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| 32 | Woman across work is clearly into me, I'm clueless as to how to approach. Advice?Go ask her if she wants to get coffee sometime | /r/seduction | 31/10/22 10:39 PM |
| 48 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?She's an outlier. Most women who don't respond well to texts certainly aren't gonna pick up the phone... | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 10:44 PM |
| 146 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?It doesn't take all women a long time to respond. It only takes women who are only moderately interested to respond. A woman who is actually interested in you will respond promptly. Stop replying to the ones that are just half assing it. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 02:25 PM |
| 17 | Don’t be intimidated by a hot girl’s impressive IG presence100% Generally they run their social like it's a business, which it is, just with a relatively unprofitable financial profile in the majority of cases. Because it's a business, she's marketing herself to you and everyone else. You're not actually dating her in most cases because the social media presence takes over her actual personality, which in many cases is rather non existent. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | How to keep a woman's attention/interest until the date (Tinder)?Meet soon after beginning contact. They say "time kills all deals" and this is true in dating too. If your guys drag it out, it becomes less likely to happen. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:11 PM |
| 10 | How to be “mysterious” the right way?Answer specific questions with general answers | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”Bruh this sub has always been that | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”No there are plenty of women who work hard. It's what I think of entitled women. Not all or even most women are entitled but some are. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 07:04 PM |
| 20 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”If you went through life and all you had to do to make things happen was agree with people trying to make things happen, you would have a pretty warped sense of what counts as effort too... | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 54 | Random sex textWomen do that. They act interested at first by default and then decide if they actually want to later. It's called "keeping options open" | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Is Android a turn off?If your Android phone turns women off then you had no chance in the first place | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:46 AM |
| 9 | My experience dating Instagram models: DO NOT BE FOOLEDIt's not so much the appeal but just the situation of what's on tinder at the moment | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 01:58 AM |
| 76 | Where can I meet girls with the “girl next door” vibe?Next door | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 8 | Stats on 40 Cold Approaches"just spam that shit" Doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results is the definition of insanity | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 02:24 PM |
| 45 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYou seem like you're approaching women because you have to. Like it was a task assigned by someone. You gotta connect. Are you actually interested in her? This matters. If you're not and you're just using some line she's gonna see through that and it will bomb. Treat her like a human, not a target. You shouldn't be able to tell us "I open with" and have a set line you used. It should be different, and something you think of in the moment, with each unique woman you talk to. Start by approaching … | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:29 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of the numbers rating system for attractiveness?Everyone's rating system is different. For example a lot of guys' rating system for women is 100% looks. Quite obviously women are more than just human bodies but some men don't see past that. Not saying this guy is like that but clearly you're prioritizing and valuing things he's not. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 06:09 AM |
| 57 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?Yeah but it worked for Aragorn... | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?Well I'm 6'2.5" so I don't think it is either. But a lotta guys do which is my point | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 08:31 AM |
| 3 | As a black woman how can I be more attractive to men in everyday settings?You're very attractive. That combined with being tall probably means some men might find you attractive and not say anything. If you like a man smile at him. If you really want to improve your chances, talk to the guy first. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Rock climbing is a shit way to meet women. It's mostly dudes doing it. There are women doing it now but still way more dudes. And most climbers are absolutely ripped. So you're there aren't enough guys to go around and the guys you're competing with are better looking than you. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | POV: Women are not biologically made for monogamous relationshipsOh so now you studied it and it's not just people you met. Well last time I checked 45% of 100 million is still a shitload of women and quite a bit different than "never". Seems like you're shit at studying if you think 65% can just be rounded to 100%. Hope it wasn't for anything important. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | POV: Women are not biologically made for monogamous relationships"I've never met a woman who's never been on birth control" There are like 2 billion women who might or might not be on birth control. I bet you just didn't check extensively enough. What, you ask like 20, tops? | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Been in the game for a while now and want to give backIf I pick up your new gf are you gonna feel proud or sad? | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 07:08 AM |
