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.....nice....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:40 AM
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there is likely a point where IQ becomes high enough that your worldview is just too different to most people, making it hard to socialize in a way that is appealing and disarming. what i find a tad surprising is that even high-IQ guys are still enslaved by their normative, biological urges for mating as much as any other type of dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:54 AM
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it will always be a fear of mine to try and avoid that is such a shame. and its also really tragic. i am so sorry you have to live that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:50 PM
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if they mostly happen at frat parties, it seems pretty obvious how to avoid getting raped. if you fear it that much, stop crying on the internet and just dont go to frat parties. like wtf. i dont get how people can feel so much fear about shit that can be avoided xD are you just hoping people will be like oh poor you, poor you for your possibility of being raped, on no, you sad thing, let me take care of you, let me keep you safe. HAHAHAHHAhahgah
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:11 AM
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its for using others to test their desirability. any chance they can get whether subtly or more directly just testing how attractive of a mate they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:51 AM
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i would rather date an incel lo0l
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:49 AM
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hmm. they are probably good looking which is also associated with social status very often for humans. or they are emotionally complex, which makes them unpredictable and exciting to be around for many. really confidence is kinda overrated...a more succinct way to put it i think is just not giving a fuck. something that 99% of the posters here are clearly not doing, and instead care very much. giving less fucks will have better results for you all around, like its just good medicine for the soul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:00 AM
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good puppy! pat pat
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 03:57 AM
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if a dude genuinely feels threatened or just repulsed that a lady wants to work..dont say it,.....dont say it....dont say it.................. ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ touchgrass ​ like forreal man and put down the bibles
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:18 AM
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yea, your confidence needs to come from social status. you cant just be confident if you have nothing to offer, like come on, did you think you had inherent value as a human being or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:08 AM
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lol that you used a bunch of famous people as an example????? is that you? famous people do basically everything for fame and social status..i guess famous people are still basically everyones idols. i thought people grow out of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:38 AM
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why would i actually give a shit? is the force of evolution gonna come strangle me for it when i hit menopause? ima die anyways so any threats have no power to scare me! P.S I am nihilistic. So don’t believe any life meaning other than biological reproduction. no you arent, you are psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 03:26 AM
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normie guys and gals are probs the ones that say stuff like that the most. they likely simply dont have much interest in the experience of autistics and other types of people who are too different to them. as can be evidenced in the comments where most of them are coming from people with direct experience with autism, whether they had it or their sexual oops i mean love interests had it. people tend to be attracted to people roughly similar to them. also what other people consider as shy might n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 04:03 AM
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each sex is trying to learn more about the other sex, so that they can learn their weaknesses and attempt to exploit them basically. particularly men though, since they arent quite as good at exploitation in the modern world at least and seem very upset about that. women still have the best weapon as it stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:10 AM
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maybe not being slaves to women and your hormones could be a decent incentive. maybe feeling like youre actually respectable person. but hahahahhahaa. i mean who am i talking to. dont worry, respect isnt all that anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 07:04 AM
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males are terrible at manipulating. at least most normie ones. whereas most normie females are at least proficient at it. but i have met some very narcy males, like a boss i once had. i was his favorite person ever :3 (not really) also, it may not be that males are terrible at manipulating, but that females have much more immunity against their attempts. i would say that some females who are in those kinds of vague abusive relations you mentioned, likely enjoy it to some degree and probably prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 03:55 AM
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that is likely because of shame. its way easier to not think about it accurately or come up with generic, abstract and non-committal answers. what many women find attractive is just a mans skill level of admiring her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:47 PM
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men dont need to be attractive to women. just useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:54 AM
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ok. sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:22 PM
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it's not about keeping a record..it's your whole entire vibe and personality which oozes with un-manliness. at least your front isn't working with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:09 PM
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what do you care about then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:59 PM
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so again, you're worried about being socially ostracized? very un-manly behavior btw, if you wondered about that fitting in with the "masculine ideal."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:56 PM
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maybe you're not that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:54 PM
