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Its the last book youll ever need to buy. I listen to the audio book version through at least 2-3 times a month. Almost have it memorized. Keeps me focused and is a great running/lifting companion.
/r/seduction20/11/20 08:54 PM
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Read "Cant Hurt Me" by David Goggins. The point of it is to get used to discomfort and turn that feeling into one that drives you rather than scares you into inaction.
/r/seduction20/11/20 02:57 PM
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Also, call it a tin-foil hat theory. But a lot of times I feel like people forget that Bumble, Tinder, Hinge etc. are in the interest of making money as they are businesses. Whether that's through advertising revenue based on user engagement or monthly subscriptions... ​ The last thing they want is for you to USE their app LESS. ​ I've had slightly more success compared to OP but its still not good. I wouldn't be surprised to find they have some shady algorithm process to keep you from actually …
/r/seduction10/04/19 04:20 PM
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Try going for an immediate ask for a date something like: ​ First line: "Jane! What are you up to Thursday night?" "Nothing so far" "Great we should meet for drinks" It's worked for me relatively well. If they say theyre busy use your judgement to decide if you want to offer an alternative night. If not just move on if they dont respond or say no twice. If that doesnt work and you really feel like its a waste of time then yeah delete it. ​ Or maybe Hinge? Have you tried that? Its become arguably…
/r/seduction02/04/19 06:50 AM
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lol.
/r/seduction28/06/17 11:51 PM
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Ignore him a bit or be a little less enthusiastic when texting him but act like everything is fine. I know it sounds petty but there could be many reasons and you may be going too easy on him. Maybe I'm just fucked in the head but sometimes, for me personally, when a girl starts showing me a needy side or an over affectionate side I get turned off for one of two reasons I feel like shes giving me an expectation that I may not be able to live up to and that makes me anxious to be around her (my o…
/r/seduction05/06/17 10:50 PM
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I almost feel guilty about how frustrated I get with fat chicks on tinder. I think it's the deception factor because the only thing they're looking for by trying to hide it is validation for their unhealthy lifestyle and every "match" they get is saying "don't worry Beth, you're still attractive keep doing what your doing". I firmly believe (and this is for men too) that you should be on the same level, at least physically to the person you're going to date, because anything else is just unhealt…
/r/seduction29/03/17 04:59 PM
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What about first date ideas? I highly doubt a woman I just met would be responsive to "hey let's go out into the woods and light a campfire, just the two of us..."
/r/seduction26/12/16 12:37 AM
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Really? Hmm I've not experienced it in the US but maybe that's just me. If what you're saying about the U.K. is true though I'm a little worried because that's where I'll be next week. Maybe US girls are more receptive because of your "exotic" accent? They probably find that to be a huge turn on
/r/seduction23/12/16 06:30 PM
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A cynical bastard aren't you?
/r/seduction03/12/16 08:29 PM
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is...uh...is this typical?
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:56 AM
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/r/howtonotgiveafuck
/r/seduction09/10/16 03:05 AM
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This is true never thought about it that way but I doubt she'd pick up on it
/r/seduction17/08/16 03:37 AM
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I was going to say...If I was a comedian maybe I could come up with some shit like that. EDIT: Also, tv famous..
/r/seduction16/08/16 01:18 PM
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I was thinking the same thing to be honest, I just needed to hear it from someone else. Thanks. I had a really bad problem with one-itis (paired with anxiety) in high school and I'm glad I caught it at the right time. The last few years if I've been making a habit of talking to a few girls at a time (I'm mostly tinder/bumbling, and I've improved a lot thanks to this community!), but I'm trying to work on my skills on random encounters, loud rooms and randomly approaching women, its a slow crawl …
/r/seduction16/08/16 01:16 PM
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kinda similar to how I lost my virginity. I was making out with her and didn't know how to take things to the next level. I just went for it and said "Wanna fuck?". Thinking back on it today makes me cringe a bit.
/r/seduction09/11/15 12:55 AM
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Ex Machina was a pretty good movie. I enjoyed it.
/r/seduction06/07/15 06:41 AM
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I have depression and anxiety (although I'm not sure if the depression is a result of the anxiety). I see a therapist occasionally and I also take klonopin occasionally but I haven't had a major breakthrough as you've had. Would you say that the Lexapro may be the difference in that case? Also is cognitive behavior therapy generally covered by insurance?
/r/seduction17/05/15 03:13 AM
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No not on, in.
/r/seduction04/05/15 09:19 PM
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I have this same problem.. Its really bad. Especially after hooking up I get this intense feeling of anxiety. I feel like a scumbag who only wants women he cant have or play hard to get and then the second he gets them, he tries to avoid them.
/r/seduction11/03/15 10:14 AM
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Honestly I didnt give her any options. I had asked her the week prior when she would be free this week and then last night asked her if she was free on wednesday and then asked her if she was free on tuesday. She said she had dinner with a friend on wednesday and wasnt sure if she was babysitting tuesday so instead of saying "Hey I'm actually free every night this week" I told her to just let me know when she was free. I'm not a quick thinker on my feet yet.
/r/seduction13/01/15 02:51 PM
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Yeah the "options" thing is a problem for me hence why I'm needy enough to make this post lol. I think I need to work on myself more. I shouldnt have gotten back into Tinder until I was physically ready.
/r/seduction13/01/15 02:22 AM
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"rockstar boner" sounds about right.
