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I don't think they really care if you "embarrass" yourself. It's just a lot of people are very afraid of the antifeminist dystopia you're promoting, and people with views like yours are often very aggressive and insensitive about the implications of not only the beliefs they hold in order to promote their own happiness, but with the nastiness with which these people (like you) insist there's nothing wrong with a sort of western Sharia law, or with deflecting any real damage that a disregard for …
/r/PussyPassDenied11/04/20 09:34 PM
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/u/quajek is this misogyny?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 05:03 AM
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This has nothing to do with gender, you goddamn idiot.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/19 03:54 AM
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What exactly is a "thousand dollar private school"?
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/19 03:59 AM
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Hey, thanks!
/r/PussyPass23/01/19 05:58 AM
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Skinnyfat like a dadbod over toned, for sure. But I like men fatter than that more. Like genuinely obese.
/r/BlackPillScience24/09/18 06:38 PM
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I’m sorry, but I unsubbed from all this incel shit a while back, because it scares me to see the way the community thinks and behaves. I’m not gonna engage any more here, and maybe won’t respond to any more comment replies from these subs in the future. But you’re a full cognizant human being and I hope the best for you - that means one day getting to a place where you can see how misguided this discourse has been here, these last couple years. I’m also blocking your account because I don’t want…
/r/BlackPillScience14/08/18 03:01 AM
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Sure, follow your heart. But please take a moment tonight to consider how it feels to be told by a stranger that your reality does not exist. You’re telling me that my reality does not exist. It hurts.
/r/BlackPillScience14/08/18 02:53 AM
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It’s kind of silly to tell yourself some random woman on the internet is lying when she says what she’s attracted to. But you know what? Go the fuck ahead and perpetuate the mental strife of men whom I find gorgeous. Make other people unhappy. We do well together. Meanwhile, it strikes me as unlikely you’ll ever find love.
/r/BlackPillScience14/08/18 02:43 AM
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How is it anyone’s “fault” that some people choose to not have kids? It’s not an objectively negative outcome.
/r/MGTOW30/07/18 07:23 AM
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Ew no. 40+ or bust.
/r/BlackPillScience30/07/18 07:21 AM
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I love that movie. It's about people who don't stray from toxic and limiting ideologies or lifestyles. I've known and been friends with sex workers before, and I briefly considered doing it myself. I think the self-preservation point is a great one, but ultimately I think what this scene in The Florida Project shows is that shaming sex work is one way to harbor bottom lines of arguments. If sex work is a demon in an any debate, and your life is filled with inflammatory drama, it's as easy to use…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:37 AM
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I didn't express an opinion. It's just a fact that it's not in the article.
/r/BlackPillScience02/07/18 03:32 PM
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Just checking: It's unreasonable to prefer a partner with more than a high school education?
/r/BlackPillScience28/06/18 04:25 PM
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Why shame sex when the real decision comes somewhere between the first and third trimester? Or at the yearly gyno appt? Sex isn't the issue here. Choice is.
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 12:23 AM
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The link doesn’t provide the content of the sext.
/r/BlackPillScience15/06/18 12:47 AM
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I do not prefer muscular bodies. I find a muscular physique to be distasteful tactilely. I respond very, very strongly to overweight and obese male bodies. I like to see them and touch them. I do not feel sexual when touching a toned body. I do feel sexual when touching a fat body. I don't know if this helps. I didn't read the article and I'm not going to.
/r/BlackPillScience04/06/18 05:04 AM
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Woah. That's really interesting. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:29 PM
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Thank you for pointing me to such clear data. I'm not completely set in my view but I just want to point out again, I'm absolutely not saying women didn't choose who they married, historically. I'm saying the current climate of extreme female choice is not consistent with the factors that influenced marriage decisions in the past and outside of the west and outside of populations with relatively reliable resources, and specifically that masculinity as we know it is a product of many different th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:42 PM
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Nope, women throughout history definitely made choices. But don't forget to add to the landed gentry slave classes, who were purposefully bred for optimized stock, and then subtract from peasant classes those whose marriage opportunities were heavily limited by the realities of health and resources. My stance here isn't that women don't choose who they marry, but rather that the current climate of female choice is hypercontemporary and somewhat of an anomaly in its extremity. What we know today …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:38 PM