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i was specifically addressing your claim about women openly stating they want THIS and THIS and THIS. that women are narcissistic is true. but men like you are too. you almost seem kind of jealous that you can't be as popular amongst women as women are amongst men. and from either sex, it is an ungodly sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:54 PM
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eww. why do people like you need their partners to be "super enthusiastic about fucking you." my guess is highly insecure, watches a lot of hentai, sensation seeker who can't ease into boring, un-fantastical reality. but again, you're probably so far deep into your narrative you aren't even capable of wanting a more "realistic" and like, wholesome relationship. which is good, because anyone that is looking for that and reads this can easily write you off for how undesirable and insane you are xd
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:39 PM
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so you don't even want to risk scaring away ugly bitches? how starved are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:36 PM
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that's probably a smaller minority of women....most are likely way too shy (or not confident enough) to overtly say shit like that and instead use subtler tactics. the ones you're using as an example just sound like narcissistic cunts. is that what you're attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:34 PM
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are pleasurable and important synonymous? The only men who arent like that are either offered sex regularly and its a byproduct of existence so they dont dwell on it, or theyre asexual. yes, most males are superficial, dangerous primates when left uncontrolled. they're perpetually hypnotized by lust. this is how females keep males motivated into building a functioning, and comfortable society....and then some. Its really weird when I see women on askredditafterdark telling me sex doesn't matter …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:46 AM
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so you work tirelessly on your intelligence, your "credentials," all to find any container that has a vagina and will notice you? ahahahhahaahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:10 AM
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so women control the world? hehehhehehee. why u so weak minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:40 AM
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i wanted to comment therefore i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:55 AM
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if you aren't stupid, you already know what answers you will get and who will answer them in which way. such a binary question for simpletons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:41 AM
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Most people who experienced teen love don't want to eradicate those memories from their heads and they don't have regret for them that's exactly what i did though. it was torture for me. now it has absolutely no emotional relevance to me though, and even then like...after that summer break and then i came back to school my heart did drop the first time i saw him. but like after a few weeks i didn't care much and felt very "moved on". the way i handled relations to the opposite sex changed a looo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:12 AM
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well, maybe you shouldn't be so keen on dating then if it attacks your self esteem so much. or is it true that men care about women and pussy more than even their own lives and emotions? history says absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:14 AM
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Current culture pushes women towards finding older men less attractive than ever. there's no way some desperate crinkly creep can look hotter than this or this or this. get over it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:26 PM
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It is intractable and the only reason they paired widely with men was because of coercion. have you ever considered that maybe women don't have a problem with using sex as a form of currency to get things they desire like resources and blah blah? because maybe that is more important to them, and is the end goal, rather than sex itself? or i dunno what you mean by pairing, maybe you also mean the long-term monogamy thing. whatever you want to call it, it actually has lots of benefits for women. s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:53 PM
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u r so funny. i'll never forget you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:47 PM
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That's good if true. Do you express your care into action? of course i do. the action of crying and weeping and also telling you about it. i think after you read that sentence, you'll definitely feel the effects of my actions. 183 cm plain looking 22 year old man with autism and no friends. have you ever had friends? you're still pretty young. though you do sound a lot more mature than many people your age so i can see there being some connection issues. I am a human. Beep Boop. 🤖 you don't need…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:25 AM
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but feelings!!! they're so important. i mean can't you feel mine? i care so much about other people. how do you NOT APPRECIATE THAT? who tf do you think you are? you're inhuman. maybe it's because you don't trust my words. but you absolutely have to. trust me. i really. really. really. deeply feel. for all those who suffer. do these words just mean nothing to you or something? do my feelings just not matter to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:50 AM
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and what if i am one? why would you remove comments before that was clear?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:33 PM
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insults? how dramatic. i'm just stating observable facts. but okay, have a nice day! btw, i created a new term in your honor. it's called "smart simp." with this sub-type, all logic must lead to what makes women happiest. or in your case, "primally lustful and not being coerced into sacrificing her erotic." charming! it's always the same with you males in the end huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 04:31 PM
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sure, can you tell me oh great one, what is truly beneficial for women? and how is this so much more impactful for women? i've noticed that so many males are the ones who never get over their first girlfriend/lover. i guess unless they find a female that stimulates similar feelings, but it's a lot harder to do after the first time. for either gender i suppose. but....women tend to get over people a lot faster. about attraction hmm....but they will almost certainly never be truly "attracted" to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:50 AM
