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I see. We were coming at different angles. It is not unusual for a woman to accept support she ordinarily would have refused if she is with child or if she has a newborn; that is the self-preservation angle I was coming at. Your angle is that if it is offered, she will take it, despite her previous feminist-driven ego. (?)
/r/MensRights25/02/26 09:48 PM
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It's like if a man broke his legs and was stuck at home for a year; of course he would want his partner to support him and she should want to support him. Likewise, a man should want to support his offspring and his offspring's caretaker.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 06:34 PM
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No, if he were alpha, she would stick around. She would have a child with a beta and cheat with an alpha.
/r/MensRights25/02/26 06:30 PM
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I have been sexually harassed by a patient who was paralyzed. I'm guessing she means verbally assaulted, which absolutely happens. Not all of them, of course. Also.. Stephen was an adulterer. lol
/r/MensRights16/02/26 07:03 PM
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Men and women alike should not use those aps. "Individuals who refuse to address their issues head-on." Is that better? Women and men can be pussies. Accountability/addressing our own issues should be something we all strive for, regardless. I don't like the term "man up," unless I'm talking to a woman in a joking fashion lol
/r/MensRights16/02/26 04:50 PM
2

I tell my son to avoid reddit because of these ridiculous "chronically online" posts like the one you shared. In reality, unless I come across a human at night time (regardless of gender) and they are bigger than me, I'm going to get a little scared... An artifact of too many scary movies as a kid.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:36 AM
2

Touche, u/TheRingGoesSouth. Touche.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:27 AM
2

I definitely did not use the term "man up." The only parts of society that hate you are the privileged, mostly left-leaning bullies. Fuck those people in particular. Men are great. We need their energy in the world.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:26 AM
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I am preaching to the choir here as I spent 3 years single working hard on myself only to get into a relationship where I was cheated on multiple, multiple times before I found out... Don't you feel like you deserve a loving relationship where you are cherished and treated well?
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:24 AM
1

I do not disagree that many have received unjust treatment.
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:23 AM
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No. I mean actually scorned. Like hurt badly by one or more women in their life and suffering through trauma related to that. Most of those men are either successful in bedding women or they are voluntarily celibate. Incels are usually "nice guys" lol
/r/MensRights15/02/26 07:22 AM
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He doesn't owe anyone anything. That said, the most vocal participants in this subreddit are scorned men who don't know how to take accountability for their own healing. Pussies who refused to address their issues head-on. edit: If this comment pissed you off, there is a good chance it resonated with you on some basic level. You can hate me and my comment, that is fine. Just know that you are, indeed, worthy of finding a partner who will cherish you just as much as you cherish her. This life is …
/r/MensRights13/02/26 04:57 PM
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No, seriously, though. I worked as a flagger/traffic controller and standing still holding that sign was incredibly painful on the lower back. I definitely preferred painting (even with all of the contortionism and reaching, etc.). Nursing is hard on the body; I've had multiple assaults (delirious patients) over the 16 years, but it still isn't as hard on the body as standing still for 8 hours straight. I don't know how long-term flaggers do it.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 09:38 PM
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Not all, no. You default to the tasks that align best with your biology. Just like how the majority of women default to the primary caregiver, even when working the same amount of hours.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 09:30 PM
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An average of 2 nurses are assaulted every hour at work in the USA. Nurses statistically are assaulted more than cops. I know one nurse personally who was strangled to the point of being unconscious and now has long-lasting nerve damage to her neck. I was off of work for a few months after a patient assault cause trauma to my wrist and shoulder. A handful of nurses die each year at work, surprisingly. Not that long ago, one was murdered during a house call. Not excusing or trying to "compare," n…
/r/MensRights07/02/26 04:59 PM
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Having known women and men on the rigs: Women get bullied out of oil rig jobs if they are fortunate enough to be chosen over the many, many male applicants. Generally, the women in oil are in the nursing/first aide positions rather than hands-on.
/r/MensRights07/02/26 04:51 PM
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I bet the remaining 9% makes up at least 75% of this subreddit lol
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:41 AM
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"The problem is when..." Literally neglect.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:40 AM
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I tried and he refused.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:39 AM
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The houses are NOT divided like you think they are. We buy things for the kids. Not for the house. New shoes and backpacks should not be treated as parental property.
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:39 AM
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Where do you live where housing, food, clothing, gas, car insurance, electricity, activities, dental appointments, etc. are free? Are you an adult? Do you pay bills?
/r/MensRights25/01/26 05:36 AM
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If the kid is fed, dressed, housed, has electricity, has warm water, is in activities, being driven to/from school or appointments; parent is taking time off work to get to a dentist, the doctor, etc., then the money is spent on the kid.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 07:26 PM
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Intentional entrapment should be cause for paper abortion.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 04:37 AM
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"Men can and do switch up what they want to do" Are you retarded?
/r/MensRights22/12/25 04:37 AM
1

