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flirt more, you got to be cool with some uncomfortable situations and go after the goal you want in the interaction with the girl. women are very emotional and if you can get her worked up sexually with your words making direct advances sparsely she’ll keep wanting more and even create the opportunities for you to do it. she needs to be more emotionally invested than you and for that to happen you gotta be a source of new adventures in her life, show her your blueprint in the way you speak, carr…
/r/seduction09/03/24 07:18 PM
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it’s a cool job, I love what I do but beware since you need to have high levels of concentration and be chill to handle drunk people and when you/coworkers are on the weeds and that’s something that might take a while to get good at specially when you’re learning other skills from the craft. Start as a barback before you get to be a bartender so you know the ins and outs of everything that makes service and the bar work.
/r/seduction02/03/24 02:53 AM
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you cannot escape talking to a lot of people that have different backgrounds. hot women, bankers, drug addicts, karens, elder people, etc… you name it. as a bartender I have to stop myself from being flirty every single minute, it’s pretty much ingrained in the way I talk now. I was much more reserved the first 4 years and at times struggled to look people in their eyes but since 2019 I have become much more talkative and outgoing.
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:07 PM
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I work on a high volume bar and it’s fairly easy to get girls to wait for you after your shift is done or simply get some cover from your coworkers for a few minutes while you run your game. If the girl is interested she’ll stay. But yeah if you wanna get every girl that shares eye contact and don’t filter much who you get involved with you should consider a low volume bar. It might get so boring to the point you don’t even wanna go after women and would rather be back home so it has it’s downsi…
/r/seduction01/03/24 03:04 PM
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If the girl tells you to go slow on that you should do it but put much more weight on your teasing and seduction skills. You need to step up a lot in order to make her want you to fuck her, not just letting you fuck.
/r/seduction01/03/24 02:57 PM
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keep it pushing and act like it’s no big deal maintaining your low voice tone. I swear most of the time if you act calm you can even let your hand rest where she started acting awkward and 30 seconds later she’s receptive of it. You just gotta be quick reading her body language and if she says stop twice back away and try again a few minutes later.
/r/seduction01/03/24 02:51 PM
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not even eye contact. she can be talking about some important stuff and the moment I lock eye contact and act serene she’s immediately on my hands.
/r/seduction01/03/24 02:49 PM
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You don’t understand women at all. Women don’t put guys in the friendzone, it’s guys themselves who put themselves in the friendzone by concealing their intentions pretending to be friends, and then they confess their feelings and the girl reminds them that they only see them as friends. She isn’t gonna fall for you, she is just gonna see you as a friend because that’s what you get her used to. couldn't be more true, friendzone only exists if you failed at applying pressure in a 1-on-1. I would …
/r/seduction21/02/24 01:18 PM
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go shoulder to shoulder and when you’re more comfortable get to grinding. trust me if you want the girl bad enough you’ll unlock a horny side you’ve never thought you had.
/r/seduction11/02/24 12:01 AM
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bartending is literally a cheat code for this, at a point you get natural at it and are in constant flirt mode. the only problem is that the environment is around lots of drunk people, drunk sex is not really all that great and something I'm into. meaning you gotta pre-select well who you get involved with.
/r/seduction10/02/24 11:09 PM
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I believe in correlation and causation. If you know enough about psychedelics you know yourself better than anyone to not treat high doses territory as child’s play. I keep myself always under 120ug. I don’t think I’ll gain much more from going above that, when it comes to risk of losing the magic vs having a good time I will always choose the later. But it’s good you mention that, some people need to do their due diligence well before diving into topics they don’t know.
/r/seduction04/08/23 02:54 PM
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Oh boy that was honestly the highlight of my first acid trip. I just didn’t spend much time on it because I was getting so many ideas for what i’d do next with the rest of my trip. Your facial features warping isn’t even the best part, you truly get to tap into yourself with a 1000x magnifying glass and give much more value and credits to who you’ve become. If anyone is spiritual and cares a lot about self reflection & introspection they need to experience that at least once in their lives, it m…
/r/seduction04/08/23 06:45 AM
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In short it’s playful physical touch with a intention but you just don’t come off too strong.
/r/seduction29/07/23 10:28 PM
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If you’re escalating with people that aren’t attracted to you in the first place you’re doing it wrong though. I’m sure you’ve hit it off with someone you know there’s some chemistry in the air… You don’t even have to actively go for it, your instinct and desire will be telling you to get physical with that person from the beginning.
/r/seduction28/07/23 01:31 AM
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I feel like everybody knows this. What most people fail at is playing the “innocent” card with physical touch. The thing most people overlook is that you need to do it a lot until you’re confident enough to just go for it independent of being rejected or not. It’s gonna feel awkward at first but after a few escalations both will be receptive to it.
/r/seduction28/07/23 01:27 AM
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preventing flakes is done by talking as if she already accepted going to the date + being very specific about the things you two will be doing.
/r/seduction24/07/23 01:12 AM
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running gags is the golden move for my witty game haha.
/r/seduction18/07/23 02:30 PM
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They will do that, stick around for a few minutes and dip out. When I offered girls drinks I had connections with the bar staff (from being my workplace and being on my off day or staff I knew in other bars/nightclubs) so I had nothing to lose. Most of the time you don’t need this to hook up, girls that are interested will make it easy for you to advance without asking for anything in return. I’ll usually joke with them about getting them a water shot and see if there’s any thread in there to st…
/r/seduction10/07/23 12:23 PM
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Attract specially those who fit your likes. Attracting people who are opposite south of what is your personality is a very hard task. Energy is better spent and with better success rate on girls who already fuck with you.
/r/seduction10/07/23 01:59 AM
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I don’t think the point is to say it word for word because everyone has a different rapport built with someone. we’re creative… flip the question to a dish you like and another she likes but you’re not so fond about (may now try based on her past comments about the dish) and maybe add some more context for why you’re asking it, make it seem like a cocky/funny question. there’s so many ways to go about it. if you copy other people’s game word for word you should know it’ll come as inauthentic.
