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Hahahaha
/r/seduction05/08/23 12:57 AM
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I think next time you see her, try and have a little more conversation with her if possible. It's okay that you see each other frequently. Be friendly but not sexual, or overly-flirty. Smile! Be comfortable. Be yourself. You don't have to make her laugh all the time or love you. Ask her a question or two. Try to move past just meaningless small-talk. Try and get her to say something interesting about herself. Then you can say "I'll see you later" and repeat next time. Try to remember things that…
/r/seduction24/11/16 06:22 PM
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You were right. I shouldn't have taken texting too seriously. Our witty banter continued for sure, so that part was real, but it became clear when we met in person that she wasn't crushing super hard. I also learned that it's a good idea to limit the amount of communication I have with someone before I decide I want to get more close emotionally.
/r/seduction11/02/16 08:09 PM
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Sorry what do you mean by "there's a lot of KJ on here though?"
/r/seduction10/02/16 11:04 PM
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So maybe over drinks on the first or second date, and definitely before we hook up. I feel like there might be a way to have sex, but in a way where we're both having a LOT of fun and not like "OMG I love you so much" sex.
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:59 PM
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So do you think the conversation should happen before or after hooking up? Maybe theres a way to hook up without making it seem like I'm in love. Then when we talk about it make it clear that i just wanna have fun
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:54 PM
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Good point. But you think before sex, huh. Seems like people are pretty split on whether it should be before or after. Maybe you mean before sex, but we can still hook up (everything but sex)? Or maybe we have sex but make sure that its clearly more fun than "I love you" sex. Then at a certain point make it clear that i just want it to be fun and stay fun.
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:53 PM
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I'm not sure if I agree. I don't want to scare her off as making it too concrete and serious. I think that whatever her answer might be, that question would scare her off.
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:52 PM
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Good call. Thanks. I'll see how it goes tonight and then let you guys know!
/r/seduction10/02/16 10:50 PM
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Thanks for these insights. So when you say "if you feel like things are getting too messy," do you mean after we've hooked up? I'm already pretty sure with this girl that I don't want anything other than sex.
/r/seduction10/02/16 04:07 AM
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Yeah that happens. Try already having a LITTLE smile on your face when she does look at you. It has to be a warm and welcoming, but also fun and kinda secret. Obviously don't stare at her too much, but I think it's okay to look at her enough to give her the chance of making eye contact, and when she does, your half-smile will catch her attention. Then when she does, smile a little wider.
/r/seduction02/04/15 02:05 PM
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Personally, I give a warm no-teeth smile. It almost like I'm playfully holding in what would have been an even bigger smile. Also I like what /u/enigma7ic said, about smiling with your eyes. That's totally it.
/r/seduction30/03/15 07:11 PM
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Yeah I don't think it's creepy at all unless you're giving a creeper's smile. Just smile playfully. Like you want her to know that you're genuinely enjoying this brief interaction with her.
/r/seduction30/03/15 06:13 PM
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I agree! It doesn't come naturally. It's becoming easier for me now because I'm consciously turning into a fun little practice.
/r/seduction30/03/15 06:12 PM
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I would say somewhere in the middle. Somewhere between charming and playful.
/r/seduction30/03/15 06:10 PM
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In my experience, you can look away once you've had the moment of smiling at her with her eyes in contact with yours. But when you do, don't jerk your head, and don't stop smiling until a few moments after. A great technique is after smiling at her, looking really happy that she looked at you. She'll think this is cute. Then you can go for another glance. 9 times out of 10, on this glance, she'll be the one looking at you first.
/r/seduction25/06/13 06:17 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hindsight_bias
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:46 PM
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Sigh, you're right. Thanks, edit made.
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:28 PM
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Cool job posting in this subreddit! You're really making it a better place to support others' ability to be confident.
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:24 PM
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Your TL;DR is not correct. TL;DR [FIXED] When you and a girl make eye contact, confidently smile instead of looking away, and she will much more likely be attracted to you.
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:25 PM
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I'm 25, so not in college anymore. I wish I knew this back then. I was confident sometimes (not as much as I am now I guess), but back then I thought that seeming slightly uninterested was a good way to get her to be interested in me. Now, I definitely know usually that's not true.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:26 PM
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Good call. Fake smiles are usually apparent. Although, it helps if you ACTUALLY like the girl. Then the smile is usually more genuine.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:25 PM
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Thanks for the input! Glad to know girls are interested in this topic too. I mean, actually yes, girls have been coming to me a little more lately. Lately I've been feeling more confident in general (not just trying to appear confident during an interaction with a girl). I find that i walk more upright, with my head up (rather than looking down to the ground), and I've been dressing a little nicer (not outside of my normal style, but just more confidently dressed). So maybe a girl can sense my c…
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:24 PM
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I think its more likely for a younger girl to see you as confident. Probably because you actually are confident (since you know she's younger).
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:21 PM
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You're right shmoppy. If you want a girl to notice you, and she hasn't yet. Just looking at her will often get her to look at you... and when she does, THEN you smile.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:20 PM
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Cool addition to the conversation. You're right, nothing new. But NO ONE does it. That's why its "simple but effective."
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:19 PM
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I agree. It's not cute or anything. When you break eye contact, its almost like they instantly forget about you.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:18 PM
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Staring without a smile looks either like you're confused, creepy, or bored.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:17 PM
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I'd be so excited if he made a throwaway user name just to talk elevator game. Either way, this is a perfect example of this technique working!
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:17 PM
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I agree. You're welcome to say "hi" if she sees you and then you smile.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:15 PM
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Depends on the context. If she's not walking away, you can say "hey."
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:14 PM
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I know. It's such a farce. (Not just an excuse to use the word "farce"). Acting uninterested will almost never work in the real world. EDIT: "Uninterested..."
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:14 PM
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Exactly! That's exactly right.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:12 PM
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You can gain confidence by knowing that it will work... then it does. Its a self-fulfilling prophecy! Just smile innocently and charmingly, and she will be charmed.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:12 PM
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Either way works! Girls are not creeped out by catching you looking at them, as long as you smile innocently and confidently. If you give them a sinister evil smile, then you'll come off creepy.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:11 PM
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Often I find that if you look at them first, they look back at you. Then you smile.
/r/seduction25/06/13 01:10 PM
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Yeah good job making the first step! But the key isnt just getting a girl to talk to you. You have to start an interesting conversation. Once you get past the introductions, try asking her interesting questions about her life/job/interests/passions
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:44 PM
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