Abortion is the only thing that there isn't an equivalent to. If a baby is born, both the woman and the man are on the hook for child maintenance either by child rearing or paying child support.
/r/MensRights22/12/25 04:21 AM
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In this context, I mean the women having the right to choose while the man is at her whim (yet many are still choosing to bareback these women and nut inside them).
/r/MensRights16/12/25 01:14 AM
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No, but using condoms appropriately will at least reduce the risk significantly. Never rely solely on the woman's birth control method.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:45 PM
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A double-standard would mean same rules with the same risk. The risks are WAY different and not comparable. Risk to the man's health: Zero. Risk to the woman's: Multiple. Men don't die from childbirth, mind you. If he WERE able to have the child be born and have the woman agree to carry it for him, then she WOULD be on the hook for child maintenance. There is your double-standard... except it isn't a double standard, because it is actually the same for both parties.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:44 PM
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They both have a responsibility to prevent pregnancy. Unless she had an IUD or her tubes tied, he risked a pregnancy every time he CHOSE to ejaculate inside of her. Don't trust women to maintain their stance. Pregnancy alters the neurotransmitters to better serve the pregnancy, not herself, and certainly not the man. Protect yourselves. Yeash.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:38 PM
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Yeah, going to jail is absolutely fucking absurd. My ex is tens of thousands in arrears I think (been 7 years without a single payment), but him in jail would mean our kid wouldn't be able to see her dad. What good does that do for the welfare of the kids??
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:36 PM
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An abortion is not equivalent to walking away. Walking away is walking away. Men and women both walk away from their children, but still remain on the hook for child maintenance. The child maintenance is not about the man nor the woman. Out of pure curiosity, how many men in here complaining about abortion rights wear condoms religiously?
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:31 PM
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"Protected"? Like they can change their mind like a man can? Men can and do switch up what they want to do when an unplanned pregnancy comes along.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:29 PM
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Perhaps steroidal cream and daily stretching. There are groups dedicated to lengthening the shaft skin
/r/MensRights06/12/25 02:17 AM
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I have never heard this. It's always the woman's fault lol
/r/MensRights04/09/25 01:31 PM
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Have you had a loved one with dementia?
/r/MensRights30/08/25 03:03 PM
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My wholesome grandpa became incredibly violent with his dementia. He needed specialized care for his brain failure. This is a shit take made by someone who is incredibly ignorant. Do some research.
/r/MensRights30/08/25 03:02 PM
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I apologize, my intent was not clear behind my curiosity. I was wondering wtf she was soliciting, not trying to find excuses for her. Yes, you are right - no means no.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 05:21 AM
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I wasn't trying to excuse, I was curious.
/r/MensRights11/08/25 05:16 AM
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Is she soliciting men for other men or men for herself? (Edit: I'm curious what her intention was. Not excusing her or trying to excuse her)
/r/MensRights09/08/25 07:44 AM
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Oo, yeah, isn't that messed up how we go from "women experience more... " to somehow blaming men for it? Doctors have, for a long time, been an equal split of men and women in the profession.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 04:04 AM
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Average time of initial or presenting complaint to diagnosis and treatment, as an example.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 04:00 AM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights19/09/24 03:59 AM