/r/seduction27/06/23 06:21 PM
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people here seem to not even qualify their partners lol it’s probably a good idea if you wanna have sex once or twice and not progress from that and both go out on their paths. for solid long term relationships good luck not having any topics to talk about…
/r/seduction27/06/23 05:56 PM
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also use self destruct images while you’re at it, raises curiosity 10000%
/r/seduction27/06/23 05:46 PM
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It’s very likely that deep down you didn’t like that girl that much at first sight and it’s normal. I don’t go approaching every single girl as well. But you bet i’ll be having dozens of things to talk when I really like someone. Just because I shared eye contact with someone doesn’t mean i’m jumping at them the next second.
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:37 PM
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you need to talk about anything you noticed her doing or something in her, anything about the environment where you are present also works. nobody will be like you so you just gotta let things flow as if you weren’t interested in her until she gives you enough signals to be more bold in your approach. treat it as a dance where each other is making the other more comfortable. you won’t cause an impression on her until you go and do it. don’t overthink this, there’s probably 100s things that could…
/r/seduction30/05/23 08:34 PM
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I actually think the more attractive you make other people nervous to be next to you or talk to you.
/r/seduction23/05/23 08:21 AM
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If it works it’s what matters.
/r/seduction04/05/23 04:07 AM
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To me it seems like you just need to start putting in that “x minutes” every day working on yourself. Start today with 10min, next week 20min and keep increasing it as time goes. Do it at your own pace, you’re the one in control not the others or whatever they might think. Eventually down the road you’ll not even think about what time you put in that day, you just know you did something worthy for your own self and it becomes so second nature that not doing it will make you feel bad. This is key…
/r/seduction04/05/23 03:35 AM
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Can be true for texting but face to face you gonna tone down a bit and be more direct while have perfect timing with your talk. Too much secrecy can have her losing interest.
/r/seduction02/05/23 02:38 PM
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yeah it’s goofy with a clear intention. as long as you don’t fold to pressure and switch between goofy and serious purposely you have the upper hand on the interaction. good way to have her lost on her thoughts and resort to her emotions.
/r/seduction01/05/23 11:08 AM
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escalating physical touches.
/r/seduction17/10/22 12:47 PM
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if you can't talk with her about random things without forcing it and it never flows from topic to topic smoothly it's because there's not much chemistry between you two.
/r/seduction02/10/22 05:04 AM
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Being in that state with someone who you actually been seeing/talking is way different than some girl you just scrolled by on a social network, that’s what OP implied.
/r/seduction22/09/22 01:32 AM
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You don't really need words to spike her interest in you to the point she's willing to make out or have sex with you, it's just one of the many mechanisms. Get physical (kino/physical touch, etc) instead, way more straight to the point and gets your intentions across very clearly. Eye contact and intimate touches could resume a whole 500 word dialogue between two persons. Obviously she has to show signs of interest in you. And trust me, you'll instantly think about ways to make conversations sex…
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:04 PM
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taking those roles will also instantly make women/people generally see you in a different light because you’ll generally carry yourself with a noticeable poise.
/r/seduction15/09/22 01:35 AM
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yep, the less you hand out the better as she’ll want to experience what’s like hanging around you again and over again like a drug. in the talk phase with someone the time in-between the encounters can actually build more attraction on both ends. if she makes it easy to flirt it’s up to OP to turn the flirting up a notch every time and reveal his intentions.
/r/seduction07/09/22 03:04 PM
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you’re crazy if you think girls aren’t still chasing after others guys even on a relationship.
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:15 AM
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you’re underestimating how easy it is actually. there’s like 10-12 good signals you can be on the lookout for but only need 3 or 4 of them to have a clear answer. Just looking at you and smiling is the physical attraction check. You have to find something to talk about. Most of the times you come to realize some women actually don’t get approached in good cordial manners and are just catcalled out of the blue. Caught a girl looking at you? Assume interest immediately, leave the bad thoughts and …
/r/seduction07/09/22 06:11 AM
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Not sure I follow your line of thinking? No one (I fucking hope) is unable to read social cues and not know when they should backtrack or even attempt to go for physical touches with someone. Reading comments about sexual assault offence or being labeled as a creep in this sub shows to me that most people in here is just hitting on any girl for no apparent reason. Can you spot signs of interest and attraction given by a girl? If they are present you can escalate physically, otherwise you shouldn…
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:19 AM
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OP probably fucks in his car at the maximum height of arousal or really got top tier skills to make them comfortable enough at his/her home.
/r/seduction28/08/22 06:34 PM
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This is factual, providing there’s interest there’s a space for you in her agenda even if she’s having the most stressful week in her existence. Deep down even the most reserved people need someone to vent or someone to spend time with because it takes them away from the problems for a while.
/r/seduction27/08/22 07:25 PM
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From my understanding talking with other short guys it’s just a thing in online dating. In person those same girls even date or hookup with guys their height. It can be a pre selection obstacle but if you get to show your other qualities as a man they’ll not care about your height. I’m black, M, 6’0.5 and have experienced rejection from girls that like tall men and instead hooked up with 5’6 to 5’9 men. Physical attraction helps in short glances/interactions or one night stand situations but in …
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:41 PM
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I am black as well, I notice when i’m a persona non grata in the exchange due to racial profiling but I’d be disrespecting myself and what I stand for by not approaching people. I see everyone (and in this case girls) as equal until I have a conversation with them because two men can get two completely different versions out of the same girl. I don’t know if this might help you and if you trust yourself to do it but try asking them to come closer and talk instead. If it isn’t me being approached…
