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peppapigoink95/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:19 AM
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Depends on how the sex gets did. Some dude jackhammering from behind, leaning back so that he's as far away as he can be, while still having sex - vs sex where you're also cuddling, looking into each other's eyes, being all tender and slow. Second one is way better. Women who assume "I like cuddling" means "I wanna grope you and can't keep my boner down" haven't met a guy who doesn't fall into that category. I've honestly only had one ex who just wouldn't stop stretching his whole body as if he …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:24 AM
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I see nothing wrong with that as long as you ain't swindling ppl outta their money under false pretenses like "yes I do love you ms. lady" hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:38 PM
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Are you gonna get a surrogate too, or adopt? Or have a full time working wife? Are you also gonna mop the floor? Will there be a sense of equal effort in your marriage, should you marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:37 PM
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It's still a good thing, but like I said, it's not enough to make him a sensible, chill, nice to be around guy, who's attractive. You can be as hard working as you want, but she still wants you to be hot, fun, and chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:19 AM
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I mean according to you, we're leaving hard working men because hypergamy, but you just said we make mistakes when dating. I'm suggesting that yes, we do make mistakes, but being a "hard working man" doesn't make a dude a good choice of partner - if he's unattractive or has LVM traits. Hard working isn't enough. He's gotta be hot, smart, fun, cool, and not LV. Every woman's idea of fun and cool will vary, but most agree it's a guy who enjoys doing some of the things she enjoys doing, and he's ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:12 AM
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Herpes and HIV are the only incurable ones, so just two diseases. And, you would always be the smart one in the relationship. What a deal! Lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:03 AM
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So in the meantime, do you work or have any dreams, or do you just rely on the peen to secure money from women til ya die?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:00 AM
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How nice does your house look? Do you own a lot of stuff, or are you more minimalist? Is it clean "for a man" or just clean period? Sorry if that sounds sexist, but I'm sure you know what I mean. There's a stereotype that men are less clean than women. I read some study that y'all can just tolerate more levels of mess than we can before it annoys you. Not sure how accurate this is for men IRL, don't remember the sample size of the study, etc. And I don't think you can pop out a kid, so that leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 02:55 AM
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I'm not talking about average women, or gen Z babies who are still in college, or women who can't manage money, because they are irrelevant when it comes to picking a partner. I'm not suggesting you date the average woman, nor am I suggesting that the average woman is the one majoring in STEM and making fat stacks. I also misinterpreted your stance, that "women are more attracted to men who make more money," as defending gold digging. I'm a stem educated trust fund baby, pay for my own stuff, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:00 PM
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I've been in your shoes. Used to take poor guys on trips. Wasn't worth it if they weren't also in school, contributing in some way to their own future. Most of them cheated, either physically or had some phone sex fling. I don't recommend date poor ungrateful lazy men who were content to eat up my finances, they're all just opportunistic poor people imo. You should date someone on your level, socioeconomically. Y'all can retire earlier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:48 PM
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I'm providing sex, and maid service, and companionship, and interior design, a womb, childcare, etc. All he has to pay for is the bills when I'm postpartum and need to stay at home and babysit. If he'd rather pay for a prostitute, AND a surrogate mother, AND a maid, personal grocery shopper, cook, and babysitter, then he's welcome. But I'm much cheaper than all that, and I do it out of love, not cuz he's meeting an hourly wage. I'm basically unpaid labor, and fine with it, and I look nice and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:45 PM
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I'm nice, and a trust fund baby, who doesn't actually need to work, much like Kim K, but with less money cuz I wasn't born with a silver spoon quite that large. I don't really give a damn if some lady raps or has a business, I care that they're nice and fun to hang out with and aren't taking advantage of men, or pretending that inheriting wealth is some huge feat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:39 PM
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Ain't that the truth lol. As long as you have a retirement plan for when your looks fade, then I see no issue with it. You're doing what hella women do, and as long as you're happy, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:36 PM
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Dating men for their resources is NOT the same thing as expecting him to pay his own bills, and pay half the houses utility bills when we're married. Expecting him to be saving for his own retirement so I don't have to fund some unemployed broke lazy bum's existence doesn't make me a gold digger. Expecting him to pay for me and my shit would make me a gold digger, and nowhere did I suggest he do that except for the rare and unusual TEMPORARY circumstance wherein I have just squeezed his child ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:35 PM
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Most men do have money, or they're hobos. Hell, even hobos have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:31 PM
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If all you want is a pretty girl who isn't picky, then just be a really rich old guy and date a gold digger who puts up with your oldness, or be a really hot broke guy and hook up with randos. Ya know, since you think being a man who isn't at least a little picky is a virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:26 PM
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If she tried to use him for his wallet, and instead got used for her looks, I don't feel like that's unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:23 PM
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No, we want a hot guy who isn't a lazy broke ass. So we can have a good sex life, have kids without being grossed out during the procreation part, and have a safety net when we're postpartum and have to babysit a newborn. If we just wanted money, we'd get STEM degrees and use our female privilege to get a good paying job to support our five cats. We wouldn't waste our time trying to con it out of rich men, cuz that's not nice, and it's not very sustainable. Sorry we don't all want to gold dig at…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:17 PM
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Cuz EITHER they want a beautiful wife who pays her own bills, and somehow still has time to raise his kids (a unicorn) OR they don't want kids, just a pretty gf or hook up buddy who is content to go dutch. I'm inclined to think the latter, considering that sums up all my experiences with men. Aside from the odd dude who actually wanted to pay for my meal, or put gas in my car - though in that case, it was fair cuz I was exclusively the one driving to see him, and drive us to all the places we we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:10 PM
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No, I'm saying why not just date a hot woman who has a good job, and pays for her own expenses, so you know she's with you for you, not for your money? Then when that's established - that she actually likes you - marry her. When y'all have kids, she stays home and cares for them since she's the one with the boob milk, while you work, until she can go back to working part time. Then y'all could retire earlier than the dude who's being drained by a prostitute, or a forever unemployed stay at home …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:05 PM
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You mentioned dating apps, which I've heard are now largely overrun by prostitutes. You also mentioned finding gold diggers on there. It's not much of a leap. If your prefer I say "b grade college girl you met online who likes being wined and dined in exchange for some starfishing" then my bad. If you are finding hoards of women who are actually attractive, engaged, and good in bed, online, then my question is where because I'm not aware of that being a thing. Maybe one of those exclusive dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:59 PM
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Lol some people will literally pay money for porn, so I think there's always some dumbass who will buy just about anything. In this case, women with very low IQs who aren't worth selling to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:55 PM
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Good luck eating without money unless you wanna hunt and gather with sticks and rocks. Good luck fucking if you're a hobo living in the woods, unless you find another hobo lady, or wanna be a sex criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:53 PM
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Yeah it ain't even hard to be a millionaire. Dudes here acting like it's a big deal are probably poor and surrounded by poor, trashy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:51 PM
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If she's a poor broke gold digging hoe, she'll find your money hot cuz she likes money, not cuz she likes you. She'll date you and probably be a stripper, have an only fans, or exploit naive dumb guys in other ways. You'll just be another in a string of dudes who got used. Your wallets got pumped and dumped. If she's a grown adult woman with a modicum of pride and self respect, she'll go get a degree and make her own fat stacks and she'll only talk to you if she actually likes you. If you're onl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:49 PM
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Do you realize how incredibly lazy and useless a man has to be in order to be flat broke his whole life beyond college? Why would a woman want to date a dude in his thirties who's too stupid and irresponsible to manage his money enough to not be broke? We're not all gold diggers just cuz we don't want to marry some gambler bum who's too inept to make a dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:43 PM
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No, they just don't want to emasculate their man. Making more than your man makes you feel like the man. We associate money with testosterone. We have the babies and care for the kids and make the house look nice, y'all bring us the resources we can do all that with. That was the deal for decades. If you want us to go out and bring in more bacon than you do, then you better be doing more cooking and cleaning and childcare and interior decorating than we are. Can't be sitting on your ass while we…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:40 PM
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You're proving their point. You're describing rich gold diggers who prefer the smell of their own farts to actually having a brain, being interesting, fun to be around, and not looking like cheap hookers who got handed a million dollars for no discernable reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:35 PM
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It's still prostitution, you're just paying for sex and companionship instead of just sex, and you have "exclusive rights" to her sex and companionship until she finds a higher bidder to sell her pussy and attention to. Why pay for that, when you can just get a hot, nice gf with her own money, and get all that stuff for free? Is it cuz you can't find it, or cuz you like spending money unnecessarily?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:30 PM
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Are y'all buying prostitutes and e-thots cuz you can't find a cool girl to marry? Is the sex that good, are they even that hot? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:24 PM
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Maybe if you're ugly but if you look good, either naturally or though looksmaxxing, then you can get more than 10%. Some women like money. Some like hot guys. Some like both. Some want love, some want hook ups. Depending on what type of woman you want (hot 21 year old gold digger who's waiting for you to die so she gets half your money, or a hot tradwife who loves you and will actually cry at your funeral) you can market yourself accordingly. I'll never understand the fascination with getting yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:21 PM
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The gold diggers will want your money, and gold diggers aren't incapable of being hot and using that to ensnare rich insecure men who are easily swindled by hot women giving them attention. The 21 year olds who want companionship and love and good sex won't want you unless you're also hot and cool and nice, in addition to being rich, and being rich won't be a prerequisite to their love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:14 PM
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What is with this "get hot girls" lingo? How many do you need to acquire? I think the "go monk mode" advice is just to get young dudes off the simp train, stop putting pussy on a pedestal, and stop pretending like chasing after hoards of hot girls is worth your time or money. The advice should be: work out, be healthy, don't be fat, dress well without being metro, don't get a broccoli haircut or an earring, don't get stupid looking tattoos of naked women or bloody knives going into zombie heads,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:45 PM
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Water is wet....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:37 PM
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Sometimes they do, cuz those men keep their low value traits on the DL. They know that beginning a first date with "I'm a porn addict with a gambling problem" isn't gonna get them very far. Other times, women will overlook low value traits because he's hot, pursuing her, and she thinks she can change him. You act like women never make poor choices when dating, never make mistakes, never choose the wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:36 PM
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Maybe for the men who cheated and got divorced by their wives. They lost a loyal stay at home mom. But the stay at home mom only benefits from being a single mom not shacked up with a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:37 AM
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Then you're talking about college hook up stats, not marriage stats
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:35 AM
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A hoe is someone who has sex for the sake of increasing n count, or because they enjoy having sex with strangers and aren't worried about high n count. But some people just have sex with people that they're newly dating, as another way to assess relationship compatibility. Talking only does so much. And if you're attracted to each other, and like each other, why wait, unless you are trying to prove to yourself or the other how chaste and morally righteous and selective you are? If you don't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:28 AM
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Most I've seen drop a hard working cheater / porn addict / gambler / other type of generic LVM, for singledom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:56 AM
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Yeah but women can get a sperm donor cheaply and easily if they want kids, while men getting a surrogate is more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:48 AM
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But it's the enemy who's a mysterious hot guy that she's not tied to. Not the enemy who's familiar, boring, fat, bald, lazy, messy, unemployed, who she's been married to for ten years and has grown to resent. No woman wants to hate fuck the ugly fat husband she's been forced to house for years because he won't get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:42 AM
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Guys just put up with way more than women do in general. They act like it's noble and admirable, but it's just a waste of life. Men invested more into the engagement. They had to shell out money for a ring, face rejection, and shoulder the burden of being the main bread winner. It's hard to walk away from something you've invested a lot in. Women's complaints tend to be about chronic habits the man has, like messiness, gaming, porn use, sexual incompatibilities, lack of effort with parenting, la…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:36 AM
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Never met one of those but it sounds like they're confusing piety and self control for, "I repell all women with my pretentious pearl clutching and don't have any more viable options."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:20 AM
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And high n count doesn't mean that he wanted to be promiscuous that whole time. Maybe he thought he wanted to date some of those women, but found out they only wanted to hook up. My bf told me this was very common for him. He's a good looking guy who attracted a lot of booty call type women, and he didn't realize that's all they wanted til after sleeping with some of them, cuz he assumed girls all wanted relationships lol. I said "honey no, girls can be as noncommittal as men."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:18 AM
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Depends on why the woman is promiscuous. Is she a sex addict? A young woman exploring life? An older washed up post wall forever hippie? A sex worker? A serial cheater / hoe? Or a lost lonely soul looking for a good man to make her boyfriend, who doesn't mind having sex early on, but is picky and tends to "next" guys easily / quickly? Or a naïve woman who's looking for love but keeps falling for players, getting pumped and dumped? Need more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:07 AM
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My parents gave me absolutely zero guidance whatsoever and I believe this COULD have contributed to me making so many rookie mistakes and not knowing my worth, ignoring massive red flags, etc. because I had nobody to talk to about my relationship problems aside from equally clueless female friends who had even worse standards than I did. My parents were also very blue pill, and I think I knew that on some level, blue pill wasn't for me. I'm more redpill woman. I think there's nothing wrong with …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:49 AM
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Did you even comprehend my comment, I just said SOME feminists try to include men in the body positivity movement, but that I've not seen this reflected much IRL. It's mostly in online marketing for men's clothing, from what I've seen - more fat guys modeling jeans, shirts, etc. for certain brands. I think Levi's was one of them. I'm sure there are others if you want to Google it. Circumcision is mutilation, I don't care what some crackhead feminazi told you, those hoes don't truly represent hum…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:45 AM
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Huh. I think both sexes are peak around 30-40, and that's only if you're climbing the socioeconomic ladder in your twenties, to the point where you're financially stable and responsible enough to start a family with. If I were a guy, I certainly wouldn't be thrilled with the majority of women in their 20s in college today. Maybe some of them look alright, but I wouldn't take any of them seriously in terms of dating. They'd just be passing flings, save the truly exceptional person. I think men wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:22 AM
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They can go kick rocks tbh hahaha. Some guys do the same thing, I just ignore it 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:16 AM
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Oh yeah I totally agree with you in that case. I think your stance is probably a pretty common one amongst women, at least, the ones who use their brains. There are certainly some radicalized feminists in college who go reeee at any mention that elective third trimester abortion is immoral. I also agree with you on the second trimester thing. I am also a woman with very long period cycles, every six weeks or so when I'm not on birth control. By the time I would miss a period and suspect that I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:59 AM
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If that's even true (I'm very skeptical) then bumble has become overrun by bots and the most idiotic and unrealistic women on the planet and I suggest you look almost anywhere else for a date. Obviously everyone deserves better than someone settling for them. But if you're chasing after these picky bumble crackheads, then isn't that you settling? Get off online dating my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:46 AM
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Do you even look up your stats before you post them? 95% is massively overblown and you know it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:05 AM
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People are allowed to reject others for not being a virgin or having a high n count. I don't see why anyone needs to complain about it. We don't all have to appeal to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:54 AM
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That's not picky, it's more or less my list except for you're targeting women lol. If anyone says you're too picky, there probably just having some insecurities triggered and it's 100% their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:52 AM
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A long laundry list that is intended to keep me from settling for relationships that make my life harder. Monkey business like being a hoe, flirting with others, whacking it to other girls, hanging out alone with other girls. Being politically polarized on either end. Being argumentative, as his default state. The "I'm just honest, sorry you have a problem with it" proud self professed assholes. Cussing, beer slinging, weed or cig smoking, what your boomer parents would consider "riff raff." Hor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:47 AM
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I think elective third trimester abortions are pretty doggone unheard of. Most Americans want limits. Most women don't just up and change their mind at that point. Usually if they get an abortion at that point, they wanted one all along but had just the worst luck on the planet and road blocks up the wazoo. In other words, horribly uncommon, but I'm sure it happens. I know you're using this as an example, but I think it might be worth checking out who's actually getting abortions during the thir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:40 AM
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You've never heard it to describe men because the term post wall originated in a male space where it was used to denigrate women over a certain age for being used up and of no use to men. It was a term invented by men, referring to a woman's looks deteriorating with age. But this obviously happens to men too. Just because Hugh Hefner could afford sugar babies til he died doesn't mean he was physically attractive to those women. Men use women for their money too. Maybe it doesn't happen as often,…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:20 AM
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I think the average person is post wall a lot earlier in life, some even as teens or kids. Average people aren't supermodels, they tend to need some help, and sometimes that help doesn't come until later twenties when you can afford fillers, jaw surgery, Botox, hair transplant, and have spent years perfecting your physique. And models who are naturally genetically blessed don't hit the wall til later in life. So while the wall exists, I think that realistically in the real world, it only applies…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:11 PM
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If you think most humans are so fragile and helpless that they are incapable of being functional adults without the help of some shrink, I think you're the one hiding in the tin can. Most of my friends and I have had shit happen in our lives. Childhood, teenage years, adult years. All sorts of abuse, you name it. And most of the people in my life are in healthy functional relationships. Not perfect, but they aren't cheating or abusing one another. Because they're all resilient, and capable of se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 10:32 PM
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Well duh hahaha. My point was everyone has demons and accepting that about a person is part of what love is. Their demons shouldn't cause them to behave poorly towards you though. That's a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:50 PM
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I don't think wanting a dude to try and make you come is prudish or selfish. I've also been one of the "kinkier, more giving" women in my younger years (not gonna go into details cuz it upsets me to think about it), when I felt pressure to keep up with that scene lest I be labeled a boring prude. I've grown out of that though. But I did see a lot of girls on an FDS thread talk about basically pretending to be into all the stuff their boyfriends wanted them to do, cuz the pressure to be cool enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:41 PM
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I think it depends on your definition of fun and status. For me, a high status actor is just as unimpressive as a low status actor cuz I don't care for artsy types or Hollywood/LA culture in general. He's one of the royalty of the poop planet, in my eyes. Along with characters like Weinstein and Chris Brown and Amber Heard, before they lost their crowns anyway. But I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:30 PM
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Yeah the older guys who used to creep on my friends and I were all, as the red pill gentlemen would say, post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:25 PM
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Oh yeah my city is the total opposite. Big liberal capital city in a liberal state, lots of soy ppl and free love hippies and business people and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:24 PM
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Man you are 21, quit worrying yourself on this toxic waste dump website with all the circle jerking and inexperienced incels and feminazis and arguing. Go experience real life. Reddit ain't shit. We all just come on here cuz we're bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:09 PM
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Yeah I'm a woman, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:05 PM
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I don't consider any of those things to be violent. But I don't think any of those things are going to result in most women having an orgasm, either. They seem more dude centric, and kinda power dynamic-y. And I think a lot of the FDS people have had experiences with men who were into the male centric, dick centric, power dynamic type sex, and tried to push it on them because that's just all they knew from the porn they watched, and from their exes who were either VERY giving partners, or just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:01 PM
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Same bar every time, or different ones? Same city? Maybe it's the area / bar in question. Cuz that seems disproportionately fighty lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:33 PM
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Not in my experience. They were mostly just creepin.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:32 PM
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Lol. So many people have childhood trauma and have perfectly healthy dating lives. Therapy isn't a prerequisite to being a good partner if you can already be one, and trauma isn't an excuse to be a shitty partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:30 PM
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Haha you're good, if you're happy then that's what matters. I was just spitballing cuz you said you wished you could work in STEM for the moolah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:52 AM
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I remember when I used to watch porn, I one day looked on the front page, and looked at the most popular stuff. It was all pretty vanilla. The reason I looked was because I'd been scrolling through FDS, and based on what a lot of people on there said, porn was now all pretty abusive and extreme. But the most popular stuff is pretty basic. Most people were watching the vanilla stuff, but only some were watching really extreme stuff. The bdsm stuff was just another small niche, and it wasn't what …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:26 AM
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No, porn is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:18 AM
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Hmmmm. So, in my experience with clubs, they're the place to see what 40+ year old men want (my friends and I), and see a bunch of 20-something dudes hang around on the sidelines looking lost and bored, while all the girls dance in a big group in the middle. Or, it's where you can see boomers dancing together. Or have a promotor hang off your arm and try to dance with you. With bars, I've had dudes talk to me unprompted. I assume I'm attractive enough. I've also talked to dudes unprompted, who I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:02 AM
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I ain't talking about you specifically, I meant the general you. I was referring to women actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:57 AM
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Kinda, but I've lived in some really dumpy inner-city areas with bums and trash everywhere. Definitely driven through absolute shit holes when I delivered food for my old job. Never seen a fist fight. My bf has, in his old high school. He said most of the kids were bussed in from a really run down area. I've gone clubbing and bar hopping loads of times in my states capitol city, which is currently a total shithole. Still never seen a fist fight. I have seen one dude yelling a lot at his gf at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:56 AM
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Well, biology is pretty low in math. That's what I majored in. I did have to take calculus though. There are also a lot of programmer jobs that don't really use math, that you don't need a degree for. Honestly, the math req for biology was completely useless and lame. I've never used calculus in any bio class. I almost wonder if someone could just get that waived if they showed some medical documentation that they had dyscalculia. I remember a deaf girl in my general chemistry class. That was ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:47 AM
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More successful with women: my bf. He's hot as hell, looks like a superhero from a movie. Dresses well. Unafraid to shoot his shot. Calm, chill, nonsmoker, gentlemanly. Based. Less successful: my ex. Fat, balding, missing a couple premolars, smoked, argumentative, and a doomer once he's comfortable enough around you. Cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:38 AM
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If you don't wanna date someone with childhood trauma because you might have to give up blowjobs, I'm pretty sure they won't wanna date you either, so it all works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:46 AM
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I am quality af, and I say that a hoe-y past is nbd, as long as they're not a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:24 AM
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Statistics also show that there are exceptions to every rule and the reason behind the n count probably determines more than the n count alone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:22 AM
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Hahahaha I'm dating a comp eng major with a more colorful past than mine and he got me to make a github. Take my upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:21 AM
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I think it's a view peddled by men with traditional conservative or religious values surrounding sex, which were often less forgiving for women than they were for men. It's probably just how those men were raised by their parents. They see sex as a sacred thing meant to be special, so they feel uncomfortable and alienated by women who have it so casually. Or, they are insecure and inexperienced and want someone who isn't gonna one up them with the n count thing, cuz it makes them feel even farth…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:11 AM
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I imagine you'll get different answers based on every woman. Not all women are into the stuff you listed. Plenty of guys are into the stuff you listed. I've often been the more vanilla one, dating men who wanted to do all sorts of stuff in bed that I was not comfortable with, that made me wonder if they hated women. I think it's just society today. I read somewhere that every twenty years or so, the generation of the day rediscovers BDSM and thinks they invented it. Maybe that's true, maybe not.…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 07:00 AM
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Are you only trying to look for dates in bars/clubs that are known for having fist fights? Cuz I've been to plenty of clubs, never seen a fist fight. They still wouldn't be my first choice for finding a date if I were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:42 AM
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Maybe most of the world just isn't as violent as wherever you grew up....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:33 AM
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I've never seen one either. Didn't grow up in the ghetto, don't hang out in areas where drunk brawly men or cash me outside ladies hang, and my school expelled people at the first incident of violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:30 AM
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Unless you have arachnophobia, you shouldn't kill the spiders. You should put them outside. Gently. So they can eat the mosquitos. Most women don't give a shit about spiders unless they're arachnophobes, or playing some damsel in distress role to make you feel tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:27 AM
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I cook sometimes, so does bf. I love cleaning, like professional level deep cleaning, because it's a hobby, but I expect him to do his part in managing his own messes. Sometimes he grabs my dirty dishes, sometimes I grab his. It's pretty 50/50 with us. He doesn't have to share my boner for professional cleaning YouTube videos lol. I expect him to pay when he can, about half the time. He's strapped for cash as a college student, I'm a trust fund baby. I fund our vacations, or we go dutch. I expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 06:21 AM
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I'm sorry, and that's unfortunate and I wish you the best. But most women can do math beyond the second grade level, so I don't think your reason is applicable for the majority of women who aren't going into STEM. And without knowing anything more about your situation, I am skeptical that it's the patriarchy's fault that you can't do math beyond the second grade level, or there would be many more women in your situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 05:58 AM
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I don't have enough people in the world who even know who I am for that to really make a difference in my life tbh but ymmv obvs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 06:31 AM
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I'm not asking them I'm asking you cuz YOU said it was unrealistic advice from the person you commented under
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:09 AM
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Then I don't see the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:07 AM
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They are a lil poo poo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:06 AM
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I totally agree, and men should too. I'm always refreshed when people are open like that, like they just have no shame or worries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 07:06 AM
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Nah usually it's cuz we think he wants the same things we want, but then it turns out he doesn't. So the relationship fails and we get all down about ourselves for having another failed relationship because it's sad and it hurts. It ain't so complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:07 PM
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Nah she's right. If a dude wanted a big titty blonde, I obviously wouldn't be dating him, or really caring to try to accommodate that. And if he wants a virgin, I also am not gonna be accommodating that cuz that ship sailed long ago. Why doesn't it add up in your eyes though?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:04 PM
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Just don't date the average woman, you can be picky. I wouldn't wanna date the women you're talking about either. I don't even hang out with those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 07:00 PM
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I would love to scoop you up and invite you to join my female friends and I on a girl's day out, so you can see what we actually talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:59 PM
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Why is it unrealistic to be nice? Are you one of the redpill dudes who think women only want assholes? And how is it socially unacceptable for a man to only date women of a certain type? How's anyone gonna even know if you have a type, except your friends and family, unless you're a celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:57 PM
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Maybe in radfem liberal circles this is true but there is a whole world beyond that bubble and I'm surprised by how few people on this sub want to acknowledge that. Maybe cuz most of y'all are college students surrounded by passionate liberal radfem women who are loud about their opinions, while the more conservative women are quiet for fear of being shunned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:53 PM
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Huh. Anti trans radfem is a new one for me. I've met zero pro feminist men and zero pro MRA women, IRL. I'm kinda sad about that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:50 PM
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I was 13 once, I ain't some sheltered Connecticut housewife. And I think that behavior extends well beyond 13 for many people. But I said I wish they wouldn't try to sell sex on IG or Twitter or whatever. Keep it on PH or OF. And I pray my kids aren't so dumb that they buy porn with my or their dad's card.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:42 PM
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Tell her what 👁️👄👁️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:45 PM
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Yeah and if you read my comment I was talking about men IRL who act like that un-ironically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:44 PM
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Idk. If some ex of mine is sharing my nudes, I think it's pathetic he still has them, and it makes him look worse than it makes me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:27 AM
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I was just explaining what I thought she was saying. I think she's talking about the women who try to be all into men's rights. I used to be, but now I only am on the inside because I've had guys be like "wow you're so cool for caring" and then completely scorn feminism and get pissy any time I brought up women's rights. They were fickle. Some feminists are like that too, they think it's cool when a man cares about women's rights, but they dismiss men's issues. I know it's more trendy to be femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:10 AM
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It's like paying for air from an air salesman just because she told you "my air is better than free air!" When it's the same exact air, same chemical composition. Seriously, why would you buy something that's free?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 10:43 PM
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They probably either won't be dealing with them for long, or they don't see those women as particularly difficult or outlandish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:55 PM
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Oh okay. Where I'm from, pump and dump has a lotta douchey connotations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 09:53 PM
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It's from American baseball. It means going up to fight their battles. She's saying stop advocating for men, because they don't do the same for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:48 PM
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Just risk being rude tbh. Or say "that's personal...." And raise an eyebrow and smile. Like you're mildly amused and surprised they'd ask, but you're not being mad or overly serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:37 PM
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This times a billion holy shit haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:36 PM
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Damn I gotta consider getting me a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:34 PM
2