| 10 | Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset.Sir this is a Wendy's | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 02:54 PM |
| 0 | Why are romance novels are considered female pornOnly 1/3 of your name checks out | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 04:44 PM |
| 6 | Dating as a 5'7" male is brutalI have two good guy friends who are both 5'7". They're both married. I think that counts? Their wives are 5'4" and 5'3". Here I am over here 6'2" and single as fuck. It's not the height my guy. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 04:53 PM |
| -5 | Confidence is only sexy when it has something solid to back it up.If confidence doesn't have something to back it up it's arrogance not confidence. The difference between arrogance and confidence is simply this: confidence can be backed up. Arrogance cannot. That's why you can be "confident in" something but you can't be "arrogant in" something. Arrogance is just fake confidence. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:31 AM |
| 17 | What's the truth about height?As a tall dude with short friends, I can say it's only one of many factors. Being tall in no way guarantees success. Being short in no way guarantees failure. Not even close. | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 05:49 PM |
| 4 | How introverts flirt?I mean he's also posting in seduction which exists on the premise that life is a video game and if you mash the right buttons in the right order you'll be rewarded with sex. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 06:19 PM |
| 8 | The easiest way to tell who on here is legit and who is a poser.This is false. Women respond positively to a lot of things they are vocally negative about. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 04:22 PM |
| 11 | Was this girl into me?Because women who aren't into guys don't do what she did | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]"What i really need now is a process" No. The idea that these things progress via a process is the exact thing tripping you up. Women (and men) ultimately want someone who desires them on multiple levels. Someone who lusts after them physically, is interested in what they have to say, wonders why they do what they do, and is curious about who they are deep down. In order to seem interested in who someone is as a person and not just as a sexy body (sexy body though they may have) you have to actu… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with getting AMOG’d by sigma males?Wow based on your original post and reply to my comment i would have guessed like 16. My advice to you is get off reddit and get the pick up artist bullshit out of your head and start talking to women with zero expectations. Treat them like people, and just talk to them the way you would talk to a man. Your primary weakness is your complete lack of social skills. You simply don't understand how humans interact. But that's fixable. Talk to people, and make some male and female friends. You gotta … | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with getting AMOG’d by sigma males?The fact that you think name calling will get you anywhere indicates a level of immaturity that completely explains why you're still single. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:36 PM |
| 17 | How to deal with getting AMOG’d by sigma males?Lol this is like reading a fanfic of a fantasy novel you haven't heard of. So many made up terms and acronyms in a made up world. The fuck is a sigma male? | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:05 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]"Not trying to sound like a total incel here" Well, you do. Don't worry, 27 young as fuck. I had shit luck then vs now, 10 years later. The problem isn't women, the problem is 25 year old women. Just give them a couple years to come to their senses. When 30 start staring women down, they start treating men differently. She hits her peak at 25. You hit yours at 30 and its a plateau that goes until you're 50 or longer. The game is about to tip massively in your favor. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 04:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Any women who knows you thought any of this will run full speed in the other direction so be sure to pray it silently if you don't want to torpedo your chances. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 07:28 PM |
| 49 | What are traits that make a man sexually attractive to women?Being strong but not toxic. Understanding that strength is not all physical, and also not macho. For example being able to say "I'm sorry I was wrong" takes strength. But in general, being strong in all senses of the word is attractive. | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 03:02 PM |
| 10 | Already maximized your attractiveness and want to get into online dating? These are the apps you should be using and why.Not OP but even though they "have to make the first move" that first message is highly likely to be "hey" at which point they will contribute to the conversation exactly like people on tinder (i.e. not at all). Bumble is the same low-effort women from tinder, but with the added bonus of them being extra bitchy/entitled/man-hating "feminist". I have nothing against actual feminists. But there's a weird brand of feminism that wants all the perks of being a woman in a traditional society (aka "chiv… | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 01:59 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]No one with at least an average size penis uses the word "soyboy" unironically... | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 29 | Fashion is a big part of the seduction. So who do you follow for men fashion ?My brother. He's always looked pretty dapper so if in any doubt i just imagine what he would wear in that situation. Also as a general rule, there's a range of casual-dressy that's expected in any situation. If you aim for the high end of the range it goes better. For example if a dress code allows for somewhere between a nice t-shirt or a polo, go for the polo. A polo shirt is not "dressed up". It is not less comfortable than a t. It's suitable for almost everything a t would be good for, excep… | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | I fucked a 10/10 last night. Unbelievably hot. I used to post in /r/foreveralone. She's going to stay over this weekend and we're going to fuck again. Help me make her lust for me.This is a good life policy in general, even if you're not trying to seduce someone, and also in completely non-sexual contexts. Life is short. Be thankful for the good shit. | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 06:38 AM |