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They die younger, on average, due to the higher-risk jobs, wasn't it? Or is it the chronic illnesses that we aren't encouraging men to seek out treatment for? No one is "excusing" anything - we are discussing the potential disparities here, not fighting against one another.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 03:59 AM
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Squeaky wheel syndrome, I would guess there, but also the screening and treatment is more significant for breast cancer than prostate. Prostate cancer below the age of 50 is often a "wait and see" kind, because most cases are very slow to progress and very rarely fatal if in someone younger than 50. In healthcare, we kind of have the understanding that someone is more likely to die from something else than from their prostate CA (though many will die with it and that can bloat the statistic). Tr…
/r/MensRights19/09/24 03:38 AM
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The literature I'm referring to was actually retrospective analysis of hospital records and billing records. My wording may very well be poorly chosen, though.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 03:07 AM
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I'd love to see the breakdown of that. I wonder if it's the same across all developed countries.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 03:06 AM
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It's really case-specific and not something we can really claim one way or another. Women take longer to receive a diagnosis for pelvic or abdo pain--appendicitis, for example. I feel like women's bodies have more things that can potentially go wrong, so more points of contact with health care, which then means there are more potentially bad experiences, and women being more keen to talk things out with others; there is more chance for the negative experiences to be heard. There is research that…
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:46 AM
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T3s/Tylenol #3s were prescribed for the men I have spoken with. Definitely not Oxys lol
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:42 AM
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Stats are collected in a confidential manner from hospital admissions, billing, and other related paper trails. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0735675700416505 For example.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:41 AM
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Men take up more beds in the hospital at any given time, so I imagine the spending is related to birth control, conditions related to birth control, and birth itself... Not too hard to imagine why women would be more costly in medical care. There is a fair amount of scientific literature and research related to women not being taken seriously in medical care.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 02:35 AM
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Ii didn't imply that, but I'll play along. Are you assigning value to each point based on your personal morals and values? You feel it is more important to protect others than it is to have a say in what happens to your body? Some diseases have a place. The Spanish flu did a great job of weeding out susceptible immune systems as only those without a certain receptor survived. From a biologic/scientific standpoint, eradication of certain ailments isn't all it's cut out to be. We are still creatur…
/r/MensRights02/07/17 08:46 PM
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Its really starting to sound like you do not. Sounds like you feel like you've been talking with me for a while... Nah, I mean I love herd immunity and I'm all for it. I just like arguing both sides because both sides have fully valid points. Some people value autonomy more greatly than they value the eradication of illnesses.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 07:56 PM
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I'm not the original commenter, FYI. They're still not morally obliged to prevent destruction of the human race.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 07:54 PM
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If someone would rather die from an illness than get a vaccine, that's their prerogative. It's not their job to prevent someone with a poor immune system from letting nature [from taking] take its course.
/r/MensRights02/07/17 07:37 PM
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When you eat enough glitter, anything is possible <3
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/15 09:08 PM
3