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For much of history women all over the world had little to no say in whom they married. There were cases of love marriage in all historical civilizations, but compared to the seller’s market of today, the familial influence and economic factors of marriage left relatively little up to women’s preferences. The successes of masculinity which made a given male desirable to families to wed their daughters to was a product of the relationships between masculinities rather than between femininity and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:52 AM
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I mean, I’m on mobile too, but like many redditors, I’m very thoughtful about what I write regardless of how my hands are moving. All things considered, though, your post is quite well written for having been typed on mobile by someone who struggles to type on mobile. I’m pointing out how out of place religious observance is here, on reddit at large, and how many typical shitheaded redditors would correlate it with the kind of lack of intelligence that would produce careless writing. Again, thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:15 AM
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This is a really good point. I wonder if you’re trolling, repeating the absurd “share my religious beliefs” as your grammatical inconsistencies increase, but if you’re being serious and even if you’re not, this is really sound logic. I think the reason women are chastised for knowing what our desires and boundaries are is because the male voice is so much louder than ours, and compared to the average woman, most men have no fucking standards. They seem to interpret a woman’s knowledge of her own…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 02:00 AM
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Hahahahahaha I love this. YES I'm serious! You made a good point and I learned something I didn't already know! Thank you.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:56 PM
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Yeah, okay, you're right.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:49 PM
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I don't think female victimhood needs to be a part of the conversation about male victimhood, but it's really idiotic to deny the reality that there are way more female victims than male victims, especially when the assault occurs in the victim's adulthood. The first paragraph of my last comment is meant to describe two types of rape prevention campaigns: Ones that encourage women to behave in ways that serve to avoid assault, which offend women and some men, and ones that encourage men to not r…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:30 PM
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Right, I have a few responses here but just to your last point: If men targeted by "don't rape" programs instituted as a response to offensive "don't get raped" programs are themselves offended, hopefully it's not the same people who are arguing here that an all-female resort might be influenced by desire among women to avoid situations in which they'd like to avoid any chance of vulnerability to assault while on vacation. But more centrally to another area of this discussion, and to my passion …
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:12 PM
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Yeah, I have some awareness that some women see male bodies and sexualize them visually but I haven't really been around women who sexualize men prior to responding positively to them as a person. It's something I've seen in movies but not in real life. And I myself barely consider what I see with my eyes when I look at a man and assess whether I want to sleep with him.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 10:01 PM
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I'm sorry for being dramatic by pulling the crime of rape into this but in the minority of rape cases where the female victim does not know their rapist, he had to see her in a public space initially, and I'm just kind of talking about that. In general, I just... I'd love to be invisible sometimes. And being around only women would feel like I'd gotten there.
/r/MensRights25/04/18 09:59 PM
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I feel very strongly about how necessary this sub is. But I'm pointing out the disparity in reactions to the sight of a body between the sexes. The sexes are not equal and cannot be treated as such. Women do not lay eyes on a man and feel sexual. Men do. Men sometimes act on sexual urges that are rooted in reactions to the visual, and a minority of these encounters are not consensual and deeply damaging. Women rape. Women rape men. But it's not because of what that female rapist sees with her ey…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:54 PM
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I think women’s issue with ‘boys’ clubs’ is that so much business is conducted in that setting that it diminishes women’s chances of rising through corporate ranks to achieve the success enjoyed by men with membership to those spaces. The equivalent of this might be more like a man cave or boys’ night out, albeit on a smaller scale. There are women who prefer their partners to avoid these gendered spaces and activities, but if their partner really needed a break from co-ed activity and mentioned…
/r/MensRights25/04/18 06:27 PM