| 62 | I fucked a 10/10 last night. Unbelievably hot. I used to post in /r/foreveralone. She's going to stay over this weekend and we're going to fuck again. Help me make her lust for me.You're already too committed to her in your mind. You need to stop focusing on how to get her interested in you. It's a mental habit because it's the hurdle you've struggled with your whole life, but in this case you're way past that. She's into you. All you have to do is not fuck it up. You're most likely to fuck it up by being too emotionally invested in her too quickly. Tone it back a bit stud. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 5 | How much does genetics have an impact on your success with woman?Even gigaChad is actually a virgin | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 03:12 PM |
| 66 | Trying to win a woman over is a ultimately waste of time. If she has a high level of initial attraction, things will progress naturally and easilyExactly. Dating is the process of finding out if she likes you and if you like her, not the process of convincing someone to like you. Kinda goes against this subs very existence... but true. | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Locking in a high value manYou couldn't tell it was a joke from the first 8 words or so? | /r/seduction | 28/06/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | stop doing online dating.You trying to get us to leave so you can pick up the chicks we don't get? Maybe I am that top 10%. It's hard to know but in the last week I've been on 4 dates with 4 different women. All but one of them I fully expect to see again, since we're talking regularly (like every day) and/or we have already set up the next date. Sometimes it's a lot more meager than that. But the claim "dating apps don't work" isn't true for me at least recently... At least not for getting a date or two. And to be clea… | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Is It Normal For Some Women To Be Mean When You Approach?Bet | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 06:16 PM |
| 171 | I'm a 6 .. My new GF is a solid 9. Today in an argument she pointed out this as a fact. Is this a red flag?It's fine to be hot. It's fine to know it. It's not fine to bring up your hotness to put someone else down. As soon as your gf said that she became a 5 from a "total package* perspective. | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | If you’re a “nice guy”, I would strongly consider not getting married. Here’s why:Yeah but I'm older too. I didn't marry the women i was into in my 20s. Technically any woman i end up with is my "backup plan" too. This sub tends to be really shortsighted, both from the male and female perspective. Just find someone you like and who likes you. Don't over complicate it with some bullshit dick measuring status games. We all (hopefully) grow and change as we get older. If the person you end up with wouldn't have bothered with you when you were both younger well maybe she matured … | /r/seduction | 02/06/21 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Here are some places to meet womenI know what I read. Don't try to gaslight me my guy. | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Here are some places to meet womenSooo introduce douchbags to decent women you already somehow know in order to have the douchbag introduce you to slutty women you would never be interested in, and then form a stable relationship? Got it | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How to get nudes?Talk to people and be genuinely interested in them, and make the talk flirty. Occasionally when people are feeling really sexy and you're already sharing sexy words they'll share sexy pics. But that can't be the goal going in. If it happens it happens, but talking to people and being flirty and sexy is fun and has to be something you actually genuinely enjoy. Naked people are people first and naked second. Never forget that. Source: may or may not have exchanged some nudes here and there 😈 | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do I always wait for someone to text me first?Good god I love not being 23 anymore | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there any biological preference that women have towards men that is as depressing as men's biological preference to prefer youth and young is for women?The fact that a lot of men are invisible to women always? | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Why I don't date women who don't suck dick, and you shouldn't either.You could make this a lot simpler and better by just saying: Don't date a woman who won't blow you if you're eating her out. You don't go down, she shouldn't have to either. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 11 | Female online dating experienceThat last guy is 90% of women on dating apps. Overweight and boring but takes inaccurate pictures. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Just got a text from the cashier I gave my number to earlier... feeling great!Interesting. I'm 6'3" and 15 pounds is the minimum amount I have to gain or lose to see any difference in the mirror. Like I can gain or lose 12 pounds and you can't tell at all by looking at me. | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Just got a text from the cashier I gave my number to earlier... feeling great!How tall are you? | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Being an Alpha and Managing RespectTrue alphas are people who are strong enough that other people can't affect their feelings. True alphas use their strength to help others and build people up without being condescending. True alphas don't give a shit about what people think about them because they live according to a set of values. True alphas don't call themselves "alphas" or get their panties in a twist because somebody hurted their wittle bitty feewings. People who obsess about being "disrespected" are little bitches, not alp… | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 06:27 AM |