Can you expand on this one? Do you mean like, "aiming to be more successful than you were, instead of aiming to be financially comfortable for life" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:31 PM
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Yeaj some women genuinely seem to be on crack (source: am a woman) but who really cares what those ones think / are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:26 PM
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Even if he's a nice guy, he might be like "Duuuuude look at this chick who just sent me her tits after two days" just like girls do when a guy sends a dick pic after two days, show their friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:25 PM
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You absolutely shouldn't settle, but you shouldn't go around with the goal of treating others like garbage. Have casual sex all ya like, but be cool about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:21 PM
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Stop selling porn online in such places that my kids could see it. I can avoid my kids being exposed to prostitutes in real life, but it's very hard to censor all the only fans ad accounts from a thirteen year olds Instagram or Twitter account. Participating in abusive porn. Women blame men's tastes for this one, but women are enabling it when they shoot those videos. Complaining about men as a whole, just because your boyfriend/exes, sucks/sucked. My exes sucked, I never EVER blamed that on men…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 08:16 PM
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While perhaps not an awful douchebag, very much a shouty insecure car salesman with something to prove. And his constant use of models as clickbait is cringey to most women. I understand we aren't his audience, but if he's trying to help men be appealing to women, he should probably say "do as I say, not as I do" once in a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:56 PM
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I've known of one couple who were both good looking, but the guy mistreated the girl pretty badly. She was always posting bikini pics of herself on social media, he didn't like it, but she wouldn't stop because she felt empowered that way or something. He got really nasty. Pretty surprising, because he was a handsome guy and could've easily gotten with another pretty girl who just didn't do that with her socials. But he acted like some possessive desperate incel with a scarcity mentality instead…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:54 PM
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I think promoting self love is good, but promoting delusional ideas is stupid. We shouldn't shame fat people, but we shouldn't coddle them either. And I find it hugely hypocritical when some fat people shame skinny people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:48 PM
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Shhhh don't let them hear
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:24 AM
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Sometimes my cervix wishes it were smaller but ya gotta make due
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 05:21 AM
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If that's the goal, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 03:23 AM
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Yeah that's a sad state of affairs. I don't condone that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:11 AM
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On my bf, his dick is big enough to fill my loose pussy energy lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:10 AM
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Yeah but you're talking about fit women, who are in high demand when single. So his odds of being the one to get in there and smash are proportional to both his looks, and his timing/circumstances, where he is, who's there at the same time, etc. The single women aren't just gonna knock on his door, no matter how good looking he is. Then again, you could say the same for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:04 AM
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I see it doesn't take much hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:01 AM
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Thanks! I feel lucky to have him too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:01 AM
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You could try dating better looking dudes, and making sure to not flaunt your beauty (on social media and IRL), lest you seem narcissistic. I've known beautiful girls who got treated like crap, cuz they dated douchebags, but they also attracted douchebags into their lives by being very flashy and thirst trappy, sending the low drama guys who want a humble gf running far away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 01:00 AM
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Good looking guys who harp on about their depression and low confidence seem SO narcissistic. They look like they just have no life, are too lazy to get out of their house and make friends, navel gazers who only see their own issues, and not much beyond it, and they don't even have the balls to fix their situation. They seem like those good looking emo chicks who posted thirst traps and said "IM SO UGLY" in high school. Ultra cringe. Napoleon dynamite mighta been kinda ditsy, but at least he was…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:40 AM
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I'd love to see that study. Women's studies majors span from die hard feminist male hating lesbians, to conservative stem majors who are just taking a women's studies class for funsies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:33 AM
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My bf is hot as hell, but that's partly because of how he dresses and the fact that he doesn't smoke. I've dated dudes who smoke, and I nagged them about it the entire relationship, and I didn't even find them that attractive. Our morals and values take a setback if we're lonely and bored enough to settle for a dusty and there are no better options vying for our attention, not necessarily because he's good looking. Some women are just total shut ins, and have to settle for the guys who talk to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:27 AM
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Some of us just don't like strangers approaching us jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:22 AM
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Many feminists do advocate for male body positivity and are all about inclusion, on paper. I've not seen this reflected IRL though. I think the body positivity movement should absolutely include men, but I also think it should include encouraging people to be healthy. Not "yes, you CAN be obese and healthy!" Obese women are more celebrated than obese men by feminists and companies trying to sell you things. This doesn't change men's average preference for a fit woman, and it doesn't change women…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 12:20 AM
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If they're doing a cold approach, I'm gonna be startled no matter what they look like, cuz I don't hang out in bars, I've not had the opportunity to get desensitized to the cold approach like some of my bar and club going friends have, and I'm just not comfortable with strangers coming up to me - whether it's "hey, you're really beautiful," or "ma'am are you a registered voter? please sign my petition" or "do you want this tiny bible?" So now we've established the fact that I am a deer in a head…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:48 PM
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I already hav boyfren But he say you have good taste and he give you high five
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 11:04 PM
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I don't see what's fun about vying for the attention of some old, washed up, post wall 50 year old, with hella people constantly surrounding him, demanding a piece of his time or attention. All of the women I know think that whole celebrity culture is just nonsensical. Maybe if you live in Hollywood, it's more like how you describe. You can easily find a fun, very attractive "Joe Shmo," and be best of buddies, go on vacations, have things in common with, and not have to "share" him with random b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:47 PM
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He can't, as you say, nail the majority of women, if the majority of those women are in relationships with other fit Chads. He can only nail the single ones. And idk how many women are single, if they're in a position to easily get a Chadlike bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:34 PM
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It's your looks and your personality. You don't get married for someone's looks, but you can't have sex with just their personality. That said, being good looking doesn't guarantee a good experience in bed. That requires looks and personality, unless you like a starfish, or a jackhammer who performs whatever they saw in porn with absolutely no soul behind it. Similarly, you can marry someone with a great personality, and have a good friendship, but if you're not attracted to them, it's gonna be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:56 PM
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I'm a woman and this cracked me up. I'm gonna start saying loose pussy energy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:44 PM
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Don't invade a girls personal space unless you know she wants you to, and it's a smart decision, not a hormone driven decision that you'll both regret later. I've had guys do that, and it made me uncomfortable. I did date one of them after, against my own better judgement, because I let my hormones take over. It was a horrible relationship with him constantly overstepping my boundaries, and the initial invading of my personal space was the first red flag I ignored out of many. Don't take my stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:41 PM
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MAYBE if I keep asking my neighbor for money he'll give me money. Maybe he will next month, or the month after, or after that. Or maybe he'll call the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:32 PM
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I'll meet you there, I'll bring the popcorn
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:16 PM
0