/r/seduction27/08/22 04:06 PM
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Perhaps you need to engage in conversation with people outside your field more often.
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:58 PM
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girls are sapiosexuals just like us but still nothing beats that natural attraction. as long as you don't spend much time talking and pro-actively try to flirt, touch and escalate after/while having these conversations I don't think it can go wrong.
/r/seduction26/08/22 05:55 PM
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Confidence is about knowing who you are. Are you sure you don’t identify yourself as someone that is tall? A one off situation shouldn’t leave you insecure about yourself like this.
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:31 AM
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As long as you keep being mysterious and a closed book vulnerability wise there’s no way to get rejected early it’s true but rejection can come in different forms and time. Interest must be present in some form otherwise it’s you wasting your precious time. The time constraint is likely not necessary, it takes short time to assess interest. A total 5 minutes of interaction at random moments is all I need to determine if I should show my true game or not. You can be flirting hard with the girl an…
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:46 PM
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Rejection is real, what you do with it is what defines being good at seduction or not. If the girl doesn’t like you there’s nothing you can do about it. You will spend energy for nothing.
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:35 PM
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Slapping a girl ass is more on dominance assertion than confidence which is already implied. At that point she already needs to see you as someone that will rearrange her guts for it to work in your favor, anyway almost everything you do will easily be forgiven and received with a laugh. OP’s example will likely only successfully slide well with a stranger at a party/nightclub after a few drinks and if she been eyeing you for a few minutes.
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:27 PM
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He can drop his interest in her. They come asking straight away why you no longer give validation and attention. This is where you truly can see her actions on the deepest vulnerable level. If she takes no action to be exclusive with OP it simply means she doesn’t see him as the top pick right now, I’d clean my mind and instead give my energy to girls that demonstrate more interest, in the same or following day, ASAP. No point in spending your time wondering the reasons as to why she doesn’t com…
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:13 PM
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Sounds like you need to see other girls. Tell her you don’t fuck with that and walk away. She’ll need to be blunt with you about seeing other guys if you want to be exclusive with her. You don’t want her just for sex? I mean just keep talking to other girls as well. Sometimes relationships don’t move past the casual hookup.
/r/seduction23/08/22 12:05 PM
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True, gotta have good timing in interactions and always come assertive and bold to let her know you're interested.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:49 AM
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Exactly it'll be seen in a good light because she already laughts at anything said but how you follow up is where you act. If I come off as too offensive for no reason I'll always procced to say "just kidding". Grab her, caress her and tell you're sorry, that's it. If she did something I didn't fuck with I won't hold back on the boldness.
/r/seduction23/08/22 05:41 AM
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Sounds like you need more physical interactions with women. Horny men or horny women will do anything, trust me.
/r/seduction22/08/22 06:25 AM
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they likely have the logistics part perfected and score when the attraction and sexual tension is at it’s peak. sometimes is more on luck than anything else. can’t tell you how many times I got cockblocked because her roommate was peaking at us and making it very uncomfortable or simply because she lives almost 20km from me and makes for terrible logistics preparation. In fact i’m pretty sure 70% of the girls I seriously flirt with don’t even live close to me, I chatted with some friends about t…
/r/seduction20/08/22 05:47 PM
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yeah she is definitely getting her back blown out by other dudes. Never blindly trust what people say and see their actions instead. As for your relationship with her it depends on what you’re chasing. If it’s just sex and having fun go for it but don’t expect to settle down with her, keep seeing other women too.
/r/seduction17/08/22 10:16 AM
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sounds like another “I’ll message you”. I’d rather pick one of the events i’m attending with friends/alone in the next few days and ask if she wants to go. This works well to find interests in common; gets her more comfortable because it isn’t seen as a date; if she doesn’t go at least you went anyway and had fun. Now if you asked her to come 3+ times and she didn’t show up that’ll be a clear sign she isn’t interested in you.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:26 PM
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Or she wasn’t interested in you to begin. People gotta learn to assess interest quickly. This is true for how you see her and how she sees you. I don’t need to talk with her for hours to know that, a 5 minute interaction is enough at times. How she responds and acts tells everything right away. It’s when you find a girl that ticks a few of the “is interested” boxes that you let your game out, don’t even think too much about having perfect game since she’ll facilitate your approaches.
/r/seduction15/08/22 11:04 PM
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That’s true, I don’t even need to say anything to a girl that wants me. You can literally say everything through eye contact and kino.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:48 PM
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All I do is be in shape and be comfortable with who I am. I don’t fake high energy.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:42 PM
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6ft and good looking is only a factor when you’re pre selected on dating apps or social media. go out there and have actual interactions with girls, often you’ll find that they don’t care about height. anyway, those girls need to be interested in you. don’t go after girls that only look at you as someone they just wanna be friends with.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:37 PM
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Gut feeling isn’t enough man you gotta see the actions.
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:34 PM
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if a girl is into you she’ll make it very easy for you to advance and make your moves. it’s easy and I look for 4 things: • ⁠she’s constantly talking to you and finds ways to get close to you. • ⁠eye contact all the time and won’t even bother to hide it. • ⁠her voice tone changes (calm and sweet like) when she starts talking to you or about you with other friends. • ⁠turns her back to you and wants you to hold her from behind. It’s a behaviour that means she feels safe around you. This one is 10…
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:20 PM
1