| 8 | My two cents on the cold approach as a womanThis right here. Also even if a consensus of women were to weigh in on whether they like cold approaches or not it still doesn't tell us anything about what works. For men, dating is essentially marketing. In marketing, you don't ask your customers how they want to be marketed to, you try different things and use the method that yields a positive conversion rate. Point is, many people will convert via marketing that they would tell you they dislike. So if women say they don't like cold approach,… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Last two girls vibe feels off after I try to get sexual. Feels like they start to retract afterwards.Obviously they think you're just after sex, which you are, and they want more than that. If you weren't such a horndog you'd have a chance. Or you could go after women who are just after a fling. | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | How is this, first time using “game”, I think I’m just using my ego more and acting more like a narcissist, any advice?What a tryhard | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I just walked around for six hours on my college campus to approach girls. Didn’t approach one.Don't worry about whether it will be successful. Just do it and expect nothing. A lot of the time the answer will be no but sometimes it will be yes. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 12 | The key to success with women is genuine indifference.You seem like a Grade A douchebag | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How can you use a nice physique to help you get more girls?Talk to them. Even if you're 6'3" and ripped, if you put in no effort at all women won't approach you. Source: am 6'3" and ripped and last got approached in 2011 when i was wearing a huge jacket that disguised how in shape I am because she liked my beard. | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Game For Nice Guys: Make Her Feel Sexy When You Actually Get "The Girl"Rules 1 and 2 are still: Be attractive Don't be unattractive You miss those and this list will get you slapped or arrested | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 02:01 PM |
| 2 | How to start a conversation on dating apps when you don't know anything about the other person?With the kind of people you describe? I don't. They're pretty guaranteed to be boring and not worth the effort... | /r/seduction | 20/05/18 06:26 PM |
| 22 | What is the best way to make a move on a coworker ?Ask the HR girl herself if there is an HR policy about banging a coworker. If she says there is, then drop it. If she says there isn't, look at her, say "oh, good", and raise one eyebrow. | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 05:52 AM |
| 2 | This is one thing that annoys me and it's advised on Seddit all of the time: behaviourneat | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | 5 Signs She Wants You to Approach Heror talk like a normal person instead of shouting at us... | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 06:53 PM |
| 27 | 5 Signs She Wants You to Approach HerThanks. Tried turning the volume down to 5% and it still felt like this dude was ear-raping me. | /r/seduction | 17/02/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | In the age of tinder + bumble, what's the point of hitting up bars and clubs?Yeah same. Dating app = extremely high percentage of attempts, but very low success rate. Non-dating app (in person) = very low percentage of attempts, but very high success rate. It's almost like we're deliberately doing what we know won't work. Playing the game on expert difficulty for no reason... | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 06:02 AM |
| 2 | In the age of tinder + bumble, what's the point of hitting up bars and clubs?Have you tested this theory much? Not saying I don't believe you, because it sounds about right. Just wondering what sort of real stats you have on it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 07:22 AM |
| 4 | 3 Conversation Mistakes That Women Can't StandI got all the way through: "AAAYAYYYYCOMOSTAS OWYADOIN" and then closed it because he's a dumbass | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 06:27 AM |
| 1 | First Date Tips For Men- How I Consistently Lead First Dates To Sexdude that wrote this either is full of shit or full of STDs | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?Hot girls have a lot of choices, so they can afford to be picky. If you're not top shelf, they'll just be with someone who is. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 10:00 PM |
| 3 | What clues do girls give at clubs that they want you to make a move on them?They jump your bones and sit on your dick | /r/seduction | 08/10/17 04:49 PM |
