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Fundamentals pepotero/r/seduction18/01/26 03:44 AM
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Conversationpepotero/r/seduction16/04/25 05:36 PM
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Lifestylepepotero/r/seduction01/09/24 10:17 PM
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Conversationpepotero/r/seduction04/07/24 01:05 AM
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That and why he’s still not getting matches. He’s saying he’s convinced it’s the photos. With nothing to back that up. So he thinks a nice camera fixes it. But maybe it’s his style and approach to what he’s portraying that’s more of a problem
/r/seduction24/07/26 11:38 PM
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You can have conversations about her without it being an interview. Making assumptions, having opinions, telling her about her so she corrects you or wonder why you think that. Pointed questions can be an interview, but you can do the same while having fun. You can always have opinions. Once shes talking with you, having strong opinions will put her in a place to share hers and you can use that
/r/seduction28/06/26 01:18 AM
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That’s not really a friend. Unless you literally tell him it’s fine and to go for it. But generally really bad form and not cool to do to. You friend is suppose to HELP not make you more insecure (not that you are). Shit like that fucks with your head.
/r/seduction27/06/26 07:35 PM
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Specially if it’s a fancy one with a bar or servers. Bowling is great because there’s a lot of times you get close. And super easy to initiate touch
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:53 PM
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How many non white dates have you gotten?
/r/seduction31/01/26 01:07 AM
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You haven’t event said why you hate it. Only that it’s tiring. Listen I used to loathe social settings. Like you I felt exhausted and the pressure was a lot. But life is effort and you have to try. It’s exhausting because you don’t do it. Like anything in life the more you do it, whether it’s your job, hobbies, relationships, the easier it gets. But it can be fucking hard. That’s not a reason to not try specially if your goal is to date and also read models. That book is as good as paperweight i…
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:52 PM
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I have it. DM me later if I forget to give it to you (the audio)
/r/seduction29/01/26 05:48 PM
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If your a beginner I liked models (the original version, hard to find) and no more Mr nice guy. I think no more Mr nice guy should be first. Just because it really teaches that taking care of yourself doesn’t mean being inconsiderate or feeling selfish. It’s actually more harmful to you and others if you live in your head than being yourself. Models because it more about how you present yourself… without regret, confident and truthful… even without changing who you are can actually make a differ…
/r/seduction29/01/26 03:06 AM
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No one asked for you to apologize but he’s asking If he should bring her with his friends which should be fine. Idk where you went off on his friends making him look bad or her wanting them instead of him. Just off the deep end tbh
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:49 PM
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This is so weird. I mean… I guess your advice is for hookups but I think he just wants dating advice. Also sounds like a lot of your friends are… kinda messed up and maybe messed you up? Never had friends I would ever think they’d one up me or mess with a girl I’m bringing. If anything they had always made me look better than I am lol. Idk just strange advice from you but I guess that’s what happens in your life.
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:38 PM
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This is a seduction subreddit so you’ll get answers mostly from people who see women as prey or men who don’t know how to talk to women. Your case wouldn’t get great advice here tbh. My take? Sometimes life is simple and sometimes hard. Sometimes we make it harder than it has to be and your overthinking. If you’re in a fourth date you might be thinking of getting more serious in a way. Just ask yourself: Do you want her there? Do you like your friends? Do want her to like them too? Are you tryin…
/r/seduction28/01/26 04:33 PM
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I do this all the time... and has worked pretty decently. Some people are being very specific like your yanking someone maliciously... like wtf I dont think thats the point. You wouldn't do this unless you know shes stuck around for a bit already. But the reason it works for me it's because like anything when trying to flirt, touching is big part of comfortability. You want her to know your a safe person. For example, I always start with a small hug (That's normal now-a-days and shows your not s…
/r/seduction27/01/26 05:05 AM
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I prefer booga ooga ooga but everyone has their own style
/r/seduction01/01/26 01:09 AM
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Really annoying when people ask a question and you don’t know so you give a non answer. He asked for people’s experience, if you didn’t do it then why reply? A lot of comments here are just saying don’t do it… but none of them have done it so… how is that objective? Regardless of how you feel on it. To clarify I’m not saying yes or no. I’m saying he asked … like if people tried sushi, how was it? and the answers he is getting is not to try sushi even though they never tried it themselves.