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what are you talking about bro
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:34 AM
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i have no idea, that's painful to think about though. both of them were/are extremely toxic people. i'm sure there was some kind of emotional bond, but those aren't that rare. you'd have to define "love" because it can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:25 AM
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You almost always find more men at the extremes of things. yeah. women aren't extremist at all. they're simply wonderful. like flowers. they're definitely not the leaders of probably the majority of extremist political movements. also check out r/BPD. i bet you'll even fall in love there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:19 AM
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Excess comparison, including having been with bigger, better, etc. is likely worse for women than for men due to women's greater sexual selectivity and hypergamy. how is that automatically worse for women? maybe you could instead see it as social refinery. calibrating her bigger and better standards so she can aim for what she truly deserves!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:14 AM
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Surely not conditioning oneself to become a sociopath is in a man's interest. but women can be sociopaths all they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:12 AM
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his name should be WilliamOnlyWomenSufferD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:11 AM
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lololol i love chatGPT. it sounds very rational and even.....compassionate. it is missing the ability to perceive things as a human which seems to be a good things since humans are tainted by feelings of greed, jealousy, desires for power and influence etc. i think it's a reasonable answer..in theory. in reality, someone's past can help to explain how the person in present is. but really the present is all that matters so, if they have this elaborate past but in the present are someone you like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:56 PM
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yo chill. y u seething. please think of the boys!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:32 AM
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i see. so you only want to discuss with people who agree with most of your premises? i suppose that might be more....practical. for a practical guy, it makes sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:50 AM
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it's likely just a learned pattern, and also partially some kind of evolutionary instinct. to me it seems mostly like a trope, and since it's just a very popular notion that "males desire innocence and youth" men unconsciously weave programming into their value systems (and also reinforcing the emotional value, keeping it strong). or again, it really may be deeply rooted and primal, and yes, in that sense it is mostly just superficial. "men are visual," yanno. and they've been around for a few m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:47 AM
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One approach is a version of nihilism that says since there is some disagreement, let's just let everyone decide for themselves entirely. really? what version is that? last i checked, nihilism doesn't tell anyone to do, or to not do anything. it's not a blueprint for pragmatism. why do so many people on the internet like to insert the word nihilism into their conversations, debates, whatever they're doing, and just make up their own definitions for it? Morality or takes on human nature will have…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 04:51 AM
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and there we have it. williamwyattd's true nature revealed for all to see. don't worry, i always knew, but did you? i suggest you start taking your estrogen pills sooner than later so you can REALLY be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:57 PM
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another day, another post made by some mentally challenged animal obsessing over the lives of female vagina tubes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:54 PM
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lol....i think they have more pertinent issues than fucking mating. how are your minds so warped? this is what porn does, and beating out the emotions of males other than their lust and desire to give into more and more lust and that is it via social conditioning that you're so weak to. just. so. weak. i really wish i could have seen a better species in a better place somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:01 AM
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nah, they follow loosely predictable algorithms. you're just trying too hard to see what you want to see. or aren't seeing what you don't want to see. or maybe even...can't see. humans actually don't seem to be that intelligent despite popular consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:53 AM
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or are toxic men just really exciting? isn't that what everyone is all about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:15 PM
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wowwww women are such characters hehe hawhaw! also god damn dude you have got to be the most frustrated guy ever. go do something with yourself instead of writing narratives of these endlessly deep and complex creatures that are so impossible for you to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 05:03 PM
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I genuinely love women. I think they are great. that is a very bold and strong statement to make that warmly hugs an arbitrary group of people who at best don't give one fuck about you or your life, and at worst would happily use you as a sacrificial lamb in exchange for a shiny new designer purse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:53 PM
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because that is effort that they don't need to make. offering pussy to males who are eager to do absolutely anything to get it is easier than picking up a hammer, even if it feels so utterly demoralizing and devaluing to her inherent.....er value. but really they don't even need to go as far as actually giving pussy, lucky for them, just the open possibility of getting it is actually a much bigger motivator for males. i mean duh..that's how motivation works. there's a promise of something good i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:19 AM