What if the majority of women who like fit men are dating fit men, not looking to be nailed by randos?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:12 PM
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Advertisers know what the majority of women want, but that majority could be anywhere between 51% and 100%. If you are concerned with dating as many women as possible, then advertise yourself as a gigachad. But if you wanna settle down with just one, then you can either do the gigachad thing and date a woman who wants that, or not be a gigachad, and date a woman who doesn't want gigachad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:10 PM
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Or if they wanna date a woman who wants to date an attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:05 PM
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I could see one of those guys reading this and thinking, "So what do women want?" And the answer is: it depends on the woman. None of my female friends date the same kinda guys. One liked fat guys, one liked dating tall white guys she met online, one liked short skinny guys, one ended up liking girls, one likes whoever she can get security and commitment out of. If I ever have a son, I'll tell him to never worry about what women want, but to figure out what he wants, and then try to live by thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 08:03 PM
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Huh. I disagree. I think celebrities are overrated, same with fame. I'd rather be a financially comfortable nobody, so I can walk around through the world without having to worry about paparazzi or deranged obsessed fans trying to steal my hair for voodoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:15 PM
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If you're a maidenless dude, it depends why you're maidenless. Is it cuz you're extremely objectively and subjectively unattractive to everyone who sees you? Or maybe, have a horrible personality? Or give off bad vibes, and people avoid you in general? That's one thing. If you're shy and just a diamond in the rough waiting to be picked up by some maiden wandering through the wild, then hopefully you have your heyday and may your children be strong and brave. As for women: if you've had a string …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:22 AM
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I think it's entirely possible you're right, but my heart goes out to any of them who really did just wanna love him, and got their hearts broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:08 AM
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Multiple years long relationships back to back is pretty much textbook serial monogamist lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:04 AM
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You really don't get it. Nobody here seems to. It's confounding. Him dating younger women, at his age, and then dumping them as soon as they turn 25, is not something all guys do. It's not normal, it's abnormal, because MOST guys are capable of loving women after their 25th bday. But apparently Leo isn't one of them, or he is, but the relationships he's been in were never based on love. I wouldn't be surprised if it was transactional - he gets free sex with a supermodel (wow, what a feat) they g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:55 AM
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What did I demonize? Old people dating young people with the specific intention of exploiting the younger person's naïvety for personal gain, NOT age gaps in general. I don't give a shit about people's age gaps. There are some big ones in my family, and they're lovely relationships, very wonderful people. I don't see that and go, "ahh! Demons!"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:44 AM
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I'm aware. I was referring to the naïvety that accompanies one's early twenties, that causes a person to make poor dating decisions. I think most people outgrow that by around 25. I was not referring to something fixed, like one's IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 12:42 AM
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Less women getting married means less brides for all of the men to choose from, and more competition for those few remaining brides between the pool of unmarried men. Men will have to secure a bride asap, if they want kids. Or, adopt. Or, wait around for a married woman to get a divorce, so they can marry the divorcee. Who has already had kids, and doesn't necessarily want any more. Women on the other hand will be single, and work to support themselves and their cats, or their lesbian wives/gfs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:26 AM
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Where is my hipocrisy? You didn't refer to anything I actually said. Just stuff that I imagine other women have said, on here. You were all "you and other women are so desperate to make men's preferences into a moral issue" when I did no such thing. If you read what I said. I was careful to distinguish that I was only talking about the minority group of dudes who have jailbait fetishes, or seek younger women out with the intent of grooming them. If you don't think that exists, then I envy you an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:11 AM
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Ya just gotta wait for them to sit down, then grab the hair scissors and pomade, it's all a strat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:04 AM
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Yeah. His dating history seemed like serial monogamist to me. Almost like he takes a young model under his wing, has fun for a while, then says okay ttyl Ms. Lady
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:02 AM
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If you can afford a bunch of kids, and your relationship with your wife is solid, and y'all are both healthy and drug free and have a house, have at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:53 AM
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I'm definitely not saying incels "aren't man enough to rape." Idk how you gathered that at all, cuz it was not at all what I wrote. I think that sentiment, that rape = having balls, is gross as hell and whacky af. I was saying that being celibate isn't a bad thing like the incels seem (to me) to be claiming. Being celibate means choosing not to have sex. Not "being without sex." But CHOOSING to abstain from sex, for personal reasons. Celibacy is a choice to be abstinent, to decline any offers or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:49 AM
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I'm not moving goal posts. I don't really have a horse in this race. I'm not the law. It's just my random musings. You don't have to agree, but I'm not gonna just edit my thoughts just because you misunderstood it as "trying to make rape and incel a circle." I was saying it's two separate circles. But you didn't get that, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:20 AM
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So date young virgins without tattoos, who want kids. They won't judge you for being into them. Are you only surrounded by women with tattoos who don't want kids? Do you think 30 year old men who ONLY date 18 year olds are the norm? Don't you think it'd be weird? I do. I think a 30 year old woman who wants to date teens is weird too. I don't think they're pedos, LIKE I ALREADY SAID EARLIER. I said MAYBE ebephiles. And if that's the case, I don't give a shit. Do whatever you want. Date 18 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:13 AM
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Sorry, prepare for the wall of text. I'm trying to answer your question. Cuz taller guys can't, by merit of being tall, be exploited for youthful naïvety and groomed. They can still be groomed. But not because they're tall. Being young is a disadvantage to women who want to avoid being groomed by whackos. Because with youth comes naïvety coupled with a "it won't happen to me!!!" invincibility complex that is left over from adolescence. They can date legally, but they don't have the tools to dete…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:17 AM
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I am a woman. I probably know more about being a woman than you do. But I've met no shortage of men on here who are so emboldened as to think they know better, and that I have a bird brain. It makes me wonder about their sanity. Maybe some are throwing themselves at him. But if he had so many women throwing themselves at him, why settle down with just one, when he can have many? Isn't that what guys like him want? To have casual, no strings attached sex, with as great a variety of white, blonde,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:35 AM
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sorry for the wall of text :/ whoopsie They're not involuntarily celibate, they're voluntarily celibate. Yeah rape isn't sex. I know. I'm not equating the two. Bear with me. Incels are only focused on their wants. They're seeing "lack of sex" as a bad thing. When it's a good thing, because people feel comfortable saying no to them, and we don't live in some rapey caveman society. Women have a choice. We can say no. Guys who bitch about being "incels" are really just bitching about women exercisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:24 AM
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I apologize for the wall of text. Don't feel like you gotta read it. He wasn't rapping about it, just wrote one rap about it and left it laying around. And it wasn't explicitly rape, was just something to the effect of "I'll fuck your bitch and abort the fetus" which I took to imply that his rap persona in the song didn't care about the girl's consent, since he was aborting her fetus and feeding it to dogs. I was very shocked when I discovered it and dumped him on the spot. Yes there were red fl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:01 AM
1

"help, the puns are oppressing my religion"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:26 AM
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I agree. The word incel means, "involuntarily celibate." But they're voluntarily choosing not to rape women, so really, they are all volcels. Voluntarily celibate. And that's a good thing, but they act like it's a bad thing, because they falsely believe that simply wanting sex means they "should" at any point be able to get it. I want a million dollars, but you won't see me complaining about all the men who refuse to give me a million dollars, and becoming sexist over it. Because I respect their…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:45 PM
1