/r/seduction31/08/14 05:37 AM
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I like that infinite respawns bit.
/r/seduction09/08/14 06:08 AM
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I'm in North Jersey, next to Morristown
/r/seduction23/07/14 11:22 PM
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Do you have any links that would be useful for me?
/r/seduction23/07/14 06:37 PM
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Thank you, cutting my losses now. I'll use this as a learning experience.
/r/seduction22/07/14 10:38 PM
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I guess I missed the instant automatic download of abbreviations directly to my memory when I first clicked subscribe.
/r/seduction20/07/14 03:00 PM
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wtf is PUA?
/r/seduction20/07/14 02:02 AM
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Towards the end of the video, when he's talking about thinking about her responses: Motivations, Personality, character traits etc. I don't think he actually gave an example of a response. What would be a typical response you would use if you were thinking about those things? Like they said a girl tells you how she just moved to Argentina or something, what would you say in response if you were thinking about her motivations etc. as opposed to your own relations?
/r/seduction11/07/14 04:40 AM
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Truth be told I love cars, always have. But it doesn't make a lick of difference. She's only going to see your car after she's agreed to come home with you anyway right?
/r/seduction06/07/14 02:11 PM
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Perfect. I've been practicing my moonwalk. Although maybe you'd want to do 1+1/2 turns because the moonwalk only looks cool from the side.
/r/seduction15/06/14 06:09 PM
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and a bit classier.
/r/seduction02/05/14 12:09 AM
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I hope so because fuck is 4 letters and f-close is 7.
/r/seduction01/05/14 08:12 PM
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I can't tell if the sarcasm not or?
/r/seduction06/04/14 11:01 PM
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Fucking lol.
/r/seduction06/04/14 11:00 PM
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I like that idea, Ill try writing down short term goals.
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:56 PM
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Yeah I need to definitely become more confident. My overall confidence is shot on account of my parents and my own lack of motivation and discipline. I actually take a Wellbutrin generic. It does help but I have to spread the taking of it through out the day because when it wears off after a few hours I become super depressed. I know they say that youre supposed to let it build up in your system but I don't feel that happening
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:22 PM
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I'll be focusing on the top part, not for picking up women but to blast away the depression and anxiety that I've been diagnosed with. It sucks and it consumes my life. I haven't had sex in over a year, I go to work, school and then home to play video games. Your post has helped validate what I need to do to achieve success. I need to eat better, sleep more, and go running 4-5 times a week. I don't have a gym close by that I use. I used to go to my local YMCA and lift quite a bit but stopped aft…
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:44 AM
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I'm dealing with this EXACT issue.
/r/seduction06/12/13 01:05 AM
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and makes the compliments lose meaning.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:57 PM
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Me either. It's like if you react happy you seem like you're desperate and hearing something abnormal but if you don't react at all you seem like you don't value that persons opinion.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:16 PM
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Well...I wouldn't open with "holy fuck you're a genius!". It's pretty easy to tell from a few sentences and posture if a girl is most likely intelligent.
/r/seduction22/07/13 11:12 PM
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Ryan Gosling. First thing that came to mind when I read the title.
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:59 PM
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Thanks muchos_dingleberries
/r/seduction23/02/13 10:04 PM
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Just remember you only get 1 life and then its over. I hate this quote, it doesnt motivate me, it stresses me out. Motivation shouldn't come from a negative place, it should always be something positive like, "I want to work out and better myself because I want to.be confident in meeting women" not "I want to work out and better myself because I'm going to die one day"
/r/seduction23/02/13 10:03 PM
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Link to mentioned posts? I just joined match.com. need some help
/r/seduction25/01/13 05:26 AM
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ahh, a christmas present
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:05 AM
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did....did you do it?
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:30 AM
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i have to remember that. i have to remember that I have to remember that.
/r/seduction19/12/12 01:24 AM
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I've already done that. I played the player. I'm done with that, I want something serious for a change.
/r/seduction17/12/12 11:09 PM
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I thought about that last part, and believe me, im not some beta male who never gets laid. I've had a model for christs sake. But idk I'm really into this one, on a serious level, not a fuck and chuck kind of deal. I am taking your points seriously though.
/r/seduction17/12/12 07:45 AM
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How would I be more sexual around her, ive been making small physical contact with her like when we were at the bar with a couple friends. And believe me she did the same. fuck.....just thinking about it.....
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:06 AM
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its complicated, ill keep it short but..ive always thought she was really sweet and attractive. Then at the company christmas party she was very physical with me, not in a very sexual way, like holding my hand leaning on my shoulder, asking me to lie down with her etc. and all in front of her boyfriend (who lives pretty far away). That killed me a bit because of how nonreactive I had to be for obvious reasons. Then I asked her to come out with me and a couple friends and she did, and I know that…
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:04 AM
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thats what I figured, what subreddit would I go to for my problem?
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:57 AM
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but what if its someone I like very much and think of a lot?
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:06 AM
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okay..i have a question...this is the second time ive seen someone say they went up and immediately hugged a girl....HOW ON EARTH do you smoothly do this without even knowing her....seriously wtf
/r/seduction27/04/12 05:59 AM
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NOT HELPFUL!
/r/seduction22/04/12 11:34 PM
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i went away a week ago as well....i got 2 texts from her... this is the most confusing thing ever
/r/seduction22/04/12 11:29 PM
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