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possibly you don't subscribe to that, or maybe you think you don't (to me it's clear that you do). but you may also underestimate their potentially monstrous natures as well. lots of males are like this. even ones who will say things like "i hate bitches" and get mad at females, one said to me in the same hour something like "women are good, it's males who ruin them!" and just a few weeks ago some tv program my mother was watching of a guy doing a podcast was saying how "woman is.....warmth. tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:39 PM
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But why they are specifically harder to please in bed, for men then have already voluntarily decided to sleep with, is complex and not fully understood. hmmmmmmm. maybe, possibly because giving pleasure is a form of power over someone. maybe...females won't allow themselves to be pleased, so they can keep dangling a carrot, so they can get benefits without their man ever thinking of slowing down? it can't be that though. it's gotta be something way more pure, way more innocent. warm like the sun…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:22 PM
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i wouldn't care really and i would likely not be that different. i'll just be inside of a different container. but given the choice, i think i'd slightly prefer the female container simply because it has monetary value. why choose the cheaper box? i guess many females will say "it's so hard being woman, becoz no 1 leave me alone!" but that's just bullshit. attention from others is easily avoidable. but if for some reason one does want attention, or, the magical ability to make males spend their …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:59 PM
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it seems that the oh so tactile, direct, and sensible female posters here have managed to confuse you tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:32 AM
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Some 50 year old dudes can, if you take the politics out of it, be more than sufficiently attractive to a 25 year old woman that all in all the relationship is fun for both. It isn't pure gold digging. LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. yeah dude. definitely. for someone who strictly writes from the woeful female perspective, have you ever considered getting a boob job?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:29 PM
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The bottom line is that men are easier to please when it comes to thesethings. For one, they have a higher libido and and lower attractionfloor. So even if their partner is not doing so well in her other roles,so long as she isn't actively aggravating him, has maintained evensemi-reasonable appearance, and is providing constant sex of areasonable quality, most men will decide this is better than beingsingle. oh yeah. things are definitely just that simple. especially the "isn't actively aggravat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 05:27 PM
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it's funny you think most women are rational enough to be able to plan and recall things like this. and if there are a few who can, yeah, they'll definitely let you in on the 411. why so much focus on words in communication? are there actually any males in this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:09 AM
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you want them to somehow become attracted to unsuccessful maladaptivemen, hunt them down, date them, force them to adapt, have sex with them,reproduce with them, care for their children, and somehow also controlthose men so thoroughly that the men change into completely differentpeople with different personalities, and adapt and become sociallyhealthy and sane and non-violent… um, somehow. you're completely misreading this guy. he's not an incel, he's the total opposite. he is more on your side …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:53 AM
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how goes it on the gay side? do you think it's less superficial and hierarchical?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:02 AM
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you know it's really quite funny to observe these intersexual conflicts..because when you think about it, each sex is at least partially "responsible" for the way that the opposite sex has evolved (and there may be one sex that is slightly more responsible if you can guess who!). how is it that you're so unhappy with one another? well, you could blame your ancestors, or you could just wake up and realize that you don't need to play this unbeatable game. or continue with the conflicts i guess, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:27 AM
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hahahah yeah i was like in 11th grade i think and i had a crush on this kid who was a grade below me. he was this very goofy and shameless boy and would come into my music class just being loud and obnoxious and i was exactly like that so i eventually got heart eyes. i think my friend planted a seed one day bc she's like DO YOU LIKE HIM and my face turned beet red and i was like no no no no i don't but then i was like oh shit i do. he was also ukrainian by coincidence (as am i, and maybe it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:48 AM
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Why am I to blame anymore than women? If you're talking about men as a whole. Okay then but I didn't make things the way they are. nonononono. i am talking to you. about you. as an individual special snowflake. Yes I do think it feels like a power/control, imbalance, unfairness. If someone cares more about another person enough to have to change their very nature in order to be considered attractive then that's an imbalance. One person cares more than the other. One person is putting another per…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:28 AM
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why are you denying what is very obvious UGH you people are so annoying. you obviously seem to think there is some kind of power/control imbalance or unfairness. well wonderful you're not blaming women directly. who then? my point is BLAME YOURSELF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:13 AM
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well, don't be so easy to please then? how is it someone else's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:59 AM
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i started to love my bf before i even knew what he looked like or his name. so i think that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:16 PM
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Is it to try and upset women as the vast majority aren't within this catergory? highly likely. they're very involved in their beliefs about young women and how amazing they are (even though outside of sex and naivety and more "fertility" BARF they're pretty normal people with flaws and all) and they would look very stupid being so obsessed with people who are very normal/average. so instead they like to talk and overhype 24/7 about how wonderful young women are and how hot and valuable they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 08:06 PM