I need an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:06 PM
1

Did you systematically use fake promises or "strats" and try to lure them into dating you, under false pretenses of liking them for who they are, and then heartlessly dump them the minute they aged out of some arbitrarily decided number? That's why it's yuck cuz it seems like that's what leo is doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:17 PM
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Smart people shouldn't date dumb people with the intent to exploit said dumbness for personal gain. Old dudes shouldn't con young women into a relationship if their intention is to use them for sex until they age out. They should be honest and, if the young woman knows, then all is good. She's consenting with her eyes open. Not being swindled with false promises. He could've just banged hella 20 year olds. Why settle down with one, if he's only in it for her looks? How does he keep that "I love …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:10 PM
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Yeah but there's truth behind the jokes, otherwise they'd make no sense. And RG was calling Hollywood folks out lol. Several of the attendees were visibly cringing when it was their turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:08 PM
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I didn't have any trauma, just picked dudes who seed nice at first and then changed. If, in the beginning, they had acted the way they did at the end of the relationship, I never would've dated them. Anyone can get into a relationship with someone who's just putting on a good front. Ya just gotta leave at the first deal breaker moment. That was my mistake, but it wasn't due to trauma, it was cuz of already fallen in love and wanted to fix things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:05 PM
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People usually laugh as a startle response to something they find unexpectedly funny. Maybe your joke was just low hanging fruit cuz we've heard all the women bad stuff so many times, and sarcasm is pretty easy to do. Kinda just induces a "har har, okay" eye roll smirk response. I give it a 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:57 PM
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Well everyone is young once. Short guys were never tall. So....it's kinda similar. But with age often comes wisdom and experience, and sometimes a certain "set in their ways" stubbornness. With height, it's just a physical thing that's never gonna change except during puberty, and sometimes in a man's 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:54 PM
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Bro if it really is consensual and the older party isn't some perv, then I guess it's fine, not gross. But to me, 18 years is still kind of a kid, and I'm skeptical that it's purely consensual, and that there's absolutely no grooming involved. THAT to me is gross. Abuse is gross. Huge massive power imbalances coupled with naïvety and ignorance of one person, and opportunistic creeping of the other person, is gross to me. It's not an age thing, it's a moral thing. Just cause something looks conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:51 PM
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You really think men are all, "Wah wah she groomed me with her giant knockers in a superhero costume wahhhh I was so defenseless before the boobs WAAHHHH" That's kind of insulting to men don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:39 AM
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I don't actually care, I don't like debating religion either. But where did they even say they were religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:32 AM
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If you have to explain your jokes, or tell someone they're funny, then No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:31 AM
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26 isn't old, dafuq
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:30 AM
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I'm "attacking" people for being grossed out by grandparents dating teens? Am I also attacking brussel sprouts for thinking they're nasty too? Or scat fetishes? Not everyone has to find everything erotic, you know. Just as someone is allowed to say "ooh that's so hot" so too am I allowed to say "that's nasty." That isn't me sticking my nose in, or trying to police shit. They can be as nasty as they please, in fact, I encourage it if it makes them happy. I still personally think it's gross. Get o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:29 AM
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I didn't really think you did, I was just trying to clarify what the person you were replying to had originally said. Idk why they said "don't call women sluts and dudes studs" to you specifically, or why some women seem to think all guys do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:07 AM
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I've been in committed relationships pretty much constantly since I was 19. Obviously I accepted all the dudes I dated. Some, I made it clear I was interested in them. Some asked me out, others it just kind of happened. Some didn't bite. About three asked me out when I definitely wasn't giving them any signs that I was interested. With my current bf, I thought he was hot, but figured he just wanted to be friends. Even though he basically invited himself clubbing with me, one on one, on new years…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:01 AM
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We don't want to be seduced cuz it sounds very gamey
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:36 AM
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I loved a bunch of broke dudes. We broke up cuz two cheated, and one was writing rap songs about raping women and aborting the fetuses and feeding them to his dogs. The relationships started out good enough for me at the time, but their true colors came out in the end. I was young and dumb and picked wrong. But I still loved who I thought they were, at the time. Maybe it's cuz I'm already financially secure. I have another friend who's been with this broke guy for years, and she's a trust fund b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:32 AM
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And ad hominem attacks are sloppy debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:21 AM
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Am 27, just now graduating lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:15 AM
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Five to ten I guess. With a big range
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:15 AM
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My high n bf has never cheated on anyone, but two of my lower n exes cheated. I think it depends why someone is high n. If it's cuz they are horny opportunists who pump and dump, then of course they'll also cheat if they ever find themselves in relationships. But more often, my experience was with low value men who cheated when an equally low value woman all but threw themselves at them. That is to say, confident high n people often seek it out more than low n people do, and tend to be more attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:02 AM
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It's not funny on a sub where so many guys say this without the /s at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:53 AM
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Paternity fraud?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:43 AM
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In my evolutionary bio class, the professor called the individuals who couldn't mate, "losers." Cuz they lose out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:40 AM
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Women aren't people, remember? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:10 AM
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Sooop many modern people today wouldn't have survived 8000 years ago. Now we are so crowded and there's all these people alive who wouldn't have been alive back then. Hell, I would've died from a UTI at 19 haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:10 AM
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"Given geographical considerations, time, and intermarriage between clans, what was once a significant amount of variation in Y-chromosome differences would shrink to favor those who were strongest according to natural selection" TRP is equating natural selection to "women mate choice." Of course the strongest survived. Such was the case with women of that era too. Of course there was little Y chromosome variation, if you keep all of the male descendants around, and the women don't offer any Y c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:05 AM
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He's a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:55 AM
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It's nasty when old ass women date 18 year old men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:50 AM
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My bf said it made him mad to see some wealthy socially immune dude just discard women the second they turn 25. Ricky Gervais called him out too. It ain't all FDS ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:48 AM
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Nah Leo gets shit for it from men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:47 AM
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Leo ain't even a Chad, he's an old dusty pudgy dude bro
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:45 AM
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She didn't say you have to be okay with a woman's sexual past. She said you can't call them sluts, while calling men studs. You can have preferences. Nobody said you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:44 AM
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No, there are chads who settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:32 AM
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I've seen only two relationships with the woman much older, but they were lovely happy relationships. So....your anecdotal evidence doesn't really prove that women being older makes them toxic. Just happens to be something you've witnessed. Maybe they were toxic people in general. How was your sister in previous relationships? Or as a person in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:24 AM
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It puts the lotion on its skin
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:14 AM
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Yes cuz men are robots incapable of forming bonds with women that are over the age of 25, everyone knows that. I better go tell my bf to dump me, cuz I'm am old and ugly at 27, and he needs to be free to bang 25 year olds forever in order to be fulfilled as a man. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:14 AM
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They kind of are though. Their brains aren't fully mature and they think they know everything, but they don't. I was dumb as rocks then, and so were many guys I dated. We were all dumb college kids. He's not a pedo, but it's kind of sad seeing all these women get dumped over something so trivial as their age being over 25. I'd say the same if he were a lady doing this to men. Or if he were gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:11 AM
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I don't bat an eye at older women going after younger men. But Leo ain't a dilf so I don't think it's a good comparison. I think the issue women see is that he's dumping long term partners the second they turn 25-ish. It seems like he's just using them, and we wonder if those women signed up for that knowingly, or if they were young and naive and thought it would be different. If they were using him for his money then who cares, fair is fair. But if they genuinely thought he liked them, only to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:07 AM
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He's old as hell and dumps them systemically the second their brains are fully developed. If a woman did this, I'd say the same thing. It's pretty yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:46 AM
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I think they're totally fine. I think dumping someone because they age out of your preferred dating rage is a good way to end up old and alone, or have a reputation as a heartbreaker shallow bad boy like Mr. DiCaprio, who never struck me as a catch anyway. Idk what got into those women who dated him, surely they knew better after the third time he pulled this little act, but we've all done stupid things. So I don't care what he does, or what any other celebrity does. Age gaps are nbd, as long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:45 AM
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The more attractive someone is, man or woman, the more their odds of success go up. Women generally want a guy who is physically their type, and who they vibe with. They don't want average men because the average man isn't very attractive to us. In my country, the average guy my age is quite varied (there are lots of differences, depending on his socioeconomic status and his cultural environment), but some themes I've seen that span the many different subcultures in my area that I'd say are deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:30 AM
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I already have a bf, and am not compatible with the vast majority of guys. So idc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:20 AM
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Neither my current bf, nor any of my exes, had a 98% fail rate when it comes to dating. That's absurdly high. I'd wager half my income that it's something major to do with the guy in question. If a woman had a fail rate that high, I'd say the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:15 AM
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I'm sure that's possible. My experience hasn't been that way. I've never been a guy either, so I can't compare first hand. If I were a guy, I wouldn't want the town bicycle girl. I'd want a picky lady cuz it'd boost my ego. So I'd be fine with the majority of women being picky. Cuz wouldn't want them if they weren't. I'd want to feel chosen, not settled for cuz I was the closest slab of man meat in a five mile radius. Now, if they are being really rude in their rejection of men, then that's also…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:17 PM
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Flirt with her, don't flirt with other girls, make your interest clear, ask her out. If she says no, on to the next one. Being short doesn't prevent you from dating. It might mean some people say no. Maybe the majority. But unless you're poly, you're only gonna be dating one, and that's a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:46 PM
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I don't see why it matters what most women care about, unless you want to date most women you come across. Most people aren't worth dating imo. You might stumble across one that you vibe really well with. But there's no strategy that will guarantee success.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:30 AM
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It very well might be a gimmick but I'm about to find out. I wore them today and I think my knees look less turned in when I'm using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:22 AM
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Spoken like a true *human who isn't into kidnapped slave marriage dynamics lol. You can't just date whoever you want, if they don't also wanna date you. That ain't true woman, that's true everyone my dude. Your description of this "reality" only shows half the picture. First, someone likes someone, man or woman. Usually the guy asks the girl out, but not always. Sometimes it's a yes, sometimes it's a no. This is the general reality for all of my female friends, and all the guys I've talked to ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 07:01 PM
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I mean garbage ppl exist. Slavery used to be widespread. Just cause someone hates short men, y'all shouldn't care, cuz those ppl are idiots and will hopefully get their karma. Literally do not lose sleep over the ratchet troll women. Please. It's like losing sleep over pedos, sure they're out there, in larger numbers than they should be, but you don't gotta associate with them. I'm sorry they're not being called out more. The tall guys being their props should be ashamed of themselves imo. I'm s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:36 PM
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All my friends are unicorns too I guess haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:33 PM
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You only need to date one imo but maybe I'm old fashioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:30 PM
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Or just.... fabulous single women who travel and have lots of friends, volunteer, lead rich lives. It's what you make of it. Marriage can kill your social life, being single can open opportunities you wouldn't necessarily have otherwise (depending on who you could've married). Cats are good and need homes too btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:30 PM
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Definitely goes both ways. I also know a girl who had a slew of lousy guys, has now been happily with a woman for years. Definitely no one way to live. A wise man once told me, "You can kinda just wing it."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah idk what's wrong with the rule. If someone doesn't like it, they don't gotta follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:23 PM
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What are you on about? Other than the chery picking your suit your narrative. I actually shared this convo with my bf and told him that I will have to reluctantly break up with him, because loving him means that I hate short men, and him not complaining is a deal breaker. Did you read the part where none of my short exes except for ONE were complaining about their height? Also, they all had plenty of gfs before and after me. Including the bitter complainy one. And they were all broke except the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:04 PM
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Use common sense. Do I need to say that? :/ I meant don't be a jerk, or skeezy, like some dudes are on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:01 PM
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Cats are awesome. I'd gladly be a crazy cat lady. They can eat my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 06:00 PM
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It's my first language. It didn't used to be like this and I'm only 27 so that shows you how recent it's declined. Of course, I grew up in upper middle class suburbia, kinda sheltered from trashier areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:59 PM
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I've never seen any of that. That girl sounds ratchet af. Where'd you find that, pornhub? Normal women don't act like that, please don't lump us all together with the ratchet eThots and bridge troll ladies. :/ Seriously, it's like reverse FDS, finding the bottom of the barell, or a few instances of it, and trying to pass these cretins off as "all women are like this." Why would y'all even give one iota of a thought to some hoe spewing some short-hate? That's so random too like wtf. It's like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:31 PM
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I'm uncivilized lol okay buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:20 PM
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I had the same experience in high school, I was always the wallflower who got ignored. It hurt sometimes. But fuck those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:20 PM
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You didn't even comprehend what I said :( I said "it was never an issue to me except for with one guy" because THAT particular guy was soooooo bitter and spiteful about it. The others? Was never even brought up, except for one who saw his shortness as a perk for at work, which I thought was cool cuz it sure beats having to listen to insecure ramblings. How are they treated differently, and is it really this horrible thing that I'll just never understand in my woman brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:16 PM
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Okay, since y'all think you know how this all works, what's there to even talk about? Your minds are made up. Waste of time coming on here isn't it? Anecdotal evidence that's true for every single woman who's dating, or dated, a short guy. Or every short guy who isn't a handholdless virgin. Almost like there are OTHER factors that also exist, and that height ISN'T a factor for every woman. I've literally never had a gal pal mention height as a thing that matters. But hey, my anecdotal evidence i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:09 PM
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He's the only short guy I've dated who was so vocally annoyingly insecure about it, the others were way more self assured and chill. And yeah, okay, so should I just dump my current bf cuz he's tall? I love him. I don't need to only date short or tall men to prove some dumb point to you. Some women like tall guys, some don't care one way or another. Some even like short guys. I don't care. Did you even comprehend what I wrote? Y'all cherry pick like you're getting paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 05:01 PM
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I have the same leg posture thing. I do a lot of abduction machine, and skip the adduction machine. I also try to be mindful of where my knees are pointing and correct it when I notice them pointing in. You might also have tight hip flexors and tight gracilis. Google those muscles, and stretches for them. Do the stretches every day, twice a day. I talked to a physical therapist about it, and that's the advice she gave me. You might just have tight hips from sitting. Anything that works out the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:55 AM
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I work out with my boyfriend every day. We lift weights. We both have similar routines, but he can lift heavier than I can, and uses more free weights (squat rack instead of Smith machine, bench press instead of chest press machine). Here's my routine: Leg day: hip thrusts, deep smith squats, leg press, Romanian deadlifts, hip abduction, hamstring curls, leg extension, dumbbell standing calf raises. Pull day: wide grip assisted pull ups, cable rows, reverse flys on the pec fly machine, hammerhea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:31 AM
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It's in the definition. Fuck boy, as in fuck around. With women's heads, hearts, in their bed, then they fuck off and ghost. That's what 99% of women mean when they say fuckboy, at least, that's how it was in my day. I'm 27. Idk what gen Z kids say nowadays. Promiscuous is fine, fuckboy has a negative connotation. Unless the promiscuous guys are taking the word back? Or the fuckboys are getting mad and saying "we do care about women! We are nice people!" Then they aren't fuckboys. They're just p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:08 AM
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Men literally do the proposing still today. He doesn't have to choose anyone he doesn't wanna choose. "Forever alone vs whoever picks him" Yes! He cannot be with a woman who doesn't also want to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:05 AM
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You said fuck boys have extramarital affairs, and the devotion of hella women. He said fuck boys are toxic rude people. Y'all are in agreement. Egotistical cheaters who keep harems ARE toxic to their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:53 AM
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An alpha Chad type that chops wood with his father, with a nice tradwife that is a fun person for me to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:49 AM
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Nah. I'm a serial monogamist with rbf who never leaves my house. The times I have been single and left the house, I've gotten into relationships pretty quickly, and retreated back into the house again. The house is where I shall remain, if everything goes according to plan. The house is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:47 AM
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Never been attracted to a guy I thought was ugly. That said, I've been attracted to some guys that other women have told me look "unusual." But those guys tended to have other girls who were into them. Think celebrity dudes who look a bit unique, not glossy cookie cutter Chris Hemsworths, more the Benedict Cumberbatch dudes. Or the Matt Bellamy dudes. Plenty of women think those dudes look good, even though they look unusual. And Matt Bellamy is like 5'7 or something, married to a supermodel who…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:38 AM
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The shirtless gym selfies are a bit juvenile and come off as conceited/vapid/attention seeking to a lot of people, so I can see how that'd be a red flag to a potential employer. Lots of women don't like it either, they can see it as feminine and even fuckboy-ish sometimes. Employers in particular have sooo many qualified applicants, that it makes sense they wouldn't wanna hire someone who seems young, or really into themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:29 AM
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I'm not on social media, and have always found it a turn off when guys are, like they're more feminine than me or something. Or more likely to be fuckboys. Obviously that's my issue, but not all girls are into the gram and stuff. My bf is basically MIA from socials, and it's so hot imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:26 AM
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I think men should figure out what they really want, and ask for it nicely. I don't think they should use anything (gym, social media, strategies, games, etc.) with the expectation that it's going to "get" them sex or dates with women. I don't like how some guys talk about women like were something to be acquired, a goal, or a game to score a win, using some sort of strategy. Whether it's our attention, our bodies, or whatever, they want to win it, more than they want to relate to us and have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:22 AM
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I'd be like "yo, why u ugly tho"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:11 AM
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27F. Workout buddy, hiking buddy, cooking buddy, cleaning buddy, and I've been told I'm good at the sex thing. I also don't own any snakes or spiders. And I don't push people to do things they don't wanna do. And I have never cheated on anyone, and I follow the mike pence rule, of not having any male friends. I also am patient, according to my bf. And I'm "pretty." And I have a dog who is well behaved and is a good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:07 AM
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I imagine they're smart and live in high rise apartments and are career oriented. Or they are deadbeat rejects of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:06 AM
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The prettiest princess
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:04 AM
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Like....if they have the odd sex fantasy now and again, or if they get some intrusive thoughts about having sex with us, then that probably isn't necessarily a threat to our well-being. If they're obsessing day and night about "railing" us, all one-sided, just doing us, like we're some body to smash, and they are the crazy stalker type, then that would probably be an issue. I think we assume if a guy friend is consumed with thoughts of "ohmygod I wanna rail her so bad" then maybe he sees us more…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:01 AM
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Haha I thought that about "rail" too lol. Kinda crass imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:46 AM
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I don't know if I have guy friends per se. I have female friends, and I'm friends with their male partners too, but I wouldn't want to hang out with those guys one on one. My boyfriend has male roommates who I've kicked it with in a group setting, and they've all been cool, but I don't know if I'd consider them friends. If any of them wanna "rail" me, then that's too bad for them. It doesn't affect my relationship with my bf. I literally have never thought of this lol. Seems pretty silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:45 AM
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All my exes were short. It was never an issue to me, except for with one guy. Why? Because he would complain that, "all women want tall Chads!" To anyone who would listen, while I was happily dating his short self. Nothing I said made a dent in his stubborn insecurities, or his insistence that "all women" (a hive mind) want tall guys. And that I secretly wanted a taller guy too. When in reality, I couldn't have given less of a shit. I had liked tall guys, I had liked short guys, it did not matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:59 PM
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Assuming they are straight, as this question postulates: "son, figure out what kind of woman you want to be with, and then do the work you need to do in order to be the kind of man she'd want to be with. If you don't want to date a lazy slob, don't be one either. If you don't want to date a nut, don't keep dating a woman who's revealed herself to be a nut. Don't complain about women in a broad sense, and don't date a woman who complains about men in a broad sense. Be polite and courteous, but do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:21 PM
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I like to call out the bullshit and serve the red pills to frustrated folk
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:27 AM
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My bf says I wear the pants lol. I like that he's sweet and sensitive and not a machismo type. He likes that I work out with him. I definitely prefer his tendency to try and make me happy to my more stubborn "I do what I want, you can't control me, mom!!!!" loud and unnecessarily rebellious ex. Definitely not into physically feminine looking guys though. Current bf is sweet and mild mannered. But looks like a total chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:24 AM
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On tinder? A ridiculous amount that surprised me. IRL? Every day by my bf, never by other men when I'm out with him but he says teen dudes stare at my butt when I'm not looking. I don't leave the house much. Definitely been catcalled, but it's more common in trashy neighborhoods and has less to do with what I look like that day. Have been complimented in nicer cities, and when I worked as a cashier. It's usually the odd dudes who say something nice then scurry away. And a frat bro looking guy on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:18 AM
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Water is wet lol. What it sounds like you're saying is "players don't actually have a magical technique that works on all women, and it's not fair that we have to be attractive, and cold approach so many women, before one will sleep with us" Just stop doing cold approach, cuz by your own admission, 95% of us don't like it. If all you want is casual sex, maybe try grindr...lol jk. Women aren't generally wired to wanna fuck hella guys cuz sex has a biological cost to us - pregnancy, more resources…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:11 AM
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NO COLD APPROACH. Literally just be normal and talk to us. It's not hard. I have seen so much agonizing over this and it's like....just be normal. Be yourself. One will stick eventually. What worked for my bf was: be hot, ask me if there are "any good new years parties going on tonight," say "I'm down" when I mentioned wanting to go out to a club and rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:56 AM
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My bff vouched for my current bf as "not a serial killer" when he asked me to go on a road trip to SoCal very early on in dating. We've been together just four months now but I haven't been serial murdered once. Not even a little bit. 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:54 AM
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People are largely driven by loneliness and boredom, moreso than their better judgement. If people were logic and common sense driven, there would be no druggies or violent criminals. Don't "yeah but what about this" me in the comments btw, I'm sooooo right. About everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:52 AM
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My point is they don't become celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:45 AM
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Yeah I'm familiar with the big five personality model. I guess my point is what are ya gonna do about it, if it's a deeply ingrained thing? I don't really care about the exceptions to the rules cases, cuz I think the exceptions still follow general trends. For example, life is always stressful, but if someone goes apeshit in response to grief or illness, they're probably not the most stable in regular life. It's rare a woman is nauseous for nine months, but if that's the case, she'd be fine once…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:44 AM