I got confidence by trusting in myself.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:43 PM
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Your last paragraph is right on the money but you need to be alert and assess if they’re interested in you or not. If you see patterns that tell you she likes you this is where you start talking laidback, slowly and be as seductive as you can. Don’t forget physical touches and eye contact, that’s the best way to demonstrate your intentions.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:40 PM
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If the shit test is too weird I always act indifferent like I just misheard what was said and switch topic ASAP. sometimes you don’t have to say nothing, facial expressions will tell all that needs to be said, don’t overcomplicate in giving a response.
/r/seduction14/08/22 06:33 PM
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Humans want things that are hard to acquire so yes, it is true.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:54 AM
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I don’t know this person but my cold read is that she doesn’t want to go on dates, she just wanna have fun. You need to be able to decipher early on what kind of girl she is. Most girls I mess with aren’t looking for long term partners and just want to fuck guys they keep around. Invite her to some event you were going anyways with your mates and ask if she wants to attend. Once you’re there give her little to medium attention and focus on guaranteeing you’re having a blast be it with her or wit…
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:49 AM
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Trust me it takes a long time for me to get horny to the point I want to ravage a girl. On the other hand extended seduction is my guilty pleasure. If both are on the same page when it comes to physical attraction and the sensual and flirty vibe is always growing it will result in amazing sex 10 out 10 times. When it’s too easy it’s never remarkable and I quite enjoy the thrill of the game.
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:40 AM
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500 might be way too high. If you’re investing time into those that you truly know are very interested in you it should happen sooner.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:17 AM
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It could mean she finds you attractive but generally it doesn’t mean much. If a girl is into you she’ll make it easy for you to know and make your approaches. She won’t hide it at all.
/r/seduction12/08/22 05:14 AM
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“I’m new around this place”
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:48 AM
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People always have a type. Rejection shouldn’t be a bad thing. I’d be more concerned if I knew someone fucked with literally everyone in existence. This would tell me that person just accepts everything that comes their way and does nothing to change their fate.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:45 AM
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I can understand that but this is why you need to trust yourself. I’m not even talking about confidence. Do you trust yourself? If you do then you automatically got confidence. We gotta stop trying to put others first, I love myself so there’s no way in hell I will feel bad about rejection. I move on immediately. Adopting this mentality right now will get you results. It doesn’t matter if you got options or not.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:36 AM
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your best answer is always indifference. I got plenty of options so the fact she has a dick appointment and felt like saying that to me is meaningless. I don’t own her in any way. Keep doing your thing like you always do and she’ll be on your knees when she wants her next dick appointment.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:25 AM
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it’s easy to navigate that dilemma once you understand that you need to judge actions, not words. going from words to action is a long journey one needs to take.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:18 AM
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be around girls, If you know one, you know 15 more.
/r/seduction11/08/22 09:13 AM
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On top of it add the ones who are interested but avoid connecting with you no matter what, it’s a sad realization then you find the one that wants you so bad but you’re busy chasing the girls who wouldn’t even spare 2 minutes of their lives for you
/r/seduction10/08/22 11:45 PM
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Careful because it’s actually the sex that progresses the relationship. I’d just see how it flows if both are single, no need to rush things. Just call it having fun…
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:21 PM
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you don’t need to fake being a player to get girls. just be yourself and act like how you are, the girls will come. If you don’t flirt and stand up to women in a way that they see you as someone to date/fuck you’ll just be friends with them. This applies to nice guys and players as well.
/r/seduction09/08/22 05:19 PM
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There's nothing wrong with talking to people. You gotta understand social cues. If you don't get from the interaction that you should leave someone alone 10-20 seconds in you need to work on that. If the girl is checking me out that's a big green light to go speak to her and see where it goes, i'll literally talk to her as if I knew her for years and leave a good first impression. If she didn't check me out i'll talk anyways, talking to people and hearing their stories is fun.
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:11 AM
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Am I supposed to leave and go to another spot ? yes, unless you know with big certainty that those girls you already mess with just want to fuck. With a girl who was starting to truly love me doing that killed our chances. Recently with another girl that was just looking for a fun time she didn't even care about me hitting on other girls - she invited me to her place on the same day and the day after. Just be upfront and honest with girls you have something going on, make it clear what are your …
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:00 AM
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I'm introverted and do held back most of the time, it's just my nature. If we're messing around and flirting back and forth that much it can occur that I smack her ass, it's just natural bonding... Either you have not yet reached that stage with her or you just don't feel like doing it. No need to worry about it, talk with her and clarify your views.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:09 AM
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I just behave like I always do which is being a funny person.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:02 AM
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Eye fucking is always the clue I look for. And to me it seems most people here aren’t properly giving their energy to people that reciprocate interest back or that seduction is predominantly what you say but it’s clear it doesn’t mean shit once both are into each other, which is where you want to deploy the guns up your sleeve. Even gibberish or grunts will sound like the best thing to come out of one’s mouth. I’ve seduced and got seduced many times simply by not communicating a single word.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:42 AM
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If she keeps smiling at you constantly; tells you to come over and talk (even about silly random things) or blows you kisses or winks this mean she wants you. They’ll chase you and test you in many ways but yes women also do approach men. You don’t have to do much to show interest, she’s already making things easy for you. Any non verbal expression, flirting joke or even physical touches will be accepted and get a laugh out of her.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:32 AM
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the more you do it the less anxious you get to do it. At some point you’ve been pre selected by a girl you’re messing with and this makes other girls automatically accept you’re cool, approachable and whatnot. You’ll will exude so much confidence that these approaches will be trivial to pull.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:19 AM
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I might be in the minority but I rarely if ever compliment girls. If I give one a compliment it’s always an indirect compliment based on her hobbies or the way they talk. Never on looks because I noticed it leaves many self conscious and on the fence when talking to you.
/r/seduction05/08/22 06:14 PM
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yea, keep improving yourself and talking to as many girls as possible. sooner or later results will show, this has been proved to be true many times before
/r/seduction05/08/22 04:55 PM
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keep at it, at a point your confidence will be at such heights that it’ll be start skewing to the other end. the goal is always to increase abundance - a 70% rejection out of 10 means you got just 3 girls wanting to kick it with you. Now pump these numbers to a 100 and it’s 30 girls interested meaning you have high chances to score. Trust me confidence going up and the pre selection bias will bring down rejection rate way down.
/r/seduction05/08/22 03:27 PM
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I’m like this as well, I enjoy the thrill of seeing her chase the fuck out of me. That rollercoaster of push and pull leaves her craving for that moment like a freak.
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:04 PM
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The solution: meet more women.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:36 PM
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Nah, you gotta be confident in yourself and just live your life lol Don’t approach them, make yourself approachable and reciprocate interest. If you go about meeting girls with the mindset of trying to conquer them you’re setting yourself up for a really bad time. It’s about gauging how interested they are in going further, the approach is always implied because we’re humans and we socialize.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:33 PM
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Build tension slowly and always leave her with the feeling of wanting more. It seems she already validated you based on that first paragraph so you absolutely need to begin with the physical touches, once again go slow and see if she mimics your actions. Read her body language, one thing that I notice with girls that are interested in me is that they’ll want to hug you constantly, always be near you, they’ll give their backs to you and that’s when you grab her in your arms - this will make her f…
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:26 PM
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I want to know from which study you got that statement… You just don’t assume someone does cocaine because they smoke cigs.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:08 PM
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If you got money just book a motel really. If she’s comfortable to bring you to her home that’s a good thing. It’s a safe place for her and that’ll certainly be a good factor in the sex being great.
/r/seduction30/07/22 03:04 PM
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It's the same with men that are into the hookup culture
/r/seduction26/07/22 11:01 AM
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It can definitely make you more attractive to a larger number of girls though. It’s a numbers game, the more candidates the higher your chances.
/r/seduction26/07/22 01:00 AM
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It will because you’ll be heaps more confident in how you carry yourself around others. Girls might be or not be moist over your gains but it’s the confidence they’re unconsciously looking at in the end of the day.
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:56 AM
3