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the level of stupidity is so deep that idek where to begin unraveling these deep trenches. since everyone survives, there can be no evolution no matter what aspect of live changes do we both live on the same planet? i really can't tell. women surpress their nature to serve and submit to men. they still wantto on a biological level, they are just brainwashed to take offense intheir own desire. lololol OK DUDE even if that were true, women are female humans who are rational creatures. "urges" and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:35 PM
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ok wow yeah....evolution is multifaceted and multidimensional. you are the one that made the affirmative claim "we does not change bc environomento!1" out sexual psychology can not change because we decide to behave differently. actually it can. that's literally how evolution works. things adapt and change, albeit you likely won't be around to see a monumental shift because this change is very gradual. the plastic part is tiny conpared to the static part and very superficial and only changes the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:25 PM
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our genes do not change with a changing environment. oh wow. that sounds very scientific. humans need gender roles to function psychologically. you cant control what your body is build to crave. psychology is plastic. you should read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:19 PM
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have you ever been in a human relationship? how's your relationship with your mother? father?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:06 PM
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okie. and calling grass green is colorist. what does it change?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:03 AM
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why are you so worried about how people make their money? it's just basic survival. males use hammers as tools, females (can) use their bodies. also those things can be applied to either gender, but this is just a general pattern. if you don't see the female body as something holy, you likely wouldn't really see a problem with it. people are adults and make their own decisions (obviously not factoring in things like child trafficking and forced prostitution). judging them, feeling sorry for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 05:15 PM
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but women have more feelings, didn't you know? their feelings matter, and they're very deep feelings at that. don't be a sexist bigot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 05:16 AM
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that's a lie. women are perverts too, but they likely aren't as horny as men still on average, and they can also control libido a lot better. but there's no inherent morality to relationships or immorality to sex. but historically...males tended to value sex so much they will even rape someone against their will quite often. so that...i think could be considered immoral. but maybe i'm the crazy one and i'm not understanding what benevolence really is. or maybe morality is not synonymous with ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 06:00 AM
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feminism was likely originally "female resistance" against male aggression/power and now it has evolved into female megalomania. since well...the environment has obviously allowed for it to flourish so why not take full advantage? let's see if males will evolve their social senses now or keep thinking that humans are the same as inanimate objects that can all be manipulated with their manly screwdrivers (in more ways than one).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 04:32 AM
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I have no idea how you can come up with this based on my comment. well..in that comment and your previous ones, you were elevating the males who "work for every penny" and "fought for their money" and put down males who "got their money handed to them" and are "weak feminine pussies." that's all. they basically sell their soul to the hollywood elite. because their jobis to perform the brainwashing and because they have such an influenceover common people, they are tighly controlled. if an actor …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 05:12 AM
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it means females want you to show in actions and words that you are attracted to them first, and this gives them the judging/selecting position. females invest quite a bit of energy in being attractive, interesting, entertaining to males (whether you notice it or not, and whether they want to admit it or not) and i guess maybe they want to keep their status of subtlety so they'd rather have you react to their indirect advances, directly. females sort of already have it in their minds that males …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:36 PM
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pitying isn't a very humble emotion indeed. sounds like that genius you're mentioning had some egotistical desires besides just being curious and wanting to discover stuff for the sake of discovery. but hey....i haven't really heard of many perfect people anyways. except maybe one. hehe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:40 PM
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hmm. history is very, very, very looooong. how did geniuses come into being? from millions of years of evolution, where sexual selection has been a driving force. now, i don't think females select males knowing that they would be geniuses, but, there is evidence that females value intelligence in their partners. even if they can't really comprehend why they are attracted to this, or what kinds of things intelligence can eventually help with, it seems this sort of instinct has been helpful in eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:15 PM
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i bet not. most of these people are searching for an idealized partner to be the glue in all their own foundational cracks. they probably aren't aware of it either and are disconnected from their flaws, which helps them justify their search for a perfect mate even though they themselves are likely imperfect. BUT, on an unconscious level, people do end up being attracted to people who are more like themselves than they realize i think. oftentimes partners end up being a mirror for the individual,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 05:51 PM
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do you think it's important to please people even if they are very hard to please? isn't pleasing females quite stressful for males? females do have their own stresses, but they typically would never willingly take on more stress just to please a male. they want to please males but they don't really want to make much of an effort in order to do so. luckily, nature works in their favor as they generally don't have to: they mostly need to just exist and be sexually available. but..it doesn't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 06:29 AM
