Didn't sign for anything and happily divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:22 PM |
| 34 | Some humourOr get mad when you dress sexy and cries that you're trying to attract other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 22 | When men mean when they “tease” you about being “boring” and not “adventurous” enough: car sexEx met a girl in a mall parking lot while she was on her 30 minute break (she worked in the mall) and had sex with her... In daylight. In a car he wrecked weeks later. If he asks for car sex. Run him over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 8 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!Just wanting to repeat what's always been said: THEY KNOW, SIS! Got out of a 4 year abusive marriage. You know what he'd always do? He'd pick, tease, and annoy me on purpose. He'd tell me constantly he knew how he was hurting me. Why would he do it? Because he wanted to see how far I'd jump for him. He'd always tell me he'd never hurt me. Lies. Said he'd never assault me. Another lie. Never trust a man-child that says he doesn't "know". He knows. It doesn't matter how little. He knows. He just d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 07:34 PM |
| 7 | Saw this literally just this morning in r/AskWomenOver30Can someone kindly Yeet me into a volcano at this point? Please and thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMWanted to add onto the military thing: A lot of women are openly shamed for leaving/divorcing their spouses. Because said spouses chose deployments (3-9+ months) WILLINGLY than spend time with their wives and 2+ kids. Which I've met wives working plus going to school while being a SINGLE mother. They also have a military hand book on how to be the "perfect" military spouse sold at the on post PX. No joke. I looked. If you are not perfect (AKA able to be used and manipulated or a benefit to the m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 3 | Men who have had “unclear” sexual situations are rapists.I know some states when dealing with domestic abuse they don't consider it rape if she said yes then changed her mind half way through. I had a situation with my ex where I had said yes then he held me down, said no and tried to push him off, and he continued on. My lawyer at the time said that since initially it was a "Yes" then they couldn't look at it as part of my DV case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 11:00 PM |
| 13 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"This is something I knew a friend did. All her friends wondered why she hadn't done worse to him. Her STBX-NVM basically pimped her out during their marriage because she couldn't find a job he thought was good enough, met women behind her back, cheated on her, lied to her family, made her the bad guy to his unit and family, and just neglected and abused her horribly. He told her she should leave so he could blame her and not feel responsible for it. So she ended up cheating on him once. She was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:58 PM |
| 10 | This POS thinks his argument over whether or not his GF should have to serve him is light hearted.The fact he says "she's at home all day" irks me. I love how they think we sit around all day doing absolutely nothing--something males do. Like we don't have hobbies outside of cooking and cleaning. eye roll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Widespread, traumatic gender-based violence is so much more common than we thinkAh yes. Sounds like my STBXH that I had arrested for assaulting me in February. And still to this day he's hurting and preying on women with children and low self worth. And his family is blaming everyone except him, paying for his lawyer fees and telling him he can just try again. Said every man in his family that have had 4 marriages and finally settled on an easy woman because the men were getting old and needed someone to take care of them. Dear Lord. We need to be the generation that raises… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:06 PM |
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