Me and this girl at my workplace been flirting hard the last two weeks. From belly rubs to hugs, eye contact, kisses, caressing arms, ass pats… In the last three days we exchanged like 10 sentences at most and the sexual tension just keeps rising no matter what I say be it nerdy, rude, disrespectful or funny. If I recall correctly I only talked with her for long periods of time twice. It was around very introspective themes (parenthood and life goals). Go deep not wide when talking to women, tal…
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:18 PM
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Personally it’s because I tend to lust over people who don’t really like me like that. We naturally want things that are hard to get and out of reach to boost our ego. 8 out of 10 times I will start messing with a girl because she showed interest first, not the other way around. In fact that’s how I find sexual tension and chemistry that was always there but hidden, it’s quite interesting how it plays out.
/r/seduction23/07/22 01:52 PM
3

lol this is actually starting to trip me out. fucking deja vu
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:09 AM
1

performance anxiety for example can only be mitigated by doing the thing anyway. you’ll likely be sick in the stomach and fear the outcome but you need to bring yourself to do it. the more you do it the better you get at controlling anxiety. I remember getting anxious as hell and stuttering massively when I had to talk to cashiers at times that i’d opt in for self checkout machines whenever it was possible. You need to command your anxiety and think about it as a good thing to have, like it’s a …
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:33 PM
1