/r/seduction29/12/25 10:26 PM
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Ask? Your sharing a space, does she expects you to be celibate the entire time your renting together? If so, that’s strange. She’ll probably tell you to let her know so she can gtfo for a few hours and not hear it
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:19 PM
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Some people just ooze charisma. Nothing you really can do but watch their magic. Nothing wrong with the rest of us we just don’t have that magic gift
/r/seduction31/10/25 10:49 PM
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Really depends on what you’re trying to do. If you don’t have the beginner reps. I can give you an example but it’ll be out of my head: So as a non beginner just means you stop doing “small talk + number” and you start leading a bit more. You’ll know if she’s receptive or not quickly and decide from there what you can go for. Example: you open, you vibe for a minute then you don’t just stand there. You say “walk with me for a sec, I’m grabbing coffee” or “I’m heading this way, come keep me out o…
/r/seduction28/10/25 01:10 AM
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You don’t want to frame the second date as “come to my place and let’s drink/watch a movie” because that’s basically you announcing the end goal up front. That puts a lot of sexual pressure on her before she’s even there and most girls (especially a coworker, where reputation matters) don’t want to feel like they just agreed to be the “I’m going to his apartment to hook up” girl. Even if she likes you, that frame can make her auto-defend and say no just to not feel easy. Instead, you set it up s…
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:42 AM
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After “hey, you caught my eye and wanted to say hi I’m LimpToHard and then get her name, smile, and go right into something playful: “You look way too awake for this early, what are you up to?” or “You’ve got that ‘I’m up to something’ look, what’s the story?” Then just react to her answer and tease it a little instead of interviewing her. If it feels good after like 30-40 seconds, you can either take her to a spot or take her number. That is mainly for beginners so if you just want to get some …
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:14 AM
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don’t run the fake “hey do you know where X is?” opener if you already know where X is. It’s low-status plus it starts the interaction from “I don’t have the balls to just talk to you so I’m pretending I’m lost.” That frame is unattractive. And yeah, if she finds out later you’ve lived here for 10 years, now you look like a guy who needs tricks just to start a convo. You don’t need that. The goal of the opener is not to impress her or lock in a number, it’s just to get her to stop and talk for 1…
/r/seduction27/10/25 11:06 PM
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You look great!
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:39 AM
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You gotta give a bit more detail if you need help. What were the openers? Are you making it man to woman quickly? Why are you losing focus, are you nervous or running out of things to say? You said you’re feeling like a "faggot" after a night of unsuccessful approaches. Remember, your value as a person isn't tied to your success with women. Do you always approach women with the mindset that you're offering them an opportunity, or do you feel like you're bothering them?
/r/seduction21/10/25 01:51 AM
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Bring a wingman, ditch them if you both see them being lame.
/r/seduction04/05/25 12:35 AM
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... You wrote yes then edited the post to say "no but my friends are". I'm done here. Not replying to this. Just wanted to point out to ppl that those with experience should be writting so confidently. Not just random reddit dudes.
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:08 PM
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What personal attract? Your taking it personal. Just asked a simple question. Also just because you got caught lying isn't my fault.
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:05 PM
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Was able to press back on the reddit app and screenshot the original responce. When he said he was then said he wasn't but his friends says so 🙄 https://imgur.com/a/ZkiPVPb
/r/seduction20/04/25 02:01 PM
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Just want to point out for the record heren for anyone reading. He originally just replied "yes" and that's it. Then edited the comment to write "My comment is not based on my own personal experiences being approached or not. But through having very good looking male friends that I've gone out with on numerous occasions, and also asking them about it." leaving it here incase he edits it again. Make your own assumptions on what he said...
/r/seduction20/04/25 01:57 PM
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A lot of unattractive and not in-shape guys on reddit answering here. Take that before listening to advice on this thread. Saying it as a non physically attractive guy, I take all the advice about this question with a grain of salt here....
/r/seduction20/04/25 01:51 PM
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You answered so confidently. Are you a physically attractive man that can speak from experience?
/r/seduction20/04/25 01:48 PM
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I consider it the same as cold approaching and saying a line to 'start the conversation'. Online girls have hundreds of guys matching and say 'i like you' simple words. It doesnt really work on Hinge as much. These are tested methods to get yourself in the door, the first message. The rest can be you being genuine. Don't knock a process you haven't tried.
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:22 PM
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I'm sharing with what has worked for me on Hinge. Hoping to save others time and write-backs. You say it doesn't work but have not tried it, other than to be generally negative. Good luck to you
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:21 PM
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Giving it a shot!
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:20 PM
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Girls loves dogs but really.... she knows what your asking without being obvious. Girls like to keep their dignity and 'it just happened' is a good excuse. Girls want sex as much as guys but don't like telling them, they want to feel spontaneous and 'fake' hard to get. Either you pass or fail.