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Although the sexual revolution and waves of feminism beginning in the 1970s make the case for women having similar sex drives to men, it's just not the case a lot of the time. Women often will not have any physical prerogative to engage sexually with a man. That's not to say we don't enjoy it - it's just that we only enjoy it when we enjoy it, as opposed to all of the moments involved in sexual activity. It sounds like she was being very considerate, upon witnessing that you're eager to be physi…
/r/seduction26/01/18 12:16 AM
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I just want to say that that first quote was framed as a joke, in what I wrote. Like, I meant it as a joke. Because it would be ridiculous for him to just know without my telling him.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:47 PM
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I wish that I could say the moral of anything I have to share is that he just should have known that that was not my flavor, but yeah, I guess the thing you said is what the moral is.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 02:01 AM
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I'm not sure how to read your tone. I'm not really talking about my own strategy, but rather boundaries and turn-offs.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 09:11 PM
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I'm a girl. You're welcome. And I don't say it because my reaction is everyone's reaction, but rather because if everyone in this thread followed OP's advice, in the vein of my experience, fewer blow jobs would be had, you know? [edit] Also, I should not be here. I get it that women are wrong and ineffective some of the time in the way you'd say they are, but this sub makes me queasy. Some of you might have a chance at getting what you want without making others (or yourself, potentially, lookin…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:41 PM
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I was recently spoken to in degrading ways during the third blow job I gave to a man I admire a lot. His saying it has made me think about not seeing him for a fourth time. It was extremely unpleasant and the antithesis of sexy.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 02:56 AM
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Twenty-two. Ew.
/r/MensRights04/03/17 01:33 AM
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I support this.
/r/MensRights09/10/16 11:40 PM
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I don't know what you mean by that. But what I'm saying is that OP & many commenters' arguments are valid, but the assertion in the title of the post is laughable.
/r/MensRights09/10/16 08:07 PM
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Many of the arguments in this thread are good and valid, but the title of this post is unsettling, and I can't believe I'm the first one to say "Brock Turner."
/r/MensRights09/10/16 01:40 AM
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What you're describing happens, and creates a place for false allegations. But there is such a thing as being too drunk to say words, like the words "no" and "stop," or to move away from another person's body.
/r/MensRights09/10/16 01:38 AM
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No. I don't have a source on this, but it was the daughter of a friend of his. They were together for a long time, if not still. I heard this on NPR very recently, along with the fact that not only was he not convicted but not even charged. But I also have something very weird in common with him and so this comes up in my circles very often. It was not his daughter in any way.
/r/MensRights09/10/16 01:32 AM
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Nice job on getting to the front page, guys, but what is a pussy pass exactly?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/09/16 04:48 PM
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Interesting. I don't know what's in the bible though. But I'll take your word for it that women can be gaslit in the same ways throughout millennia.
/r/MensRights16/08/16 04:51 AM
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...because of course women can get pregnant any day in the month...
/r/MensRights26/07/16 11:09 PM
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What are you talking about? I was raped. On the street. In the middle of the night in midtown manhattan when I was 15. I've never been robbed and my boyfriend doesn't carry my bag for me.
/r/MensRights17/06/16 04:15 PM
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I think women deserve scrutiny. That's why I posted this video here. But some of the things you're so upset about aren't very relevant in healthy relationships. Not knowing you, but being exposed to your vitriol, I'd guess you haven't had a healthy relationship.
/r/MensRights17/06/16 04:14 PM
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Wow, I can't even finish reading this. I'm sorry to break this to you, but I think you might hate women. A few of these are valid -- blaming hurtful behavior on hormones and expecting to skate by without paying for herself are things that a mature, well-rounded, and generous partner probably wouldn't do. But a lot of these depend more greatly on the specific relationship, and some are just plain mysoginistic. I think it's a great idea to carry a rape whistle or mace. I wish I had had one on me w…
/r/MensRights17/06/16 10:27 AM
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You know what, you're right. "We all deserve love" is not a sentiment I even thought through. I was really just trying to make the face that I was posting it made sense. What is nbsp?
/r/MensRights17/06/16 10:24 AM
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Sorry for the typo and also not being very clear. There's one thing on the list -- domestic violence that made me think this sub would like it. Yes, we all know that the way we regard women hitting their partners is less than helpful, but the other things in the video are also examples of ways women hold power over men to make them genuinely unhappy. I think men might have an attitude about being with an attractive woman that allows this shit behavior. But I'd like to see men reject women's harm…