there’s no science to it. they’re just having fun and you should too. Shouldn’t really expect to make out with every girl you trade eye contact or dance with. If enough chemistry is present the body language will take care of the rest.
/r/seduction17/07/22 03:23 PM
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You can be intelligent enough to filter out most of his nonsense takes but don’t really think spending time hearing what he has to say to be beneficial. It’s mostly for entertainment purposes. It’s not like he is right, most of the time he isn’t but having game is not just about speaking the right things. Plenty of jackasses still get women while being condescending and total morons.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:09 AM
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he most likely hasn’t found someone that is willing to accept the time he needs to spend on his internet thing. and you don’t necessarily get to be complete by being in a relationship. plenty of people are happy to be single and mess around for as long as possible before committing. attraction and love can subside quicker than you imagine.
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:25 PM
1

Eye contact, constantly being in your vicinity, jokes about events or things that happened when both were present, she smiles at anything you say, she pokes you constantly, she does anything for you without second guessing.
/r/seduction12/07/22 12:15 PM
1

I get this with women and men. Sometimes it’s just that you don’t vibe with certain people. I’ve met many girls where I’m totally unfiltered, they’re much more open for random ass thoughts and conversations than other girls. Just gotta accept things for how they are and work on finding topics that you both are interested in.
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:33 AM
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what kinda approach is in play if HR needs to intervene? Its just two humans talking and getting to know each other. If one or the other are perturbed by it the social cues present will be enough to stop everything.
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:07 AM
1