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why do you find "hypergamy" to be a legitimate value judgement that should be respected and even carried out? and why is there no male equivalent? why do you trust females to be the primary "sexual selectors" or am i misunderstanding something? are males incapable of selecting "high value mates" or, are females simply higher value on average so males have nothing to complain or criticize about? and why is the propagation of the "biological imperative" important anyways? is there no alternative b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:40 AM
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are you implying that males are more valuable the more they abuse themselves? that's really something. which isn't exactly hard once you got the job and look the part i think there are many more ways to interpret this. it could be seen as a positive thing to be able to easily acquire resources in a brutal world where some people get nothing, and especially when someone values social approval and validation and popularity as a bonus that comes from being a rich famous person. also, you're devalui…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:27 AM
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i feel very deeply for my sisters of the past and i can feel her crying inside of me. about how thornas is doing unspeakable things to her, RIGHT NOW, i can hear it and the pain is debilitating me. i will never forgive you for this william.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 05:17 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:48 AM
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thanks for your worthless lesson on a worthless topic. because it runs opposite to out biological imperative encoded in out DNA you seem painfully brainwashed. but maybe you like this brain shampoo so it doesn't really matter what i say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:54 PM
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so an ability to take care of oneself even while in a relationship? or are you inventing definitions again? by the way, cry is free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:47 PM
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money is not agency because men dont value female money and arent looking for a provider ...... so it has no agency in dating oh.... agency is power over the other sex. ok....got it. i'm pretty sure that's not the official definition, and even just hypothetically..i think a rational person would think of someone that has "agency" as one that is able to take care of oneself. but ...shemantics samantics..who cares what words actually mean when we can just give them our own meanings! that aside, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:38 AM
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i'm pretty sure.....any living thing that has knowledge of its own decay and mortality....will have some kind of feelings about it. just because someone is born female doesn't mean they have the monopoly on suffering and fear. holy shit. beyond the male prowess is another helpless scared little child (in theory, since most people ignore or actively bury fear instead of processing it). whether that be towards aging or whatever other undeniable treachery about life/existence. it's interesting that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 05:28 AM
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your comment lacks your usual energy. i guess i hit a nerve. it's a sorry sight. but it's funny too. why do you invent elaborate hypothetical insecurities instead of just accepting my point? i don't care about your point, i made my own point. puny attempt at deflection though, but i'll let you have it since i don't know what will happen to you if i pop your inflated self bubble... :o run little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:14 PM
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your comment lacks your usual energy. i guess i hit a nerve. it's a sorry sight. but it's funny too. why do you invent elaborate hypothetical insecurities instead of just accepting my point? i don't care about your point, i made my own point. puny attempt at deflection though, but i'll let you have it since i don't know what will happen to you if i pop your inflated self bubble... :o run little girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:14 PM
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lol, Im definitely not afraid of men. why? most men are not violent and can easily verbally dominated. so can women not be verbally dominated? maybe the people you really fear are them.. i guess that physical fights can be gotten over quite quickly assuming they didn't alter your body too much, but mental and emotional wounds have a lasting symbolism to peoples' psychological state typically, especially the more weak-minded and emotionally unaware they are. men indeed are not as emotionally or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:00 AM
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likely yes. in meatspace you are often forced out of the analytical side of things and instead thrown into the sensory and physical surrounding you. usually people are very much influenced by their environments so they must adapt to them in order to "make the best of it." the environment containing many other people with other perspectives, but yet requiring more homogeneity so that all of those different perspectives don't cause a clash, and so people just keep adapting to others and being soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:00 PM
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what was i implying? sounds like paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:39 PM
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It’s just I’m capable of empathy and thinking about things outside of myself. .....definitely. Apparently you are not, which would prove what the reds say about women’s solipsism. lol..my lack of empathy has very little to do with "women's solipsism." i just prioritize rational thinking. but in fact i do have an empathic element too, and i think i have more than most people actually. it doesn't mean that i'll use it though. don't see any reason why it's necessary in this convo either. it is beco…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 08:38 PM
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i guess that's true. but i also see it as their own problem. are you sure you aren't actually motivated to problem-solve because of underlying empathy? maybe it's too overwhelming for you to operate on that primarily? or maybe you just value people, or value the benefits that people provide you with, and thus you prioritize meeting their needs in order to sustain your own benefits. or maybe something else. the options i listed seem tiring and unfulfilling. i hope that catering to illogical peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:24 AM