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Yes cuz trashy single moms don't have an equivalent trashy single dad out there. Dink.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:33 AM
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Why would you even take tinder seriously lol it's a garbage fire
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:32 AM
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Lol like they're any worse than mgtow tho. Who I guess got banned too. Censorship can suck my lady d though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:31 AM
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Yeah we just live in wildly different realities I guess. I don't think men's libido is, as a rule, completely tied to their partners age. I think there's more variation than what a lot of people on this sub want to allow for, and it's pretty depressing to live in a world where one is going to have less sex just cuz they get a few wrinkles here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:29 AM
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Hm. Yeah I don't necessarily disagree with that, just the OP's stance that 30+ women aren't attractive to men anymore. We wanna be attractive to our partners, and it's easier to believe that our partner is into us if we know that we appeal to men as a whole. It makes our bf's or husband's compliments more believable if we see ourselves as attractive. Women at all ages are neurotic about their looks IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:15 PM
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I'm literally not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 09:05 PM
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Lol all the guys my bf thinks look good I'm like "nah, hard pass." And I've thought some dudes were attractive in my teen years that were absolutely not conventionally good looking, but they were in bands or whatever, and teen girls to be losing their shit over band dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:54 PM
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I'm 26 and in a relationship and I'd consider myself pretty damn sexy. I come on here to debate and dole out my sagely wisdom cuz of massive ego. FDS is right about some things even if you don't like their toxic delivery, I personally don't care for their male bashing. And they didn't get banned btw, they just went underground or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:50 PM
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Okay well the OP post was basically saying women stop being attractive to men past 30, and I think that's a load of baloney which I provided anecdotal examples for. I do think I'm pretty cool as a matter of fact. 😎 You're free to share your anecdotes too my friend. If you have anything to counter what I said, any evidence pointing to the contrary that says women AS A WHOLE are completely sexually undesired by men AS A WHOLE when they turn 30, feel free to put it forth. Because that's what the OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:42 PM
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Men like good skin, okay, water is wet lol. Women like good skin and bodies and hair too. I don't see your point. Humans like good looking humans. I think older women can still look good if they take care of themselves, most just choose not to. Probably cuz they don't care. They're fine looking old and saggy. Or poor. Makeup doesn't even hide aging, it exacerbates wrinkles, and there's nothing worse than dark black eyeliner on an old wrinkled sunken eye. Good bone structure is a must, along with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 08:25 PM
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I'm not referring to young women getting cast as milfs, I'm talking about women who objectively look like they're of the age to have had kids by now, which is usually the cougar aesthetic. If she's 18 and it says milf, that's just the video trying to get more clicks. Like "step sis" in the title, but the people in the video don't do any step sibling roleplay. It's just a title that has nothing to do with the video, used as clickbait. But there's a lot of ugly girls in porn so maybe porn isn't al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:44 PM
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So one outta a bazillion. She was prolly groomed too. Poor girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:17 PM
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Well I'd rather be neurotic in a clean home than a relaxed stoner in a garbage heap lol. Maybe women are more neurotic, maybe not, but I've met plenty of men who don't live like slobs, and plenty of women who do. I think you figure out who a person is before marriage and if you're being honest, some people have escapist tendencies and those are red flags. Attitudes about drugs is something that should be discussed beforehand. Yeah women work less when pregnant, but I don't think they have to, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:15 PM
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Girl what dudes are you dating? Reconsider ASAP. Even my low value porn adicted ex wasn't so bad that he couldn't find me attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:07 PM
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Oh I definitely don't think that's men as a whole, just the low value ones. And I think confident, well groomed, and good hygiene are prerequisites for me being friends with anybody. But it's not enough for me to date them, I also have to be attracted to their face/body, but that's subjective. What I find attractive, another woman might not, and vice versa. If you're around guys who are that porn sick, ya gotta dump em, they're just low value, nothing more to it. I've never met a guy who's turne…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 07:05 PM
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A-friggin-men sista! And I get that a lot on Reddit about ppl thinking I'm a dude haha it's all good. Thanks for sharing, I'm glad it all turned out well :) I love hearing stories like this. Give your dude a big ole hug today haha. God bless the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:58 PM
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It's just a bunch of sad folks throwing stones, who have PIED and can't find natural women attractive anymore. I guess. Imagine being unable to find a man attractive unless he had pec implants. Lol. Such cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:20 AM
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Dude. On the way to being financially comfy means he's not a broke ass. I'm not gonna be a sugar momma. I want an equal. I'm not a gold digger just cuz I don't wanna drag a little McDonald's worker around while I'm making 80k minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:15 AM
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I never told you to shut up, I'm not that tacky/rude. I'm on this sub cuz I find it entertaining. I just don't take this stuff that seriously cuz I've already left my pickme days behind so I don't really worry about dating. I'm in a good place. I'm definitely not reading return of kings, that place is a woman hating waste dump of weird angry boys. It's FDS for men, last time I checked. Why bother countering the anti men memes? The FDS reeeee feminazis aren't gonna listen. Be like me trying to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:08 AM
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You shouldn't have picked up a second job, he should have picked up a new job. You can support, but never do a man's work for him. Never do more than half the work. A high value man would have gotten another job, or not gotten laid off in the first place. I'm a woman btw. I would've given him a few months tops before I'd be filing divorce. I'm not gonna ever be mommy for my husband and neither should you. I don't give a shit if you get married asap. Just freeze your eggs sis. Wait for a good man…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:02 AM
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That's cuz guys sell themselves short, date dumb tactless women, and either stiff upper lip their way to misery by not saying "hey, gf, that thing you said hurt my feelings." Or, they just convince themselves that we're subconsciously comparing you to our ex in an unfavorable way. That's what low value women might do. Are you dating low value women? And nah, women know what they want. If your girl is always mad, it's cuz she's either an angry child, isn't attracted to you but doesn't have the ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:53 AM
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I don't know what you're pertaining to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:45 AM
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30 year olds don't need surgery, they just need to take care of themselves. They don't even do face lifts at thirty lmao it's more like 40s and 50s. Thirty year olds get botox and that's cheap af. Men get hair plugs. Boob jobs at any age are dumb af.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 01:43 AM
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I think what you consider neuroticism I would just consider having standards. I've dated low value men who were content to ignore certain things that my current boyfriend would never ignore. I think that women with high standards of living are not compatible with men who are much more complacent and lazy in their life, because those men tend to be messy around the house, don't really take care of themselves, and are difficult to live with for the woman who cares about all of those things. The th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:32 AM
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If a man has a problem with considering his wife's needs then he's not a man who should ever be married anyway. This is something that the woman should have figured out before marrying him. So many women will try to nag a man into caring about them instead of just accepting that he doesn't and cutting her losses. I'm kind of disturbed at the amount of women who will just chalk this up to men being men. I think these women have very low standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:21 AM
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I think it's because men get demoralized the more they hear their wife or girlfriend complaining about their behavior. And I think women have to admit that if their husbands were constantly unhappy with them, and constantly complaining, we wouldn't feel very good either. I think if a woman is ever in the position of having to nag a man all of the time then he's already checked out and isn't really participating in the relationship anymore. They can try couples therapy. Sometimes that works, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:18 AM
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Cuz women are encouraged to leave low value men, and men are praised for being loyal to low value women. And there's a lot of low value men and women getting married cuz they're desperate for validation instead of self betterment and marriage is the ultimate "I'm wanted!!!!!" Trophy for some people. That's my guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:12 AM
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I've never seen milf porn featuring a woman who I'd place under 30-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:08 AM
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All of them are in happy long term marriages except for one, who is overweight and usually has an odd haircut and is a little goofy. He's dated girls before, but they don't stick. He's still friends with them. He's liberal and nice to women. No incel vibes. Very cool guy to talk to, very kind. I have one guy friend who isn't so much a friend as a guy who sends me memes or the occasional text asking for help with something school related. He just got engaged but he seems like a hoe tbh. I'm skept…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:59 PM
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Idk, I've seen sigma males who don't care about dating, and successful extrovert men with plenty of female friends be total incels when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:57 PM
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Cheaters take the weak sauce route instead of just admitting their relationship sucks and leaving. People who don't have sex with their partners are obligated to figure out why, and try to find a solution that makes everyone happy. Or they're asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:52 PM
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Do you care what they want? Are you trying to date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:46 PM
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I mean if she's pretty to you then who are we to say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:44 PM
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Bruh no woman looks that way naturally, you've not seen enough plastic surgery before and afters. She's surgical, or she's photoshopped her body. Sorry bud. You want something that ain't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:41 PM
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They're over the top. They're like the gigachad meme lmao it's not wholesome trad wife, just expensive hooker caricature. The eye makeup is garish in some of them, the latinas lips are ridiculous duck lips. They look retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:39 PM
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Lol the first two aren't even pretty, they're just wearing whorish makeup and have bimbo surgeries but maybe porn hooker chic is your thing, no judgement. The last one has a prettier face but loses points for trashiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:35 PM
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I'm a woman and think she's average too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:33 PM
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Same. I think if you only care about hair and makeup and fashion, you tend to be a dry boring woman. Funny smart girls tend to care less about looking like runway models and more about being entertained and having fun. But some pretty girls are also funny. Idk why a dude would compromise one for the other unless he was unconfident and didn't know how to market himself to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:31 PM
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It was a wake up call for me. I kept dating losers cuz I thought I couldn't do better (low self esteem that I didn't even know I had). But their toxic way of talking about men was sad. I get that they're venting, but so many guys, usually the less experienced ones, read it and got paranoid and hurt that all women are secretly misanthropic. I think the incels and femcels just hurl trash and fuel each other's own insecurities. Ya gotta ride above that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:21 PM
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Yeah cuz we get wrinkles then, duh
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:16 PM
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You go the first 18 years trying to avoid being preyed on, the next ten avoiding pregnancy or getting married young, and the next ten looking for a good quality dude to have a family with. We don't wanna be inseminated by trash, we want it from our husbands or a sperm bank if we're single and can afford a baby. We wanna feel pretty at every age. Even 90. For ourselves and our husbands. Not incels croaking "post wall" at us from the keyboard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:13 PM
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Explain milf porn, and old people fucking like rabbits, and husbands still desiring their wives after they age, and people still dating and getting together in their 30s and beyond. Men who are in their 30s saying they want 20 year olds are not the only voice that gets any say here. We don't care about getting old, we care about aging well and not having carpal tunnel and being told we're "post wall" by gross incel 30 year olds who want a young pliable pickme, who we don't wanna date anyway, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 11:06 PM
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I just don't see how being assertive makes you an asshole. Assertive means they calmly stand up for themselves, asshole means unnecessarily aggressive and doesn't play well with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:50 PM
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I don't understand this need to equate assertive with asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:14 PM
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Oh. That sucks royal ass then. Sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:12 PM
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About what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:11 PM
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Huh. Maybe just got Let's just say she was the exception to the rule lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:09 PM
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What about the ones that slept with however many dudes in a week it was? Surely they gave hoe vibes?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:01 PM
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You're skepticism doesn't negate the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:00 PM
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Do they not give off hoe vibes? Are y'all getting bamboozled? Whenever I find out a girl is promiscuous, I'm rarely surprised cuz there are some common traits and vibes they radiate. I wonder if guys aren't picking up on these hoe signal traits, or if they're just sticking their head in the sand cuz "ooh she likes meee"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:11 PM
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Yeah my bf is an alpha, but he wouldn't say it, he's too humble and true alphas don't call themselves alphas cuz it's cringey. My ex was a beta disguised as an alpha at first, but I caught on eventually. Betas fuck too, just not for as long, and it's when we're in our pickme days, or when they're conning us. Women aren't superheroes, we are sometimes vulnerable to the tricks that the low value dudes pull. Doesn't mean we like those guys' low value traits. Just means we have to teach our sisters …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:08 PM
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I try to man bash individualistically too. I do agree with the "not all men" sentiment. I don't care if men have brought more good to the world in terms of math, science, technology, etc. I think if women were able to attend universities and weren't stuck raising ten kids, maybe they'd be building rocket ships too. I am a woman in stem and there are loads of women contributing to the field, I don't care if it's more men on average throughout history, cuz what were the women supposed to do? Stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:58 PM
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I've never done it cuz my friends don't date abusive men, but I would tell them if they were. And if they said "you're just jealous" I'd cut them off cuz I don't associate with cringy dumb people. But I'd still say "hey your bf is a total dick" cuz maybe they're not seeing it for whatever dumb reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:51 PM
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Are you a politician
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:50 PM
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I feel bad for her if you're an asshole to her. If you're an asshole just to others, then that's not my cup of tea but maybe it's hers. Or maybe she resents it. Idk you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:50 PM
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Just cuz a few women do it doesn't mean you need to worry about it, just don't date those women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:48 PM
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Hm well I definitely compare my bf to my exes but it's always a "damn why'd I waste my time with those losers when this amazing man was out there" so I don't think comparison is always a bad thing. If it is, then that sucks. Like, if they're favoring an ex higher than you to your face, then she's for the streets IMO. I think men and women should try to excel in all areas so they can feel more secure and confident. It's hard to be confident when you don't feel you measure up to some random ex. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:42 PM
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Just pay someone to kill you when you become senile, but don't suicide before then lol you might miss out on the dog pets
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:36 PM
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Okay well when I said modern women, I should've specified the ones that actually have enough self esteem and confidence to go for what they want. I generally disregard the other women, cuz they're irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:35 PM
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Hm idk the answer then
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:33 PM
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Idk my bf is a total gentleman, my ex was a manipulative ass but he got a degree in engineering and he definitely wasn't an ass when we got together. He was a mistake from my low self esteem pickme days. We do want a gentleman, but one we're attracted to, not a niceguy that we're not attracted to. Love bombing is not attractive, it's easy to see through unless you're a rock dumb pickme bimbo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:29 PM
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I wouldn't know, I don't date dumb rich men and don't associate with gold digger women. Some of my friends date dumb poor men though, my bf is intelligent and describes himself as poor, so I guess we just live in opposite worlds 🤷🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 06:27 PM
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Wrestling crocodiles is lame and makes you a disfigured leper, same with the bombs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:04 AM
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Nah, just the men who invented it. I'm not thanking all men for inventing birth control or safer ways to deliver babies or modern sanitation. Just like I'm not thanking Taylor Swift.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:21 AM
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They were less reckless and better cared for by the royals they lived with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:19 AM
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More cuddles with spouse, more hugs from grandkids, get to pet more dogs, travel, see what technological marvels exist in 50 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:18 AM
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Best comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:17 AM
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Maybe dumb ass teen girls in 90s movies want the reckless idiot who drives fast and rides a motorcycle but it's not modern women. We want peaceful easy lives. Don't blame your desire to be reckless on us, we don't care how fast y'all's cars go. We don't wanna be cheated on, or have y'all gamble away the money, or drink to excess, or do dangerous stunts, or anything else reckless. We are scared of reckless men, not aroused. Reckless men who think women are aroused by it are the least attractive e…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:12 AM
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Why would you wanna do either of those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 10:10 AM
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Bleat bleat BLEAATTT
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:59 AM
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Are these things you suspect are true based on what guys have told you about women, or what you've found to be true based on the women you've dated IRL? If it's the latter, are these things universal truths for all women you have known, or just the ones you've dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:57 AM
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The bar clearly isn't the point of their comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:35 AM
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Getting a relationship as a woman isn't even hard, I've been doing it for years, same with my friends. We just avoid men who idealize polygamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:35 AM
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Are you a policeman
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:30 AM
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The men are also weathered bar trolls at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:29 AM
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I just choked on my drink lol "weathered bar hags" lordy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:29 AM
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No, women like sigma males
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:27 AM
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Ew get off tinder lol it's garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:24 AM
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The intellectuals are fighting and I'm here for it 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:22 AM
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I'm going to start a women against astrology club just so we can get some representation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:21 AM
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No, it's cuz dumb guys are boring. You can be dumb and rich. Plenty of guys in the trades aren't Einstein, but they make good money. Women are more into smart rich than dumb rich. And smart poor is fine cuz usually they're on the path to become financially comfy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:19 AM
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Maybe dumb women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:17 AM
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TIL that 20k followers is "somewhat popular" ahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:16 AM
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Woohoo!! You got this. But you're not ugly, just fat, it's just a layer of lipids. You're still under there, you never went away. You just got a lil blanket :) My bf and I are gym enthusiasts and the relationship is pretty great cuz we keep each other motivated and we are both very attracted to each other. We both are very self critical of our bodies, even though we probably look like the hot gym couple on the outside. We initially were both very anorexic looking and our battle was to gain weigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:12 AM
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You're the one bleating about it in the first place, bleat bleat lmao 🐑🐑🐑🐑 that's me I'm just a silly lil sheep lady hahahaha lol anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:01 AM
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So?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 09:00 AM
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No, I meant most men don't give a shit about the body count number of every single woman out there. I was replying to the guy who was lamenting that "many women fail" this standard that he's got, that women never agreed to abide by. We aren't his lil harem of puppets. We'll be prudes or whores or whatever. Find one ya like instead of complaining about what the masses are doing. My body count is low to average, but my bfs is high-ish. I used to think I cared about such things but with him, I don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:59 AM
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Abusive, lazy, bum men. Don't lump all men in, or you'll expect crap behavior and be more likely to make excuses cuz "guys are just like that"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:36 AM
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Because it's true LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:34 AM
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You want a girl who is so attracted to you that she wants to have sex with you, but not so attracted to other men that she'll have sex with them easily. You want to feel chosen by a girl with standards. Not like she's with you cuz she's a free love hippie that will sleep with any guy. I don't think it's a big deal how many people someone has been with, if you love them, and they're fiercely loyal and committed to you. I used to think I wanted a guy with a low body count, cuz I associated high bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:09 AM
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I see plenty of obese people in relationships, sleeping around, married, dating, etc. Being obese is no reason to be down on yourself. You're probably the shit. I think you should keep trying what you're doing. Do what makes you feel attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:45 AM
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I wouldn't cuz I find exclusivity to be the pinnacle of romance. It's like a VIP club that only my special person can get into, which makes it all the more fun. It's our lil secret society.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:06 AM
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Nobody is suggesting you be a niceguy who is ugly, unemployed, or simpy. Duh do self improvement. Duh also be nice to people. Yeah SOME assholes get attention from women, but it's probably from women with zero self esteem, or women with characters as shitty as the assholes they're dating. Your job is to not be a dick to people, and to stop griping about assholes getting attention from women. If you talked to those women, you probably wouldn't even wanna date them. Or maybe you would, cuz you've …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:03 AM
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Where do you live, a polyamorous sex cult bubble cut off from society?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:44 AM
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Who made you the authority on how much sex women should have? And there's a lotta leeway between uptight prude and wanton slut, they're literally both the far, far extremes of the spectrum. You can't get much more polarized than that. What does a woman have to do to pass your test? Have sex with two dudes exactly? Three? Four? Who decides these things? You? God? All the men? Most men don't give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:43 AM
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"She's too selective because she doesn't select me." And "She's a slut for sleeping with everyone but me." Are literally solved by a dude having self esteem, working on himself, and talking to women IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:28 AM
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Here's another variant, my friends and I don't talk about this. We just gush about our bfs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:24 AM
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Just cuz YOU find their bfs unattractive doesn't mean the woman does. I've had female friends be attracted to guys I thought were absolutely gross. And I'm a woman. We are all attracted to different things. My friend was into dad bods, and I'm totally not. My other friend was into a short, balding, chubby 44 year old when we were like 23-23, and I was like "why lol." People like what they like. My bf is always pointing out dudes he thinks are attractive, like Chris Evans and whoever else, and I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:23 AM
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Redpill dudes: "women are shallow and only care about looks, they just want a 6'2 long dicked lumberjack" Purple pill dudes: "women don't care about looks, lemme explain what they do care about" Y'all are as stubborn and preachy as the FDS ladies lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:08 AM
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Those women probably have such low self esteem that they don't think they can get with a good looking guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:04 AM
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They're not abusive from the start. They're attractive gentlemen, and then they show their true colors and become the "hot assholes" they always were. Don't blame a woman for not knowing who she's dating, when he literally puts on a different face when she's around. If you know an asshole, you should warn the women he dates. If a woman you know is dating an asshole and she hasn't figured it out yet, you should let her know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:59 AM
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We don't seek out abusive assholes, they seek us out, and put on a nice gentlemanly front, until we've become attached to this idea in our minds of who he is. And then they let the nice guy act slide. And we wonder what we did wrong, what we did to provoke him, instead of dumping him. Most of us go through this once and then never again. And then we gotta deal with dudes saying stupid victim blaming crap like "well, you just seek these losers out" like we're just supposed to know a nice guy is g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:57 AM
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I'm a woman and I completely agree. It's cuz I was young and dumb, got emotionally attached to lame dudes, and I didn't know that I could do better. Am dating a better guy now and constantly surprised at how great he is, and how weird it is that I settled for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 05:45 AM
8