| -1 | Where to take girls if I don't have anything exciting going on?So... you concede that 90% of guys hate you but you think women will like you? Yeah this is going to go well... | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Techniques - What are the best techniques to get a girl back to your place for sex? For example, while on a date that's going well....what do you say....First of all there is no "formula". If you're looking for some system where you say XYZ and do whatever, and she'll go from "never going back to this guy's place" to "wow this guy is irresistible" you're setting yourself up for failure. Understand the woman's mindset and go with that. Women want sex just as much as men. But she might not want it with you, and if she does, she might not want to be seen as "easy". That's why most of the comments in this thread involve making it seem like it just s… | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | [29/F] The guy [30/m] I like brushed my arm with his hand as he passed me by at work to say hello. Do you think this means he's interested in being more than friends?It definitely means he's maybe interested in you possibly. Look him in the eyes next time and then look down at his mouth and then back to his eyes and report back so we can over-analyze the situation for you. Or don't. Dating at work can be a giant can of worms that's best left closed. Or do. I know some peeps for whom dating at work went super well and they're obviously perfect for each other and now they're getting married. | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some good first date spots that don't include drinks?Yeah but even if you drink coffee now, you know how to date on hard mode unless you suffered Jason Bourne level memory loss which is my point. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 02:36 AM |
| 7 | What are some good first date spots that don't include drinks?My point is that Mormons have got non drinking dates down to a science. | /r/seduction | 28/08/17 04:27 AM |
| 31 | What are some good first date spots that don't include drinks?You're in the wrong sub. Head over to r/exmormon or r/latterdaysaints. Those guys don't even drink coffee and somehow manage to breed like rabbits so they probably have some good no-alcohol date tips. | /r/seduction | 27/08/17 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Don't spend too much time on this sub. It can be counter productive.Dude this sub is a circle jerk. You're taking it waaaay too seriously | /r/seduction | 14/08/17 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"..."I just think it's silly to give the advice of "dont use tinder" in a thread ABOUT how to use tinder" False. This is called "lateral thinking" or "thinking outside the box" and is a mark of intelligence, actually. The fact that you expect someone to consistently produce predictable responses that neatly fit into what ever thought paradigm that applies to whatever conversation you're currently in implies that you probably tend to think in a pretty linear, one-dimensional sort of way, and probably… | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Escaping the "Friendzone"My point is the the phrase "the friendzone" implies that it is a place, and one that a person can be in. That is, it is something that happens to you, or a place where you can be trapped. It sets the situation up as passive from your perspective. In reality it's not like that. If you're interested in a girl, and she's not interested back, that's not "the friendzone". You aren't trapped in some limbo. And the question of "how to escape" isn't a real one. In reality, she's not attracted to you. It… | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Tinder girls that won't meet up by messaging "I wanna get to know you first"...Dude using Tinder to find a date is definitely hard mode. People on Tinder have a fuckton of options and you have serious competition + inability to really connect. Unless you're like 11/10 hot you're probably SOL. IRL you have much better odds | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 03:25 AM |
| 10 | Escaping the "Friendzone"Do not try and escape the friendzone. Only try to realize the truth. There is no friendzone. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 03:21 AM |
| 7 | Got the Soccer mom's number, hard parts over. Anything special I should do?Yeah fuck the shit out of her | /r/seduction | 01/07/17 02:43 AM |
| 3 | What hobbies attract the most girls?I'm not saying all or even most girls are generally into it. But the one I'm into is, which is all I need. I'm not trying to date everyone. I only need to find one person I'm into who's into me and we're golden. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 07:00 AM |
| 2 | What hobbies attract the most girls?Yep. I love tinkering with computers, and when the girl I'm currently dating found out I built the one I'm typing this on, she swooned pretty good. Basically what I'm saying is that I did it 100% for me, but if it's a thing you like and are good at, girls dig that. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 05:23 AM |
| 5 | What are good skills/hobbies/interests to have for a more attractive lifestyle?Exactly. The most attractive activities are ones you're passionate about and good at. Recently had a woman tell me she's super impressed about my computer-building skills. I built this thing 80% because I needed a new computer and building your own means you get a little more bang for buck, and 20% because I enjoy building things and wanted to learn how. Never in wildest dreams did I imagine something this nerdy would get the panties dropping, but here we are... | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 02:25 AM |
| 10 | Why you should never worry about going for the kissyeah think back to all the times in your life when you were deciding whether you should kiss the girl but didn't end up going for it now think of all the times that you went to kiss a girl and she rebuffed you if the second number is lower than the first, you should be trying for it more | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 03:19 AM |
| 19 | Why you should never worry about going for the kiss145% is pretty good odds... | /r/seduction | 13/03/17 03:17 AM |
| 1 | What are some things everyone should be doing everyday to become more attractive?aww yiss | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 06:40 AM |
| 3 | What are some things everyone should be doing everyday to become more attractive?Get out | /r/seduction | 21/02/17 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Want to ask a girl out, but you're don't know if she'll say yes? Here's the secret...So... like Schrodinger's loser? Both shitty and not shitty until observed? You're sort of weird dude... | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 05:34 AM |