Dancing in the kitchen. It doesn't happen often as he hates dancing, but every once in a blue moon, we'll be listening to music while cleaning or cooking together and he'll pull me close for a slow dance.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/15 08:47 PM
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Yeah peoplw should know their on limits. That's why I was thinking that the poster was so obtuse that it was a farce because it implies that women don't have to be accountable.
/r/MensRights20/07/15 02:10 AM
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, you are still arguing under the assumption that a woman is not able to discern.... No I am not arguing that. The fuck makes you think I am?
/r/MensRights13/07/15 03:42 PM
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Actually, men have a special enzyme for breaking down alcohol. Amongst other things http://content.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,153672,00.html I read that poster as being obtuse to the point where it was trying to point out this atrocious double standard??
/r/MensRights13/07/15 05:30 AM
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Technically she's famous for being a terrible mom who tried to let her mom take her kid for her instead of stepping g up. The anal porn barely tickles the surface of this woman.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 04:04 AM
3

All criticism can be constructive. You need to hold yourself accountable for how you react in certain situations. Do that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/15 02:58 AM
2

Take his side. Have your man's back.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/15 02:57 AM
1

Be direct, just don't add emotions into it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/15 03:21 AM
2

You haven't outright told him that you are not interested in him yet. You've given him reasons that you can't be sexual with him but never "I am not interested in you." throw in a "the thought repulses me. " if that doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/15 01:12 PM
2

The only thing I took from our marriage was a la-z-boy recliner and primary custody of the kids with a very linient visitation schedule geared towards him seeing the kids as much as he could.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 12:55 AM
3

Some people do this and that's fine. Some pregnant women do this when they have no need to, but please stop that. Some pregnant women do get conditions that make that parking spot necessary. I dislocated my pelvis for example and had a spouse with a back injury, neither of which constituted a handicap spot. Please stop being an asshole. Your stance is not men's rights, it's asshole rights.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 04:14 AM
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I'm all for equal rights but there are good reasons at times. I dislocated my pelvis while 8 months pregnant and made use of the spot only then. Prior to then I was in was in and out of the hospital for HG (I threw up everything, even water) yet never used those spots. As a community, I feel those spots have a time and a place it they are often used when they really are not needed.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 04:09 AM
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all parents get that look where I live. Mom, dad, or guardian.
/r/MensRights13/04/15 04:05 AM
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I appreciate it when I'm called out on it. It is always done in a supportive and concerned manner, so it helps me calm the heck down and apologize profusely for having such poor control.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 04:35 PM
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Your boyfriend's feelings are much more important than this guy's. Stop worrying about how this will come off to this guy - he holds no value in your life. Stop giving him value.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 04:33 PM
2

Yeah, not many people want a passive partner. You may have explained it poorly or you misunderstand RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 10:24 PM
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I'm not anti-feminist, I just appreciate the biological differences between men and women; including the difference that is apparent in the brain and how it functions. I don't think men are treated fairly at this point in time and a lot of the feminist movement doesn't feel relevant to the area where I live. I'm a member of this subreddit because it focuses on self-improvement and improving our lives (keeping a clean house, strong communication, health, showing appreciation for our partners whic…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 05:25 PM
2

One load of laundry per day, minimum. Washed, dried, and folded (5 people in the house; one who still has accidents, and two adults who work jobs that require daily laundering of uniforms). While cooking, wash the dishes as you go. Empty sink at night. No one is set to do it, we just do it. Dust at least weekly in the common areas. Vacuum at least weekly. Sweep as needed (a few times a week, usually). Mopping is more relaxed... Monthly since we don't have shoes in the house and clean up spills a…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 04:45 PM
2

Please post it!!
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/15 08:35 PM
2

Yes. And most people opt to not even treat it because the surgery is so invasive. I work with many people with prostate cancer and many more who have died from other causes many years after prostate cancer diagnosis.
/r/MensRights09/02/15 10:22 PM
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Well I appreciate your input. I do get the sense it is jaded by your very shitty experiences. My partner lost his mom a few years back and he is the most kind person I know. It changed him for sure but he came out just fine although you never really get over losing a parent.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 07:59 PM
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Perhaps it's a personality thing and it's just not in yours. Are you male or female? The "harmful" and the previously-mentioned "cheat" words you used leads me to believe that one or more of the people you selflessly helped fucked you over in some way. That isn't a natural part of grieving, that's just people being assholes and showing their true colours.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 07:46 PM
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Why do you regret helping others?
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 07:20 PM
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My ex was like that. Very insecure and no amount of talking improved that. If you can talk with your SO about it as a health thing, perhaps he will see the benefit. Sexual stamina is an excellent side effect of taking care of yourself. In an RP/RPer relationship, each person will hope that the other person is working to improve themselves, not neg you for doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 07:22 PM
0

