peepeeandpoopoosaur Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Narcissist is a good parent? That’s the spirit, poopy… you got this. Just keep focusing on them. That’s what I do. It’s what gets me through the nightmare with their mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 02:30 PM
2	Narcissist is a good parent? My Ex wife has BPD and is highly, highly narcissistic. She basically has made it my full time job to be in court. Takes me to court almost weekly and divorce has been going on for 2.5 years. She was a great mom. And can be “good” to my kids… but what is the definition of a good parent ? Is abusing their father ok for them? Causing duress to their father? Holding him back from working as much as he can to provide just to take him to court over and over? Will she start being abusive to the kids if…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 02:22 PM
2	Why don't fathers tell sons not to get married? I am very conflicted about this myself. I have a daughter and a son. Their mother is a nightmare and they both have expressed multiple times that they are happy that we aren’t together anymore. My daughter specifically has told me that she sees me happier now that her mom and I aren’t together, and has told me that she knows “mommy is bad for you Daddy because she is a hitter” (she witnessed her mother punch me in the face not long before the marriage ended) With all that being said, she still t…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 02:11 PM
2	My ex tried to set me up. What do I do. Dude…..	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/23 05:09 PM
6	Life after Coparenting with someone who weaponizes your children at every possible opportunity. I send the kids to her and their nails weren’t cut because when I saw the nails they looked fine, I get messages about how I failed to care for the children. Somehow she isn’t their parent all of the sudden? You see the nails need to be cut… so… cut them! Smh. I digress. Little does she realize that I am far more present with our kids, playful and fun. They never want to leave my place when it’s time to go to th…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/23 11:06 PM
1	Feeling alone Sorry dude. I get it. I lost some of my closest friends, and it was hard to accept. But then I realized that I was a body collector. These weren’t real friends. The real friends never disappeared or pulled back. The real ones leaned in. But I was so hurt by the people I thought were friends leaving that I disregarded the true friendships around me mistakenly. Once I stopped to look around, I realized I was at peace with who left the picture. Better now then when I really need them in a life or d…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 10:41 PM
2	She will never stop Yeah man. You can contact the airline and hotel and explain the situation. Tell them you are going through unexpected divorce and money is tight. Ask them to help you out with credit for the future and use it for yourself when you have the freedom and funds to do so. You don’t owe her anything. It’s time to worry about yourself. It’s not your job to protect her feelings anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/23 04:46 PM
2	She will never stop Dude. Walk away from this vacation. It’s a bad idea. I get it. You don’t want to miss out on a vacation, but it will set you backwards emotionally. Just don’t do it.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/23 08:12 PM
2	Anybody ever regret getting divorced because you never got as good sex again? I don’t regret it, but yes the sex was killer. Especially when we attempted reconciliation. Through therapy I discovered that because she has BPD and would put me through the loop of love bombing, devaluation, discard over and over, I was addicted to her. And the sex felt very much like a drug. I have since met someone else that I took my time before finally having sex with her, and I can tell you, she showed me that I am not broken, and only able to have great sex with someone I am addicted to.…	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/23 01:03 AM
1	Experienced wife going batshit crazy? This. Mine falsified and misrepresented my income, created a Contract and signed it that she was moving to Canada and giving me full custody, my dumbass didn’t submit it as a stipulation to the court and she was awarded support as if I earn 20k per month. I’m currently in arrears while working on modifying the orders as her support award is more money than I even earn. She is taking me to court for contempt because I haven’t been able to pay. She has BPD and manipulated the crap out of me. And t…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/07/23 01:46 AM