/r/MensRights17/06/16 04:14 AM
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I don't want to extrapolate my sample size, but it just seems uncommon for a man to be smaller than average with a smaller than average penis. I know I've never seen it. I'm not saying small guys have large penises, I'm saying I've never seen a man under 5'9" who's below 6".
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:33 PM
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That before we wore clothes, men presented size as an asset for hunting and protection, but a visibly larger penis will draw a minority of women regardless of how much sense it makes. It's not a strong reason, but it could be consistent over a long enough stretch of time for it to persist as a single trait/gene.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 11:08 PM
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Holy shit I just looked at so many penises.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 10:52 PM
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I've been with my SO for 2 years and I wouldn't speak about his penis on the internet, but I will say I've been with ~60 men in my life and while I want to find a pattern that scrawny guys have bigger penises, it seems, in my personal history, that it's just more persistent that scrawny guys have penises that are above average. Enormous dicks are unpredictable, small ones too, but I study natural history and I've toyed with the idea that there's an evolutionary reason that shorter, slighter men …
/r/MensRights05/05/16 10:49 PM
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My guess was the topmost, leftmost guy. The scrawny guy.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 10:31 PM
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There are two ways this could be shitty, and the one you're suggesting is way more shitty than the other. If it were BuzzFeed employees, they would each be paid a lump sump in exchange for the slander. Given the emphasis on this physical trait, for some, it's uniquely easy way to make a quick buck. But imagine if a website took stock photo images of people of any gender and accused those people -- real people -- of other, indeterminable things. "What mental illness does each person have?" "Was t…
/r/MensRights05/05/16 09:50 PM
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Ugh I know. I like so much of their humor but their aggressive Ladylike division is so contrived. Like, people are people, we don't need to shove the uniquenesses of being a woman down every 20-something's throat.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 09:42 PM
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What is MHRM?
/r/MensRights16/03/16 11:14 PM
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I agree very strongly that false accusations are widespread and very serious, and your opposition to the bad statistics is valid and necessary, but... The original post is also a travesty in the opposite direction. Rape kits are important in every state. I've been raped by a stranger and I wish I had gotten a rape kit. I was young and afraid a) no one would believe me and b) that my parents would lose their shit. I dealt with it silently on my own, and when I finally admitted it had happened the…
/r/MensRights16/03/16 05:12 PM
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They're all white. I'm not an SJW, though, and I am white. But I live in a very diverse city so anything homogenous like that stands out to me. I 100% agree with what you're saying, but just like how some persisting issues for women's rights require insight to intersectionality, so do men's rights. So yes, this is a difficulty for men, but in a way it's not even giving men of color a space to object as fully as white men.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 04:02 PM
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Baby, if you're going to get riled up about this REALLY IMPORTANT THING... Don't make the first case-in-point all about rape. Other causes of incarceration are more important as a part of this movement of you want a legal lens for. But, baby? All of this is a really, really good start.' -OP's SO.
/r/MensRights29/10/15 04:53 AM
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I live in a place where people don't drive and we don't ever get "cut off."
/r/MensRights12/07/15 01:13 PM
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Noted. If /r/fa has a more creative outlook on what I can/should do with my clothes, I'll check it out. Frankly, though, I get compliments, from strangers, on my clothes, every day. That does not at all make it office appropriate, though. I am wasted right now. I'm wearing a dusty rose off-the-shoulder shift dresss, which is not office appropriate, but which I feel I am my best self in. ...FIT, here I come...? (I'm joking.) [edit] again, i am drunk. but i looked at the general fa sub, and found …
/r/MensRights18/04/15 02:09 AM
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I have altered my opinions several times today because of a few things people have said to me in this thread. The tangent we're on right now is the only one that got this off-track. I don't know what the names for debate tactics are, but basically the way I see my examples of "emotional charity" is that they're... analogies? When I debate with my friends, sometimes substituting one thing for another helps me understand either the thing we're talking about, or what the definition is of a thing me…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 09:15 PM