For some men, being smart is a great asset. Having formal education to show how smart you are is not necessary. Frankly the self taught men tend to be the smartest, most ingenuitive I've met. Don't be an idiot but don't place unnecessary stress on proving that.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 05:18 AM
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If he is as great as he sounds, one would think he would, but OP has presented us with the one side of the story, so who knows?
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 05:01 PM
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Because it's standing by idly while your partner throws themselves into a pit of self destruction. SLUDGEBORG Almost had it right: All people need partners who challenge/encourage them to be better, but this can absolutely go hand-in-hand with accepting them as they are.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 05:00 PM
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The thing is, you can't continue to be a better person and keep improving yourself if your partner doesn't really care about the improvements or the failures that you take on. If I gain 60 lbs, I want a partner that isn't afraid to mention it and encourage me to get back on the right track.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 04:54 PM
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Rosanne and Dan.. might not be the best example but they worked through a lot of shit.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 02:58 AM
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Their needs come first, but not their wants. Your partner should always come first. Putting the kid first is the first step towards building a nasty parenting relationship where you both start undermining each other's authority as parents.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/14 09:17 PM
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Fourteen. Would she have felt "harassed" if these notions weren't put into her head. An ignorant woman would have thought "Aw, how sweet! 'God bless you, too!'" I feel like a lot of stupid notions are put into women's heads. What we may have described as silly experimentation is now molestation because you were hesitant. A compliment is now harassment, because he said it with an intent of getting into bed. It's stupid. Not a lot pisses me off, but... Uhg. The perpetuation of 'feminism' where we …
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/14 04:07 AM
5

I'm so glad you posted this. I was getting a little miffed by all the opposite responses. In my opinion, girls who tend to surround themselves with male friends have security issues. Male friends = more validation. Female friends are only harder to make if the woman is insecure and preemptively judge the other women. I fully agree with your statement that these kinds of women are not prepared for a fully committed relationship. If they are needing companionship of other men and validation from m…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 05:43 PM
5

There are also issues with electrolyte imbalances, hypertension, blood clots, and so forth. Also, having an Rx means that insurance will pay a higher percentage of the overall cost, if not all of it. This is a poorly paraphrased title.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 05:23 PM
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Whiny responses aside, the reasons that TRP gets a bad rep is because it comes off as though the main purpose is to trick women into bed. Also, men should have high partner counts but women should have almost no partners, so obviously people don't like that "ideal." It makes women over the age of 35 out to be trash that is no longer needed. The list goes on. It is not female friendly. That said, the purpose of TRP is not related to women; it's related to self imrpovement (forever self-improving)…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:55 PM
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If you're asking about anal, you haven't read up on period shits. Blow jobs if she's up for it (and she should be if she's enthusiastic about keeping you content) or if you're monogamous and STD checked, just dive in for normal sex.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 05:47 PM
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ENFP. I'm strongly motivated by my emotions, but I don't always let that control the situation. It sometimes takes me a while to make an action plan as I want to ensure I'm being logical and not emotional.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/14 04:29 PM
1

Depends if he does other things. Scraping the ice from our windshields in the winter, grabbing items from the store on the way home, fixing the broken doorknob, catching delicious bass, etc. As long as he's pulling his weight in other areas, I'm more than happy doing the housework.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 10:42 PM
0

Agreed. I digress.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:48 AM
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She's been with this guy alone in the car for multiple hours a day. Point taken. I'd be setting up boundaries there as well.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:12 AM
1

go back to 2XC. No thanks :) And I was inferring that it was controlling because he had her call him from the bar so he could tell her what to do. Hind sight, OP responded to me explaining that it was the driver that was his main concern and I'd be concerned, too on that front.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:11 AM
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haha I read that in a very whiny voice. Wahh, no one cares about what you would do. Go knock one out and calm yourself. It was relevant to OP. I fuck sluts in the day time all the time. SMH. I highly doubt you are successful with women.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 12:24 AM
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To clarify, she went out with a group of classmates after they finished finals, during the daytime. OP threw a temper tantrum border-lining on abusive/controlling behavior. I'd dump OPs ass so fast over that. So fucking fast. Very blue pill to be so insecure about something so casual. It's okay to have boundaries and it should be expected. Going out one on one with members of the opposite sex is something that should be discussed before hand. Especially if it is at night, but in this case, it's …
/r/askTRP24/07/14 11:52 PM
3

Again, bad choice of wording. Not my intended implication.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 05:31 PM
1