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I’m married with a child. ooo..k? what's that got to do with anything? you're doing well btw. you're doing the biological thing. keep it up. anyways are you implying that your entire paragraph wasn't about you? sorry, i just assumed when people write they are writing about their direct experience or at least mentioning that they are talking about certain people not themselves. i think my points still stand though, but they aren't directed at you then, they are directed at the males you describe …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:13 AM
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It's definitely not good for the average man to go unattached and sexless for most of his life. It is more than not good. It is very bad for him and society. This is just obvious. do you hear yourself? you seem to be implying that males cannot have any higher purpose other than their semen and playing their roles as society bots, building society, focusing on production and labor, and keeping themselves from becoming rapists and killers. or just useless and lazy, which will also cause societal c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:55 PM
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If the entire planet refuses you sexual intimacy, or you're in a relationship and your partner wont be intimate with you at all, its going to mess you up pretty bad. "the planet" you mean individual beings. people that have their own wants and desires. which btw, desires aren't usually something people just "choose" or will into existence, they typically arise unconsciously. like yours i'm sure. it's no one's duty to actually fulfill any of your desires or view them as reasonable. forcing yourse…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:44 PM
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all human interactions are transactions at a very basic level. if you find someone who exchanges similar types of currency to you, then things may just feel more natural and mutual. that is something positive in my opinion. but you won't always get that with everyone, and actually, probably almost no one at least in my case. but the more normal you are, the more common values you share with others, the more "naturally" you can make your transactions. even when true motives are seldom known. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:28 PM
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Not having it may sound nice until you think about what happens when you are in a situation in which you need that ability. why would you need that ability? In the same way you need pain to realize something is wrong with your own body you need empathy to know something is wrong in your social relationships. you can't just use logic for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:17 PM
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or are men underestimating bad qualities in women? or is it both? why can it only be one way? oh, probably because changing your perspective would really defeat you and your belief system and you can't fathom doing such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:05 PM
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they have some things that normies likely wish they had or were capable of. they are also lacking in things that prevent normies from interpreting the world their dark way. one stark difference i think is that normies value the commune, and their image above their own self-interpretation. dark triad people are more willing to be outliers and using that to their benefit instead of fearing the consequences of it (and often even priding themselves on said capability). they are also likely more awar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:55 PM
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paying attention to the science of mating can easily make me asexual aromantic asocial apeople antipeople and on and on. you have to absolutely ignore the science to actually enjoy it. ignore it for the life of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:54 AM
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well yeah it's vague...i'm not a magic 8 ball and i also don't have specific ideas or plans for a better "system" for a less populated version of humanity. "the system" is already vague enough as it is too. though that might just be me, i really haven't delved too hard into the social sciences or infrastructure stuff and my knowledge of history also isn't very developed. i'm sure there are some defining features of "how systems work" throughout history and up until the present moment but for me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:18 AM
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i see only positive outcomes when reducing the quantity of people that need to share resources. the systems would just need to be modified, and simplified even. too many options and things to consider creates way too many nuanced complications. i didn't read that post though. not sure i'm interested after you offered a glimpse still. but i do think it's funny that you are worrying about that lol. we need more people for more social services. wow. what if you don't or don't want to contribute to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:55 AM
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this world has literally 8 billion people. that's more than ever before, and humans have been around for many MANY MANY years. there are also more environmental issues than ever before, at least man-made ones. i.e. the oceans are literally overrun with trash, emmissions, etc. there are other societal issues like people breeding and not sticking together to raise their children (and forcing civillians to pay for their mistakes via government control), or if they do, they are awful parents and pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:08 PM
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you poor, poor thing. it must be so hard to exist when so many dangerous, unclear words and sentences are aimed right at your head. every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:33 PM
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exactly. i'm also only on reddit because i want to talk to you, right there. do you have capabilities other than fitting a tree into your ass or making very generalized assumptions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:31 PM
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also don't be mad at ME because i inherited female privilege, wtf? jealous much? ewwwwwwww. get that fixed. i personally never asked for any privileges or care about them. don't blame random people for random things silly goose. be the change you wanna see. can you prevent yourself from comforting a female in pain, crying like you're making me right now? you're so mean!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 07:08 AM
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it's just silly. it's okay. everyone is silly. it's really fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:58 AM
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right....i believe you...but still i'm picturing a scenario where you're like "I'M NOT FUCKIIIIIIINGGGGGGGGG MADDDDDDDDDDDDDD" whilst throwing your TV out of your window. y so defensive? and y so cognitive dissonance???? how????????