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Ok. As I'm trying hard to defend myself with reiterating over and over, this is all new to me. I'm hearing you say there's a big difference between what the Tumblrina was wearing, and what #3 is wearing. I think both are provocative in the workplace. I think #3, with the ruffly blouse and the pencil skirt, could be mistaken for a porn actress. There are a lot of outfits which are "office style," but which, with the wrong amount of tit or ass, are actually more pornographic and definitely distrac…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 08:56 PM
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I don't know what mfa advocates because they've kind of got a shitty attitude when I want to have a conversation about the stuff. But I already really do not like ffa, because they're like basic on steroids, where they actually have fights when someone wants to not be basic.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 08:35 PM
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Thanks. I didn't think yoga pants were appropriate, but this is a good guide. If you're saying "it's not that fucking hard" because I am having trouble with it, I'm sorry, but I have literally zero experience and it is actually very confusing. I get a lot of criticism and literal sexual harassment because of what I think is normal to wear. If you're saying it because this girl fucked it up, well, if you read all of the, like, 90 comments I've posted here, you can probably see some ways in which …
/r/MensRights17/04/15 07:38 PM
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Haha. Well I'm super not-office-attire fashion aware, and I'm really into the nuances of mens' casual styles. PLAID. PLAID. PLAID. GINGHAM. Khakis. [edit] And your shirt should be just loose enough that you consider going one size down.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 07:02 PM
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Very interesting. This is hard to understand. Thank you for explaining this.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 07:00 PM
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3 is the most reasonable, but I'm actually not plus-sized. I'm a small at Forever21 and an XS at H&M. Nothing at Lane Bryant would stay up on me. If #3 is not overly sexual, then that's fine for me. It just strikes me as a little sexy and almost vulgar, very much unlike the others, and that's what I'm trying to learn not to do.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 06:56 PM
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I definitely do not hate straight white men, but I have a hard time discerning what makes my interpretation of these outfits inappropriate. I mean, if I wore #3, the skirt would be hip-hugging and the shirt would look "fuck me, I'm a librarian." If I wore #4 or #5, the top buttons would be bursting. (In a bigger size, they'd be tents.) I've been aware of this since I was 12 -- my body is a controversy. I have bigger breasts than I can manage, and the only things I've found that make my bust-wais…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 06:42 PM
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I thought that the expectation that my examples needed to be relevant was hostile. It seemed very close-minded.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 06:23 PM
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This makes a lot of sense to me. She's squalking. Thanks for your astute analysis of this situation.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 05:25 PM
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I was using an ugly dress and mispronouncing a word as examples of emotional charity/compassion (which I actually think are the exact same thing, semantically), not relating them to the article. This has gotten REALLY off-topic. But I use reddit in a way that's maybe not obvious to people... I don't have a ton of socialization in my life, and I come on here to have conversations. Not arguments necessarily, but just a place to put words, and get new ones in return. You're being a shade hostile to…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 05:09 PM
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That's insane! Thanks for the info.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 05:05 PM
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Maybe. I don't think she deserves the job. But I'd like to live in a world where people are charitable emotionally and work with me to help me not feel like shit about stuff I do that's not that bad. Like if I wear an ugly dress, I'd like to not be made fun of. If I mispronounce a word, I'd like to be corrected sympathetically. I don't need jobs I don't deserve, I just want to not feel like shit about myself. This has clearly gotten way off-track. I think this sub is great for exposure of unfair…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 04:33 PM
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Interesting. My mind jumps to, "but what if you spill coffee on your shirt? Did you pack and extra shirt? What if, now, a bus sprays dirty rainwater on your pants? Did you bring extra pants?" I do carry extra pantyhose, though. Not in case of runs, but because sometimes when I don't wear them, I end up freezing in air conditioned buildings. With how much hostility, but also well-intentioned (good-intentioned?) information I've received in this thread, I can kind of start to understand myself to …
/r/MensRights17/04/15 04:21 PM
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Like I've said in other comments, I've never worked, and I've never had an interview. I do seasonal christmas stuff, and I wear leggings and sweaters and down coats for that. I get what you're saying, definitely. I do not, however, know what business casual or business formal are. But that's a question for /r/femalefashionadvice. [edit] Also, I'd love a job in an office, a la Maggie Gyllenhaal in The Secretary. I've spoken with a few employers who were interested, but I ended up getting back wit…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 04:18 PM