I told him I found my ex-best-friend's little brother on IG, and was disappointed to see the kid had turned out to be a porn addicted misanthrope who only posted up close selfies of himself glaring at the camera, with captions like "me omw to fck your btch." And naked photos of a porn star. Bf replied, "what did you expect to see, a sweet, sexy, young man?" Like....he just assumed I was creeping on my ex bff's little brother, cuz I wanted him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/21 07:17 AM
1

You're already settled in your career, you're doing more than fine, how much money do you really need for your life goals? Definitely make sure you're ascending in the looks department. Get that glow up, girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 08:22 AM
1

If we're single, and there's a hot guy paying attention to us, we're into that. We don't like being treated like crap. A lot of "incels" are unattractive, or don't have the confidence to go after us. If a guy had model looks and seems approachable/attainable, girls will go after him. Some girls want to hook up with guys they find attractive. Some girls want to date one guy they find attractive. I haven't seen any women denying these things. Sometimes we say "someone will find you attractive" to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:16 PM
1

I dislike people who are rude to others. Including myself when I'm rude to others. Makes me cringe inside. So....he's a dick to everyone but me is just bleh IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:46 PM
2

Some say cheating is 50/50 but women are better at hiding it. Some say rape is closer to 50/50 than we think because "being forced to penetrate" isn't in the legal definition, and men are less likely to report being raped. In my anecdotal experience, women and men are the same level of hypergamous and promiscuous and "rapey" but modern media is very feminist and won't report women raping men as much, female teachers on male students, women being wanton promiscuous casual sex hippies on college c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:40 PM
1

I took evolutionary biology. It's not about screening for genetic quality exclusively. It's about securing resources. Males produce more sperm per ejaculate in long term relationships than males having one night stands. Male choosiness is under-studied. Hypergamy is not as common as y'all think. Chad is sleeping with unattractive women, most males are not Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:27 PM
1

Fair point about women having more wiggle room. We can store more fat and still be considered models whereas guys store it in their gut and "curvy guys" isn't something a lot of women are going gaga over. Especially seen in classical art. Big ole chunky women with muscley men. Then again, perhaps it's just a matter of fatter women are desired because that means they're less likely to starve while man is out on the hunt for a caribou or something. Stronger men are faster, better hunters, better a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:23 PM
1

Mudducked is a new word I learned today
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:14 PM
2

What about the women who are waiting til marriage Or the women in LTRs with their first bf Or the women who have only been in LTRs with non-Chads Or the women who have never slept with a Chad That's a lot of women Chad isn't sleeping with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:13 PM
1

"Much more controlled" as in they go home if they strike out? Guys do that too....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:11 PM
1

These seem like extreme examples found in the more ratchet parts of society....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:10 PM
1

Why the blanket statements though? Why the generalizations? Have you never met a sensible woman before?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:08 PM
1

That's a teenager's fantasy. Or a ghetto ratchet girl's fantasy. That dude always turns on the girl eventually. And, guys who are dicks towards others are unattractive. No heart eye emoji.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:07 PM
3

Mindfulness. Chilling out. Being curious. Being kind. Doing things that make a difference for the better, in the world, so your life has meaning. Calming the insecurities and doubts. Therapy or counseling. Seeing the beauty in the world. Not an angry riled up person sending themselves into a early grave because they're in a hurry to get to heaven or hell or nowhere at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:05 PM
1

Who's Petya?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:01 PM
0

So Stacy lives in LA or London or NYC or something
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 07:00 PM
1

Not really in my experience. The old fashioned way is alive and well. From my biology geek perspective, you gotta be able to smell the pheromones to see if they're a good genetic match. Tinder doesn't offer that. It's like ordering food from a menu, vs picking food from a buffet where you can smell it, see the texture IRL, no filters or good lighting. Just some runny eggs or a dry burger patty. That, in the menu photo, looked way more appealing. Of all the guys I ever matched with on online dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:56 PM
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I think it's just a quaint way if saying "women who ignore their own boundaries to please a man and end up doing things they later regret to impress a guy who probably isn't all that and a bag of chips anyway." The Chad/Stacy caricature's Pickmeisha might be what they call Becky. FDS last I saw provides a very unapologetic view into why you may or may not be acting like a Pickmeisha. Lots of women on there talk about engaging in sexual activities they're not actually enjoying, purely for the sak…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:44 PM
2

Google has stats on loads of things. They're not all credible sources. You said "we have the data" how do I find this days if you're not going to share lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:37 PM
1

If they followed their own logic to that point, perhaps. I don't think they really think women are that dumb. It's just a cope. Others claim they don't care. The MGTOWs aren't actually that sad. They've ascended beyond the desire for romantic love, and either use women for sex (a MGTOW could be a Chad who's decided to be a bachelor) or are celibate if they can't easily bag some cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:34 PM
1

Why not just say "I'm after sex" why be a dick about it? Lots of girls just wanna hook up. Go to the clubs, find the liberal hippie chicks. Wanting some ass doesn't make you an asshole any more than a woman being a hoe makes her an asshole. Do y'all feel guilty for using her? She's using y'all too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:28 PM
1

He totally does that. He says he's uncomfortable with what I call "comfortable silence." He's very stimulated by intellectual debate. His brain just goes, goes, goes. Sometimes about things I know nothing about, and have very little interest in. If I voice that, he gets hurt. But if I were to talk his ear off about my bio laboratory assignment, he'd only half listen hahaha. Which I don't mind. I don't expect him to care about stuff that bores him (my lab assignments bore me too) just because I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:24 PM
1

Hey fancy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:15 PM
1

Hamster brain is just rude and lazy. We're humans, not hamsters. If you think women are dumber just because they're women, I invite you to get off reddit and go correct all of the female scientists trying to find cures for the world's ills now, with your superior male intellect. Oh wait....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:13 PM
1

So get a tripod or a friend. Women posting those filtered selfies is just as unattractive IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:10 PM
1

I told you, I already know why women do it. It's because they're okay with being rude. I am a woman who doesn't talk about men like that, because it's rude. I'm NOT putting the blame on men. I'm putting the question on the users who talk like that. I think I even said "why do y'all do it," not "why do some men do it." Probably cuz they don't represent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 06:05 PM
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Well the people in the congo are not poor compared to their peers. They're all in the same boat. They probably don't all hate life. Besides, humans once upon a time all lived even less glamorously than that. We probably still smiled enough to not commit mass suicide. There's plenty of depressed rich people too. Idk I've not lived in the congo. I never suggested people should stay in minimum wage jobs. Community college is very affordable. You can literally make six figures with an associate's de…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:55 PM
1

We'll I'll pass. I like feeling loved. Call me crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 05:38 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:34 AM
1

Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:33 AM
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I don't say "the male hamster brain" or "men are irrational." I was asking why y'all do it. I already know why some women do it, they're sexist. I guess men who do it are sexist too. People hate being called sexist but if it walks like a duck....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:29 AM
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It's not lame it's endearing. Being a dick just pushes women away unless they're too dumb and insecure to know they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:24 AM
1

What if it's a purple pill rambling tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:22 AM
1

You could date a hot dude who isn't a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:13 AM
1

What are those?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:00 AM
1

Gotcha. My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:59 AM
1

I think the exploratory 6s must have been what I've seen people call pickmes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:58 AM
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Maybe there's easy people, and stuck up people, across the board?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:55 AM
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I know exactly what you're talking about. I've heard the creative types be called Dylans, Chads sensitive and deep younger brother. Anyway thanks for replying. I'm off to sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:52 AM
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Idk why they do it either. And there's a lot of guys who don't talk about us in such smug terms lol I was asking this guy why he does it. Seems like venting more than anything. Could be genuine sexism. I don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:43 AM
1

Is this why my bf gets more into debating me if we haven't seen each other in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:41 AM
1

Sounds like it's more of a spectrum than the binary "total Chad vs total incel" thing I've seen some dudes on TRP claim. Or maybe that's blackpillers saying that. Anyway thank you for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:40 AM
3

Care to share your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:34 AM
2

So stacys look like fourteen year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:20 AM
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So the Beckys think they're at Chads looks or above by merit of him sleeping with them....but the Stacys know they're Stacys cuz dudes are trying to get them on the regular when they go out?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:16 AM
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Then how do you know it's a blue pill rambling?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:07 AM
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Femcels are raping dudes, according to feminists definition of rape. Stay aware my dudes. Why would Stacy prefer Chad sleeping around? Is it some sort of, "all these women want him and he wants me" thing? Is she aware he probably wants multiple Stacys and she ain't any more special than any other girl he sleeps with? What does Stacy get out of this arrangement, is she just polyamorous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:06 AM
1

Spare me lmao I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 07:00 AM
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So high value for Chad means hot enough that women want to sleep with him. And they (the Chads) sleep with whoever, even if she's not a Stacy, cuz it gets their dick wet and gives them an ego boost. How much ego boosting do they need from random women thinking they're hot enough to sleep with, before their ego is satisfied? Are they narcissists? Do they ever get lonely/bored? Is sex with strange women really that grand? The women just think they're hot. It's not really a huge accomplishment. Is …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:57 AM
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Looksmaxxing is a good way to feel more confident. Don't go overboard though. Some RP-ers seem to have body dysmorphia. I've seen looksmaxxers call what I'd consider perfectly conventionally attractive to be "subhuman." You know what's really underrated? Personality-maxing. Calmness-maxxing. Some people need that lol. Being pretty can't fix a nutty personality with no chill. Is FDS right? For me it was. I'd just been cheated on, and FDS helped me realize I was dating low value men. In your exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:44 AM
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Looksmaxing gets your foot in the door. But unless you learn to vet well, that might not be a good thing. If you're pretty and insecure and don't vet, you get low value men. Looksmaxing is also a good way to feel more confident. You know what's really underrated though? Personality-maxing. Some people need that lol. Being pretty can't fix a horrible personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:53 AM
1

Makes logical sense. Consistent with my evolutionary bio class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:42 AM
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How does sleeping with these dragons get them a princess? Does Stacy want a dude who's slept with a bunch of unattractive women? Would that LOWER Chad's value? I'm playing devil's advocate for the casual sex dudes rn. How is sex with unattractive women acceptable rewards?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:39 AM
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You again lol. Read the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:37 AM
1

chill out dude (there I removed the capital letter so it's more chill)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:24 AM
2

So where are YOUR sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 05:00 AM
1

That's a bit of a reach and you know it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:59 AM
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That's a bit of a reach and you know it. Edit: sorry replied to the wrong comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:58 AM
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So who's sleeping with the ugly women? Cuz Chad ain't. He's got his pick, he's going for Stacy. Y'all silly. Unattractive women sleep with average men cuz y'all let them. Stop. Level up and go for Stacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:57 AM
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The average man on tinder is posting really unflattering photos and tends to look much better in person than online. Y'all shoot yourselves in the foot cuz you don't know how to market yourself to the average woman on tinder. Women are masters at making themselves look better online than they do IRL. Hell, many doctor their pics nowadays. Why would fat unattractive women swipe right on average dudes? Why wouldn't you want to be with someone super attractive? Why settle for less than you want? Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:55 AM
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Men don't need fancy cars or money to be sexually desirable, they need to be in good shape and dress well and get a good haircut and have good posture and hit a club and charm some lady's pants off. Y'all don't get physically more attractive just cuz you have money and cars in your 30s, you get more desirable to the women who are trying to settle down. Young party girls want hot guys, not older guys who got degrees and cars. They'll sleep with a 30 year old who rides a bike if they think he's ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:41 AM
1

Fair point. Wasn't trying to be smug. Just ignorant. Most women are ignorant, not heartless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:07 AM
1

Damn straight. The internet definitely highlights it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:00 AM
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Sabotages it before it reaches the point of marriage, or changes his ways. Realistically speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:53 AM
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We can share, it'll be such a happy union and he will surely appreciate our combined irrationality!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:51 AM
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Omg back off he's mine, I wanna be told I'm an irrational female by a stranger and there's such a shortage of them on here 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:46 AM
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If not bitter and angry, then smug and snarky. Just flinging poo at women for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:44 AM
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But why are y'all so sexist though? Female hamster? Why do y'all talk like that? What's the point of knocking on women? Does it make you feel superior? Are y'all gay or asexual or sexist or something else? Genuine questions. Please enlighten my hamster brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:40 AM
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Superiority complex? Maybe they're hoping she'll wake up to her "bad woman" ways. And tell her friends. And a woman will sleep with him. They're either gay, asexual, or lonely straight men who probably do want sex but won't admit it because it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:39 AM
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Superiority complex. "I'm a smart man, you're a dumb woman, this makes me feel better about my lousy life and the fact that no woman wants to sleep with me." They're being irrational themselves, the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:34 AM
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No but divorce ≠ splatters and death lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:31 AM
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Kinda rude to fake your way into bed with someone. This is why women need to go on TRP so they can protect themselves from getting played. Why would anyone want to fake their way into a marriage? What does that accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:13 AM
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"with this ring, I thee game you with logic."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:12 AM
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I am a woman, I care about the feelings of the dudes in my life, and even the guys on here to an extent. I wish I could help y'all, but I can't. And some of y'all are very jaded, like a lot of feminists are towards men. It's all sad. Please don't generalize women just cuz some of them suck. Kinda hurts. Just ditch the crappy ones. I know there's a lot, but there's also nice ones out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 03:01 AM
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Those aren't privileges, they are abuses of power that only psychotic selfish women capitalize on and you need to learn to distinguish those from the sea of "women" as a whole or you're gonna be all bitter and send nice women running away and die alone. Maybe that's what you want, but I doubt it. Her father and brothers can still guide her. They have no right to force her, any more than women have a right to force men to marry the girl mommy wants lil jimmy to marry. Women aren't your sheep. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:50 AM
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Those aren't privileges, they are abuses of power that only psychotic selfish women capitalize on and you need to learn to distinguish those from the sea of "women" as a whole or you're gonna be all bitter and send nice women running away and die alone. Maybe that's what you want, but I doubt it. Her father and brothers can still guide her. They have no right to force her, any more than women have a right to force men to marry the girl mommy wants lil jimmy to marry. Women aren't your sheep. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:39 AM
1

Chill out dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:12 AM
2

No one wants to date you with that attitude. If they do, they're probably just as horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:11 AM
2

Rude. We're not all obese, dork.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:10 AM
2

"Yeah.. the athletes were always popular, but a good portion of girls were into it's opposite, and different kinds of guys; the skinny artsy boys, even gamers and nerds." That's the same in adults my dude. Look around. Look harder. For every Chad, there is his sensitive musical artsy hippie brother, Dylan. "In high school you didn't need a to be 6ft'3 with a ripped body to be considered attractive for some girls," again, look around. Most dudes in relationships aren't 6'3". Most dudes aren't eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 02:06 AM
1

I didn't deny it, cuz my bf has told me about studies that claim height does factor into a person's subconscious. What is an example of this mediocre treatment?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:49 AM
1

No he's not a crybaby that's my point. He cries, he's not a crybaby. They are not the same. Of course they'll lose respect for a crybaby, but crying here and there over something sad or overwhelming is no biggie, and which is what I originally said. I've seen just as many men move on super quick as women. And it's usually not within a day like you claim. That seems like a big over exaggeration. What has your experience been IRL? For me it's been 50/50 men and women moving at whatever pace. I cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:45 AM
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Well why are you suggesting to this woman that the ladies she's talked to are lying? We're very open with our female friends. We're not apologetic for our preferences. If we tell other women "I don't care about height" it's true. What reason do we have to lie to one another? You're being silly my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:29 AM
1

Women do dumb things in their early twenties. Dating in your early twenties is a waste of time. You learn a lot of dumb lessons. Anyway. Most women aren't having casual sex. Millennials are having less sex than previous generations. Condom use has fallen out of popularity with the Chads and some women are too dumb and passive and scared to force the dude to wrap it up. They all have invincibility complexes. It takes two to spread STDs, don't put this on women. Also, gay sex is less taboo. Gay li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:22 AM
1

We don't talk to ugly women much either. But I don't think most people are ugly. Fat isn't ugly, fat just covers up your beauty. Fat people lose weight and bam pretty/handsome person underneath. Some fat people are still pretty/handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:18 AM
1

What makes you ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:14 AM
1

Adding to what the person before you said: strong jaw, clean cut or stubble or groomed beard, cute smile, voice that isn't squeaky or gummy (hard to explain, google the thumb thumbs from spy kids), and be calm, polite, gentlemanly, and not a complainer Debbie downer like you're currently being, no offense. Dress nice, have a clean room and car, do half the household chores, don't spit on the ground, don't be loud and uncouth, don't be a spaz. Basically be a functioning adult and have good bone s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 01:11 AM
1

Nobody's forced to be poor unless they're physically or mentally incapable of working a job that pays enough to afford rent in an affordable town. Money also buys plastic surgery so you don't even have to be ugly anymore. Just save up. Or do drugs to feel better. You die either way in the end. Might as well try to make it a good time, in the meantime. However that looks for you. Sex deprived implies you're owed sex, or need it to survive. You don't. My friends and family listen to me and treat m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:54 AM
3

I love your username and this entire comment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:45 AM
1

Duh, that's the point. A sucky society will shame people who are trying to change it. It's still possible to change it. We'd still have slavery if nobody stood up for what's right. Don't be afraid to be shamed, be afraid to give up and stay small.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:44 AM
1

What, for crying? Men are incels for crying now? Really? You stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:42 AM
1