| 8 | Will sleeping with prettier girls make you accustomed to it?as the saying goes "ain't no pussy like new pussy" | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 04:31 AM |
| 2 | How do I close dates?have you kissed her yet? You gotta walk before you run dude | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 08:01 AM |
| 7 | When you're making out with a girl and then she says 'I'm saving myself until marriage'...well that's not a very helpful answer | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 07:58 AM |
| 32 | 3 TIPS for Standing Out On Tinder (...and get actual dates)be hot | /r/seduction | 08/11/16 01:58 AM |
| 2 | My biggest fear is that I'll chat a girl up who appears to be alone and then her boyfriend comes back from the bathroom...no worst thing that can happen is the boyfriend is 6'8" and 450 pounds of muscle and has an anger problem and a chainsaw in his back pocket and goes apeshit on your ass. your "worst case scenario" skills need some work... | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 01:28 AM |
| 6 | My biggest fear is that I'll chat a girl up who appears to be alone and then her boyfriend comes back from the bathroom...Or you could lurk in the shadows watching her for 10 minutes to give any potential boyfriend time to return. Once the statute of limitations have expired, you can pounce. Sucks to be the boyfriend if he's actually taking a huge shit... | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 01:26 AM |
| 1 | What I have learned in 10 years of being in the game.i mean sometimes you move fast and sometimes you move slow. i've always heard that the more you like someone the slower you go but that's just me | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What I have learned in 10 years of being in the game.Yeah for sure. It's not like I'm broken down crying all week. More like "huh. that was unexpected..." | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | What I have learned in 10 years of being in the game.I mean obviously I liked her more than she liked me since I felt like contacting the next day and she didn't But yeah sometimes you never really know... | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 02:00 AM |
| 16 | What I have learned in 10 years of being in the game.number 8 all the way. Went on what I thought was a great date on Friday -- we had a ton in common, laughed, walked around after the beers (she acted like she really didn't want to go right back to her car), planned a second date. Texted the next day to say I really enjoyed it. Crickets. I think she got hit by a meteor. | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it pointless to go after a girl if there are no initial signs of attraction?If you don't ask, the answer is 100% no. | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Your social anxiety is killing your game. Here's how to make it go away [xpost from /r/socialskills]own it | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 05:18 AM |
| 14 | Any shorter dudes in the house? Looking to step up my game and could use all the advice I can get!"step up my game" heh. look at this dude with his puns in all seriousness though, I have no idea. I'm 6'3" and actually pretty shit with the ladies. way worse at it than a lot of shorter guys. i guess that just means height isn't everything. that is, i've got height, but no girls. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Go to your base line as soon as possible.you are full of shit | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 07:55 PM |
| 3 | How To Get A Girl To Stop Ignoring You - Text Game Simplifiedthat's his point | /r/seduction | 25/05/16 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Where to meet girls if you are a 9-5?Because if you're 75, toothless, and ugly as fuck you're not gonna pull down 21-year-old babes like you think you will. Also the penis thing. | /r/seduction | 20/05/16 04:24 AM |
| 1 | If you’re asking women for dating advice, you’re probably making a mistake. Here’s why.great | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 03:50 AM |
| 25 | 7 Tips for a Better Online Dating Profileprotip: headshots only = fat | /r/seduction | 07/05/16 01:19 AM |
| 8 | If you’re asking women for dating advice, you’re probably making a mistake. Here’s why.The article basically says "Women can't give you dating advice. Ask men. Read /r/seduction." Circle-jerkiest thing I've read all day. An article on /r/seduction that tells you to read /r/seduction, and has nothing actually useful. Ironic, since the whole point of the article was to not talk to women about dating advice because their advice won't be useful. I guess it takes useless to know useless... | /r/seduction | 06/05/16 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How To Get Into Any Night Club For Free - Basic Night Club Dynamics + Infield19:51 | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Why You Should Do NoFap"in my experience this is not a natural thing to do" well fuck your experience | /r/seduction | 26/04/16 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Advice on Dating App opening lines based on 2 years and 100+ datesDMHS | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 09:52 PM |
| 1 | 3 Natural, Playful Ways to EscalateSo... a normal self help book. Got it | /r/seduction | 25/03/16 04:28 AM |
| 10 | How To Know If She Wants You To Make A MoveRight!? "When should I make a move?" "When you want to". It either works or it doesn't | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 05:30 AM |
| 1 | How To Know If She Wants You To Make A MoveELITE INFORMATION THAT WE OTHERWISE WOULD NOT HAVE HAD | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 05:29 AM |
| 25 | 3 Natural, Playful Ways to EscalateOP is desperate. Desperate with women. Desperate with marketing his shit book. | /r/seduction | 24/03/16 05:21 AM |