*most women you’re wrong. I can get a response out of a women that no other person can.
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:40 AM
1

it sounds like a good time for me, tits are awesome and you get to have sex. if you don't want to just be fwb talk to her about it and part ways.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:05 PM
3

you gonna have OP write & follow a script word for word haha
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:03 PM
1

this coworker been complimenting my dyed hair recently and I just reply back with a thank you and try to spin the conversation elsewhere that further demonstrates I want her. She's also into me but I did not get lucky here, she's even more shy and reserved than I am. It's gonna take a while to see me as someone 100% trustable. I'd say shoot your shot, she might reciprocate. You win neither lose anything trying anyway. i'm male - black and went with bleached blonde btw
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:59 PM
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He doesn't want to commit to something serious, that's all. It'll be the best for you to talk with him about it or just get over it and go meet new people because you already know the outcome.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:32 PM
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with the amount of relationships that go to end on bad terms you might go easy as well. your time will come when you least expect it, having good chemistry with someone can happen 5 minutes into knowing them and it grows from there.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:25 PM
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it’s either the girl preferring to explain herself in person or she simply gets it a lot and is avoiding coming out as rude to her coworker. generally men can turn clingy and I guess that’s why girls would rather avoid contact over direct messages.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:19 PM
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I adopted the stance that I will not really care much about the girl until it’s reciprocated and you should too. If the girl is into you it will be clearly shown. Move on and don’t beat yourself over it. Flakes will still happen when the girl is the first to show interest. This is a matter of having many options and one or some of them taking that next step.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:13 PM
1

seems like OP is overanalysing things. If I say so myself my hookups have happened when I least expected them to happen. Rarely I was the one making things happen, just how I conducted myself allowed that. We shouldn’t really seek approval from anyone, if they like us great if they don’t we move to the next one.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:28 PM
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the environment is a factor but you can’t rely totally on the environment now to change things. It starts with the self. Do things that contribute for high self esteem, be bold and assertive. Work on the areas you know you’re lacking a little each day and you’ll be on that path to have confidence in yourself. Can’t blame external factors forever, actions needs to be taken.
/r/seduction26/06/22 06:15 PM
2

You won’t score always. Not everyone is going to be into you and vice-versa. What can happen is one of the other group members mess with someone from your group and the others will feel like missing out. This could result in members from both groups to attempt to make things happen. Often what I observe is that some groups would rather stay glued to the bar drinking with their hands in the pocket or have their arms crossed and miss out on all the action. I’ve been there in my first times going t…
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:09 PM
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you definitely should’ve tell her some nasty (in a seductive way) shit and escalate. If the girl is already into you she’ll make it extremely easy for you to advance independent of whatever you say. unless you weren’t interested in her you got to have fun, that’s the most important bit about clubbing.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:47 PM
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confidence can be built/rebuilt. You pick every month or every few weeks something about yourself that you know is lacking and work on improving it. But it begins with knowing who you are, no bs around it. You have to face it and be brutally honest with yourself. Gonna suck to do it but it's how you get out of that mental rut.
/r/seduction15/06/22 12:41 PM
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if you have confidence in yourself, understand who you are and your purposes you can be a sociable person. we’re all different and being sociable doesn’t mean you have to talk to 2 thousand people but the more people you interact with the better you get at it. You’re someone other people enjoy being around and someone who is always down to do things independent of the outcome. I’m a deep talk kind of person but goofy as hell. I try to mix both traits and there’s people I can vibe with strongly b…
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:49 AM
2

without his consent and people will think OP is a predator now. she even mentioned his name, i'd call out this and never talk to her again.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:11 PM
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if anything this is the red flag that should tell you to never approach her again.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:02 PM
1

there's nothing wrong with going deep instead of going wide. you will gain much more from being flirtatious in a timely manner. you most likely ain't going to bag her if you're flirting 24/7, push and pull is important.
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:46 AM
5

Switch your location to a South-Asia city, and you realize that Tinder is not all that bad... so you mean pay Tinder in order to do that?
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:54 PM
1

Get in shape and hella CBD. Just joking. You might have have a charismatic version of yourself that doesn’t come out due to fear of what others might think. The way you combat that is speaking to literally everyone and try to brighten every interaction you have with them. It will most likely suck the first times but trust me having positive thoughts at all times is the answer to be charismatic in every move you do.
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:24 AM
1

either jokingly or seriously ask them why they are nervous? if you're not able to find it yourself you ask them, that's how you find out.
/r/seduction03/06/22 03:42 PM
1

you mirror it. if she's not interested why should you? She isn't a client you're trying to keep in your business bro.
/r/seduction03/06/22 02:06 PM
1