Just date short women? Who cares if most women don't wanna sleep with you? You aren't trying to build a harem. Women aren't dating dudes cuz "omg he's the tallest I've seen all week" we date dudes who we're attracted to who try. You can be attractive and short. And you can pursue women. Just do everything else that the tall Chad guys are doing. Tall guys who have let themselves go and have bad attitudes are far less desirable than short dudes who work out, dress nice, and are kind. For every sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:37 AM
1

But if he's not aware of it, then....he ain't bothered by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:21 AM
1

No. Y'all are being insecure and you gotta stop. You're letting these dumb short-hating women get in your heads. Women are just people. Some guys call short guys "manlet." Some people are racist. Most women don't hate on short dudes, and yeah I'd wager that most of them just wanna date/sleep with someone they're attracted to and height isn't a factor for most women. Why would it be? It's just tall. It's not that cool or attractive. I'm into fitness but my friend likes fat guys. Neither of us spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:16 AM
1

Ehem. They DO NOT speak for most of us. We speak for ourselves, do not give these horrible bully women the mic. They are trash and should be shipped off this planet. Don't give them a single thought. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:10 AM
2

That's a good thing. Let those rude bitches weed themselves out. Let em die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:08 AM
1

It is, Twitter is just trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:08 AM
1

Those women are trash. Utter TRAAAASH. I wanna ship THEM off this planet. I'm sorry y'all have to deal with them. Please don't let it get to you. They're bullies. Short dudes are great. Keep on slayin, short dudes. Y'all are doing just fine. Stay off tinder, that shit is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:05 AM
3

I hate self absorbed men. They dry up my ovaries. Absolutely yuck. My bf is like an inch taller than me and I love it. Makes it easier to kiss his forehead. It's like saying "guys like big boobs and if they say they like small boobs they're lying." Silliness. Women say they like tall guys cuz it's trendy to say that. Tall guys ain't that great, they're just tall, who the hell cares? Other than the girls who have like a fetish for it or whatever. I don't speak for all women, but neither do any of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:55 PM
1

Okay so I think I agree with everything you said....but you kinda are talking in circles in the beginning, and I'm confused. You said my advice isn't bad cuz I'm a woman, it's bad cuz it's feminist bs and that it's bad advice because crying in front of a woman WILL cause her to lose attraction. And that men shouldn't take advice from women cuz our advice is usually bad. Then you said men shouldn't be crybabies. I definitely wasn't suggesting men be crybabies. That would be terrible advice. Defin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:33 PM
1

I'm a woman and recently my boyfriend told me that feminism doesn't mean what I think it means. A better word for myself would be someone who wants to see women empowered, and men empowered, to be who they wanna be, provided they're not hurting anyone. I suppose egalitarian? Humanist? Let's go with that. I'd like to take a stab at answering your questions. I don't know if they are meant to be rhetorical....but I just got my second Pfizer shot and I'm very tired and have nothing better to do, so …
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 11:02 PM
2

