pennymayo Archive

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3	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! interesting. how would you prove that a person feeling coerced is not due to being coerced? its all in the victim's mind, i suppose? so you'd rather think that the 11 year old felt coercion, in her mind, not due to anything the 5 dudes might have done, and had group sex with them, instead of the fact that possibly, maybe an 11 year old was coerced verbally (instead of physically) into sex by five dudes older than her? if she felt threatened and had sex with them in order to not get injured/kille…	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 05:56 PM
3	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! yes but what i am pointing out is that rape rarely occurs due to some person jumping you. they are perpetrated by people the victims know. when you ask women to not be dressed so provocatively, you are reinforcing the false belief that women are raped by people who suddenly see them all sexy-like and can't stop themselves, when most rapes are planned. robberies are a different story. I'm not saying you shouldn't try to be safe, i'm saying that the idea that women should be paranoid on the street…	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 05:45 PM
3	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! hey, that's valid. but did you know: i can't wear a tube top or jeans so please, if you know rape proof gear, let me know.	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 04:33 PM
0	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! car accident is an accident, something that happens to both of you. rape is something committed by one person onto another person. it isn't some thing that flies out of the left lane. you might not be able to stop yourself from running into another car...but you can NOT RAPE, right? equating rapists as accidents that just happen blames nobody for the rape...so good job on not victim blaming? this might be valid if all rapes happen because some person jumped out of a bush at you, but most rapes a…	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 04:22 PM
2	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! so you're saying that if she was coerced and intimidated into complying, it doesn't count. that's like saying that if someone was robbed by someone who told you they had a gun in their pocket, it doesn't count, since you didn't see the gun. as for the issue of withdrawn consent, consider this. Say you give this homeless dude money everyday you see him, because you're fond of him, but one day you didn't feel like it anymore. If he stops you and sticks his hand in your pocket and takes money from …	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 03:54 PM
1	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! ah yes, i was waiting for this. http://sherights.com/2011/03/09/nyt-11-year-old-gang-rape-victim-to-blame/ http://www.thefrisky.com/post/246-nyt-gang-rape-article-mentions-victim-age-11-wore-makeup-and-dressed-ol/ http://jezebel.com/5780022/media-blows-it-with-pathetic-gang-rape-coverage these ladies are much better at this than i am. OKAY, okay, i'm gone.	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 06:13 AM
0	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! http://www.aolnews.com/2011/03/08/in-2-gang-rape-cases-communities-blame-11-year-old-victims/ http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20042118-504083.html i'm actually going to stop replying. i had hoped that i might be able to show that there are actually some women who are feminists and don't walk around thinking they're gonna get raped by dudes on the street...but i was silly. sorry about this, r/MensRights. carry on.	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 05:59 AM
4	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! oh yes, and i guess feminists are the ones generalizing that men are assholes. which you certainly are.	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 05:43 AM
1	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! dude, i'm not saying you should walk out wearing nothing and not expect some whack shit to happen to you. please tell me how i'm leaving the door unlocked if i went to on a date, gets drugged/drunk, and is date-raped. am i not suppose to go on dates? am i suppose to wear a chastity belt? that is LITERALLY locking my doors. is that what i should do? can i not simply expect that the dude will be a gentleman and NOT RAPE ME?	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 05:42 AM
2	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! how not to get raped victim blaming in nyt google victim blaming. just do it.	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 05:38 AM
18	Thanks for the Anti-Rape posters guys! so, i'm a woman (hi everyone) who sort of stumbled on to this by accident. i just want to clarify that, IMO, its not that all women think all men are potential rapist, its just that we've been taught the entire time that we're growing up that we have to "be aware of our surroundings", "not drink with strangers", and other "how to prevent being raped" tips. we've been inundated with the idea that it is the woman who is responsible for rape, and that "boys will be boys". It's all fucked up, and I …	/r/MensRights	12/06/11 12:32 AM