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:57 AM
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i'm amused that you found me that offensive, to the point where you're contemplating whether i'm bannable or not. wow. in your ideal world people get banned any time your feelings get hurt? ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. get that fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:11 AM
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are you that scared of words? you're certainly reading into them a lot. laugh sometimes. just seriously. you're being funny right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:01 AM
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WTF are you talking about? who is shaming? you really need to calm down. take it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:55 AM
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poor...poor you. being shamed by those nasty evil womenz. shhh shh. it'll be ok. you're beautiful and whole. like an egg yolk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:44 AM
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If it is....HAHAHAHAHAHHA. I mean, it's an interesting thing to be proud of. But as long as you feel great about yourself is all that matters lol. You gotta take the little wins too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:00 AM
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Depends what you mean. Also remember that everyone is different so it's possible you can find people outside of these general patterns, but there are general patterns that I've observed and could possibility be underlying motives even when the patterns aren't observable in these regards. For instance with "settling down." This is the point where females usually are just done with fooling around because they are bored or they feel that they are losing their most attractive features (their looks) …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:19 PM
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You clearly just don't get that women are not you. Even not all men are like you, but I'd guess most of them understand their sexual attraction and how it is object-focused. Those objects being found in abundance, everywhere at any time. Your sex drive is always triggered and ready to go at particular sights of particular objects. Women rarely have object-focused sexual attraction. They become attracted to the subject, the person which the narrative grows from and sticks to. Like yeah, women get…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:23 AM
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Maybe because.....they're lying. Holy fcking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:32 AM
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I see much more similarities myself as a woman Awesome. Off to a good start. The majority of the men I know are lovely, affable people who I can understand, Damn, really? Where are you finding these lovely guys? but it’s more likely than not that our few disagreements arise not fromtheir inherent masculinity, but what they think they need to do to beobservably masculine. Hmm...I guess that might be one way to put it. Lol. But keep in mind they might have a very different outlook to yours. Though…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:12 AM
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You're adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:50 AM
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And as you said, if men believe themselves to be the true logical,stable, and reasonable agents they claim to be within masculinity, whyis this the hill they always seem to be killed on? They don't really believe this :P It's just a front. Most people are insecure, despite the grandiose images they present to the public. Masculinity is sort of an idealization, a fantasy. It's not reasonable for anyone to strive to encompass it. And it's silly to feel that you are destined to try, just because yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:42 PM
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You are just reframing one phenomenon in a way which best fits your goal posts, and hoping others will see it that way too. You can't know anyone's intentions, let alone an entire clump of people. I dislike these manipulative "debate" tactics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 09:14 PM
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I do feel bad for males because of how nature sort of "curses" you with sort of impulses that are politicized and moralized by others, often negatively. However, I also do think males are humans, and that humans are at least capable of rational thought, whether they decide to use it or not. So this devout commitment males have to these biological desires, I can't help but find a bit trivial, particularly if they cause you misery. I do also think however, that male sex drive also serves as a mark…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:31 PM
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It’s crazy but geniuses exist on different level of reality. Theyexperience it on a deeper, richer level. Every waking moment. In a way I guess. They have more thoughts, more neural connections I suppose, more complex reward systems, etc. But in the end, they're not really all that different. Genius and brain structure/IQ may have some correlation, but really, conscientiousness may be more important than just that. An unwavering drive, or discipline to just keep acting and producing and discover…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 08:04 PM
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Going by statistics she would have died of a drug overdose or violent crime. I would have been in a similar position just with a different woman. I doubt I would be as happy as I am now. You've truly thought of it all. Lol. But that probably is a thought born out of an irrational feeling. I like to have that kind of irrational tought. I also like my most irrational thoughts oddly enough. Sometimes that annoys me. But those can be tempting huh. I am not. She is free to leave me and I will provide…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:04 PM
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It's like finding the need for oxygen to be sad. It just is. It can somewhat be that too. Why? Because of me and the relationship she gets to live the kind oflife that would have been impossible for her without me entering intoher life. If you believe that. Who knows what you two would be doing now if you never met each other. Still, she is making a choice, I doubt you're keeping her prisoner are you? So all is fair then. You're making your exchanges and that's that. However, it's more so that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:58 AM
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I do admire that you somewhat created your reality to fit the mold of your emotional desires and fantasies. I do however find it sad the lengths that you have to go to to be okay. I also somewhat feel bad for your partner. But in the end, you both are getting things from each other so it's not all bad. And maybe you guys are actually quite alike, or connect and complete each other in many ways. But just from this little snippet, your situation sounds very artificial. You must really not have muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:42 PM
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A simple creature then. But simple desires can still complicate life a lot, since obtaining your goals isn't always so easy or straight forward in reality. Still, it's good to have a focal point than none at all, maybe. They really do complicate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 07:23 PM
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Hmm, would you say that stems from inferiority issues? Or is it even more straight forward than that, where you are terrified of being alone so you try to be as calculated as possible, to ensure that it won't happen? Or I guess that's less straightforward rather than more actually. Or, it could be more straight forward, actually. You seem to have a goal, and you just try to build steps to try and get to that goal. Quite a logical approach to satiating illogical desires. You could have a million …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:20 AM
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Oh Gosh. I can tell this place will be fun for me. Such strong polarization immediately in the title. And the next sentence, and the next, and wow.... Why do you spend so much time theorizing about other people's motives? Be proactive about how you want your life to be and stop immersing yourself in constant paranoid thinking obsessing about your opposite sex. Worry more about your own motivations and whether or not you could do anything yourself to make your life better, or even better don't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:06 AM
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