| 7 | What things can guys in their 20s work on right now so that as they get older, they are put themselves in a favorable position to do well with women?As a side note, getting shredded has two benefits: The obvious. Good abs are good abs. Your confidence goes up. It could be argued that confidence/personality is actually more important than looks. The second reason is why I have a theory that looking good actually works better for guys who used to be fat or average who got into great shape, vs guys who are naturally in relatively good shape without working at it. The first group looks in the mirror, sees a newly ripped self and goes "Damn I'm g… | /r/seduction | 12/03/16 07:23 PM |
| -1 | If you're struggling in college, calm down and don't act like this is about as good as it gets for guys, it really isn't and the ceiling is much higher as an adult!Exactly. OP's BS sounds all well and good until you start asking everyone you know who's in a long-term, committed relationship/marriage where they met their significant other and they say "college". | /r/seduction | 07/03/16 04:19 AM |
| 20 | I asked out 100 women in real life and got 14 numbers and 4 dates. I asked out 100 women online and got 0 responses. Online dating is a fail.Honestly that's a lot more running than I'm willing to do. I prefer to furiously swipe right whilst on the shitter at work. That way even if nothing comes of it, at least I got paid and got rid of a turd in the process. | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Tinder and you: a brief guide to successI've had a few (no where near 70%) that immediately ask me to get on kik. Obviously they are fake profiles so I just unmatch without replying, but what's the deal with kik? Why does every fake profile have such a hardon for kik? | /r/seduction | 22/02/16 05:36 AM |
| 9 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!You have to have a part of your brain constantly devoted to searching for the humor in a situation, and it has to be fast enough to notice the potential humor, and restate the situation to emphasize the humor that is there already, that everyone (except you) didn't see. There's a reason witty is sometimes called "quick-witted". It's because you have to be quick. Best way to get fast at anything like that is just do it a lot. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 08:39 AM |
| 2 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.I felt like it was a combination of stuff that was either common sense or stuff that I wouldn't do anyway because I'm not a manipulative little bitch. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 01:55 AM |
| 4 | I finally did it. My very first cold approach ever, at the age of 34.agreed. most of the stuff here is shit. this guy's account of what he did is actually noteworthy | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 06:33 AM |
| -2 | Haven't seen this tip on here, so I'll share it with y'all: Take girls on dates in the rain"so she doesn't get wet" She's not getting wet from the rain, but she's getting wet... If you know what I mean... | /r/seduction | 16/02/16 01:39 AM |
| 4 | An idea of throwing a party that includes my friends inviting all of their Tinder matches, could it work?If they are typical Tinder matches, about 10-40% actually reply when you message them and about half of those turn into dates. | /r/seduction | 25/01/16 02:35 AM |
| 5 | "A Rant Against The Pickup Community - Must Watch For All PUAs" - What do you guys think? I think he has it all wrong.i got through "heeeeey this is leo" | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 11:55 PM |
| 1 | "Look, we're friends right?"Making min wage or are severely underpaid for your job? Go for it. Definitely not looking around, and maybe even take your work computer home voluntarily because even though you're in no danger of losing your job at all, you really love it and want to make sure you stay at the top of your game? Stay classy. | /r/seduction | 24/01/16 09:27 PM |
| 3 | What to say after being rejected?Like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQ35iLDWmBA | /r/seduction | 20/01/16 07:02 AM |
| 1 | I have no problem getting first dates. But clearly I'm doing something wrong on them.more time in a non-platonic situation is what i'm suggesting you basically need practice at that | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 08:29 AM |
| 0 | I have no problem getting first dates. But clearly I'm doing something wrong on them."Up until 6 months ago I was a 24-year old kissless virgin" "Ever since I began implementing the material on here" Apparently reading bullshit on the internet isn't a replacement for real-life experience. I'd say your biggest problem is that you're still fairly awkward. Solution: Get off reddit, and start interacting with real people more, both in a dating context and in a non-dating context. | /r/seduction | 18/01/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Calling a girl and leaving a voicemail?if she doesnt answer leave a text | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 05:26 AM |
| 5 | 12 Action Oriented Tips That Will Instantly Raise Your Social SkillsAlternate title: 12 Ways to Suck Up to People That Will Instantly Identify You As A Pathetic Little Bitch | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Let's talk kinoStop talking. Look at her mouth. Look at her eyes. If she wants it, you can probably tell at this point. | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk kinoIf handshakes were words they would say: This is now official. Congratulations on whatever accomplishment you just achieved. I agree with you. I acknowledge your existence. A hug (depending on the type of hug) says: I like you. I love you. I enjoy your company. Don't be sad. | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | This whole 5 min Ryan Gosling scene from Crazy Stupid Love (even if you don't look like him)There is very little in here that would be useful for the average guy here. Also true for this entire subreddit. I'd say "not passing" the "shit test" is a lot less of a torpedo than you think it is, especially if you just roll with it. Girls like a guy who isn't ashamed to be who he is, regardless of what some neckbeards on the internet think he should be. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 04:44 AM |