I really don’t do nothing and get hella compliments on my looks and just try my shot from there with flirting. if she kisses you on the cheek it’s a wrap. Start touching her arms or face and go for the kiss.
/r/seduction29/05/22 08:00 AM
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as a black male seeing white girls say this is a major turn off. they often say this to me around other white men in a smug tone. I too have my preferences but saying “I only meds with x” is a strong statement. We all know ‘horny’ doesn’t choose complexion.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:33 AM
1

Improve yourself and go after other girls. You shouldn’t go after those who see you solely as a friend my guy.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:01 AM
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does it matter? if she likes you that much she won’t care at all how you word asking her out as she’ll desperately want to be with you.
/r/seduction11/05/22 07:49 AM
9

for a non native your grammar is nearly perfect, I see natives pulling way more grammatical errors. you’re fine.
/r/seduction10/05/22 04:02 PM
1

It sounds like a risky action to me. If she wants you like you want her it’ll be reciprocated and easy access will be yours 24/7. Always assume you have her, don’t play games.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:12 PM
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even if the girls don’t say it it’s unconsciously natural for them to feel safe with someone tall, if you add good physique you’re golden.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:06 PM
1

yeah, night game is crazy. I could’ve pulled her if I wasn’t working in the same space. but then again I ain’t stressing, it’s not in my interests to get along with someone who’s currently engaged.
/r/seduction06/05/22 08:02 PM
2

saw her instagram story with a guy that read “she accepted it 💍”
/r/seduction06/05/22 07:57 PM
6

had a random and engaged girl out of the blue saying she’d marry me. I flirted back detailing how our honeymoon would go and all that jazz, we were bonding strong and exchanged numbers and instagram. fast forward the day after she was giving the most bland and dry ass responses ever on text. I was done with it after 4 responses and left. There’s self respect to be kept, your energy will be better spent elsewhere fr.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:06 PM
1

If she constantly wants to be close to you, pokes you and you already have inside jokes going. You either go big or go home.
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:20 PM
1

yes it made me more confident in myself and that confidence can be easily seen by others. girls started approaching me much more in the past 6 months when I used to need to initiate convo before. Just last Saturday I was working at the nightclub and had a girl asking me to dance with her, the workplace is a little strict with hooking up with clients so I just got her IG and we'll see where it goes. I got to chit chat with her a few times during the night and at one point she deadass said she'd m…
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:04 PM
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As an introvert the girls approach me and I just be as laidback as possible. Communicate with body language, a simple eye stare can speak louder than words. But you need to get yourself out there, social anxiety can wear off the more you open yourself to someone. And note that girls don’t care about what you say but how you say it. Don’t stress yourself over saying the right thing and if you feel like you said the wrong thing play it off as a joke.
/r/seduction01/05/22 04:16 PM
1

I ask if she regularly uses Twitter before going into that zone lmfao
/r/seduction27/04/22 12:29 AM
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working at a nightclub/bars slowly been killing my social anxiety over the years. that coupled with getting in better physical shape, not gonna lie that the almost daily compliments push me to go harder and are massive confidence boosters.
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:58 PM
7

Beer properly cold is A1. That shit be going like water at times i’m not gonna lie. There’s great beer out there, don’t pick whatever cheap beer you find on the supermarket.
/r/seduction26/04/22 09:01 AM
2

I’ll always opt in to tell the truth as i’m an honest person but it’s up to you.
/r/seduction26/04/22 08:59 AM
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repeat with me “virgin drinks” that’s all. you can lead in two ways here as well: - asking for the virgin drink in the bartender’s ears so the girl doesn’t hear it asking for the virgin drink openly and also use it as a conversation starter, I’m sure the girl will be intrigued by you not drinking alcohol
/r/seduction26/04/22 06:48 AM
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if you need to go deep with conversations you’ll have to be good at timing when you’re gonna throw that flirty/sexual text, make it very obvious early on what you’re there for and test the waters being provocative. don’t text her like an interviewer, text to cause emotions on her. I’ll usually just straight up roast or make wild assumptions based on where the conversation goes that’s the best way to incite conversation, we all love to be person that is right in a discussion.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:46 PM
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Trust me you don’t need to do much other than eye contact. If the girl is interested in you it will speak for itself and one or the other will approach. Not valid just for clubs but everywhere you are. I’d rather enjoy the night and not force anything.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:01 AM
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