It’s 100% a privilege if you’re able to vet carefully enough and only want no strings attached sex. Not many women want that though & men have to co sign it
How about: “what else do you enjoy doing besides kick boxing?” Or: “wow, I’m so impressed that you can do that…I’d love to know more about you…wanna go have a drink sometime?
Yes from what I see the forever single with lots of options or divorced & popular among the ladies “alpha” has a timeframe. It’s around 50-60 years old & by then they are unicorn hunting.
Strong attraction + respect, admiration, wanting to be in their presence a lot. I know I’m probably “in love” when I start having sex dreams about a man that result in actual orgasms.