| 6 | Women Reacting To Direct Compliments [VIDEO]Would have been better if he hadn't used the word "compliment" in his compliments. For example: Hey, there... I like your ______. proceeds to shut the hell up | /r/seduction | 22/11/15 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Tinder alternatives?I've used both. Okcupid is about 100x harder. Probably because the douchbags aren't filtered out so you get lost in the shuffle. | /r/seduction | 15/11/15 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Logistics in texting/tinderdo you look like a truck? | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 04:32 AM |
| 15 | Guys older than myself, What are some things you wish you had known about women when you were 20?Red Pill is based on stereotypes. Stereotypes are usually based on facts. I'm not saying stereotypes are accurate. I'm saying there's at least a shred of truth to them. Ideas that are completely arbitrary and based on nothing die out. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What term do you use ? "hang out", "go out", "date" ..?my MO as well. i simply avoid all sentences that would require me to label the kind of activity that it is | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 06:09 AM |
| 2 | What term do you use ? "hang out", "go out", "date" ..?hang out is a term you could use with your guy friends. you don't want that kind of ambiguity. or maybe you do. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 06:09 AM |
| 6 | What term do you use ? "hang out", "go out", "date" ..?this guy fucks | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Daygame vs online datingI've been on like 50 dates from online, nothing serious yet. Haven't tried daygame, so probably not super informative there. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 10:16 AM |
| 1 | If I am average looking guy should I give up on bars and clubs ?In theory, yes. The science says otherwise. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2524568/Size-matters-online-dating-Short-men-taller-counterparts.html | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 06:08 AM |
| 3 | If I am average looking guy should I give up on bars and clubs ?I've heard online such as okcupid is actually a lot harder for any guys who's not like 6'4" and jacked... | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 08:23 AM |
| 6 | how do you guys bring up to topic of sex with women?also, while it's obviously not sex, making out is fun. sometimes you gotta take smaller steps and enjoy the journey | /r/seduction | 14/09/15 05:39 AM |
| 10 | Please tell us your kissing techniques!don't start there | /r/seduction | 08/09/15 04:25 PM |
| -5 | Just stepped out of my comfort zone for the first time and it felt amazing.FYI: It's "It's 'get past', not 'get passed'.", not "It's 'get past', not 'get passed'". You forgot a period. If you're going to be a pedantic asshole, at least be a correct pedantic asshole. | /r/seduction | 04/09/15 08:56 AM |
| 36 | How I picked up a 106'4" jacked, face like brad pitt | /r/seduction | 30/08/15 08:42 PM |
| 8 | What to do when a girl starts to criticize your appearance?The same thing you do when a 5-year-old tells you you're stupid. You brush it off because obviously they have no idea what they're talking about. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Just a reminder: your female "friends" can often be trying to cockblocking you.it could tell you where some of them are. fish are actually quite stupid and probably don't know where even a fraction of a percentage of the total fish in this world are not to mention there's a communication problem all of these issues exist when getting women advice from women (albeit on a lesser scale but the issue is still there) | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 04:45 AM |
| 1 | What is the [best date] to knock a girl off her feet?yep. date is simply an excuse to spend time with her. who you are spending the time with is far more important than the particulars of what you're spending it on. this is true for most other aspects of life as well, incidentally... | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 05:28 AM |
| 5 | What is the [best date] to knock a girl off her feet?and if you suck with the fists, adding a baton or bat of some kind usually makes up for your deficiency in skill | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 05:26 AM |
| 8 | What is the [best date] to knock a girl off her feet?"It felt really awkward and forced" yep. twister alright | /r/seduction | 05/08/15 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How could I take girls back to THEIR place instead of mine?don't suggest it for the first date. work your way up to it... | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you have any New Year's resolutions?the discipline of someone who is incredibly disciplined math checks out | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Are you MR INTERVIEW when you approach girls? - Transform your conversation in 5 minutesBe attractive. Don't be unattractive. Them's the rules despite what various and sundry "experts" will tell you. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 02:05 AM |
| 1 | When and What made you decide to get this area of your life handled?haha no prob dude | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 04:24 AM |
| 1 | When and What made you decide to get this area of your life handled?When I was your age, I'd been on 0. When you're 18, 30 feels like 200. But when you're 30, you realize girls your age are now women, and you're actually happy that when you were 18 you had no idea how to get what wanted because you really had no idea what you wanted either. At least that's how it was for me. Just keep at it. For me, practice was the only thing that provided any sort of confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 09:39 AM |
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