I don't see what's wrong with her message. She even did a smiley face. There's a lot of "women bad" on here. She's probably seen it. It's the same thing as how a lot of guys don't wanna go on the feminist subreddits or talk with feminists.
/r/MGTOW225/06/21 09:36 PM
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Well you sound like a solidly awesome person and I wish you the best. I don't know what happened in your dating life. I don't think someone with your outlook and full life is unlovable. At the risk of sounding like I'm hitting on you (yep am in a relationship) you seem like a good catch and one of those people who others are like "why are they single?" I hope you do meet cool ladies and find someone you jive with. If you have any habits that sabotaged previous relationships, then you could eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:58 PM
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That's not what I've seen on the relationship subreddit. Or in real life. I think women who struggle to keep a man tend to be the cause of their issues. Men aren't the commitment phobes that some bitter ladies think. Some of those women are just sabotaging it by being horrible, and not worth staying with. I don't know if the dating books help, as I've not read any. And men trying to get sex with the least amount of work happens, but most women have zero desire to be used, for very good reason. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:15 PM
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Was that worth commenting? I was trying to help. Sheesh. Y'all just wanna stay bitter huh. It's astounding. Literally just reverse feminazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:59 PM
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You made it about me being a woman though, and I found it rude and snobby. I'm not even a feminist. You needn't come at me with so much suspicion and cynicism, just because something I said sounded similar to what some feminists say. It's really frustrating being shut down when I was just trying to help. I don't see how you doing that fixes anyone's problems. Many of the guys on here clearly are cynical of women as a group, and live in their bubbles similar to how the feminists do. It's a big ec…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 07:54 PM
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Women have basic/no hobbies? I've never heard that. How absurd to think such a thing. I'm a woman. I play fingerstyle guitar, go rafting on the lake, and like learning about biology - my college major. I also like DIY-ing yogurt at home and helping my parents with their veggie garden and fruit trees. They're retired and really into horticulture now. Backyard hobby farm, growing so much stuff. Got chickens. My boyfriend got me a field wildlife identification book. I've identified several birds in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:15 AM
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Hahahaha I'll set my alarm for it. I think having a fantasy is the most it'd be for me, reality never lives up to fantasies in my experience lol. I've been with like 8 or 9 people. Most were unmemorable, or years ago. Did the one night stand stuff, the summer fling, the FWB. Curiosity will always present itself when there's a new thing, you can't try everything (or everyone I should say). My bf was with his first gf for like seven years and he said he felt curiosity then that he doesn't feel now…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 09:03 AM
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I feel like some women come on Reddit to complain, and vent, and they make it seem like it's way harder for us than it is. I've seen so many women (feminists usually) complain about men doing stuff that a) men don't actually do, b) all people do, c) isn't even an issue. I feel like people's mindsets are everything. If you believe all men/women are trash, then you'll mistrust good behavior, and the bad behavior will only reinforce your view. In ways, Reddit is kind of a big circle jerk echo chamb…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:56 AM
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So what's your plan going forward? I think....in life, there aren't really any hard and fast rules. You can ask a friend out. You can fall in love with a friend. You can ask out a stranger and five years later be married. It's not fucked. Normal guys are appreciated by normal ladies. Meet lots and lots and lots of new people. Get out there and explore. It's a big wide world. Travel. No more online dating crap. I wasn't comparing you to Elliott Rodger cuz you said dating was tough, it was cuz you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:45 AM
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Literally nowhere am I denying your claims. You're putting words in my mouth again. Stop. I'm trying to get more information so I can help. My bad for assuming y'all wanted help. So many of y'all come on here to vent about your dating woes, yet I've seen a lot of patterns where y'all are choosing ladies that just sound like bottom of the barrel, and I'm like "how? Why? Where do you find them?" But, hey, by all means, continue to date horrible women and be miserable. I'm tired of coming on here a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:31 AM
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Whatever your view of women is bleak and I don't subscribe to it, agree to disagree, my bf can cry all he damn well wants and I'm still gonna love him, and I hope you find someone who loves you that much someday who makes up for all the crappy women you've known. Btw being afraid of women and being burned doesn't make you a porn addicted basement dwelling loser. Girls showing their asses everywhere while in relationships is trashy af. Unless they and their bf love going to raves together. Stuff …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:11 AM
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I don't have to date someone who openly admits to fantasizing about raping me, he never actually did okay, there's no denial it just made me feel like he didn't love me cuz who TF says that to the one they love, shit was traumatic, get off my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 08:02 AM
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Huh. Maybe polyamory would work for y'all then. I can't relate to getting tired of the same body. Longest relationship I was in was 2.5 years. Got tired of his body only when I got tired of his drama and realized he was kind of pretentious in a way I couldn't ignore anymore. My current bf said he's glad we're not each other's firsts, cuz he'd be curious about what else was out there. It's natural. I've been with enough people to know they're all pretty similar in ways, different in others. I kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:48 AM
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I don't know, I'm just speculating. Ornaments just get attention. Women notice attractive men, but they don't really act on it unless he's accessible and/or they're interested in him as a person too. Then again, guys are the same. Yeah I know what I wrote. I don't think they're mutually exclusive. Women might have the bigger burden with the offspring, but it doesn't mean men don't want their female mates to be loyal, and it doesn't mean men just pump and dump like some jaded women will insist th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:44 AM
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Well I'm sorry first of all. Sorry for upsetting you and hurting your feelings. I don't discount what you said, or your experiences. I wasn't suggesting throw your friends away, by any means. I meant just ask them out and if they're disinterested then move on. Don't ditch them, but don't get all down on yourself if someone says no. I've been on tinder, been asked out on there, been on a few dates. Didn't pan out obviously. Been rejected plenty, been ignored and ghosted plenty. It's whatever. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:29 AM
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I used to be that type. Just grew to get a negative association with it. Then grew too old for it all together, feel ambivalent and "oh, people these days." About it. Your mom isn't necessarily mature just cuz she's old. Shit testing is whack at any age IMHO. It's childish and kinda rude. I know it's a thing. I actively to to avoid it cuz it sounds incredibly obnoxious to deal with, and I've had guys let on that they're more sensitive than I thought. I'd rather be gentle than shit-testy. I'm 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:13 AM
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We are lol look at all the fangirls for one direction and BTS and oh idk the dude from supernatural. Girls are simping just as hard. Been my experience that men get more after sex. Not what the internet would say. But all my female friends agree with me. Dudes get simpy for ladies that have sex with them. Unless they're dudes who are having sex with tons of women. Most aren't though. Men have a need for the woman too. They wanna ensure that the offspring that they're providing for are actually t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:08 AM
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So.... Straight women want a masculine dude, who's taller than them, employed, takes care of his body, and isn't a wuss? Yeah maybe that is asking for a lot lol. But I think it's worth pursuing. I think a lot of men need to step it up. And same with a lot of women. About the five star meal thing (lol) I was replying about the bit where you said women need to feel attractive. I thought you were talking about hypergamous women wanting validation from tons of dudes. My mistake. Obviously I prefer b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 10:00 AM
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I'm sure all that stuff works on some women. I don't happen to be one of them. I like the equality thing. Most of my friends are the same. The negging thing just makes me think of a couple of adults trying to complete for dominance. There's women who don't expect that from a man and get all impressed by it, I know those types. Think I used to feel enticed when I was younger, then I read what negging was and now I'm like "oh, this is just dudes who think they know everything and women are childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:38 AM
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I appreciate you saying "they would attract different types of women" because of all the guys on here I've seen referring to women as if we've got a hive mind mentality and all want the same type of dude. I think if a guy is a slob and he's coming on here to complain, then he needs to look in the mirror. I assumed that's what most of the guys on here we're doing, based on the guys I've met in real life who complain about lack of success with women. They tend to be bitter and have let themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:16 AM
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Why is dressing well considered a feminine thing to you, yet loads of European guys dress well, and lots of successful men do, and celebrities and other guys in high profile jobs and places where they're seen? I prefer dudes who dress nice. It definitely isn't a feminine trait to me. Current bf dresses very nicely, is an engineer major, and knows his way around a car like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 09:01 AM
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In my experience, in real life not just reading about it on r/sex, it's been dudes. If you go on FDS sub, most of them will agree with me. I'm not dumping it on dudes, relax, I'm saying I'd rather be aware of what kind of person they are in bed before I commit to them. Where do you think the girls get the idea from? Usually it's some weird guy who they're trying to impress and look like the Cool Girl ™ who's down for everything. A lot of women on FDS talked about doing that when they were younge…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:57 AM
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Sometimes it helps to spend some time away from your partner. Always reignites the spark for me in my LTR, makes it feel like the beginning again. I don't think you're missing out on anything that you wouldn't be able to get in a LTR. Honestly, if my bf suggested opening the relationship, I'd assume he was bored of me. Which one of you guys brought it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:52 AM
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I'm the product of one of those friendships that turned into more and my parents have the healthiest, most loving relationship I've seen. Not undesirable for them. Probably not undesirable for others who go that route. All the dating advice for guys is crap, and reinforces their insecurities. Stop reading it. Literally go talk to girls and make friends and if you like one, say so. If she says thanks but no thanks, move on. What is wrong with that approach? Do y'all need guaranteed success? Do y'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:41 AM
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I didn't know that was a thing. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 08:27 AM
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My dad had an alcoholic money blowing literal wife beater for a dad. Idk where his model came from. Probably a friend's dad or something. Maybe being a cool man is just being a cool person. Idk what female nature even is. It's all so subjective and people are really kinda done with gender roles, people can just be whatever they wanna be. I don't know what it's like to be a man. I'd probably act the same way I do now, but I'd be more stoic and probably have stuck with aerospace engineering or som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:46 AM
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Ma'am actually, idk if you're being funny rn or nah
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:24 AM
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My dad likes validation and is a big ole softie on the inside. He'll just never admit it cuz he doesn't wanna ask for anything. My dad would say today's men need to grow a pair and be men, not for women, but just cuz life is easier when you're not super fragile, and because snowflakes annoy him lol. He's a gem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:22 AM
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Blond and blue eyed doesn't make someone attractive unless they're into those traits in particular, or a white supremacist. What makes a dude attractive is subjective to women, but generally it's good bone structure, good posture, well dressed, polite, and being in good shape. Cold approach is unusual and startles most women IRL nowadays, that's why it doesn't work. Relationships start when someone sees someone else regularly and they strike up a banter over time, and if there's chemistry, it'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 06:10 AM
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Sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:31 AM
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I'm in a relationship now with a dude I'm pretty crazy about, and the sex is great so I don't have any desire to stop. He wanted to wait for a bit, I wanted him to be happy and feel comfortable, so we did. Stick to your guns, that's all I can say. If you want her to be your only one, that's sweet and special. I'm a little jealous, I'd like to erase my past "conquests" but eh they're irrelevant now, and they'll never take away my love for my current bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:28 AM
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Yeah and don't you forget it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:09 AM
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You brought up fantasies. I don't care about people's fantasies, provided they keep the ones about raping ME to themselves. A third of the women fantasized about something where they're in control, cuz it's in their head. That does NOT mean a third of women wanna do rape roleplay. I participated cuz he nagged me so much and I was trying to shut him up. That was a mistake. But many women do stuff to appease men like this. And rather than telling the dudes to fuck off, we shame the women for not "…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 05:08 AM
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Not to be that dweeb but do you have links to those studies? It sounds very idealic and romantic. But most dudes I know aren't into waiting til marriage. So I kinda gave up on that. And idk I wouldn't have sex with a dude I didn't want a future with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:58 AM
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They said no sex til committed relationship or marriage. I don't see why I'd want a relationship with someone I'd never uh....checked on sexual compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:56 AM
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Idk another commenter said it and I laughed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:54 AM
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None. All are in relationships. I guess I don't really befriend girls who are into casual sex. My bff and I used to do the casual sex thing, her moreso than myself by far, but that was years ago. We're both in LTRs and happier for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:27 AM
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You realize that those women are fantasizing about being the victim which concerns me less than a man fantasizing about being the perpetrator? You also realize that fantasies ≠ real life sexual behavior? I'd prefer to have sex with a dude and make sure he's not gonna throw me some whacky curve balls BEFORE I legally commit myself to him, thanks. Porn has nothing to do with rape kinks. Most mainstream porn isn't rapey. Consensual rough and wild isn't rapey. "Forced" might mean "firm/forceful" not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:23 AM
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That's fair, balls in the mouth aren't for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:12 AM
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You should. But what's what's wrong with having sex before marriage? Or before making a relationship official?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:11 AM
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You're the incorrect leek, derbe derbe indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 04:10 AM
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I'm 25, bf is 27. He's balding. I don't usually think about it. There's husband goggles. There's also the fact that there are hot bald guys out there. Bald ain't a deal breaker for attraction. Bald and manly > pretty boy with good hair. Idk why some girls have it as a deal breaker, probably cuz it goes with the fat lazy unkempt stereotype. There's those infrared lights that can regrow hair or whatever. Just get one of those or shave it all off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:42 AM
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Men like compliments and are sensitive and insecure and need validation and reassurance and that doesn't make them weak like my boomer dad said.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:35 AM
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Lol my bff was all "put his balls in your mouth, he'll he surprised but he'll like it" and I've not received objection so....consider this your first sex tip from a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:34 AM
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I'll tell my friends everything about my exes and any past hook ups. It's like 100% negative. Even if it was good at the time, it's bad now cuz I'm in love with my bf and all the dudes who came before him are lame trash as far as I'm concerned. If I could erase them I would. I'm very protective of my bf's privacy. That said, if he's cool with me talking about it, I'll rave about our sex life all day cuz it's great. I don't talk about my own pleasure, that's too personal lol. I'll brag about how …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:25 AM
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It's called love you nerd. Besides, there's other forms of sex. Bjs and vibrators are an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:18 AM
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Like....two or three years. Cuz I had PTSD from a bad relationship and was terrified of men for a good while. But after that, like maybe a few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:16 AM
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What if you get married and find out he's into super rough borderline rapey sex? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:13 AM
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Probably an age thing. When I was young, I was so horny that I let that be the driving factor in choosing men to pursue, now I'm older and can appreciate waiting more and giving yourself a chance to vet them before jumping into bed and assuming they'll be worth dating afterwards. The one night stands never were bf material. My younger self was so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:06 AM
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It's kinda the same thing. If I wouldn't date you, I ain't sleeping with you. If I don't wanna sleep with you, I don't wanna date you. Which happens first? Sexual, cuz that's based on what I see, hear, smell. Romantic is based on their inside qualities. But romantic attraction will not happen without sexual attraction. I don't like waiting for sex. Neither do my friends. We do it to weed out fuckboys and not look slutty. STDs isn't as much of a concern with condoms, which you should always use i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 03:04 AM
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I don't concern myself with political correctness, not sure where you got that impression? I'm not even a feminist okay calm down. I was saying if she DOESN'T let you cry, she doesn't love you and she's trash. Cuz come on why would you wanna date a girl who's all "no you can't cry, I don't love you." We literally agree and you're getting all mad. Serial killers and abductors are uncommon. Rape tends to happen most often in relationships. Can't weed him out if he's already your bf. Women whining …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:52 AM
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I just think men would have better luck of they made as much of an effort to look good as women. I don't think they do. I gave my examples. Cheating and lying works, but only if the girl you're cheating with is attracted to you, and you have no guilty conscience, aren't religious and think it'll send you to hell, and nothing to lose by cheating (kids, houses etc) I don't think men look better covered up and women look better naked. I was saying MEN think that way. They think we're all impressed …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:33 AM
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Maybe cuz we equate the word beauty with softness and traits associated with femininity. Attractive men aren't called beautiful, they're called hunky or handsome. Women aren't called those things. Well, they used to be called handsome like a hundred years ago. I was just referring to how males of other species tend to have the most reproductive success when they have the biggest brightest loudest ornaments. There were some scientists who found in a wolf spider species without the fluffy front le…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 02:08 AM
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So your wife married you for her own reasons, mainly stability and she sees masculinity in you, no issue with that. Maybe some of the guys on here will go for women like her and find happiness. Rape still definitely happens in humans, laws will never change that. Don't know anyone who's into Ron Perlman lol he's horrifying imo, but I'm sure there's ladies and dudes out there into him. There's also ladies into the BTS boys and a bunch of other pretty boy definitely NOT masculine guys, and they ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:48 AM
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Lol I'm a "too thin" woman who's had to deal with people saying dumb shit about it since I was a teen. I actually wish I weighed more but you're not talking about me, you're talking about women who are anorexic nervosa. Never seen people be negative when a boy breaks his nose. That sounds psychotic. When I'd fall and cry, my dad said "well get up silly!" And I'm a girl. I crashed my bike and came home all bloody as a teen and he said "move your busted carcass outta the way." It helped me realize…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 01:24 AM
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Do men actually fall for that? Do they actually feel an intimate connection with their boobie streamer?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:31 AM
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I think sex work should be legal even though I don't think it's good for women. Cigarettes are bad for people, but that's legal. And sex work happens regardless. Just add a camera and suddenly it's legal. Idk. But I wouldn't date a guy who had ever seen a hooker. Means he's a loser who can't get any IRL. Or sex obsessed and will probably cheat on me when I don't put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:30 AM
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I mean....how many times do you see women sending money to dudes on OnlyFans over the promise of seeing a dick on a screen? Like basically never. And that's an extreme example, but apply that desperate, pussy on pedestal mentality to dating. What do you get? Bunch of entitled women, bunch of desperate men who aren't even attracted to the woman who finally does give them attention. Most people aren't ugly. Thinking of attractiveness as a "top 20%" thing is absurd when you consider how many people…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:24 AM
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I was a virgin loser too lol. And damn that's alarming. I don't think women tend to see their body parts as defects, due to the body positivity movement. It's a good thing. I wish more men would get on it and stop being so hard on themselves and their less than 7 inch dicks and less than 6ft statures. But at the end of the day, if they wanna be all hard on themselves, that's out of my control. There's a lot more women getting plastic surgery for said "defects" than men. Lot more women trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:14 AM
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How old are these girls you speak of? That's bullying behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/21 12:00 AM
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I guess I assumed that if a man is complaining about never getting the time of day from a woman, it's cuz he's not taking care of himself, and he's going for girls who are taking care of themselves. Or he's got social anxiety, or something. And as a straight-ish woman, I strongly disagree. There's so many nice looking guys and so many ugly women. Media and advertising is kinda male-gaze-centric, cuz men tend to fall for the IG thirst traps more than girls do. OnlyFans is mostly women performing …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:52 PM
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Well then I have a hard time believing you're a fat slob who does any/all the other things I listed, unless your wife is just a lovely lady who loves you for you. I don't know how to do the little verticle line chunky thing people do on here, but about the conformist vs anticomformist thing you said, I think it's just biology. Women want to "mate" with hot men, and vice versa. People get so upset about that, with the body positivity thing, but other species don't seem to apologize for going afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:48 PM
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I have taken the test and gotten ENTP, INTP, ESFP, and probably other stuff. Maybe it was ESTP, idk. I've been to a lot of gyms, and it's been all across the board. Anyway your overall point that women are pickier than men....that could be because women are after quality, whereas guys are after quantity. In evolutionary biology anyway. Females of most species invest more when reproducing. Women today usually get stuck with the kids while the man goes to work. That's been shifting, for good reaso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:28 PM
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You brought up your being married with kids. I was giving advice to the general dude who comes on here to complain. Sorry that was unclear. I don't even want to debate, so thanks for telling me not to, I guess. My advice for dudes on here is to actually get off the couch and try, not come on here to complain. Your advice can be all of the things you listed. Mine is still everything I said. I think it'd maximize their odds of success. Maybe your wife is unique from the norm. The majority of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:10 PM
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Well yeah. Isn't it the same for women though? Don't y'all NOT wanna date a girl who cries at the drop of a hat? And are y'all really like....just repressing hella tears all the time? And we don't know about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:53 PM
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I think I'm the "she" you're talking about lol Not encouraging them to be crybabies didn't you read my whole comment? Just encouraging them to shed those tears if they're sad/overwhelmed. Not like a big ole wailing sniffly toddler cry. Adult men AND adult women doing that is weird. I pursued dudes. I have been rejected by dudes. I did not complain about ALL men just cuz those singular dudes rejected me. I just dated different dudes. My current bf asked me out, but only after I went out of my way…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:51 PM
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I don't remember the core point of this string and my mobile browser won't show me all the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:43 PM
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I'm also in a big California city. There's lots of fancy liberal IG model try hards here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:42 PM
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I mean....lesbians tend to be less messy around the house too. TEND.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:38 PM
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Are they great people who are also overweight and messy, and complain about their lack of success with women to every woman who shows interest? Cuz women will be friends with that guy but they won't wanna jump his bones. I AM friends with guys like that. They are great guys, but they're also shooting themselves in the foot by buying into this "it's what's on the inside that counts" which is true, but the outside stuff is still important. And complaining about women on Reddit and having a chip on…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:37 PM
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No. Of course not. I don't hang out with feminists for that reason. They tend to be rude bitches. You said "ANY" woman. I'm saying no, not any women, just the ones you're hanging around. Stop hanging around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:31 PM
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Bring active doesn't mean a dude isn't fat. I've known a lot of guys who don't think they're fat, when they are. I know there's a lot of fat women too. But this thread is "why aren't men getting laid" and I'm saying it's not cuz you're failing to rise to some Uber high standard women have, it's cuz y'all are actively turning women off with your presentation (clothes, hair, body, hygiene), or your personality, or you're over 30 and are working dead end jobs and most women your age are trying to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:29 PM
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I've been to my universities gym, orange theory, California family fitness, crunch fitness, and fitness 19 which are chain budget gyms down the street. Free weights? 90% hunky dudes. Some women who looked like IG models. Probably all getting laid. Machines? Mostly men. Some women, including me. These men seem shy and like n00bs but at least they're going. Treadmills? 90% fat women, some men. Maybe getting laid. At least they're trying. Where are all the fat men? Not at the gym from what I've see…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:20 PM
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Yeah I stayed with ppl I knew were awful on paper cuz I loved them. Many of my friends have. Actually all of them have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:06 PM
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Dude just don't be fat, dress nicely, get braces or something if your teeth are janky, shower, get a hot guy haircut, put on some muscle. Clean your room / car. Have hobbies that aren't video games and youtube videos. Have a life plan for money, don't be a bum. Don't be a druggie. Get surgery if you have a super over the top whacky looking head, but I'm willing to bet you don't. Then be nice and go talk to people. Same stuff women do to be attractive. That should be enough for plenty of women. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 10:04 PM
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No. I definitely didn't say, or even think, all that. Don't assume I'm gonna oppress you just cuz I'm a woman and there's a bunch of nut job women on the internet. I don't like those ladies either. I've found plenty of trash men but I don't entertain them anymore. Life has been much better. There's so many nice men and women out there. I'm sure you can name a few. Those ladies in the above tweets aren't what I've seen IRL. They can go die in a hole. They're rude bitches. But if you think they re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:52 PM
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I don't complain about wealth inequality and I'd recommend avoiding women who do. If they wanna major in social studies then that's their problem, not mens'. Don't entertain those ladies. Like geez do y'all really need a woman to tell you "hey you can do better" before you'll believe it? Define "show emotion." If you're falling apart because someone cut you off on the road, that's too much, relax. If you're crying cuz your wife birthed your kid, that's a good thing, that's sweet AF and gets bonu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:47 PM
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Okay, NOT MOST WOMEN. There. And I don't date women, but I'm friends with them, and they're all very raw and honest and open with me. We're all very egalitarian. I pick cool women as friends. I don't befriend trashy women who hate on men. I genuinely believe that MOST women are not how you describe. Maybe the women in your life are, that'd be a shame, but not the majority. Most of the men I've dated have been pretty trash. I don't think most men are trash though. I think I made dumb ass choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:40 PM
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Okay so of the small number of people who regularly go to the gym enough for it to actually have an effect, most of the people lifting weights are strong men and some good looking women. But there's a lot of fat women on treadmills. Most women don't go to the gym because they don't need to be hella hunky to be "hot," they just gotta not be fat. Dudes don't need to be super hunky either, but it helps them get laid. Most men are fat in America, so are most women. In Europe, less so. People take be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:38 PM
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I don't follow. Showing emotion ≠ requiring me to play mommy therapist 24/7 and cheating when I fail to live up to that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:26 PM
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What else would you add that I didn't add? And are y'all doing all those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:25 PM
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Oh bugger off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:22 PM
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Shame them anyway, and move on to a nicer lady. If enough dudes shame them, maybe it'll work.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:21 PM
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Uh. I'm bi. And I feel exactly how you described minus masturbating every day, about women, possibly cuz society conditioned me to view women bodies as more sexual than men bodies. I check ppl out (men and women) if there's anything that stands out. It ain't an arousal thing, cuz they're not options to me, I'm in a relationship. It's more of an appreciation, or a jealousy thing if it's a girl and she looks "better than me" but I'll still try to compliment her in my mind so I'm not becoming a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 04:01 AM
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Seems like an odd thing to be sarcastic about on a sub where lots of ppl seem to hold that belief lol but my bad please forgive my rant
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:55 AM
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Hahahahaha wow so they're basically becoming the fuckboys that they're trying to weed out that's hella dumb. I've seen more positive stuff on there, just encouraging women to not date deadbeats, druggies, or put up with abuse. I used that sub after I got cheated on by a pothead while I was working on my bachelor's degree. The sub helped me realize my worth, at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:54 AM
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Hm. Then I can't say. At my college, there's IG model looking girls everywhere. And the dudes look kinda like swamp thing. Or they're chads. Some average men and women. But lots of glamorous ladies and bunny guys. Perhaps.... we're underestimating the rise of lesbian sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:50 AM
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I feel like most women are too shy to compliment guys, or the ones that are super bubbly already have boyfriends. I think most of the time, women don't think to compliment dudes. And tbh, I've always hated getting compliments from dudes I wasn't into, but they complimented me anyway cuz "women like compliments." Is it possible that dudes would similarly dislike any compliments/attention from a woman, if it came from someone they found physically unattractive? Like....would y'all feel uncomfortab…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:48 AM
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Being in love will keep you rooted. Most of my friends stay when they're unhappy because they're still in love. Not fear of being alone, no sunk fallacy cost, fear of losing the person they love. They leave when they fall out of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:40 AM
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Absolutely vital to get my initial interest. Important to keep my interest, but unconditional love will forgive a bit of weight gain here and there. I'm more apt to initiate sex if my partner is keeping himself in shape, and/or being nice to me. The dudes complaining about not getting any tend to have such bad attitudes, it drives women away the second they open their mouths. They're also usually fat. Like male versions of the feminazis they complain about. "All women want are tall rich chads!!!…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:37 AM
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Uh no. The guys are shy, deer in headlights, awkward, ungroomed, overweight, gamers, dorky, and the girls are cute, glasses wearing, anime geek girls. It's college. They're all having their glow up. They're going to bars and going for the hot guys. And they show up already looking 10/10. The dudes? On Reddit complaining, drinking energy drinks, smoking cigarettes, watching porn, playing video games, or being too shy to seduce a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:30 AM
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Men are more desperate and it turns women off. Women are having sex with men they find attractive. There are less attractive men than women. Most women preen themselves and dress well, wear makeup, style their hair. Most men dress however, are ungroomed, and tend towards average bodies. More girls are in the gym, eating clean, on that "body goals" hype, spending boat loads on skincare, hair care, etc. Men are like....t-shirt and deodorant. Maybe a shave. MAYBE go to the gym, in which case, incre…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:27 AM
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I'm not "triggered." And yeah, that's my point, it's not serious. And yet, these dudes are acting like it is. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:21 AM
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You can't have my short bf lol he's mine 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:19 AM
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It won't become dominant. And it's not a terrible sub. It just discouraged women from dating bums, rude men, or noncommittal men. From what I've seen anyway. Most of the men in my life fit the bill for what those women want. And most women aren't on that Reddit sub. Most don't even know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:18 AM
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That was 75 women. Probably from a college campus or something. That skews results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:12 AM
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No duh, otherwise the average penis size would've evolved to be larger. It's the average for a reason. The vagina doesn't even have nerve endings passed three inches. And thick penises can cause micro tears unless the lady is really well lubricated and most women don't self lubricate that much that quickly despite what porn would have you believe. Do you talk to women IRL about these things? Have you ever dated anyone? If so, did you have a super cynical view of her and scare her away with your …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:09 AM
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Cuz playboy is the ultimate authority on what the average woman wants. Magazine that doesn't even see women as thinking people with smart ideas, magazine that sees women as sexy decorations, course those women want the 6/6/6 crap. Date a smart lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:07 AM
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Women are gonna fuck you if they like you. If you're bemoaning dick size and being totally neurotic about your lack of women, you sound like a whiny wannabe playboy and that's a woman repellent. We really don't care that much about dick size. We can't even see it when we meet hou. Y'all are just blaming us for your insecurities. Just like y'all don't really give a shit about boob size as long as you get to play with em and they lady attached to them is clean and not psychotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:04 AM
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Functional, attractive, kind adult. That's it. It's not hard to find. Lots of people are in relationships and get married. Men and women. The ones who are perpetually single are probably 30 year old deadbeats, and emotionally volatile rude people. Or people with addictions. Or people who don't get out and meet people, like hardly ever. I'm a shut in, but lots of dudes have told me I'm hot. I try to be nice. And I go outside and talk to people. I've never been single for more than a few months in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 03:01 AM
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I love my short bf. I can reach his forehead to kiss it. It's great. Don't gotta be talking to a nipple when I'm standing in front of him. Tall guys make me feel small on the inside and the outside. I like feeling more equal. He's already two years older, and quick as a whip, and way more experienced in life, it's hard enough to feel like I'm on his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:49 AM
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I fucking love my short bf way more because he's not hella tall. I can reach his forehead to kiss it. It's great. Don't gotta be talking to a nipple when I'm standing in front of him. No offense talk dudes but ya ain't my thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:46 AM
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No it's not, it's lonely and single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:44 AM
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NO. I'm a woman. No more negative Nancy shit, y'all are supposed to be able to be human, no more of this 'women hate it" no we don't. Sorry for being so blunt. But quit acting like you're gonna die alone just cuz you're not willing to put up with emotional abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:44 AM
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SO SHAME THEM lol I'm a woman and I'd shame them for being mean divas on here. Don't take shit laying down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:42 AM
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Dude, it's one video. Videos can be edited and faked. There a lot of videos showing women doing whack ass things that most women don't actually do IRL. Fake social experiments meant to get clout and views and get people talking about "omg look at these women, they're all the same!!!!111!" Go outside. And stop generalizing good lord in a basket, enough if this "wOmEn wAnT x, y, z" realize we're not a friggin hive mind borg. Most women are turned off by dudes who complain about women like this. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:38 AM
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Uhhhh....not sure where you're finding these women. My friends and I are the opposite. I'm curious, what are your actual experiences with women IRL, versus this stuff you read about online, from surveys, from studies, on Twitter? Cuz all those tweets look like they're been farmed and searched for. If you search for sexism, you're gonna find it. There's a bunch of dudes in Twitter who are just as awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:33 AM
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