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I agree. Tee shirts and jeans are unacceptable. What I'm learning, right now, from this post, is that a skater skirt and a cotton top is also unacceptable. I'm a very juvenile dresser, and I've never really worked. So I'm hearing this controversy, having lived as someone who thinks a skater skirt and a cotton top is "looking nice." If it's more obvious to other people that cotton is not ok, then I'm glad to hear about it. My parents are artists and their work clothes are mostly just what's comfo…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 03:27 PM
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I agree. Showing up late to an interview is pretty unconscionable. I'm a very punctual person, 5-10 minutes early to everything. But sometimes I have runs in my tights, and it's very embarrassing. Showing empathy and compassion to someone who feels embarrassed is a very nice, human, and humane thing to do.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 03:22 PM
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I don't love my curves. I just lost 90 lbs because I hate them so much. My assumption is backed by knowing, for most of my life, that there are clothing options which are not available to me because when I wear something low-cut, short, skimpy, whatever... It's vulgar. It's vulgar because there's more body on my body. I think her skirt if very short on her, her shirt is low cut on her. But the same clothes on a thin person with less body aren't vulgar.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 03:20 PM
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You might not have meant it as a "joke," but I laughed. I laughed even though I felt insulted and belittled. It was still funny. [edit] SO sorry, thought you were op of this thread. I ALWAYS reply to comments while reading them in my actual inbox and therefore, every once in a while I make a mistake like this.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 02:13 PM
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Interesting, I'll remember that. I'm 25 but still dress very young for my age because I'm still a student. I'm glad to have forewarning that I need to be more careful than that when it's time for an interview. I'm very familiar with outfits like hers, because I've been her size before, and on a budget. A jersey skater skirt and a cotton shirt are kind of the only things out there for someone who's bigger and not wealthy. In fact, so much of what's available for young, plump women is so expensive…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 02:12 PM
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I don't want to get into a quibbling match about my word choice, because I think this post brings up some really important issues about the current climate in a field like programming's job market, as well as issues about entitlement among young people. But just to clarify: There is no direct equivalent to a man's jeans and tee shirts. She specifically used the example of an outfit like that, and so those are the only two outfits relevant to compare. What I mean by humanity rather than rigidity …
/r/MensRights17/04/15 02:10 PM
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No, you're right. The thing you said about, basically, internet ostentatiousness/privacy, is extremely relevant. Whether or not someone can change the world in tights is not relevant. I'm just challenging you about making that joke in the future. Especially because literally every female politician wears nude pantyhose (which run and then look unprofessional) under their conservative skirt suits.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 02:01 PM
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Dunno. I've never had a real interview. But I do know that the think model is more appropriately dressed than the model is in the same clothes.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 01:59 PM
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If I had been told that my skill set in the field I'm applying to was sufficient, I'd consider not getting the job to be denial. I do think it's kind of silly to write something like this and allow readers to imagine a "he said/she said" kind of convolution.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 01:37 PM
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When I read "getting ready for hours," I automatically assumed she meant the night before or several days in advance. Many women commiserate with me when I admit to missing an entire class because I couldn't stand to wear anything, and how much I hate my reflection. I would never leave an interview outfit up to chance with that kind of thing on the day of.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 01:35 PM
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I think this is a really good point but I kind of resent the implication that someone shouldn't wear tights? Like, it's funny, but I wear tights most days. I can't really change the world, but it's definitely not because of what I wear.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 01:34 PM
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I actually think her outfit is conservative enough, but runs in tights do look very, very unprofessional. I wear tights every day under 70', though, and it's, like, hard to not get a run, and I appreciate very much the people in my life who know that it's not my fault if my tights get snagged on something I'm walking by. The correct procedure is to run to a nearby store and replace your tights immediately, but she was already running late. (Which, admittedly, is a totally okay reason to not give…
/r/MensRights17/04/15 01:32 PM
5