It might be helpful to know why he didn't want the coat he was eyeing up previously. Don't make an argument out of it, but maybe ask so you can try to be more in tune with him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 04:47 PM
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Given that she has been bothered by it for a few days, I imagine that this issue isn't completely in her head (she provided very few details). For all we know, he called her a fat whore for no reason. I didn't mean for that to come off as an entitlement, but even RPers care for their spouses. If you can't listen to your spouse who has been bothered for a few days, then you don't deserve a spouse, period. RP or not. I'm not saying you have to validate her feelings or fix the problem. Just listen.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 04:42 PM
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TRP isn't about being an isolating, emotionally manipulative person. You have feelings and they might be valid -- we don't know because you left out most of the details -- but you do need to talk to your life partner about it. And he needs to listen.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 11:39 PM
4

Prevents some STDs. Does not prevent herpes or genital warts/HPV.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 11:32 PM
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This is true in mother bear situations. Like if my partner were to attack the child in an unwarranted way, the kid would instantly become the priority.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 04:48 PM
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I think society does try to portray it this way. I feel women (and men) have a duty to put their relationship in front of the kids to an extent. If women's true love are their children, then they would put their children above their men and that's not a good message to send. You retire with your significant other, not your children, and your SO and you should be a united front in raising your children. Not divided.
/r/askTRP07/06/14 01:06 AM
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"Good job!" Is the worst praise for kids, too. Slightly related, my daughter was in a rut for a long time "Mommy, do you like this?" Well, daughter, do you like it? Doesn't matter what I think. I hate praise that encourages them to seek approval. My mom did it with me and that was a very, very hard habit to break.
/r/askTRP02/06/14 11:15 PM
2

Does helping others in the pursuit of good "karma" or to be seen as a good person fall into that category of thinking?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 11:24 PM
2

I'm hinting at the fact that she's going to change herself with the intent of getting attention rather than self-improvement for herself.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 07:44 PM
5

Wasn't giving advice, just relaying my experience. Started working as a nurse and had to change my resting bitchy face for work and it carried over into my personal life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 05:32 PM
3

I started making a conscious effort for that a few years ago. Makes you a happier person overall, I think.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 04:23 PM
8

This. IF they're intimidated by you, they either get over it or they wallow in their self consciousness. A girl being intimidating just means he thinks you're out of his league and that's a "him problem."
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 04:05 PM
2

I think I can work on being more approachable. Why do that?
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/14 04:02 PM
4

However, is there ever a time to take the bait and validate her? If you are in a relationship and it's apparent that she's just having a bad day/it's not something she often does.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 04:39 PM
9

To jump aboard with the "This dress was on sale." Oh this shirt that you haven't seen before? Gosh, I bought it months ago with my birthday money...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 07:32 PM
8

Unless her haemorrhoids are making that decision for her.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 04:29 AM
1

Not looking for extra points or anything, just trying to shine some light on things as a formerly insecure woman who used to use the same manipulative tactics, albeit unknowingly.
/r/askTRP02/05/14 07:16 AM
-1

Woman point of view: This is might be a form of manipulation. She knew damn well that you were going to make a choice. When she gets home, she knows she has made an argument starter. "How could you do that without my input?"
/r/askTRP01/05/14 08:28 PM
13

I've found that once you start doing this shit, bad days at work become much more frequent. They like the attention and pampering. It gives them power and control over you and completely absolves them of all responsibility in the relationship. Find someone who not only appreciates this behaviour, but returns it. My SO makes me a pate of food to warm up if I've worked, say, a 16 hour shift. He does a lot of little things like that to make my life a little easier, so I do the same return. He works…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 06:39 PM
1

Ask her, not internet strangers. Don't beat around the bush, we women are better at that than you are. Being direct works best.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:28 PM
2

No matter how busy a person is, they can take a minute to send you a response text within a day's time. I'm a single parent and have been working the last 9 days straight yet I still have time to text my SO on my lunch break, before I start driving, when I get home, or when I'm laying in bed. It only takes a minute to be courteous.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 05:25 PM
1

Of course not. Generalizations don't tend to equal all of any subsection of people.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:02 PM
3

Anecdotal evidenced based on female experience in Western North America.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 05:10 AM
5

They don't judge you for it.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 04:15 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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