/r/seduction15/04/25 02:37 AM
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Search other threads about this topic. Long story short, it's the nature of clubs. Think of it as one night only event. You either pull or you don't, that night. Numbers are worthless. Try day game or bars. Or anything else. Those numbers are a bit more solid.
/r/seduction24/03/25 09:19 PM
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You asked for advice, he gave you advice, and you say no your wrong, here is what's correct.....?? What was the point of this post?
/r/seduction24/03/25 09:02 PM
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Not gona a work. She said no bro, and she is conservative. It's now wether your willing to risk your relationship at this point. Just being Honest. If your wondering what it's like, think about it if she asked you if she can fuck a dude with your consent. It's a strange ask and makes you worried and rethink things. Don't hurt her feelings. If you want someone open like that, you shouldn't be with her if she obviously showed you she's not like that.
/r/seduction23/03/25 03:14 AM
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Care to share some specifics that made it successful?
/r/seduction04/03/25 12:24 PM
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What? What do you want? Ideas on what. How to have women throw themselves at you? Only few men can do that. In the end your a man and it's expected you will approach. So be a man. If anything not approaching and judging them inferior before speaking to them makes you sound insecure and maybe not the catch you think you are.
/r/seduction02/03/25 10:17 PM
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This points in my mind another problem I have with people using people who are working as a possible pick up. I think it's rather unfair to the girl because it's not like she can leave the interaction because she works there. She can't tell you to fuck off because she needs to be nice to patrons. This is why, when I speak to girls who are working I'm just trying to be nice and use it to get some positive energy into me. Making the next approach easier.
/r/seduction02/03/25 09:41 PM
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Sounds like she was being nice and truthful. I don't get why you got your feelings so hurt and just walked off like a child. People that are in relationships exist. Plus she was working. She might have thought you were a nice person and said yes to Instagram after you asked, to be nice. But she was honest about her status. You don't need to analyze everything that happens. You talked, she had a boyfriend, you move on. There wasn't much to it. But you should always try to be courteous to others. …
/r/seduction02/03/25 09:38 PM
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^ plain English and easy to understand. A lot of people will say " just have fun! You will attract others" while it helps, charisma matters if you want it quickly. It comes easy to some and hard for others. If your reading a seduction subreddit like me, chances are is that you don't have it. But like anything it can be a learned skill. If you can't naturally pull girls you will have to let yourself fail at it and learn from it. Improve and enjoy the work. Like anything in life if you enjoy what …
/r/seduction19/02/25 02:04 AM
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Well you never said what you wanted. You mentioned everything about her. I feel like you know she's confused but so are you. If you want something serious then you will have to let her know that. If you want something casual and fun, then you go that. It doesn't really matter what you found unless you want a relationship out of it. Do you? It's hard, i love the attention and having someone to here. I've fallen into that trap. And I know you like it too. She does too. But if your getting hurt. Be…
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:08 AM
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Don't forget the escalating part of the word 'escalate'. Again you could have done something simpler to show intention that is not going straight for a kiss. Try to touch her arm, hands, leaning the conversation towards 'we, us, together', or sexual banter/jokes/conversation topics. With escalation you have to be the judge of the moment. Because she won't come out and tell you what to do like 'be flirty', 'kiss me' or 'touch me', you really have to test the waters a-little and see her response. …
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:57 PM
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I see where your coming from but you have to see where SHE'S coming from. Which is what you originally asked. Why does she think that way. Then figure out that you did something, unknownly to you, to make her question you. You can stick to your guns and say "it was perfect simple date" and negate everyone's else's comment here, but you won't get the solution you want. Stop defending yourself because the point of your post is that your frustrated and want an answer from us, we give you an answer …
/r/seduction25/08/24 07:45 PM
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This is too advanced for him. He just needs to first figure out using his mouth to utter a word. And leave. He can figure out conversation once he's not as scared.
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:37 PM
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What I've learned from starting at 0 is That your job right now is not what to say, but just saying anything. If your problem at the moment is approach anxiety then tackle that. Say anything, don't worry about what it will lead to. Practice going up to people and saying mundane stuff. "I like your shoes", "it's raining so much, do you think it'll stop soon?" "do you know the nearest starbucks". These are notnto be used as conversations starters but as a "I will say this then run away" because if…
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:34 PM
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I went through your posts and your fucking insane. This man is 30 years older than you (making him at least 50 if your 20) and you want him to have a fake marriage/ceremony to commit to you behind his wife's back. Let me give you a quick and simple perspective from his side you don't understand. He chased you because he saw you as a hot young thing he can fuck for a year or two and move on. He wonders why you got so hung up with him but he was chasing you because he thought he can get you in bed…
/r/seduction01/04/24 11:31 AM
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