"Just shut up and PRAY! Quickly!"
/r/MensRights15/04/15 09:56 PM
-2

If I saw this ad on my own, I'd assume the implication was "You already know heart disease is one of the leading causes of death among men... But did you know women are also at risk?" As a woman with no history of heart disease in my family, it's not a topic that gets brought up a lot. I was born with several heart defects, though, and treating them gets mixed up with psych issues, but sometimes I feel like I'm going to have a heart attack... And no one talks about this, because I'm a woman.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 02:52 AM
1

I didn't understand that at first, but I think I see what you're saying. But I think that if there is embellishment or flat-out dishonesty about abuse, it's probably for a lot of reasons, not just one. When I was raped, there was a tiny part of me that felt more attractive, because someone went to such lengths to have me, and I can imagine a girl wanting to paint herself as irresistible in that way. But then, I had almost no emotional response overall and now have arguably zero damage about any …
/r/MensRights28/12/14 12:24 AM
1

I've never heard that before, so thanks for sharing the perspective. It's very interesting.
/r/MensRights27/12/14 05:29 PM
0

That's a good point but at a certain point you have to just take a step back, ignoring the margin of dishonesty, and remark on the phenomenon. It's not just teenage girls. The young men I was close with in these emotionally volatile environments I was in often had stories of abuse as well. Basically what I'm saying is that the "one in five" statistic might be underreporting, not overreporting. I'm a female men's rights advocate but that doesn't mean that I believe that any majority of rape accus…
/r/MensRights26/12/14 03:22 AM
1

I went to boarding school and I was hospitalized for 6 years for a mental illness, so the demographic is maybe more emotional and maybe rape is a precursor for that. But we all would tell secrets and every single girl had been fucked with.
/r/MensRights25/12/14 12:51 PM
-6

I've never met a girl/woman who has never been sexually assaulted.
/r/MensRights25/12/14 03:24 AM
1

I will share this on facebook but only if I can understand why a judge would try to do this. What in the legal system is allowing this to be an issue? What happened prior to his saying no?
/r/MensRights11/11/14 04:02 AM
1

you're right. i don't like the daily mail, but it looks like there's not much room for this to be baseless. it really happened. and it's terrible. it's also terrible that the most prominent source for this important story is the goddamn daily mail!
/r/MensRights18/08/14 06:47 PM
1

yeah, i'm a feminist. totally. you got me.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 05:38 PM
0

being an idiot, i definitely think that the good guy always wins. but in my downtime from being an idiot, i look at articles from publications like the goddamn daily mail and question what else there is to the story that they're not telling me.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 03:41 PM
1

what, exactly, is my bigotry?
/r/MensRights18/08/14 03:39 PM
1

reading the full story, i don't have as much doubt as i did, but the daily mail is a terrible source, and the other one seems to be using just the daily mail article as research for theirs. not good citing. i see that this really did happen, though, but with reporting like that there's a lot left out. i agree that the judge gave her an easy sentence for being a woman, i just think the headline is sensationalizing and dramatizing something with more moving parts than we're reading.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 03:39 PM
-28

i believe 100% that this is an imbalance that exists, but i have suspicions that this particular story belongs in r/thathappened.
/r/MensRights18/08/14 04:13 AM
0

i don't understand. you're asking me if i'm an artist? i'm not an artist. i hate art.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 07:57 AM
1

i see 60 year old women get married for the first time and i think it's awesome. but as facetious as i'm being with that statement, i want to not just get married, but be a wife. for as much of my life as possible. i meet 40 year old men who have never been married, and they make it extremely clear they never, ever want to. it's a shame, because they're always the ones that would make me happiest.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 04:12 AM
1

"if i'm not married by 30, i'll die." no, but seriously, my sexuality is very tied up in being significantly younger than my partner, and there's a threshhold there. it doesn't matter. i have to go murder my boyfriend and put him in trash bags now because he's too young and pokes holes in condoms.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 03:56 AM
1

i have no idea what you mean by that. i've never met anyone i liked very much. at 24, i'm starting to think i never will. that's all i was saying.
/r/MensRights02/04/14 03:41 AM
1

hypocrisy in the way the passing of the bill is being spoken about, yes, but overall, a great move. the law is the law. but really, L2 journalism. if a man is baby crazy, he can swing by my place in a few years. i'll be jumping out of my skin to race my biological clock. i am... unlucky with relationships.
/r/MensRights01/04/14 07:28 PM
0

yeah, i can see why it should be arbitrary, but don't feign ignorance to pretend you live in a perfect world: as a woman, i'm expected to participate in the feminism movement - that's something that men and women i meet feel.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 10:59 PM
0

hey, so, actually, i do like pretty offensive comedy. it's not so much that i can't laugh at a thing like this (although i don't find this particular joke funny), but more to engage in a conversation that i think is important to have, a conversation that happens in this sub and not many other places. so, yeah, this post and this post are saying the same thing. not that i'm bummed about the karma injustice, or anything.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 10:55 PM
2

i'm really sorry, i want to answer. i actually do like linguistic arguments. and creativity. and humor. way more than arguments about social injustices, the patriarchy, and racism. but i just don't know what you're asking me here. i don't know what you mean by "at large," and i don't know how whatever that is relates to anything being compared to something that's definite.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 04:11 AM
1

yeah, you used words i've never heard of, like i said, and i couldn't find them. your first comment looked like a few different arguments combined, but without any clear introduction. your sentences deal with abstractions a bit, and that's not a style of argument i understand. your fifth comment also presented a few abstract, vague arguments i couldn't identify and respond to. i don't know why you linked me to the feminism subreddit. i'm extremely anti-feminism, not just because it's turned into…
/r/MensRights20/03/14 03:40 AM
1

what, to be funny? no, really, i really don't have any kind of prejudice against people who just don't speak english. but i'm not gonna sit here and say i understand you when you talk. i don't.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 03:00 AM
0

i'm not trying to be mean or trivializing, but... L2 english, bro. cause you don't make sense.
/r/MensRights20/03/14 02:14 AM
2

i can't find the word recumpance in the dictionary and i have no idea what you're talking about. recitivism is the only thing i could think you meant, but that's not entirely relevant. i could see how you could try to pull it into the conversation, though, i think? i'm not looking to participate in an argument, and you've now several times confused the fuck out of me. even if i was eager for friendly debate, i wouldn't know what it was you wanted to debate about. i find it tasteless because adul…
/r/MensRights20/03/14 02:07 AM
3

okay, i'm, like, really aware i have a tiny and misguided worldview, but in the context of my decision to post this, here's what i think about your comment: the jump from this tasteless image (as i saw it) against the backdrop of white privilege or perceived lack thereof to the victimhood of white supremacist understanding... is a dramatic jump. maybe i'm just not aware of how someone sees things when they think white people are victims for being white, but... you know what, i'm glad i'm not awa…
/r/MensRights19/03/14 11:49 PM
1

yeah, sorry, i felt a little obnoxious including it, but it seemed to matter the last time i was in a conversation here.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 11:44 PM
1

when i posted it, i didn't see any racial context. i'm a white american, and we can be pretty oblivious to racial issues. the context i saw is that people might think it's funny and not an issue if a wife physically abuses her husband. i think it is an issue.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 11:13 PM
2

i don't follow what you just said. is it that you've identified this picture as coming from a culture in which the implications of the photo are not what i saw in it when i posted it?
/r/MensRights19/03/14 11:03 PM
6

i commented in this sub before and got really strong feedback of appreciation that i identify so much with the efforts made here.
/r/MensRights19/03/14 11:00 PM
4

i'm glad to be the bearer of good news. you guys are so right with the stuff on this sub!
/r/MensRights13/02/14 10:31 PM
16

i am a girl and i love this sub. i think what you're saying here is really important, and i try to say it all the time, but i'm not as good at expressing it and i usually just say "i don't believe in the word creep." i say this to women. i say it to at least a couple of women a week. they look at me like i'm crazy. i want to shake them and tell them that they're horrible people.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 10:12 PM
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